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Speaker 4: Bridger Wineger. I hope you're doing well it we're in

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Speaker 4: Let's get into the podcast. Today's guest I find extremely

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I love to be introduced with. It's garbage Day.

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Speaker 1: I drove up the hill. It was me. It was me.

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Speaker 4: We're both trash, and the listener is just being dragged

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Speaker 4: Now here's the and this is probably there's a good

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Speaker 4: There's so many garbage there are three different cans. Is

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Speaker 4: Right, and the bin or the can is more something

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Speaker 4: Wow. What's your feeling on the New York Times Mini Crossword?

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Speaker 1: like fluffy robe after I.

434
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Speaker 4: Got, oh excellent gift.

435
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 1: It was the best gift. It couldn't have been better,

436
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: but she like knows she's been through it. So I

437
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: got one of those and it was it was I

438
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 1: was like hilarious, and I have to get one of

439
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 1: these grabber things. And it could not have been better

440
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 1: or common handy more. It was awesome. And it's one

441
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: of those things that I think people should have it

442
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 1: because you never know if you're gonna need it. So

443
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: like you know, picking like stuff off the ground because

444
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 1: like you know, you drop things all the time, you've

445
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 1: ever picked up And I'll realize it, but like we're

446
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 1: just picking like my dog's toys up off the ground

447
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: or reaching thing. It's really great. And even if you

448
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 1: only need it for like the day your back hurt's

449
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: really bad, it's worth It's worth.

450
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 4: It reaching things. I bought a stool about a like

451
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 4: a kitchen stool, about a year ago, and it was

452
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, this will be fine, It'll be

453
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 4: like I'll probably need it. It was genuinely exciting to

454
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 4: have around the house. Or it's like a new piece

455
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 4: of technology where it's like I can now reach anything.

456
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 4: I felt like I had a super power. Yes, And

457
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 4: I imagine this is going to be the same thing

458
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 4: where I'm there are a lot of things, especially in

459
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 4: the kitchen, where I'm like on my tiptoes and I'm like,

460
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 4: this is gonna fall on my face and I should

461
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 4: just not be lazy and get the stool and this,

462
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 4: this grabber gun can be my new little friend.

463
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: I hope. So I mostly have experience with picking things

464
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: up off the ground with it, not from reaching.

465
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 4: Kind of a difference in perspective. You're always looking down,

466
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 4: I'm always looking up.

467
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: Yes, it's classic euys, But do you have a dog

468
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 1: or I do have a dog. I found like my

469
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 1: dog's always ripping the stuffing out of his toys and

470
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 1: stuff or just moving things around. I found it just

471
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: really helpful and like picking stuff up, putting back in

472
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: his little toy basket, or it's phenomenal socks off the

473
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: ground and putting in the you know, launchy pile.

474
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Speaker 4: I've got kind of roller blinds in my living room

475
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 4: that are very hard for me to reach. Suddenly nothing,

476
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 4: everything's within reach. My dog has two of those hard

477
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 4: bones that are kind of then that she'll chew on

478
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 4: and then leave wherever. And it feels like as close

479
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 4: as I'm going to get to have having a kid

480
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 4: leave their legos around the house. I'm like, that's going

481
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 4: to end up in my foot at some point.

482
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Speaker 3: Ye.

483
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, so this is the perfect device. Nyla bone is

484
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 4: that I think it is a nyla bone. It's like

485
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 4: I think it's mildly peanut butter flavored. I don't know

486
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 4: how that works with the plastic and the rubber, but

487
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 4: the dog scientists they do it, do it all. She

488
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,959
Speaker 4: has those two things, and then she's allowed two toys

489
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 4: at a time.

490
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 1: Nice. Otherwise she's you're very restrained.

491
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Speaker 4: Do you spoil your dog for some reason? I know

492
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 4: that you're a dog person, yeah, but maybe it's you're

493
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 4: just kind.

494
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Speaker 1: I don't have many aspects to my identity. I really don't.

495
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: It's sad and I'm from Philadelphia, and I say it

496
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: must be nice. I know, I swear there's more to me.

497
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 4: Those are just the.

498
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: Two deepest things. Yeah. I have my my dog, Philby,

499
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:59,400
Speaker 1: and I definitely like I spoil him in that he's

500
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Speaker 1: got a lot of f physical problems and I have

501
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: to pay for help.

502
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,239
Speaker 4: Oh, like, what sort of problems does he have?

503
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: Well, he's he's eight and a half, but he is

504
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: a pit bull mix and he has these front paws

505
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: that turn out, they don't go forward like he's in

506
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: a little ballerina. Yes, and so that throws exactly, and

507
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: that throws off his whole body, you know, structure. And

508
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: at some point in a couple of years ago he

509
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: had two slip discs, one of his next neck, one

510
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 1: in his lower back. And so like he just has

511
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: to take him to physical therapy. He gets acupuncture. But

512
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: if you met him, you'd be like, this dog is fine,

513
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: what is her problem?

514
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 4: Wow? Like mother like son?

515
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, yeah, we have a lot of the same issues.

516
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: Like so he can't do any kind of stairs, okay,

517
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: and so I had to move into a house that

518
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 1: didn't have any stairs, and he can't have any not

519
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: slippery surfaces, so I have to have rolls everywhere, or

520
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: like when I first knew was like when to ross

521
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: and bought like fifteen yoga mats, just put them all

522
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 1: around the house. So it's he just so it's like

523
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: spoiled in that sense, right, just prescription of food, but

524
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,479
Speaker 1: not like he doesn't have like a big princess bet

525
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: or something.

526
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 4: Right, he just has a lot of things that need

527
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 4: to be taken care of.

528
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yeah.

529
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 4: Have you had him since he was a baby?

530
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: I got on when he was like six months.

531
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 4: They say, oh, yeah, that's so cute. I feel like

532
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 4: I've seen a picture of him before for Twitter. Yeah, okay. Yeah.

533
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 4: Our dog is an American bulldog and she's eight years old.

534
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 4: Knock on wood. No giant health crises yet. She did

535
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 4: have kind of a benign tumor which was taken care of,

536
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 4: but now she isn't qualified for pet insurance. Do you

537
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 4: have pet insurance?

538
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: No? You believe it? Yeah, I don't believe, and I

539
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: think they used to work for it. He doesn't have

540
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: a job. If he had a job, he could get insurance.

