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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Slip service, I'm Luria, we got Angela

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Speaker 1: ye g g McGuire. You know how it goes down.

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Speaker 1: What we're gonna do? Women on Top presented by Delian

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Speaker 1: And let me tell you this is near and dear

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Speaker 1: to my heart right here. And this site is called

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Speaker 1: Hella Black dot com. Now it just launched May eight,

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Speaker 1: team and what it is is an online marketplace focused

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Speaker 1: on black owned businesses. Now it is created to promote

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Speaker 1: and elevate the stories behind the black business owners and

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Speaker 1: their brands and to celebrate the creativity and excellence of

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Speaker 1: the African American community. Now, Hella Black is committed to

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Speaker 1: providing a best in class e commerce experience with the

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Speaker 1: most sought after Black owned brands and products. Now, I

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Speaker 1: do got to shout out my girl, Layla Nelson. She

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Speaker 1: is one of the co founders and along with Love

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Speaker 1: lay and their cousins and they also have another cousin

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Speaker 1: by the name of Natalie Robinson. While they all got

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Speaker 1: together because their mothers were twins and they had a

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Speaker 1: jazz club in DC. Now they watched them a the

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Speaker 1: of that nature. Also laylist. Dad owned uh small business,

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Speaker 1: so they wanted to help black owned businesses in the

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Speaker 1: community and this was their way of going about it.

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Speaker 1: Now we all know that people say support black owned

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Speaker 1: what I mean. But this is something that you will

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Speaker 1: continue to go on to watch out Amazon because they

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Speaker 1: are going ahead to get y'all. Now. I do want

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Speaker 1: to mention that the site is ran by nine black

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Speaker 1: women and that's it. It's owned and and and operated.

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Speaker 1: So y'all just go yes going over the hell up

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Speaker 1: Black dot com. You can also follow them on Instagram

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Speaker 1: at shop Hella Black and uh, let's just say these

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Speaker 1: women are amazing. I had the honor posting their event

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Speaker 1: when they kicked off their launch party. The site is great.

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Speaker 1: If you want to sell some products on there, you

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Speaker 1: can reach out to them through the website as well.

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Speaker 1: Make sure it's a black owned product and a good

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Speaker 1: black on prodacts. I got some black Let's all support

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Speaker 1: each other. Get on over there the hell of Black

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Speaker 1: and big shout out to the ladies over there at

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Speaker 1: Hella Black dot com. Thank you Yeah from Delian look

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Speaker 1: already had my shot ready women on time ready, it's

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Speaker 1: like the third one. What's up? It's a lip service.

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Speaker 1: I'm Agela Yee, I'm g G MacGuire, I'm laurial you.

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Speaker 1: I'm Cristal Renee. Yeah, Crystal Ride, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: So you're from BT show sisters, Tyler Perry's sisters. So

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Speaker 1: now that the new season has started, right and we

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Speaker 1: what's going on on the show. Yes, it actually just

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Speaker 1: happened to me yesterday. I was on the belt line

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Speaker 1: It's kind of cool in real life. Do you have

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Speaker 1: What happens when y'all bring somebody in that you know

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Speaker 1: I did in college. Yeah, I'm gonna keep real. I

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Speaker 1: Like ever, No, I'm saying I can't, like for the

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Speaker 1: You start here and then you move on from there.

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Speaker 1: But you can't just go around sucking everybody's dick though.

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Speaker 1: to ask you this, Chrystal, from you moving from behind

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Speaker 1: the scenes and your career to being in front of

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Speaker 1: the camera, now, are there are people that didn't treat

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm thankful that I didn't have that experience

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Speaker 1: because I know other people have. UM, right, but yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: not no, I didn't have that one. So but does

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Speaker 1: Tyler Perry still? I asked you sometimes like does these

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Speaker 1: I was yes, And if we just talked about that,

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Speaker 1: But he's so proud of me. Um. Yeah, he'll help

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Speaker 1: me and be like, what do you think about this? Or?

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Speaker 1: I'm like to that's hot. Just go with it. Like

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Speaker 1: How does that to do for you? Okay, let me

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Speaker 1: tell y'all. Oh my gosh. The first time I had

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Speaker 1: to kiss Zach I literally you would have thought I

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Speaker 1: and I was like, this is just weird for me,

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Speaker 1: and she had he called her you know how cool

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Speaker 1: they are. He's like, hey, he's like, man, Crystal here

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Speaker 1: acting like a fifth grade it won't even kiss me.

