WEBVTT - Nosy vs. Noisy Neighbors 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:09.880 Welcome to Hold Up. It's the show where two best friends, 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:14.000 one being corresponded Dulcie Sloan of The Daily Show and 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:16.919 then me Josh Johnson, a writer for The Daily Show. 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:20.520 We have arguments, but they're not just any old arguments. 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:23.079 These aren't things that you know you're gonna see in 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:27.520 the news, you're gonna see in the in the mainstream media. 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:30.800 These are things from the streets, all right. We're the 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:36.000 vocal point from the people talking what they're thinking, and 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:38.800 we we hash it out here. We come to a conclusion. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.000 We see who's right and who's more right. You know, 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:46.120 it's usually mean, it's usually me that's not true. But yeah, yeah, 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:50.280 what we're discussing today on the podcast, we're not talking about, 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.880 you know, the war, We're not talking about the rising 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:59.320 housing prices. We're talking about loud neighbors versus nosy neighbors. 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:02.680 This is where I'm at. This is where I personally 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:07.440 land on the side of wanting nosy neighbors as opposed 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:14.160 to loud neighbors. M hmm, okay, I feel like you 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:16.720 You've mentioned I feel like in the past that you'd 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:21.800 rather loud neighbors the nosy neighbors. Well, this is the thing. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.120 Nosy neighbors, loud neighbors. And I'm not I'm not a 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:27.880 cock caala, you know what I mean. I'm not a 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:31.319 cop calla. I don't play calling the cops. But I 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:36.680 think with loud neighbors there is a like, if it 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:40.399 gets to a certain point, you can like tell the building. Again, 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.840 I'm not a snitch either, but if you're acting or real, donkey, 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:47.800 I'm gonna say something right. So like with super loud neighbors, 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:51.200 there's always like a course of action that you can 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:53.840 take to at least get them to chill the hell out. 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:56.320 Because the thing is, it's like if you have loud neighbors, 0:01:56.320 --> 0:02:00.440 it's not just you saying something like. Things can be done, 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:04.400 actions can be taken, People can get kicked out. With 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:10.200 nosy neighbors, it's someone always popping their head out of 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:13.720 the door whenever they hear another door open. It's somebody 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.320 standing by the talking to the male man for too long, 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.000 or hey, I saw you got a package or that, 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:21.079 and I'm like, bro, first of all, get the funk 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:24.520 up out my business first and foremost, this is the 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:26.600 person who's looking at who's coming in and out of 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:29.560 your house, right. And I have like a lot of 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:32.520 male friends because I'm a female comics, so most of 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.480 my friends, like most of my friends aren't men. And 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:38.440 so if I have like if you come over and 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.519 hang out and then Ben comes over and hangs out 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:43.400 in the same week, what the hell is this neighbor 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:46.239 gonna think? You see what I'm saying. It's like, well, 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:47.960 one came over, then the other one came over. Now 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.519 they're both over. Oh goodness, what kind of life is? 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.679 And I'm like, bitch, first of all, get some business. 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:57.520 So what I'm hearing is that what you don't like 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:03.559 about the nosiness outside of just the of surface level uncomfortableness, 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:08.079 is that nosy people are usually just pretty lonely. It's 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.520 just it's just a loneliness manifesting its nosiness because you 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:13.680 could be nosy and have you know, a full family 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.400 in the house. Okay, knows he don't mean lonely. Nos 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:24.280 he just means knows it. Nosey means like it's you 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.760 don't have no business of your own. Yeah, yeah, like 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:29.560 your mind and mind because you ain't got no business 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:34.600 to money yawn. So I'm not gonna lie. I personally 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:39.080 feel like nosiness rather than loud, like, you know, nosy 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.120 versus noisy. I'm gonna go with nosy every time because 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:45.400 I'm a pretty boring dude. So then they're not gonna 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.520 get anything. They're not gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna bore 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:51.600 the hell out of a nosy person. Nosy isn't coming 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.840 for me, oh no. But the thing is nos he 0:03:54.880 --> 0:04:01.520 doesn't care. There Eventually nosy just to know. It's like, okay, 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:05.760 you have a dog, right, yeah, So now every time 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:07.680 they see they're gonna be pressed that what's he doing 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.280 with this dog where you know they haven't walked him 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.280 in a while. Well, you know, his girlfriend's out of town. 