541
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: That's how this works. Uh, No, I had so he

542
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: also has over the years, it's kind of waned. His allergies,

543
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 1: like seasonal allergies or allergies to food. But when I

544
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: got him at the No Kill La shelter.

545
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 4: That's where we got our dog.

546
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great. They gave you a week or so

547
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: for a month free of this health insurance for pet

548
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: and or something like that. It was a while ago,

549
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: and also you have like your first bet appointment free

550
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: at certain vets. Somehow, in between getting him and taking

551
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: him to the vet and then like trying to activate

552
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: the health insurance, they found out about all of his issues.

553
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: So everything was a pre existing condition and it was

554
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: like a three day mishapped. And then it was just like, well,

555
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: everything's wrong with him. So I just never and so

556
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: instead I ended up working very hard a lot on.

557
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:52,479
Speaker 4: Jobs right paper kind of finance his health problems. Yeah

558
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 4: that's fine, because I'm sure he's wonderful.

559
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: Oh he's the best. He's the best. Everybody loves him.

560
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, you just fall in love with the dog and

561
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 4: the price. Price no longer matters exactly until you're in

562
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 4: financial ruin named it's destroying your life. But yeah, so

563
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 4: did your dog? Did he have a name when you

564
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 4: got him at the shelter.

565
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm not the biggest fan of changing a

566
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: dog's name, but his name was Chubby. It's not a

567
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: good name, not to mention he wasn't Chubby, not that

568
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: if he was Chubby, he would deserve the name. Not

569
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: that there's anything wrong, not that I mean Chubby is.

570
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 4: A let's that is a good name for that man.

571
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: But uh so, anyway, I wanted I think it's fun

572
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: when dogs are named like boring person name, so I

573
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: was gonna maybe name him Phil. And I also like

574
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: when dogs have titles, like, you know.

575
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 4: Like mister doctor doctor.

576
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: Well not doctor Phil, but I was gonna call him

577
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: mister Phil. And then my sister head has rescued dogs,

578
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: and she, I don't know where she heard this or

579
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: if this is just her experience, she said, if you

580
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: keep the last syllable the same, it's easier for the

581
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: dog to learn their new name. Oh interesting, So that's

582
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: I combined Phil and Chubby. And that's where philby came

583
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: from the sure it's really it's just a funny. But

584
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: then I found out I told this story a bunch

585
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: of times. Kim Philby was the the name of this

586
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: like notorious like double agent, British spy. What we like

587
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: in like the cold beginnings of the cold fifties, I

588
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: guess sixties.

589
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 4: The cold the classic period of world.

590
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: The freezing fifties, and uh, he was like a British

591
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: intelligence agent m I five or whatever, but he was

592
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: actually secretly working for the Soviets. Was a bad guy.

593
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: I think, like a lot of the like Lakari novels

594
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: are like kind of partly based on his life and

595
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: his espionage. And so sometimes I'll meet people and they'll

596
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: be like, like, like the spy, and I'm like, no,

597
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm not like the spy.

598
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 4: And I told him taking offense to that I told

599
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 4: the story of.

600
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: Recently you're already told it, But like I used to

601
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: live in Manhattan and I was on the Upper West

602
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: Side walking him and this woman was like her little

603
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: girl wanted to pet the dog, So, okay, what's his name?

604
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 4: Philby?

605
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: And the woman goes like the spy and I was like,

606
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: well it was kind of an accident. But I didn't

607
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: know for a little bit. But you know, most people

608
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: don't know this, so it's like interesting that you know

609
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: the name. And she's like I said, I don't meet

610
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: a lot of people that know that the spy based

611
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: off my dog's name. And she goes even on the

612
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: Upper west Side, and I still don't know what that means.

613
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 4: I don't know everyone on the Upper west Side. That's

614
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 4: the one thing everyone knows on the Upper west Side.

615
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 4: There's this one very small piece Cold War history that's crazy.

616
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 4: So how do you respond to that.

617
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

618
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 4: We need to take a survey of the Upper west Side.

619
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: It was such a great moment.

620
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 4: Wait, what is this Philby person? His first name Kim

621
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 4: Kim Philby, Kimberly Philby.

622
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if Kimberly, if it's Kimbridy.

623
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 4: Maybe that's a man, Okay, Kim Kim Philby. Wow, Well

624
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 4: we've all learned a little something. Outside of our listeners

625
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 4: of course on the Upper west Side, who are all

626
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 4: kind of screaming at the podcast. We know this, We

627
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 4: moved through it. This is boring information. That is such

628
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 4: a bizarre thing to say. Edie et Edie had two

629
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 4: names prior to us getting her, which neither of us knew.

630
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 4: My boyfriend named her. He got her before we a

631
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 4: month before we met, but we didn't realize. You it's

632
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 4: not as great to change the dog's name. But her

633
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 4: name was Sierra, and I'm giving away some information about

634
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 4: my dog, and I apologize to my dog. She may

635
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 4: not want this information out there. But it was Sierra

636
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 4: and then Diamond, neither name. I'm that crazy.

637
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: That's when she was a stripper, and you don't want

638
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: people right.

639
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 4: Now they are kind I mean, Diamond is kind of

640
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 4: a pro wrestler name. I feel like there's to have

641
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 4: been a Diamond.

642
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: It sounds like the three names of like in the

643
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: evolution of a woman's show business career. You know, then

644
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: you have to land land with Edie and just be like,

645
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm Edie. Everybody loves d uh yeah, so how did

646
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: you How did he come up with Eadie Grey Gardens?

647
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 4: He loves Greg Gardens.

648
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh.

649
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 4: Yeah that the Grey Gardens Ladies as a namesake, I

650
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 4: don't I'm not entirely on board with because we love

651
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 4: the Grey Gardens Ladies, but you know, their lives were

652
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 4: kind of a disaster.

653
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: Oh, were they double agents for the Brute for the Soviets?

654
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 4: Who knows, There's no telling, but of course you know

655
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 4: there was a region of Manhattan that may be able

656
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 4: to share that information with us, reach out. If either

657
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 4: of the Edies was working for the Soviets, they could

658
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 4: have been anything could have been happening in that house, right,

659
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 4: Raccoons everywhere. They were very kind of overtly patriotic in

660
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 4: a way that felt suspicious. I'll say that, I feel

661
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 4: like there's a Fourth of July celebration in that documentary

662
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 4: that now thinking about it as a giant red America.