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Speaker 1: She's like, girl, you better do your job okay, which

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Speaker 1: I love her. She's they're so secured that that made

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Speaker 1: season one he was humping the fellow with his butt out,

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Speaker 1: so you ain't have to worry about him being comfortable,

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Speaker 1: not at all. But it's funny because a lot of

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Speaker 1: people see the same once it's edited, but there's nothing

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Speaker 1: sexy about it when it's going on, Like you're literally

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you said, get my hair wet? But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm like good one here, what like trying to like, yeah,

425
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 1: in the water is cold, like the Sharfs scene we did,

426
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 1: the water was cold. It's just oh no, that's not exactly.

427
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: What if you nipple shows and one of the episodes,

428
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: would you be upset? I'm sure? Yeah. I had my

429
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: rider that I'm no frontal shows and I was like

430
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: little nipple pasties, But yeah, would you ever do it?

431
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 1: Because I remember I think it was an episode of

432
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 1: Power where I think you could see somebody's thing in

433
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 1: the background and they didn't notice it, so I think

434
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 1: it was U Yeah, I remember that it was right, Yeah,

435
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: you can see a dick in the background, but they

436
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 1: had to go back and re at it. So what

437
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: if that like what like would you ever do that

438
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: in the movie or you know something like that? It's

439
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: crazy as And I just had this conversation, um and

440
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 1: some certain things I think about my future children and

441
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 1: like the image that I put out now as a

442
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: single woman who's just free and like do have you know,

443
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying, just be free in my character and and

444
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 1: my craft. But that's a tricky one cause I'm like,

445
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: would I do that? I think it would have to

446
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 1: be on the role if the role really speaks to me.

447
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,479
Speaker 1: And I'm passionate about the project where I would be

448
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: okay with just like completely dropping it all. Yeah right,

449
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: that's forever, you know, and then you'll be just like

450
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: pouring side that's right. I don't need that, you know,

451
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: like I have on my rider. It's like you can

452
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 1: show side, boob or back. I don't care about the back, um,

453
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,880
Speaker 1: but I'm really strict on a frontal part. What about

454
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: a threesome scene? Would you do a threesome scene? Um? Yeah,

455
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: I feel like that's um, it's no different than having

456
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: having a sex scene with a guy, you know, adding

457
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: one more person to it. I don't know if I

458
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: would do too. I would do a guy and another

459
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: girl would do two guys. We gotta because of it.

460
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: It's not like y'all really have that. What about a

461
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: threesome scene in real life? A threesome scene in real life? Yeah,

462
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: like as in would you have are? That's another weird

463
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: not the question a threesome scene minus the scene? How

464
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 1: have you are? Will you the threesome chip? But right,

465
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: let me say I am completely for whatever makes me

466
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: and my man happy, you know, but I would have

467
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 1: to I'm really skeptical about bringing someone else into the bedroom.

468
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: I think that's a little simply simperly soap and then

469
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: wondering like who they've been with, what are they bringing

470
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: into the bedroom? Can we trust them? Are they gonna

471
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 1: be running their mouth like it would be all tides

472
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: of the NBA's STD tests that would have to go

473
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: down before you gotta do a COVID test at rapid

474
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: uh COVID test person the Q tip, the fuzzy and

475
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: but the Q tip everything else to make sure everything

476
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: and everything around here I've done. Now, Christ before you

477
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: get out of here, I want to ask you this

478
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: because this also came up on the show on sist this.

479
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: Can you not tell your girls everything? Right? Because guys

480
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: sometimes hate the fact that we are we share so

481
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: much with our friends. So what are some things that

482
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: you're like, I would never tell my girlfriends this. Yeah.

483
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times I wouldn't tell them

484
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: every single issue that we have because I think it's

485
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: girlfriends we start to look at the dude sideways, and

486
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 1: then once once we get over stuff like we love him,

487
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, we're good now, and she's like we

488
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: aren't good though, like we don't like you no more?

489
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: So I think you have to be really careful with

490
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: the things that you share with them, because the things

491
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: that we get over because our heart is in it,

492
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: our friends aren't gonna get over this fast. Yeah, my

493
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: friends tell me she was dating this guy with a

494
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: small dick and then they ended up getting married. And

495
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: now every time I like, I just be like, right,

496
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: are you happy, sweetheart, because we're talking about things like that.

