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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Rachel and I'm Cheerity, and today Rachel and I

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Speaker 2: are here to catch up with you guys, answer some

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Speaker 2: of your questions, and honestly just just chat away because

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Speaker 2: we got a lot to discuss.

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Speaker 1: I fear we way so much and these are my

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Speaker 1: favorite episodes, but it's just me and you, no sense

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Speaker 1: we can really get down to the bottom of what

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Speaker 1: has been going on.

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Speaker 2: So no interruptions, no other.

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Speaker 3: Interruptions at the top. It is so crazy.

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Speaker 1: It has been two months since we started to feeling it. No,

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Speaker 1: it feels like the best part of my week. But

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Speaker 1: I don't say and we get to talk shit and

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Speaker 1: it doesn't even feel like work.

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Speaker 2: No, it doesn't, which is isn't that everyone's dream? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm very grateful to be doing this with you and

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Speaker 2: it's been an amazing ride. But crazy enough that we're

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Speaker 2: just getting started. We have so much ahead of us,

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Speaker 2: I know, oh much ahead of us. Wait, okay, with

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Speaker 2: us being here for two months, what was what has

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Speaker 2: been your favorite interview?

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Speaker 1: Rachel lindsay easily now and now interview was first of all,

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Speaker 1: just such an honor. Rachel started this podcast and I

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Speaker 1: feel like me and you are so appreciative of what

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor has given us and what the platform has

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Speaker 1: given us, and.

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Speaker 3: Rachel created this.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was just amazing to get her back because

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Speaker 1: I never thought she was going to come back to

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I was genuinely floored. I think even

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Speaker 2: like we said at the bachelorette ing and I was like, whoa,

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Speaker 2: I had no idea who was coming. I knew you

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Speaker 2: were coming. I knew a few other people, but I

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Speaker 2: was like even then, but like walking in and seeing Rachel,

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Speaker 2: I was like, this is the world is healing. Perhaps

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It was crazy, bruly, so to sit

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Speaker 2: down with her talk everything and knowing that we're going

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Speaker 2: to get her back, and yes we said that again,

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Speaker 2: we are getting Rachel Lindsay back.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just I was gonna regret saying that.

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Speaker 2: No, I know we're gonna be I will be on her,

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Speaker 2: I will be on her.

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Speaker 1: We literally we're like, you're coming to Carrie's and you're

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Speaker 1: coming to Mental Hearth, and you're coming to.

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Speaker 2: The Finally, we're booking your schedule. We're making you booked

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Speaker 2: and busy.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I was just so obviously impressed with her, but

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Speaker 1: there is so much of her story that we don't know,

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Speaker 1: and I need her books to come out tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I know you have. I'm making you head chairman of

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Speaker 2: the book club.

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Speaker 1: I could not, I will forget half of the things

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Speaker 1: that came out of her mouth. Her finding out in

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Speaker 1: the tabloids. I don't think this is like people are

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Speaker 1: not grasping how naturally crazy that is.

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Speaker 3: She's like a real human. And to find out that the.

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Speaker 1: Person you're married to is getting a divorce from you.

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Speaker 2: And you have to and you have to send in

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Speaker 2: a paycheck, are you crazy? I'd be damned. I personally

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Speaker 2: would like, on hell, no, she's I'm telling you it's

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Speaker 2: it's There is really no other blueprint. It's it's Rachel's.

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Speaker 2: It's Rachel's.

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Speaker 1: It's really gonna be tough to be and I'm just

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Speaker 1: so excited to going off our favorite. We just had

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Speaker 1: an interview that I last night could not sleep over.

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Speaker 1: I was having stress dreams all night and we just

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Speaker 1: interviewed Clayton and now I need to go to I'm

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Speaker 1: literally I need to go to acupuncture right now because

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Speaker 1: of how stressed out that interview just made.

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Speaker 2: Me, please release austress and don't bring it back true.

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Speaker 3: Those in the forehead, Oh, what are.