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:15.800 I hope everything like it's even though you'd have to 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:19.039 be by yourself, never leave your house and receiving no 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:23.640 packages for a nosy person to not be involved at all. 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:25.839 Plus they live in an apartment building and live in 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:30.640 a neighborhood, right, so they're looking for any any piece 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:35.480 of information is information that they want because when they 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.960 see because also nosy people have petendency to talk to 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:40.560 everybody because they want to know what the tea is. 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.840 So they're gonna ask, oh, well what do you do it? 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:48.000 So they're just building a case. So then it's like, oh, 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:49.640 well have you taken the dog? Well, oh, I see 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.400 y'all got a new dog, or y'll been getting a 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:53.000 lot of packages, like like what's going on? Like, well, 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.880 when you're gonna have kids? Well maybe that's like it's 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.440 all it doesn't matter, like you, to be a boring 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:02.080 person means that you live alone, you have no pets, 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:06.400 and you don't engage with the nosy person. Okay, So 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:09.320 on the scale of one to ten at this moment 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:12.000 in time and the conversation, how would you say you 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:16.560 rank your feeling of wanting a loud neighbor versus a 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:21.200 nosy neighbor? Is it like seven A? They're both they're 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:25.599 both on want I want neither neighbor. I want neither person. 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:30.560 If you had to pick, though, if you had to pick, well, 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:33.400 the thing about a loud neighbor is how are they loud? 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:37.680 That's the thing I'm talking loud as a structure of 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:42.039 being in life. So we're talking about loud hookups, loud music. 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:45.240 Maybe they practice drums and they're not very good. We're 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:51.520 talking about all the loud, oh nosy every time, because wow, 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.520 wow every time, because it's like the people. It's like 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:59.359 somebody down the hall. They have a dog, and every 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:02.039 time they leave, I guess when they don't talk, tie 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:05.520 the dog up. The dog barks by the front door, 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.880 and I'm just like, first of all, put your dog away. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:13.080 I know you have multiple bedrooms in your apartment, like 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:15.920 I know you do your multiple bedrooms in your apartment, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.080 you have a balcony, Like, there's other things that can 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:22.239 happen with this dog that doesn't include that dog barking 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:29.600 for an hour's by the front door, disrupting the other 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:31.960 people on the floor, Like, do something with your dog. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:35.400 But since I'm not a snitch and it's not that loud, 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.520 I don't say anything because at the end of the day, 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:41.000 the dog doesn't know that it's being a nuisance dog. 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.800 Don't just being a dog. No, I I get what 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.120 you mean. I get I get what you're saying. I 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.600 I did not expect. I thought you would deal dig 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:52.320 your heels way harder than you actually did. Now that 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:54.960 we're really on the same side, because I'm I'm at 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:58.640 about a seven where I'd rather nosey versus noisy, just 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:02.040 because I will say an oozy neighbor might just save 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:06.320 your life. You know, I'm falling, I'm old. I felt 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:09.000 nosy neighbor is gonna be like, I haven't seen them 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:12.120 in a little while. Let me call somebody. Loud neighbor 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.520 won't even notice. A loud neighbor will be like, man, 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:19.360 nobody's called the cops all us in a while, thank god. Um. Yeah, 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.440 because I have my other building that I lived in, 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:26.720 someone did pass away. Oh No. The craziest thing about 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:29.239 that is what I was telling my mom about it. 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:32.800 Something fell off my wall and I was like, oh, 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.880 we're not doing this in here. It was the craziest thing. 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:38.720 W I was in my apartment one day and I saw, like, 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:42.560 you don't just like those regular like big house flies. Yeah. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:47.880 I was like, fun, did these flies? What's happening? I 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:49.800 was like, I saw like one or two, and I 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.239 was like, did I leave a window open or whatever? 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.200 And then I pulled the curtain back and there were 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:01.120 forty fucking flies trying to get out of the window. 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:04.720 And it was crazy. Your girl upstairs, so you know 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:08.640 Beth that works at the office. The way that they 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:11.560 found out that something was wrong was there is another 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.360 girl that she's friends with on the floor, was just 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.280 looking out of her window and her apartment, and she 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.080 saw a bunch of flies on the window of that 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:22.760 apartment and called men and called the super and the 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:24.520 super was too afraid to go inside, and then the 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:28.080 wife went inside. I just feel like you're building needed 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:32.480 some nosier people. That that's that's what I'm hearing right now. Well, 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:34.400 that's what the That's how that girl figured it out 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.120 because she was just looking at her window. She's like, hey, 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.040 Because he was a very quiet man, he kept to himself. 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:41.400 But at one point she was like, why are there 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:47.280 all these flies on this one window? Beth was telling 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:51.360 me there was like a smell in her apartment and 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:54.640 she didn't know what it was. And the one day 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.839 we both come home from work and I'm just like, 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.320 why is an ambulance here? I left and came back. 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:10.760 They were therefore fucking hours wild. What's the loudest neighbor 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:14.840 you've ever had? M M. Do you ever even even 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:16.960 if this was a hotel, because you know, being on 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.160 the road, you have to travel and stuff. It's just 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.600 it's always sex or an argument like this. Either. I 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.160 love a good argument. That's that's when I hope my 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:28.000 neighbors will be loud, because maybe I'm not nosy enough 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.880 to be nosy, but I'm nosy enough to be messy. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.880 So then when somebody's near me at it's it's very loud. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:40.959 Oh oh, it's amazing. That's I haven't I've never really hurt. 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:44.320 I've never lived anywhere where I could hear a really 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:49.600 good argument. I rarely hear arguments. I heard arguments on 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.440 the street, but like those don't count when I'm like, 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:55.240 I've never had it where it was like, oh, I'm 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:59.520 worried about this person. Come to Chicago. Chicago has some 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:03.120 fin walls, all right. I once heard the full on 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:07.720 argument top to bottom, and then the makeup sex, and 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:10.440 and then honestly, the makeup sex was worse than here 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:15.120 in the argument because my man had no rhythm. We're 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:21.160 talking about plot PLoP PLoP PLoP, Like just I was like, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.959 what are you doing in there? You need help? It 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:25.680 might have been with the argument. What was the argument 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.760 about the argument? I think, okay, I think it was 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:32.640 about some petty cash. I think it was like they 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:36.560 had spent some money that was like communal. This is 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.960 our like piggy bank. Money, and then one of them 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.480 spent it. But then it was like the whole point 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.120 was to spend it. Honestly, don't know who I sided 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:48.280 with in the argument, but it it got petty real fast. 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.719 It got like, well, you know, because you let your 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:53.000 dad live with us for so long, now we all 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:58.800 our last And I was like, okay, oh no, oh. 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:01.640 What I love about hearing an argument through a wall 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:04.880 is that you have to you have to choose your side. 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.720 You have to choose who you're like, all right, I 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.079 think I think this is the person that I'm into. 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:15.560 Then you also have to choose as the development happens, 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:21.200 what you feel like is the best h the best argument. Yeah, 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.160 it's like the best course of action for the side 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.280 that you've picked. So one time I was just chilling 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:29.200 right and there was this there was this guy that 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:35.960 was yelling at his roommate and the roommate was was like, hey, no, 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:38.120 it's not my turn or whatever. It's like, of course 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.080 it's your turn. It's always your turd because you'd never 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:43.600 do it. And they were arguing about the dishes, all right. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.520 But then as I as I learned more about this 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:53.000 this uh roommate situation, it was just funny because the 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.920 one that always does the dishes apparently wasn't doing anything else, 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:00.120 and so it was like, all right, but I've Q 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.880 and it's like, all right, we'll vacuum up some dishes 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.599 because you never do the dishes. And it was it 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.199 got it got to the point where it stopped being 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.319 about the dishes. Like you know, every every roommate situation 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:15.800 is lightly it's like married. It's like diet marriage, you know, 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:19.240 because you're not even involved, but you're you're stuck together 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:23.640 for the term of this lease. And I don't know, 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:28.240 I've just watched, I've watched and heard a lot of great, 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.640 great arguments through a wall like it. Actually, it's one 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.600 of those things where when you're broke and you're living 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:39.439 like that, it's one of life's few pleasures. Well, you're like, hey, 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.280 this is a bad apartment. I'm not living well right now, 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:44.880 this is a bad situation. But you know what's brightening 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:48.000 my day these loudass neighbors. Sometimes it was happening while 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:49.560 I was trying to get sleep. So I still go 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:53.600 nosy over over loud every time, but every once while 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:58.080 you were just here, like what's the best way to 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:02.320 put it, it's like for me, it's just funny when 0:13:02.360 --> 0:13:06.600 when a man's voice cracks, all right, it's one of 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:10.480 those things where it's like it's like a helly grown man. Yeah, 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:13.240 he had that base, and he might even be right. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.319 That's the worst part. You might even be right in 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:19.760 all of your anger and your assumptions and everything's going on. 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.880 You you fully correct, but now that your voice is cracked, 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:27.360 you have lost credibility. It's like it's and you can 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.840 feel it happened. So there was one time I was 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:31.960 laying and this is why I was on air mattress. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.240 I was not I was not having a good life. 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:37.079 You know, I've been on an air mattress before my 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:40.800 first Uh, when I first moved to New York. When 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:42.520 I first got my first department in New York, I 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:44.520 had an air mattress. That's because I didn't have And 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.400 then I moved to New York with like three suitcases 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:48.560 and never any furniture, and I had one of those 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:52.360 good like double decker, like thick, expensive air mattresses, like 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:54.199 you can put two people. You got sax on that 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.160 air mattress, like it was a high quality. Yeah, no, 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:00.000 I'm with you. It's just you went on that one quality, 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.600 you know, so I already have to basically put myself 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:08.120 in a slight coma to get to sleep right, and 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:11.319 then through the walls, I just feel like, oh, it's 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:15.199 not going down like that. No, no, no, no, no, 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:17.960 it's just a bunch of nas, which is also how 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:19.840 you can tell someone in an argument can't think of 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:23.040 the next thing. They just remember that baseline is no. 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.480 My position is no. I must say no until I 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:30.480 think of another point. But no, no, no, no, no, y'all, 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:33.120 y'all wrong for that. You're wrong for that, And then 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.600 think it means that he's usually in the wrong, Like 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.960 if I hear a man saying, no, it's not going 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.160 down like that, now, y'allly going on like this, ning 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:45.480 is wrong. Whatever is happening, he is wrong. I love 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.840 a good I'm not going out like that, because it's 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:50.640 such a dramatic sentence. Yeah, I'm not going out like that. 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:54.680 I'm like, this isn't No one comes back to the 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.040 end of training day, right, It's like the end of 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:59.400 training day. This is not the end of Like, this 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.960 is not the maxtic scene of a movie. This is 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.280 not a drug deal. That could go wrong in any minute. 