1 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 1: Hi. I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling railvalry. No, no, 4 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: sibling raval You don't do that with your mouth revely, 5 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: that's good. Hi, Hi bab, you look so funny. I do. Well, 6 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: you've got your glasses on. I had these o from 7 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: last from from dinner, so yeah. And then you're wearing 8 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: these air buds which you just never wear. So it 9 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: just looks very strange in your ear. Well, they like 10 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: stick out, They're they're kind of weird. No, I know, 11 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: I think the the rubber things are too big. The 12 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: it's like you have you have four ears. They're just 13 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 1: it's flying out of your head. Should I take them out? Honestly, 14 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: they don't go in. Remember how that your e int 15 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 1: you guy? I was like, you have really small air canal. 16 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: You do have tiny ear canal. It's like not going in. 17 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: I know, you know, it's like our sex life, it's 18 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: not going in. I have a confession to make. If 19 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: I when we started dating, if I knew that you 20 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: had tiny ear canals, we wouldn't have this life together 21 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: after all that. Yeah, so I have a question because 22 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: I never wear them. I kind of like can't really 23 00:01:54,040 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: hear myself. Is that normal? Yes, of course, Oh my gosh. Wow, 24 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: Like that's proof that you've you've never wear You've never 25 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: I've ever worn them really, never done it ever in 26 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: my life. A. They don't stay in my ear and 27 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: I can very We need to get you. We need 28 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: to get you microscopic sort of rubber things because nothing 29 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: will fit in your ear. I need I need baby 30 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: EarPods like Toddler EarPods. Well, you know, when we continue 31 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: this podcast, we got to get you just regular headphones 32 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: because I can't if I'm away on location, which I 33 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: am right now in Albuquerque, I can't look at you 34 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: with these things in your ears. It's it's just too strange. 35 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: Oh hey, poop, did you know that mercury retrograde? Yes? 36 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: I did know that mercury was in retrograde, babe. Yeah, 37 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: But you know what's bullshit about all that is that 38 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: mercury is always in retrograde. Every time I talked to someone, 39 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,679 Speaker 1: Mercury's in retrograde. Anytime that I have a complaint or 40 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: an issue, or something didn't go right. Oh, well, mercury's 41 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: in retrograde. It's in retrograde more than it's out of retrograde. Honestly, 42 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: I think you're probably right. I'd love to like google 43 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: that right now. Alison's see if this is true, because 44 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: it does feel like it is. But it has to 45 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: stop because it stops and starts, and maybe there's just 46 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: like a break in between. But it does feel like 47 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: it's always. It happens three to four times a year. Okay, right, yeah, okay, 48 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: but it happens four times a year for two months, 49 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:00,119 Speaker 1: so eight months out of the year mercury is in retrograde. 50 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: Is it a two month run every time? I don't know. 51 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: But mercury doesn't go into retrograde for like one day now, 52 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: it's like a month. Isn't it like a moon cycle? 53 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have no idea. What if we 54 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: lived on mercury? Life would suck. It's just it, honestly 55 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: due to like the Internet and social media, like it's 56 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,559 Speaker 1: a thing now that people can talk about and blame 57 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: things on, and like it's more you know, I'm sure 58 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: there's people that are like super into all of that 59 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: and really know the details and what it means. But 60 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I mean I well, as you know, mom, 61 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: my mother is extremely into oracle psychics, astrologists, you know, 62 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: or astrologer astrology. No, she's not into the stars, but 63 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: she she has people who they read her astrological chart. Yeah, 64 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: and I've grown up with this, so I've been consulting 65 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:18,799 Speaker 1: oracles myself for years and years and years. It's probably 66 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: something no one even knows about me. I've never even 67 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: ever talked about that that. I like, consult psychics. You do, 68 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: you do, and you write stuff down and you remember 69 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: stuff and you go back. I know. I think it's 70 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: sort of an ego boost, meaning it just makes you 71 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: feel better. But I'm always asking questions, so I'm like, well, 72 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: I mean, do you ever do readings where it's just awful? 73 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: You know, where you know you're subject the person who 74 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: is paying you. It just doesn't look good. Life is bleak. 75 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: It's like it never seems to be that way, right, 76 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: It's like, are right, man, Like this doesn't look good 77 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: for you? You know, life doesn't look's like a heart. 