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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Today's Whine About It Thursday Therapy. We've got Devin

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Speaker 2: Simone and Laura Jacobs match Me and Miami now streaming

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Speaker 2: on Rocus. So they're both matchmakers. Laura is actually pregnant

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Speaker 2: with her second set of twins and Devin Simone just

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Speaker 2: got married. But they are matchmakers and their new show

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Speaker 2: MATCHMDE in Miami is basically the modern matchmaking in one

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Speaker 2: of the most exciting cities for singles, The Miami Matchmaker

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Speaker 2: Agencies finds their clients a real love and it is

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Speaker 2: streaming now on Rocus. Let's get them on and talk

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Speaker 2: all about matchmaking. Hey, Hey, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Good? How are ye?

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Speaker 2: I'm good? You doing good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm pregnant like you. How many weeks? Say, I'm

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Speaker 4: twenty one, you're twenty one?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm Sam twenty three weeks? Yeah, And I just

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Speaker 2: like I was talking to a friend the other day,

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Speaker 2: I'm at the point where I'm like, I'm already so

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Speaker 2: they done? Like over is that? I'm just like, horo,

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Speaker 2: Am I gonna go another? However many weeks?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 2: And it's just and I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you've I feel like I can't complain because I

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Speaker 2: heard that you're pregnant with twins. So that's just a

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Speaker 2: whole other level of like in.

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Speaker 4: The second time.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm like, I is that does that run

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Speaker 2: in the family? Was that a did you do IVF?

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Speaker 1: Or is that just like A no, it's it's all

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Speaker 1: natural and I don't have a history but in my family,

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Speaker 1: but clearly the doctors are now like you hyperovulate, like

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Speaker 1: you need to be careful after this because like as

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Speaker 1: you get old I'm already thirty six, and as you

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Speaker 1: get older, and.

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Speaker 4: They're like, we don't want you to get pregnant again

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Speaker 4: and for it to be triplets and kill you. I'm

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Speaker 4: like totally like I'm done after this.

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Speaker 1: But it's all four boys, So everyone's like, oh, did

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Speaker 1: you if? I'm like, I would never do IVF to

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Speaker 1: get four of the same gender.

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Speaker 4: But love y'all.

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Speaker 2: Oh, So then so then you're hey, Devin, how are

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Speaker 2: you hi? Nice to see too, honey? Wait, so then

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Speaker 2: you you you're done then after this, because it's like

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Speaker 2: if there's a chance that like you would do triplets,

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Speaker 2: like you're just going in strong with the boy.

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Speaker 1: I can't do another multiple pregnancy, but it's your third one, right,

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Speaker 1: so I feel like it's it's hard. I think like

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Speaker 1: it's hard for you too when you're when you've done

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Speaker 1: pregnancy before.

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Speaker 4: I'm over it too. I'm like, how am I gonna

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Speaker 4: make it till November? Like?

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Speaker 3: How?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't like. I think it's one of

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Speaker 2: those things where I was struggling. I was talking to

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Speaker 2: my fan say yesterday about it. I'm like, I didn't

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Speaker 2: really experience this in my first two, but I'm like,

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Speaker 2: weirdly having this like depression, and I'm like, I've never

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Speaker 2: I never experienced that in my previous pregnancy, so i'd

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Speaker 2: me too.

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Speaker 1: So you're having the same, Yeah, I definitely I didn't

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Speaker 1: have it in my first at all. And I feel

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Speaker 1: I have like low days or I'm like, what's wrong,

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Speaker 1: I'm like nothing. And I do think it's it's a

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Speaker 1: little bit of like perinatal just like depression, slash over it, slash.

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Speaker 1: I think it's hard to be pregnant in summer too.

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Speaker 1: I've never been pregnant in summer. I don't know about you,

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Speaker 1: and so I just didn't realize this season would be

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Speaker 1: it's it's just like a boring sense of boring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I totally hear you on that.

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Speaker 2: And it's also like like I'm still like I'm just

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Speaker 2: nauseous throughout the entire day and it's just like that

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's like leading into my depression

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Speaker 2: or if it's like you know, the hormones or I

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Speaker 2: just I have never experienced. And I'm like, I'm so happy.