663
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: We love it America more.

664
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 4: Okay, So I've got this grabber you used to pick

665
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 4: things up from the ground. I will use it to

666
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 4: get things out of the cupboards while I'm baking in

667
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 4: this kind of thing, getting a little box of baking soda.

668
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: And may it only be in good health and not

669
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: because you've injured yourself.

670
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,959
Speaker 4: The injury is coming for me. The back surgery is

671
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 4: terrifying to me. Yes, and you didn't see it.

672
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,959
Speaker 1: Coming, and they made me do it to myself. How

673
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: it's so scary. I was like, I don't know.

674
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 4: We're one of the world's best surgeons.

675
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: I mean I was an urban studies made. Yeah, it

676
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:49,959
Speaker 1: was it was scary.

677
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 4: What how did you injure your back?

678
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: Can?

679
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 4: I ask?

680
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure to be honest. There's this like

681
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: disc degeneration is a thing that people have. And the

682
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: way they explain what the discs are is they compare

683
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: them to jelly donuts and there's like a gel inside

684
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: that kind of you know, helps with the you know,

685
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: cushioning and you're moving and stuff, and a herniation is

686
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: when the like jelly kind of gets out.

687
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I had no wise, A lot of.

688
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: People just live with them. I mean, like it's you

689
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: hear about like psiatic pain and stuff like that, but

690
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: this one was just so severe that I had to

691
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: get surgery. And it was like I wasn't having a

692
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: whole lot of back pain, but my leg was really

693
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: tight and my leg hurt, and then over the course

694
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: of like a few hours, I just like couldn't move

695
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: and I was in the worst pain in my life,

696
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: and like crawling around and I couldn't even like I

697
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 1: couldn't even get myself or even with help to get

698
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: to the car to get to the hospital. Is the

699
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: only way I would have gotten to the hospitals if

700
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: like I had an ambulance come. So it was just

701
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: it was horrible. I had like callouses on my hands

702
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: and knees because I had been crawling around. I ordered

703
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: how long, Well, it was like a week before I

704
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 1: finally maybe less than a week before I finally went

705
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: to urgent care. But it was like my friend had

706
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: just had surgery and had some lefto and I do

707
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: not like taking pills.

708
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 4: Right, I'm reading about the sacklers.

709
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: Now, Yes, the sacklers were helpful in this case because

710
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: it was I needed to take something in order to

711
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 1: be able to get into the car. So my friend

712
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 1: Jess Conrad came over, put me on my rolling chair

713
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: and wheeled me out to the car. Like I couldn't walk,

714
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: And I feel like, I mean, I've had I've had

715
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: injuries before, but you're like limping or whatever.

716
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 4: Like it was no.

717
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: And they took me to she took me urgent care.

718
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: I was like laying like face down in her in

719
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: her back seat and then I had to like like

720
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: kind of she had kind of helped pull me out

721
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: of the backseat onto the wheelchair that she had gone

722
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: in to get and out in like the parking lot,

723
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: and a doctor comes out and is like, you're in

724
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: too much pain. We can't help you. Just to die, yeah,

725
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: just like like trying to keep it together, and like

726
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: she's like you can come in, of course we will,

727
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: but like we can't really give you much more than

728
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: like Adville or something. You need much more pain medicine.

729
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: And so then it was just basically they had just

730
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: stuffed me back into my friend's backseat and they're like,

731
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: you have to go to an r and they you

732
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 1: know what's nearby? It's Cedars and Hospital City, Hospital City, USA.

733
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: But it was like that one was was two miles

734
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: away and Cedars was three miles away. So I was like,

735
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: let's just go there because like I couldn't. It was

736
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 1: really hard. And then I went there and they were

737
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: so useless. They didn't even touch my back. It was

738
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: just happening. I don't need to get into all this,

739
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: but it was a really crazy thing where I was.

740
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I couldn't even sit in the wheelchair, was

741
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: like kind of like on my side and I was

742
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: clenched like clutching the side, and I was just tears

743
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: just streaming out my face, and they just like parked

744
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: me in the waiting room and this poor this woman

745
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: was there with her kid. I think I think she

746
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: was there to be seen. I think the kid was sick.

747
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 1: But I couldn't move and this kid is like right

748
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: there just looking at this lady tearstreamer down her face,

749
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: and I kind of was like, I'd love to move

750
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: away from this kid. Who's gonna be talking about this

751
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: on a podcast? But then, yeah, it was, uh just

752
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: it was so useless, and I I have never been

753
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: in a position, in a position where I had to Basically,

754
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: I'm very much like, okay, no, I'm not in pain.

755
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: It's cool, Yeah, I'll lay on the street. But I

756
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: was like, you know, they gave me like a shot

757
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: of something, and then they kind of treated me like

758
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: I was lying or something, and I was trying to

759
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: get pain meds.

760
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 4: I guess, lady.

761
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: It was really like, I don't know, I must have

762
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: looked a mess or something, but they were like just

763
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: gonna send me home with some pain meds and that

764
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: was it. But I knew something else was wrong, but

765
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: like he's like, okay, so we're just gonna send him home,

766
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: and I kind of for the first time ever, was

767
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: like no, I can't, I can't for you, And of

768
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: course this is all like COVID masks and everything, and

769
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: and then he's like it was like a it was

770
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: like a game of chicken. He's like all right, and

771
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: then he like goes and comes back and he's like, well,

772
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: we can take you to a pain center. And I

773
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, it's gonna take a while. Okay, we're

774
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: gonna have to like taking an ambulance. Great. It was

775
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: just like staring at the exactly like I was like,

776
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: I am not lying about this. I just this whole experience,

777
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: as crazy as it was, I mean there's there's even

778
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: like other crazy things that happen. It only made me

779
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: feel like I'm so lucky. Like every single thing that happened.

780
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, imagine if like my

781
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: eye was different in my life was different, and like,

782
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: but the luckily, my boss, Matt Selman has had the

783
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: same surgery as I did, like ten years ago, so

784
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: he recommended his surgeon, and his surgeon immediately saw like

785
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: the uh and there's something i't if you feel this way.

786
00:38:55,800 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: But like when I finally saw the MRI and doctors

787
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: were like holy shit. It was like so validated. You know,

788
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: we're on your face because I kind of It's like

789
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: it wasn't enough for me to be like, I can't walk.

