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Speaker 1: Second date up date.

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Speaker 2: One of our listeners, Chris says his first date got

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Speaker 2: derailed before it even started.

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Speaker 1: Just like most of the segments on this show.

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Speaker 3: I was going to say that what people were used to.

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Speaker 2: I feel for you, Chris. I have been there. In fact,

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Speaker 2: I'm there right now.

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Speaker 4: It's good.

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Speaker 1: Stay in Chris. Do you feel this segment tanking as

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Speaker 1: we speak?

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Speaker 4: I think we can get it back on track.

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Speaker 1: Okay, my host faces say different.

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Speaker 3: But you're a lot more hopeful and optimistic than we are, Chris.

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Speaker 2: But tell us about the girl that you were supposed

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Speaker 2: to go out with. What's her name?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, name's Kayla.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: We met at a dating app then online.

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Speaker 3: How long did you guys chat before you actually met up?

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Speaker 4: Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess

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Speaker 4: a decent amount of time we got to know each other,

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Speaker 4: at least a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Is that the normal amount of time that you guys

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Speaker 2: do two three weeks before you meet up?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I try to me as soon as possible so I

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Speaker 3: don't waste my time. Okay, she's ours.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a solid connection, though you make sure it's two

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Speaker 4: three weeks if you're just looking up like Alexas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fair, So you actually like her?

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Speaker 4: It sounds like, yeah, yeah, it was one of those

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Speaker 4: auts where we were trying to date, not just get

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Speaker 4: down to it.

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Speaker 3: Gotcha good, and so I mean the conversation leading up

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Speaker 3: sounds like obviously it was good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was good. She's super cute, Like first

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Speaker 4: just saw our pictures. She had like freckles, she was

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Speaker 4: wearing like all these cute like old band T shirts

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Speaker 4: that she sort of like cut up and anyway, whatever

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Speaker 3: Okay, and you're not one of those guys that sees

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Speaker 3: like a girl wearing like a rolling Stone shirt Ramones

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Speaker 4: Like okay, I was like, you're not even in Nirvana.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about the date and how it got derailed.

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Speaker 4: Well, all right, so we scheduled that I was actually

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Speaker 4: going to pick her up for our first date.

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Speaker 1: Oh may.

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Speaker 3: She definitely trusts you then.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, so I got there like I'm a pretty

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Speaker 4: punctual person. I got there ended up being like twenty

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Speaker 4: minutes early. Okay, oh wow, okay, So I was like

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Speaker 4: I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to

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Speaker 4: see what's going on or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't know. Twenty minutes early for a date

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Speaker 3: is really early.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm not going to be ready no exactly,

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Speaker 3: Like and then it's like awkward because you have to

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Speaker 3: answer the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's

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Speaker 3: like different if you send a text and you're like, yo,

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Speaker 3: i'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready.

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Speaker 3: Let me know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I thought about doing it, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to be a gentleman. I'll just walk up

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Speaker 4: to the door instead of using a cell phone about it. Okay,

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Speaker 4: but it got it got way weirder though. Okay, So

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Speaker 4: I go up and the door was actually like cracked open.

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Speaker 4: So I sort of nudged it open just a little

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Speaker 4: And as I nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped

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Speaker 4: out and screamed surprise what what?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, I'm really confused.

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Speaker 3: Were you the wrong house?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: So it turns out her friends were throwing her a

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Speaker 4: surprise party a week before her birthday. Wow, they were

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Speaker 4: throwing her off a scent by doing it a week early.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well what do you do? Do you stay for

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Speaker 3: Well, she's obviously not even there yet if they're all

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Speaker 4: Her, right, Yeah, yeah, she wasn't she was not there yet,

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Speaker 4: so awkward. Yeah, so, I you know, they didn't like

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Speaker 4: I didn't like fully have time to make the decision of.

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Speaker 3: Like, OK, so then you're just like put in with

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Speaker 4: With a group of people I've never metol that's hysterical.

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Speaker 3: So what happened when she came into the door.

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Speaker 4: So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised.

