Speaker 1: Second date up date.
Speaker 2: One of our listeners, Chris says his first date got
Speaker 2: derailed before it even started.
Speaker 1: Just like most of the segments on this show.
Speaker 3: I was going to say that what people were used to.
Speaker 2: I feel for you, Chris. I have been there. In fact,
Speaker 2: I'm there right now.
Speaker 4: It's good.
Speaker 1: Stay in Chris. Do you feel this segment tanking as
Speaker 1: we speak?
Speaker 4: I think we can get it back on track.
Speaker 1: Okay, my host faces say different.
Speaker 3: But you're a lot more hopeful and optimistic than we are, Chris.
Speaker 2: But tell us about the girl that you were supposed
Speaker 2: to go out with. What's her name?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, name's Kayla.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: We met at a dating app then online.
Speaker 3: How long did you guys chat before you actually met up?
Speaker 4: Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess
Speaker 4: a decent amount of time we got to know each other,
Speaker 4: at least a little bit.
Speaker 2: Is that the normal amount of time that you guys
Speaker 2: do two three weeks before you meet up?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I try to me as soon as possible so I
Speaker 3: don't waste my time. Okay, she's ours.
Speaker 4: Yeah, a solid connection, though you make sure it's two
Speaker 4: three weeks if you're just looking up like Alexas.
Speaker 1: Yeah, fair, So you actually like her?
Speaker 4: It sounds like, yeah, yeah, it was one of those
Speaker 4: auts where we were trying to date, not just get
Speaker 4: down to it.
Speaker 3: Gotcha good, and so I mean the conversation leading up
Speaker 3: sounds like obviously it was good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was good. She's super cute, Like first
Speaker 4: just saw our pictures. She had like freckles, she was
Speaker 4: wearing like all these cute like old band T shirts
Speaker 4: that she sort of like cut up and anyway, whatever
Speaker 4: my type.
Speaker 3: Okay, and you're not one of those guys that sees
Speaker 3: like a girl wearing like a rolling Stone shirt Ramones
Speaker 3: and it's.
Speaker 4: Like okay, I was like, you're not even in Nirvana.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the date and how it got derailed.
Speaker 4: Well, all right, so we scheduled that I was actually
Speaker 4: going to pick her up for our first date.
Speaker 1: Oh may.
Speaker 3: She definitely trusts you then.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so I got there like I'm a pretty
Speaker 4: punctual person. I got there ended up being like twenty
Speaker 4: minutes early. Okay, oh wow, okay, So I was like
Speaker 4: I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to
Speaker 4: see what's going on or whatever.
Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't know. Twenty minutes early for a date
Speaker 3: is really early.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm not going to be ready no exactly,
Speaker 3: Like and then it's like awkward because you have to
Speaker 3: answer the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's
Speaker 3: like different if you send a text and you're like, yo,
Speaker 3: i'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready.
Speaker 3: Let me know.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I thought about doing it, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm going to be a gentleman. I'll just walk up
Speaker 4: to the door instead of using a cell phone about it. Okay,
Speaker 4: but it got it got way weirder though. Okay, So
Speaker 4: I go up and the door was actually like cracked open.
Speaker 4: So I sort of nudged it open just a little
Speaker 4: bit to give like a hey, you know, I'm here. Yeah,
Speaker 4: And as I nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped
Speaker 4: out and screamed surprise what what?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, I'm really confused.
Speaker 3: Were you the wrong house?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: So it turns out her friends were throwing her a
Speaker 4: surprise party a week before her birthday. Wow, they were
Speaker 4: throwing her off a scent by doing it a week early.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well what do you do? Do you stay for
Speaker 1: the party or do you just leave?
Speaker 3: Well, she's obviously not even there yet if they're all
Speaker 3: waiting for.
Speaker 4: Her, right, Yeah, yeah, she wasn't she was not there yet,
Speaker 4: so awkward. Yeah, so, I you know, they didn't like
Speaker 4: ask me a lot of questions. They just sort of
Speaker 4: were like getting getting you know, she's on her way here. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I didn't like fully have time to make the decision of.
Speaker 3: Like, OK, so then you're just like put in with
Speaker 3: the crowd of people and you're now waiting to surprise
Speaker 3: her for her party.
Speaker 4: With a group of people I've never metol that's hysterical.
Speaker 3: So what happened when she came into the door.
Speaker 4: So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised.
