Speaker 1: Do you not think I'm hot?
Speaker 2: I know see so that it's like, oh, okay, you think
Speaker 2: I'm fat?
Speaker 1: You think I'm fat?
Speaker 3: Calm down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Well time, everybody to the pregame for those of you
Speaker 2: new to the program, pre game ten minutes of Thought.
Speaker 2: We answer your questions, comments and concerns that you submit. Reminder,
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Speaker 2: because then they're a little bit more risque, a lot
Speaker 2: like this red nail polish, which I will get to
Speaker 2: in the big show. The fuck not for a Halloween costume?
Speaker 3: Ooh that sparks something in my mind as a topic
Speaker 3: of discussion.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. First up, we've got Gizsy and Roscoe.
Speaker 2: Is this a compliment? I think of you, ladies every
Speaker 2: time I get a pimple on my face.
Speaker 1: I think that's adorable.
Speaker 2: And you know what, as a gal that suffers from
Speaker 2: acne her whole life, I think that is a fabulous compliment.
Speaker 2: And I'm flattered that you would think of us when
Speaker 2: you have a pimple on your face.
Speaker 3: We appreciate you and all the congestion in your pornes
Speaker 3: y mahallo.
Speaker 1: Have you ever used a Beori stripe?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't think it went well. I also
Speaker 3: don't trust myself with one of those strips because I
Speaker 3: feel like I'll strip something I need in my skin.
Speaker 3: I'll go too hard, Like I just feel like something
Speaker 3: will happen. I'm I'm just a walking disaster.
Speaker 1: You know the lighting in the airplane bathrooms.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's never a good time to diagnose what's happening
Speaker 2: on the face because I did it the other day
Speaker 2: and I was like, whoa, we need to like clear
Speaker 2: out the congestion on the four or five.
Speaker 1: And then I came home. I found a Beori strip.
Speaker 2: Here's a killing's effort from god knows what year, and
Speaker 2: it barely adhere to the to the bridge.
Speaker 1: Take it to the bridge, take it to the house.
Speaker 1: So it didn't do anything.
Speaker 2: But I think i'd like the idea of it, Like
Speaker 2: the satisfaction of peeling that thing off when they really work,
Speaker 2: when they're new and you get all of those little
Speaker 2: black heads out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, I might get some. I love that.
Speaker 3: Here's a random tangent for you. You just thought of
Speaker 3: a song. Ticket to the house, on the bridge or something.
Speaker 3: Yesterday I thought of the Calm Down podcast because we
Speaker 3: talk about the music at stadiums. The Cowboys always have
Speaker 3: great music always. It's just it's a party at at
Speaker 3: and T Stadium. Well in game entertainment. I'm a fan,
Speaker 3: not you know, I don't want the Rams to ever
Speaker 3: drop a pass. But somebody dropped a pass and they
Speaker 3: played over the loudspeaker drop like you know that and
Speaker 3: they can go drop.
Speaker 2: And I was like, that's good, that's good, that's very creative.
Speaker 2: You know who else had good music and we haven't
Speaker 2: talked about it because we had our wonderful friend Dan
Speaker 2: Patrick on the show last week, so we were getting
Speaker 2: into all things Dan.
Speaker 1: But New Orleans had oh great music.
Speaker 2: So so far my powder rankings Carolina, New Orleans and
Speaker 2: was it Kansas City? No?
Speaker 1: No, in Kansas City? Okay, So Dallas. I'm going there
Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks. I can't wait. That's so exciting.
Speaker 3: Drop okay, Kayla chit chows. I just screwed that up.
Speaker 3: I sound like a shit show. Does your husband and
Speaker 3: boyfriend husband slash boyfriend get jealous about you working with
Speaker 3: attractive men?
Speaker 2: No? I don't think my husband cares. He's just like,
Speaker 2: do you know I really? I literally asked Steve a
Speaker 2: question the other day. I said, do you ever get jealous?
Speaker 2: And he goes no. I said, I think that's a
Speaker 2: bad thing. I think you should get like a little
Speaker 2: jealous because that means that you care, and he goes, Okay,
Speaker 2: so you want me to get jealous? And then it
Speaker 2: was like such a girl thing whereas like the boyfriend's
Speaker 2: so confident that he doesn't get jealous, but now I'm
Speaker 2: mad because he doesn't get jealous at all. And he's like,
Speaker 2: just tell me what you want me to be. Do
Speaker 2: you want me to be jealous or not want me.
Speaker 1: To be jealous? And I was like, forget it.
Speaker 2: It was such a like circular conversation where I know
Speaker 2: he probably left it and was like, what if that
Speaker 2: job this galous?
Speaker 3: This would be a good conversation. I think for both
Speaker 3: of them when they you know, if they're ever around.