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Speaker 2: Your thought in the forehead is sending me? Because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm genuinely picturing them right now. I'm gonna send you

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Speaker 2: a picture, no, please do? Can that actually be like

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Speaker 2: the cover photo for this week's episode the acupuncture needles

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Speaker 2: in your forehead?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I want to know your thoughts, Charity,

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Speaker 1: because I have so much history with Clayton and you

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Speaker 1: had just only met him at AFR or was that

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I think we met Grant season of AFR, I believe,

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Speaker 2: and even then I was like very brief, so I

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Speaker 2: the first like fifteen minutes of chatting and seeing you know, correct,

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Speaker 2: It's very interesting, I will say, like I'm and this

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Speaker 2: is like the EmPATH in me. I have such a

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Speaker 2: and like obviously what he's been dealing with for the

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Speaker 2: past year with the case, but even just following him

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Speaker 2: after his season or y'all season on The Bachelor, it

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Speaker 2: just was so chaotic. So I don't think I ever

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Speaker 2: to this day, I don't think I still do, but

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Speaker 2: I know that there's there's a level in him that

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Speaker 2: is learning and trying to grow and trying to evolve.

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Speaker 2: But I do get what you are saying, or like

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Speaker 2: the things that you kind of shared with me that

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Speaker 2: makes Clayton just sometimes complicated and a little problematic. I

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Speaker 2: don't even want to say problematic, that's probably not the

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Speaker 2: best word. Just complex, like he really is, Like there's

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Speaker 2: a lot going on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's so funny because it's so hard with

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Speaker 1: me and Charity being virtual, like trying to like see

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Speaker 1: when the next is going to talk. With this interview,

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Speaker 1: I think I sat there so silently and I stared

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Speaker 1: at Charity's picture on zoom.

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Speaker 2: You cannot no I was getting at Charity.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like I just want to like say

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. I told you off the podcast

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Speaker 1: for I feel like you interviewed both of us.

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Speaker 2: And honestly, I kind of it was like a couple's therapy,

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Speaker 2: but you guys are in a couple, like it's like posts,

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Speaker 2: you guys are coming to see me still after the breakup.

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Speaker 3: Like you guys need to leave each other.

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Speaker 1: Alone at this point.

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Speaker 2: No, I was just trying to really, I was trying

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Speaker 2: to hold space. Where's my finger? That's my favorite? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Very good. I was trying to hold space for the

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Speaker 2: both of you guys, which you guys really made me

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Speaker 2: miss my job for a second there. I was like,

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Speaker 2: do I go back to work tomorrow? Let me know.

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Speaker 1: It's so difficult because I think there is this I

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Speaker 1: don't even know how to begin to explain this, and

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Speaker 1: I think I've always tried so hard. We do see

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Speaker 1: each other outside of this, and we've had conversations outside

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Speaker 1: of this. We see each other, but not physically. I

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Speaker 1: mean like we see where each other's coming from. But

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Speaker 1: it's it's just like each time we talk, I find

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Speaker 1: something else that I'm like frustrated with.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I sense that. I was like, it's happening

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Speaker 2: in this moment. Yeah, yes, And.

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Speaker 1: It's just these little moments that I don't think he

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Speaker 1: realizes he does. And that interview was great, and I

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Speaker 1: again see where he's coming from. Yeah, but it's just

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Speaker 1: like the little things he'll say, like I could have

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you mean by picking me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And it's just those things I think he.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't realize that he's doing, and it's it's just like

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's hard because even listening to

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Speaker 1: his podcast, the first audio clip I hear is my

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Speaker 1: own voice feels like this thing that is just like

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Speaker 3: At I'm sure he wants to get away from me, but.

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Speaker 2: We're just continue to go around. I was trying to

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Speaker 2: sense the vibes. I'm like, I think he really does

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Speaker 2: enjoy that you guys are on good term. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: which he is lucky for Hello, because I was like,

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Speaker 2: he's not so much with Gabby as we know, and.

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Speaker 3: Then, which I think is fair.

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Speaker 1: I think that is so fair. And I've always said

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Speaker 1: that that he's lucky that he does have the relationships

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Speaker 2: Season, right, which I like, I don't even think I try.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to like allude to that in our

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Speaker 2: interview with him, but I was obviously I was like,

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Speaker 2: I know, I like, I definitely sided it more. It

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Speaker 2: came across that I sided more so with Clayton. My

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Speaker 2: whole thing was obviously, Gabby can feel how she feels,

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Speaker 2: and she's entitled to feel exactly how she feels. I

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Speaker 2: don't blame her, but I also see his perspective of like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like he's just dancing. Wasn't necessary? Unnecessary, and that's I

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Speaker 2: think I think a normal person can understand that, So right, right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but give her Tay, You're right, he is very fortunate

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Speaker 3: So I was really surprised.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know we kind of touched on this

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Speaker 1: during the interview that Susie's taking part in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah. So I mean we listen to, like,

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Speaker 2: I think there's two episodes out right now, and if

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Speaker 2: kind of Susie gives some takes or you know, kind

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Speaker 2: So I do love that she is able to kind

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Speaker 2: shocking to say.

