WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Surprise Party Shocker

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 2>One of our listeners, Chris says his first date got

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<v Speaker 2>derailed before it even started.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like most of the segments on this show.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to say that what people were used to.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel for you, Chris. I have been there. In fact,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm there right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay in Chris. Do you feel this segment tanking as

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<v Speaker 1>we speak?

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<v Speaker 4>I think we can get it back on track.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my host faces say different.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're a lot more hopeful and optimistic than we are, Chris.

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<v Speaker 2>But tell us about the girl that you were supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to go out with. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Sure, name's Kayla.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>We met at a dating app then online.

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<v Speaker 3>How long did you guys chat before you actually met up?

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<v Speaker 4>Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess

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<v Speaker 4>a decent amount of time we got to know each other,

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<v Speaker 4>at least a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that the normal amount of time that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>do two three weeks before you meet up?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I try to me as soon as possible so I

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<v Speaker 3>don't waste my time. Okay, she's ours.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a solid connection, though you make sure it's two

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<v Speaker 4>three weeks if you're just looking up like Alexas.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fair, So you actually like her?

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like, yeah, yeah, it was one of those

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<v Speaker 4>auts where we were trying to date, not just get

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<v Speaker 4>down to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Gotcha good, and so I mean the conversation leading up

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<v Speaker 3>sounds like obviously it was good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it was good. She's super cute, Like first

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<v Speaker 4>just saw our pictures. She had like freckles, she was

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<v Speaker 4>wearing like all these cute like old band T shirts

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<v Speaker 4>that she sort of like cut up and anyway, whatever

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<v Speaker 4>my type.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and you're not one of those guys that sees

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<v Speaker 3>like a girl wearing like a rolling Stone shirt Ramones

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<v Speaker 3>and it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like okay, I was like, you're not even in Nirvana.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the date and how it got derailed.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, all right, so we scheduled that I was actually

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<v Speaker 4>going to pick her up for our first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh may.

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<v Speaker 3>She definitely trusts you then.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, so I got there like I'm a pretty

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<v Speaker 4>punctual person. I got there ended up being like twenty

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<v Speaker 4>minutes early. Okay, oh wow, okay, So I was like

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<v Speaker 4>I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to

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<v Speaker 4>see what's going on or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh, I don't know. Twenty minutes early for a date

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<v Speaker 3>is really early.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I'm not going to be ready no exactly,

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<v Speaker 3>Like and then it's like awkward because you have to

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<v Speaker 3>answer the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like different if you send a text and you're like, yo,

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<v Speaker 3>i'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I thought about doing it, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to be a gentleman. I'll just walk up

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<v Speaker 4>to the door instead of using a cell phone about it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>but it got it got way weirder though. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 4>I go up and the door was actually like cracked open.

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<v Speaker 4>So I sort of nudged it open just a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit to give like a hey, you know, I'm here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>And as I nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped

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<v Speaker 4>out and screamed surprise what what?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah exactly, I'm really confused.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you the wrong house?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>So it turns out her friends were throwing her a

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<v Speaker 4>surprise party a week before her birthday. Wow, they were

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<v Speaker 4>throwing her off a scent by doing it a week early.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well what do you do? Do you stay for

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<v Speaker 1>the party or do you just leave?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's obviously not even there yet if they're all

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<v Speaker 3>waiting for.

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<v Speaker 4>Her, right, Yeah, yeah, she wasn't she was not there yet,

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<v Speaker 4>so awkward. Yeah, so, I you know, they didn't like

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<v Speaker 4>ask me a lot of questions. They just sort of

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<v Speaker 4>were like getting getting you know, she's on her way here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like fully have time to make the decision of.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, OK, so then you're just like put in with

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<v Speaker 3>the crowd of people and you're now waiting to surprise

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<v Speaker 3>her for her party.

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<v Speaker 4>With a group of people I've never metol that's hysterical.

