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Standard message and data rates may apply. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 2: the phone. It's the Fred Show. Henry, good morning, Welcome 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: to the program. How are you that can be doing better? Okay, 14 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: that's honest. You met a woman named Jasmine, and I 15 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 2: got to know the whole backstory. We want to know 16 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 2: how you met Jasmine. Tell us about any dates you've 17 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: been on and how you think those dates went, and 18 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 2: then kind of why you think maybe you're being ghosted. 19 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: I mean, did the thing, I did the dating app 20 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 3: thing and shockingly, you know, this woman's amazing, Like she's beautiful, 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 3: she's funny. We went on a date, went out that 22 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: had some drinks. Everything was going great, you know, even 23 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 3: like after the first day was talk to each other 24 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 3: every night, and I'm like, oh wow, this a dating 25 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: app actually worked. 26 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 4: And I went on a second date, went out to dinner, 27 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 4: and I haven't heard him since. I don't know what happened. 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 4: I don't know she didn't like the food. I just 29 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 4: don't get it. She just disappeared on me. 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,639 Speaker 2: We hear a lot about one date that goes weird 31 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 2: and and someone gets ghosted. We don't necessarily hear all 32 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 2: the time about two dates because that means the first 33 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 2: date went well enough to to, you know, to earn 34 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: yourself a second date, and that's where things went awry. 35 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: I mean, because she kind of knew who you were 36 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: and knew what she looked like, she knew about the chemistry, 37 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: you know, she was able to figure all that stuff 38 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 2: out on date number one. So what happened on date 39 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: number two? Then I guess the mystery that led to 40 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: her not wanted to talk to you again. 41 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. Every day was perfect, I thought, 42 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 5: I'm so confused. Yeah, I understand that, Henry. So let's 43 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 5: we're gonna play a song. We're gonna come back in 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 5: about three minutes. We're going to call Jasmine and see 45 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 5: if we can get her on the phone. You'll be 46 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 5: on the phone at the same time. And the hope 47 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 5: what we're trying to do here is figure out what's 48 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 5: going on, see if she maybe has a good reason 49 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 5: for not being available to you. And the hope is 50 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 5: that we can set you up, in this case, on 51 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 5: a third date and pay for it and everything works 52 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 5: out great. 53 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, hopefully maybe her phone just went out. 54 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: Of service or something. 55 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 56 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: Hey, Henry, Yes, all right, let's call Jasmine. You met 57 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 2: on the dating apps. You have actually been on two dates. 58 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: The first one went great. You went on the second date. 59 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 2: You thought that that went well too, except you haven't 60 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 2: been able to get a hold of Jasmine since the 61 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: second date. You've texted, you've called, she is not responding 62 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: to you. You're pretty sure you're being ghosted, and you're confused, 63 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: and you want to know why. 64 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: That is one hundred percent. All right, let's call Jasmine now. 65 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: Good luck, man, appreciate it. Hello. Hi'sus Jasmine. Uh, yes, 66 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: hi Jasmin. Good morning. 67 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 68 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: the morning radio show. I do have to tell you 69 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now and I 70 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the call. Can 71 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: we chat for just a second with you? You can hang 72 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 2: up anytime, okay, sure? Yeah, Well, thank you so much. 73 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: I know it's kind of strange. We're trying to do 74 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 2: a bit of a service here for a guy named Henry, 75 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 2: who I guess you met on one of the dating 76 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: apps and you've been on two dates with him. 77 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: Do you remember going out with Henry? 78 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: I hope, yeah, Okay, okay, So he called hus and 79 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: we just chatted with him, and he had nice things 80 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: to say about you and told us that you guys 81 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: had matched and gone on a couple of dates that 82 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 2: he thought were in his estimation perfect to use the 83 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 2: word perfect. But he says now he can't get a 84 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: hold of you, and he thinks he's being ghosted. He 85 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 2: kind of wants to know why, what's going on? Why 86 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: don't you call him back the first yet? 87 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: And he's a really lovely man. 88 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 4: He's really lovely. 89 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 6: Uh. There there was a lot of time between the 90 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 6: first date and the second date. I mean, we we 91 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 6: both have really busy schedules. I mean, you know, it's 92 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 6: a lot. 93 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: Of time, like a week, two weeks. 94 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 6: I think it was about a week and a half, 95 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 6: two weeks. You know, you get busy and you know. 96 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: All right, well, I mean so that was the that 97 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 2: was the problem that it took two weeks to schedule 98 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 2: the second dat. 99 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: I mean, you went, that can't be it. 100 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 6: He was very nice, but I don't think it would 101 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 6: work out between us. 102 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 2: Okay, why because our goal here is to be able 103 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: to tell him why you don't want to see him again. 104 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: There's obviously something that happened in the two weeks because 105 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: you mentioned that, but we're just gonna just is also 106 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 2: we can tell him so that he could understand and 107 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 2: then leave you alone. 108 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 6: Okay, second gate, everything was going cool, everything was fine, 109 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 6: and then he smiled. He had the worst the years 110 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 6: I have ever seen in my entire life. He was 111 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 6: giving me full on mister potato head guy smiling. 112 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 1: I was like, so he. 113 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: Didn't have the chicklets when you first met. And then 114 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: he went out and got some dental work done, you're saying, 115 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: and then now he's got, you know, some new teeth. 