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Speaker 4: You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and

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Speaker 4: then sees me in the middle of it, and she

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Speaker 4: looks even more surprised.

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Speaker 1: Probably not how you envisioned your first date.

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Speaker 3: Now, that's so funny though.

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Speaker 1: Was it a great party?

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Speaker 3: Did you have a great Did she have a great time?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she seemed that a really great time. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I know, I talk to people a pretty decent amount,

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Speaker 4: and like I hung out with their dog for a

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Speaker 4: while with the big big dog.

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Speaker 1: Fan it's doghole? Is that great? I have a weird feeling.

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Speaker 3: About it, really why I think it sounds good.

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Speaker 4: I'd rather do that than like an awkward dinner date

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Speaker 3: You're with friends, you guys are all drinking and the

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Speaker 2: And you're with their friends and they're all hanging out

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Speaker 3: No, but here's the thing. If you can find a

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Speaker 3: person who can hold their hone in a party, it

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Speaker 3: is so attractive. I agree that you don't have to

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I mean it was cool, But like every

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Speaker 4: now and again, they'd be like, wait, so how do

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Speaker 4: you know her? I'm a little confused, And I was like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Do I bring up the dating app?

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Speaker 4: I was like, I would usually find a way to

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Speaker 2: You don't want to tell them, oh yeah, I'm from

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Speaker 2: one night stand dot com.

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Speaker 1: You also don't want to be like, I'm your cousin.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: But if it was one of my friends, I'd be stoked,

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Speaker 3: like this is so.

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Speaker 1: Date. Just like the.

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Speaker 2: Party sounded fun, but we're able to ever get any

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so like we got on the beer pongk table

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, but.

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Speaker 4: Actually yeah, like I ended up staying till the end,

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Speaker 4: pretty tired. It was a lot, like it was a lot. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but we decided next week we're going to go out

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how did it end? Did you just leave?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I just you know, she gave me a hug goodbye.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, you know, when I was leaving, like

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Speaker 4: she seemed happy about the party, but she also seemed

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Speaker 3: And like, you know, okay, so what's happened since?

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now. I texted her,

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Speaker 4: you know, that week to make plans. I didn't hear back,

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Speaker 4: and now it's been two weeks and oh so I'm like,

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Speaker 4: you know, I'm just racking my brain, like what you know.

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Speaker 4: In my head, I'm like now I'm thinking about who

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Speaker 3: Did someone say something bad about you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call

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Speaker 2: her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise, Because.

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Speaker 1: That's my plan.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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Speaker 2: Kayla for you and try and get your second date update.

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Speaker 4: Okay, hey, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second date update.

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Speaker 3: We're supposed to wait till she was on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a second date update minus the date part.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But there was a lot of party.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because one of our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to

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Speaker 2: meet up on the exact night Kayla's friends planned a

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Speaker 2: surprise birthday.

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Speaker 1: Party for her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So he showed up, got rushed in and told

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Speaker 2: to hide behind a couch along with forty other people

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Speaker 2: that he didn't know, and he's surprised. Kayla ended up

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Speaker 2: hanging out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog,

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Speaker 4: I felt good. It was weird, obviously, but she was

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Speaker 3: And you didn't get any of her friends any reason

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Speaker 4: You know, I didn't do anything embarrassing. You know, I

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Speaker 4: watched my limits on drinking, you know, very careful.

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Speaker 3: Like maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she

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Speaker 3: they were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's

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Speaker 3: just been too busy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible. I get that.

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Speaker 4: But like she's not responding even to text.

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Speaker 1: Brook what a dumb suggestion that? Yeah, to be positive,

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Speaker 1: I hope you feel embarrassed by that.

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Speaker 3: I don't, okay, but you know you should a numb

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Speaker 3: to embarrassment. At this point in my life, it doesn't

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Speaker 1: Well, now you just made it sad.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's just call Kaylen and hopefully put some positivity

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Speaker 2: into this call.

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Speaker 1: All right, you ready to do this, Chris?

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Speaker 4: I hope so here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, is this Kayla?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: This is is this.

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 1: With work and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Yay, I'm sorry what birthday?