497
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure you like what you and little dick doing.

498
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: I don't, y'all. Yeah, well, listen, we're so excited to

499
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 1: see you step up even more in season three. And

500
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: that's like congratulations, because I know that's hard work, and

501
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: everybody has has positive things to say about you behind

502
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: the scenes, So I think all those things are importing.

503
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Thank you so much. Thank you. Is

504
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: there anything else we should know because I'm sure people

505
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: are reaching out now. Oh man, Um, I'm doing a lot.

506
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: I'm getting a lot of auditions. Um. I can't speak

507
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: on them yet, but like, yeah, I'm super excited about that.

508
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: Um yeah, that's it. You know, just really just enjoying

509
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: this ride because it's so everything is so new to

510
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: me and it's just like it's almost like hitting the

511
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: reset button, like you feel like you're on the on

512
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: your path and then like it takes a whole another turn.

513
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: It's like almost starting over again. Are you done with

514
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: the music? No? Um, I wouldn't say I'm done right now.

515
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm definitely just focused on acting. But I do want

516
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: to tap back into it. I want to do like

517
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: musicals or like voiceover movies and stuff. Yeah, Broadway in

518
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: New York claiming now, all right, Christy, Well, thank you

519
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: so much. Everybody. Make sure y'all watch Sisters because there's

520
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: a lot of real life things that we can relate to.

521
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: It's a great show y for real issues, Yeah, for

522
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: real issues. We're back on Season three premieres on Wednesday night,

523
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: nine pm on e T. We come. We're back this Wednesday.

524
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: So I'm super excited. And you about like the whole

525
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: first couple of seasons on Prime because I saw that

526
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: we need to catch up and go back. You know,

527
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: we all everybody watching things all right, to watch it?

528
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 1: All that one I got. I just go right to

529
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: be t plastic watch it. There you go. I don't

530
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: think but season two not on there? I think just

531
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: season one that's you know what you know what's not

532
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: on there. It's like episode one to like four, but

533
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: then four is up there for some reason. That's weird

534
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: to me. That is weird. Yeah, somebody else told me

535
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: that that was trying to catch up. Yeah, the first

536
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: three it wasn't up there yet. Then everything else is there,

537
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: so you kind of put two and two together. Yeah, alright,

538
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: well let's have let's have some time with this BT

539
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: Lip Service spe Show episode. Thank you again, Crystal bad

540
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: bye ladies, Thank you guys, good luck you too, bay By.

541
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: What up, y'all? It is part two of the List

542
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: Service and we're so excited to have Nivia on the show.

543
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: This is your first time on here. Hi am happy

544
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: to be here. Hey girl, Hey listen. I was so

545
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: excited when I saw that show Encore that's coming to

546
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: be e T and that you're gonna be on it. Girl. Well,

547
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: I'm nervous, but I'm excited to know, try something different

548
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: because I've never been in a girl group, as you

549
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: guys know, but I wanted to do something different and

550
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: with an empowerment in mind. So I hope you guys

551
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: like what you see. You're the only one that was

552
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: never in a group on the show, right, the only

553
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: one right, I'm like, okay, I was assuming because they

554
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: didn't tell us who the other girls were gonna be,

555
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: so we just had to wait and see, like the

556
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: day we moved into what we called them. So it's

557
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: shockered and I was the only artist when you are,

558
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: Are you ladies got together in the house? Were there

559
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: any issues or was everybody good? Because you know sometimes

560
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: how it is when it's new people around exactly well

561
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: for me, honestly, I don't really mess well with females

562
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: like that. So it was a lot of vagina and oh,

563
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna get through this. You know, women

564
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: like talking. I just I'm used to being to myself,

565
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: but with my kids or whatever, I have a very

566
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: small circle of friends, so it was a bit challenging

567
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: with all of the difference analities and a lot of

568
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: feminine energy. Yeah's honey, they're gonna get into a lot

569
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: of shape and disagreements, which I believe my role predominantly

570
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: was more so of the mediator because it was first,

571
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: I will listen to what, well she has a point,

572
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,719
Speaker 1: you know, trying to get us all to be spelt

573
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: understood and heard so we can work together. But y'all

574
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: see how that when you're did de fighting? How is

575
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: that for you? As far as a lot of people

576
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: are reaching out because a lot of people didn't know

577
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: your full story? Oh my lamb, everybody? You know what

578
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: I get A lot of people ask me when is

579
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: the book? Because I mean, because there's so much more

580
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: as with anyone who was you know, fortunate enough to

581
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: live quite a fulfill life as I have. Of course

582
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: that people don't know. I guess you know, one day

583
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: I'll write a book or do something like that. But

584
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 1: I definitely got that question the most after seen that,

585
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 1: and if you're like old girl, we didn't know her.