78 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: You're gonna have a hard ass life. I guarantee that 79 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: that never happens. I don't think people are that big. 80 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: I think they want to like sprinkle in all the 81 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: good stuff that they're reading, and then if they flip 82 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,679 Speaker 1: a card or they read a sign that's not good, 83 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,119 Speaker 1: they're going to find a way to like gently break 84 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: it and tell all the other good stuff. I don't know, 85 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be a psychic and like find 86 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: something bad about somebody. I know, but you know, they're 87 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: they're they're you know, when you get a good one, 88 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: it's it's pretty phenomenal, you know. I mean, I do 89 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: believe that you can tap into something deeper. You know. 90 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: I think our brains are fresh, you know, there's a 91 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: lot of capacity that we don't use. And I think 92 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: some people are gifted in some ways. Not to say 93 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: that they're always spot on, but there is an intuition, 94 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: a deep or intuition, oh for sure, that people might feel. 95 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, even consulting on this job that 96 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: I am at in Albuquerque, I had another opportunity to 97 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: do a pilot or this gig, and then I would 98 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: you know, my mom, of course, is calling the psychics. 99 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: And then I talked to some like crazy psychic that 100 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: someone put me onto. You know, it's all fucking nuts. 101 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: But every one of them was like, do that job 102 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: in Albuquerque. That's the one. Here's the thing, the things 103 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: that they're in. Another pilot I was deciding on didn't 104 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: get picked up, I know, so it worked. I also 105 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: told you to pick this one and not the other one. 106 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: So I guess I'm psychic. Yeah you are. You just 107 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: want to miss floors exactly. But I will say like 108 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, like I fully believe in it, 109 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: like when it's happening. There's so much stuff that has 110 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: come true, whether it be like empathic stuff, psychic, like stars, astrology, 111 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: are kids, all of that. I mean, it is you know, Yeah, 112 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: it is fun and it is interesting to like write 113 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: shit down and then like a few years later look 114 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: back at it and be like, oh my god, that 115 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: stuff came true. Yeah, you take everything with a grand 116 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: of salt, obviously, you know. But I remember when I 117 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: was just starting acting in my mid twenties talking to 118 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: various psychics, you know. And by the way, to be clear, 119 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: you know, I'm down, but Mom would sort of put 120 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: me onto them, Oh, talk to this person. I was like, cool, 121 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm down, you know, I would I wouldn't go seek 122 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: it out or go to some sort of neon flashing 123 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: sign that says psychic. You know. But when I was 124 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: in my mid twenties, numerous psychics said that I was 125 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: not going to be getting my sort of breaks or 126 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: my career was not going to be in movies. It 127 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: was going to be in television. Ye to be TV. 128 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: And at the time, when I started movies, that was 129 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 1: the ship, like that was what you wanted to do. 130 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: TV was sort of okay, cool, you do TV and 131 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: you know, you might get a start, but you want 132 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: to be in movies. That's how it was. Now it's 133 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: completely changed, but at the time, that's what it was, 134 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: and I remember thinking, man, TV, I know, all I 135 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: do is television. Yep, we're not complaining. It's pretty fucking good. 136 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: Oh I love it. Didn't They also say, you're going 137 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 1: to meet like the woman of your dreams, Like her 138 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: name is going to be Aaron. Yeah, they said, I 139 00:09:53,800 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 1: thought so. See No, but one astrologer said that you, 140 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: you and I have been sort of soul made for 141 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: a long long time and we have yet to sort 142 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: of fulfill our destiny because everything in the past, past 143 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: lives or whatever just didn't turn out right, you know. 144 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: I like died in a war, like you died during 145 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 1: Childford whatever. It just never was fulfilled, and in this 146 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: lifetime we finally have come together to sort of crescendo. 147 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: You know, I do not like I do that know 148 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: that story. It feels kind of true, kind of well, 149 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: sometimes when you feel very deserving of something great, it's 150 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: hard to accept. But sometimes when you think about it 151 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: that way, it's like, oh, kind of gives it like 152 00:10:54,880 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: a light m hm. Yeah. Alison texted me about the 153 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: fact is that it does happen frequently. 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I've been undecided if I want 225 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: a third kid. My husband said he's only thirty eight 226 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: percent there thirty eight thirty and that I shouldn't talk 227 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: to him about it anymore unless I'm one hundred percent. 228 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: But I mean I wasn't even one hundred percent about 229 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 1: having two kids we now the two kids we now have, hahaha, 230 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: are you ever one hundred percent? I love being a 231 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: mom and I don't feel like I'm done and closing 232 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: up shop. What was it like going from two kids 233 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: to three? Did you both agree on having three kids? 234 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear your answers. Thank you both all 235 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: for sharing. Okay, I love this question because I get 236 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: this a lot. And I remember my friend Leslie Robinson 237 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: saying to me, and she has two, she's a little 238 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: bit like ahead of us in the in the kid department, 239 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: and we were debating having a third, and she said, 240 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: we were debating we didn't end up doing it, I 241 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: wish we had another. And she said to me, you 242 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: never