Speaker 4: You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and
Speaker 4: then sees me in the middle of it, and she
Speaker 4: looks even more surprised.
Speaker 1: Probably not how you envisioned your first date.
Speaker 3: Now, that's so funny though.
Speaker 1: Was it a great party?
Speaker 3: Did you have a great Did she have a great time?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she seemed that a really great time. I mean,
Speaker 4: I know, I talk to people a pretty decent amount,
Speaker 4: and like I hung out with their dog for a
Speaker 4: while with the big big dog.
Speaker 1: Fan it's doghole? Is that great? I have a weird feeling.
Speaker 3: About it, really why I think it sounds good.
Speaker 4: I'd rather do that than like an awkward dinner date
Speaker 4: with someone, Like.
Speaker 3: You're with friends, you guys are all drinking and the
Speaker 3: mood is super high.
Speaker 2: And you're with their friends and they're all hanging out
Speaker 2: with each other and he's over on the couch, just
Speaker 2: sitting at the door.
Speaker 3: No, but here's the thing. If you can find a
Speaker 3: person who can hold their hone in a party, it
Speaker 3: is so attractive. I agree that you don't have to
Speaker 3: babysit them the whole time.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I mean it was cool, But like every
Speaker 4: now and again, they'd be like, wait, so how do
Speaker 4: you know her? I'm a little confused, And I was like,
Speaker 4: I don't know. Do I bring up the dating app?
Speaker 4: I was like, I would usually find a way to
Speaker 4: sort of like hear the conversation.
Speaker 2: You don't want to tell them, oh yeah, I'm from
Speaker 2: one night stand dot com.
Speaker 1: You also don't want to be like, I'm your cousin.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: But if it was one of my friends, I'd be stoked,
Speaker 3: like this is so.
Speaker 1: Date. Just like the.
Speaker 2: Party sounded fun, but we're able to ever get any
Speaker 2: like alone one on one time to actually connect with her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so like we got on the beer pongk table
Speaker 4: together one but that was fun.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but.
Speaker 4: Actually yeah, like I ended up staying till the end,
Speaker 4: So we got like almost a half an hour to
Speaker 4: sort of like chap. It was. It's like it's like
Speaker 4: post party, like, you know, she's pretty tired. I was
Speaker 4: pretty tired. It was a lot, like it was a lot. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but we decided next week we're going to go out
Speaker 4: on like a real date.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how did it end? Did you just leave?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I just you know, she gave me a hug goodbye.
Speaker 4: But I mean, you know, when I was leaving, like
Speaker 4: she seemed happy about the party, but she also seemed
Speaker 4: like genuinely happy that I actually made the decision to stay.
Speaker 3: And like, you know, okay, so what's happened since?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now. I texted her,
Speaker 4: you know, that week to make plans. I didn't hear back,
Speaker 4: and now it's been two weeks and oh so I'm like,
Speaker 4: you know, I'm just racking my brain, like what you know.
Speaker 4: In my head, I'm like now I'm thinking about who
Speaker 4: is at the party. I'm like, was there like an
Speaker 4: ex boyfriend or something that maybe she rekindled with.
Speaker 3: Did someone say something bad about you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call
Speaker 2: her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise, Because.
Speaker 1: That's my plan.
Speaker 2: We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call
Speaker 2: Kayla for you and try and get your second date update.
Speaker 4: Okay, hey, I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: All right, hold on second date update.
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second date update.
Speaker 3: We're supposed to wait till she was on the phone.
Speaker 1: Well, it's a second date update minus the date part.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But there was a lot of party.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because one of our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to
Speaker 2: meet up on the exact night Kayla's friends planned a
Speaker 2: surprise birthday.
Speaker 1: Party for her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he showed up, got rushed in and told
Speaker 2: to hide behind a couch along with forty other people
Speaker 2: that he didn't know, and he's surprised. Kayla ended up
Speaker 2: hanging out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog,
Speaker 2: but yeah, also with some of her friends and even
Speaker 2: her at one point, and Chris, how did you say
Speaker 2: it ended that night between you guys?
Speaker 4: I felt good. It was weird, obviously, but she was
Speaker 4: happy I was there and that we were definitely hanging
Speaker 4: out the next weekend.
Speaker 3: And you didn't get any of her friends any reason
Speaker 3: for them to be like stay away from him, like
Speaker 3: he's like red flags.
