1 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second update. You know, sometimes we do second 2 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: date updates that are more than just one date. Like 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone right now to do 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: a second date update. He actually hung out with the 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: woman that he wants to call the entire weekend, and 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: now he's not getting a call back. I think it's 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: probably because he was a weekend lovers what happens Sometimes 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: people take weekend love us and maybe Sam, maybe you 9 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: were a weekend love you everything about that? I don't 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: think so. I never did much like actual lovn. But 11 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: maybe it's fun. Mama just wanted a tasty morsel of 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: meat for the weekend, and that meat was named Sam, 13 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: who just wanted some iron candy for her son's baseball 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: game or something. I don't know, but I don't think 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: that's what was happening. Your weekend lover experience involved her son. Yeah. Yeah, 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: she's a single mom, but she's really really pretty and 17 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: she's super fun. She's got a great personality too. I 18 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: was really pleasantly surprised. How did you meet this single mom? 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: We met online we get lovers dot com kind of 20 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: the way you have to say it, all right, So 21 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: he for a weekend and then don't call me back 22 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: ghost me dot com. So the first time you guys 23 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: hung out, you met her son, and that didn't alarm 24 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: you at all. Oh no, no, no, we didn't. It 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: wasn't the first time we hung out. The first time 26 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: we did it actually kind of like the classic way. 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 1: We went for drinks and we had a lot of fun. 28 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: But she had to leave early because she said, you know, 29 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: she had to go take care of her kid, and 30 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: I was, yeah, it made total sense. But we had 31 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. So because we hadn't really spent 32 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: a huge amount of time together that first night, I said, well, hey, 33 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: why don't we go out to dinner tomorrow night, which 34 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: was Saturday. Okay? So she said okay, sure, And things 35 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: weren't even better the second time. You know, it was great. 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: We were laughing, we were telling each other jokes, getting 37 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: to know each other better. And the next day she says, well, hey, 38 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: my son has a little league baseball game. So I 39 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: was like, cool, and she said why don't you come? 40 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: And I said I'd love to. So boring I watched 41 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: professional sports kids don't know how to play very well. 42 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: Little league baseball is more interesting than real baseball. Because 43 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: you know, they whiffed the ball and they don't know 44 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: what they're doing. That's funny, you know, real baseball is 45 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: just like they spit and they scratched themselves. I don't know, 46 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: I can't stand it. Yeah, I love it. So you 47 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: actually went along to watch her son's baseball game. That's 48 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: it feels like a big commitment to me. Well, I 49 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: mean yeah, but I was feeling it, so I said, 50 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 1: you know what, cast your fate to the win. Let's 51 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: see what happens. You know, it could be fun. And 52 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: what was that like? Was it what you expected it 53 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: to be? Well? Pretty much, yeah, nobody really. You know, 54 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: it's a little league baseball game, so you know, we'll 55 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: spend some time talking to the other parents. So we 56 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: watched the game a little bit. But after the game, 57 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: I was trying to score some brownie points with their kids, 58 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: so I took them aside and I bought them a 59 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: hot dog and an ice cream cone. And I said, well, 60 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: don't let's don't tell your mom because you know she's 61 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: probably gonna get mad that you had the sweets et cetera. Wait, 62 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: hold up, you went in ahead and bought her son 63 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: something that you told him to keep as a secret, 64 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: Like that's kind of creepy. Yeah, it's not creepy. It's 65 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 1: it's it's man time, you know, like like man to man. 66 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: Sounds creepier that I've heard that before. Trust mean, nothing 67 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: good game of that. So well, I mean, I'm just 68 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: saying that's my first red flag is that you're buying 69 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: her son ice cream without asking her. Well he wanted it, 70 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: and I was, again, you're just making yourself sounds terrible, 71 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: sound not doing myself any favors right now, You're not anyway, 72 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: you got the kids some ice cream? And did his 73 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: did his mom like give explicit details not to give 74 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: him any ice cream? No? I mean she hadn't said 75 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: not too, but she hadn't said it was okay either. 