meet somebody that is like, ah, wish we didn't 243 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: go for the third or the fourth or whatever, But 244 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: you do meet a lot of people along the way 245 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: that are like, God, I wish we had another. So 246 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: I think that thirty eight percent is if there's a 247 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:45,479 Speaker 1: one percent, go for it because honestly, it changes your 248 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: life in the best way. You expand your heart in 249 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: ways that you didn't think could be possible. It's such 250 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: a gift to give to the other siblings. You know, 251 00:17:56,320 --> 00:18:00,120 Speaker 1: if you have the means to do it, then I say, 252 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: all means, go for it. And honestly, two to three 253 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: was the easier job. The thing about kids is like, 254 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, you get asked the question, what's one to two? 255 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: What's two to three? You know, having three kids, four kids, 256 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: five kids, it's a difficult question to answer because you 257 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 1: just do it. There is no oh my god, you know. 258 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's all obviously work more work when 259 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: you bring another child into the light, into this world 260 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 1: and you have another life to take care of, But 261 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: you don't think about it that way. I mean I 262 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: never had oh my god, it's three and it's crazy. 263 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: It's just kind of like, oh, it's just what you do. 264 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: It's just what is your new normal? Right simple? And 265 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: I think that's the way you have to look at 266 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: it as well. I also think like zero to one 267 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: is obviously like the biggest game changing experience of your life. 268 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 1: There's no way one to two was a lot because 269 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: when you have just one, the idea of managing with 270 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: a fucking another baby is usually pretty nuts, and if 271 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 1: you have them close together it can be a lot. 272 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: The third speaking for us, it was kind of like, 273 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: all right, we got this, We've done it. Everything gets 274 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: a little easier. You know. The other two have each 275 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 1: other a little bit, maybe depending on the ages to 276 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: kind of play or do things, you know what I mean. 277 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 1: And then the third just kind of like goes along 278 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: for the ride in the car and you know, and 279 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 1: there's there's always so much stress around the first kid. Yeah, 280 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: you know, it's like how do you do it? What 281 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: the fuck is going on? You've got this weird little 282 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: landing and crying in a crib or in a you know, 283 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 1: in a bassinet or whatever it is, and you're like, 284 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: want the bug and it's just stuck insanity. I mean, 285 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: it's like alien being that it's just infiltrated your life. 286 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 1: You know that you have to take care of a 287 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: nurture and keep alive. And then by the third kid, 288 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: you're so calloused, you know, you're so hardened to it. 289 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: You're like, all right, cool, you don't have that stressed 290 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: You're not checking their breathing every two hours, you know 291 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like it's just like, oh, they're good, 292 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:27,199 Speaker 1: You're good, maybe like every three instead. I mean you 293 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 1: still have like all the parenting shit, but you are 294 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: everything is much just easier. It comes more naturally or 295 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 1: less stressed. The third babies they come out and because 296 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: they're not like the end all be all of everything, 297 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: and they've got other kids and toddlers or things running 298 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: around and they're thrown in a car seat to go 299 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: to a soccer gamer school or whatever. It's like they 300 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: just become they're just yeah. I mean it also depends 301 00:20:54,640 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 1: on the sex, you know. I mean speaking specifically to us. 302 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 1: You know, we had two boys and they were two 303 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: and a half years apart about and then Rio, the 304 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: third was three plus three and a half part from 305 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 1: body from our second kid. Because we were sort of like, well, 306 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: what do we do? Do we go for it? You know, 307 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: we have these two boys, and but I wanted a girl, 308 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: you know, and the girls I think, like I also 309 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: was turning forty, you know, like at that time, I 310 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: was thirty nine, and we were kind of like enjoying 311 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: our life and the kids. We were at a good 312 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: spot and everything was great, and it was like, oh wait, 313 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: if we're going to go for this, we started to 314 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: do the math. I was like, even if we got 315 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: pregnant right away, which doesn't happen for everybody, I was. 316 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: We were doing the math, and I was like, shit, 317 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to be like having this baby at forty 318 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: or even forty one, which is totally fine and doable. 319 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: I think we just felt like, oh yeah, like should 320 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: I get off the pod. If we're going to do it, 321 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: let's go for it, and are my doctor Mandel? He 322 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: gave us the best advice ever, because we were like, 323 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: how do we get a girl? And what are the 324 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: tricks and you know all that stuff, and yeah, but 325 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: we did follow We did do the tricks. Well yeah, 326 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: but first he said, and I think this is super important. 