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Speaker 1: It's shocking too because I think Susie has gone through

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Speaker 1: has had to be extremely supportive and she does it

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Speaker 1: obviously she wants to do it. But I think we

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Speaker 1: don't give Susie enough credit for she really is a

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Speaker 3: His healing journey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And he's very very lucky to have Susie.

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Speaker 1: And I think she just continues to like every time

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Speaker 2: You know, it really threw me off.

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Speaker 1: I think we're gonna say the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it made me feel I'm not gonna lie, it

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Speaker 2: made me feel a type of way, like not in

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Speaker 2: a bad way, but I just I felt something. I

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Speaker 2: was like, whoa when he was basically saying the catalyst

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Speaker 2: to the whole that woman in her situation the case, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: was because he saw Susie the week before. If I

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Speaker 2: heard that, and granted this is not to put anything

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Speaker 2: in Susie, but like if I heard that, of like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I went to go support or like see or catch

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Speaker 2: up with like a old friend pal of mine, and

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Speaker 2: then to hear him say like, oh, there were so

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Speaker 2: many emotions that came up that I had to like

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Speaker 2: kind of self medicate and cope this way. And then

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Speaker 2: that night is when he had nothing else to do

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Speaker 2: but to sit down and have a time with miss Laura. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's I would be shocked. I would be very shook.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if she does know this, because that is

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Speaker 1: exactly what I thought you were about to say. I've

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Speaker 1: never heard that of the story me either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the crazy conversation. I'm shocked he wanted

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Speaker 2: I'm like, now I'm having this opportunity, So all bets

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited too, because Charity, I think people don't

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Speaker 3: On your season. You were so serious.

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Speaker 1: So I'm so excited for people to see the un serious,

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Speaker 2: We're it's about to be insane for the all the

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Speaker 1: I think we only have like two more interviews and

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Speaker 2: Is that right? Yeah? Oh my god, it's it's happening.

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Speaker 1: And one of them is Taylor, which is like, you're

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Speaker 2: I'm so ready. I'm so ready.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we have some questions. Should we get into it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're yappers.

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Speaker 1: Okay, first question, who from Bachelor Nation has you blocked?

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Speaker 2: Nobody that I know of or that I care?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're so lucky.

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Speaker 2: Is that rude?

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Speaker 1: No? I feel like that means you're nice.

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Speaker 2: No, I was saying nobody that, So I'm whoever has

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Speaker 1: That's she has no idea. Unbothered, truly truly unbothered.

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Speaker 2: I feel for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm blocked by molt. I think there's I will just

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Speaker 2: Why are the man blocking you?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm usually very nice to them on recaps.

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Speaker 1: I've had some opinions crazy. I stand by them. However,

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Speaker 2: For again, for all the right reasons. I think that's

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Speaker 1: Or he deleted his Instagram. That's still like unclear to.

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Speaker 2: Me, but that would that would be the even more

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Speaker 3: Bad about that one a little.

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Speaker 1: But do you want to know? What? Do you want to? So?

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Speaker 3: I need to tell you something crazy?

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Speaker 2: Not you bulldozing your way through that.

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Speaker 1: Listen. There was like an interview he did like two

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Speaker 1: how did I call him? Or who called? Like how

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Speaker 2: Did difficult situations make you forget things? Truly?

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Speaker 1: Isn't there? I mean I don't even know how it

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Speaker 2: No, that's insane to that crazy. Damn, that's not the

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Speaker 1: I genuinely I'm like, how did he get called? I

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Speaker 2: No, I believe you. I know, I know. I don't

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Speaker 2: even know if you're curious why you would, so I

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Speaker 1: Maybe I did it in my sleep or something. Perhaps

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Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a mystery to this day. I

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Speaker 1: like this one, Charity. I'm fick, this is perfect for you.

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Speaker 2: See, I know you about to try something.

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Speaker 1: What's your most unpopular Bachelor opinion?

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Speaker 2: Hmm? The most un popular Bachelor opinion? Hmmm, Like, is.

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Speaker 1: There anyone that you think should have ended up with

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Speaker 2: In the recent years. No, I'll be very honest, I

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Speaker 2: don't think. I don't. I really don't think grant in

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Speaker 2: I don't know all the girls that well, but I

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Speaker 2: know enough Jin Absolutely no, she was not dealt with

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Speaker 2: I think if you and Gabby had a I mean,

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Speaker 2: this is not even unpopular. I think this is pretty popular.

