Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is about some useful things you might write
Speaker 1: in a journal. Many people journal in order to process
Speaker 1: emotions and solve problems, but certain approaches make those things
Speaker 1: more likely to happen than others. Today's tip, like a
Speaker 1: few others this week, comes from Tara Schuster's book By Yourself,
Speaker 1: the Lilies and Other Rituals to Fix Your Life from
Speaker 1: someone who's been there. As I mentioned in the other episodes,
Speaker 1: that is not the exact name of the book, but
Speaker 1: it's close. Tara talks about ways to become a Ninja
Speaker 1: of self love, how to take care of yourself so
Speaker 1: you can do great things in the world. She notes
Speaker 1: that journaling has been helpful for her. She writes in
Speaker 1: her journal almost every morning. It helps calm her and
Speaker 1: helps her process what's going on. How does that work?
Speaker 1: As she writes, a journal is not a place to
Speaker 1: record the daily events of your life. It's not a
Speaker 1: place to describe the sushi you had for dinner last night,
Speaker 1: although if it's really good sushi, go ahead and do that.
Speaker 1: It's a place where you can get in touch with
Speaker 1: your core, with what you believe. Some of us have
Speaker 1: very limiting beliefs, but are totally unaware that we've set
Speaker 1: such a low bar for ourselves. Journaling is the gift
Speaker 1: that gives us a chance to uncover what is true.
Speaker 1: The truth is that you can heal your past traumas,
Speaker 1: you can build the life you want for yourself. But
Speaker 1: you're going to have to do the work. All that
Speaker 1: sounds good but might not be helpful when you are
Speaker 1: sitting there with a pretty notebook and a nice pen
Speaker 1: and trying to figure out what to say. So here
Speaker 1: are a few writing prompts that Tara suggests for getting going.
Speaker 1: You might begin today here are ten things I like
Speaker 1: about myself. Now, perhaps that is a tough thing to
Speaker 1: do when you are feeling down, but it will be
Speaker 1: a good reminder as you go about your day. Or
Speaker 1: you might begin today, I am grateful for this very
Speaker 1: small thing that happened yesterday. Did someone send you a
Speaker 1: nice email? Did you see some pretty flowers at the
Speaker 1: deli around the corner? Write it down? Or dearest journal
Speaker 1: I have a question I have been mulling over in
Speaker 1: my brain, and I thought you might have an answer. Really,
Speaker 1: you are just tapping into your own wisdom. But sometimes
Speaker 1: this framing can help. Or here is what I want
Speaker 1: people to say about me when I'm not around. This
Speaker 1: a useful tool for figuring out the kind of person
Speaker 1: you are working towards becoming. Or if nothing else mattered,
Speaker 1: not money, not other people's expectations, not kids, not jobs,
Speaker 1: nothing my dream day would look like. Try to really
Speaker 1: get the details here. Visualization can help you figure out
Speaker 1: what you want in life. Or there is something I've
Speaker 1: always wanted to deal with but I haven't for some reason.
Speaker 1: Here goes. As Tara notes, it's amazing, but most of
Speaker 1: the time we actually know what we most need to tackle.
Speaker 1: We just need to commit to it. Any of these
Speaker 1: writing prompts can make keeping a journal a very useful exercise,
Speaker 1: so why not give one a shot. As Tara writes,
Speaker 1: you can't control the narratives of the outside world, but
Speaker 1: you can control the story you are telling yourself in
Speaker 1: your journal. I suggest you make it a good one.
Speaker 1: In the meantime, this is Laura, Thanks for listening, and
Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,
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