327 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: You know, don't have a third for the girl, Like 328 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 1: just know that you want a third human like three children, 329 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: regardless of sex, Like do you want three human beings 330 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: that you're taking care of? And so when you preface 331 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: it that way and you really think about it, it's like, Okay, yes, 332 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 1: we're ready to go from four to five, you know, travel, school, 333 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: life expenses, all that shit. And then we just were 334 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 1: kind of like Okay, we do want that. So we 335 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: mentally prepared for three boys. But then we were like, 336 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: but how do you try for the girl just in case? Yeah, 337 00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: because we didn't want to spin or try to read 338 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 1: out a female. I wanted to do it naturally. And 339 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: so yeah, you ask Mandel, Aaron's doctor, you know, well, 340 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: what are the best chances naturally to have a girl? 341 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: And he, you know, he gave me the rundown. And 342 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 1: it was just a gnarly experience. I mean, it was 343 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: work because the way it works, but it was explained 344 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 1: to me is that the male sperm is at the 345 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: front of the ejaculation, so boom, you come male sperm, 346 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: and then the females. The men swim fast and they 347 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 1: get up into the spot quickly, but then they die fast. 348 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: The female sperm take their time and they sort of, 349 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:58,400 Speaker 1: you know, just chill and swim up to the spot 350 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: and they can last long longer. They last four to 351 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: five maybe sometimes six days. And so the timing has 352 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: to be right where the egg is dropping, ovulation occurs, 353 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: and the right sex sperm has to be there in 354 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 1: order to have a boy or a girl. And so 355 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: for me, it was basically having nine thousand orgasms before 356 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: I actually put my wiener in your avovovu and then 357 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: basically having to have an eighth orgasm, and it was 358 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 1: like dust coming out, but the dust, I guess, were girls. 359 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: So it was just constant masturbation, you know. And Mandel 360 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: was just like, well, you're gonna have You're gonna have 361 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 1: to give a lot of blow jobs or whatever. I 362 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: don't need to use that term, but okay, well that's 363 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:56,239 Speaker 1: what I heard. You translated it. Yeah, I translated it 364 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: to that, and I was like, all right, this is cool, 365 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: you know. So I would have ejaculated like eighty times 366 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: during that day and ovulation is happening, you know, and 367 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 1: the timing is right, and Aaron's like, okay, now let's go, 368 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god. And I needed the 369 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 1: shoehorn to get it in because it just, you know, 370 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: it was next to them possible. I think I remember 371 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 1: when we conceived what do you mean remember? Of course 372 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: we did. It was in the sitting room on the ottoman, 373 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: on the automan. Yes, that is it, and it worked. 374 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:36,439 Speaker 1: We got our girl. It worked well. We were also ovulation. 375 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 1: It depends too, because we were a little early before ovulation. Right, 376 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: so the females stay up, so the females last a 377 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: little like pre the egg dropping, and so we just 378 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: got lucky. But here's the great thing. This is what 379 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: Mendel would say, These are just going to up your chances. Scientifically, 380 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: they're the few things that kind of help. But he 381 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: was like, if this was like the end all be all, 382 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: everyone would be doing it. 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Yeah, 420 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 1: it was like the last like great mystery. It's a mystery, right, 421 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,880 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's it's it's primal. It's as real 422 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 1: as it gets. You know, we know everything now. We 423 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: are in an information age. I mean it's at our fingertips. 424 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: Anything we want is right here in these fucking phones. 425 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: There are no more mysteries in life for the most part, 426 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: and this is that, you know. So I would my 427 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: advice to new parents, are you know a couple who's 428 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: trying to get pregnant or who is pregnant, just wait 429 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: it out. You know you're going to figure out the room. 430 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 1: I know you want to decorate the room and all 431 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: that stuff. But it's a beautiful thing when you don't 432 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: know what the sex is and you're guessing and he 433 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: or she comes out and it's this beautiful surprise. So 434 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: we didn't find out what the first two and then 435 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 1: we waited with Rio and we were not going to 436 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: find out, but then we decided to. And explain why 437 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: we decided to. Okay, well, I think because we had 438 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: done too without knowing, and I loved not knowing. I 439 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: know all my friends hated it, but it is kind 440 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: of amazing. It's like thinking and guessing and wondering. And 441 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: I will say as the birth giver, there is this excitement, 442 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: especially for the first maybe where you really don't care 443 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: what you have, no matter what, there is this excitement 444 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: of finding out. Now. I was having a planned sea section, 445 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 1: so I thought, I'm missing out on that experience of 446 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: birth and labor and all of the emotion and you know, 447 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: stuff that can kind of go, you know, along with 448 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: that experience. And I thought, okay, I'm having a sea section. 