790
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: So you know those little scooters in a gym class

791
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: that you sit on and you're like, I ordered one

792
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: of those from Amazon. I could like put my arms

793
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: on it and push myself around with my knees like

794
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: prior to the surgery, prior to the surgery, before I

795
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: understood before, when I back, when I thought that this

796
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: will pass. It's like I couldn't sit on it and

797
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: move my legs like, you know, I had to like

798
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: my arm I built up my armsht a lot. I

799
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: just had to put my hands on it and like crawl.

800
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: But uh, it wasn't enough for me to think, like

801
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,320
Speaker 1: all of these crazy things are happening, I'm the worst

802
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: pain of my life. I like needed a test for

803
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: me to be like, okay, good, I wasn't pain, right.

804
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,240
Speaker 4: It's like what would have convinced them in their minds

805
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 4: that there was an actual problem.

806
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't even know that my leg

807
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: I couldn't feel my leg. I didn't even know until

808
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: like a couple of days later. I saw a different

809
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: doctor and she's like, and you you probably can't feel this,

810
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: and she like touched my left leg and I was like,

811
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: oh no, I didn't really I've been so focused on

812
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: everything else. But this I saw this this doctor. He

813
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: was great. He's like, you need surgery right away, And like,

814
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 1: you know, I did some research, but and I also

815
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: have two trusted friends We've had similar experiences. So I

816
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: decided to go, you know, have this surgery with the doctor.

817
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: And I found out only after the fact that do

818
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: you remember a couple of years ago one of the

819
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: times I guess this happened, but Harrison Ford crashed his

820
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: plane onto a golf course, you forget, So my surgeon

821
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: was the one that saved his life.

822
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 4: What I didn't even know that so was he was

823
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 4: Harrison first name? Basis was he gravely injured in that plan?

824
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 4: I think he was just beat up a little bit.

825
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: But it was the kind of thing where they had

826
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: to get him out of the car because like it

827
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: was like an old school like World.

828
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 4: War two, right, kind of red baron.

829
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you know, like my doctor was was there, Like,

830
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:00,760
Speaker 1: oh god.

831
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 4: Your doctor, it wasn't in the surgery.

832
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't know why. I am like, I

833
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: wish I knew that before I went in, maybe just

834
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: because I thought it'd be funny, but like I found out,

835
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 1: like when I went back from my like check up

836
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: and he there's a Harrison Ford thing and he's like, oh,

837
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: look at this is before I knew. And he he

838
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: shows us this thing and it's like a cameo and

839
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: it's Harrison Ford going Happy Birthday, Sanjay. Not everyone can

840
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: say they saved my life, but you did, and I had,

841
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: and I was like watching it and I'm like, so

842
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: we're the Harrison Ford's doing cameos. That's like kind of sad.

843
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: And then I like he's he plays it and then

844
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh cool, is that what movie is that from?

845
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: Because it's like, what does he know this actually happened?

846
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: I was like what. He's like, yeah, no, I actually

847
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: pulled him out of a burning. He's like, I assumed

848
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: you knew that, And I was like, oh, so He's

849
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: like most people that like look me up, this is

850
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: the first thing they find, but like I didn't have

851
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: to look him up because my my friend recommended.

852
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 4: And you were in complete agony and nothing matter.

853
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: Totally, and I just was like, no, why would I

854
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: have known that? That is so cool? And so I guess,

855
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,720
Speaker 1: you know he made on this video for his fiftieth

856
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: birthday because saved his life. But it was one of

857
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: those things where I guess other people ran to help too,

858
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 1: but they had to like put dirt on the engine

859
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: so it didn't explode like that kind of thing. And then,

860
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: of course, like I was so excited, I told my mom,

861
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: and my mom had the most mom response, which was like, well,

862
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: now he's going to be telling people he saved Christine

863
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: Nangle's life.

864
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 4: That's so you've got to send him a cameo.

865
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'll get really high and stupid. And I

866
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: was like, Hi, Sange that everyone can say they they

867
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: fixed someone's my l five S one, but you can Well, what.

868
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 4: You need to do is crash a plane near him.

869
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,240
Speaker 4: I'm working on it. You've got that's in the works.

870
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: But unfortunately it's going to be in his backyard.

871
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 4: Has Harrison been back behind what do you call not

872
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 4: behind the wheel of the plane, at the yoke of

873
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 4: a plane, in the cockpit, in the cockpit since I

874
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 4: don't know, I hope not. I hope that was his

875
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 4: last flight.

876
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: Not.

877
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know that he should be flying

878
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 4: planes anymore. I don't know why he was flying the

879
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 4: Red Bear and through Los Angeles in the first place

880
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 4: for kicks. I guess scarf in the air well, I'm well,

881
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 4: that's thrilling. What Doctors of the Stars. Yeah, it was

882
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 4: really funny. Wow. Well, okay, I think it's time to

883
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 4: play a game. Okay, let's play a game called Gift Master.

884
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 4: I need to number between one and ten from you.

885
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:39,439
Speaker 1: Uh eight, Okay.

886
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 4: I have to do some light the lightest of calculating.

887
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 4: So in the meantime, you have the mic. You can

888
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 4: promote something, recommend something, do whatever you want. I'll be

889
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 4: right back.

890
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: Oh okay, make your own popsicles. It's fine that you

891
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: can get popsicle molds. What I like to do is

892
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: make a smoothie first and then put it in the

893
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: popsicle mold and it makes the popsicle really like substantial

894
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: and delicious. So that would be my first piece of advice.

895
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Check out the show that I work on as this

896
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: new startup animated project. It's called The Simpsons. It's I

897
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 1: think people are gonna like it. Check it out Animation

898
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: Domination on Fox Okay I could. No, I wasn't prepared

899
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 1: for that far.

900
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 4: That popsicle recommendation is great. I've never thought about making

901
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 4: the smoothie and then just freezing it.

902
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and actually I was gonna bring you popsicle molds.

903
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: I try to get popsicle molds, but they were like

904
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: sold out everywhere. I could go to Santa Monica, William's, Sonoma,

905
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: but I just didn't feel like that jibed with my personality.

906
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 4: Four hour trip to get some popsicle molds. What sort

907
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 4: of molds do you have? What do they look like there?