76 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: I didn't even ask. Okay, you're just trying to be 77 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: that cool guy, like, hey, dude, here's some ice cream down. 78 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: Tell your mommy, I'm the man by the way, own 79 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: a leather jacket and a car. Want your mommy to 80 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: like me? Hi? Five? Is that what you were doing? Yeah? 81 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: Have a stretched that out over like ten minutes, and 82 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: that's that's basically all right. So how did the t 83 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: ball game end? And did it fine. She just talked 84 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: a little bit. Then she said she had to get 85 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: him home and I said okay, and you know, then 86 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: she took off and then I took off. But then 87 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: I tried to call her that evening, do you know, 88 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: tell her I had fun and see if we could 89 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: make plans to hang out again. And she didn't pick up. 90 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: So I left her a voicemail and she didn't answer. 91 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: And then a day or two went by and I 92 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: texted her and she still hadn't answer. She's just like, 93 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: as soon as she left the game, that's the last 94 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: I've heard of her. And I've been pouring over my 95 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: head and I'm thinking, and I'll bet you any amount 96 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: of money that that little probably told on me and 97 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: ratted me out totally okay because I bought them ice 98 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: cream and she probably flipped out and got mad that 99 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: I've got and it was just there's just stupid. But 100 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: there's one scoop. But it's not the ice cream. It's 101 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: the going behind her back thing because you don't know 102 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: her parenting style, you don't know what rules she has 103 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: set up. I mean there's eight thousand different Wow, that's 104 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: not a good idea. None of them are good though, 105 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: it's just an ice cream cone. If you're that kind 106 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: of like, you know, hyper parent, it's like, come on, 107 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: loosen up a little bit. Yeah, all right, Well we'll 108 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 1: play a song come back Caller and see if that 109 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: bastard rated you out. Then your second date update right 110 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: after this. Okay, sounds good? All right, Brook and jubil 111 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: in the morning, and welcome back to Brook and jubil 112 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: Field and your second date update up to bat Right 113 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: now is Sam and Sam's in quite the pickle. He 114 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend hanging 115 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: out with her, some dinner and some drinks, and then 116 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: concluded his weekend with a wonderful day at the ballpark 117 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: watching her son play in a little league game. But 118 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he be 119 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: oh for one? In career second date updates, We'll find 120 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: out in just a moment. But first let's talk to 121 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam, 122 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. This is actually I'm 123 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: asleep listening to your baseball announcer voice. But like Moose 124 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: people are when they watch baseball, Sam, We're gonna give 125 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 1: her a call and find out why she's not calling 126 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: you back after what you thought was a wonderful weekend. 127 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: Any other thoughts before we get started. I'm just confused 128 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: as to why she wouldn't call me back, because you know, 129 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: we spend three straight days together. So well, I'll doll 130 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: their phone number right now then and see if we 131 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: can figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here 132 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: we go. Hello him, I speak to Brenda. Please. This 133 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: is hey Brenda. How are you? This is Jewil from 134 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, I'm fine. Who 135 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: is this again? Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. 136 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay, obviously long time listener, 137 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any idea why a radio 138 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: show would be calling you? I don't know. Did I 139 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: win something? No, you didn't. You actually went out on 140 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: a date with one of our listeners and now you're 141 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: not calling him back and he's wondering what happened. His 142 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: name is Sam, right right, and Sam told us that 143 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: you guys spent like a whole weekend together, but now 144 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: you won't call him back. Well, I don't think I 145 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: would call it a whole weekend. I mean, it wasn't 146 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: like we were together every waking moment. He said, you 147 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: did dinner, you did drinks. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't sound 148 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: like it was a fun time for you. Uh yeah, well, 149 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: I mean it started off all right. But it started 150 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: off started off all right. That's usually how people like 151 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: dates recapped. Did you just not enjoy hanging out with him? 152 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: You know? I mean I was kind of into him 153 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: the first night. He was nice. I mean, I'm nice 154 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: enough for me to try again for dinner. You're just 155 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: showering this dude with compliments. I thought for sure you 156 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: would have been like head over heels for this guy 157 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,239 Speaker 1: since you invited him to your son's teaball game, because 158 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: that's a big leap. Yeah, how do you know he 159 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: went to my kids game? He told us all about it, 160 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: Oh he did, He told you everything. Yeah, he said 161 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: that you guys went out on a Friday night, had 162 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: some drinks and dinner on Saturday, and then your son's 163 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: baseball game on Sunday. Yeah, and he's confused because he 164 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: thought you had a wonderful time each of those days. Well, 165 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 1: something changed Sunday at the baseball game changed. Yeah, I mean, 166 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: we're at the little league game, having a nice time, 167 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: and suddenly he kind of starts it's like talking trash 168 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: about these little kids split skills. He's ripping on the kids. 169 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's understandable. Little league play is terrible. They're children, yeah, 170 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: I know. And the little kids yeah, I mean, they're 171 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: five years old and it's time to step it up 172 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: and play like an eight year old. That's what I say. 173 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: But so he was ripping out in the kids the 174 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: whole time. Yeah, I mean, he's like cracking jokes about 175 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm kind of loudly, and like other parents are starting 176 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: to kind of give weird glances. And then at one 177 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: point he like turns to me and says, in all seriousness, 178 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: and he says, it looks like your son could use 179 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: some throwing lessons. What don't worry, don't worry about it. 180 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: I'll teach him how to not throw like a girl. 181 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 1: That was he serious about that or was a really 182 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: bad joke? He seemed totally warious about it to me, Like, 183 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: I mean he made a point about it two or 184 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: three times, two or three times? Yes, what was your response, 185 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: I mean, did you say anything back to him? I mean, 186 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: my mom would have been like, yeah, you're right, the 187 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: kids sucks. But did you say don't talk about my 188 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: kid that way? No, I didn't say a thing. I mean, 189 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna honor that with a response. But I 190 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: was fuming, Okay, understandable, So well, yeah, I mean I 191 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: don't want some jerks like that around me or my 192 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,839 Speaker 1: kids totally. Well, unfortunately he's kind of around you right now, 193 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening to this 194 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: phone call and wants to talk to you. What yep, Sam, 195 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: are you there right? Brand? Uh? Hello? Um, I guess 196 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:49,359 Speaker 1: we should probably have a little chat then, shouldn't we? Um? 197 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeast of all, I don't know what there is to 198 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: say right now, Sam, except you know, maybe you'd like 199 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: to apologize. What's just how you? So let me finish right. 200 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: Just for the record, I was trying to help, all right. 201 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: I didn't mean anything malicious. I wasn't trying to be nasty. 202 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: I'm just calling it like it was. I like sports 203 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: and kind of get into sports. I wasn't being vicious 204 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: or nasty. I mean, I didn't like, you know, get 205 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: drunk or throw my beer. You make it sound like 206 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: I was, So I'm sort of yetty out there and 207 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: in the stand. I wasn't not to my estimation anyway. 208 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, look, I was trying to find 209 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: a way to honestly kind of bond with your kid, 210 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: and I thought maybe if we could play some baseball. 211 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: I mean, because I know you've got your son, and 212 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: your son's your top priorities. Show if I want to 213 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: be with you, I have to get along with your 214 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: son as well. That's that's a part of who you are. 215 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: So I'm trying. I was trying to help. I was honestly. 