586
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: I was shocked by how many women were able to

587
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: relate to my story. The whole time, I'm thinking, I'm

588
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: the only one who's going through this. Ok, you're the one.

589
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: So that sounds so good. I'm sure I felt, yeah

590
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: good to release all that. How was that emotional? But

591
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: you know it was my first time, honest to be

592
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: an interview in a long time, and of course it was.

593
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: It would be about where have you been? What's been

594
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: going on? And I was just emotion wreck that day.

595
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: But I'm glad I released it so as really different

596
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: like a therapy session, get it all out. I'm having.

597
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: You really never know who can really you know who's

598
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: been through similar things, and how do you help people

599
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: be able to deal with things that they're going through

600
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: them that's very similar to you, right, So I'm lucky

601
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: and blessed to have had that experience and I don't

602
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: have many many more. When you talk about your past relationships,

603
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: do you ever get approached by your children's fathers like, Okay,

604
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: we're not gonna talk about that or anything like that. Well,

605
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm different. I made my manager and my friends very

606
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: nervous because I'm extremely transparent, um myself in any room

607
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: I walk in. So I don't really have a don't

608
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: ask me that I'm to press or at the end

609
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: of the day. As an entertainer, I've lived most of

610
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: my life um as a celebrity or a famous person,

611
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,239
Speaker 1: and I'm attached to to very famous man. So how

612
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: can I say, don't ask me about you know? Right?

613
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: I feel like, say, for instance, if I did a

614
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: press running, I'm talking about the same thing over and

615
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: over back back. Of course, I'm like, I'm not talking

616
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: about that other Now have you actually whatever you want? Well,

617
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: where you told that you didn't have to work anymore

618
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: once you had kids, because that wasn't remember that I

619
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: was told that. Uh you know, Wayne actually told you

620
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: you didn't have to work anymore if you have a child.

621
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: That's not true. I mean, well, I love that you

622
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: even said this, because I sex that I have that.

623
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: I was niver yet before I knew Wayne or dream

624
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: That's number one. Number two, I didn't. I didn't want

625
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: to have children. I'm just being honest. I actually had

626
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: their children from their father's asking will you have my baby?

627
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: And I love, of course I did, for not to

628
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: be taken care of. I mean, their their careers both

629
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: have elevated over the course of not not saying that

630
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: they were right. All right, you know what I'm saying.

631
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: It was a little That's all I'm trying to say.

632
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: And I was still working and did not want to stop.

633
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: But it didn't have to They even you don't have

634
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: to stop. You don't have to stay at home with them.

635
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: I had the option, Thank you Lord God that they

636
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: are successful, that I could say, don't want my kids,

637
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: but I didn't have to do that. I could have

638
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: kept going, but I didn't want to. I didn't want

639
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: to be I don't. I didn't know what type of

640
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: parent I would be and I was sitting parent. Given

641
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: that option, I would rather have been with and that's

642
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: what I chose. Right, did you? Did you have good

643
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: people around you? Because we saw like a lot of things,

644
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: Like you said, we didn't know you were going through.

645
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: You know, you had like this drug addiction problem. Like

646
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 1: you said, you didn't even want to really be around

647
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: other women. You had a real small circle. So did

648
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: you hide things from people? And I absolutely did? But um,

649
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,959
Speaker 1: a lot of my issues happened after my mother passed away,

650
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: So my mom's father were direct immediate help since birth

651
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: of my children, my first child, so um, after she

652
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 1: passed while I was carrying Neil, my youngest. That took

653
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: a toll on me over the years. I mean, something

654
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: you learned to deal with, but something you never quite

655
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: I don't want to say except because I'm still working

656
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: on that. But I guess if you have your good

657
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: nitch of your bad days, and if you are as

658
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: close to a parentness I was my mom, it's quite tremendous.

