1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo clo. Are you 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: read day? 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, yes? 4 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: All right, here we go Alton in Greensboro. Alton writes, 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: my friend said he had an emotional affair with my fiance. 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 1: My fiance claims they only talked a few times after 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: we had a bad argument. I ended the friendship because 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: my friend was more at fault. But can I trust 9 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: that my fiance is telling the truth? 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 2: Wow? 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? For luck? 12 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: Surely his friend told him I had an emotional. 13 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 3: Affair with your with your fiance. 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: That's weak I had. 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 4: Hey, man, I had an emotional affair. Now I already 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 4: know the only reason it was emotional affair because it 17 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 4: ain't go no. 18 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: Further right, nothing physical happened. 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 4: Now, Okay, So then after he told after he told 20 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 4: the guy that what happened, then Shirley. 21 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: Then his fiance told him that they only talked a 22 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: few times after they had a bad argument. So he 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: and his fiance had a bad argument. Then she told 24 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: her fiance that it was just a few times. But 25 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: you know, you and I had this really bad argument. 26 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: So I guess that was supposed to justify it. 27 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so she's trying. 28 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: To Yeah, well, yeah, I'm through with both of them. 29 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, because he can't. Now he's asking, can't he even 30 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: trust his fiance? 31 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: See? 32 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 4: You know, I mean if you run to a man 33 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 4: to talk it over every time we have a fallout, 34 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 4: if you ain't got no girlfriends? 35 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: Heah, yeah, man, because that's normally. Yeah, I call my girl. 36 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 2: We had some wine. They came over. Okay, cool, I 37 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 2: got that. Yeah. 38 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 4: I called your boy and we was talking. But then 39 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 4: he told it intimately. Yeah, brother, let me tell you something. 40 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 4: Y'all need to get you need to get rid of 41 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 4: everybody because it's emotional affair. 42 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: What was What was that all about? Though? 43 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 3: Kind of intimate? You know, I would think, yeah. 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: So what would you do? How would you well, I 45 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: would do that to you. I would do it to 46 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 2: you like this, would you hold me? Yeah? 47 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: Very tight? 48 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, okay, yeah, I know what this was. 49 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 2: Now both y'all going right? 50 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 3: All right? Okay? 51 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: Moving on to Aaron and Tulsa. Aaron writes, I'm a 52 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: single mom of fourteen year old son that's having sex already. 53 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: His dad talked to him and he gave our son condoms. 54 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: It's like giving him permission to have sex. It's not okay, 55 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: how do I get my son to enjoy his teen 56 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: years and stop rushing to be a man. 57 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 2: It's too late. 58 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 4: It's too late. Once you bite that out, that is young. 59 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 4: Once you picked the cherry. Yeah, once you peel the orange, 60 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 4: peel it. 61 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: I'm Tommy, Okay. 62 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 4: So Steeve, I'm just telling you, once he's done that, 63 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 4: all his daddy can do not is get these condoms. 64 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 3: Okay, let me ask you this celo. 65 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: Did his daddy get him the condoms after he found 66 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: out the son was having sex at fourteen? 67 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: Or did he prepare him early? 68 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: Yes? Either way? 69 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: Okay, fourteen is young though very fourteen is very young. 70 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's young, too young. 71 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 2: But see who he haveing is sex with? Yes? 72 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 4: See so, and ain't no need of doubling down on 73 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 4: the problem. Now, I know you wanted to have his 74 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: teenage years, but he didn't. 75 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: How do I put this to you? He didn't have started, Yes, started, 76 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: He didn't already choked the monkey? Mmmm? 77 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 3: What understood the other? 78 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: That's well, you don't know how you want to hear it? 79 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 4: I don't know, but that that he didn't already licked 80 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: the lizard? 81 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 2: What you want to say? Okay, Okay, I'm just explaining. Okay, 82 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 2: let me explain it to you like this. 83 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 4: It's a good thing that the dad has introduced him 84 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 4: to condoms because that can prevent a further problem. It's 85 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 4: already a problem that he having sex at fourteen, but 86 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 4: once that boy didn't had it, you can't. 87 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 2: You can't on, You can't put the. 88 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 4: You can't, yeah, the genie don't go back in about 89 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 4: you can't put the whipped cream back, and he can 90 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 4: once you pressed the Button's analogy. 91 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 2: To wild That's that's how powerful it is. 92 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: I think we should just move on. So it's too 93 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 3: late and. 94 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: You can't get the water. 95 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all these different analogies. All right, we're 96 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: moving on to Monroe. In pleasanton Monroe Rights, my wife 97 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: was gossiping about her friend's marriage, and I got pulled 98 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: in and I said, sounds like her husband is sick 99 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: of her. My wife quoted me on it, and now 100 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: I have to deal with her husband. My wife's gossiping 101 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: is out of control. What do I do? 102 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 103 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: You got pulled in? 104 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: Do you guys? Is that true? Though? 105 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes you guys get pulled into the gossip sometimes yeah, 106 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,119 Speaker 1: I can. 107 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, miney, look and then and then I answered, 108 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 4: be a snap. 109 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 3: Response, and that's what it sounds like. 110 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and that was it. But now he hit it. 111 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah in the kitchen. Oh he's sick of her. 112 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, well sounded like he tired of her. 113 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 3: And then your wife quotes you on that. So now 114 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 3: you've got to do. 115 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, hey man, what's something man you're telling? Hey man, 116 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: what what you tell your wife? I'm sick of my wife? 117 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: But you are? 118 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: You are? 119 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 3: Wow? 120 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: Well why did the wife's girlfriend go back and tell 121 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: her husband what? 122 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 2: Because she thought she was telling me some a male viewpoint? 123 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 3: You don't want you don't want to. 124 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: Oh oh so you sick of me? 125 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: Now? 126 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. 127 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: Okay, And at that particular moment, you do be talking 128 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 4: about I'm talking about good and sick of y'all. 129 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 3: So how does a husband fix it? He says? What 130 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 3: do I do? Is there anything? 131 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 4: Man? 132 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: From now? From now? 133 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 4: When you hear him talking, just lead all the room. Yes, 134 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 4: go get on your phone, go cut TV on, go 135 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 4: do something else. Don't just stay out of it, especially 136 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 4: because your wife real messing. 137 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what he says. It's out of control, her gossiping. 138 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: All right, that was that's pretty much it. 139 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: Stay out of it, guys, thank you. 140 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 2: Since last time. 141 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: You need to stop gossiping. Does he ever tell his 142 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: wife that to stop gossiping? 143 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 3: So much? Thank you, Celo. 144 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 145 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. 146 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 3: You're listening Hard Morning Show.