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:08.600 You're just arguing about you probably got got caught cheating, 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.120 or you didn't do something you were supposed to do, 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.280 like the whole na no, no, oh oh oh, so 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.040 that's how you're gonna do me. If I hear that's 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:18.520 how you're gonna do me. It's not going down like that. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:22.000 Oh oh so what you're trying to say what I said, 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:24.960 ding dong. You're fucking wrong, bro. I'm not having a 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:28.520 lot of your start with. Oh, I feel most of 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:32.320 what you over here is oh like, if I hear 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.960 an argument Atlanta, oh oh oh oh, so that's what 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.360 we're doing. That's what we're doing. That's how y'all gonna 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.480 do me. That's how y'all gonna do me. And like, 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:44.320 I know you're wrong. No, you're wrong, you're not saying nothing. Wow, 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:47.040 that's how y'all gonna do Yes, that's how we're going 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:51.240 to do you, bro. Like it's if I hear certain 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:54.760 sentences when I hear an argument, especially if a man 0:15:54.920 --> 0:16:00.640 is in an argument with whoever, If I hear, wow, 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.840 so that's how you're gonna treat a black man? You 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:07.000 were dead fucking wrong for dead fucking I don't care 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.280 what happened. He wasn't supposed to take out the trash, 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:12.520 or he had a baby that his girl didn't know about. 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:17.120 I'm telling you that niked is wrong. He is dead. 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:25.160 Asked wrong? Oh or wow A good long while, we'll 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:27.920 do it because in this situation, the guy was like no, no, 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:31.520 no no, and then and then I heard some other 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.440 murmuring because the other person wasn't meaning as loud. I 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.800 also think he was positioned too close to the wall 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.240 and out of nowhere. My man is like, who are 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:45.000 you talking to? And it was it was like you 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:47.360 could tell he got so upset that at the who 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:50.400 he lost the base and he couldn't find it again, 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.560 like like the base was avoiding him until he got 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:56.600 to the two and the two was too much. The 0:16:56.640 --> 0:17:00.920 two was like two, well, who are you talking to? 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:08.560 One is one of my favorite phrases in black them right, 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:12.320 who you're talking to means I know you're not talking 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:15.840 to me. Basically, I love it when it's black women 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:18.480 do when they go who are you talking to? As 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:23.200 it's a legitimate question, like you're talking to you, there's 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.520 no way. And my favorite is who are you talking 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:30.520 and then the look up. I love. The look around 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:35.000 is a the look around. I've done it. I've done it. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:40.560 I'm sorry. Who who are you talking to? I'm it's 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:43.840 like you've been talking to You're It's a legitimate question 0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:49.440 because there's no fucking way this human being is talking. 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:52.400 I've said it. I know you're not. I know you're 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:54.840 not talking to me. I know you're not talking to me. 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:58.679 Who else? Who else is here? Who are you talking to? 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:03.040 Clearly I've made the mistake of standing in between you 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:06.720 at whoever you're trying to disrespect. Right now, full taxi driver, 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.520 I want to have another quick check in because things 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:19.439 took a turn early in the episode where I'm realizing 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:22.920 now that even though we started out in the position 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:28.320 of noisy versus nosy, you've you've quickly come over to 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:32.760 my side of nosy over noisy, and I just want 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:35.680 to see if you still feel that way at this 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:40.359 point in the episode. To be fair, I hate them both, 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:46.840 but if I had to make this devil's choice, it 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:49.639 was nosy all along. It was it was like well loud, 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:54.800 only because once I got the parameters of what the 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:58.320 loud was, Yeah, yeah, yeah, then I can't be on board. 