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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey everybody, I'm back and I'm Ben

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Speaker 1: and I'm actually and we are sitting in glen Brook.

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Speaker 1: Is this California, Nevada? This is Nevada? You say, Nevada? Nevada, Nevada, Nevada.

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Speaker 1: What do you think we have an audience here being

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Speaker 1: like you Okay, Nevada. It is from now on, We're

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Speaker 1: if you hear some background noise today, we actually are

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Speaker 1: sitting in a house on the lake because Ashley and

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Speaker 1: Jared we're kind enough to fly out to to Lake

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Speaker 1: Tahoe to watch me play in the American Century Championship.

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Speaker 1: Sorry what am I? Well? Amy is here too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So we have a group of people that came out. Um,

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Speaker 1: we're all kind of just relaxing and hang on the

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Speaker 1: house night because the championship just got done. Ben is

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Speaker 1: like exhausted. I'm actually like rubbing his face. He's just

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Speaker 1: so mellow. The dude has been up with what is

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Speaker 1: it like, five thirty six in the morning. It's this

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Speaker 1: is the craziest event. So anybody out there listening, We've

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Speaker 1: talked about it. I think prepping for for the termament

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Speaker 1: a couple of times. So this is a big deal

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Speaker 1: to me. And it's a celebrity golf term. There's ninety

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Speaker 1: three celebrities and and like that come out to Lake

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Speaker 1: Tahoe and we play five days of golf, three of

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Speaker 1: which our tournament play. The first tea times are about

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Speaker 1: seven o'clock in the morning, and so you want to

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Speaker 1: get to the course around at least six o'clock to

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Speaker 1: start eating breakfast, stretching, hitting golf ball. So for the

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Speaker 1: last five days I've been Yeah, why does stretching help golf?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm such a novice because it's it's an

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Speaker 1: athletic sport. You have to get your hips loose. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's big for your back. You want to get your

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Speaker 1: arms loose if you want to get twerk through the ball,

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Speaker 1: like twerk, like if you like you know, like when

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Speaker 1: you move your hips like really fast, the fast. Usual

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Speaker 1: word that people use that now they use an urban

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Speaker 1: terms like twerking. Yeah, so like I twerked my golf ball. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my golf swing is a lot of twerk in right,

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Speaker 1: And so yeah, we get there early and and there's

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Speaker 1: everybody at this tournament ranging from you know, Steph Curry

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Speaker 1: is a huge draw. Aaron Rodgers. Tony Romo won the

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Speaker 1: tournament today. Um, Charles Barkley, Jared and I saw him

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Speaker 1: getting his ball like, um, you know, in the sand

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Speaker 1: or whatever the other day and he did a really

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Speaker 1: great shot out of it and he was classic Tony Romo,

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Speaker 1: just like cheese in his arm. Yeah. I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I feel like I'm watching it really

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Speaker 1: is and this is what he lives in. And so

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Speaker 1: he's actually flying out tonight to Wisconsin to play thirty

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Speaker 1: six more hold of golf tomorrow for a tournament. The

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Speaker 1: guy loves golf now, Um, it's like the ultimate retirement sport. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and he's good at six retiree and I understand now

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Speaker 1: I retired. So there's just a ton of athletes out here. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: My dad caddied for me this afternoon. Um my mom

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Speaker 1: walked the course every day. We had a great time

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Speaker 1: and uh I got to play, I think. Uh So.

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Speaker 1: My first group was Tim Simmons from Veep. He's Jonah

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Speaker 1: and v Miles Teller, who I think is an up

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Speaker 1: but he's like a future Oscar winner. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: he's like I think he's he's if he's thirty one

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Speaker 1: of the up and coming best new actors. Is going

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Speaker 1: to be in the new Tough gu Oh yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: gonna be the new Top Gun, which is huge. I

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Speaker 1: cannot believe they're not recreating it's top gunting too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so he we were talking about today. They start filming

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Speaker 1: And for any of it out there listening, they don't

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Speaker 1: use a green screen. So he's taking flight lessons starting

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Speaker 1: the plane. Why they're filming, Like, this is all going

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Speaker 1: then Sean Payton, the coach of the New Orleans Saints.

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Speaker 1: I've always he's a great guy. Have no idea why

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Speaker 1: that he is like the cutest. I think he's cute. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then he shared a couple of stories. My dad,

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Speaker 1: when I told him about you play with Jim Acman,

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Speaker 1: a great story. Oh. I love Jim McMahon. I think

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Speaker 1: and like, at this tournament he pooped his pants on

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Speaker 1: But the best part about this story is that he

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Speaker 1: he doesn't care. Oh I'm sorry. Yeah, but so Jim

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Speaker 1: mcmanne's incredible Jared analogy. I just got to play with

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Speaker 1: some great guys. But then the whole tournament is full

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Speaker 1: want to come out and hang out and play golf,

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Speaker 1: compete against each other again. So this is a great event.

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Speaker 1: Thank you American Century for inviting me. I hope to

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Speaker 1: come back next year. Yeah, I hope you do too.

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Speaker 1: All the girls are freaking out over band on the

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Speaker 1: golf course, and you met Garrett today at the tournament.

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Speaker 1: So li's this. So the whole seventeen at the American

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Speaker 1: up the beach and their pontoons, the big party, loud music. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everybody out there listening, you can't yell at at this time.

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Speaker 1: This is a spoiler. We're going to have the contestant

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Speaker 1: a big land for us. This is a big interview.

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Speaker 1: We got a lot to break down with this guy.

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Speaker 1: It's really it's going to be crazy. It's a lot

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Speaker 1: a good bachelor for like that reason. I think America

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Speaker 1: I think it's just your grit and determination to make

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Speaker 1: please take it over. Okay, So I will read this

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Speaker 1: because we may want to tell Colton because obviously spoiler alert,

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Speaker 1: we already revealed that we have Okay, and there's some

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Speaker 1: inappropriate language in there. Our children here, So all right,

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Speaker 1: So this says last week there was mention of people

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Speaker 1: not believing Colton is a Virgin. I attended college at

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Speaker 1: Illinois State with Colton and Mistroity sisters go Kyo often

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Speaker 1: hung out with Colton and his friends the football team.

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Speaker 1: I can say firsthand that Colton is in fact a Virgin.