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Speaker 2: If you guys had separate seasons, I think they yeah

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Speaker 1: I just can't even imagine us having separate seasons really

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Speaker 2: No, I think you absolutely. I think he would have

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Speaker 2: even probably ended up like your final Granted we have

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Speaker 1: You don't think if I had the same cast, I

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Speaker 2: I think you just would have had more time, And

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe that's so like you would have

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Speaker 2: I'm just picking because he's cute. Like I think that's

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Speaker 2: what we all resort to, is like picking based off

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. I'm trying to think of one

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Speaker 1: you want. And I think no one should be able

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Speaker 1: That's what I think.

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Speaker 2: And people always gives that one pair of keys.

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Speaker 3: Hello, people have an opinion?

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Speaker 1: You should you shouldn't? You did, you didn't. I just

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Speaker 2: It's it is very like it's a taboo topic I

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Speaker 2: like obviously judge you for it or like have anything

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Speaker 2: there's more than one person involved. But I'm like, this

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Speaker 2: is also the nature of the show, right, And I

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Speaker 1: I remember going into mind or like when I was

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Speaker 2: You really have tormentalize and be like I'm separating. This

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Speaker 2: does not exist like it. You really have to have it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you trust the lead. They're gonna do what

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Speaker 1: If it's not, it's not. But I think whatever they

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Speaker 2: Them, you have to be so like just I don't

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Speaker 2: even want to say accepting. It's it's obviously probably very

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Speaker 2: That's probably the best. Truly, we can say right now.

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Speaker 1: The fantasy suite, what happens behind the door? That would

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Speaker 1: be my unpopular Limorge.

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Speaker 2: I know you would never know.

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Speaker 1: The next question is, Charity, can you spell one secret

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Speaker 1: from your fantasy suite?

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Speaker 2: I cannot, and I will not. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she said.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not this. We just said what happens behind that door?

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Speaker 2: I only had, So there's that one went home early

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Speaker 2: for the right reasons. So we're moving on. Thank you.

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00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: I love how it didn't include Rachel.

441
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of Rachel, would you ever date Sean again?

442
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: Whoever put this question on this list of questions is

443
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 1: so crazy that I think gave Blake a heart attack

444
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: for the twenty four hours that it was happening.

445
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

446
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: He could not understand what I was doing. Sean's she's nice.

447
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 2: Sean isn't nice, Like honestly, I know he gets a

448
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 2: lot of like he yeah, grant, he is a little

449
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 2: bit of a character on TV. But when I say

450
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 2: people who have shown up and just been very consistent,

451
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: he really is a consistent friend to Dotton and I.

452
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: So I do appreciate you know, Sean, Yes, yeah, check

453
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 2: in my book.

454
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 1: I let him have it a little bit at the time.

455
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: It was deserved, for sure, for sure for it.

456
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: I've loved that that question was on there. Jerny, what's

457
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: the most annoying comment you get online?

458
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 2: The most annoying comment I get online? It's definitely died down.

459
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 2: I don't I feel like there was a there was

460
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: a point where most annoying comment I get online. I'm

461
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 2: like actually trying to like.

462
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: I feel like everything everyone comments anything.

463
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 2: I think there was like for a point in time

464
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 2: in like Fresh after like me and Dawton's after we

465
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: got off of my season that I think people really

466
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 2: just assumed that I wanted to be in the spotlight

467
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 2: always and like I wasn't being fair to Dowton. I

468
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 2: don't know I feel like that was like one that

469
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 2: I got a lot but stars, yes, and it's like

470
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,199
Speaker 2: she just can't help herself but to and I'm like,

471
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: you guys, actually okay, like I'm showing up for work.

472
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 2: This is work for me.

473
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I fancy with the Stars is such an

474
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 1: honor and the fact that he was supporting you, it's

475
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 1: like major relationship better.

476
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: I think if it made it out of Dancing with

477
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 2: the Stars, I always say that was that was the test,

478
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 2: and not even that it was a test. But I'm

479
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: like the fact that we got through it and we

480
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 2: got through it so well, like I was not even worried,

481
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 2: he was not worried. But I'm like it definitely made

482
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: us like stronger for sure. But also like if anyone

483
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: knows me, knows how much I prioritize Dotten, Like I'm

484
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 2: always thinking about, oh, how can I help you in

485
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: this way or how whatever it may be, Like he

486
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 2: is my priority and vice versa, I'm his priority, so

487
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: that's how it should be. So yeah, it is.