659
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: It's take you. And I'm so happy to have seeing

660
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: myself and the strength that I possessed because I overtame

661
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: that in which I saw takedown and still taking down

662
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 1: many of my family members, and I'm pray for the God.

663
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, child, it's a lot that happening over

664
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: all these years. Right, How do you feel about dating

665
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: now and getting married again? Because I remember you had

666
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 1: said a couple of years ago you don't want to

667
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 1: get married again. Did you change your mind? I truly

668
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: regret that I said forty five, child, she's about to

669
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: be there. I'm like, why did I say, Because I truly, honey,

670
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: when she's single, she's sing down a woman who I

671
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: always say, I do need a man. I don't take

672
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: that as something that I shouldn't say. I love the

673
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: part the ship and the love of teamwork and just

674
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: somebody have your back like my whenever I'm in love,

675
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 1: like it's usually someone who is initially my best friend.

676
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: So I and I love you and I missed that,

677
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: like of course, even though before, like you said, I

678
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: wasn't so sure and I didn't think I ever would.

679
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: But I really want love again, and it's just in

680
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: me and you know it'll come when it come. Though

681
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: I m T was looking at de Yeah, I was

682
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: about to say that hild you nowadays? Is it? Is

683
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: it through the d M. Yes, a lot of men

684
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: and not just um this period because I'm a real

685
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: I caught myself a real rat. So I go to

686
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: a lot of real, low key spots, and I've noticed

687
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: I seem to be somewhat intimidating anyway to any kind

688
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: of man. I know, get a lot of approaches lest

689
00:36:55,480 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: this dude is really feeling it's the muster ups to

690
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: approach me. And then I'm just like really free spirited.

691
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've money anybody gave anybody, could anybody? Could

692
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: I send the number? But yeah, I'm single, so I'm like,

693
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: I can't wait to be in love again. Would you

694
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: approach your guy? Absolutely? What if you make more than him?

695
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: With that att it to you? If you knew the

696
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: list that I have had these last few years, they

697
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: literally have had to have Nathan not a thing. But

698
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: now at the end of the day, I feel like,

699
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: if it's really if I'm feeling appreciated in a way

700
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 1: that's not monetary, I am absolutely fine and being my spirit,

701
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: you know, bring me some kind of joint peace and

702
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: it it doesn't matter what you make. No, but do

703
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: you have a like a funk buddy, you know what

704
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody that you might be able to call up?

705
00:37:55,920 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: Are you like fell Avant right now? The freaking probably spending?

706
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 1: But um, I haven't called him now. I didn't mean

707
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: to say, like, just know, got options? Okay? Where my

708
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 1: older female friend, one of my best friends, said, I'm

709
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: in like a vortex. She said, it happens at a

710
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: certain age where you kind of even though you like

711
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: how I say, I'm single, I don't care, I'm you know,

712
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: it's you be like, I don't know, No, I need

713
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: to know if I like him, and that didn't happen

714
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: to me. So, um, I'm kind of there now, So

715
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: I'm kind of I'm not even looking at that list

716
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: of I'm not even I don't have the desire I'm

717
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: looking for more. I guess. Yeah, you have a very

718
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: strong personality too, So what kind of guys do you

719
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 1: gravitate toward? Right, because sometimes you need somebody that's like,

720
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: what kind of guys do you like personality wise? Would

721
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: you say is an ideal man? How about outer type? Definitely? No, honey,

722
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: they look like I give me the rainbow. But I

723
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: think people have a hard time and maybing you kind

724
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: of like you and someone else like aggressive dudes. It's

725
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: like that too, But I also like dudes who people

726
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 1: might call lame or corney but he got that in

727
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: him or whatever, or maybe he only showed it in

728
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: certain people like But overall, I like somebody I guess

729
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: confident and it comes out in a lot of different ways,

730
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: and that makes me feel I think the woman in

731
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,399
Speaker 1: me safe and protected with you. So I don't look

732
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: at it as a problem per se. It's it's you know,

733
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: misdirected anger or something. And you like the bunch of wis,

734
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: I don't have nothing them, but at sometimes undissected anger

735
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: will you know, be destructive or it can be used

736
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: and just you know, I'm getting ish done. I don't

737
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 1: know if I can curts on here, Yeah ahead, because

738
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: we're about to say you all kind of stuff right now.