Speaker 4: You know, I didn't do anything embarrassing. You know, I
Speaker 4: watched my limits on drinking, you know, very careful.
Speaker 3: Like maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she
Speaker 3: did say it was her birthday the week after because
Speaker 3: they were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's
Speaker 3: just been too busy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible. I get that.
Speaker 4: But like she's not responding even to text.
Speaker 1: Brook what a dumb suggestion that? Yeah, to be positive,
Speaker 1: I hope you feel embarrassed by that.
Speaker 3: I don't, okay, but you know you should a numb
Speaker 3: to embarrassment. At this point in my life, it doesn't
Speaker 3: happen anymore.
Speaker 1: Well, now you just made it sad.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's just call Kaylen and hopefully put some positivity
Speaker 2: into this call.
Speaker 1: All right, you ready to do this, Chris?
Speaker 4: I hope so here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, is this Kayla?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 4: This is is this.
Speaker 3: Right now?
Speaker 1: With work and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Yay, I'm sorry what birthday?
Speaker 4: We heard?
Speaker 1: It's your birthday.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry this is a joke or something.
Speaker 2: I don't I just don't know, you know, it's it's
Speaker 2: not a joke, it's actually it's actually something that we're
Speaker 2: doing called a second date.
Speaker 4: Update.
Speaker 2: We're all wondering about a hangout that you had recently
Speaker 2: with one of our listeners named Chris.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 2: He reached out to us and told us, you guys
Speaker 2: are supposed to go out on a date, but then
Speaker 2: it kind of got derailed because as your friends through
Speaker 2: your surprise birthday party.
Speaker 3: And he, like he said, he got like swept up
Speaker 3: into the party somehow, which is I thought it sounded
Speaker 3: like a really cute night and you must have been
Speaker 3: so excited your friends. Are you a surprise party? That's
Speaker 3: so cool?
Speaker 4: Really weird.
Speaker 1: Well, don't worry.
Speaker 2: Sorry, we didn't mean this blindside you and surprised you
Speaker 2: with all that stuff. We're just really trying to help
Speaker 2: our listener Chris understand what happened at the party, because
Speaker 2: he felt like, you guys were getting along and you
Speaker 2: were supposed to hang out the next weekend and that
Speaker 2: never happened.
Speaker 1: So he's just a little bit confused.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess that's in the air these days. Yeah,
Speaker 5: And I don't mean you gubes at all. I don't
Speaker 5: know You're not being mean to.
Speaker 4: This. Is you mean? Yea that?
Speaker 3: Yeah, You're fine. Chris is just confused, you know, And
Speaker 3: I feel like you could understand that, Like he said
Speaker 3: that you he left you on such a happy, positive note.
Speaker 3: You guys had a great hug, and then it's just
Speaker 3: silence sense. Uh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was such a weird thing that
Speaker 5: had happened because basically I was not only surprised that
Speaker 5: there was a surprise party, but then I was like
Speaker 5: it was a double air of surprise because Chris being there,
Speaker 5: and so it was like just a clown car full
Speaker 5: of emotions, I suppose. And it was super nice that
Speaker 5: he stayed, but it was weird because I guess he
Speaker 5: left and then he came back.
Speaker 3: You mean to the party.
Speaker 5: I mean I didn't see him, but I just assumed
Speaker 5: he did that.
Speaker 1: What do you mean assumed?
Speaker 5: Well, because there was a gift from Chris that was
Speaker 5: on the present table, and I mean he didn't know
Speaker 5: that there was going to be a surprise party, at
Speaker 5: least he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't.
Speaker 3: That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed
Speaker 3: out in the middle of the party to go get
Speaker 3: you a prize. I think that's so kind.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it wasn't because when I opened up his
Speaker 5: presence in it was skims shapewear.
Speaker 3: That is hard to get your hands on though it's
Speaker 3: a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear.
Speaker 1: Is supposed to like slim you down.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, was it lingerie though it just buys skims
Speaker 3: because they do all sorts of difference, It.
Speaker 5: Was shapewear, and I was so like horrifically offended.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: He obviously he looked at me and then he was like,
Speaker 5: I'm just gonna go run out and get shapewear for her.
Speaker 3: Why would he do that?
Speaker 1: That is that's really odd, especially for a first possible gifts.
Speaker 2: But is it one of those things where he just
Speaker 2: saw like it's a Kim Kardashian line and he figured
Speaker 2: like if I was gonna buy a girl makeup and
Speaker 2: I saw Kim k on it or something like maybe.
