Speaker 1: Welcome to Hold Up. It's the show where two best friends,
Speaker 1: one being corresponded Dulcie Sloan of The Daily Show and
Speaker 1: then me Josh Johnson, a writer for The Daily Show.
Speaker 1: We have arguments, but they're not just any old arguments.
Speaker 1: These aren't things that you know you're gonna see in
Speaker 1: the news, you're gonna see in the in the mainstream media.
Speaker 1: These are things from the streets, all right. We're the
Speaker 1: vocal point from the people talking what they're thinking, and
Speaker 1: we we hash it out here. We come to a conclusion.
Speaker 1: We see who's right and who's more right. You know,
Speaker 1: it's usually mean, it's usually me that's not true. But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what we're discussing today on the podcast, we're not talking about,
Speaker 1: you know, the war, We're not talking about the rising
Speaker 1: housing prices. We're talking about loud neighbors versus nosy neighbors.
Speaker 1: This is where I'm at. This is where I personally
Speaker 1: land on the side of wanting nosy neighbors as opposed
Speaker 1: to loud neighbors. M hmm, okay, I feel like you
Speaker 1: You've mentioned I feel like in the past that you'd
Speaker 1: rather loud neighbors the nosy neighbors. Well, this is the thing.
Speaker 1: Nosy neighbors, loud neighbors. And I'm not I'm not a
Speaker 1: cock caala, you know what I mean. I'm not a
Speaker 1: cop calla. I don't play calling the cops. But I
Speaker 1: think with loud neighbors there is a like, if it
Speaker 1: gets to a certain point, you can like tell the building. Again,
Speaker 1: I'm not a snitch either, but if you're acting or real, donkey,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something right. So like with super loud neighbors,
Speaker 1: there's always like a course of action that you can
Speaker 1: take to at least get them to chill the hell out.
Speaker 1: Because the thing is, it's like if you have loud neighbors,
Speaker 1: it's not just you saying something like. Things can be done,
Speaker 1: actions can be taken, People can get kicked out. With
Speaker 1: nosy neighbors, it's someone always popping their head out of
Speaker 1: the door whenever they hear another door open. It's somebody
Speaker 1: standing by the talking to the male man for too long,
Speaker 1: or hey, I saw you got a package or that,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, bro, first of all, get the funk
Speaker 1: up out my business first and foremost, this is the
Speaker 1: person who's looking at who's coming in and out of
Speaker 1: your house, right. And I have like a lot of
Speaker 1: male friends because I'm a female comics, so most of
Speaker 1: my friends, like most of my friends aren't men. And
Speaker 1: so if I have like if you come over and
Speaker 1: hang out and then Ben comes over and hangs out
Speaker 1: in the same week, what the hell is this neighbor
Speaker 1: gonna think? You see what I'm saying. It's like, well,
Speaker 1: one came over, then the other one came over. Now
Speaker 1: they're both over. Oh goodness, what kind of life is?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, bitch, first of all, get some business.
Speaker 1: So what I'm hearing is that what you don't like
Speaker 1: about the nosiness outside of just the of surface level uncomfortableness,
Speaker 1: is that nosy people are usually just pretty lonely. It's
Speaker 1: just it's just a loneliness manifesting its nosiness because you
Speaker 1: could be nosy and have you know, a full family
Speaker 1: in the house. Okay, knows he don't mean lonely. Nos
Speaker 1: he just means knows it. Nosey means like it's you
Speaker 1: don't have no business of your own. Yeah, yeah, like
Speaker 1: your mind and mind because you ain't got no business
Speaker 1: to money yawn. So I'm not gonna lie. I personally
Speaker 1: feel like nosiness rather than loud, like, you know, nosy
Speaker 1: versus noisy. I'm gonna go with nosy every time because
Speaker 1: I'm a pretty boring dude. So then they're not gonna
Speaker 1: get anything. They're not gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna bore
Speaker 1: the hell out of a nosy person. Nosy isn't coming
Speaker 1: for me, oh no. But the thing is nos he
Speaker 1: doesn't care. There Eventually nosy just to know. It's like, okay,
Speaker 1: you have a dog, right, yeah, So now every time
Speaker 1: they see they're gonna be pressed that what's he doing
Speaker 1: with this dog where you know they haven't walked him
Speaker 1: in a while. Well, you know, his girlfriend's out of town.