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.840 I gave me on board at all, because now that 0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:03.119 I know that this this person is going to be 0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:09.800 making every noise humanly possible, there has to be effort 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:14.720 being put into this amount of noise. Like you can't 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:18.480 cook this loudly, you can't talk this loudly. Everything you do, 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:24.720 like that's cartoon level. That's cartoon level. You're walking loud, 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:29.439 you're talking loud everything this is. You're being a fucking 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:32.080 menace as of that point, you're just doing it for 0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:35.639 the sake of being disruptive. No one exists out a 0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:40.639 volume that everyone can hear at all times. That's not 0:19:40.680 --> 0:19:43.520 even how humans work, Like that's insane. I think that 0:19:43.600 --> 0:19:48.359 there are people who are unintentionally loud neighbors because I've 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.840 lived in places where it felt like the roof was 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.880 gonna cave in because I heard every footstep. My upstairs 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:58.840 neighbors used to like vacuum loudly every Friday, which was 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:03.199 confusing because we had wood floors, So I was like, 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:06.600 maybe they have rugs, But if there were rugs, it 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:08.920 would soak up the sound. It would soak up the sound. 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:13.760 So you are loudly vacuuming and It was like just 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:20.080 vacuuming pebbles hard every Friday, like midday on Friday, which 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:22.120 was fine, except that I would record, like the cartoon 0:20:22.160 --> 0:20:25.440 that I do Great North. We were recording on Friday's, 0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:29.760 so depending on what time they vacuum, and I'm like 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:31.320 what they're like, Oh, we're hearing something. They had My 0:20:31.600 --> 0:20:35.640 upstairs neighbor is vacuuming on hardwood floor. They don't own 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:39.080 a broom, all right, This vacuum has been the family 0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:41.480 for a very long time. This is a Dison family 0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:50.320 was no dison it. This was a hoover. This is original. Yes, 0:20:50.560 --> 0:20:54.159 this was remember being the loudest things like. It's like 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:56.639 it's like, I understand the animals were afraid of these, 0:20:56.880 --> 0:21:02.000 but like human children are also afraid of these loud aspects. 0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:04.080 They were so loud. It's like, prove to me, this 0:21:04.119 --> 0:21:07.159 won't eat me. Yeah, I'm free, What do I know? 0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:10.159 I'm ten. This still seems like a problem for the 0:21:10.240 --> 0:21:13.600 listener who may have landed on the other side of 0:21:13.640 --> 0:21:16.840 where we are. I do have to offer up that 0:21:16.960 --> 0:21:19.920 a nosy neighbor can still take you to a place 0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:23.560 that you're so angry. You don't you don't even really 0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:27.959 understand why it's It's where things become so petty, you know, 0:21:28.000 --> 0:21:29.959 like when you have that neighbor that just moves your 0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:32.000 trash can and you're like, why did you do that? 0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:34.520 It's not a thing that should even affect your day, 0:21:34.600 --> 0:21:36.560 but if they do it enough, you're ready to snap. 0:21:36.920 --> 0:21:40.000 I feel like nosy people have that level of effect. 0:21:40.840 --> 0:21:44.400 It's that metal some kind of like not minding your business, 0:21:44.520 --> 0:21:46.880 kind of like you ever been somewhere in a white 0:21:46.880 --> 0:21:49.760 person who just would randomly pop up and be like, Hey, 0:21:49.800 --> 0:21:51.840 what are you doing? And I'm just like, the funk 0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:57.359 are you? Uh? I don't know how many times that 0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.280 has happened to me, but I can see it being 0:21:59.520 --> 0:22:02.840 very Franks. I've been places and just be like, hey, 0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:04.320 what are you up? Something like what do you want? 0:22:04.680 --> 0:22:08.120 Do you go? No, I'm not telling you nothing while 0:22:08.160 --> 0:22:10.600 I just wondering y'all like you're having fun? No, bitch, 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.240 move you don't. That's not what you're here for. You 0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:15.919 want to know what three niggas is? Where you at? Move? No, 0:22:16.760 --> 0:22:19.560 it's the same concept, or it's just like, oh, you 0:22:19.720 --> 0:22:22.439 just moved in. What's going on? And it's like the 0:22:22.480 --> 0:22:27.120 whole concept of like bringing over Like uh, it's like, oh, 0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:29.280 we just brought over a like castle roll or whatever, 0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:30.399 and like, first of all, I'm not I don't know, 0:22:30.480 --> 0:22:34.680 you're not eating your food. Um, I feel like wait, 0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:38.520 I feel like we're crossing it to a territory of 0:22:38.720 --> 0:22:46.159 just people. Think. No, no, no, no, no, you do 0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:53.000 not understand the original intent of that. Oh, hey, welcome 0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:54.960 to the neighborhood. They want to see what your house 0:22:54.960 --> 0:22:56.479 looks like. They want to see how many people are 0:22:56.480 --> 0:22:59.680 in your house. And let's say you decorated the it's 0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:05.000 too be nosy. They don't know you're welcome you to 0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:08.200 the neighborhood to find out who you are, what you do, 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:11.480 who lives over here. So when they established what the 0:23:11.520 --> 0:23:14.840 baseline of humans is over here, then when anybody who's 0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:16.680 not in a bit, let's like okay, well it's a 0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:21.320 husband and a wife, or it's uh, you know, two husbands. Whatever. 0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:24.879 If you see Bobby and Jim every day and you 0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:28.240 know Bobby done left on the trip and Jim got 0:23:28.280 --> 0:23:34.280 somebody else coming over, well we notice that's not where 0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:36.600