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Speaker 1: I have multiple hilarious stories of girlfriends attempting to claim

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Speaker 1: my girlfriends she calls her out by name, says, and

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Speaker 1: Colton knows be well, so we should mention says. She

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Speaker 1: lived next door to Colton. She drunkenly threw rocks at

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Speaker 1: his windows for an hour. Azing. That is amazing. This

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Speaker 1: is so juicy. Ben's looking at the looking at us

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Speaker 1: like this is not amazing. This is totally like, what

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Speaker 1: we just said a girl's name. They emailed it. They

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Speaker 1: don't seem to be hyo ky omega friend and Colton

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Speaker 1: not only is Colton a virgin, but he didn't drink

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Speaker 1: him again. I don't know, Colton, based on your face

425
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,439
Speaker 1: and personality, it's you're really You're somebody that even I

426
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: knew right off the bat when I interviewed you for

427
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: access that you were going to go far if you

428
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 1: go on the show, you're gonna go far. Well, to

429
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 1: be to be honest with you, it was either I

430
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 1: felt like I was going to far. I was going

431
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: to go home night one because Becca was going to

432
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: recognize me, oh from Tia. That's a good point. What

433
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: if she did? Because actually Becca, Becca casually saw me

434
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 1: FaceTime Tia one weekend. Um, while I was facetiming Tia,

435
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: Tia was with Becca and Florida. So like I've I

436
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 1: met her in Caroline via FaceTime very briefly, So like

437
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: I knew that she knew um, and Tia told me

438
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: that she told those two girls. But that was it,

439
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,640
Speaker 1: Like that was to the extent of it. That's so crazy,

440
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 1: That's what. That's what. But as you're saying, so so

441
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: all of this does get a little convoluted, it does

442
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: get a little weird, like we are touching the surface

443
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: of oddness here. But what you're saying is if if,

444
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: and tell me if I'm wrong. Colton, you and Tia

445
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: connected via social media. You had something, you had a spark,

446
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: You're interested. You knew that her possibility of being a

447
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 1: bachelor was was was high. But you guys were interested

448
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: each other enough to at least take a weekend away

449
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: today to have fun, to play around, to see where

450
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 1: it went. When you left that weekend, you knew that

451
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: you were still interested in Tea and you knew she

452
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: was still interested in you. Yet you also, the two

453
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: of you both knew that whatever was lying in your

454
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: future was something you wanted to pursue, one for the

455
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: possibility of love, but too because you just weren't sold

456
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: yet that you were each other's persons. And why would

457
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: you hold yourself back from a good opportunity when you

458
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: don't know for certain? Am I am? I right? That's

459
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: you just hit it right. Yeah, you hit the nail

460
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: right on the head with that. Okay, so leading now,

461
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: that's that's the pre that's the pre party to Now

462
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: Tia sitting down with Becca during this season of the

463
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: Bacherette and saying I still have feelings for for Colton?

464
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,199
Speaker 1: Was that shocking to you? Does that? Does that make sense?

465
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 1: I mean, for the fact you've only spent a weekend

466
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: together and you face time and texted for a month,

467
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: is that odd that Tia had strong enough feelings for

468
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 1: you to voice those too? Becca? During the season, I

469
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: was actually I was blindsided. Um. I was not expecting

470
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: that at all, and I thought that, I truly every

471
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: time I said, you know, I'm glad you know the

472
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: tea things in the past, because I thought it was

473
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: in the past um, I thought after we left that

474
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: spa day. I mean, you guys know how you know,

475
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: cutting um of it goes. You know, we we spent

476
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: all three of us, you know, spent time talking to

477
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: to one another, and we got it all out there

478
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: and we you know, we were all on the same

479
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: page and moving forward with it. So it was it

480
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: was a little shocking when I heard that she came

481
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: back to talk to Becca. Were you sad that your

482
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: future with Becca was ended because of Tia? You know,

483
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if we can can if we can

484
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: completely say my my future Rebecca was ended a hundred

485
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: percent on Tia. I'm sure that that was a heavy

486
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: portion of why my future Rebecca was ended. Um, So, yeah,

487
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: of course I was sad. I was disappointed. I was frustrated,

488
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 1: I was piste off. I had every emotion going through

489
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: me at that time, and I didn't know how to

490
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: process it. I mean, I think, I mean, you guys

491
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: watched the breakup. I was speechless. I I had nothing

492
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: to say because I was so caught off guard. And

493
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: I even I even had the conversation with Chris Harrison saying, like, hey,

494
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: what's going down in the fantasy this week? Because you know,

495
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: I can't wait to you know, have this conversation in

496
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 1: this alone time with Becca. I was already thinking next week, right.

497
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 1: Did they make you have that conversation with Chris Harrison

498
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: by the way, Um, I think it was a conversation

499
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: that I did want to have with somebody at some point,

500
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: and I was glad that I pulled Chris Harrison talk

501
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: about it, just because he's been in the game, you

502
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: know for a long time. Colton, when did you stop

503
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: talking to Tea after that weekend? When did you say, okay,

504
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 1: I've been officially cast it. I think we need to

505
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: put this to a hall. Um, I would say we

506
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: we we text after that weekend, and it was more

507
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: of just like on a friendship level of being like,

508
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: you know, hey, how are you doing? Catching up? You know,

509
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: we we stayed in contact, stayed face timing. Um. I

510
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: would say, all the way up about two weeks before filming,

511
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: and even then, like two days before filming, you know,

512
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: she texted me and said, hey, good luck, have a

513
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: great time. I'm jealous that you're gonna be around, you know,

514
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: the producers again. Tell them, you know, like it's sort

515
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: of being like, you know, hey, there those are my

516
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: friends too, so it was more of like a friendship

517
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: relationship after that weekend. It sounds like something I feel

518
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: like I've probably been part of before. It's like you're

519
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: hoping you're going to keep in touch because you're hoping

520
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: that the guys won't develop strong feelings for you, and

521
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: you're also not going to hold them back from other

522
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: opportunities because you know that that would sound ridiculously clingy,

523
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: especially for the point of the relationship you're at. Well, yeah,

524
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: and I mean that's the thing, like with with kids.

525
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't like, I don't falter, I'm not mad at her.

526
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: Um it was a little frustrating and it was very

527
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: confusing for me, uh to have her come back and

528
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: sort of play a part in my breakup just because

529
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: I was so focused on Becca that I wasn't even

530
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: thinking about her. And that's sort of where for me,

531
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: It's like, she has such strong feelings to come back

532
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: and risk her friendship with Becca and risk her image

533
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: to come pull me out of her relationship to try

534
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: to pursue me, and I'm not even thinking about her,

535
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 1: So like that's where for me, I was just like confused.

536
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: I was like, am I missing something. I mean, I

537
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: felt like we were on completely different pages. Why do

538
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: you think she seemed okay week three? But then she

539
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 1: came back a couple of weeks later. I was like,

540
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: guess what, not okay anymore? And then she was just

541
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: she was I don't want to say it was it

542
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: was lying, but maybe yeah, I mean, I mean yeah,

543
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: I mean I think a part of it was, I mean,

544
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: and a part of it was she didn't want to

545
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: like pull like she knew the experience and she didn't

546
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: want to pull me out of it. But I don't,

547
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, that's a that's a good

548
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: question for her. I mean, I think you could see

549
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: when she sat down with the girls, like Caroline even

550
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: said that she was, you know, texting her throughout the season,

551
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: and obviously I don't know that, um so something that

552
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: was on her mind constantly, but it wasn't online. You

553
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: know what. I have a theory this happens. I think

554
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: we all do it. She's trying to be the cool girl,

555
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: like she's trying to be Okay, I'm cool, I'm confident.

556
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm not the jealous person. Colden. You go and have fun,

557
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: do your thing, and then after some weeks it started

558
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: to mess with her a little bit. Social media is

559
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: blowing up over this. There's this is obviously controversial, said

560
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: that she was taking a social media break this week

561
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: because I think she's getting a lot of crap for

562
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: coming back and saying this now and not saying it

563
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: during week three. I have to say, I was watching

564
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: with Jared and he was like, oh my god, I

565
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: cannot believe this is happening. Can believe she's doing this now?