Speaker 1: I hope everything like it's even though you'd have to
Speaker 1: be by yourself, never leave your house and receiving no
Speaker 1: packages for a nosy person to not be involved at all.
Speaker 1: Plus they live in an apartment building and live in
Speaker 1: a neighborhood, right, so they're looking for any any piece
Speaker 1: of information is information that they want because when they
Speaker 1: see because also nosy people have petendency to talk to
Speaker 1: everybody because they want to know what the tea is.
Speaker 1: So they're gonna ask, oh, well what do you do it?
Speaker 1: So they're just building a case. So then it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: well have you taken the dog? Well, oh, I see
Speaker 1: y'all got a new dog, or y'll been getting a
Speaker 1: lot of packages, like like what's going on? Like, well,
Speaker 1: when you're gonna have kids? Well maybe that's like it's
Speaker 1: all it doesn't matter, like you, to be a boring
Speaker 1: person means that you live alone, you have no pets,
Speaker 1: and you don't engage with the nosy person. Okay, So
Speaker 1: on the scale of one to ten at this moment
Speaker 1: in time and the conversation, how would you say you
Speaker 1: rank your feeling of wanting a loud neighbor versus a
Speaker 1: nosy neighbor? Is it like seven A? They're both they're
Speaker 1: both on want I want neither neighbor. I want neither person.
Speaker 1: If you had to pick, though, if you had to pick, well,
Speaker 1: the thing about a loud neighbor is how are they loud?
Speaker 1: That's the thing I'm talking loud as a structure of
Speaker 1: being in life. So we're talking about loud hookups, loud music.
Speaker 1: Maybe they practice drums and they're not very good. We're
Speaker 1: talking about all the loud, oh nosy every time, because wow,
Speaker 1: wow every time, because it's like the people. It's like
Speaker 1: somebody down the hall. They have a dog, and every
Speaker 1: time they leave, I guess when they don't talk, tie
Speaker 1: the dog up. The dog barks by the front door,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, first of all, put your dog away.
Speaker 1: I know you have multiple bedrooms in your apartment, like
Speaker 1: I know you do your multiple bedrooms in your apartment,
Speaker 1: you have a balcony, Like, there's other things that can
Speaker 1: happen with this dog that doesn't include that dog barking
Speaker 1: for an hour's by the front door, disrupting the other
Speaker 1: people on the floor, Like, do something with your dog.
Speaker 1: But since I'm not a snitch and it's not that loud,
Speaker 1: I don't say anything because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: the dog doesn't know that it's being a nuisance dog.
Speaker 1: Don't just being a dog. No, I I get what
Speaker 1: you mean. I get I get what you're saying. I
Speaker 1: I did not expect. I thought you would deal dig
Speaker 1: your heels way harder than you actually did. Now that
Speaker 1: we're really on the same side, because I'm I'm at
Speaker 1: about a seven where I'd rather nosey versus noisy, just
Speaker 1: because I will say an oozy neighbor might just save
Speaker 1: your life. You know, I'm falling, I'm old. I felt
Speaker 1: nosy neighbor is gonna be like, I haven't seen them
Speaker 1: in a little while. Let me call somebody. Loud neighbor
Speaker 1: won't even notice. A loud neighbor will be like, man,
Speaker 1: nobody's called the cops all us in a while, thank god. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I have my other building that I lived in,
Speaker 1: someone did pass away. Oh No. The craziest thing about
Speaker 1: that is what I was telling my mom about it.
