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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Josh, good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Oh wow, you sound kind of just try this

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Speaker 1: man actually sounds like I would think people might sound

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Speaker 1: when they like somebody and got ghosted. You know, people

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Speaker 1: every now and again is like, how you doing? I'm great?

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Speaker 1: How are you great? You got ghosted? What's going on

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Speaker 1: with this woman? Kara? Tell us how you met? About

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 1: are now? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So okay, I met her at a bar, you know,

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Speaker 3: and she thought she was super cute, so, you know,

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Speaker 3: I approached her and I bought her some drinks, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know, she.

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Speaker 1: Was really receptive.

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Speaker 3: We had a great conversation.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we had like a few drinks together, and

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Speaker 4: then I finally asked her for a number. And so

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Speaker 4: then like a few days later, we planned a date

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Speaker 4: and we were going to meet up on a date,

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Speaker 4: like I was literally they already she said she was

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Speaker 4: parking and that's the last time I heard from her.

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Speaker 4: She she says, it's parking, and I never heard from

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Speaker 4: her again. She stopped responding to my text I called her.

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Speaker 4: H yeah, it's pretty wild.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you've met me, like you you actually met

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Speaker 1: I mean, so it's not like she is some like

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Speaker 1: you know, dating app online thing, like you met in person.

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Speaker 1: You you gauged the chemistry. She saw you, you saw her,

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Speaker 1: so like everything's real, because I don't know, maybe people

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Speaker 1: get nervous about meeting a stranger or who knows, but

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Speaker 1: like in this case, it would have been kind of

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Speaker 1: like a second date because you kind of had a

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Speaker 1: half day the first time. But she disappeared. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's like, I hope she's okay, by the way, because

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Speaker 1: I mean she went to park and then he never

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Speaker 1: heard from her again. Yeah, that's what I was thinking,

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yeah, all right, well huh, well, let's

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Speaker 1: play a song. We're gonna come back in a couple

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Speaker 1: of minutes. We're gonna call Kara, and we're gonna see

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Speaker 1: if we can figure out what's going on. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: ask these questions for You'll be on the phone as well.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome and jump in at some point and hopefully

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Speaker 1: we get straightened this out, hopefully she's okay by the way,

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Speaker 1: and then set you guys up on another date that

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Speaker 1: we pay for. Sound good? You have to hear what

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Speaker 1: happens next Part two of waiting by the phone after

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Speaker 1: Hosier back in Twoman heads on the Fred Show. Hey, Josh,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call this woman Kara. You

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Speaker 1: met at a bar, you bought her some drinks, You

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Speaker 1: guys talk for a while, you got her phone number,

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Speaker 1: You've planned a date, You show up for the date,

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Speaker 1: she texts you, hey, I'm parking, and then never shows

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Speaker 1: up for the date and you never hear from her again. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know what's going on? Obviously, yes

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Speaker 1: I do. Okay, Well, I don't know what we're getting

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Speaker 1: into here, but let's call her. Good luck? Hi? Is

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Speaker 1: this oh hi Kara? Good morning. My name is Fred

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Speaker 1: Im calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Is it okay? Chat for

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Speaker 1: a minute? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Actually I listened to your show, I know, waiting by

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Speaker 2: the poe.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, then you know what's going on. So

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Speaker 1: much of a surprise. By the way, great to hear

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Speaker 1: your voice. I really wasn't sure if anyone was going

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Speaker 1: to answer or whatever, because I'm sure you know we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy named Josh who he says,

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Speaker 1: you guys had a date planned, you texted that you

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Speaker 1: were parking, and then you never showed up. So I'm

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Speaker 1: glad you're okay, but why didn't you show for the day?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I know he's listening, so you should put

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Speaker 2: them through this one.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I mean leave the room here, right. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what the I don't know what the hell

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Speaker 1: I'm doing here, but don't eat mean for nothing? All right?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so here he is, Josh car you guys

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Speaker 1: know each other? What's going on? Kara?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: So kay, Josh? Do you really not know who I am? Wait?

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Speaker 2: What do I never you are? Do you not? Do

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Speaker 2: you really not know who I am?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I met you at the bars?

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Speaker 1: To me, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Sarah old screen from high school.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you guys, you guys knew each other in

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Speaker 1: high school and he didn't know that? Shut up? Wait,

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Speaker 1: hold on a second, hold on, hold on, just so

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Speaker 1: I'm clear and this. You guys knew each other in

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Speaker 1: high school and Josh, that just seems to have been

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Speaker 3: She works different, man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, uh, I'm care of that. Like he bullied, made

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Speaker 2: front of my nose, made front of my weight that Kara.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you've gone through some kind of like a

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Speaker 1: transformation then, and you look very different now, is what

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Speaker 1: you're saying. Real h okay girl, Okay, So he Josh,

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Speaker 1: you made fun of this woman Kara in high school,

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Speaker 1: but now you're hitting on her in a bar. Didn't

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Speaker 1: and and she's put it together. And so Caara, I

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Speaker 1: assume now you're like, screw this guy. You were not

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Speaker 1: nice to me, and now look at me and now

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Speaker 1: you want some and now you cannot have it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. I mean like the fact that he didn't

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Speaker 2: recognize me and everything I wanted to get him back for,

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Speaker 2: like all the hell that he cost me in high school,

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Speaker 2: and so I mean, yeah, I pulled up, didn't come in,

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Speaker 2: and I set him up.