566
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, I agree with you completely, And

567
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: at the same time, I feel some sort of sympathy

568
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: for her because I can actually feel the ache in

569
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: her heart because she must have really liked you. And

570
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: it is hard to watch to watch the guy that

571
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: you like dating another friend on the show. It's a

572
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,239
Speaker 1: whole different thing that we don't have to experience in

573
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: real life, but you have to as part of the

574
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: Bachelor family. Yeah, but see that that that's where like

575
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: watching it. For me, the confusion came in because I

576
00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: spent you know too, I spent two months investing myself

577
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: clearly and fully in Tobecca and giving that relationship my

578
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: all and um, you know, being true to who I

579
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: was in the hard times too, stuff that I didn't

580
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: really even want to talk about. I talked about because

581
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: I knew I would strengthen our relationship. So for me,

582
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: that was where the confusion came in. When Beck and

583
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: I broke up. I was just sitting there, you know, like,

584
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: what am I missing something with Becan and eyes relationship.

585
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: That one conversation could, you know, sort of ruin what

586
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: we had for two months? Hey, Colden, We're gonna pause

587
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,680
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588
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,880
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607
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616
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: bought up. You're wrestling with something over there? Yeah, my bad,

617
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: my bad. Let's talk about something that only you and

618
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: I could truly bond over. How is last week for you?

619
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: Like how weird was it that America was talking about

620
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: your lack of experience in the bedroom. Well, I don't.

621
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: I don't know about your case exactly, But for me,

622
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: I think there's only about six, six or seven people

623
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: in my life that really knew that I was a

624
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: virgin before I went on that. I also, my dad

625
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: didn't know. I don't he didn't know for sure. No, honestly,

626
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: my dad didn't know. I think my mom had a

627
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: good idea. I hinted. I'm I'm very open with my

628
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: mom when it comes to like that kind of it

629
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: sounds weird, but me and my mom had this weird relationship,

630
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: but we're more friends than we are like mother's son. Um,

631
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: So I think she had a better idea. But that's

632
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: not something you know that. That's not something you talk

633
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: to your parents about it. I mean, obviously they knew

634
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: in high school and in college I didn't go out

635
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: very often, and they knew that I never really brought

636
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 1: a girl home. So they had an idea, but they

637
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: didn't know it for a certain So it's it's difficult,

638
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, going from six people knowing to about six million, uh,

639
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: and they're all they all have something that's to say

640
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: about it, whether it's good or bad. So I didn't.

641
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: I didn't love the way it seemed to come across

642
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: last week that like she had to take a break

643
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: and think about think about it. And then the guys

644
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: back at home we're talking about it being a roadblock

645
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: and like a reason to stop a romantic relationship from

646
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: further developing. I definitely was pretty outspoken about last week

647
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: because it just seems like it's always like that. Nobody's

648
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: are like, oh, yeah, it's such a good thing, it's

649
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: such a beautiful choice. How do you feel about that?

650
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: You know? Um, I'll say this. With the guys who

651
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: said that that was that they that was the hardest

652
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: part of watching it back because when I hear that, like,

653
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: that's what I've heard my whole life, So I start

654
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: to believe that. So when I hear it's a roadblock,

655
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: when I hear um, when people say that it's I

656
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: start to believe that more so for me to hear

657
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: like people say hey, it's a skeleton in your closet,

658
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: it's like, well, why is that a skeleton? Like why

659
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: why can't Why isn't that just part of who I

660
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: am and what makes me me, why does that have

661
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: to be portrayed as like a bad thing. Um. So

662
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: that was hard for me to hear. As far as

663
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: her getting up from the dinner table, I just want

664
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: to go on record saying I did not feel disrespected

665
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: when that happened. I actually I understood like she wanted

666
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,479
Speaker 1: to compose herself and figure out exactly what she wanted

667
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: to say, because she did understand how big of a

668
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: moment that was for me to open up. And I

669
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: think that she respected it enough to like gather her thoughts.

670
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: I think it was more in a respectful way than

671
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: it was a disrespectful way. Um. And that that's I mean.

672
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: I just wanted to clarify that too. Oh that's that's nice.

673
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: That's good to hear. Um. I just had to say,

674
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: well more one more thing about this. When I was

675
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: just like just like you, I didn't tell anybody really,

676
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: you know, just my best best friends new And then

677
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: I got to a point, like around your age, like

678
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: where I was like cursing it because so many people

679
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: were like telling me it was on an unattractive quality

680
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: and right right, and like that was a scary. Part

681
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: two is like I even some of the guys. I

682
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: don't know if it was on air or not, but

683
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: they were just like, well, that's a big responsibility for

684
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: somebody to take on. What I always heard the response

685
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: responsibility quote quote I'm like, wow, um, well it was

686
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: a decision that I made. So how about the decision

687
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: I make when I feel right, the time is right. See,

688
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: I mean, and you and I could bondo this for

689
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: days because the other I'll tell you the other too

690
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: frustrating things that that get to me with with the

691
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: virginity is just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you

692
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: don't have any like any experience at all. I mean,

693
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: it's not like I'm not. Honestly, I consider myself a

694
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 1: very romantic and sexual person, but it's just not to

695
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: that point. I think that that's a very that's a miss.

696
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: You know, people miss sort of misread that and misjudged that.

697
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,720
Speaker 1: It's like, just because I haven't sex doesn't mean I

698
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: haven't done anything. Um, And I mean I'll stop there

699
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 1: for you for your guys, I was super interesting me. No,

700
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: I was. It was in a very similar situation, and

701
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: I'd always be like, just because you don't have sex

702
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you can't be sexy right exactly exactly. You

703
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: both are very very good representations of that. Well, I

704
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: just want one more thing to say, Sorry, Ben, I'm

705
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: taking this part over just because it's something that we seriously,

706
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: you guys talk about it. You know you're gonna learn

707
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: that it was a really awkward time to have that

708
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 1: aired and to talk about in front of the cameras

709
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: and all that. But so many people are going to

710
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: come up to you and say thank you for making

711
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: me feel more normal for my choice. I've actually already

712
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: had that happen to me twice, and I was I

713
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: was in the Dominican at my brother's wedding and people

714
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: were on vacation and they came up to me and

715
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: said that they just watched it and they wanted to

716
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: commend me for how brave it was and that they

717
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: respected my decision. So it was really cool to actually

718
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: experience that. Um I didn't even get to really say,

719
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: I didn't even really get to see that episode until

720
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: I got back, but people came up while they were

721
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: on their vacations and oh man, so it was it

722
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: was honestly really cool to hear that all the awkwardness

723
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: is worth it when you get people to say that,

724
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: and then you realize that there's so many other people

725
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: in your boat out there, but we just don't talk

726
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: about it very much exactly. We gotta start, we gotta

727
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: start talking. We have to start talking, and somebody did

728
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: start talking to us, Colton. I want to read you

729
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: an email from one of our listeners, Um, Ashley and Colton,

730
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: this is this is something I'd love you to kind

731
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: of close this topic out on. But the title of

732
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 1: its virgin shaming from Lane. We don't know how old

733
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: Lane is, but anyways says hello, I'm writing about tonight's

734
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,720
Speaker 1: Bachelorette episode. Tonight, Colton told Becca that he's a virgin.