908
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: There's like plastic. It's hard to not a fun show

909
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: or anything. No, although that's a great idea. Yeah, I

910
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: every once in a while I'll get those those smoothies

911
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: day deliver the daily harvest.

912
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 4: Oh sure, sure.

913
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: Back when I was like working out pre surgery, I

914
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: would drink them and feel great. But then now I

915
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: just mix them with booze or the popsicles out of

916
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: them are both.

917
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 4: But yeah, wonderful suggestion. And yeah, we've got the Simpsons

918
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 4: that I think they're on their fourth episode, so check

919
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 4: that out while you probably gonna be cancel comment. Okay,

920
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 4: this is how gift masters. I'm gonna name three gifts

921
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 4: you can give away, three experiences items what have you.

922
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 4: And then I'm gonna name three celebrities okay, famous people

923
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 4: or whatevers, and you're gonna tell me which gift you're

924
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 4: gonna give which person and why does that make perfect sense?

925
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, and I can get it wrong, right.

926
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 4: There's no You're not gonna get anything wrong. This is

927
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 4: very much a beautiful we're painting with our minds. We're

928
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 4: giving gifts, imagining and enjoying ourselves. The gifts you're giving

929
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 4: are a food dehydra raider, which I have actually been

930
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 4: circling purchasing recently. Number two is a little less conventional

931
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 4: pre cognition, so to be able to see future events

932
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 4: before they happen.

933
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: And then fine, I can see you getting a food

934
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: hydrader pretty soon.

935
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 4: So you yeah, you've been around the block with pre cog.

936
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

937
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 4: And then finally loose fitting veneers, so somebody gets veneers

938
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 4: and they're not quite secure, and you'll be giving them

939
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 4: to the following people. We're scrolling through the doc. This

940
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 4: thing has become so unwieldly it's probably gonna burn my

941
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 4: computer down. Let's see we're getting down to the celebrities. Okay,

942
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 4: here we go. Today's celebrities are number one public nuisance,

943
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:50,240
Speaker 4: Kirk Cameron, number two Lorraine Brocco, most famously known as

944
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 4: doctor Jennifer Melfi in The Sopranos, and finally, Lakeith Stanfield,

945
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:56,760
Speaker 4: a fine actor.

946
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I would say the precognition I would give

947
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: to Lakeith because I want him to do well and

948
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: be happy, and I think I want him to stick

949
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: around Hollywood for a long time.

950
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 4: And he seems kind of level headed. Yeah, he makes

951
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 4: good acting choices. He's usually in just in good projects,

952
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 4: So it feels like someone who can be trusted with.

953
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: He can be trusted with.

954
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 4: The knowledge of the future.

955
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe he doesn't need it, because maybe he.

956
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 4: Already has, oh my God, to find that out.

957
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 1: He already like has good foresight about what he wants

958
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: to work on, right, But yeah, sure we'll give him that, Okay,

959
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: And the food dehydrator can go to Lorraine Brocco because

960
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: she's on the go.

961
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 4: She's on the probably busy, busy busy.

962
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 1: And the loose fitting veneer should absolutely go to Kirk Camera.

963
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 4: He may already have them, really, I mean he seems

964
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 4: like somebody who probably has he probably got some cut

965
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 4: great veneers, some you know, desert dentists.

966
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: He should have fluse spitting veneers in his mouth and

967
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:11,720
Speaker 1: in other parts of his bad other or if has deserved.

968
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 4: Them, teeth just falling out from every hole.

969
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: Excuse me that that's mine? Can I have? I have

970
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: a veneer? I don't know type for another quick story.

971
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: But of course, so I have these two veneers that

972
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: I am like, kind of really self conscious about and

973
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: like don't like, but I got them. So these two

974
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: teeth on either side of my front teeth, I forget

975
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: what they're called.

976
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 4: Are those of the canine teeth the most exciting.

977
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 1: Tooth of all, in between the canine and the front tithes?

978
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's so it's probably like the K eight, Yeah, right,

979
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 4: the six or whatever.

980
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: So uh And then I don't know, I think this

981
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: is like a family thing where like one of my siblings,

982
00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: like theirs, didn't like come back in after they lost

983
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: their baby one or whatever. So mine are really small naturally. Wow,

984
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: And I've always been self conscious about my whole life

985
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: and like had braces and so I've always just had

986
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,240
Speaker 1: weird shoes with my teeth. But then when I finally

987
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: got a job where I was like like a real

988
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 1: job or making money, I was like, oh my god,

989
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to get those two teeth fixed. And I

990
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: was fine, Like I was happy with them for a while.

991
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: They just weren't done well. And this one's like a

992
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: really weird shape and I really stress about it too much.

993
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: But eventually I'll get to fix. Because the thing about

994
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: the Valveniers is they're so expensive. But then you have

995
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 1: to get a replaced at some point, which means you

996
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: need to have money then too.

997
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to plan for the future. I never

998
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 4: have an.

999
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: Idea that I'm gonna have any money at any This

1000
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: is how I feel, just constant fear. They can't wait

1001
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: for my ruin. Yeah, everybody's gonna find out. Like some

1002
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: I always say, like I'm gonna get a knock on

1003
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: the door and they're gonna be like, oh, sorry, this

1004
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:48,280
Speaker 1: life was meant for some Christine Negel, you're the nangle.

1005
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:49,919
Speaker 1: It's a common mistake. And I'd be like, yes, okay,

1006
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: I'm already packed. But anyway, they they, uh, so you

1007
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: have to get a temporary one first while they're making

1008
00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 1: the real one, and but they have to like grind

1009
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: down if you have experience with vine.

1010
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 4: I've heard I know a little bit about it, and

1011
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 4: it's scares me to death.

1012
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: Yes, So they these two teeth that I already felt

1013
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: were like so small. They had made them even smart

1014
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 1: to put the temporary ones on, but they kept falling out,

1015
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: and you loose fitting temper even ears. The one kept

1016
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: falling out, and I remember I had just seen Toy

1017
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,879
Speaker 1: Story three and I was all emotional. I was walking home.

1018
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 1: I stopped at a bodega on the way home. I

1019
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: like was talking to my friend and it flew out.