Speaker 1: Something fell off my wall and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're not doing this in here. It was the craziest thing.
Speaker 1: W I was in my apartment one day and I saw, like,
Speaker 1: you don't just like those regular like big house flies. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, fun, did these flies? What's happening? I
Speaker 1: was like, I saw like one or two, and I
Speaker 1: was like, did I leave a window open or whatever?
Speaker 1: And then I pulled the curtain back and there were
Speaker 1: forty fucking flies trying to get out of the window.
Speaker 1: And it was crazy. Your girl upstairs, so you know
Speaker 1: Beth that works at the office. The way that they
Speaker 1: found out that something was wrong was there is another
Speaker 1: girl that she's friends with on the floor, was just
Speaker 1: looking out of her window and her apartment, and she
Speaker 1: saw a bunch of flies on the window of that
Speaker 1: apartment and called men and called the super and the
Speaker 1: super was too afraid to go inside, and then the
Speaker 1: wife went inside. I just feel like you're building needed
Speaker 1: some nosier people. That that's that's what I'm hearing right now. Well,
Speaker 1: that's what the That's how that girl figured it out
Speaker 1: because she was just looking at her window. She's like, hey,
Speaker 1: Because he was a very quiet man, he kept to himself.
Speaker 1: But at one point she was like, why are there
Speaker 1: all these flies on this one window? Beth was telling
Speaker 1: me there was like a smell in her apartment and
Speaker 1: she didn't know what it was. And the one day
Speaker 1: we both come home from work and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: why is an ambulance here? I left and came back.
Speaker 1: They were therefore fucking hours wild. What's the loudest neighbor
Speaker 1: you've ever had? M M. Do you ever even even
Speaker 1: if this was a hotel, because you know, being on
Speaker 1: the road, you have to travel and stuff. It's just
Speaker 1: it's always sex or an argument like this. Either. I
Speaker 1: love a good argument. That's that's when I hope my
Speaker 1: neighbors will be loud, because maybe I'm not nosy enough
Speaker 1: to be nosy, but I'm nosy enough to be messy.
Speaker 1: So then when somebody's near me at it's it's very loud.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, it's amazing. That's I haven't I've never really hurt.
Speaker 1: I've never lived anywhere where I could hear a really
Speaker 1: good argument. I rarely hear arguments. I heard arguments on
Speaker 1: the street, but like those don't count when I'm like,
Speaker 1: I've never had it where it was like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: worried about this person. Come to Chicago. Chicago has some
Speaker 1: fin walls, all right. I once heard the full on
Speaker 1: argument top to bottom, and then the makeup sex, and
Speaker 1: and then honestly, the makeup sex was worse than here
Speaker 1: in the argument because my man had no rhythm. We're
Speaker 1: talking about plot PLoP PLoP PLoP, Like just I was like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing in there? You need help? It
Speaker 1: might have been with the argument. What was the argument
Speaker 1: about the argument? I think, okay, I think it was
Speaker 1: about some petty cash. I think it was like they
Speaker 1: had spent some money that was like communal. This is
Speaker 1: our like piggy bank. Money, and then one of them
Speaker 1: spent it. But then it was like the whole point
Speaker 1: was to spend it. Honestly, don't know who I sided
Speaker 1: with in the argument, but it it got petty real fast.
Speaker 1: It got like, well, you know, because you let your
Speaker 1: dad live with us for so long, now we all
Speaker 1: our last And I was like, okay, oh no, oh.
Speaker 1: What I love about hearing an argument through a wall
Speaker 1: is that you have to you have to choose your side.
Speaker 1: You have to choose who you're like, all right, I
Speaker 1: think I think this is the person that I'm into.
Speaker 1: Then you also have to choose as the development happens,
Speaker 1: what you feel like is the best h the best argument. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like the best course of action for the side
Speaker 1: that you've picked. So one time I was just chilling
Speaker 1: right and there was this there was this guy that
Speaker 1: was yelling at his roommate and the roommate was was like, hey, no,
Speaker 1: it's not my turn or whatever. It's like, of course
Speaker 1: it's your turn. It's always your turd because you'd never
Speaker 1: do it. And they were arguing about the dishes, all right.