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Speaker 4: I'm so happy. Yeah, I have hyperaemesis like you too.

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Speaker 1: I read you had it, and I'm oh, I haven't

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Speaker 1: it's yours.

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Speaker 4: I get sick of it too. You're just like I'm

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Speaker 4: so done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Devin, Do you have kids?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: Just a dog and that is enough for us. Are

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Speaker 2: How long have you been?

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Speaker 3: Are?

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Speaker 2: Because you're married?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, we got married last month actually going out

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Speaker 3: honeymoon Sunday. Yeah, you're no kid zone where we're going

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Speaker 3: in Africa. We're going across four countries to follow the

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Speaker 3: Great Migration.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's amazing. That's gonna be so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're excited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're excited, are you guys? I know, no kid

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Speaker 3: It's probably eighty percent forever. I feel like Laura has

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Speaker 3: can live vicariously through Laura. Anything can change, like I'll

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Speaker 3: probably freeze my eggs when we get back in the honeymoon.

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Speaker 3: But we both are pretty We live in New York.

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Speaker 3: We enjoy the freedoms. So yeah, we like being the

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Speaker 3: uncle and the auntie. No, I'm I'm scared you not

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Speaker 3: to do it, Duvin. I mean, but yours actually were

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Speaker 3: so well behaved and so cute. If anything, there was

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Speaker 3: a moment that you sort of walked it back a little.

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Speaker 4: Because yours are really cute.

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Speaker 3: And we like kids. I just I our lifestyles are

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Speaker 3: such like I'm in La right now for work, and

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Speaker 3: and we really love that when we love our careers.

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Speaker 3: And you know, for your parents, we'd be amazing parents

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Speaker 3: and give everything and I have so much respect for

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Speaker 3: you guys. I just know that I don't multi.

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Speaker 4: Test that well so do I.

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Speaker 3: You know, we're good being able to give what we

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Speaker 3: have to each other, to our careers, to our dog,

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Speaker 3: and you know, but anything's possible. I also said I'd

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Speaker 3: never do reality TV once, and well look at where

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Speaker 3: that got me. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But I think it's great though, that you're like, you

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Speaker 2: don't like, you know that twenty percent or whatever it

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Speaker 2: is that you're like maybe the fact that you're like, Okay, well,

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Speaker 2: let's be proactive and do the eggs because you don't

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Speaker 2: want to get to a place, especially obviously for women

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Speaker 2: where we're like, oh it's too late now, and like

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Speaker 2: to then to be met with that like that would

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Speaker 2: be because you just never no, like yeah, exactly like

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Speaker 2: you said you're never going to do this and then

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Speaker 2: here you are, you know, doing X. So you know,

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Speaker 2: I think that's I think that's very proactive and very

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Speaker 3: So I love that. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Here's my little like admitting this. I was like so

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Speaker 2: close to getting a matchmaker, like right before I met

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Speaker 2: my fiance, because it's like, you know, you've got the app.

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Speaker 1: Could you talk to Patty because I work for one

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Speaker 1: of her, like Shell Companies, work with them, and they

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Speaker 1: told me Erica who works with Patty. She's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: by the way, Joanna Kramer is single, if you have

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Speaker 4: And I was like, yeah, I might. That's amazing, and

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Speaker 4: so I was like, gonna help with that if you

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Speaker 4: actually signed on. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I I never officially signed out, And I was always

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Speaker 2: just like, Patti, if you know anyone like you kind

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Speaker 2: the stigma behind like matchmaking. But it made me go like, like,

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Speaker 2: what guy really signs up to like be matchmaked and

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Speaker 2: so it just felt it felt weird and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: it just again I don't I don't know the full

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Speaker 2: Like like what are they like they're kind of guy.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, so, but I mean, what do you think

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Speaker 2: is like the biggest stigma around matchmaking.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think that a lot of people, men

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Speaker 1: the if they've never worked with a matchmaker, the first

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Speaker 4: Especially if it's a guy.

