WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Concerned Cheater 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:03.360 From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:07.760 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:11.760 All right, good morning, guys, good. 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:14.240 Morning, good morning. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.520 Here we are once again, Monday, October twenty eighth. It's 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:24.320 almost Thanksgiving. So hi hi h I hopefully you had 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:25.079 a nice weekend. 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:25.960 Is that a new chain? 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:27.480 Good? Same chain? 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:27.920 Oh? 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:30.360 Same change, just happens to be popped out of my shirt. 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:31.760 Oh looks good. I like it. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:33.880 What do we got today? 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.680 National Chocolate Day? It is Game three of the World 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.000 Series tonight in New York. 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:39.840 Let's go Dodgers. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:41.960 Dodgers up two games to none. 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:45.160 Hardly sundaying, cooler highs in the low seventies, pretty much everywhere. 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.839 We are going to start paying bills again. That's on 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:52.640 the docket here also. Okay, so before we cracked up 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.720 in the mics and got going here, we were talking 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:55.760 about this Ryan's roses. 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:57.080 We're gonna do it is. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:03.920 Not normal, It's not and honestly, I'm not one hundred 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:07.560 percent sure we should make the call. So I can 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:09.480 see that part of the that might be part of 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.039 our morning before we get to seven forty Oh why, well, 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:16.200 because a woman is cheating on our husband and we 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:19.800 know this, okay, okay, because she's the one that reached 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:20.679 out to tell us. 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.240 Oh, well this is a no brainer. 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.880 Well what are we gonna do, right, I mean, we 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:29.080 know that's our want us to do exactly. Then well 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.240 that's what we need to debate. And I do think 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:32.399 we need to decide if we're going to. 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:32.920 Do this or not. 0:01:33.160 --> 0:01:33.920 Okay, but it is. 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.679 It is definitely an orthodox It's interesting. I mean we've 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:40.920 never I don't remember a time when someone has reached 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:42.319 out to Ryan's ROAs and said, Hey, I just want to 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.160 tell you I am cheating? 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:45.120 Could you tell my husband? 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:47.680 Is that what she's asking us to do? 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.280 I'm just throwing that out there. Okay, Well, just as 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:51.800 that ever happened? 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:53.520 No, no, well. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:57.440 Might that happen this morning? We'll see that's gonna be 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:58.040 seven to forty. 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.160 Well, if she wants us to tell him, we should. 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:04.240 But that's not our role. That's the thing that she 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:05.520 is reaching out to us. 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:07.560 But that's not what Ryan's Roses is a bad. 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:09.680 Well, we don't have a segment called tell my husband 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:14.040 I'm cheating, or she could just call well maybe she's tried. 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:21.040 Funny, I'll wait till seven I was easy. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:24.800 Yeah, it's Monday. Let's get to the horoscopes, guys. 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:29.239 All right, Aries, knowledge is power, so ask as many 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.600 questions as possible. 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.160 Taurus, lean on a coworker. If you get stuck on 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:33.720 a project. 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:37.639 Gemini, head down and grind, grind, grind. 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:40.440 Today, Cancer planted seed never goes to waste. 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:43.200 Leo, think before you speak up in your meeting. 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:47.600 Virgo, your hands will know exactly what to do. Don't overthink, Libra. 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:50.280 A little sweet treat can turn any day around. 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:52.960 Scorpio, don't let the opinion of others sway you in 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:53.880 any direction. 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:57.280 Sagittarius. Storms don't last forever. 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:01.200 Capricorn. Coffee can come in many forms. You'll need extra 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:02.240 caffeine today. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.400 Aquarius, put your phone down and be productive. 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:09.200 To Pisces, let your mind wander and be creative. 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:11.240 All right, friends, I want to get you into jingle Ball, 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:13.680 so let's get into that next on Kiss FM. 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:14.560 And those are horse groups. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.960 If they will dictate your day, you know how to 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:22.080 navigate your way. And I just want to say happy Monday. 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:26.280 Oh my gosh. That's what we do is play a 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:27.600 limerick of sorts. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:31.480 They hit fun Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.000 A new poll found these are some of the top 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.280 simple joys in life that people just absolutely love. One 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.480 waking up after good night's sleep, a cup of coffee. 