216 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna lie to you or sugarcoat anything. I'm 217 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: just saying it like it was. You're not gonna bond 218 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: with a five year old kid by killing his mother 219 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: that he spucks. I'm sorry, I know it's just gonna 220 00:11:57,040 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: sound weird, but I didn't mean that in a bad way. 221 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: You didn't mean it in a bad way. You were 222 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: actually critiquing a five year old performance, like you should 223 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: just be happy if they make it to first base 224 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: instead of third base. Look, if you start now, you 225 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: might actually have like a cal ripkin on your hands. 226 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: You know, if you could have started early, you totally 227 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: be one of those dads when you have kids, won't you? Yeah? Maybe? 228 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see any problem with wanting your 229 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: kids to be the best that they can be. And Brenda, honestly, 230 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 1: that's all I want for your son is just I 231 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: don't want him to suck as bad as you did 232 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: that day. Oh my god. And I mean that with all. 233 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: Don't do you respect? That is so rude. If you're 234 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: gonna take it rude, it's gonna be rude. You could just, 235 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: you know, laugh at all. You have no idea about 236 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: what you're saying, do you? I have every idea what 237 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I was offering to help him be better. 238 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: If you didn't want me to help, you just said thanks, 239 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: but no thanks. You didn't have to ghost me on 240 00:12:55,600 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: the phone like this. I don't even know what to 241 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: say to that. There's nothing wrong with my son's athletic ability. 242 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: There's something mentally wrong with you sizing five year old kids. 243 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: Look again, for the record, it's not that there's anything 244 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 1: wrong quote unquote with your kids athletic ability. I just 245 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 1: said he could be better. Well in that case, Brenda, 246 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Sam? 247 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: I know he'd like to see you again. We'll pay 248 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: for it. Oh yeah, I'd love to go on a 249 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: second date with some guy. He's gonna criticize my son's spelling. 250 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: Kiss well, you know if he's if he's not a 251 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: good speller. I was a great speller growing up. I see, Brenda, 252 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: Sam could coach your kid in all the ways of 253 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: being a man. Yeah, he's the worst super dad. Are 254 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: you sure you don't want to go out with him? Yeah, 255 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm positive on this very snary. That's extremely disappointing. I 256 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: guess we did find out that Sam is oh for 257 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: one in the date department. Just shows Sam that every 258 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 1: time he criticizes a five year old throwing skills, he 259 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: definitely doesn't get a date. Maybe next time he'll try 260 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: to not do that. What do you think, Sam, Well, 261 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: at least he didn't wrap me out about the ice cream, 262 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: So that's night. Yeah, don't worry about it, Brenda. Next 263 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: for your time. In the text in at seven eight, 264 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: five to nine, two says I don't really support the 265 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: guy ripping on the kids baseball skills, but the kid 266 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: probably did suck. Let's give him that. It's broken jewel 267 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: in the morning. That second date up, that you just 268 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: heard was obviously tapeball. Brooke was still here. She's out 269 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: on attorney leaving. Jackie is filling in. But the dude 270 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: named Sam wanted to call a woman named Brenda. He 271 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: was confused why she wasn't calling back after they spent 272 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: like the whole weekend together, even went to her kids 273 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: little league game, and Brenda wasn't calling him back because 274 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: during the game, he just ripped on the kid the 275 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: whole time. It was like, you know, I can teach 276 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: him how to throw like a boy if you want to. 277 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: That's some of a turn off off, you know, I mean, 278 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: on a date, if he's already kind of being a bully, 279 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: why would you go on another date with a bull 280 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: bullying and stepping in as a father figure, like, I'll 281 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: take care of this kid out of throw. We're only 282 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: going to raise champions together, you and I. So at 283 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: the end of everything, she yelled at him and told 284 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: him never to call her again, and he still didn't 285 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: get it. He's still like, what I was just trying 286 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: to help kid sucks. I'm a nice guy. Yeah, he 287 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: should just be a little league coach and get all 288 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: his aggressions on another you know, and I really should 289 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: keep been separate from his dating life. Remember, if you 290 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: want to do a second day up date, I'll have 291 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: to do his email the show, and we will call 292 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: the person that didn't call you back