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Speaker 1: The egos like comes right up there and they're like,

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Speaker 1: we're like, yeah, none of our clients have a problem

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Speaker 1: it's it is definitely. I think matching female clients is

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Speaker 1: issues where like, you know, I'll have a beautiful female

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Speaker 1: and like then the girls complain.

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Speaker 3: It depends on the city about that, because in New

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Speaker 3: and you know, in currently matching across twelve different cities

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Speaker 3: in the country, the vibes are very different for the

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Speaker 3: different graphics. Like San Francisco is very different than Chicago.

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Speaker 3: I've seen a lot of success with guys in the database.

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Speaker 3: I actually just moved into a new apartment building that

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Speaker 3: of mine who just moved in with her match or

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Speaker 3: he moved in with her, and he was in the database.

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Speaker 3: She was a client, and she's educated and talented and

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Speaker 3: beautiful as is he. And they're already talking marriage Like

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Speaker 3: they'll probably be engaged, you know, by the end of

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Speaker 3: the year. I think as far as like the stigma goes,

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Speaker 3: it's the same thing as getting an uber or ordering

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Speaker 3: in food ordering in food doesn't automatically mean you can't cook.

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Speaker 3: Now you maybe you can't cook, but that's not the

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Speaker 3: that you know the Michelin star chef would make it,

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Speaker 4: Then however you met.

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Speaker 2: For sure, I have one thousand percent agree with you.

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Speaker 2: I know, it's so fun. He thinks it's like sounds

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Speaker 1: I need to find a girl that, oh yeah, like

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Speaker 1: she has to be into cosplayer, she has to be

436
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Speaker 1: a gamer. We have to have like men get very

437
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Speaker 1: focused on these common interests, which I'm like, I personally

438
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Speaker 1: don't think that's that important, but you know, she has

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Speaker 1: to golf and she has to play ten and if

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Speaker 1: she doesn't, you know, we're gonna have nothing in common.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, we try to coach them through,

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Speaker 1: Like maybe that's holding you back, Like, but yeah, definitely

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Speaker 1: weird requests all the time.

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Speaker 3: I've had a lot of women that, yeah, that I've

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Speaker 3: asked for you know, one, well, not a lot, but

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Speaker 3: I've had some who've asked for multiple graduate degrees, someone

447
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Speaker 3: who wanted to who went to a top forty school,

448
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Speaker 3: but she didn't go to a top forty school herself.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm all about like asking for certain things. Someone

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Speaker 3: who's five to one but only within six or five

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Speaker 3: and above? Can you even see up that high? Like

452
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Speaker 3: no matter what she's like, why we're heels cool, but

453
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Speaker 3: you're wearing Lady Gaga level stage performance heels. He's still

454
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Speaker 3: gonna be taller for you, like you know, he doesn't

455
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Speaker 3: need to be above six five, just all sorts of things.

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Speaker 3: And when they hold on to that, usually there's a

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Speaker 3: reason that they're overcorrecting for something oftentimes and particularly with women,

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Speaker 3: but men too. And if they're still holding on to

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Speaker 3: that even after we realize kind of what they are

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Speaker 3: trying to protect themselves from, then to me, it's an

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Speaker 3: indicator that maybe they're not ready for our level of

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Speaker 3: like investment and work, because you're focused on the wrong things.

463
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Speaker 3: Because at the end of the day, no one's getting divorced,

464
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Speaker 3: you know, when the world ends, or when you're sick,

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Speaker 3: or when you know you lovely ladies are pregnant. I'm

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Speaker 3: sure there are days that don't feel so great. And

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Speaker 3: when you want to support a partner a person there

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Speaker 3: that extra inch of height isn't the thing that determines

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Speaker 3: that he's a good partner. The third degree. I understand

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Speaker 3: wanting a college education, but the third degree.

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Speaker 4: Isn't the thing that's gonna determine like.

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Speaker 3: If he's a good partner for you, it's his growth mindset,

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Speaker 3: it's how committed he is, it's you know, his ability

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Speaker 3: to communicate and listen, and those should be moved up

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Speaker 3: on the priority list because those are you can do

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Speaker 3: a lot with that.