739
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: I'd like aggressively, what about it? What about a guy

740
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: that's like, just come here and said, on my face,

741
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: you ain't even gotta do nothing. Just let me eat

742
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: it right, Okay, where don't you don't gotta xplice? I'm

743
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: sitting So I'm really not big into oral I'd like

744
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: to give, but not get because I'm extremely sensitive. I

745
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: guess you could say I don't need a lot of help.

746
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: I get orgasm very very easily and very quick. That

747
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: sounds good, perfect oral sex. I don't necessarily need it

748
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 1: or desired. I want to just get to it or

749
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: I can do so. If he says he doesn't eat pussy,

750
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: are okay with that? He would never have to and

751
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,399
Speaker 1: you put you in stuck his dextel, you'll be okay

752
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: with that? What about so listen? As sensitive as you are,

753
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 1: I assume you squirt. Yeah, that's what I'm assuming. Can

754
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: you keep going though? Because I know some some women

755
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: want to stay square? It's kind of like, all right,

756
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: you gotta get away from me, away all of your power.

757
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: I've had it happened, and then it'll be a long

758
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: one and then it's like you have to keep going

759
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: the it didn't to be bump bump bump, or didn't

760
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 1: be again, or just a big long there, or just

761
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: like I've had like a dynamic of things. How is

762
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: getting hit and all that scientific? But um, you know

763
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: I've reacted in multiple ways. What about the remember the

764
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: first time? Did you know what it was? No? I

765
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: had no idea. I never seen that or heard of

766
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: that too. I told me, were you embarrassed? Yeah? So

767
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 1: for many years of my life I went through do

768
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: I tell dudes that just in case they don't like

769
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: that and they'll know before we get sexual. So I

770
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: went that back. Then I noticed some dudes was turned

771
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: off by it, so I'm like, let me not even

772
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: say that. Then I noticed I won't with for whatever reason,

773
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: so I'm like, say that, and then I don't. It's like, girl,

774
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: you or it's been now out tell duds now pretty

775
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: much because it definitely gonna happen, and I want to

776
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: know if you would be okay with it the project

777
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, yeah, I didn't tell you that,

778
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, well, I don't know many that's

779
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 1: like I don't really. I was about to say what

780
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 1: man says, Uh, has been the worst reaction that you

781
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: got from a guy when you squirt it on him? Um,

782
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say this was that bad, but this was

783
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: the worst. He was just shocked and almost scared. Yeah,

784
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: that's hilarious. I could just to me, it's like a

785
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: holes pushing him back, and that's not like a thing.

786
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: It pushes them out sometimes. Yeah, I can't do this,

787
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: so I've never done that and did not say a

788
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: right lord? But yeah, what about if you can't you

789
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: square it when you mascurbate? Yep, oh you good girl.

790
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: I can't. I need a man to make me squirt

791
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: really turned on though, like like you have to be extreme.

792
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: It's not well I take that back, No, my goodness

793
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: you squirt. But and he was supposed to be a

794
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 1: porn star. You missed your calling, you really did. Where

795
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: is his only fast squirt page? And thank you boy?

796
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: What about do you like when guys come a lot?

797
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: Like if you're giving oral? Do you like when it's

798
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: a lot? Yes? Lord? Are you gonna follow? Or do

799
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: you spit it out? Oh? You should already know. She's

800
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: like I'm going down gargling. Unless sometimes they don't him.

801
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: I was like something that they're like funky spunk, I

802
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: just coming in your head. Whatever you gotta do to

803
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,919
Speaker 1: not put that in your girl? But would you tell

804
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: him all right? Sometimes the texture? Will you gotta change

805
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: your diet? Sir? That part, that's what you gotta tell him.

806
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: Got just talk the sperience? Yeah? What about younger guys?

807
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: Oh my lamb, I was in the trap where your

808
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: ask ball like almost a ten year period the trap

809
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: He I'm very I guess young actors. I guess some

810
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: people I don't know on it, but I've been attracting

811
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 1: twentysomethings but so really so, um, I'm kind of getting

812
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: out of that face. I noticed I've changed a lot,

813
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: and um, I guess I'm mature, so they're not still

814
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: approached me, um thinking I'm not my age. But other

815
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: than that, it's definitely been more older me. I just

816
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: know that. Okay, So what about that old dead man?