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.880 Simple pleasures, simple pleasures, catching up with an old friend 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:50.320 or loved one, the smell of coffee, not even drinking it. 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:54.720 Going to a local farmers market. And I bring this 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:55.360 up because. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.760 Tony, you're having a intimidation issues with your farmers. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.360 Yes, you know, the beef. 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:03.360 Beef with the farmers, not beef, not beef. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:04.880 I think what I realized. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.480 So I used to be a farmer's market girly like 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.840 that was my Sunday routine. I went every Sunday and 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:12.560 that's where I did all my grocery shopping. 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:14.840 Like I knew my local farmer's market. I knew it 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:15.360 in and out. 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:19.000 And then this past weekend we went to a farmer 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:21.000 We never go to farmers markets anymore, haven't gone in 0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:24.960 like years. So we went and we like fumbled our 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.400 way through. We didn't know where anything was. And we 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:30.479 spent an hour there and that came out with a 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:35.080 box of dates, a handful of flowers, and a box 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:36.080 of berries. 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.040 What's the issue? 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:38.760 I don't know. 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:40.640 How to like navigate. I don't know how to like 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.000 go in. I don't know how to pick the best ones. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.520 I don't know. We've established you're rusty. 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:48.440 What's the difference between organic and not certified organic? 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.040 But not pesticides? 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:53.159 And you're you're in the weeds on all that. Let 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:57.080 me just tell you you will not find nicer people 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:03.880 anywhere outside of the farmer's market, farmers market, vendors, the farmers, 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.760 their families, their brothers, their sisters, their moms or dads, 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.880 their cousins, everybody behind the table in front of the banner. 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.520 The best people on earth. They're just the nicest people 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:22.680 offering me samples right bagging my guavama. That's the very 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:23.400 person to go to. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:27.640 That's what I'm saying. I start talking intimidating. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:30.520 Well, do I always do a lap? I do a 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:33.080 lap first, and I established, yeah, I do a lap. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:34.640 They say they do that too. 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:40.240 I always do a buffet lap because I want to prioritize. Yeah, 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:41.599 let's take a lap and then we come back and 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:42.520 break it down exactly. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.200 You never start piling on your play right at the 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:45.039 beginning of a buffet. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:46.400 I think I do a lap now. 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.760 I also am well known for forgetting every single Farmer's 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.400 market bag I have when I get to the Farmer's 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:53.760 market and having like juggle all the stuff getting out 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:56.600 of there. But take a lap, take inventory, take your time. 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:58.240 Farmers Park is not meant to be stress. It's meant 0:05:58.240 --> 0:05:59.200 to be actually peaceful. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:05:59.680 I know. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:03.440 I felt I left feeling like I still have to 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:04.479 go to the grocery store tomorrow. 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:05.120 And do you know what I mean? 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:06.760 Like I wanted to get all my groceries and I 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:08.120 felt like I didn't have a plan, I didn't know 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:08.760 what I was doing. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.440 I felt very is. 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:11.920 This is this a bigger issue? 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:13.200 Yeah? 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:16.960 Well, I don't want to put words in your mouth, 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:17.800 but Sistani might. 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.800 What do you want me to say? Like you, how 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:22.200 hard is it to just pick out some food? 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:22.320 No? 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.160 Or is it like my routine? I'm too stuck in 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:24.760 my routine. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:25.320 No. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:29.080 I feel like there's just there's this anxiety exuding out of. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.600 You as of late. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:34.440 Oh, like you can make a decision something in indecisiveness. 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:35.240 Maybe that's what it is. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:37.000 Indecisiveness. Yes, okay, got it. 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:40.920 Dates for the wedding, we did get the dress check box. 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:45.480 But now the Farmer's Market I mean indecisiveness. I think 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.560 is it maybe is mercury retrograding because it. 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:52.320 Shouldn't be that hard to pick berries and no I 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:56.160 wanted to do all my grocery shopping again, it shouldn't 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:57.640 be that hard, Like if you needed to do all 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.560 of it, then get your eggs, get your berries, get 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:03.000 your Get that feels this way? 