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Speaker 1: All right, guys, This one is from Brie and Covington.

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Speaker 1: I'm in a mood because my ex husband had an

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Speaker 1: emergency surgery and he texted me to tell me that

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Speaker 1: he was fine, but he'd be in the hospital a

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Speaker 1: few days. We joked about my potato salad and he

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Speaker 1: said it would be perfect since he was on a

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Speaker 1: soft diet. I have a great relationship with him despite

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Speaker 1: us being divorced. I even get along with his wife.

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Speaker 1: I made potato salad for him and told his sister

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Speaker 1: that I could drop it off so she could take

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Speaker 1: it to him. She told me it's rude to take

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Speaker 1: food to another woman's husband. Me and her have been

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Speaker 1: cool up until that point. How can she tell me

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Speaker 1: what's right or wrong with my ex husband. When my

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Speaker 1: ex husband said he wanted my potato salad, should I

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Speaker 1: take it to him?

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Speaker 2: You know what? I think the respectful thing to do

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Speaker 2: is to call the wife and ask her if it's okay.

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Speaker 2: That would be the ideal thing. And honestly, his old

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Speaker 2: potatoes had a dead damn good though that we got

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Speaker 2: to bring it to the hospital. Is it really that good?

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Speaker 2: Are you really that? I mean? I don't eat it?

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Speaker 2: About the potato sanata. So I just that might be

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Speaker 2: the last thing I want. I mean, I know you

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Speaker 2: want soft food about you. It ain't about me. It

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Speaker 2: ain't about me.

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Speaker 1: He wanted it, So, yeah, she could have just dropped

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Speaker 1: it off at his house or something or whatever.

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Speaker 2: You got to ask the wife if she.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, definitely, don't do it disrespectfully.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't nobody need no potato salad out of surgery.

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Speaker 3: What in the world.

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Speaker 1: That's what he wanted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but he might not need that.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what he wants.

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Speaker 2: What do you eat it?

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Speaker 3: That's not soft diet, that's not what doctors want you

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Speaker 3: to eat. Potato salad, Well, crazy, that's what he wants. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's full of mayon eggs.

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Speaker 1: It's full of cholesterolf eggs.

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Speaker 2: I guess. Yeah, but I was on jello. That's what

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Speaker 2: I was on.

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Speaker 1: I was on jello, no sugar, no sugar, and no

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Speaker 1: cholesterol in jello. But yeah, but tell me you're right.

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Speaker 1: She could call his wife, she says, she gets along

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Speaker 1: with his wife.

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Speaker 2: So that's what you gotta call. That's what the guy

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Speaker 2: and the sister got to do. What it is that

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Speaker 2: is that that's that man's that's that woman's husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's disrespect.

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Speaker 1: That's all all right, we have time for you.

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Speaker 2: Nobody in my house with no potato Saturday. It ain't

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Speaker 2: talking to jacket. That ain't that can't happen.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we have time for for another one. This one

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Speaker 1: is from Lawrence and Salisbury. Laurence says, I've made some

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Speaker 1: mistakes in the past when it comes to cheating on

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Speaker 1: my wife. I came clean to her and promised I

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Speaker 1: would do better. I wish I never told her anything

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Speaker 1: because she said she forgave me, but she uses it

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Speaker 1: against me every time she gets mad. Forgive and forget

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Speaker 1: It is not working in this situation. How do I

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Speaker 1: regain her trust?

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Speaker 2: I'm about to sit with you for coming clean. That's

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Speaker 2: what I'm really say that Well what what what? Now?

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Speaker 2: Look how much dirty? Come and clean and done? Look

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Speaker 2: how dirty is? It's just nasty that you could have

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Speaker 2: just you just shut your damn mouth. You just you

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Speaker 2: messed it all up. I'm just disappointed in you. You

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Speaker 2: just didn't really you didn't do this. Right now, I

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Speaker 2: don't know how you're gonna fix it with her, and

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Speaker 2: she ain't gonna quit. She ain't gonna quit bringing it up.

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Speaker 2: She's not.

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Speaker 1: People just can't hold it though. Now they just can't

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Speaker 1: hold it. They gotta get that off them, you know,

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Speaker 1: the guilt.

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Speaker 2: We'll go out in the woods by yourself and scream

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Speaker 2: it to yourself. Okay, and now you got it out

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Speaker 2: your chest. But talk every damn body.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I guess he was going under the

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Speaker 1: premise that we do say we want honesty. We do

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Speaker 1: say that we want you to honest with us. Now

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Speaker 1: he was honest with her, and now she uses it

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Speaker 1: against him.

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean. Lie. Lies have always worked, They

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Speaker 2: have always worried. Line has kept a lot of people together. Lie.

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Speaker 1: Oh go ahead, what yeah? She then you have to

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Speaker 1: worry about coming clean?

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Speaker 2: What are you? You know?

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Speaker 1: Then there's that, there's that, there's a foreign concept. I

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Speaker 1: think that's just one concept to them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, gotta take it there.

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Speaker 1: You always gotta take it as coming up for twenty

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