Speaker 3: But Jared and Steve are very much the same. I
Speaker 3: just feel like they're like we're good here. Also, Jared,
Speaker 3: he becomes friends with everyone I work with, Like he
Speaker 3: and Greg are on a text chain together, Like you know,
Speaker 3: he came to dinner the other night when we got
Speaker 3: to have it with Jeter and stuff like that. So
Speaker 3: it's not like he's just as excited to hang out,
Speaker 3: like he's not thinking.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know. Yeah, you're right, well
Speaker 1: he come hot? Is that why? Jared you? So that
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, you say I'm back. You think I'm back.
Speaker 1: The guys are like, what I asked? What you wanted
Speaker 1: for dinner? Oh god?
Speaker 2: Okay, Allison, Oh good question, sure, cet. How was the
Speaker 2: pack has a packing?
Speaker 1: Alison? Thank you for remembering.
Speaker 2: You will be very proud of me, as Aaron already is,
Speaker 2: because I articulate, articulate, not my words. The conversation every
Speaker 2: week when revolved around packing, the cold medicines really kicking in, guy,
Speaker 2: so stay with me.
Speaker 1: Apparently the FDA says it doesn't work.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, I'm nursing this cold, and Aaron
Speaker 2: says the medicine isn't working. Well, something's going to my
Speaker 2: head and it's not fucking neurons to spark the conversation. Okay,
Speaker 2: here we go solely land the plane on the Hudson
Speaker 2: anywhere point is.
Speaker 1: The packing is going fabulous? I do it. The night before,
Speaker 1: and I have.
Speaker 2: The little packing things that I didn't even know that
Speaker 2: I got Aerin I forgot that I got her those
Speaker 2: for Christmas. And I empty out my suitcase right when
Speaker 2: I get home and like straight to the laundry room.
Speaker 1: I'm really pretty close.
Speaker 2: I'm really really good about that this year because I
Speaker 2: was like, there is no excuse to a not have
Speaker 2: what I need. But I also try things on before
Speaker 2: I pack them now to get alterations. I'm all grown
Speaker 2: up in the world of packing. So thank you for asking.
Speaker 2: And I'd like to thank this is the trope.
Speaker 1: I'd like to thank Aarin for inspiring me to be
Speaker 1: a better packer. Go Packers Go.
Speaker 3: I want to say this to you and your glam team,
Speaker 3: dom You guys are killing it on Thursday night. You
Speaker 3: look gorge the wind has been blowing through your hair.
Speaker 2: Well that's a compliment to Dominique because she's hair, makeup
Speaker 2: and all things wardrobe on the road. Alyssa, thanks for
Speaker 2: the clothes, but yeah, Dominiqu's the best.
Speaker 1: And here's that's the best thing about Dominique anyone.
Speaker 2: If we've talked about Friend of the Show a lot,
Speaker 2: like Jillian, we reference them a lot Dominique is so
Speaker 2: sweet that she'll do all my hair and makeup and
Speaker 2: then I'll touch everything and I'll read you the lips
Speaker 2: and not even know what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: And she's like it's okay, it's okay, Like she's just
Speaker 1: the sweetest person. So yeah, cool as a cucumber.
Speaker 2: A who's still saying that I am trying seventy seven
Speaker 2: advice for dating in your forties.
Speaker 3: Holy heck, it's tough out there. I was a bad dater. Well,
Speaker 3: I will say this.
Speaker 2: I think we've talked about this a little bit, but
Speaker 2: I do have a couple girlfriends who have been single
Speaker 2: for a long time and that's my choice, and I
Speaker 2: always say to them. A lot of my apprehension about
Speaker 2: when I was getting a divorce was like, ock, I
Speaker 2: got to go back out there.
Speaker 1: And do it again, yeap, but it was better.
Speaker 2: My mindset was like I would rather go out there
Speaker 2: and try again than be stuck in the current situation. So,
Speaker 2: and my dad also said I did me one time.
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I was like, I'm okay being single.
Speaker 1: He goes, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 2: Be careful, like, you don't want to say that for
Speaker 2: too long because then you get too comfortable being alone,
Speaker 2: and then it's harder and harder to sort of implement
Speaker 2: or to like bring someone into your life. So I think,
Speaker 2: like my mother says, I'm all over the place with suggestions.
Speaker 2: Here is you can't win the Loto if you don't
Speaker 2: buy a ticket. You're not going to meet a guy.
Speaker 2: If you don't or a girl, whatever preferences, You're not
Speaker 2: going to meet the significant other in your life if
Speaker 2: you don't put yourself out there.
Speaker 1: So true.
Speaker 2: I say this as someone who's had to put myself
Speaker 2: out there because I've had to go back out in
Speaker 2: the dating world multiple times. And I think, just be
Speaker 2: open to suggestions. Go on the blind date, go on
Speaker 2: the setup, go on an app if that's something that
Speaker 2: you're into. Yeah, I just think I'm as exhausting as
Speaker 2: it might feel. I think the more and more you
Speaker 2: put it off, the harder and harder it is.