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<v Speaker 3>So what happened when she came into the door.

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<v Speaker 4>So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and

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<v Speaker 4>then sees me in the middle of it, and she

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<v Speaker 4>looks even more surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not how you envisioned your first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, that's so funny though.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it a great party?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you have a great Did she have a great time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she seemed that a really great time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I talk to people a pretty decent amount,

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<v Speaker 4>and like I hung out with their dog for a

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<v Speaker 4>while with the big big dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Fan it's doghole? Is that great? I have a weird feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>About it, really why I think it sounds good.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd rather do that than like an awkward dinner date

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<v Speaker 4>with someone, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>You're with friends, you guys are all drinking and the

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<v Speaker 3>mood is super high.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're with their friends and they're all hanging out

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<v Speaker 2>with each other and he's over on the couch, just

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<v Speaker 2>sitting at the door.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but here's the thing. If you can find a

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<v Speaker 3>person who can hold their hone in a party, it

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<v Speaker 3>is so attractive. I agree that you don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>babysit them the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh yeah, I mean it was cool, But like every

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<v Speaker 4>now and again, they'd be like, wait, so how do

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<v Speaker 4>you know her? I'm a little confused, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. Do I bring up the dating app?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I would usually find a way to

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<v Speaker 4>sort of like hear the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to tell them, oh yeah, I'm from

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<v Speaker 2>one night stand dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>You also don't want to be like, I'm your cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>But if it was one of my friends, I'd be stoked,

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<v Speaker 3>like this is so.

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<v Speaker 1>Date. Just like the.

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<v Speaker 2>Party sounded fun, but we're able to ever get any

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<v Speaker 2>like alone one on one time to actually connect with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so like we got on the beer pongk table

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<v Speaker 4>together one but that was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually yeah, like I ended up staying till the end,

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<v Speaker 4>So we got like almost a half an hour to

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<v Speaker 4>sort of like chap. It was. It's like it's like

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<v Speaker 4>post party, like, you know, she's pretty tired. I was

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<v Speaker 4>pretty tired. It was a lot, like it was a lot. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but we decided next week we're going to go out

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<v Speaker 4>on like a real date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So how did it end? Did you just leave?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I just you know, she gave me a hug goodbye.

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean, you know, when I was leaving, like

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<v Speaker 4>she seemed happy about the party, but she also seemed

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<v Speaker 4>like genuinely happy that I actually made the decision to stay.

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<v Speaker 3>And like, you know, okay, so what's happened since?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now. I texted her,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, that week to make plans. I didn't hear back,

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<v Speaker 4>and now it's been two weeks and oh so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm just racking my brain, like what you know.

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<v Speaker 4>In my head, I'm like now I'm thinking about who

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<v Speaker 4>is at the party. I'm like, was there like an

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<v Speaker 4>ex boyfriend or something that maybe she rekindled with.

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<v Speaker 3>Did someone say something bad about you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call

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<v Speaker 2>her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise, Because.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my plan.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 2>Kayla for you and try and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, hey, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>We're supposed to wait till she was on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's a second date update minus the date part.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But there was a lot of party.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because one of our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to

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<v Speaker 2>meet up on the exact night Kayla's friends planned a

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<v Speaker 2>surprise birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Party for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So he showed up, got rushed in and told

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<v Speaker 2>to hide behind a couch along with forty other people

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<v Speaker 2>that he didn't know, and he's surprised. Kayla ended up

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<v Speaker 2>hanging out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, also with some of her friends and even

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<v Speaker 2>her at one point, and Chris, how did you say

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<v Speaker 2>it ended that night between you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I felt good. It was weird, obviously, but she was

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<v Speaker 4>happy I was there and that we were definitely hanging

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<v Speaker 4>out the next weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>And you didn't get any of her friends any reason

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<v Speaker 3>for them to be like stay away from him, like

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<v Speaker 3>he's like red flags.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I didn't do anything embarrassing. You know, I

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<v Speaker 4>watched my limits on drinking, you know, very careful.