735
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: It really bothered me the way that other guys talked

736
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 1: about him being a virgin as a burden that Becca

737
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: will have to take on and as it being the

738
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: skeleton in the closet. That's a good point. I feel

739
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: like we typically referred to the skeletons as the opposite there. Anyways,

740
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: I know that both Ashley and Becca Tilly had openly

741
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: talked on the show about being a virgin, and they

742
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: were able to help a lot of girls relate to

743
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: them and to day Strong and their personal decisions overall.

744
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: The way the guys reacted and the way Becca immediately

745
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 1: reacted by walking away bothered me. What do you get

746
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: you guys think? Was it? Virgin shaming? In my mind

747
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: is a personal decision that doesn't take away from a

748
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: person's ability to be a good spouse. Both my husband

749
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: and I saved ourselves from marriage and it made everything

750
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: that much more special. I love you guys, and love

751
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: your show. Lane. That's so sweet. I I agree. It's

752
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: a weird um that economy and it's very ironic that

753
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: and and typically in life we talk about our skeletons

754
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: in our closet as things we have done, um, not

755
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: things we have not done. It's the experiences that we've

756
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: participated in that maybe aren't healthy on our souls, that

757
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: caused maybe a dark cloud of our life. Um. But

758
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: for you too and many others out there, uh, this

759
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: is something that you've personally chosen to eliminate those skeletons.

760
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: So hey, kudos to you and and also Colton before

761
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: we say goodbye, you thank you for being so open

762
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 1: so honest during this this interview. I think it will

763
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: open up, um, a lot of people's eyes to the story.

764
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: It will allow people not only to relate with you

765
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: better in your story, but also Tia, I think I

766
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: have a more of an understanding of where Tea was

767
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: coming from and why she talked to because she just

768
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 1: really likes you, dude. She really realizes can I can

769
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: I say something to I just I think, you know,

770
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: with her taking a break from social media too, I

771
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 1: don't nobody, nobody deserves to get hated on for speaking

772
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 1: their truth and speaking their minds. So the fact that

773
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: she was, you know, that she was able to do

774
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: that and have, you know, the courage to come up

775
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: and actually speak her truth, Rebecca, I respect that a

776
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: hundred percent. So I just want to put that out

777
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 1: there too, that you know, I don't hold any hard

778
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: feelings or any resentment there because obviously I'm now able

779
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: to watch the other three relationships and see that Beca

780
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: is going to be taken care of. Yeah, well, just

781
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: be careful, buddy, because there's gonna be a lot more

782
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,760
Speaker 1: girls liking you and chasing down you very growing rocks

783
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: that or window like we used to do in college. Yeah. Yeah, Well,

784
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 1: I've had will power for twenty six years of my life.

785
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 1: Another couple of years, ain't gonna hurt. That's right. Hey, well,

786
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 1: speaking of will parents, speaking of great things. Uh, Colton

787
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: tell us about the Bacardi party on July. Yeah, So

788
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 1: in um San Diego at Mavericks in Pacific Beach, I'm

789
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 1: hosting a party for my foundation, and I just want

790
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: to invite everybody to come on out have a good time.

791
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: It's gonna be Havana theme, so Cuban Cuban theme. Their

792
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: Bacardi is gonna have drinks out there. It's gonna be

793
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: a really good time. We're gonna hang out and raise

794
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: money for a good cause. I think that you know,

795
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: my foundation, the Legacy Foundation supporting Systic Fibrosis, has been

796
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: a passion for me for a lot of years, and

797
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: I think that UM continuing to put effort into growing

798
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: this is um what I want to do for the

799
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: rest of my life. So I just encourage everybody come

800
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: out if you're free, on July twenty down in San

801
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: Diego at Mavericks. Why would people come, Like, I mean,

802
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 1: outside of just being a part of a real good

803
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: event and a really good foundation, why why would people

804
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,439
Speaker 1: want to come hang out? Um? Well, because it's gonna

805
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,439
Speaker 1: be I think it's gonna be a Camp Miss party

806
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 1: of the summer. I don't party very often, and I'm

807
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: preparing for this one. This is gonna be a good

808
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,439
Speaker 1: one and I'm gonna have a couple of my friends there,

809
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: so some surprise guests, um making, some making some stops by.

810
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: So if you want to see some of your favorite

811
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: Bachelor cast members that I think a few of them

812
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: are gonna stop by for me. What does Pure Vita

813
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: Bracelets have to do with all this? So Pure Vita

814
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: Bracelets has been a sponsored mind since I played with

815
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 1: the Sandy Ego Chargers. They've been helping out. Um of

816
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: the proceeds from my bracelet that they sell go back

817
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: to my foundation. So every quarter they send my foundation

818
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: a check that allows me to do things that I'm

819
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: able to do at the children's hospitals. So pure Vita

820
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: and McCarty came together with My Legacy Foundation and we're

821
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: hosting a huge party and we're gonna be handing out

822
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: free bracelets and some drinks and it's just gonna be

823
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,359
Speaker 1: a good time to have a lot of fun. Awesome, man, Well,

824
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 1: we're seing the best. If anybody's out there listening and

825
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 1: wants to see Alton Um, reb shoulders, rub his shoulders.

826
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: She's got big shoulders. Um, go to event bright for tickets. Uh, Colton,

827
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: we appreciate you. It's been a pleasure. Thank you so much.

828
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: Has been great. Absolutely. Well, Hey, I look forward to

829
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: meeting you in person. Actually, and Ben, I'll see you

830
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: around a mean see you on Friday at Mentell Actually, okay,

831
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: I'll see it. I'll see you then, all right, see

832
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 1: you guys. Colton definitely works out. Colton we already met.

833
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: Oh really, that's weird. Um. Just just a good looking guy. Yeah,

834
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: good football player, good solid person. Um, next Bachelor. I

835
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: think he has a stronger chance than a couple of others.

836
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: Tiago on the show. If he's the next Bachelor. I

837
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: hope she learned a lot. Hey. Well, then again, I'm

838
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,399
Speaker 1: the last person to talk about things like that. Well,

839
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: one thing I do know, I know Tia is a

840
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: big fan of this. I believe she posts about it.

841
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: If not, Um, we we're excited to watch your journey.

842
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,799
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843
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,920
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844
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845
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846
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Speaker 1: the episode breakdown. We we've kind of bounced around a

893
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Speaker 1: little bit in this podcast, but that's because we had

894
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Speaker 1: a special guest, Colton, that came on actually to start

895
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 1: from the beginning. It's hometown week. I mean, we're getting

896
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: we're getting the heat of this. We're gonna see love

897
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: blossom or love go quickly away. But we've seen love

898
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: now form with all four guys after this week's episode. Yeah,

899
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: they've all dropped the album Big Deal. Who's hometown date

900
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: impress you the most? Well? As far as activities, what

901
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 1: I would like to do on my own hometown date,

902
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: I would love to go eat Buffalo wings with a boy.

