1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We gotta you here. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter, subject so angry I'm seeing red. 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I begin this letter by saying I 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: hate my husband of twelve years. I feel as though 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: he has made a fool of me, and I feel stupid. 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: The thought of him makes me sick to my stomach. 7 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: When he says I love you, I want to say, 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: kiss my butt. I'm at the point in which I 9 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: don't even care to confront him for what reason? Another 10 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: stupid lie? Okay, you can tell me that he lies 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 1: to me because I am the one he doesn't want 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: to hurt. But when he lies, at which point does 13 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: a man realize that he is hurting me? He's still 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: hurting me at this moment. It is not Uh do 15 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: I leave him? But how do I leave? And this 16 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: is why I am writing you. I know getting even 17 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: is not the right choice, but it would make me 18 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: feel better. I would like your opinion. Here's what I 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: came up with so far. Set him up. I know 20 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: he is meeting a woman in person that he meets online. 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: He doesn't even know one of the women he's talking 22 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: to is me. Do I talk to him first, ask 23 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: him what I am lacking that makes him look elsewhere? 24 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: Do I just get my ducks in a row and 25 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: walk by the way. I would rather put a knife 26 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: in a print of his profile and put it over 27 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: his side of the bed while he is sleeping. What 28 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 1: do you think? Uh? I say, get some billboards. That's 29 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: what we were talking about earlier. Anyway, the latest trend. 30 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,919 Speaker 1: Right anyway, if you got an extra two dollars laying around. 31 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: But my favorite line in this whole letter is when 32 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: he says I love you, I want to say, kiss 33 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: my butt. Wow. That says a lot about your relationship. 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: You're that angry. You're You're very, very angry and emotional. 35 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: You want to get him back, you want revenge, you 36 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: want to feel better, you said. But I gotta ask you, really, 37 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: is it worth all of that? Is he worth this? 38 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: Do you still love this man? Do you still want 39 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: a relationship with him? Can he be trusted? Those are 40 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: the kinds of questions you need to be asking yourself. 41 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 1: Once you calm down and I get that you're upset 42 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: right now, I understand this, Uh, I kind of think 43 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,519 Speaker 1: you are still feeling him because you asked the question 44 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: do you talk to him first? And do you you 45 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: want to ask him? What are you lacking? And all 46 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: of that. So if you if there's still some feelings 47 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: there that you have for this man, go ahead and 48 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: talk to him, but you gotta ask yourself is he 49 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: worth all of this? First? Steve Man, Uh, thank you, Sherley, 50 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: nice response to all that. YadA YadA YadA. He go 51 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: a deal. But I ain't got nothing to say to this, 52 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: won'tan My notes is all for the man. Oh. First 53 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: of all, when a woman in a letter opens up 54 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 1: by open, let me begin this letter by saying, I 55 00:02:52,880 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: hate my who he had no idea, hell he fen 56 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: the live in. I hate my husband. Then she says, 57 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: when he says I love you, I want to say, 58 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: kiss my boy. That's my favorite plays something to y'all. 59 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: Let me say this to you right here, right now. 60 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: The word hate and but cannot go in to sit 61 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: saint since if a woman hate you, I can assure you, 62 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: but it's not the word she's using. I hate my husband. 63 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: When he says I love you, I really want to 64 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: say kiss my whole entire all of it. Put it 65 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: in a box and don't miss a corner it's my 66 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: favorite part that letter. Twelve years she's been made a fooler. 67 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: She hate him so much, you don't even know what 68 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: he did until three fourths of the letter is over. 69 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: The whole first is about hate. Hate is on fire. 70 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: I know getting even ain't right. It's not the right choice, 71 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: but it would make me feel better when a woman 72 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 1: says that you're feel to get something done to you, 73 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,559 Speaker 1: because it's finning to make her feel better. Because right now, listen, 74 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: this message is for anybody out there who may know 75 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: this guy, if you even think you know him, if 76 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: you have a Christian bone in your body, please notify 77 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: him and tell him. Steve Harvey said, get out, you 78 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: can getting out, trying to escape because you online talking 79 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: and one of the women you're talking to is her 80 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: what check my girl? Check? All right? All right, come on, Steve, 81 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: let's get to part two of your response to Today's 82 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Well so angry, I'm seeing red, Steve, I 83 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 1: have no nothing to say to this woman because I'm afraid. 84 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: I'm scared. Yeah, I don't want her to turn none 85 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: of this on me. This is for the dude that's 86 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: doing his girl wrong. Listen to me, hell, hath no 87 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: fury like a woman school at the top of the 88 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: letter when she said I hate my husband. This is 89 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: not good for no man. Once a woman utters them words, 90 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: here come to billboards, here come the inter net list. 91 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: But Steve, she's fed up. I got all that once again, Sherley. 92 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything to this woman. I don't need 93 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: to see in my life. But listen, and I'm serious. No, 94 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm very serious about this. If you think you know 95 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: who this guy is, if you have even considered Christianity, 96 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: please call his brother and let him know. Because see, 97 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: let me show something. The Strawberry Letter is meant to 98 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: help people to solve problems. Sometimes we laugh with the 99 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. This is the first time we've ever had 100 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: a Strawberry letter that is exposing a murder plot. This 101 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: is not what the Strawberry Letter is supposed to be about. Yeah, 102 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: I take it literally. Knife in a print of his profile, 103 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: not in his profile. She's blowing off some steams. Steve, 104 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: come on, blow off steam, take a drink, go for 105 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: a walk. I don't want her coming after me. She's 106 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: fed up with his lies, she's fed up with his mess. 107 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: That's why he somebody noticed. Man. Please, for the love 108 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 1: of God, tell him there is a murder plot out 109 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: for his death. Not plotting murder. I don't know what 110 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: y'all think it is, but she set him up though 111 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: the women. He talked, He talked to his wife. What 112 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: you got on? All right, Steve? We gotta go, We 113 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. You can email us or Instagram. 114 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: That's your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter at my girl Shirley, 115 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: and don't forget to join me this Thursday for the 116 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter Live after show on Facebook at one p m. 117 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: Please be there. I can't wait to see you. You're 118 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: listening to The Steve Morning Show.