1020
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: And so me and my friend are like on the

1021
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: like street, like trying to find it on a hands

1022
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: and knees and like we've we found. Like some guy

1023
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: pulls up and I'm so self conscious when it's not

1024
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: in the right I think everybody's like looking at me

1025
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: or whatever, and he's like, okay, when we're just like no, fine,

1026
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 1: dropped my earring and he found it, put it in

1027
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: my pocket because I can't put it back in my mouth,

1028
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: say goodbye to my friend, and and I'm like, I'm

1029
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: gonna stop at a bodega and get some flowers. I

1030
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 1: don't know, because I had just been crying sobbing.

1031
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 4: Right, toys get burned today exactly.

1032
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna get flowers, and I was

1033
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: getting flowers and this guy just started, Like I mean,

1034
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: I lots of ladies are used to street harassment. This

1035
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: guy was like it was intense. It was so bad

1036
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: that like when it's so persistent, you know, like something's

1037
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: off with this person. And it was one of those

1038
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: things where like I'd be like no, thank you, no,

1039
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: and he would be like into my uh like moxie

1040
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: about it, you know what I mean. He kind of

1041
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 1: was saying like, oh, yeah, you got that. Yeah, and

1042
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: so like to the point where like, you know, the

1043
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: flowers are usually outside the bodega, and I like went

1044
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 1: inside and there's men working there. Nobody's doing anything, of course,

1045
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like without my tooth in but I'm standing

1046
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: there just screaming at this guy to go away. I'm

1047
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: kind to call the police, like whatever. Everybody's watching it happen.

1048
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: But the whole time I'm like also covering my face

1049
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 1: a little bit so this man who is harassing me

1050
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: won't see that I'm missing a tooth.

1051
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 4: I want you to see me at my best.

1052
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: And he eventually went away no help from any of

1053
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: the men. One woman that was in the bodega was like,

1054
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: are you okay? And I was like, which way are

1055
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 1: you walking? And we like walked home together, Like I

1056
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,919
Speaker 1: just love that. Like none of the guys even wow.

1057
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: They it looked like I was having problems with my

1058
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: boyfriend or something.

1059
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 4: Which still someone should probably step in, but it's like

1060
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 4: gotten to a public level.

1061
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: But they were like, we're not gonna get involved with

1062
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 1: this crazy lady. She's missing a tooth, most of a tooth. No,

1063
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,879
Speaker 1: but it's just like shows, it's all in your head,

1064
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 1: Like I could. I feel like everyone was looking at me.

1065
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: But that's my experience with getting veneers. So that's one

1066
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: of the reasons that I'm like not excited to get

1067
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: them replaced.

1068
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 4: How often do you have to get them replaced?

1069
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: I just really it's been like ten years. I just

1070
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: really hate it, especially the one, because it's just it's

1071
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: a weird shape and it doesn't fit.

1072
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 4: You have excellent teeth. I would have never guessed this one.

1073
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: Everybody go on line, look a picture for me.

1074
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 4: If we've got to get some zoom ins.

1075
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense. The shape is weird. My

1076
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 1: new dentist hates it. She's like, she's like if you well,

1077
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll just I want to get it fixed.

1078
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Speaker 1: And then I had I chipped my one of my

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00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 1: front teeth when I was a kid, so painful. Yeah,

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00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: it was bad. I remember like thinking like I was

1081
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 1: going to get in so much trouble.

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00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 4: We trusted you with those teeth.

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00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: I didn't, but I always have to get every couple

1084
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: of years, I have to get that like fix with

1085
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: like just a little bonding or whatever. And she's like, well,

1086
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 1: it will be much easier if we just did the

1087
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: front four teeth. So I was like, wait, like grind

1088
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: down my front teeth and she's like yeah, and like

1089
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: something about gumb surgery and she's like, it's twenty twenty two.

1090
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,280
Speaker 1: There's no reason you shouldn't love your smile.

1091
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 4: And what about the costs, the pain. There's like a

1092
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 4: huge list of things. The fact that your teeth are fine.

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00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 1: I was like, because like you know, if you grow

1094
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 1: up with an issue you it's always going to be there.

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00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: So like you know, I had a huge gap between

1096
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 1: my teeth, like you know whatever. But like I remember

1097
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: just be like okay, okay, because I'm always so stressed

1098
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: out with the dentist anyways, Sure, and then I like

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Speaker 1: get my car and I'm like, I just don't. I

1100
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: just don't think I should do it, as if like.

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00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 4: You're being bullied.

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00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: I was totally being bullied. It was like, I think

1103
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: I should stand up for myself. And I was like, oh,

1104
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: like if you just if you didn't grow up with money,

1105
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 1: like you can't, why would you mess with perfectly good tea?

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00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 4: Of course, And it's going to be literally thousands of dollars.

1107
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 4: It's like I'm spending that on teeth. I already have them.

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00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: It would be like, gosh, I think it's like eight

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00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: thousand dollars to tooth or something. Oh and then so

1110
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm like, okay, that's twenty eight thousand dollars.

1111
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: And then I would have to have twenty eight thousand

1112
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: dollars in twenty years and like probably.

1113
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 4: Because let's face an inflation and talk about inflation.

1114
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: But it's all it's all cosmetics. So it's all like

1115
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: who cares this at this point? But yeah, it's the

1116
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: only reason I'm not a movie star is one weird

1117
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: tooth and also, I don't really am not an actor.

1118
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that yeah, I had no idea. You have

1119
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 4: great teeth. Oh, thank you, that's very nice. I chipped

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Speaker 4: a tooth in eighth grade. Somebody punched me in the

1121
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 4: stomach and I hit a uh, the top of a locker.

1122
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 4: It still remains mildly chipped. I'm just gonna live with it.

1123
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 4: And then I had braces and what I have you.

1124
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 4: But I think everyone's very sensitive about their mouths. You know.

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00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 4: You know, you go out to dinner, you constantly think

1126
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:23,840
Speaker 4: about if something's in your mouth. And I'm trying to

1127
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 4: get to a point at least if I'm with a friend,

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00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 4: if they have something in their teeth. I'm just telling you,

1129
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 4: that's a nice thing to do. It feels like such

1130
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 4: a betrayal. If you get in the car after dinner

1131
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 4: and you had something in your teeth, It's like, yeah,

1132
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 4: so those people don't care about me.

1133
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 1: It's like from from Missus Doubtfire the whole time.

1134
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,399
Speaker 4: Does Missus Doubtfire have something in the teeth?