903
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: My mom always told me you don't eat something as

904
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: gross as that, and like the first date, but you

905
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: know what, she's far deep with it with Jason. So

906
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: I thought the Buffalo wing date was really cute and

907
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: they went ice skating. This is like a nice Northeast homey,

908
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: cozy day date. It was. It was. I thought all

909
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: of her hometown dates were very non dramatic. Hometown week

910
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: was nerve wracking for me, but I felt like every

911
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: one of her days to others like rough parts. And yes,

912
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: the parents like Quiz there and siblings were there, but

913
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: they were all very fair. Right. You expect a mama

914
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: to be a little mother bearish, you you expect a

915
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,439
Speaker 1: dad to be a little aggressive and be like, don't

916
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: hurt my son, and if you do, like do it

917
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: now and not later. Is that you think this has

918
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 1: to do with Becca? Is just that great? Yeah, She's

919
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: just like I don't think there's anything that you really

920
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: have to worry about with Becca. My hometown's man, I

921
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,959
Speaker 1: walked into the dad's like, oh no, this sucks. Well,

922
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 1: you had it rough with one of them, but Cho

923
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: Chow one and her brothers are actually really great. I've

924
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: met him since then. I don't know why they were

925
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: so mean to me. That was so weird. All I

926
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: know is like I was watching this episode like my

927
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: mom would never be hard on the Bachelor. She would

928
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: never have like a handsome boy like that lok in

929
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: the house and then be like, are you going to

930
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: break my daughter's heart? She would be like, there's a

931
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: boy in the castle. There's this part of reading the beast,

932
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,959
Speaker 1: this good of the castle, and my mom always jokes

933
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: as a boy in the castle. She got so excited.

934
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 1: So so Becka's hometown dates very non dramatic. Blake opens

935
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: up about some of his life experiences. Blake has been, um,

936
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: I want to get your okay. So he has a

937
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: tragic event at his high school growing up that rocked

938
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: his world and understandably so he opens up about it. It

939
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: It gives us a better perspective of why Blake maybe

940
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: grabs life by the horns and says, let's just live life.

941
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: So it's fullest Now Blake has been with that included, um,

942
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: extremely open and vulnerable throughout this whole season. Is it

943
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: to a full meaning? You know he talked about his family.

944
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,040
Speaker 1: He could be a little overbearing, Okay, little overbearing a

945
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: the hard to get game? Whatso? Okay? So do you

946
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: think because I think he just really loves her? Oh yeah,

947
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,359
Speaker 1: he really does, and she keeps saying that she loves

948
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 1: him back without saying it directly. So do you think

949
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: she is just as much in love with Blake as

950
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: he is with her? I think he loves her a

951
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: little bit more. But I still think that she loves

952
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: him or loves him. I think she loves him. Is

953
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: the front run I think so. I believe so too.

954
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: Some of the people in the audience disagree. Some of

955
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: the people in the room. Okay, everybody out there pulling,

956
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: is Blake the front runner? We all get we got

957
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: one thumbs up, we got one Garret. Oh, we got

958
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: three Garretts in one Blake. Okay, Garrett is amazing. But

959
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: you girls, why do you think that Garrett is so amazing?

960
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 1: Come and speak, Come here, co American American. Okay, I'm

961
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 1: Bailey and I'm ten. I'm almost eleven though, because yeah, okay, um,

962
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 1: and I think Garrett because he just be like a

963
00:48:55,840 --> 00:49:01,399
Speaker 1: better dad and like he's much more like homie sort

964
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: of and like everyone else is really like and then

965
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: know but that I think Garrett's the best. Okay, Okay,

966
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,240
Speaker 1: I thought his hometown date was pretty homie. All right. Next,

967
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 1: Hi Taylor, Welcome to the podcast. Thank you I'm third team.

968
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: I think that Garrett was the best because I felt

969
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,439
Speaker 1: like they were the most comfortable with each other. Like

970
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 1: as watching the other people, I feel like it was

971
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 1: more tense, but I feel like with Garrett, she really

972
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: opened up and he really opened up and it just

973
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: really worked together, all right. Next opinion that next Garrett fan, Sarah.

974
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm Sarah and I'm also ten and I just like

975
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: Garrett because I feel like they just like, I don't know,

976
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 1: I feel like they were better together than the other ones.

977
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 1: They were just like kind of like someone said that

978
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: he would be. Yeah, the chemistry you could see in

979
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: their eyes. Huh. Yeah, they were just nice together, all right, Lauren,

980
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: you were the non Garrett fan. Yeah, I'm a Lake

981
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 1: fan because I feel, I don't know, I just felt

982
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: a whole different vibe with him than all the other guys,

983
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: and I think they just are a good fit for

984
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: each other. What kind of vibe are we talking here? Um?

985
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: You could just tell like like you were saying that

986
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: she was indirectly saying that she loved him as much

987
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,439
Speaker 1: as he loved her, or maybe a little bit less.

988
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: But I don't know, and let's talk about this. I

989
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: don't know if I've seen a guy or a girl

990
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: during the Bachelor or Bachelor fall in love in what

991
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: seems to be such a genuine in a real way,

992
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: so quickly and so strongly than Blake has Rebecca. Am

993
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: I offer this? I totally agree with that. Have you

994
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: how many? How many years have you watched this the show? Five? Five?

995
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: How old are you so? You're an expert? You're an expert?

996
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: You're sixteen? Congratulations, it's a big age. It's a great age. Um. Okay,

997
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: So am I off? Actually? Am I off with that? No?

998
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: Because I keep thinking, Wow, this guy I spent so

999
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: little time with her so far, but his feelings are

1000
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: so deep, like there must be something between. It's why

1001
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm so worried for him. I'm very very concerned he's

1002
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: gonna plummet if it doesn't work out. I mean, this

1003
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: is this is real for him, this is this is

1004
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: a part of the show though. Okay, so now we

1005
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: all take a step back. We've enjoyed watching the show.

1006
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: It's been entertaining. We've had fun seeing Becca navigate her

1007
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: way in this crazy journey we call the Bachelor at

1008
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: We've seen her contestants come and go. We've had the crazies,

1009
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: we've had the normals. We've had love and we've had breakups.

1010
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: But this is where and you talked about with anybody,

1011
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: This is where the show starts to really become real life.

1012
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: This show actually affects people in a positive and negative

1013
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 1: way who participate in the experience. And now we are

1014
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: saying that we're worried for Blake because he has real

1015
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: strong feelings in a world that doesn't cultivate the easiest

1016
00:51:55,680 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: of breakups, there isn't a lot of there's never you

1017
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: can never say okay, okay, okay, we'll break up, but

1018
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 1: can we have coffee and talk about it? Talk about

1019
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: it like next week? Yeah, I mean I haven't talked

1020
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: to Jojo since really that day. I mean, we've met

1021
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: each other, We've seen each other at a couple of

1022
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 1: I Heart festivals. We've we've said hi, I've been cordial,

1023
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: but we had no closure. She had no idea she

1024
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: I mean, other than the fact that she's probably heard

1025
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: an interview or two. We would have no ability to

1026
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: talk about it. So we're worried for Blake. We're also

1027
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: worried for garn Word for Jason. But it just seems

1028
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: like Blake. This is gonna either really really make his

1029
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: life amazing, really really hurt of it will survive. Okay,

1030
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 1: So let's let's so much that has been through a lot.