488
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm curious though, with the people who have gone through

489
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars and it hasn't worked out, I'm

490
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: wondering if they sometimes have used it like as an

491
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: excuse because it happens so quickly after the show that yeah,

492
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: it's not working out.

493
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 3: I'm so busy with answering at the Star.

494
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: It's not very easy that that happens so much.

495
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: Okay, Rachel, it's your turn to answer that. What do

496
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 2: you feel like is the comment you get the most

497
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: or a misconception about you.

498
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: Mine is literally on every single thing I post, people

499
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: are like, oh my god, like I don't even recognize you,

500
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: like all this plastic surgery. I'm like, I've gotten my

501
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: boobs done two times and the rest is botox and

502
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: filler that I've gotten since before. Like when I first

503
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: stepped out the Limo, I had fresh flip filler, I

504
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: had fresh botox. I think I've gotten cheek fillers since.

505
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: But they act as if I, well, this isn't everyone. Yes,

506
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 1: and I just I it's so hard for me. They

507
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: hate the eyebrows, they hate the blonde hair. I feel

508
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: like for me, they really and this isn't everyone.

509
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: But I feel very confined to the way I look.

510
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: On one season and any changes I choose to do after.

511
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I should be able to do if

512
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: I wanted. I haven't one day if I wanted to

513
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: do something. It just feels like people want me to

514
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: look twenty five years old and I'm turning thirty. My

515
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 1: health has been different. Yes, things look different, I completely understand,

516
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: but it's out of my control and people act like

517
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: it's not. And I think that has been frustrating for me.

518
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get that, And I feel like you

519
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 2: kind of said it best when you were like, oh,

520
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 2: like people kind of confine you to how they first

521
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 2: initially saw you, which is crazy because as we all know,

522
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 2: people like change evolved, you know, what they how they

523
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: want to style their hair. They may not want to

524
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 2: style it, how they stout it all their twenties, whatever

525
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: it may be. But it's like it always brings me

526
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: back to this that I sometimes think people like who

527
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 2: watch reality TV or just TV in general, like if

528
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 2: it if we were like doing a scripted show, that

529
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 2: would make sense and we were actors, but we're not.

530
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: We're like actual humans. I think people have these narratives

531
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: and like either from how they initially saw us the

532
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: first time is what they stick to you or in

533
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: their head, we're like completely a different like a built

534
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 2: up character, and it's like we have like sims, like

535
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 2: we're literally sims in their brains. Yes, and it's like

536
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: we have to like always be how they last saw us.

537
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 2: There's no change, there's no involvement in there, nothing is

538
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 2: nothing is no room for error. Hello, let's just say

539
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: I agree.

540
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: And this isn't everyone, but I think it's the loudest people.

541
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: And I even see it on a lot of our

542
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 1: former alumni. It's anytime someone posts a video or a

543
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: podcast of something, one of the main comments is always,

544
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: she looks so much different she this. I just never

545
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: see those comments. For the men, I never see like

546
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,239
Speaker 1: those comments.

547
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 2: It's so difficult.

548
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: It feels like across the board this comment of she's unrecognizable.

549
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: I just don't understand how we've gotten to that point

550
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 1: where people think it's okay to yeah things like that.

551
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: I think there's so much going on behind the scenes

552
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: in people's lives that no one is privy to, and

553
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: we chose to.

554
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 3: Put ourselves out there one hundred percent correct.

555
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: But I've made full TikTok saying this is what I've

556
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: gotten done every single year, and people are like, you

557
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: got a facelift, Like I wish, I wish, I'm saving

558
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: up because I'm gonna get the Chris Jenner and thirty years.

559
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: It's going in the piggy bag for that. I'm getting it.

560
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: And she looks and Lindsay Lohan, Hello, doctor Nash.

561
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 3: That's sad and this is.

562
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: Not everyone, but it is so frustrating because I just

563
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: don't know what else to say. And yeah, goodness, didn't

564
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: mean to go on a rant there.

565
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 2: That's okay, we need an event. Okay, I'll ask you. Okay,

566
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: don't give me an obviously answer, give me a good one.

567
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: Who do you think is an epiitode of a bachelor villain?

568
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: The worst bachelor villain?

569
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 3: Wait, say that again?

570
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: In epitome? Did I say? No? Actually, what did you say?