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Speaker 4: We heard?

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Speaker 1: It's your birthday.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry this is a joke or something.

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Speaker 2: I don't I just don't know, you know, it's it's

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Speaker 2: not a joke, it's actually it's actually something that we're

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Speaker 2: doing called a second date.

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Speaker 4: Update.

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Speaker 2: We're all wondering about a hangout that you had recently

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Speaker 2: with one of our listeners named Chris.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 2: He reached out to us and told us, you guys

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Speaker 2: are supposed to go out on a date, but then

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Speaker 2: it kind of got derailed because as your friends through

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Speaker 2: your surprise birthday party.

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Speaker 4: Really weird.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we didn't mean this blindside you and surprised you

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Speaker 5: And I don't mean you gubes at all. I don't

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Speaker 4: This. Is you mean? Yea that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, You're fine. Chris is just confused, you know, And

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Speaker 3: I feel like you could understand that, Like he said

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was such a weird thing that

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Speaker 5: it was a double air of surprise because Chris being there,

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Speaker 3: You mean to the party.

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Speaker 5: I mean I didn't see him, but I just assumed

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Speaker 1: What do you mean assumed?

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Speaker 5: Well, because there was a gift from Chris that was

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Speaker 5: least he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't.

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Speaker 3: That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but it wasn't because when I opened up his

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Speaker 3: That is hard to get your hands on though it's

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Speaker 3: a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear.

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Speaker 1: Is supposed to like slim you down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, was it lingerie though it just buys skims

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Speaker 5: Was shapewear, and I was so like horrifically offended.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: He obviously he looked at me and then he was like,

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Speaker 1: That is that's really odd, especially for a first possible gifts.

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Speaker 3: I didn't look at it, maybe he didn't know it

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Speaker 2: Like trying to look I want you to know he

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Speaker 3: The skims, and he went on and on about how

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Speaker 5: I mean, I was really mortified and really embarrassed, and

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Speaker 5: I'm I just don't want to have to think about

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Speaker 2: So you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this

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Speaker 2: to you, Kayla, but we do have one more surprise.

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Speaker 2: Chris is on the other line listening, and he wants

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Speaker 4: Hey wait wait what Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm like, this

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Speaker 4: is blowing away. I never left the party, I promise you.

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Speaker 3: Like so what you already had a gift with you

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Speaker 1: Know was going to happen.

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Speaker 5: No, wait, hold on you guys, this is this is Chris.

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Speaker 5: Did you set this up to get me on the

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Speaker 4: Like I wanted to not when I couldn't get figured

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Speaker 5: You must have left and got me some present that

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Speaker 1: Dude, what were you thinking?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: I don't even know what I wouldn't even know where

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Speaker 4: guess I'm sort of figuring out based on what everyone's

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Speaker 4: saying what shapewear is. But look, all right, time embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: I liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and

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Speaker 4: like there was this whole table of presents, like from

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Speaker 4: have anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this

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Speaker 4: why it's not a cool I know it's not a

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Speaker 4: I didn't open it first.

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Speaker 1: Because it's wrap.

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Speaker 3: Someone else's gift.

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Speaker 1: But who the hell has given you your birthday? Probably

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I don't even remember what the name was

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Speaker 4: you know, some like our first date, like winky face.

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Speaker 1: Tayla, we want to hear from you. What what do

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Speaker 5: My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that

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Speaker 5: I mean, just like swimming in confusion.

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Speaker 3: Right now, I will say I will say it means

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Speaker 4: I would have never I would have never looked at

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Speaker 1: No, he just needs to alter the name on this

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Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like he made a drunken, dumb

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Speaker 2: Impress and it backfired in the absolute but overall he

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Speaker 2: for a Kayla, we'd pay for it no presence.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. That typically isn't.

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Speaker 5: What do you think I will go out on a

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Speaker 1: All right, Chris for a little detective work, I'm in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the least of what I can do.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll say that you've now made a new listener.

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Speaker 1: Oh the mess too, listeners total.

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Speaker 4: Wait, we did it the phone.

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Speaker 5: That's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.