1031
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 1: You know what, I thought it was an interesting choice

1032
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: to have at first then go back to the high

1033
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 1: school because I was like, his mom had an affair

1034
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 1: with his high school english teacher. Why are we going

1035
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: back to the high school. It all seemed good to

1036
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: go because they were all together. Did you notice that

1037
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 1: his mom, the new husband, the dad. Was that what

1038
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: I thought it was? Oh? Yeah, I thought that was

1039
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 1: weird too. It's it's it's interesting that whole stuff, that

1040
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: wholes thing. I mean, everybody goes through a lot, right,

1041
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 1: Blake has been through a lot, and and we get that,

1042
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: but a lot of people in life go through a lot.

1043
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 1: I mean, Blake's situations maybe have been brought up on

1044
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: this this show, so it's it's fresh and it's it's real.

1045
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: But let's you know, I'm sure Garrett has had his

1046
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: his life story, you know, Jason and and Cold, They've

1047
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: they've all had their things. I just think, Okay, so

1048
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: let's play this game real quick. Um. But before before

1049
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,280
Speaker 1: we get into the game, I also want to tease

1050
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: that to cap off this amazing episode of the Almost

1051
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: Famous podcast, We're actually going to be calling one of

1052
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: Becca's friends who we're sitting in the room during the

1053
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: Tia and Becca conversation to talk about the Tia controversy.

1054
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: We're gonna get her opinion here and in just a

1055
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: few minutes, so make sure you tease them. But before

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00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: you was play a little game. What's the game? I

1057
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: didn't even know. If Blake gets broken up with and

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00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: he is so sad like her, hurt sad? Does he's

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00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: sitting in a good position to be a bachelor or

1060
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: is he to hurt to be the bachelor? Game? Then

1061
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: what other game we're gonna play on a bachelor focused podcast? Okay,

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00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: I think that's his real only chance of becoming the

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00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: Bachelor because truly, as sweet and cute see as Blake is,

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00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: it doesn't I don't think he has the mass appeal

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00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: that you have or that what is that? What is that?

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00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: What are you talking? I mean, like, is it that

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00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: it doesn't have? He's not super charming to me, he

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00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:45,479
Speaker 1: doesn't really. I think he's he may be growing off

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00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: of me. Um, Blake might be growing off me, Um, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't find him to like have

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00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,879
Speaker 1: mad as appeal as like ladies and be like, oh

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00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 1: I want to get with Blake. I think of all

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00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: these remaining guys or even like we'll just stay the

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00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 1: top four, I think like all of them are like, yeah,

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00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: he's hot, I want to flirt with him. Like how

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00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: many girls are like yeah, I really want to get

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Speaker 1: with Blake. I could be totally mistaken, and I'm so

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00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: sorry if I'm using my own I'm projecting my own type.

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00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 1: I mean, that's your host. Your opinion is the only

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00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: one that matters. What do you think as a as

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00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 1: a straight man? Yeah? If I mean, I think we

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00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: have another adult female Hell up, I'm come okay. Megan,

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00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: whose house we're staying at right now, has an opinion. Yeah,

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00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: I like Blake. I really enjoyed watching the episode today

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00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: with my daughters. It was a good time. And it's just,

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00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: you know, she's got it down to a really good

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00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 1: final few guys, and I think that she's really got

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00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,720
Speaker 1: her mindset and she's going to make a really good decision.

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Speaker 1: But what do we think of Blake? Like, do you

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00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: we would if you were a single woman? Would you

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00:55:58,560 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: want to get with Blake or would you want to

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00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: get with Garrett or Colton or Jason? Not Colton. Sorry,

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00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go with the other two. Yeah. Um,

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00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 1: I like she she chose all tall, dark and handsome,

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00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: and um, I just feel like there's the right guys

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00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 1: for her and I don't know, I feel like those

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00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: two are better. I'm gonna get a ton of crap

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00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 1: with this Blake thing. Amy, What are you? What's your feelings?

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00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: Colton is very young, super sweet, but young Blake is

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Speaker 1: growing on me. I think that if you want a

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00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: guy that likes you, Blake is your guy. But I

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00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 1: guess it's because I always like yeah, exactly like so

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00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: you know, but now I'm great. I caught my man

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00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 1: and he's mine from right. But you now you like

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00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:51,359
Speaker 1: a guy that likes you. Um. So we're talking who

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00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: should be the Bachelor? Are you in it? Are you

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00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 1: in the running? Ben? No, I'm not in this conversation this.

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00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: Don't don't put me in a corner on my podcast,

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00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 1: Say Garrett. Then I guess Garrett would make the great bachelor.

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00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: He'd be. I I have a feeling, I have a

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00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:12,839
Speaker 1: really good feeling that's gonna be Blake, that it's going

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Speaker 1: to be Colton. Oh really yeah, you had secret talks

1113
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: with him? No, I just I just have this like

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00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: he has the appeal, he has the fan. It matters

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00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: how he navigates this Tia situation post this elimination. Now,

1116
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: if he starts dating Tia now, which we don't know,

1117
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: then this could this could blow up. But for right now,

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00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: all we know is that Colton has left the show

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00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: because of an interference by none other than Tia. And

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Speaker 1: we are lucky enough to have one of TIA's best

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Speaker 1: friends closest confidants, a former Bachelor contestants who sat in

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Speaker 1: the room during this conversation, Caroline. But first sugar bear hair.

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Speaker 1: Ashley tell him about clean, healthy, glowing hair. Well, we

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00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: see Becca Antia they play with their hair some much

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00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: during that conversation. I was a little distracted. I was like, girls,

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Speaker 1: we know you have good hair, and you're probably using

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Speaker 1: your sugar bear hair. Strong, shiny hair is very important

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Speaker 1: when it comes to beauty. What celebrity do you think

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00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: of when you think of great hair? Buny Reynolds. Really,

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00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: he does have good hair. Well, I wonder if he

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00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: uses it. I'm not really one. Sure j Low has

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00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 1: always had great hair, you can bet that they are

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Speaker 1: using sugar Bear hair. They taste seriously, they tasted so good.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could have more than two a day,

1135
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: but you can't have more than two a day. It

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00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: tastes like candy, but it's made with the juice of

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00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: real berries, and it contains everything you need for stronger,

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00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: healthier hair. The nutrients and sugar Bear hair also helps

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00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 1: your nails and your skin quality over time. So if

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00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: you want to join all the Bachelor Nation girls and

1141
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: get some sugar Bear hair, strengthen your hair, let it grow,

1142
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 1: Let it be strong and shiny and beautiful, go to

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Speaker 1: sugar Bear Hair dot com slash almost famous and there's

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Speaker 1: no code. You're just gonna go to sugar bear hair

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00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: dot com slash almost Famous, sugar bear hair dot com slash.

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Speaker 1: All right, Caroline, are you out there? I'm here, Caroline,

1147
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Thanks for having me

1148
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: back and just talk to you, guys. We have so

1149
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 1: much talk to you about. Tell us what happened for

1150
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: Reels when Tea came to confess her lingering feelings for

1151
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: Colton Tobecca. Oh my god, it's all. It's all hard.