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:04.000 Can you can't? 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:06.520 It can happen? 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:08.800 All right, we got to move here. How to tell 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.200 if your dog is not into the Halloween costume you 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:13.000 might want to put on your dog? 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:13.520 All right? 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.800 Sistany where do you stay on costumes for your dogs? 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.160 I mean, now that I have kids a little you know, 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.160 NA hasn't really happened a lot. But although we are 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.960 doing it this year because we're doing it, it's going 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:25.640 with our theme. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.640 So here's how you can tell if they're into it 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.360 or not your dog very easy, Yeah, share this with 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.520 you so you know when you're with your dog dressing 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:38.080 them up for ween. If they keep their tail low ween, yeah, yeah, 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:41.000 the ween for the ween. If they keep their tail 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:47.160 low and their ears back and stay low to the ground, well. 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.880 Good, they're not into it. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:52.360 I know. 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:55.360 That's the ups costume I put on Sunny. She did 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:56.520 not like that. One. 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:57.200 Not into it. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.760 They think they're being punished. Yeah, if they're in to it, fine, 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:04.000 but don't when they start doing all that for the Ween. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.560 Today's quote, I can't say for the Ween, I like it. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:08.280 Halloween? 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.040 Yeah, what are you doing for the Ween? 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:11.600 We abbreviate everything wa doing for the ween? 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:13.480 Ween can mean something else? 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:18.040 We mean something else. Okay, wean yourself off of Halloween? Yeah, 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:21.280 okayan yourself off. Embrace uncertainty. 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:23.880 Some of the most beautiful chapters in our lives won't 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:31.240 have a title until much later. Embrace uncertainty. Kind of tough. Actually, 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.719 I don't know if I could do it. Ped'll try this. 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.800 FM headlines with siciny Well. 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:39.920 Governor Gavin Newsom wants to bring movie and TV production 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:43.760 back to California and unveiled a proposal to more than 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.480 double the tax credit the state offers to producers for 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:49.640 shooting here show. Hey Otani is expected to be in 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.120 the Dodgers lineup for Game three of the World Series 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:55.400 tonight after dislocating his shoulder in Game two. First pitch 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.720 is at five to eight pm on Fox and AM 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:01.839 five seventy LA Sports. McDonald announced that quarter pounders will 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:05.000 be back on the menu after testing ruled out beef 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.680 patties as a source of the equal Lie poisoning that 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.959 sickened at least seventy five people across thirteen states, and 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:14.720 A fifth grader named Zachary was the lucky fan who 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:18.200 caught Freddy Freeman's game winning Grand Slam on Friday night. 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.120 He had no idea he was even going to the game. 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:23.280 His parents told him that he was going to the dentist. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.600 On air with Ryan Seacret. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:28.840 Here's the thing. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:34.040 I'm very quick with my fingers and my contacts. I 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:37.160 often and I think the phone actually sometimes just draws 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:42.079 people in. I was sending an email to a Jeff 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:46.920 that works with me, and there's also a Jeff Tubbs 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:49.600 who works with me. Here was Jeff in like my 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:53.280 home office, right like my office. And as I was 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:58.000 forwarding the email, it ended up automatically going to Jeff Tubbs, 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:02.360 Tubbs our engineer, okay, And it was that moment of like, 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.880 oh no, I just sent Tubbs an email about Wheel 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.679 of Fortune schedule, and I'm like, I don't really want 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:11.040 Tubs to read that, because that's not for him. I 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:14.360 started thinking, well, I know, but I started thinking, like, 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:16.280 what kind of guy is Tubbs? Is he the kind 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.320 of guy that's going to disregard the email and deleted? 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:19.920 Or is he the kind of guy that's going to 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:21.880 snoop because it said wheel of Fortune in the subject 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:25.199 line email I didn't. 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:25.600 Send an email. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:29.839 I accidentally or my phone accidentally forwarded the email to 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:30.400 the wrong jet. 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:31.360 Okay, but here's the thing. 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:33.600 If I were Tubbs and I got that email right, 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:34.760 I'd open it and i'd read it. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:36.920 See that's what I'm talking about. What kind of person 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:37.600 are you? 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:42.560 You get a misdirected text because I said immediately disregard. 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.760 So the question is, what kind of person are you? 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:46.160 Tanya? 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:48.520 If I forwarded you a text or my phone did 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:51.520 it and it was a mistake, you know, didn't mean 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:52.360 to send that to you. 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:53.760 Would you go ahead and read it? I think you 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:54.600 just outed yourself. 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:57.839 You would if you sent me something, I would read it. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.480 If you said if I said you disregard. 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.640 How fast did you send the disregard tops? 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.400 How fast did I send it? Well, I have to 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:05.679 confess I did read it. 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.480 Everybody else that's very normal. 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:10.679 I'm supposed to read it. 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:13.320 I was reading it the text came through because I 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:14.600 saw an email from Ryan. 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:16.840 Oh this must be important. Well, sure, I don't know how. 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.959 And then I get the text. Please disregard I and 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:22.560 because I fired a text off fast because the emails 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:25.000 so slow, not fast enough cut him off in the past. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:28.440 All right, so you're read what was in the email? 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.760 What was an email? I didn't read it top secret. 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:31.240 I can't. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:34.720 See that he can keep his mouth shut. 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:38.640 Be careful when you're speed texting or forwarding stuff it 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.880 in your contact names? Are you close to each other? 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.960 So I need an all hands on deck moment. If 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.040 you're familiar with Ryan's roses, you might want to chime 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.800 in on this. At eight hundred five to one to 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:52.360 two seven, I'm not quite sure we should make the call, 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:58.480 and I'll tell you why. Here's the email that we got. Okay, basically, 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:01.600 she's cheating and admits it. So this is Natalie and Claremont. 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.000 She says, I hope you will make this call for me, 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:06.160 even though the circumstances are unusual. I've been cheating on 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:09.360 my husband for two years. I've decided I'm going to 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:14.120 leave him after the holidays, but I'm concerned that the 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:16.720 guy I'm seeing on the side might be seen someone else, 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:19.080 So I need to know before I blow up my family. 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:22.960 So she wants she's cheating and wants us to. 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:25.960 Call before she leaves the husband she's cheating, and wants 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.120 us to call the guy she's siding with to make 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:30.480 sure he's not siding with someone else before she blows 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:30.880 this all up. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.120 This woman is delusional in my way. 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:36.280 Are we good or or bad people? Aren't we? 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:36.760 I think? 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:36.920 So? 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:40.320 Why are we helping a cheat her? Why are we 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:40.920 helping her? 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.840 Don't think of it like we're helping her. We're helping 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:48.120 this poor husband that she's been cheating on for two years. 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:51.360 Because if we make the call and then hopefully somebody 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:54.280 associates her voice and knows that she's been having this affair, 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:59.960 hopefully the husband that's just been an honest bystander can 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.360 out of this marriage and move on with his life. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.440 I don't know that I've fully processed this and what 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.600 our role should be or shouldn't be, and what's the 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:12.480 right thing to do to be honest with you, Because 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:15.280 she's basically saying, look, before the grass is greener, and 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:18.319 before I really go that route, I need to make sure, 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:19.800 it's a sure thing. I need to make sure that 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.080 the guy I'm cheating with isn't cheating with someone else 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.120 on me while my husband waits. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:24.320 In the door. 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:26.560 That's crazy. We should call that guy and tell him 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:27.120 what she's up to. 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:27.920 That's what I'm thinking. 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:29.440 Why don't you just call the husband and say, look 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.040 what email we got from your wife? 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.440 Well, I don't know if we have that's really us, 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.959 But what if we can call him and say, hey, 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:39.560 I just want to tell you the email we got. 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:42.120 I mean, I'm down for that. 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:44.520 No, there really overstepping. 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:45.560 Over stepping. 