571
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: I said epitome? What the fuck? I swear? I'm not

572
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: having interview.

573
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 3: It's messing with my mind. I can't think straight.

574
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: I literally have never That's the first time I've ever

575
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: like said that word. That's not even at this episode. Also, no,

576
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: that is embarrassing. Okay, that's also.

577
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: Saying in the episode You're welcome listeners.

578
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 2: No, you guys are actually no, I'm gonna get canceled.

579
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 2: They're really they already think I'm stupid. Because I have

580
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 2: grammatical errors on my stories that I'm like the whole

581
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: world have grammatical errors. Anyhow, it is what it is.

582
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: I have not had a meal since nine am this morning.

583
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: It's a rough day for us.

584
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: We just everyone. My brain is. The database is still loading. Okay, okay, okay,

585
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: we'll start over. Rachel, Yes, who do you think is

586
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: the epitome of a Bachelor villain?

587
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: I think the obvious answer would be Bentley from Ashley's season.

588
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: I went back and revisited that, and I think we

589
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: have never seen anything to that level. The way he

590
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: was saying I don't like her, I don't find her

591
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: attractive is crazy. I cannot even imagine what that was

592
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: like to watch back. I wish in a way that

593
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: we've had a villain in the recent seasons that I

594
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: could pull from, but I can't think of anyone that

595
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: was that crazy. We did have a villain on my

596
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,959
Speaker 1: season with a Bachelor, and she would like okay, so

597
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys remember, her name was

598
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: Shaney and she would literally terrorize us in the house.

599
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: I was so scared. Yes, oh my god, Yes, there

600
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: are things that happened on camera that didn't even air.

601
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: She would just pull things out of thin air, and

602
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: then when I watched it back, she would literally be like,

603
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: I fake cried, I fake apologize them, fuck you bitches,

604
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: And I'm like, is she real? Like I think she's

605
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: kind of an iconic villain and we forget about her.

606
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 2: No, it's actually crazy because now that you said that,

607
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: I think like we would always reference to her. And

608
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: I used to joke with the producers. I was like,

609
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: if there was a girl like granted Zach season, I mean,

610
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: I really got blessed, and I got blessed, not even

611
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: just for like my sanity on this season, but everything

612
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 2: that obviously transpired after that. If I had somebody like

613
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: say in the house, I would have never became back

614
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: to the Red I would have gotten the worst edit

615
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: of life, because I'm telling you, I would have let

616
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: her have it like that. Oh my gosh, I I

617
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 2: remember now that you said. I'm like, it just all

618
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 2: came back to my memory. She was actually like it was.

619
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: She would make herself cry in front of the group

620
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: and her she was like, give me the oscar in

621
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: the background. Then she'd go make up with Clayton and

622
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: we just all were like, we.

623
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: Need me the Oscar No, I'm not even kidding. I

624
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: don't play it like I don't and the fake shit

625
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: like I can't. So I would I would have. Yeah,

626
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: she would have gotten to me on all season if

627
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: it was.

628
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: It was crazy. We won't go into a tangent. But

629
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: who do you think is the epitome of a villain?

630
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: I hate you, guys, I really like please like I

631
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: can't you guys like I'm doing everything.

632
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: No, you just facilitated one of the most difficult interviews

633
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: I think we will have on this podcast. And people

634
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: need to appreciate that that just happened.

635
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: Thirty minutes ago, and my brain is recovering.

636
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: She she did that full podcast alone without me even

637
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: preparing her that I was.

638
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: I haven't had a sip of water, and I'm like dehydrated,

639
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 2: like I am in the desert right now. Okay, I'm going.

640
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Through pretty stop.

641
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 2: I'm so serious. I need you'll understand. The brain is

642
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: on two percent low power mode. I can't even look

643
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: at the word this. I don't even know how to say.

644
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 2: I actually don't. I think I just made my brain

645
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 2: unable to ever say it correctly. I can't just changed.

646
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: Sony, I can't read.

647
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, who do I think is the villain the best villain?

648
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, I'm thinking. I'm thinking, honestly, probably he wasn't

649
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: even crazy. I mean he was crazy. Let me not

650
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: say that he wasn't even crazy.

651
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm like Louis, Okay, that was like manipulation.

652
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like that, and that's where yea, yea, yeah, yeah, yeah,

653
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 2: for sure.

654
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: Has there been anyone that's done that since him?

655
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I really don't, because what you're

656
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 2: not gonna do is ever give me an ultimatum. That's

657
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: what you're never gonna do. Do not serve me an ultimatum.