1152
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: It's it's weird because I'm close with everybody here, so

1153
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: it's um, it was a weird place for me to

1154
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: be to be put in, so it wasn't really my

1155
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: story to tell. All I could do was try and

1156
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 1: advise people to uh to the right thing and tell

1157
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 1: all the right things. Okay, So here's I think where

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00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: here's every confusion is right now, Caroline, in your opinion,

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00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 1: what was the right thing? Um? I uh so, I

1160
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: knew that Tia made the wrong move in the beginning,

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01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: but I don't think Tia really Oh that's hard, all right, Okay.

1162
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: So the thing is is like I knew about Colton

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01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,919
Speaker 1: back in January when the girls came for the girl's trip,

1164
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: and then back is like crying about Ari and um

1165
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: so and you know, like who is this cute boy

1166
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: that your face timing Tia and and everything just kind

1167
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: of like fell apart because for whatever reason. Um, but

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01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: it was very obvious to me that Tia, as much

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01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,560
Speaker 1: as she wanted to believe she was over Colton, that

1170
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: she wasn't. But I don't think she believed it herself.

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01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 1: So she was like, yeah, yeah, go for it, And

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01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: I was like, this is a mistake, and I tried

1173
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: to actually slip Um, I tried to slip a note

1174
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 1: into Becca's bag, and the producers they were like, wouldn't

1175
01:00:57,480 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 1: let me have their fighting. Um just that I um

1176
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: just kind of like giving Becca heads up that I

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01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: think it wasn't my place to be like, hey, guys, like, no, Tia,

1178
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: I think you still love Colton even though you don't

1179
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: think you love Colton and love obviously, it's just like

1180
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. Um, I had to

1181
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: just I had to sit back and like let it

1182
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: run its course. And that's a hard place to be

1183
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 1: and when you care about both of these people so much,

1184
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 1: and um, I tried just left the note in the

1185
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 1: bag and tried to be like, hey, probably let Colton

1186
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:41,919
Speaker 1: go and they didn't get that opportunity. And um, yeah,

1187
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 1: but I told I told Tia needed to come from her.

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01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: She couldn't be the one to have it like all

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01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: come out and uh and have it come out, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it seemed like she was being sneaky. I

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01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 1: just I don't think Tia knew what she wanted. And

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01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: I think I think we've all been to that point

1193
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 1: in a relationship where we're like, I don't know what

1194
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: the hell I want. It's very confusing, and then you

1195
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: had all of this bachelor world into it, and it's

1196
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: it's it's a confusing place to be. But um, I

1197
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: think the timing was really bad. Okay, So we can

1198
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: obviously tell that this puts you in a really difficult position.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, yeah, it's a rock and a hard place.

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01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 1: Serious it is, and and and we understand that. So

1201
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: here is my argument against you, um, and let's just

1202
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: talk it out here. You think that Becca should have

1203
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: got rid of Colton. What if Colton was really into

1204
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: Becca and didn't want to go home? Okay, But the

1205
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: thing is is that I just I know how our

1206
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 1: friendship is, and so me Becca and t are very close,

1207
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: so I know that if before anything even started, I

1208
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: feel like it's probably better to get rid of Colton

1209
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: before things got going. Um, because Tia like Colton or

1210
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: what was your reason? Was? Okay, but so t says

1211
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: she didn't like Colton, and I'm like, I don't believe

1212
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: you was to you trying to be the cool girl

1213
01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 1: and being like I'm not going to act like I

1214
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 1: have such strong feelings. Yes, that's exactly, yeah, and so

1215
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's like we've all been

1216
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: They're like, no, no, it's fine, go on the show.

1217
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 1: Everything's fine. Like I'm cool, Like she was your That's

1218
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: exactly what She's being the cool girl. And I don't

1219
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: think she was being honest with herself about her feelings.

1220
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: And I just I have a problem with this because

1221
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: the ideas and a lot of people out there in

1222
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: social media saying, like, you know, they're criticizing Tia, they're

1223
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 1: criticizing the situation. And I understand that Tia had to

1224
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: say something, she needed to say something, it was on

1225
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: her heart. She I don't blame her for that, but why,

1226
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: uh do? Why did the consequences fall on Colton for

1227
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 1: Tia liking him? Okay, so Colton at this point has admitted, Hey,

1228
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm not into Tia. It didn't work out. I'm into

1229
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: you Becca. He's still at this point claiming that he's

1230
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: in Rebecca um vocalizing his in the Becca. We just

1231
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: had him on the podcast a little bit ago. He

1232
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: was saying that he's in Rebecca. So why would Becca

1233
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: get rid of Colton when he's not interested in Tia

1234
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 1: might be interested in him? And Beca is interesting Colton

1235
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 1: because that's the kind of friend that Becca is. She's

1236
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: not going to jeopardize her friendship, UM with something like

1237
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: as people don't see like what goes on like outside

1238
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 1: of the show, Like people are like your friendship at

1239
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: steak you guys, like we're all like just changing the

1240
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 1: same guy. It's like, well, yeah, we met that way,

1241
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: but we have to stay in touch and talk almost

1242
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: every day. And at the end of the day, Um,

1243
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: as much as like, I think Colton is a great

1244
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: guy and like Colton has become one of like I

1245
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: consider him like a bro to me, Like he's like

1246
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: a good guy friend now, but like, at the end

1247
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: of the day, I think she felt it was very

1248
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: obvious to me from the our first spat dight visit

1249
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: that she felt strongly about someone else. Um, And I

1250
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: think you know, we'll we'll see that play out. Okay,

1251
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: So you're okay, this makes more sense. This is what

1252
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: I was getting on now. I'm understanding. You're saying that

1253
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 1: at this point you pretty much knew, based on your

1254
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 1: experience with Becca that she was probably not into Colton

1255
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:03,640
Speaker 1: as her future husband. Right, And this is where it's

1256
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: great that she's a great friend. Awesome that she's a

1257
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: great friend, really loyal to her friends. But if she

1258
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: thought Colton was her husband, I would think it would

1259
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: be very odd for her to get rid of him. Right.

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01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 1: But so, but with girl code and with the way

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01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: I mean her face on the first So I went

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01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: in for two episodes. I was there for the Spot

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01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: eight and then you know, for our girl chat here

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01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,919
Speaker 1: after hometowns UM. And the way that her face lit

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01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: up on that spot eight when she talked about two

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01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 1: specific guys, UM, I hadn't seen her face light up

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01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: like that before. And then when I saw her again,

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01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 1: her face lit up about that same way still. So

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01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: I think the way she felt about uh someone, I

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01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: think that plus the girl Code, it was just like

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01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: a hey Colton, it's time to go home. Are you

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01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: insinuating that she had stronger feelings for guys other than

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01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: Colton and that it wasn't a big deal if she

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01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 1: were to act Colton. Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying.

