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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Double Show. Crystal is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been dating her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend Bryce for over a year now. They live together,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Hey, Crystal,

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Speaker 2: why do you think that Bryce might be cheating?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, thanks for having me. Yeah, so,

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Speaker 3: my uh my boyfriend Bryce, he goes on a lot

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Speaker 3: of business trips, right, and every time he comes back,

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Speaker 3: he comes with new clothes like that aren't like clothes

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Speaker 3: that seem like he just bought them, you know, like

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Speaker 3: they seem worn in, but clothes that don't that we

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Speaker 3: don't have it at our place, And he doesn't want

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Speaker 3: to be intimate the first few days that he's back,

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Speaker 3: which just seems like really sketchy to me.

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Speaker 1: And ever since.

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Speaker 3: We started dating, I knew that he would be traveling

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Speaker 3: a lot.

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Speaker 1: And it wasn't really a big deal. Like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we both took our work pretty seriously.

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Speaker 3: And he travels like every other week, and sometimes it's

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Speaker 3: a couple of days and sometimes it's for the whole week.

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Speaker 3: He works in sales. I don't know if I if

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Speaker 3: I mentioned that, but yeah, and like he used to

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Speaker 3: just be so excited to see me when he got back,

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Speaker 3: and like, you know, we would always be intimate, like

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Speaker 3: he couldn't keep his hands off me, and he used

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Speaker 3: to like check in more with.

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Speaker 1: Me while he was on the road.

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Speaker 3: And now it's like way less frequent and I can't

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Speaker 3: get a hold of him. Like it's just there's so

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Speaker 3: many seemingly red flags here.

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Speaker 4: Do you think it's like the evolution of the relationship.

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Speaker 5: You know, in the beginning, it's always like, oh, I

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Speaker 5: can't wait see you, and then it just kind of

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Speaker 5: is like, Okay, well I trust you. We don't need

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Speaker 5: to talk every five minutes. Like is it kind of

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Speaker 5: that or do you feel like it's more than that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's more than that.

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Speaker 3: Something in my gut tells me it's more than just

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Speaker 3: like you know, being out of the honeymoon phase.

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Speaker 2: Like, so, you guys have been together for a year

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Speaker 2: over a year. How long has this been going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's hard to like track exactly. I mean, he's

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Speaker 3: been traveling the whole time we've been together. But I

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Speaker 3: it's gotten weirder.

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Speaker 4: So back to that coming back with new clothes. Is

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Speaker 4: he a thrifter? Huh No.

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Speaker 3: I'll even ask him like, oh, I haven't seen that

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Speaker 3: be like, oh, yeah, you know, like he just kind

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Speaker 2: If he's anything like me, he doesn't pack things or

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Speaker 2: loses things and then has to buy new stuff on

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Speaker 4: Is he like that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yes, but like again, these don't seem like new clothes.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he's like Warren stuff. I think we're all in

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Speaker 4: agreement that there's a little bit of a flag going

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Speaker 4: on here. Yeah, it does seem true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Do you know where he goes when he goes on

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Speaker 4: his work trips?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I feel like most of I mean,

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Speaker 3: he's in sales, so he's like, you know, doing a

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Speaker 1: So he's like all over the place.

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Speaker 2: Nice he Ever, do you know anything about his past relationships?

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Speaker 2: Is he ever cheated before or been honest about that?

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Speaker 3: To my knowledge, he has not, Like because that would

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Speaker 1: Of going into if I knew that someone had a

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Speaker 5: Sure, everything else in your relationship is fine other than

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Speaker 5: those first couple of days when he comes back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I feel like after those few couple of

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Speaker 3: into a rhythm, but then he's traveling again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, you told us what grocery store.

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Speaker 2: He's a rewards card member, so we'll do the usual

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Speaker 2: and call and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 2: and tell him that every single month, we choose one

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Speaker 2: from our floor old department, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 2: sends those to you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Plays, I'll come back and then call him and see

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Speaker 2: if we can catch him with to ketch a cheater.

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Speaker 4: Right after this, it's.

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Speaker 1: Time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show and only on the new

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Speaker 2: Hits one oh six point.

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Speaker 4: One off to Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: Crystal is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend of one year named Bryce might be cheating. So

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Speaker 2: in just a minute, we're about to call him and

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Speaker 2: pretend to be from the grocery store where he's a

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Speaker 2: Rewards Card member and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 2: choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: to anybody that they want. Will seev sends them to

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Speaker 2: her or to somebody else in just a second. But first, Crystal,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your situation?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So, Bryce and I live together.

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Speaker 3: We've been together for over a year and living together

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Speaker 3: for the past six or so months.

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Speaker 1: And he travels a lot for work because he.

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Speaker 3: Works in sales, and whenever he comes back from his trips,

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Speaker 3: like he seems to have like new clothes on or

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Speaker 3: like in his bag that I haven't seen before, and

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Speaker 3: he doesn't want to be intimate with me for like

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Speaker 3: the first few days that he's back, and it just

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Speaker 4: Okay, and it's definite change in behavior.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, this is Jorden calling from So I was

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Speaker 2: looking for a Rewards Card member named Bryce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 4: Bryce.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling to tell you congratulations. Here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I mean, what did I give certificate?