449 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to get wheeled in. Everything's going to kind 450 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: of go by the book. It was exciting to think 451 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: I'm going to be in there. And I remember you 452 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 1: sitting on the little like stool next to me, the 453 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 1: sheet up in front, and the lights, and you know, 454 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: we're holding hands and you're right in front of me, 455 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, we're going to 456 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: find out what it is like it was something to 457 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: look forward to, to take my nerves away, kind of 458 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: that excitement, and I loved that. I would not trade 459 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: it for the world. And we did it again with 460 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: body or our second baby on the third because we 461 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 1: had two boys, and there was just a lot of 462 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: kind of pressure circulating around, like, I hope it's a girl. 463 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: Do you think it's going to be a girl, Like, 464 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: I hope you have a girl. And you know, I 465 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: know you really wanted a girl. I wanted a girl 466 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: for you, just because like I'm so close with my dad. 467 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: I wanted that father daughter experience. I started to realize 468 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: all of this energy is kind of going into this 469 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 1: girl girl girl, and I thought, well, what if it 470 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: is a boy? And you know, there's that disappointment in 471 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: the delivery room and now everybody, you know, the truth 472 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: is there is no disappointment because if your baby comes 473 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: out and everything's healthy and great, you're like, I've been blessed. 474 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: I have this beautiful baby. I don't care if it's 475 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: my seventh boy. It's like human life. Yeah, it's amazing, right, 476 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: I get all that. I get all that, but there 477 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: is disappointment. I mean, how many people have been in 478 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: delivery room wanting a certain sex and have you know 479 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 1: been disappointed. That's just a fucking natural thing. Taking health aside, 480 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: healthy baby, of course, but you know, well the last 481 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: thing you want is like it's a boy, and we're like, 482 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: ah fuck, you know, I know I and I think 483 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: what I decided halfway through was I'd rather know now. 484 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: And then it's like, okay, if it is a boy, 485 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: we can love on this boy. Everybody can accept it. 486 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: It's great. We got over the disappointment window and now 487 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: it's like, yay, here's our our third boy or you know, 488 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: rather than you know, just kind of all this girl 489 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: energy and there's this little, poor baby boy inside of 490 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: me that's like, oh great, Like everyone's gonna be disappointed. 491 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: And then they come out and you're like, you know, 492 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: hold on, the baby inside of you is not having 493 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: those thoughts. Just keep sick. Yes he was. That baby 494 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: is not listening to everyone outside being like, oh my god, 495 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 1: everyone's gonna disappointed that I'm a boy. Just let me 496 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: go with my maternal thoughts. But anyways, the other thing 497 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: I will say is that we were lucky enough to 498 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: do both, and I think that was fucking awesome, because 499 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 1: not knowing was such an amazing experience, and I was 500 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: scared to find out and thinking like, oh, is this 501 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: is going to kind of take away some of the 502 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 1: magic and this and that. But it was amazing knowing 503 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: that what I was carrying. So I did get one 504 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: pregnancy knowing and it was fun. It was exciting to know, 505 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, I have a baby girl inside of me. 506 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Was so it was such a different experience. What's she 507 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 1: going to look like? And then oh my god, you know, 508 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: you can wrap your head around it. So I get 509 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: why ninety percent of you know, women and families or 510 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: whatever want to find out what they're having. And I 511 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 1: get it. I get it as the outsider now that 512 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: has friends and sister in laws and everybody having babies. 513 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: You want to know because it's exciting. But remember it 514 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: is really fun. On Valentine's Days when we revealed it, right, 515 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: it was a Valentine's storm, Yeah, because Wilder, you know, 516 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: we got the Yeah, it was before like what are 517 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 1: they called, like baby reveals or gender reveals, was like 518 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 1: before that was not the thing. And we had the 519 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: nurse right in in a pink or blue marker, and 520 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: then we had Wilder who was the oldest open it 521 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 1: up while we were closing our eyes, and he had 522 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:38,759 Speaker 1: to either bring a red rose right for the girl. Yeah, 523 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 1: I think it was red rose for the girl, white 524 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: rose for the boy. You got, yeah, right, because he 525 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 1: could see the color. You can really read, but he 526 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,760 Speaker 1: could see the colors basically, and if it was pink, 527 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: and then you know, boom girl. And it's all on 528 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: video and we filmed it and body, middle middle kid. 529 00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: Body just fucking storms off. You know, he's like three 530 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: and a half, starts crying, storms off, and I fall 531 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: him with a video camera because he wanted a boy. 532 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 1: He wanted to have a boy, because he