658
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: Nonetheless, on my season, ultimatums across the Bachelor board have

659
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: always rubbed me.

660
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 2: It's crazy because again, here you are, and as our fan,

661
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: our audience likes to say, you know what show you

662
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 2: signed up for, Well, then you know what show you

663
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 2: signed up for. It's very it's simple as that. Don't

664
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: tell me this or that because I'll give you that.

665
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah No. That one was crazy too,

666
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: and I feel like it had one of the most

667
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: iconic moments after the podium.

668
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: Move no insane. That was so good saying and I

669
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: love it. Top top five, top top five?

670
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 3: What is your top well, what's your top Bachelor.

671
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: Moment in all of the history.

672
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of like a moment that.

673
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 2: Like recent years, because I'm like, all the history is crazy.

674
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 2: I know, that's insane.

675
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: Recent years. I loved one of my favorite moments or

676
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: I think it's really hard to surprise me. And one

677
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: of the moments that's really shocked me was on Joey's

678
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: season when they had Kelsey and Daisy in the car.

679
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 2: No, I I mean, I was like, how is this unfolding?

680
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 2: I really did for a second. I said, now I

681
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: do know something, but I'm not sure. Now. I have

682
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: never been so shocked that they're both about to go

683
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: up to him like crazy two girls at the podium

684
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 2: final bros, let's do it right now.

685
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 1: I was that was shocking.

686
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 2: I was scared. Yeah, No, that actually was a good,

687
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: a good shocker moment.

688
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 1: I will say, oh, this is kind of messy. Are

689
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: there any Bachelor fan favorites that you think are overrated? Oh?

690
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: Come on, now, you don't. You guys can't do that.

691
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 3: I know, I actually don't.

692
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think I don't know.

693
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: That are overrated, you guys, Really, that's a conversation that

694
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 2: I don't think I have time for and will This

695
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: is no shade to anybody. Well, if we.

696
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: Visit this or we go to carries out and have

697
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: a couple of thousands of one exactly after that in there.

698
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah right, I have a list too, I have a

699
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: I have a long list, and that list it's not

700
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 2: there's no tea or shape. Well it is tea, no shade.

701
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: The problem is is, yeah, the reasons behind it. I

702
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 2: have to explain and give context to you because otherwise

703
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: people will be quick to write me off. And there's

704
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: nothing wrong. But I think people just understand where I'm

705
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 2: coming from.

706
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it.

707
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 2: So we'll do it. You know, if you guys just

708
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: keep tuning in to actually Happy Hour, we'll get that

709
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: snuck in one of these episodes. Soon after a glass,

710
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 2: a big glass.

711
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: After a huge glass. Have you ever had an awkward

712
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: or heated interaction with someone from Bachelor Nation?

713
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

714
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: I don't think I have either.

715
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: I really don't confront unless I need to.

716
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't meet a lot of people

717
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 1: in person. People think that we have met a lot

718
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: of bachelonation and I would say I haven't met majority,

719
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: yeah unless they're out.

720
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 2: Of there a fr ooh do.

721
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: You have one?

722
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 2: But I can't answer this.

723
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: Okay, that add that to the list of care Yeah,

724
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: I'm bring it up. I cannot imagine you getting into

725
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 1: any altercations.

726
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 2: No, And that's the thing I don't that again, probably

727
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: another misconception. Obviously, it's like what was my little baby

728
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: picture on the little cure? So like quick to like,

729
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 2: no bullshit in your comment. Correct, that's a given. But

730
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: the thing is is like I don't like I don't

731
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 2: like confronting. I don't like it. I just love for

732
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: there to be peace. I love for there to be

733
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 2: like people having a good time, feeling good Like that

734
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 2: is like my that's my aura, Like that is what

735
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 2: I want to give off to people. That's what I

736
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: want people to feel. So with that being said, I

737
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 2: am not I am good at confronting, but I don't

738
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 2: like to do it, and I honestly percy avoid it.

739
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: So unless it's necessary, which there has been two singular

740
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 2: moments that I can count in my head. But it

741
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 2: was like just really just trying to get down to

742
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 2: the nitty gritty of like what exactly is going on here?

743
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 2: And this was.

744
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: All like it it did sound your birthday.

745
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, it sounds juicy. One was like

746
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: three texts and hopefully whoever listens, if you listen to

747
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 2: this message, then you probably wouldn't listen. What did Brooklyn

748
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: say if the shoe fit lays the bitch up way?

