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Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Aurelia in Colorado Springs.

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Speaker 1: Aurelia says, my mother in law asked me to send

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Speaker 1: a list of snacks that my girls love so she

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Speaker 1: can have them when the girls come stay with her.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know the girls would be staying with her.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to stay with my sister for a week

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Speaker 1: at the end of the month to help her with

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Speaker 1: her newborn baby. My husband was supposed to plan activities

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Speaker 1: for him and our girls during that week. Instead, he's

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Speaker 1: handling our kids off to his mom. Why can't he

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Speaker 1: keep his own children? And why didn't he run his

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Speaker 1: plans by me first before he called his mama.

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Speaker 2: He ain't got running plans by you. Ain't finna not

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Speaker 2: go see your girl. He going to play golf, He's

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Speaker 2: finna go play golf.

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Speaker 1: But these are his children too, And.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got keys. I tried to put them off

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Speaker 2: all time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but why didn't he just say talk to her

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Speaker 1: about it? That's what she's mad about too. Why don't

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Speaker 1: you talk about Well?

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Speaker 2: Why glad at him? You trust his mama and his

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Speaker 2: mama know how to raise kids better than you do.

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Speaker 2: And his mama ain't got no problem with him. So

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Speaker 2: is mama gonna help him out? So he gonna get

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Speaker 2: some free time too. Everybody needs free time. Now, you

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Speaker 2: going over here, the babysit, this lady that had his baby.

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Speaker 2: He gonna go play girl. He gonna go play golf.

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Speaker 1: I don't see how that's any even exchange midwife. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's going to be of service to her sister. He's

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Speaker 1: going to have some fun.

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Speaker 2: Well, it don't say in the letter he going to

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Speaker 2: play golf, but I am telling you he gotta go

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Speaker 2: help his partner. His partner going through some changes with divorce,

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Speaker 2: and while they playing golf, they're gonna talk about it.

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Speaker 2: The alright dog, good, hey man, use your seven nine

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Speaker 2: from here, that'd be the best way.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she likes the fact that he's acting

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Speaker 1: like they're not his girls. They're acting like they're her girls,

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Speaker 1: her responsibility, not his. So he pawned him off on

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Speaker 1: his mom. That's what she's so mad about. Okay, everybody

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Speaker 1: drop him off at their mama house.

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Speaker 2: Everybody live, So she's going.

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Speaker 1: To be a midwife.

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Speaker 2: He can't go have fun. What you're saying he had,

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Speaker 2: He didn't.

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Speaker 1: Say he couldn't take care of your own kids.

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Speaker 2: She trying to cut his time down to do what

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Speaker 2: she wanted him to do and not what he wanted

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Speaker 2: to do. He didn't, You didn't ask him, could you

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Speaker 2: go take care of your sister? You told him that.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna take these girls over my mama house.

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Speaker 2: I'm not fittished.

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Speaker 1: So you are you saying she's a fun stealer because

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Speaker 1: she doesn't want him. She's mad because she wants him

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Speaker 1: to keep his own children right the world. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to keep his own girls. That sounds crazy.

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Speaker 2: You know how many times I ain't want to keep

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Speaker 2: my kids?

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Speaker 1: How many times have we ourselves been at our grandmothers

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Speaker 1: from our own parents. Can't really think about it. They

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Speaker 1: come back and pick us up. I want my mommy

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Speaker 1: crying and I.

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Speaker 2: Want to go my mom. I'm sitting to doing old

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Speaker 2: people stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'mdrinking coffee in the morning.

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Speaker 2: What you doing? I'm not with a coffee cup. I

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Speaker 2: thought it was.

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Speaker 1: Amazing watching the stories.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm watching you know, young and the rest this

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Speaker 2: day of our lives.

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Speaker 1: All right, see, we have time for another one. This

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Speaker 1: is from China in Atlantic City. China says, I'm marrying

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Speaker 1: my high school sweetheart next month. We're in our mid

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Speaker 1: twenties and we both work two jobs. I was offered

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Speaker 1: a full time job as an administrative assistant with health benefits.

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Speaker 1: My fiance told me that my two jobs are bring

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Speaker 1: in more money than the full time job. We need

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Speaker 1: health insurance more than anything. So why would he tell

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Speaker 1: me not to take the job. Is he jealous because

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Speaker 1: I got the job?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, well, are you making more money than him?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she will if she keeps her your jobs.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she is.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what it is. I think that's what

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Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, that's on you, doll.

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Speaker 1: That is Yeah, that's where why she's asking. Is he

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Speaker 1: jealous and all that because she got the job?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, if they were consider it our money

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Speaker 2: instead of her money. They money, here's money, my money.

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Speaker 2: They have a much better time. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: It's difficult for people to do. But that's what marriage is.

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Speaker 2: It's becoming one and that'll help you out greatly if

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Speaker 2: you could understand that. But I can't make you see

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Speaker 2: it if you don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough. You're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show