Speaker 3: I didn't look at it, maybe he didn't know it
Speaker 3: was shapewear. Maybe he thought it was just.
Speaker 2: Like trying to look I want you to know he
Speaker 2: never told us that he bought you a gift or
Speaker 2: anything about.
Speaker 3: The skims, and he went on and on about how
Speaker 3: cute and hot you were when we talked to him.
Speaker 5: I mean, I was really mortified and really embarrassed, and
Speaker 5: I'm I just don't want to have to think about
Speaker 5: it about him anymore.
Speaker 2: So you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this
Speaker 2: to you, Kayla, but we do have one more surprise.
Speaker 2: Chris is on the other line listening, and he wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Hey wait wait what Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm like, this
Speaker 4: is blowing away. I never left the party, I promise you.
Speaker 3: Like so what you already had a gift with you
Speaker 3: and you showed up to a party that you didn't.
Speaker 1: Know was going to happen.
Speaker 5: No, wait, hold on you guys, this is this is Chris.
Speaker 5: Did you set this up to get me on the
Speaker 5: radio like this?
Speaker 4: Like I wanted to not when I couldn't get figured
Speaker 4: out any other way to like try to figure out
Speaker 4: like what I possibly did to make you not like
Speaker 4: even respond to text like let alone not go out
Speaker 4: with me again because you got you bought me.
Speaker 5: You must have left and got me some present that
Speaker 5: is demonstrative of how you look at my body or
Speaker 5: like it was just so weird and inappropriate and inappropriate.
Speaker 1: Dude, what were you thinking?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 4: I don't even know what I wouldn't even know where
Speaker 4: to buy shapewear like this is I don't know. I
Speaker 4: guess I'm sort of figuring out based on what everyone's
Speaker 4: saying what shapewear is. But look, all right, time embarrassing.
Speaker 4: I liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and
Speaker 4: like there was this whole table of presents, like from
Speaker 4: all your awesome friends, and I was like, I don't
Speaker 4: have anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this
Speaker 4: is my first impression on her. And I don't know,
Speaker 4: like I didn't think I drank too much, but maybe
Speaker 4: I just put something in my head. I was just
Speaker 4: crossed off one of the names on the gifts and
Speaker 4: I put my name on it. I know it was
Speaker 4: why it's not a cool I know it's not a
Speaker 4: cool move, but I promise you it was like done
Speaker 4: with like the best intentions, Like I I didn't open
Speaker 4: I didn't open it first.
Speaker 1: Because it's wrap.
Speaker 3: Someone else's gift.
Speaker 1: But who the hell has given you your birthday? Probably
Speaker 1: close friends?
Speaker 4: I didn't. I don't even remember what the name was
Speaker 4: on it. I just I just popped my name on there,
Speaker 4: and like I was very specific with it. I put
Speaker 4: you know, some like our first date, like winky face.
Speaker 1: Tayla, we want to hear from you. What what do
Speaker 1: you think about that?
Speaker 5: My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that
Speaker 5: president wasn't from you, but to take credit for a
Speaker 5: president somebody else is giving you but it backfired on you.
Speaker 1: Is that better or worse than what you originally saw?
Speaker 5: I mean, just like swimming in confusion.
Speaker 3: Right now, I will say I will say it means
Speaker 3: that he is not some weirdo who's giving you shape
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 4: I would have never I would have never looked at
Speaker 4: you and been like, oh man, she needs to alter
Speaker 4: anything about her appearance or about yourself as a person,
Speaker 4: like at all.
Speaker 1: No, he just needs to alter the name on this
Speaker 1: happy birthday.
Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like he made a drunken, dumb
Speaker 3: mistake that he thought was going to.
Speaker 2: Impress and it backfired in the absolute but overall he
Speaker 2: seems like a pretty cool guy. And we'd like to
Speaker 2: send you guys out on another date. If you're up
Speaker 2: for a Kayla, we'd pay for it no presence.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. That typically isn't.
Speaker 5: What do you think I will go out on a
Speaker 5: date with Chris if he helps me figure out who
Speaker 5: gave me shakes?
Speaker 1: All right, Chris for a little detective work, I'm in.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the least of what I can do.
Speaker 5: Well, I'll say that you've now made a new listener.
Speaker 1: Oh the mess too, listeners total.
Speaker 4: Wait, we did it the phone.
Speaker 5: That's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.