1135
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: No, there's the time. There's the part when Sally Field

1136
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: finds out that it was her husband, and she's like,

1137
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: the whole, the whole time. Remember it's in my head forever.

1138
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 4: I was thinking, a, is there a huge plot lineup

1139
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 4: Salt like Field or missus Doubtfire has something in their teeth?

1140
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: He goes under cover as Scottish woman who has something

1141
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: in her teeth. That's they're like, Dad never has anything

1142
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: his teeth, so this can't be that.

1143
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 4: There's no way in hell. That's the one thing we

1144
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 4: know about Daddy Well excellently played. H let's you play

1145
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 4: you won in such a big way. And Kirk Cameron,

1146
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 4: let's hope he gets those loose veneers in every hole

1147
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 4: and uh, he deserves something, he's not something coming to him.

1148
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: What if in the rapture if you have ven ears,

1149
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: you can't get taken up into the rapture And he's like.

1150
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 4: Whoops, or you leave all your teeth behind. I thought

1151
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 4: when you were telling that street harassment story that the

1152
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 4: turn was going to be and that man was Kirk Cameron,

1153
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 4: that would not surprise me, Like, of course that's not

1154
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 4: that surprising, Psycho. Okay, this is the final segment of

1155
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 4: the podcast. It's called I said no emails people write

1156
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 4: into I said no gifts at gmail dot com. The

1157
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 4: amount of problems the listeners have is never ending. It's

1158
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 4: kind of gross at this point, but I'm just kind

1159
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 4: of dealing with it. We're, you know, just marching through

1160
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 4: the swamp of my listener's proprobs. Will you answer a

1161
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 4: question with yes?

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00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: Of course?

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00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 4: Okay, let me read this. This say is high bridger

1164
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 4: and disrespectful, but delightful. Guest love the podcast, of course? Well,

1165
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 4: we love a nice little compliment up top. God bless you, listener.

1166
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 4: I've got a gift dilemma, and I know you're the

1167
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 4: only one who can help. My husband and I have

1168
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 4: Oh this is perfect. My husband and I have two

1169
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 4: adorable dogs named Brownie and Scout. This is this is

1170
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 4: actually ideal. Both our rescues and quite timid and afraid

1171
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 4: of new situations and people. Scout tends to be very

1172
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 4: afraid of new people and bark slash growls at them,

1173
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 4: especially men, unless they give her give her treats to

1174
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 4: show her they're nice and can be trusted. Wile this

1175
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 4: dog knows what's going same same ah.

1176
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: Yes.

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00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 4: One of our neighbors cuts his grass every single Thursday morning,

1178
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Speaker 4: and he started carrying treats with him as he mows.

1179
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 4: When we go by on our morning walk, he stops

1180
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 4: and gives treats to my dogs. This has been wonderful

1181
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 4: because now both dogs are thrilled to see him and

1182
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 4: go in for a cuddle. However, Scout has become I'm

1183
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 4: really pushy and tries to snatch the treats from him

1184
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 4: and pulls us down the street like a maniac when

1185
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 4: she hears the lawnmower going. Okay, so kind of a

1186
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 4: Pavlovian thing happening with the lawnmower at this point some weeks,

1187
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 4: it's so bad. She's pulling so hard she's walking on

1188
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 4: her hind legs and crying. Okay, Oh, we're trying to

1189
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 4: help her learn some composure. But in the meantime, I'd

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00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 4: love to get my neighbor a gift that says, thank

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00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 4: you for helping my dog learn to love new people,

1192
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 4: and I'm sorry she's snatching things like a brat. Some

1193
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 4: context outside Okay, listener, outside of this forty pages of

1194
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 4: text I just read, there's more context for context.

1195
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm brad.

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00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 4: Some context. I love to bake and cook and have

1197
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 4: thought about doing that, but have no idea what his

1198
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 4: dietary needs are. I also have I also forgotten his

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00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 4: name O rude, and now it feels like too much

1200
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 4: time has passed to ask for it again. I agree.

1201
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 4: What I do know is that he's a scheduled, tidy

1202
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 4: and friendly guy about fifty years old who rides his

1203
00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 4: bike with a basket often and is kind to animals.

1204
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 4: Your sage advice is greatly apprecia. And that's when Susie

1205
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 4: in Atlanta, Susie, the situation is out of control. Yeah,

1206
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 4: I mean on a lot of levels, you've forgotten the

1207
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 4: name of this fifty year old riding around on a

1208
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 4: bike with a basket. Kind of a wicked witch situation

1209
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 4: going on. He's obsessed with neighborhood dogs. He's mowing the

1210
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 4: lawn constantly. He's baiting the dogs with the food. What

1211
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 4: And Susie's thinking maybe I should bake, but I don't

1212
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 4: know his dietary needs? What what do you think? My

1213
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 4: first the first thing I'm going to think say is, Susie,

1214
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 4: if you're gonna bake something, it doesn't matter about the

1215
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 4: dietary needs. He's gonna throw it out. He'll just say

1216
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 4: that was nice that he's dumping it in the trash,

1217
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 4: So it doesn't matter if he's allergic if that's the

1218
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 4: gift you want to give, truly, bake him whatever and

1219
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 4: just know that that's going to be thrown away. Garbage

1220
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 4: is the theme of the podcast today. But anyway, what

1221
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 4: are you thinking? This is a very strange email to

1222
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 4: receive with. Let's be honest. There's male harassment, there's dogs,

1223
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 4: there's everything we could have. We've discussed so much of

1224
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 4: this already on the podcast.

1225
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: Yes, and where's Brownie? And all this.

1226
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 4: As maybe this guy's name is Brownie.

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Speaker 1: She never had a second dog. I would say the

1228
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: best gift to get him is drought tolerant landscaping. Oh, fantasic,

1229
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: eliminate the need for mowing altogether, and there you have it. Well,

1230
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: I mean, if the name thing, she could always just

1231
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 1: bring a new person on a walk with her, okay,

1232
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: and then do the thing where you get the name.

1233
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 4: Oh that's such a you know, excellent.

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01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 1: If the name is that, I think it's I also

1235
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: think it's not. I personally am not offended if someone

1236
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: says I'm so sorry I don't know your name. I

1237
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: think that that's fine. I think people worry about them.

1238
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 4: I think as a society we need to say that's okay.

1239
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 4: I can't. We can't have a memory full of these

1240
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 4: nonsense words that are.