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Speaker 3: Or what?

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Speaker 1: What's the deal?

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Speaker 2: Maybe you aren't aware, but every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one Rewards Card member to say thank you very much

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Speaker 2: for being such a loyal customer and for shopping with

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Speaker 2: us by giving them free flowers delivered straight from our

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Speaker 2: floral department to anybody that they want in the entire

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Speaker 2: United States of America. You just want thirty six long

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Speaker 2: stem red roses, a box of candy, and a card

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Speaker 2: to be delivered to anybody that you want.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I assume that comes with a vase.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it does.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you know who you want to send them

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Speaker 2: to right now, I can take the information in just

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Speaker 2: a couple of minutes over the own.

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Speaker 6: Actually, good, Tyler, I got a good I got a

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Speaker 6: good solid five minutes.

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Speaker 4: Great, all right, well let's hop to it.

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Speaker 2: Then if you just the name of the person you

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Speaker 2: want to send them to, and then what you would

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Speaker 2: want to put on a card, and then I'll get

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Speaker 2: the address last all right? Yeah, first would be the

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Speaker 2: first and last name of the person.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I got you, Meredith.

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Speaker 4: Anything you want to put on a card for Meredith?

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Speaker 6: Uh, let me think, uh uh, maybe like to my wife.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry. I have to I have

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Speaker 1: to cut you off. I have to cut you off.

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Speaker 1: This is Crystal. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: You did you just say wife? I'm hearing you correctly.

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Speaker 3: You said Meredith.

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Speaker 1: Did your wife?

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Speaker 4: This is actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 2: We do a thing where we try to catch people

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Speaker 2: cheating by saying where they'll send flowers, and that is

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend, Crystal. I'm gonna go ahead and let's take

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Speaker 2: you back out conversation.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, I'm having a you're what what's happening right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: How can you not understand that you have a wife

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Speaker 3: and I'm your girlfriend? Like?

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Speaker 1: Is it when did you get married? Was that not

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Speaker 1: something you thought I should know? Crystal?

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry this you're I'm like, this is a thousand

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what's happening.

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Speaker 6: My head is spinning.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. Okay, don't play this phone call. And

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Speaker 1: you're on the phone here, You're you're playing dumb.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know what our relationship is, and clearly you

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Speaker 1: Oh God, Crystal.

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Speaker 6: I I didn't want to have to talk about this

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Speaker 6: but five years ago, but I was separated when I

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Speaker 6: not know I was going to fall for you. And

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Speaker 6: the relationship with you and I have is a real thing.

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Speaker 6: I just did not know. And I'm constantly.

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Speaker 4: Why are you sending flowers to your wife?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 6: Because I have been spending more time in Arizona with

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Speaker 6: Meredith and I have been kind of living this this

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Speaker 6: double This sucks, dude. I can't believe this.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this sucks for you. Hello, I'm the victim here.

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Speaker 1: Let's not let's not play the victim.

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Speaker 6: I know I did not know what was happening, and

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Speaker 6: then I needed distance from her, and then you and

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Speaker 6: I started obviously working out, which gave me like distance

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Speaker 6: And then in the last few months, I guess that

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Speaker 6: I have been with her and.

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Speaker 1: Connecting with her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that's where you've been going to Arizona to

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Speaker 3: be with your wife that I didn't know existed. And

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Speaker 3: that's why when you come back you have new clothes.

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Speaker 1: And you don't want to have sex at that right,

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Speaker 1: just making sure I have that right, yes, okay, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: if this is a situation.

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Speaker 3: Then I'm going to send you a bill for half

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Speaker 3: of our rent for the last eight months, and you're

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Speaker 3: gonna pay it, and honestly, I'm going to block your number.

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Speaker 1: I never want to hear from you again. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you for showing me who you really are. Jesus.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Crystal.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. No, no, I don't want to hear that.

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Speaker 1: That's that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: I hung up on him, Crystal, so he's gone now,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Oh my gosh, that's ridiculous. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: No, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess you got your questions answered and now

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Speaker 2: you can move on and remember in your future relationships,

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Speaker 2: somebody being married and having a whole nother life is

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Speaker 2: pretty rare.

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Speaker 4: So that's true.

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Speaker 2: You know, I mean, obviously, protect yourself, but try to

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Speaker 2: do your best.

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Speaker 4: To make this situation this situation moving forward. It'll be hard, but.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and I know you don't want to hear this,

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Speaker 5: and I know you already know, but the Internet is

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Speaker 5: your best friend, is it? Sometimes I wonder why people

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Speaker 5: are always doing background searches.

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Speaker 4: Oh hello, that makes more sense. Well, sorry, let us

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Speaker 4: know if you need anything. Okay, I'm sorry. You have

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Speaker 4: some peace, all right?

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Good luck

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