had picked 533 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 1: out a name for this boy, and the name he 534 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: picked out was Monster Truck. He wanted to name the 535 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: third boy Monster Truck. And he had his He was 536 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 1: set in his ways and it was a girl and 537 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: he was just distraught. It was but it was like 538 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: the best reaction ever because it was like head hung low, 539 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: like like a like a not like a tantrum, but 540 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 1: just like a crying kind of howdy like disappointment. Disappointment. Yeah, 541 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: Monster Truck Hudson. Monster Truck Hudson isn't funny though, that 542 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: that's still who he is. Oh you know what I mean, 543 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: Like he's stubborn, Yep, he's set in his ways. Yeah, 544 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: you know. I mean it's the beauty of children. Like, 545 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 1: of course they change. You know, We're watching our oldest 546 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 1: boy sort of evolve in front of our eyes from 547 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: a young little boy to a teenager and it's just gnarly. 548 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy even a year ago it was 549 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 1: a different human being. Six it is. It's that that's 550 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: so fast to see it happening in front of your eyes, right, 551 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: But but they are who they are from the get 552 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 1: When you look back on body Rio and Wilder and 553 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: you take some of sort of what they did examples 554 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: of who they were at the ages of one, two, three, 555 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:42,359 Speaker 1: four or five. Whatever. Baby the babies baby push it, 556 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: push it into into present day. It's the same fucking thing. 557 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 1: I always say this. It's devastating if you have a 558 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: kid that's like super you know, collicking and crying and 559 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: doesn't sleep and all this stuff, and then you have 560 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 1: these new moms and they're like, oh my god, like, 561 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: you know, is this does it get better? Like, you know, 562 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 1: this isn't who they are, is it? And I'm literally 563 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: like heartbroken, and I'm like no, but it is. It is. 564 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 1: It's like a hard reality. Would you have more babies 565 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: right now with me or with you know, Simon and 566 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: Ryan Reynolds or whatever, but like, if you have more 567 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: babies with Ryan Reynolds, well no, I mean not at 568 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,879 Speaker 1: my age, but like Noah, I'm just saying like, if 569 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 1: you could, if it was like feasible, and if I 570 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: was literally like ten years younger and almost forty, probably 571 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,240 Speaker 1: if we were younger or if we had started earlier, 572 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: I probably would. But that being said, I love three. 573 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 1: I it's so manageable. It's so interesting to ask me 574 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: that now, because I feel like we have literally crossed 575 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: over to the other side where you know, it's like 576 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: why it's having a baby. Kate has baby, Katie and Jesse, 577 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: like people all around us, like Angie, my best friend, 578 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 1: like they have these littles, and but we've switched into 579 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: that place of like, oh my god, I don't have 580 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: the like maternal instinct urge that crushes me. I feel 581 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: like the aunt, the outsider that's like, yeah, oh my god, 582 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: I miss these thighs and I miss the cuteness and 583 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: I want to like love on them, But then I'm like, 584 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm out. Yeah, you know, it's like when you're still 585 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: in it and there's a reality like existing, that's that's 586 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 1: when you ask me that question. But like right now, 587 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I know. Well, we have we have friends. 588 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: You know, one of my best oldest friends preschool literally 589 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:54,280 Speaker 1: preschool oldest friend. He's my age, and he has two kids, 590 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 1: who are you know, I don't know, eight and ten 591 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: or something like that. I don't know the exact age, 592 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: but they're in that range. You're done, like you did it, okay, boom. 593 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,800 Speaker 1: He has another baby. I think it's I think he's 594 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 1: you know, three months old or something, and it's so 595 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,399 Speaker 1: gnarly for me, and I was sort of saying, oh 596 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 1: my god, man, ba ba ba bah, you got to 597 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: start over again, like holy shit, I can't even imagine that. 598 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:33,439 Speaker 1: But there's I'm weirdly envious, yeah, because I would love 599 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,919 Speaker 1: to be a new dad at forty five, Like that's 600 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: an interesting concept to me. And in talking to him, 601 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: thinking prior to the baby being born that it was 602 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: going to be nuts. It's beautiful, it's so cool and easy, 603 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: and you know, it's not near. It's not anything what 604 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 1: I thought it might be where you're now eighty thousand 605 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: years old with a new kid, and oh my god, 606 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: it's just, uh, do you know, because it's because it's 607 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,919 Speaker 1: like most things in life, like in retrospect, you made 608 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 1: it through, you've done it. You can look at it differently, 609 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 1: and it's it's like that feeling of because I look 610 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,920 Speaker 1: at Wyatt Meredith, you know how they've you know, been 611 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 1: raising buddy and they're just such awesome, kind of comfortable, 612 00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 1: confident parents, right, so they do it so well that 613 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 1: that does make me say, oh my god, if I 614 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,759 Speaker 1: could do it again, I would do it differently. So 615 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: it's almost like saying