1241
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 1: Names, especially if you say something like I'm so sorry,

1242
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 1: you're always so kind, and you've really actually helped this

1243
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: tree in our dog and I can't believe this. I'm

1244
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: so embarrassed. I don't know your name, like you know

1245
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: what I mean.

1246
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 4: I'm ashamed. Yeah, you got me. Yeah, I don't know

1247
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 4: your name. My memory is barely functioning. Will you please

1248
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 4: share this information.

1249
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 1: Here's some cookies you gotta throw out. We both know.

1250
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 4: I know you don't appreciate my baking. You never have

1251
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 4: and you never will.

1252
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: So what's the question.

1253
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 4: What, ultimately, what do we give this fifty year old

1254
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 4: on his bike with a basket. Oh, we know he

1255
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 4: has a lawn mower. You're saying drought tolerant landscaping. Just

1256
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 4: she's ben in Atlanta, which I feel like is so

1257
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 4: verdant and green.

1258
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never been there, so I wouldn't I

1259
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't know.

1260
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 4: I guess I've never been there either. But in my mind,

1261
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 4: I picture you know, a lot of trees, sticky humid air. Yea,

1262
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 4: but everybody loves drout. Drought tolerant landscaping next week, he's

1263
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 4: raking the gravel rather than mowing the lawn.

1264
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 1: No, what if she got him give card to like

1265
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: pet smart so he could use it to buy treats,

1266
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 1: because like he gives the treats, right, does he buy

1267
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: the trees?

1268
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 4: Sounds like he's buying the trees, But then is there

1269
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 4: a comment on the quality of treats is giving the dog?

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01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 1: Yes? Well what okay? He loves bike access about horn?

1271
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: Yeah or both. You could get one of those little

1272
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: license plates that says like dog baiter or something.

1273
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I feel like that's a good novelty idea. Yeah,

1274
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 4: that's great lonsense plates. There we go, sharks. I'm offering

1275
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 4: you one hundred percent of my business because no one

1276
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 4: will buy my lawnmower license plates. That feels like a

1277
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 4: decent idea. Dog bait.

1278
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I also think like something I think. I don't

1279
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,919
Speaker 1: think he might. I don't think he would throw away

1280
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: the treats. It sounds like they're friends.

1281
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't trust person. I think that

1282
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 4: there's a bigger game at play, and he's obviously like

1283
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 4: deliberately keeping his name from her. Uh, he's planning. He's

1284
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 4: probably got all his bags packed and is planning to

1285
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 4: flee in the night with the dogs. He's obviously trying

1286
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 4: to get them on his side.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's that's right.

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Speaker 4: He's teaching them to be vicious and snappy.

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Speaker 1: Uh, he's turning them on her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Eventually Susie will be devoured and the Brownie and

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01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 4: Scout will hop on the lawnmower with dog Vader. I mean,

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Speaker 4: why not decorate a cake and just guess his name,

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01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 4: say thank you Chris, yeah, and take it over and

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01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 4: he'll he will certainly tell the name when you hand

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01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 4: him the cake.

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01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then say well, never mind then, or I've

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Speaker 1: like call him Mike, Mike with the bike. There you go,

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Speaker 1: your Scout's friend, Scout feeder.

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Speaker 4: Cake that says thank you, Scout's friend.

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Speaker 1: Thank your friend to all man and beast.

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Speaker 4: Susie, think of all of the options for given you

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01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 4: here a grabber, a grabber to grab treats from him,

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01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 4: and then you can give it to the dog at

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01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 4: a safe distance. I mean, the fact that you wrote

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01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 4: into the same email is not just telling me you're

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01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 4: a lazy person that's not willing to just spend four

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01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 4: seconds thinking about gift or.

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Speaker 1: I think the best gift, just give him Scout. Scout's

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01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: the troublemaker, Brownie, and you are doing fine right.

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Speaker 4: Scout has become kind of a problem in your life.

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01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 4: Enjoys the company of lawnman. Uh So maybe one day

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01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 4: suddenly he looks in the backyard and Scout's running around

1313
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 4: and he's like, the plan has worked, right. The gift

1314
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 4: it was, It's a gift. The load is off of you, Susie.

1315
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 4: Everybody wins. Yeah, I like this a beautiful end to

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01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 4: a gorgeous story. Yes, Susie, take that information and execute it.

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Speaker 4: Uh to the letter. I don't want you to deviate

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01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 4: at all from what we just told you, because who

1319
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 4: could perfect We answered the question perfectly. Yeah, this podcast

1320
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 4: is a service. If nothing else, we provide a service

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01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 4: to the community. And thank you for doing that. My pleasure,

1322
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:19,919
Speaker 4: but also thank you for this Graber. I can't wait

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01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 4: for this to kind of probably enable my laziness.

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01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: You're welcome, use it and get out.

1325
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 4: I'll be grabbing the TV remote, I'll be pinching people.

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01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: It could also protect your back CANSO, that's true. Word

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01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: off further.

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Speaker 4: Problem less bending over and hopefully will allow me to

1329
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 4: reach immortality. Christina had a wonderful time with me today. Now, listener,

1330
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 4: I hope you had a wonderful time. If you didn't,

1331
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 4: that's entirely on you. It's obviously a personality difference. You

1332
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 4: can certainly find another podcast. Don't let me know, don't

1333
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 4: write otherwise. I hope you have a wonderful rest of

1334
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:00,959
Speaker 4: your day, a wonderful rest of your week, and we'll

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01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 4: meet again at some other point. I love you, goodbye,

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Speaker 4: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's

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01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 4: produced by our dear friend Annalise Nelson, and it's beautifully

1338
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 4: mixed by John Bradley. The theme song, of course, could

1339
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 4: only come from a miracle worker, Amy Mannon. You must

1340
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 4: follow the show on Instagram at I said no gifts.

1341
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 4: I don't want to hear any excuses. That's where you

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01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:30,760
Speaker 4: get to see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting.

1343
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 4: And don't you want to see pictures of the gifts?

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01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 3: Hello?

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01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: Invit did you hear?

1346
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 2: Thought a man myself perfectly clear? When you're a guest

1347
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 2: to me, you gotta come to me empty. And I said,

1348
01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 2: no guests

1349
01:06:53,280 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 3: Your presences presence enough, and I'm already too much up, So,

1350
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 3: how do you dare to surbey me