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Speaker 2: So true. So what can people expect when they watch

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Speaker 2: the show on Roku? Like what is something that like?

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00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 2: Because we want, you know, obviously the listeners to all

480
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Speaker 2: go and watch like it's obviously entertaining, but like, what's

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Speaker 2: something else that they're going to be able to get

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Speaker 2: from it?

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Speaker 3: Clothes, drama, fashion, fun, laughs, a bunch of side eyes

484
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 3: of me and Laura looking at each other being like

485
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Speaker 3: did that just happen? Yeah? Relatable dating stories, people being

486
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Speaker 3: really vulnerable and sharing their stories, not only from the

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Speaker 3: team but also from I mean we really had shout

488
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Speaker 3: out to our not only our matchmaking team, but also

489
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Speaker 3: because it is a show, even the casting team, and

490
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Speaker 3: being able to find and really great people who were

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Speaker 3: so generous with sharing their vulnerabilities and what they're going through.

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Speaker 3: It's just really relatable and real, which is what Laura

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Speaker 3: and I really wanted to be able to share.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome. And then how do you how would you

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Speaker 2: get on like a free database? Because someone's like I

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Speaker 2: don't really know if I want to like jump in

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Speaker 2: to the matchmaking piece of it, but like I'd like

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Speaker 2: to be in the database to be considered.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we just made a guide for this specifically for people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's in my link in Insta bio. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: all you do, you click on the link, you sign up.

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Speaker 1: It's confidential. Only the matchmakers see it. The biggest thing

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Speaker 1: is like filling out a fully filled out profile. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people they put one picture and like two

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Speaker 1: things about them, and I'm like, oh, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you know, and sometimes if they look really great from that,

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Speaker 1: I will text or call them and be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I think I have a match for you. Can you

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Speaker 1: fill out your profile more? But honestly, a lot of

510
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Speaker 1: the time we're busy, I'm I'm going to pass on it.

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Speaker 1: So the best thing to do is like put five pictures,

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Speaker 1: fully fill out your profile and bio, you know, because

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Speaker 1: like it's more of a chance that we're going to

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Speaker 1: call you and we're gonna want to match you with

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Speaker 1: a premium member.

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Speaker 2: Love that all right? Awesome, Well, girls, thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for coming on the show. I cannot wait to

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Speaker 2: see y'all show and yeah, have an amazing time in

519
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Speaker 2: your honeymoon, and girl, I'll be cheering you on from

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Speaker 2: over here as well.

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Speaker 3: Just we got this.

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Speaker 4: All right, last time for you two.

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Speaker 2: I will have her take out any organ possible, to never.

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Speaker 4: Take any possible, Like do you want me to tie

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Speaker 4: your tubes upon delivery? I'm like, what do you think?

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Speaker 4: He's like, Okay, yeah, I'm like yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like take it all. I don't even like

528
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Speaker 2: just just have it all. Just here you go, I'm done.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even think I could get pregnant again, so

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Speaker 2: it was kind of like a oh my gosh, you know.

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Speaker 2: And I'm a lot older too than than you, Laura,

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Speaker 2: so I was just like a shot.

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Speaker 4: No, you're not, You're like years older.

534
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Speaker 2: But I mean, like I thought I would be, you know,

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Speaker 2: on my fortieth birthday, you know, like on a private

536
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Speaker 2: island with my girlfriend's fireworks, round table dance, and like

537
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Speaker 2: I've been planning this since I was like thirty pretty

538
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Speaker 2: much years old, and I'm like, okay, God, like my

539
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: my due date is like on my birthday. So I

540
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Speaker 2: was like, cute, It's super cute. Wow, even though I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna have a sea section, so it'll be the week before.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, all right, but I'll still be fortieth

543
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Speaker 2: birthday like in my like granny panties. But yes, such

544
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 2: a gift. It's amazing.

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Speaker 3: But I bottle service, Jannet.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, fifty fifty is going

547
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Speaker 2: to be a blowout.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's going to be your year.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know, but all right, girls, you're awesome. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much, Thank you Bye girls, see you