it's one of those things of like, 616 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,440 Speaker 1: oh my god, if I could go back and relive 617 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:43,319 Speaker 1: that time in my life, because when you're when your 618 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,120 Speaker 1: parents and it's new and it's fresh and you don't 619 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: understand that like teething or sleep training or tantrums or 620 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: any of that shit's going to pass. You know, when 621 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 1: you're so in the thick of it all. Now that 622 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 1: we're out, you look back and you're like, oh my god, 623 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: I would be so good now. I'd be so much 624 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,160 Speaker 1: more relax'd be you know, you just you know what 625 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,319 Speaker 1: you know what. I think we'd even name our our 626 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 1: kids Hindsight. No, no, Hindsight, Hudson Hindsight. Oh my god, 627 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: HEINDI do you have these emails or do you want 628 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: for me to read read them? Because my phone is recording, 629 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 1: so if you can read them, Okay. This is from 630 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 1: Craig Craig Carline as a dedicated podcast listener. I've never 631 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,399 Speaker 1: emailed any podcast until now. I am at work night 632 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: shift nurse at a hospital listening to the current episode 633 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: about parenting with Ali and Aaron, laughing to myself because 634 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,919 Speaker 1: I can so relate. I am married and have four 635 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 1: kiddos twelve, nine, six, and four. While we are those 636 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 1: we want well rounded kids that are kind and funny. 637 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: I can relate to being overprotective of the first and 638 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 1: by the fourth. He watches what they watch, want them 639 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 1: to be well versed and the amazing hilarity of TV 640 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: and get their references. I can't help it. I just 641 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 1: wanted to say that you are not alone, and I 642 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,879 Speaker 1: love the honesty with which you both speak about life 643 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 1: and marriage and parenting. I just really try to get 644 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 1: to know each of our kids and encourage them to 645 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,439 Speaker 1: naturally find what they're into and support them. We've dealt 646 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: with dyslexia and ADHD. My one sassy little lady number 647 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 1: three with a house full of dudes, just how to 648 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: shout out you guys and support your honesty and transparency. 649 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: Thank you. Ah wow, it's true. I mean, you know, 650 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: the great thing is, it's like, I think one thing 651 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 1: that we've learned is, you know, parenting can be this isolating, 652 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,480 Speaker 1: you know, if you make it or lonely or you know, 653 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: kind of stressful or judged judgment. You know, there can 654 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: be a lot of judgment around it. But when you 655 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:00,160 Speaker 1: kind of just go with your gut and you your 656 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: partner on the same path, I think you can you're 657 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 1: just doing your kids, you know, a better service by 658 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: being relaxed, like, you know, enjoying it. I look at 659 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: Meredith and Wyatt and I'm like, God, they're just enjoying it, 660 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 1: you know. Even like Angie and Arland. I'm like, I 661 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 1: know it's round two for her, but like she's so 662 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: present and enjoying it because she knows how fast it goes, 663 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:31,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, I like when he said, 664 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: I just really try to get to know each of 665 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 1: each of our kids. And encourage them to naturally find 666 00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:39,720 Speaker 1: what they're into. Yeah, you know, I mean it's hard 667 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 1: because I want my kids to do certain things. You know, 668 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 1: I played you know, team sports. I played hockey, I 669 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 1: played baseball, like I want them to play team sports 670 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 1: my whole life. You played lacrosse, you know. And and 671 00:43:56,520 --> 00:44:01,040 Speaker 1: they're into singular sports, you know, dirt bike, mountain biking, skateboarding, 672 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,360 Speaker 1: which is fucking great. But there's a part of me 673 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,239 Speaker 1: that's wanting to do that. But I don't push them 674 00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 1: because you know, they are what they are, who they are, 675 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:12,759 Speaker 1: and they just have to figure out, you know, what 676 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,399 Speaker 1: they love and what they're into, and we just our 677 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: job is just exposed them to certain you know, and 678 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 1: guide them. All right. Poop, one more email and I 679 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 1: have a six thirty am call, so I gotta go 680 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: to bed. Okay, this is kind of a more of 681 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 1: a fun one, calling back on a pet peeve of 682 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 1: yours that we had talked about in a prior episode. So, hi, Oliver, 683 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 1: I just listened to your latest podcast with Aaron, and 684 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: I have a product that will help with Aaron's pet 685 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 1: peeve of hers. It's called beard King. It's an apron 686 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,840 Speaker 1: ware and attached then to the bathroom mirror so it 687 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 1: will catch all of the beard clips. I have the 688 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 1: same pet peeve and hated when my husband shaved since 689 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,840 Speaker 1: it got everywhere. He seemed to always do it right 690 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 1: after I cleaned the bathroom exactly, never fail. I bought 691 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,439 Speaker 1: the apron thing seen on Shark Tank. Yep. I love 692 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 1: that job as a gag gift that I figured he'd 693 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 1: never used and poke fun at him, but he uses 694 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 1: it and we both love it. Oh my god. You 695 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: know what's so funny. I remember that on Shark Tank 696 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: and it's like this like gray kind of aproning that 697 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: goes over the sink, so when you lean over the sink, 698 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,359 Speaker 1: it catches all the hair. It's amazing. But my thing 699 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 1: is like, you're never going to remember to do it, 700 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 1: and then it's going to be like, oh I forgot, 701 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna literally I would never set that up. 702 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 1: I'd have to like pull it out of a drawer, yes, 703 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 1: suction to a mirror, and like attach it to my 704 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 1: neck line. And I'm like, now, like, first of all, 705 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: I look crazy. I mean, here's here's what we're doing. 