Speaker 1: But then as I as I learned more about this
Speaker 1: this uh roommate situation, it was just funny because the
Speaker 1: one that always does the dishes apparently wasn't doing anything else,
Speaker 1: and so it was like, all right, but I've Q
Speaker 1: and it's like, all right, we'll vacuum up some dishes
Speaker 1: because you never do the dishes. And it was it
Speaker 1: got it got to the point where it stopped being
Speaker 1: about the dishes. Like you know, every every roommate situation
Speaker 1: is lightly it's like married. It's like diet marriage, you know,
Speaker 1: because you're not even involved, but you're you're stuck together
Speaker 1: for the term of this lease. And I don't know,
Speaker 1: I've just watched, I've watched and heard a lot of great,
Speaker 1: great arguments through a wall like it. Actually, it's one
Speaker 1: of those things where when you're broke and you're living
Speaker 1: like that, it's one of life's few pleasures. Well, you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: this is a bad apartment. I'm not living well right now,
Speaker 1: this is a bad situation. But you know what's brightening
Speaker 1: my day these loudass neighbors. Sometimes it was happening while
Speaker 1: I was trying to get sleep. So I still go
Speaker 1: nosy over over loud every time, but every once while
Speaker 1: you were just here, like what's the best way to
Speaker 1: put it, it's like for me, it's just funny when
Speaker 1: when a man's voice cracks, all right, it's one of
Speaker 1: those things where it's like it's like a helly grown man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he had that base, and he might even be right.
Speaker 1: That's the worst part. You might even be right in
Speaker 1: all of your anger and your assumptions and everything's going on.
Speaker 1: You you fully correct, but now that your voice is cracked,
Speaker 1: you have lost credibility. It's like it's and you can
Speaker 1: feel it happened. So there was one time I was
Speaker 1: laying and this is why I was on air mattress.
Speaker 1: I was not I was not having a good life.
Speaker 1: You know, I've been on an air mattress before my
Speaker 1: first Uh, when I first moved to New York. When
Speaker 1: I first got my first department in New York, I
Speaker 1: had an air mattress. That's because I didn't have And
Speaker 1: then I moved to New York with like three suitcases
Speaker 1: and never any furniture, and I had one of those
Speaker 1: good like double decker, like thick, expensive air mattresses, like
Speaker 1: you can put two people. You got sax on that
Speaker 1: air mattress, like it was a high quality. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm with you. It's just you went on that one quality,
Speaker 1: you know, so I already have to basically put myself
Speaker 1: in a slight coma to get to sleep right, and
Speaker 1: then through the walls, I just feel like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: not going down like that. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's just a bunch of nas, which is also how
Speaker 1: you can tell someone in an argument can't think of
Speaker 1: the next thing. They just remember that baseline is no.
Speaker 1: My position is no. I must say no until I
Speaker 1: think of another point. But no, no, no, no, no, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all wrong for that. You're wrong for that, And then
Speaker 1: think it means that he's usually in the wrong, Like
Speaker 1: if I hear a man saying, no, it's not going
Speaker 1: down like that, now, y'allly going on like this, ning
Speaker 1: is wrong. Whatever is happening, he is wrong. I love
Speaker 1: a good I'm not going out like that, because it's
Speaker 1: such a dramatic sentence. Yeah, I'm not going out like that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this isn't No one comes back to the
Speaker 1: end of training day, right, It's like the end of
Speaker 1: training day. This is not the end of Like, this
Speaker 1: is not the maxtic scene of a movie. This is
Speaker 1: not a drug deal. That could go wrong in any minute.