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01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: It was just it was obvious. It was obvious to

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01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 1: me the whole time, even from the beginning, who she

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01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 1: felt strongly about. You know, sometimes you just have that

1278
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: magic with people and that makes sense now that this

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01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: this is clearing everything up. Yeah, so it wasn't like

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01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: Colton was the love of her life. And then she

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01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: was like, but no, my friendship with Tia. Like if

1282
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: that was the case, then you find a way to

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01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: work through it. But um, Colton was not the love

1284
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 1: of her life, and so you know it at the

1285
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: end of the day, that's when it really came down

1286
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: to you can't You can't be a polygamuss and have

1287
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 1: all of them. You have to pick one. So except

1288
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: for a lot of this episode, a lot of this season,

1289
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: you you you can pick a couple at a time. Yeah,

1290
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 1: you know what. It sounds like it's going to be fun,

1291
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 1: but I just feel like that's it's a lot of

1292
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: it's a lot. You got your hands full over there.

1293
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: So okay, to close this out, let's play a little game.

1294
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: We play a couple of this podcast. It's not really

1295
01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: games when it comes to bed, but it's all good. Um,

1296
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: if you're if you're the bachelorette, you have the final

1297
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 1: four guys here and you're sitting there and Becca's shoes

1298
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: and Tia comes to you, do you sing Colton? Based

1299
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: on the way that I know that she felt about

1300
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 1: someone else, and if I was feeling that way about

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01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 1: someone else, absolutely, And the thing is is I know,

1302
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 1: I know for a fact that her number one and

1303
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:28,479
Speaker 1: her number two spot lit her up like a Christmas tree.

1304
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: Like there were two guys that she spoke about, and

1305
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,919
Speaker 1: she spoke about them highly the whole time, and when

1306
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: she spoke about them, the girl lit up like Christmas.

1307
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: And there's something in her body language that it doesn't

1308
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: matter whatever. Even if Tia was never in the Colton equation,

1309
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: Colton would have gone home when he went home, because

1310
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: there was some there was there was two other guys

1311
01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: that when she spoke about um, lit her up like

1312
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,720
Speaker 1: a Christmas tree. So who would be your final Okay,

1313
01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: in order, we've asked this question earlier your bet Becca's shoes?

1314
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 1: Who would be your final guy? Um, and let's let's

1315
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 1: rank him in order, and then next, who do you

1316
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 1: think the next Bachelor will be? If if we're saying,

1317
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: for the take of this game, all the guys have

1318
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: gone home, that we're just saying that Becca eliminates every

1319
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 1: single guy left, from Colton to to Garrett to Blake

1320
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 1: to Jason, just say they all have gone home. Who

1321
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: would be the next bachelor in your eyes, the next bachelor.

1322
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: A lot of anticipation. I mean, I don't know, I've

1323
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: I've heard a lot of people throw Wills his name around.

1324
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:45,639
Speaker 1: I could that because you're friends with Wills. No, I've

1325
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: only met him. I've only met him once. So Wills

1326
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 1: Wills would be a dark horse, right, I mean coming

1327
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 1: he went home? How many weeks ago? Like four or

1328
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 1: four weeks ago? Can I tell you, guys, yes, I

1329
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 1: have haven't. I haven't watched any of this season. Oh wow, Caroline, Wait,

1330
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 1: how is that you have been caught up because you

1331
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: were somewhere else? No? Um, I maybe yeah, so I

1332
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:12,600
Speaker 1: kind of got a little far behind, and now I

1333
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 1: have to sit down and bene watch. But I've been

1334
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 1: I've been a little busy. So um, I'm a little

1335
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: far behind. So um. I mean, I want to say

1336
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: who I think would be a good person, but I

1337
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: think it could also give away the finale. So I

1338
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: you guys are gonna have to uh, you're gonna have

1339
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 1: to phone a friend on that one, not this friend. Okay, Well,

1340
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 1: I would like to ask you just one more question

1341
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 1: before because I feel like I'm gonna get crap because

1342
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 1: I said that Blake may not be charismatic enough to

1343
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: be the next bachelor. Um or he may not have

1344
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 1: a huge he may be very cute and adorable, but

1345
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: maybe not like did you watch my season of the Bachelor? Yeah, well,

1346
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to redo that. I mean it really

1347
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, grant, I haven't really seen much

1348
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 1: of Blake. But is it Can it really be that bad?

1349
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad. I think the guy is

1350
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,640
Speaker 1: very very like well actually saying he doesn't have that

1351
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: the few clips I saw on the world wide Web,

1352
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: I know why. I guess you have to say how

1353
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 1: many bachelors have the the it factor? Because like even

1354
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 1: like Crystals and Brad Walmac, they're like all very vanilla,

1355
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: but they fit the role because the girls bring the drama.

1356
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 1: That's true. Um well yeah, and I don't even know if.

1357
01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if we can even count Blake into

1358
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 1: the equation for being the Bachelor, So we don't either,

1359
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: but it's part of the game. Um. This has been uh, Carolin,

1360
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: thank you for coming on and being honest about this.

1361
01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: I know this is not easy, suation. Really it's hard,

1362
01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 1: and I was I was actually sweating before you guys

1363
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 1: call it because these are two of my really good

1364
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 1: friends and it is a weird place to be. But um,

1365
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 1: well now it's all over. But just a just a

1366
01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 1: word to people listening, be nice to Tilla. Honestly, we've

1367
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:02,640
Speaker 1: all been in a place where we didn't know what

1368
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: our heart wanted and it's messy. So people, she's taking uh,

1369
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: she's taking a social media cleanse this week. Um, just

1370
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,680
Speaker 1: because it's people. I know it's not going to be

1371
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 1: easy on her, but it's probably for the best. That's

1372
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: probably for the best day. Yeah, listeners out there, we

1373
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 1: have nice listeners. They're not me and they're just mean

1374
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: to us, so it's fine. Being kind is cool. Will

1375
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: be nice guys. Hey, Caroline, thank you so much for

1376
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 1: on the part. All right, good talking to you guys.

1377
01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me on. Bye bye, Ashley. To to

1378
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 1: close out, um, the podcast, I got a couple of

1379
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: things I want to talk about. One is, uh, forbody

1380
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: out there listening, you gotta look up. I did karaoke

1381
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,599
Speaker 1: with Rascal Flats at this tournament this week. Okay, you're

1382
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: so cool, Well, thank you, but it was really really

1383
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 1: really exciting. Again, I want to thank the a c

1384
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:52,680
Speaker 1: C or American Century Um Championship for let me come

1385
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,599
Speaker 1: out here and play. It's been a blast, Ashley. Thanks

1386
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 1: for come out and watch and bringing your beautiful fiance Jared.

1387
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 1: This week, July Ninete, my lip Sync Battle is please

1388
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 1: go check it out. It's going to be fantastic great.

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01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 1: What day of the week is that? I don't know, Oh,

1390
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: come on, let's figure it out. By nineteen is for

1391
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,719
Speaker 1: all of the people listening. That's in jeez, the week

1392
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: is flying by. That's a Thursday. So this Thursday, make

1393
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:19,639
Speaker 1: sure you check out lip SyncE Battle. Myself and Rachel

1394
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 1: Lindsay go head to head and the dance off. It's

1395
01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: really great, dam Ashley, it's been a great podcast. I've

1396
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: been Ashley and I've been been. Follow the Bennon Ashley

1397
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:35,640
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