116 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 6: They look like one big. Barney had one big I'm 117 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 6: trying to be a good person. 118 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm trying and. 119 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 6: He's so nice, and I'm just like, oh and I'm 120 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 6: trying not tomorrow, and I took everything in me. 121 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:49,239 Speaker 2: Not too mad, I mean, Jasmine sounds traumatized by the great. 122 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: About this? What's the deal? 123 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 7: Oh? 124 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: No, no, night. 125 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 3: It was just so extra. 126 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 6: I was like, you chose this, If this is what 127 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 6: you're choosing, what else are you choosing? That's a little 128 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 6: too much and doesn't work. Let me ask representative of 129 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 6: other scenes. 130 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 1: I can get you an answer to that question. 131 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 2: Because I got so wrapped up in the story, I 132 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 2: forgot that Henry is here. Henry. So between date one 133 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 2: and day two, you you you had some dental work done, 134 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 2: you got some veneers. 135 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: She's jeous, jealous. She doesn't have teeth that look as 136 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: beautiful as yours? Is that what it is? 137 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 3: Jews much teas amazing. 138 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 4: It's like I got like the Steve Harvey. 139 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 2: Well, now that's in the eye of the beholder, now, 140 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: isn't it. 141 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: Now that you are you're not saying who is not? No, 142 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: they're not. 143 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 6: I'm so sorry they're not. No whatever of Steve Harvey 144 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 6: as their best you know, match. 145 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: Exactly to emulate. I mean, no, you're we love teeth 146 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: not too much, but I don't. No one says, oh 147 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: my gosh, it's so hot for Steve Harvey. 148 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 4: No one says that. 149 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 7: Oh wow, how do you get I mean, Harvey legend, 150 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 7: he's not a heart frog. 151 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 2: Now hold on, I will say this is I've seen 152 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: this happen before where it's like, yeah, you really went 153 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: for it. You know, they're very very white, like a 154 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 2: naturally white, or they like they're shaped kind of strange, 155 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 2: like the very big teeth, you know, and you're kind 156 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: of making well okay, I get that, but good point. 157 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: But here's the important part. You're happy with the way 158 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 2: they look. Like they're mirrors. No, you like you like 159 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: the way you look. 160 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: Henry and spends a lot of money. 161 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: They're not cheap, they're expensive. Was he probably spent a 162 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: lot of money on this and so But the important 163 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: thing here is that you like the way they look. 164 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: But would you say, Henry, that it was a drastic 165 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 2: change between date one and day two, Like, would you 166 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: say that it was a massive transformation. 167 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 3: My face kept a shape, so it worked out perfectly. 168 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: Okay, But I mean, look, if she was attracted to 169 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: you on date one and then you made a significant 170 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 2: change to your smile or the way that you your 171 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: face looks, or your appearance, and she doesn't like that 172 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: as much. I mean, it's rude to sort of say, 173 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 2: and it's it's kind of raw, But I mean, is 174 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 2: that fair? I mean, if she had completely changed her 175 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 2: hair or I don't know, something like that between date one. 176 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: Appreciate what she changes her hair more than more than 177 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: once a month? Okay, yeah, I mean at least he's 178 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: these seem to going to stay good. 179 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 7: Okay, I'm not. 180 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that what she's saying is nice or 181 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: feels good. But what I'm saying to you is if 182 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 2: if she had long hair and on date one and 183 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: then showed up looking like Shnead O'Connor with bald hit 184 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: on a second date, would you feel the right to 185 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 2: say And I guess there's a nicer way to do it. 186 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 2: I don't really know what it is, but is there 187 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 2: is there a part of you that could say, well, 188 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: that's you made a big transformation in the way you look, 189 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: and I'm not as attracted to you as I was 190 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 2: because you change your lok. 191 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: I just I was hoping that there was more to 192 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 3: her than just hey, you look different, okay, But the important. 193 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: Part is that you feel good about you right, like 194 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: you like the way they look. I mean, don't feel 195 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 2: bad about it because one person doesn't like me. I'm 196 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 2: sure they're lovely, So I mean, I want you to 197 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 2: be happy with what you did, and I don't want 198 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 2: one person to bring you down because she thinks she 199 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: looked different and doesn't like it. 200 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: Who cares? I was ever known as mister potato Hits. 201 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 2: One person said that, and it was very mean. It 202 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: was very mean to say that. No one here laughed 203 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 2: at that. Did anyone laugh? Definitely vocalist. That's not a 204 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 2: nice thing to say about somebody. Okay, So look, Jasmine, 205 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 2: you're not interested in exploring a third date with with 206 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: this guy? 207 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: I assume you called him a. 208 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 4: Potato No, but I wish him the best. 209 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 6: No, I do not wish to explore. 210 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 4: Anything further, but I wish him the best. 211 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 6: And you're right, I don't like it, but. 212 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 2: Someone else way, Henry, if you like the teeth that 213 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: you got, then that's all that matters. 214 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm serious. 215 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 2: I'm not even like being I'm not trying to I'm 216 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 2: not pandering to you, like if that's if you are 217 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: happy with the way you look, then who cares if 218 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: one person doesn't like him, doesn't matter. 219 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope she get gravity good. 220 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 6: Oh that's unnecessary but. 221 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: Okay, guys, it's not gonna work out obviously. 222 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: Best of luck to both of you and Tru