817
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: Like what are you more attracted to younger? Older? It

818
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: has been quite an experience for me on both ends

819
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: of the spectrum. So it is really depending upon that man.

820
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: Have you have you ever had geriatric penis like old penis?

821
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: It depends on it depends on this old uh with

822
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: same almost twenty years older than me, like R Kelly, No,

823
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I want because I know you

824
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 1: worked with him. Did he ever try to talk to you? Yes?

825
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 1: He did, he did? And did like did you tell someone?

826
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: Or like did you just get away from me to say? All?

827
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: The thing is in the industry being a young little

828
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: girl or young female And I'm sorry, I see a

829
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 1: little girl. Because the industry is filled with men. It's

830
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: more what dominant my So you everybody tried to talk

831
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: to you girl like every like yes they all yes

832
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: they didn't. That doesn't mean anything. So but I was

833
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: trying to say, I don't actually know her. Killers Hey,

834
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: so maybe I have been with a man in the agent,

835
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: but I don't know how right? How old does he?

836
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: Does anyone known he's in his fifties, like fifty three

837
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: or four? Right? Is he? Isn't he older man? In

838
00:45:55,880 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: my thirties, so maybe five years old. It's not not

839
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: not much that you're not trying to well chair and

840
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: they go around. I would thought I she caregiver for real.

841
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: She likes to take care of man because she likes to.

842
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: Oh that's I think another reason why the twenty somethings

843
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: was liking me. They want him m yeah, you know

844
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: do that. It's in my nature, right. I was doing

845
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: it for myself when we was younger. She pumped me

846
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: so hard like Lord a Mercy. I was giving her

847
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: foot massage and bringing her food. I've just always been

848
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: a part of who I am. I love to take

849
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 1: care of people, and I'm just loving I guess, but yeah,

850
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 1: take care of you, right, I don't know. I think

851
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: for so many years now I've taken care of myself.

852
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: It's almost where I have nothing in me that desires

853
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: anyone else to do it for someone, you know. But

854
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: I think that's a true sign of when you'll know

855
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: you really love somebody when you let them allow them

856
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: to take care of you, because that's the best feeling, right.

857
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: And I've had to learn that, as in learning how

858
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: to be a friend. My friends, my family and I

859
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: had been a source for so long, you know, used

860
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: me to like call me and cry. It's saying like,

861
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: for instance, when I was doing my druggle, like you said,

862
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: I blocked people out. I didn't invite my friends into

863
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: what I was struggling with my pain, and um, I

864
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: should have and now I learned to do that act.

865
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: I probably called him and tell them too much, tell

866
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: everybody too much. But what helped you out of that? Nivia?

867
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? What helped you out of your addiction? My children? Child?

868
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: I was like, damgn you really gonna do this to them?

869
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: I was scared that I had went too far, like

870
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to die, you know, I don't want

871
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: to Oh it's not funny, but I'm seeing like that

872
00:47:55,360 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: she's crazy, like like I wan to be fat. But

873
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: then you just made me laugh, so I don't know

874
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: what I laugh. I am so surprised that your personality.

875
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: I love it. Not many people can't laugh now and

876
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 1: say I overcame this. They take people out. I'm celebrating

877
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: every day. You should. I you're doing this show man

878
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: because we needed to see you now. I love Yeah.

879
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: You know, we've been wanting to have you on live service,

880
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: and I feel like as the new show, as Encore continues,

881
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: we gotta do something in person clean. I'm thinking y'all

882
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: talk kind like. I love all y'all. Oh, I love

883
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 1: your ladies. Thank you all for having me. It was awesome. Yeah,

884
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: we need We're gonna do Yeah, we're gonna do this.

885
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: What's the show starts? So we I'm daning something here

886
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: in Atlanta? Yeah right, but Niba, is there any last

887
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 1: words you want to give us? Because we are gonna

888
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: do a part two? So this is it's gonna be fun. Well,

889
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm working on some music now fine guess oh um,

890
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: and a lot of other things I want to do

891
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: in the music in entertainment industry period, and so I

892
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,320
Speaker 1: just want to say, keep looking out for it, and

893
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: thank you all for having me and watch the Encore

894
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: BT Presents The Encore. We definitely thank you, Thank y'all.

895
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: Bye bye girl. Hey, I love her,