Speaker 1: Get back in the saddle, exactly.
Speaker 2: And if you have a type, tell us maybe we've
Speaker 2: got a guy for you.
Speaker 1: You know, serious erin is bumble? Ask the Today Show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're part of it too, Knock it off.
Speaker 1: Florida golfer girl, can I guess?
Speaker 3: Oh? I just took curious, can I guess we're white
Speaker 3: to the wedding? Well, you can wear anything you want
Speaker 3: to a wedding, just know.
Speaker 1: I'm kidding.
Speaker 3: I was gonna make a joke about you just know
Speaker 3: what the dress code is, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: I wear a costume host to. No, you can't wear
Speaker 2: white to a wedding. Oh no, that's like the bride.
Speaker 1: No, you didn't know that I did. Yes, you did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think, out of respect for the bride,
Speaker 2: you should not wear white wed Unless it's she's saying like,
Speaker 2: wear whatever you want. I still am like, there's a
Speaker 2: lot of other options. I would have a hard time
Speaker 2: showing up in white. It's kind of kind of a
Speaker 2: ballsy move, like it's your day. It's the one day
Speaker 2: you get to wear this, you know, outfit, and you're
Speaker 2: gonna show up in something. It depends on the bride.
Speaker 2: How close are you to just be like, hey, do
Speaker 2: you care what color I wear? And she's like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear a white dress. Cool whatever. I would
Speaker 2: be the coolest bride the third time around. I'd be like,
Speaker 2: wear a Halloween costume. Just I want my friends to
Speaker 2: show up. My friends weren't at any of my weddings,
Speaker 2: any of them.
Speaker 1: Seriously, this is.
Speaker 2: The wedding I want to go to, so figure it out.
Speaker 2: Not getting married again, but I am going to.
Speaker 1: Have a party.
Speaker 3: I just have a wedding and call and say it's
Speaker 3: not Stephen Curis's wedding.
Speaker 2: Wedding like, that's not a wedding. Friends episode, which so sad,
Speaker 2: by the way, I can do, I know, I know,
Speaker 2: and you're the biggest friends. Sad. Matthew perrydnine, life is short.
Speaker 3: And I actually met him at the NHL Awards and
Speaker 3: he was so nice. We're just talking hockey and all that,
Speaker 3: and then.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so sad, really sad. Life is short, fifty four
Speaker 1: years old.
Speaker 2: And then you look at someone like that and it's
Speaker 2: it goes, you know, to that old adage of like
Speaker 2: you know, Instagram versus reality, right where it's like, this
Speaker 2: is someone that's had such success and the highest level
Speaker 2: of fame and then they fight their own battles. But
Speaker 2: I also liked what he said is that when he died,
Speaker 2: he wanted people to remember him for his work and
Speaker 2: advocacy in sobriety, as opposed to being remembered for friends
Speaker 2: but really sad and obviously don't know the whole story
Speaker 2: on that how he passed away.
Speaker 3: But they played that song at the Dallas Cowboys game
Speaker 3: yesterday too.
Speaker 1: They did yeah, and it's like kind.
Speaker 2: Of a moment where that's that's so, I mean, what's
Speaker 2: the word for it, chursy.
Speaker 3: You're better with your words than I am, But that's so.
Speaker 3: I know they played it the Los Angeles Kings game
Speaker 3: because he was such a hockey fan. He went to
Speaker 3: King's games. They played it, you know, at the Dallas
Speaker 3: game when we were in break and everybody was kind
Speaker 3: of like singing it. I mean, I don't want to
Speaker 3: say you've made it, but you he is a friend.
Speaker 3: He was everybody's friend. He was a fixture and everybody's home.
Speaker 2: M h. It's just like yeah, and memoriam of somebody
Speaker 2: to like pay with their respect. His stepfather talking about
Speaker 2: Matthew Perry. If anyone hasn't connected these dots, his stepfather
Speaker 2: was Keith Morrison.
Speaker 1: Did you know that? From dateline?
Speaker 2: It's like, is that the most like iconic voice of
Speaker 2: like he what, Yeah, that's his stepfather. And I didn't
Speaker 2: know that until they were showing him and his mom's
Speaker 2: showing up at his house, but thoughts and prayers with
Speaker 2: his family.
Speaker 1: That's I hate when people say thoughts and prayers.
Speaker 2: I really do, because it's like you need more than that,
Speaker 2: but just sending respect to the family. All Right, we
Speaker 2: have a big show to air on Thursday. Lots to discuss,
Speaker 2: and I hope you guys join us. You remember submit all questions,
Speaker 2: comments and concerns.
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