Speaker 1: You're just arguing about you probably got got caught cheating,
Speaker 1: or you didn't do something you were supposed to do,
Speaker 1: like the whole na no, no, oh oh oh, so
Speaker 1: that's how you're gonna do me. If I hear that's
Speaker 1: how you're gonna do me. It's not going down like that.
Speaker 1: Oh oh so what you're trying to say what I said,
Speaker 1: ding dong. You're fucking wrong, bro. I'm not having a
Speaker 1: lot of your start with. Oh, I feel most of
Speaker 1: what you over here is oh like, if I hear
Speaker 1: an argument Atlanta, oh oh oh oh, so that's what
Speaker 1: we're doing. That's what we're doing. That's how y'all gonna
Speaker 1: do me. That's how y'all gonna do me. And like,
Speaker 1: I know you're wrong. No, you're wrong, you're not saying nothing. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's how y'all gonna do Yes, that's how we're going
Speaker 1: to do you, bro. Like it's if I hear certain
Speaker 1: sentences when I hear an argument, especially if a man
Speaker 1: is in an argument with whoever, If I hear, wow,
Speaker 1: so that's how you're gonna treat a black man? You
Speaker 1: were dead fucking wrong for dead fucking I don't care
Speaker 1: what happened. He wasn't supposed to take out the trash,
Speaker 1: or he had a baby that his girl didn't know about.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that niked is wrong. He is dead.
Speaker 1: Asked wrong? Oh or wow A good long while, we'll
Speaker 1: do it because in this situation, the guy was like no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, and then and then I heard some other
Speaker 1: murmuring because the other person wasn't meaning as loud. I
Speaker 1: also think he was positioned too close to the wall
Speaker 1: and out of nowhere. My man is like, who are
Speaker 1: you talking to? And it was it was like you
Speaker 1: could tell he got so upset that at the who
Speaker 1: he lost the base and he couldn't find it again,
Speaker 1: like like the base was avoiding him until he got
Speaker 1: to the two and the two was too much. The
Speaker 1: two was like two, well, who are you talking to?
Speaker 1: One is one of my favorite phrases in black them right,
Speaker 1: who you're talking to means I know you're not talking
Speaker 1: to me. Basically, I love it when it's black women
Speaker 1: do when they go who are you talking to? As
Speaker 1: it's a legitimate question, like you're talking to you, there's
Speaker 1: no way. And my favorite is who are you talking
Speaker 1: and then the look up. I love. The look around
Speaker 1: is a the look around. I've done it. I've done it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Who who are you talking to? I'm it's
Speaker 1: like you've been talking to You're It's a legitimate question
Speaker 1: because there's no fucking way this human being is talking.
Speaker 1: I've said it. I know you're not. I know you're
Speaker 1: not talking to me. I know you're not talking to me.
Speaker 1: Who else? Who else is here? Who are you talking to?
Speaker 1: Clearly I've made the mistake of standing in between you
Speaker 1: at whoever you're trying to disrespect. Right now, full taxi driver,
Speaker 1: I want to have another quick check in because things
Speaker 1: took a turn early in the episode where I'm realizing
Speaker 1: now that even though we started out in the position
Speaker 1: of noisy versus nosy, you've you've quickly come over to
Speaker 1: my side of nosy over noisy, and I just want
Speaker 1: to see if you still feel that way at this
Speaker 1: point in the episode. To be fair, I hate them both,
Speaker 1: but if I had to make this devil's choice, it
Speaker 1: was nosy all along. It was it was like well loud,
Speaker 1: only because once I got the parameters of what the
Speaker 1: loud was, Yeah, yeah, yeah, then I can't be on board.