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Speaker 1: That's also this was all planned then, like you never

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Speaker 1: intended well why did you even go to the date,

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Speaker 1: Like you didn't have to pull up in front of

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Speaker 2: For me, I wanted to watch him go through agony,

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Speaker 2: like I went through agony every day. This was just

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Speaker 2: of what he put me through all through high school.

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Speaker 2: This was just a moment for him. But I went

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Speaker 2: through health through high school withk me, fun of me

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Speaker 2: every dingy.

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Speaker 1: Wow. So the whole time you knew you were going

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Speaker 1: to do this, you knew that he was a guy

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Speaker 1: who was not nice to you in high school. Now

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Speaker 1: you wanted to get with you, So you plan this date.

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Speaker 1: You pull up in front and just watch him as

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Speaker 2: Yes, it might seem like mean, but I mean you

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Speaker 2: have no idea what he could me.

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Speaker 5: Did you randomly run into him at the bar? Like,

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Speaker 5: or have you been planning this since high school?

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Speaker 1: Get me?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, Like you can't make this up though,

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Speaker 2: Like I mean, he's he's cute. He was always cute, Okay,

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Speaker 2: so don't get me wrong. So meeting him at the bar,

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Speaker 2: I was like wow. And the whole fact he didn't

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Speaker 2: realize who I was. I was like okay, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: so then it was planned.

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Speaker 5: I mean, okay, he would have went through with a

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Speaker 5: date and had him paid for everything and all this stuff,

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Speaker 5: then I would have been like, look who I am

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Speaker 1: So if he had maybe said to you, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: look I remember you from high school. I know I

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Speaker 1: was mean to you. I can't believe you know how

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Speaker 1: far you've come or how different you want to know,

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Speaker 1: and I'm so sorry, Like I don't know, like if

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Speaker 1: he'd apologized in some way, then that would have been different.

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Speaker 1: Or were you always going to do him dirty?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm definitely doing him dirty. And you know he

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Speaker 2: can apologize now on the radio if you want.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Josh, I don't think she's going to go

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Speaker 1: out with you again. But I mean, I guess you

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Speaker 1: bullied her. Do you remember doing that? Like, how about

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Speaker 1: an apology?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 4: And Kara, I'm like really sorry. I know that means

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Speaker 4: nothing now, but I'm like mortified I was a different

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Speaker 1: I feel terrible. I don't know, like I'm damn wow.

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Speaker 1: This is kind of stuff that people like, this is

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Speaker 1: the kind of stuff people fantasize about, Like this is

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Speaker 1: the kind of thing like your parents tell you when

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Speaker 1: you're growing up, like you know, someday it's going to

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Speaker 1: be the roles reversed and you're gonna get your time

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Speaker 1: and knowing never happens.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure the same kind of person that you

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Speaker 2: were back in. I mean, like, those are some things

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Speaker 2: I can't look past. So wow, you don't know how

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Speaker 2: many because I know this, I know this holding kid

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Speaker 2: correcting per second day that it's not going to be second date.

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Speaker 5: So you don't accept this apology at all. You're not

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Speaker 5: accepting this apology. People change, He could change, like like

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Speaker 5: you know, Sah was a bully, right and he still is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna say, what's what's different? Yeah, I knew.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you do at least accept the apology. You

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Speaker 2: I think, of course, of course I'll just apology. But

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Speaker 2: there's definitely no second date. That's not even a first

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Speaker 1: But like this is exactly what people fantasize about, Like

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Speaker 1: you know, someday I'm gonna look the person in the

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Speaker 1: eye and I'm gonna get I'm gonna get my shot

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Speaker 1: at them. It just never happens. It almost never happened.

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Speaker 1: But for you, like you saw this guy and he's

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Speaker 1: hitting on you, and you're like, oh my god, the roles.

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Speaker 1: You know, the tables have turned, and now he wants me,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want the bully exactly. I kind of

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Speaker 1: like it. And Josh, good on you for apologizing. But unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: this is why you don't bullye people because you never

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Speaker 1: really know what's going to happen. And you were trying

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Speaker 1: to date this woman, but you were not nice to

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Speaker 1: her before, so she wants nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 1: So hey, it's nice as you apologized, but there doesn't

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Speaker 1: sound like that's going to be a day. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if we had to go through this whole thing, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know where you sort of make him sit there.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, you shouldn't bully people, so you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. No, I get it,

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 4: I screwed up.

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Speaker 1: Wow Wow, okay, all right, well, hey Josh, good luck

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Speaker 1: to you, Kara, you got your revenge show. Best of

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Speaker 1: luck to you as well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and I will continue to listen to your show.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, thank you very much. The Entertainment Report with

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Speaker 1: Kaylin Jayson and for Show b Shelby with the Showdown,

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Speaker 1: Game Show Wednesday. It's all coming up. Fred Show