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Speaker 1: First day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocateslad dot com.

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Speaker 2: Madison is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 2: Daniel that she really likes. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we'll call him and see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another day. But first, Madison,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Daniel?

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Speaker 3: It's been a week?

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Speaker 4: A week?

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Speaker 1: Cool?

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, okay, have you tried to reach out to

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Speaker 5: him in the week?

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Speaker 4: I have.

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Speaker 3: I am not texted.

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Speaker 1: And so we met at the gym and I've been

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Speaker 1: hitting the gym same time we always did, and he's

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Speaker 1: not been there.

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Speaker 3: And I finally I swore my girls at the desk.

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Speaker 1: I was like hey, and she's like, yeah, he's been

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Speaker 1: coming in real early lately.

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Speaker 3: I just don't get it, Like do you need to

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Speaker 3: avoid you?

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Speaker 1: It's got to be right, And I don't understand why,

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Speaker 1: because like we met there obviously right and worked out together.

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Speaker 1: Like I was filming one day and I was like,

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Speaker 1: is that dude watching me?

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Speaker 3: But he was?

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Speaker 1: He was so hot. I was like, so I did

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Speaker 1: the thing. I was like, hey, do you know how

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Speaker 1: like can.

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Speaker 3: You help me with my form?

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Speaker 1: So he came over and we started working out together

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Speaker 1: and then he finally asked me if I wanted to

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Speaker 1: go out, like outside the gym, and I was like yes.

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Speaker 3: He went all out. It was an amazing night. Took

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Speaker 3: me to this rooftop place.

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Speaker 1: This was beautiful, like oyster champagne the whole night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like supervibing everything. It was just unreal. I've never

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Speaker 3: never had it like that with a dud before.

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Speaker 1: So we moved from the table to the bar and

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Speaker 1: we're throwing back cocktails and getting handsy and I mean

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Speaker 1: it was it was the night.

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Speaker 3: And then we were trying to figure out like neither.

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Speaker 1: One of us wanted to leave, and he finally was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to go back to my place?

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Speaker 3: And I was I was glad he asked because I

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Speaker 3: was about to ask Okay, but yeah, I'm not usually

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Speaker 3: like that, but like, oh my gosh, that everything was

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Speaker 3: just perfect this night.

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Speaker 6: We hooked up like all over everywhere, kitchen, counter, couch, wow,

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Speaker 6: and yeah, it was amazing.

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Speaker 3: He's like butterflies, dude. So that's why I'm so I'm like,

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Speaker 3: what what happened? I texted him I had to leave.

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Speaker 1: After he fell asleep and I get to the car

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Speaker 1: and you know, I sent him this hot text included

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Speaker 1: a picture and was like, Hey, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't wait to see you again. And I haven't heard

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Speaker 3: from him since.

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Speaker 5: So how was so he was super into it too.

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Speaker 5: Did anything weird happen on the date like that would

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Speaker 5: have made it awkward or would have changed anything.

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Speaker 1: The only thing I can think of is, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I threw my phone on the floor when we got

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Speaker 1: into his bedroom and it was kind of like on

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Speaker 1: the side where he was. And after midnight, I got this,

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Speaker 1: like I got a reminder, like a calendar reminder and

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Speaker 1: it said date with Chris, and I was like, I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's you know, he picked it up

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Speaker 1: and I know he saw it, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I can feel that, you know.

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Speaker 3: And then we got right back to things. And that

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Speaker 3: was the only thing I can think of. Like I've

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Speaker 3: been racking my brain because I might was.

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Speaker 1: It was a perfect night, Like everything was just perfect.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know how I'm getting ghosted.

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Speaker 5: A reminder about another person is kind of awkward. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so you might be onto something there, but or did

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Speaker 5: he just like get it? And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was I thought it was just like a you know,

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Speaker 1: One and done thing at the phone and you know,

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Speaker 1: tossed it back down and then we got back to it.

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Speaker 3: So I don't, you know, he didn't act wear in

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: What I did or said or or what I just

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Speaker 6: I really love to see him again, Like would.

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Speaker 3: I love to see him again?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you guys. Yep, get your first day follow

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Speaker 4: up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named daniel So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see fields house why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But

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Speaker 2: before we do that, Madison, why don't you refresh our

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Speaker 2: memory on your date?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Danielle, And then at the gym, we were like

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Speaker 1: getting along super well.

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Speaker 3: He played this like amazing night.