Speaker 1: I gave me on board at all, because now that
Speaker 1: I know that this this person is going to be
Speaker 1: making every noise humanly possible, there has to be effort
Speaker 1: being put into this amount of noise. Like you can't
Speaker 1: cook this loudly, you can't talk this loudly. Everything you do,
Speaker 1: like that's cartoon level. That's cartoon level. You're walking loud,
Speaker 1: you're talking loud everything this is. You're being a fucking
Speaker 1: menace as of that point, you're just doing it for
Speaker 1: the sake of being disruptive. No one exists out a
Speaker 1: volume that everyone can hear at all times. That's not
Speaker 1: even how humans work, Like that's insane. I think that
Speaker 1: there are people who are unintentionally loud neighbors because I've
Speaker 1: lived in places where it felt like the roof was
Speaker 1: gonna cave in because I heard every footstep. My upstairs
Speaker 1: neighbors used to like vacuum loudly every Friday, which was
Speaker 1: confusing because we had wood floors, So I was like,
Speaker 1: maybe they have rugs, But if there were rugs, it
Speaker 1: would soak up the sound. It would soak up the sound.
Speaker 1: So you are loudly vacuuming and It was like just
Speaker 1: vacuuming pebbles hard every Friday, like midday on Friday, which
Speaker 1: was fine, except that I would record, like the cartoon
Speaker 1: that I do Great North. We were recording on Friday's,
Speaker 1: so depending on what time they vacuum, and I'm like
Speaker 1: what they're like, Oh, we're hearing something. They had My
Speaker 1: upstairs neighbor is vacuuming on hardwood floor. They don't own
Speaker 1: a broom, all right, This vacuum has been the family
Speaker 1: for a very long time. This is a Dison family
Speaker 1: was no dison it. This was a hoover. This is original. Yes,
Speaker 1: this was remember being the loudest things like. It's like
Speaker 1: it's like, I understand the animals were afraid of these,
Speaker 1: but like human children are also afraid of these loud aspects.
Speaker 1: They were so loud. It's like, prove to me, this
Speaker 1: won't eat me. Yeah, I'm free, What do I know?
Speaker 1: I'm ten. This still seems like a problem for the
Speaker 1: listener who may have landed on the other side of
Speaker 1: where we are. I do have to offer up that
Speaker 1: a nosy neighbor can still take you to a place
Speaker 1: that you're so angry. You don't you don't even really
Speaker 1: understand why it's It's where things become so petty, you know,
Speaker 1: like when you have that neighbor that just moves your
Speaker 1: trash can and you're like, why did you do that?
Speaker 1: It's not a thing that should even affect your day,
Speaker 1: but if they do it enough, you're ready to snap.
Speaker 1: I feel like nosy people have that level of effect.
Speaker 1: It's that metal some kind of like not minding your business,
Speaker 1: kind of like you ever been somewhere in a white
Speaker 1: person who just would randomly pop up and be like, Hey,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? And I'm just like, the funk
Speaker 1: are you? Uh? I don't know how many times that
Speaker 1: has happened to me, but I can see it being
Speaker 1: very Franks. I've been places and just be like, hey,
Speaker 1: what are you up? Something like what do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you go? No, I'm not telling you nothing while
Speaker 1: I just wondering y'all like you're having fun? No, bitch,
Speaker 1: move you don't. That's not what you're here for. You
Speaker 1: want to know what three niggas is? Where you at? Move? No,
Speaker 1: it's the same concept, or it's just like, oh, you
Speaker 1: just moved in. What's going on? And it's like the
Speaker 1: whole concept of like bringing over Like uh, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we just brought over a like castle roll or whatever,
Speaker 1: and like, first of all, I'm not I don't know,
Speaker 1: you're not eating your food. Um, I feel like wait,
Speaker 1: I feel like we're crossing it to a territory of
Speaker 1: just people. Think. No, no, no, no, no, you do
Speaker 1: not understand the original intent of that. Oh, hey, welcome
Speaker 1: to the neighborhood. They want to see what your house
Speaker 1: looks like. They want to see how many people are
Speaker 1: in your house. And let's say you decorated the it's
Speaker 1: too be nosy. They don't know you're welcome you to
Speaker 1: the neighborhood to find out who you are, what you do,
Speaker 1: who lives over here. So when they established what the
Speaker 1: baseline of humans is over here, then when anybody who's
Speaker 1: not in a bit, let's like okay, well it's a
Speaker 1: husband and a wife, or it's uh, you know, two husbands. Whatever.