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<v Speaker 3>Like maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 3>did say it was her birthday the week after because

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<v Speaker 3>they were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's

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<v Speaker 3>just been too busy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible. I get that.

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<v Speaker 4>But like she's not responding even to text.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook what a dumb suggestion that? Yeah, to be positive,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you feel embarrassed by that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't, okay, but you know you should a numb

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<v Speaker 3>to embarrassment. At this point in my life, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>happen anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now you just made it sad.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's just call Kaylen and hopefully put some positivity

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<v Speaker 2>into this call.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you ready to do this, Chris?

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<v Speaker 4>I hope so here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, is this Kayla?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>This is is this.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>With work and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Yay, I'm sorry what birthday?

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<v Speaker 4>We heard?

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<v Speaker 1>It's your birthday.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry this is a joke or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I just don't know, you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>not a joke, it's actually it's actually something that we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing called a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Update.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all wondering about a hangout that you had recently

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<v Speaker 2>with one of our listeners named Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>He reached out to us and told us, you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are supposed to go out on a date, but then

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<v Speaker 2>it kind of got derailed because as your friends through

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<v Speaker 2>your surprise birthday party.

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<v Speaker 3>And he, like he said, he got like swept up

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<v Speaker 3>into the party somehow, which is I thought it sounded

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<v Speaker 3>like a really cute night and you must have been

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<v Speaker 3>so excited your friends. Are you a surprise party? That's

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<v Speaker 3>so cool?

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<v Speaker 4>Really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, don't worry.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, we didn't mean this blindside you and surprised you

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<v Speaker 2>with all that stuff. We're just really trying to help

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<v Speaker 2>our listener Chris understand what happened at the party, because

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<v Speaker 2>he felt like, you guys were getting along and you

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<v Speaker 2>were supposed to hang out the next weekend and that

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<v Speaker 2>never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's just a little bit confused.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess that's in the air these days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't mean you gubes at all. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know You're not being mean to.

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<v Speaker 4>This. Is you mean? Yea that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, You're fine. Chris is just confused, you know, And

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you could understand that, Like he said

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<v Speaker 3>that you he left you on such a happy, positive note.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys had a great hug, and then it's just

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<v Speaker 3>silence sense. Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean it was such a weird thing that

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<v Speaker 5>had happened because basically I was not only surprised that

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<v Speaker 5>there was a surprise party, but then I was like

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<v Speaker 5>it was a double air of surprise because Chris being there,

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<v Speaker 5>and so it was like just a clown car full

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<v Speaker 5>of emotions, I suppose. And it was super nice that

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<v Speaker 5>he stayed, but it was weird because I guess he

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<v Speaker 5>left and then he came back.

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<v Speaker 3>You mean to the party.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I didn't see him, but I just assumed

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<v Speaker 5>he did that.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean assumed?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, because there was a gift from Chris that was

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<v Speaker 5>on the present table, and I mean he didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>that there was going to be a surprise party, at

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<v Speaker 5>least he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed

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<v Speaker 3>out in the middle of the party to go get

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<v Speaker 3>you a prize. I think that's so kind.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but it wasn't because when I opened up his

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<v Speaker 5>presence in it was skims shapewear.

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<v Speaker 3>That is hard to get your hands on though it's

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<v Speaker 3>a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear.

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<v Speaker 1>Is supposed to like slim you down.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, was it lingerie though it just buys skims

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<v Speaker 3>because they do all sorts of difference, It.

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<v Speaker 5>Was shapewear, and I was so like horrifically offended.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>He obviously he looked at me and then he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just gonna go run out and get shapewear for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would he do that?