749
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: And one was while we were filming something and that's

750
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 2: all I can say, and we'll rush for the Carrie

751
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 2: episode very soon.

752
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: Was it at the vander Pump Villa? I'm right, perhaps,

753
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: I don't know when is that coming out?

754
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: In April?

755
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: I think I personally cannot wait just to watch baby

756
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 1: d just make out in the hot tub.

757
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 2: Listen, there was just foolishness everywhere.

758
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: If people have never seen our baby just make out

759
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: with tongue in all facination, that's true.

760
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 2: It was like, you know, it was such a shocker

761
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: for me and Dawton because I feel like the thing

762
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: about me and Dawton and his friend group, like with

763
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 2: the boys from his season and then with me, like

764
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 2: we're both kind of like the facilitators of like fun

765
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 2: in a little bit of chaos, Like we both like

766
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,760
Speaker 2: make sure people are having, you know, a good time.

767
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: I think it's like like the that's just understood. So

768
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 2: when we got into that villa and then it almost

769
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: was like the script flipped on us. We were like expecting, okay,

770
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 2: like come on people, we didn't even have to do anything.

771
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, there's there's some different energy in

772
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 2: you guys right now. I don't know what Jess I

773
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: didn't recognize because I said, no, why are you doing

774
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 2: all of this? Like who are you?

775
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: Like?

776
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: Who are you?

777
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: People have no idea how much we were trying to

778
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: get just to kiss with tongue in Paradise.

779
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 2: Kiss with tongue in paradise. This is the girl who

780
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: is so beautiful, the most, so gorgeous, the nicest, turns

781
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 2: down first dates because she just can't get herself together.

782
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: Turns down like NFL players, turns down everyone left, right center.

783
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 2: And so when she got there, I said, oh, okay,

784
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 2: sister wants to get engaged at the end of the year,

785
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 2: Like yeah, she's she's making moves like.

786
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 3: She said, ring before a spring.

787
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: It was literally, Mercedes is always, as we know, down

788
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 2: for a good time. She too had a time. I said,

789
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 2: what's going on? One Ariel had a time, Maria had

790
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 2: a time. Yes, the boys, I said, Okay, so we

791
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: did this right. I guess it's chaos and confusion.

792
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: Which not wait, that needs to come out sooner it does.

793
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, actually, bump it up, literally bumping. I need

794
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: no distractions during Taylor's episode Taylor season.

795
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: I literally just can.

796
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: I hope it's at the end. I think it will

797
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 2: be so anyway, there are so many more questions I

798
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 2: know we need to ask, but I think, you know,

799
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 2: we should save some of these four our next episode perhaps,

800
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 2: or like we said, the juicy ones for when we

801
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: have our our glasses of mine, don't don't you agree?

802
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 1: We should have everyone send in the questions they want

803
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: us to answer after we've had a couple of glasses

804
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: of whine.

805
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 2: I care correct because there's like good ones and they're

806
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 2: all great questions. But I want, if you really want

807
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 2: some tea to be spilled all over the coffee table,

808
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 2: submit those crystal coffee table like area, truly the crystal

809
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 2: coffee table. We'll get this answer. But I think, yeah,

810
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 2: I mean, this was a good little wrap, like a

811
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 2: good little I love these No, honestly, these are my

812
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: favorite because I'm like, I don't. I don't have to

813
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 2: think I'm just existing.

814
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: This is like, don't have to facilitate couple's therapy.

815
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: Don't have to brain off and then or turn my

816
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 2: brain on and then turn it off and forget to

817
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 2: turn it back on. Yeah, that that happened.

818
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: So everyone give Charity her flowers for that interview.

819
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: You guys.

820
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: That was just you, guys, No, just love us.

821
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 2: What did I say? A good the epitome? Yep, the

822
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: eptum's Actually do's gonna be like I can't, I can't.

823
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

824
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: Okay, we're just the girls. Okay, I I think that

825
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: is all for today's episode. You guys, this was fun.

826
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 2: I love you always, Rachel, Like truly, we are locked

827
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: in for life at this point, literally love you and

828
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 2: so much to look ahead too for the rest of

829
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: this year and Taylor season coming up. So thank you

830
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: to all of our listeners.

831
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. We are so excited for more interviews

832
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: coming up, more fun episodes with me and Charity, so

833
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: make sure you stay tuned and we'll see you next time.

834
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: Bye guys, you next time. Bye bye,