Speaker 1: If you see Bobby and Jim every day and you
Speaker 1: know Bobby done left on the trip and Jim got
Speaker 1: somebody else coming over, well we notice that's not where
Speaker 1: what's well, you know Bobby always a Bobby wou To
Speaker 1: suit case. Somebody said he was going on going on
Speaker 1: in business trip for a couple of days. Well why
Speaker 1: do you see it? And it's that so now I know.
Speaker 1: So that's how you create the nosy neighbor in a neighborhood,
Speaker 1: like like you know, because people on apartments don't come
Speaker 1: check and see how you that's not it's an apartment,
Speaker 1: but like in a house, you know, you want to
Speaker 1: see who's around, what's popping, who's doing what? You wanna
Speaker 1: make sure that you know, foolish just going on. So
Speaker 1: the original intent of the hey, welcome to the neighborhood
Speaker 1: is to find out what the hell is going on
Speaker 1: at your house and how to judge you accordingly for
Speaker 1: it got you. So the thing that might be a
Speaker 1: bit difficult is that the same way, the same process
Speaker 1: of being like a new nosy neighbor is also kind
Speaker 1: of similar to becoblic a new for it it's like
Speaker 1: is dangerously close. It's like like if you just moved
Speaker 1: in and I want to be your friend, and I
Speaker 1: don't know you and I don't even know what you do,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, oh, maybe I want to be friends
Speaker 1: with this person. I think I have to like come
Speaker 1: over with some sort of welcome gift, and I think
Speaker 1: I have to, like, you know, invite you to stuff
Speaker 1: and like, yeah, but you don't know how to. But
Speaker 1: so say you want to come over developed friendship. I
Speaker 1: you know, you have to both be interested to be friends.
Speaker 1: So if it doesn't pop off, if there's no chemistry
Speaker 1: there but one of you doesn't get it, you keep
Speaker 1: coming over. Now you just nosing. Well, look, I I'm
Speaker 1: glad that we have come to this. I think I
Speaker 1: feel like this is like one of the first times
Speaker 1: we really really agreed on something that I did not
Speaker 1: see this coming. At least with a nosy neighbor. I
Speaker 1: can go in my house and then it's done. With
Speaker 1: a loud neighbor. Their lifestyle isn't isn't what's the word
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say, is invading my home? Like I
Speaker 1: don't live in your house, but I hear the noise
Speaker 1: in your house, So it's like you don't pay rent here,
Speaker 1: So take your sounds music, take the noise tape, the argument.
Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I don't want to be involved.
Speaker 1: I don't want to involved. I don't want to be involved,
Speaker 1: and get out of my house. I feel, well, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. For listening to Hold Up. We're here
Speaker 1: every week, we drop every Thursday. We bring new topics
Speaker 1: every time, and I appreciate you being here toils. I
Speaker 1: appreciate that for once we really came to us. This
Speaker 1: is never like just so you know, as listeners, I
Speaker 1: don't know what episode this is gonna be or anything,
Speaker 1: but this hasn't happened before now and even just in
Speaker 1: our friendship. It's very rare that me and you both
Speaker 1: are just like yep, when you take when you gave
Speaker 1: me the uh, the whole spectrum of of auditory assault
Speaker 1: that can be done, and I was like, I gotta
Speaker 1: be out. I gotta because the nosy neighbor has to
Speaker 1: see you to be nosy allowed neighbors never solved to murder.
Speaker 1: They've never helped in an investigation. They know the least
Speaker 1: they were like, I didn't see anything. I didn't hear
Speaker 1: anything either, right, but it nosy neighbor knows well. She
Speaker 1: always comes home around two in the morning from work,
Speaker 1: and then you can come home. Nosy neighbors accounts hold
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