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<v Speaker 1>That is that's really odd, especially for a first possible gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>But is it one of those things where he just

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<v Speaker 2>saw like it's a Kim Kardashian line and he figured

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<v Speaker 2>like if I was gonna buy a girl makeup and

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<v Speaker 2>I saw Kim k on it or something like maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't look at it, maybe he didn't know it

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<v Speaker 3>was shapewear. Maybe he thought it was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like trying to look I want you to know he

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<v Speaker 2>never told us that he bought you a gift or

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<v Speaker 2>anything about.

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<v Speaker 3>The skims, and he went on and on about how

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<v Speaker 3>cute and hot you were when we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I was really mortified and really embarrassed, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I just don't want to have to think about

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<v Speaker 5>it about him anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this

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<v Speaker 2>to you, Kayla, but we do have one more surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>Chris is on the other line listening, and he wants

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey wait wait what Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 4>is blowing away. I never left the party, I promise you.

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<v Speaker 3>Like so what you already had a gift with you

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<v Speaker 3>and you showed up to a party that you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 5>No, wait, hold on you guys, this is this is Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you set this up to get me on the

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<v Speaker 5>radio like this?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I wanted to not when I couldn't get figured

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<v Speaker 4>out any other way to like try to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>like what I possibly did to make you not like

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<v Speaker 4>even respond to text like let alone not go out

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<v Speaker 4>with me again because you got you bought me.

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<v Speaker 5>You must have left and got me some present that

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<v Speaker 5>is demonstrative of how you look at my body or

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<v Speaker 5>like it was just so weird and inappropriate and inappropriate.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, what were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know what I wouldn't even know where

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<v Speaker 4>to buy shapewear like this is I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>guess I'm sort of figuring out based on what everyone's

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<v Speaker 4>saying what shapewear is. But look, all right, time embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 4>I liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and

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<v Speaker 4>like there was this whole table of presents, like from

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<v Speaker 4>all your awesome friends, and I was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this

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<v Speaker 4>is my first impression on her. And I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>like I didn't think I drank too much, but maybe

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<v Speaker 4>I just put something in my head. I was just

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<v Speaker 4>crossed off one of the names on the gifts and

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<v Speaker 4>I put my name on it. I know it was

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<v Speaker 4>why it's not a cool I know it's not a

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<v Speaker 4>cool move, but I promise you it was like done

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<v Speaker 4>with like the best intentions, Like I I didn't open

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't open it first.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's wrap.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone else's gift.

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<v Speaker 1>But who the hell has given you your birthday? Probably

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<v Speaker 1>close friends?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't. I don't even remember what the name was

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<v Speaker 4>on it. I just I just popped my name on there,

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<v Speaker 4>and like I was very specific with it. I put

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<v Speaker 4>you know, some like our first date, like winky face.

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<v Speaker 1>Tayla, we want to hear from you. What what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about that?

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<v Speaker 5>My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that

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<v Speaker 5>president wasn't from you, but to take credit for a

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<v Speaker 5>president somebody else is giving you but it backfired on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that better or worse than what you originally saw?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, just like swimming in confusion.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, I will say I will say it means

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<v Speaker 3>that he is not some weirdo who's giving you shape

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I would have never I would have never looked at

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<v Speaker 4>you and been like, oh man, she needs to alter

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<v Speaker 4>anything about her appearance or about yourself as a person,

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<v Speaker 4>like at all.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he just needs to alter the name on this

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<v Speaker 1>happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it sounds like he made a drunken, dumb

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<v Speaker 3>mistake that he thought was going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Impress and it backfired in the absolute but overall he

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<v Speaker 2>seems like a pretty cool guy. And we'd like to

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<v Speaker 2>send you guys out on another date. If you're up

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<v Speaker 2>for a Kayla, we'd pay for it no presence.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. That typically isn't.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think I will go out on a

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<v Speaker 5>date with Chris if he helps me figure out who

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<v Speaker 5>gave me shakes?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Chris for a little detective work, I'm in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the least of what I can do.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'll say that you've now made a new listener.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the mess too, listeners total.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, we did it the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>That's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.