706 00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 1: We're one hundred ordering one do it. And I am 707 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,960 Speaker 1: going to photograph it and I'm literally going to post 708 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: it because it's a genus invention and I guarantee it 709 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 1: was like created by like, well, you want to rustrate 710 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: any life, Oh for sure, Well here's an event. Here's 711 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 1: an invention that I came up with a thousand years ago, 712 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:22,000 Speaker 1: like maybe even before I met you. And I don't 713 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 1: understand why they don't have it, And maybe they do. 714 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:29,319 Speaker 1: The spaghettill that's what I was going to say, the 715 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: pasta pelum and pitched really quickly. I still don't think 716 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,359 Speaker 1: it's been done. Had this idea since I was maybe 717 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,400 Speaker 1: a teenager. It's a spaghetti bowl. There's a sort of 718 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 1: a indentation or maybe a cone that sticks up in 719 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: the middle. You put your spaghetti in there. It eliminates 720 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 1: the spoon. You pick up it your spaghetti, put it 721 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: in the hole and spin it and boom, you're eating 722 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: fucking pasta pal billions. But what about a nail when 723 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,960 Speaker 1: you clip your nails? Yeah? Right, And we all know 724 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: that this is another pet peeve, like toenails is a 725 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: deal killer. I mean its a big one. If I 726 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: have long toenails, if I have a clipping of a 727 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,759 Speaker 1: toenail or a fingernail anywhere. It's just like it's I 728 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: can barely even clip like my own kids toonails. I 729 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,720 Speaker 1: know it's not good, Like it's actually bad, like shoot 730 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:21,920 Speaker 1: gags and grow it's you know, but why don't they 731 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 1: have a nail clipper where there's a contraption on it 732 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:31,520 Speaker 1: where when you clip it it catches the clipping. I 733 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 1: feel like on the moon too, we put a man 734 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,760 Speaker 1: on the moon. There's no world where you can't create 735 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,680 Speaker 1: a thing where you go clip, clip, clip and it 736 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:44,960 Speaker 1: just goes sip, tuck into some sort of a catching 737 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 1: device and then you empty that. There must be We're 738 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: going to google and find out and if there isn't, 739 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 1: we can figure it out. My thing is, I'm always like, 740 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 1: put the basket under your toes, but then the clipping 741 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: still go outside of the basket. They shoot it all 742 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: over the place. So maybe it's so that's another thing 743 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 1: that I haven't heard anyone really talk about, you know, 744 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: even in comedy or whatever, because clipping your nails over 745 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:12,000 Speaker 1: a basket is complete bullshit. You might get one out 746 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 1: of ten clippings into the actual trash bin unless you 747 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 1: are literally sitting in a trash bin because they fly everywhere. 748 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,600 Speaker 1: I catch more clippings in my mouth than I get 749 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 1: into the No, no, no, we're not going to talk 750 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,239 Speaker 1: about that. I'm just saying like, oh yeah, use the 751 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: trash bin. I'm like, okay, I might as well just 752 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,799 Speaker 1: fucking clip nails on the floor. I mean, or they 753 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:43,800 Speaker 1: go everywhere. You have nothing to say about that. I can't. 754 00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: I gotta like concentrate on something else. Alison just texts me, 755 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 1: somethings could be this could kill our future ownail clipper 756 00:48:55,120 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 1: catches clippings patented agronomic grip. Oh yeah, I know. But 757 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 1: I'm looking at the shape of this thing. You're expecting 758 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 1: the clipping to go backwards. That's what I mean. This 759 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,239 Speaker 1: is not what. It doesn't work, I know. Yeah, it's 760 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,920 Speaker 1: on Amazon. Well you know it's got five hundred reviews 761 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 1: and it's almost five stars. Wow. Yeah. Alison just texteds 762 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 1: She's like, you know, a vacuum, but if you had 763 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 1: like a little thing that like battery powers, like sucked 764 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 1: it in, I'd be down. I'd be down. Well, let's 765 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,600 Speaker 1: get the beard. Let's get the beard trimming thing. I 766 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 1: will use it. You can take a picture of me 767 00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: and then I'll never use it again. Beard King, Beard King, 768 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 1: We're going to use it. We're going to do Beard King. 769 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,719 Speaker 1: We're going to do it well. When we start our 770 00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 1: own show. Maybe they can be a sponsor of ours. Okay, 771 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:55,080 Speaker 1: it's a good plan, all right. I love you, Love 772 00:49:55,960 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 1: I know. Sibling Revelry is executive produced by Kate Hudson 773 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:06,399 Speaker 1: and Oliver Hudson. Producer is Alison, President, editor is Josh Wendish. 774 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,560 Speaker 1: Music by Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark. If you want 775 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 1: to show us some love, rate the show and leave 776 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:17,440 Speaker 1: us a review. This show is powered by simple Cast