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Speaker 6: For a oyster champagne. We hooked up multiple times. Send

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Speaker 6: him a hot text, I laughed, and I haven't heard

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Speaker 4: Okay, you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: I am all right?

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Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Daniel please.

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Speaker 4: This is him.

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Speaker 2: Hey Daniel, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Daniel, I'm Nina also on the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Cool.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?

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Speaker 7: I've heard of you, guys. I think a couple of times,

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Speaker 7: but yeah, I don't listen to you all the time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: actually emailed us about you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So we do a segment on the show. It's

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Speaker 4: called the first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them?

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Speaker 2: All right, So we got an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty weird.

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Speaker 4: Are you ghosting anybody?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what classifies as ghosting?

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Speaker 7: But is her name.

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Speaker 3: Madison by Chance? Yes, well, that's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: She'd be calling you guys, Okay, why she's a cheater

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Speaker 2: to say the least.

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Speaker 4: Oh what, Yeah, she was over my house.

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Speaker 7: Her little phone dinged off and it said date with

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Speaker 7: Chris or whatever. She told me it was some other

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Speaker 7: guy she was dating and she was going to cancel

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Speaker 7: it or something like that. And when she left, I

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Speaker 7: went on her social media accounts and looked up if

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Speaker 7: she was seeing somebody. Yeah, she's married to a dude

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Speaker 7: named Chris. Yeah, that was with her husband. She's married.

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Speaker 7: I'm not really about that kind of thing. So I

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Speaker 7: don't know why she's calling you that.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I guess that would be a

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Speaker 2: reason to go somebody if you find out they're married.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's in an open relationship.

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Speaker 7: Oh well you would tell me about that, right, shouldn't

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Speaker 7: I be aware of that?

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Speaker 3: So I'm not this side piece.

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Speaker 7: Look, I've been cheated on before. I'm not really about

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Speaker 7: that kind of life.

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Speaker 3: I don't like women who cheat on their men.

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Speaker 7: And uh yeah, that's kind of where I'm at on

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Speaker 7: the whole situation. She should have told me if I'm

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Speaker 7: some kind of like weird piece in their you know,

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Speaker 3: I should have been aware of that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, thanks for telling us.

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Speaker 2: I'll also tell you that Madison is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: She's been listening.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why would why would you go on my social

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Speaker 3: media and dig everything to ask?

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Speaker 7: You're being pretty sloppy about the whole thing, Like you're

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Speaker 7: lucky I didn't just text message christ and just let

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Speaker 7: them know what the hell's going on or send them

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Speaker 7: a message on whatever. I mean, that's pretty sloppy on

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Speaker 7: your part. You know, you didn't even tell me what

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Speaker 7: was going on. I should have probably known, right.

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Speaker 3: Why why are you bringing Christen to this? You didn't

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Speaker 3: need to know any of this. I'm not cheating.

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Speaker 6: I'm enjoying my life.

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Speaker 3: Like, why dude, it tell me you didn't have an

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Speaker 3: amazing night?

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Speaker 7: I okay, that is completely not the damn point. Does

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Speaker 7: your husband know you're out here baying other dudes?

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Speaker 3: Why does that matter? Like, it's not about me? This

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Speaker 3: is about you and me.

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Speaker 7: Well, when you're seeing somebody you care about their integrity

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Speaker 7: and their willingness to just turn around and screw on

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Speaker 3: That shows who they are on the inside, you know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: So, yeah, that's why, that's why it's important.

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Speaker 3: You're getting so deep. Like I'm not trying to like

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Speaker 3: have you pay my bills. I just want I just

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Speaker 3: want to hook up like that. I thought that's what

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Speaker 3: we were doing.

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Speaker 7: There's another guy on the end of this, and I've

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Speaker 7: been that other guy before, and I don't want to

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Speaker 3: Do you like that?

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Speaker 7: And if I'm participating in it, then I'm equally a

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Speaker 7: part of it, and I'm not going to do that.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to say.

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Speaker 1: How's he gonna hurt if he doesn't know nothing to

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Speaker 3: This is an ab situation.

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Speaker 2: Not like I'll ask the question, Daniel, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go out with Madison again on another date?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 3: No, I think she's nuts. Absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: We're good. We we hung out together one time, did

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Speaker 7: a few squads.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 7: Let's call it.

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Speaker 3: Were good.

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Speaker 4: We're good.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Madison, you don't get another date there?

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Speaker 1: I know the least now I know, But like, can

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Speaker 1: we still like work out together?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: First you follow up