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.160 Olivia is in North Hollywood, Olivia, Good morning, How are 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:51.160 you doing? 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:51.480 Okay? 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:53.600 Well, I don't know if. 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:55.800 We're fine, but I'm not quite sure what to make 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.080 of all of this. Do you see do you see 0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:59.959 a an upside to this? 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:00.720 Ryan's roses? 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:06.920 Here's the thing. I honestly felt immediately totally torn on 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:10.719 this one, and my first hat like was don't make 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:14.240 the call. But then I changed my mind. I think 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:18.400 you should do it like before the kids, because here's 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:18.720 my deal. 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:19.720 I my sister did this. 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.880 She like fell in love with some guy and then 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.560 completely left her husband and kids and honestly, it was 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:28.680 a disaster. It ended absolutely horribly ryan and she tried 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:31.520 to make things right with her ex husband, but you 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:33.440 wan't nothing to do with her anymore, and the kids 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:37.120 are horribly resentful, like to this day. They went through 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:40.359 a lot. And my feeling is just like in this situation, 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:42.760 if the guy sends the roses to someone else, maybe 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.440 she'll think twice before blowing up her family and leaving. 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:48.080 And she can you know read. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:49.120 She didn't think that. 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:51.640 I think twice in the last two years. She's been 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:59.560 lived there for two years. I'm just I don't know, Yeah, 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:01.120 blown up her family? 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.160 Do we get Natalie on the phone next? Do we 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.520 hear her out? And do we call the guy that 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.600 she's cheating with to make sure he's not cheating with 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.560 somebody else so she can leave her current husband? 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:11.680 Is that what we do? 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:13.760 No, we help her. I don't want to help her. 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:15.160 Yes, we do it. 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.680 I don't want to help her, Olivia, thanks for calling. 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.480 Let's go to the back room on this back room. 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:22.320 Even opinion on this, I. 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:25.920 Feel, I don't know, maybe make the call, why putting 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.480 us on her team? 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:30.960 But truly it's really sistany out there I don't. 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:34.080 Want to do Tanya, you guys can do the call. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:35.400 Have you done one of these? Ruby, who's just done 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:36.040 one of these before? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.240 I've done them and I'm horrible. 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:40.520 You did it right? 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:41.000 Yeah? 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.160 All right, maybe Mikayla doesn't want to do it. 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.200 I don't want to do it because we're helping a 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:46.320 two year cheater. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.720 Let's talk to the decision. 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:51.600 She's cheating guy she's cheating with. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.840 But don't her because her karma is going to come 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.000 and it's going to get her bad. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.760 Talk to helping her. 0:15:59.000 --> 0:15:59.880 Can we speak to her? 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.280 And that's okay, let's talk to her. But I'm I'm 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:03.200 not on board. 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.280 Let's decide once we speak to her. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:07.600 I don't really want to talk to her. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.160 What do you want me to do? You do or 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:11.560 you don't? 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:13.080 I mean, Tony, you were just telling me we're helping 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.520 her out or not helping her out or something. 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.320 You were just telling me to do it. Now you 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:18.720 want me in the moment we're about to do it. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.160 I just don't want to talk to her, like. 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:31.120 Ugh, fine, all right, Hi, you guys don't have to 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:33.920 be quite the whole time. You can talk at least 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.960 Hi at this at the beginning here. Hey, dear Ryan 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:38.840 and Sisney and Tanya. I hope you'll make this Ryan's 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:42.400 roses call. This is the email we got. It's unusual. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:44.760 She says, I've been cheating on my husband for two years. 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.120 I've decided I'm going to leave my husband after the holidays. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.480 I am leaving him, but I'm concerned the guy I'm 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.080 seeing on the side might be seeing someone else. 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.680 I need to know before I blow up the whole 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:55.560 family here. 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.480 How ironic that the cheater wants to make sure to 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.240 make sure she be cheated not being cheated on. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:07.000 Okay, Natalie, here you are, and here we are. Uh So, 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:12.159 we just have some questions for you here. Why have 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:14.280