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Speaker 1: Hello, Chip, oh hello, it is the last Friday of August.

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Speaker 1: Can you believe that? I mean, no where conversation every

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Speaker 1: time we're like, what is time? What is life? What

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Speaker 1: is life? I mean, this summer flew fucking by, and

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Speaker 1: you know I've got I'm busy this weekend, I'm busy

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Speaker 1: next weekend. Wave country is a thing in the past

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Speaker 1: this year, and and I was I had planned to

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Speaker 1: go both days this past weekend. And I went on Saturday,

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Speaker 1: and I was there for about an hour with a

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Speaker 1: couple of friends and then saw lightning twice. And I

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Speaker 1: had a friend sadly lose her husband over Fourth of

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Speaker 1: July weekend to a lightning. He got hit by lightning.

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Speaker 1: And so I'm like, you know, it feels like very

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Speaker 1: It just makes it feel a lot more real than

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Speaker 1: I've never felt before because I've never known anybody. And

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Speaker 1: so I was like, I'm not working around with lightning.

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Speaker 1: Although like Alis and I were like, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: if Country Airtrack had to send out an email that

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Speaker 1: we died my lightning striking wave pool, it was me.

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Speaker 1: Alice and Allison were like, it kind of would be perfect.

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Speaker 1: You know. I got text or a call that you

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Speaker 1: died at Wave Country, I would probably keel over and

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Speaker 1: die because I feel like, well, this is perfect. If

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Speaker 1: that ever happens, please make sure I'm buried at Wave

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Speaker 1: Country because there's a lot There's a lot of land

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Speaker 1: are Okay, there's a lot of lambs. All picture is

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Speaker 1: like concrete. Yeah, I mean there's a lot of concrete

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Speaker 1: directly around the pool. But it's a park, so there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of land. Memorial I mean, well, obviously we'd

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Speaker 1: set up a memorial around the wave pool area. Is

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Speaker 1: there any other thing I could do for you? And

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Speaker 1: that's a Oh that's all I need. That's all I need.

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Speaker 1: Any form at Wave Country. Now, Well, what I really

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Speaker 1: would like you to do is to you know, getting

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Speaker 1: our ashes over the wave. Do a go fund me

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Speaker 1: so we can buy it and see my vision through

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Speaker 1: all the club. Okay, well that will be the only

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Speaker 1: time I can actually participate, right right, yes? Oh wow?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, anyway, so Saturday we went. I was only

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Speaker 1: for an hour, and then Sunday they had called for

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Speaker 1: bad weather all day um but ended up being beautiful

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Speaker 1: and they never opened so I miss oh man, so

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Speaker 1: it's closed for the year. Yes, well it is not

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Speaker 1: but I'm away this weekend and next weekend, so I

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Speaker 1: don't won't get to go for the next two weeks,

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Speaker 1: but you'll miss the rest okay, and then it's closed. Yes. Wow,

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Speaker 1: Well do you feel like you've got your money's worth

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Speaker 1: this year? We've more than Man of the Water. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually glad that you got some weather on Saturday,

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Speaker 1: because we ended up hanging out and we went to

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Speaker 1: of all, I feel really proud of you because it

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Speaker 1: was your idea. You were like, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: can't keep just living in this way where I don't

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Speaker 1: put myself out there, where I'm just really guarded, where

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Speaker 1: And you said, let's go, and so we went and

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Speaker 1: it was so fun. Did you it was really fun? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what was happening there? Fundraiser? Well, we got there. First

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Speaker 1: they were christening that street Bianca Page way. So apparently

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Speaker 1: Who was Billy Gilman? Who was Billy Gilman? Who do

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Speaker 1: If you guys haven't listened to that conversation. Actually loved

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Speaker 1: talking to Fancy. I thought it was so great. Oh,

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Speaker 1: my god. It was great. Yeah, it's always fun when

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Speaker 1: we can have friends on UM. But anyway, that night

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Speaker 1: at Tracks Billy Gammon Billy Gilman performed, we actually met

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Speaker 1: was his name John or Chris? This is the thing.

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Speaker 1: I thought his name was Chris. Okay. So what happened though,

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Speaker 1: the guy you were telling me a story about his

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Speaker 1: name was John. Correct. So this super sweet listener came

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Speaker 1: we love meeting you guys, so please come talk to

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was just so fun and it's so

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Speaker 1: fun to get to hear like what is resonating with y'all,

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Speaker 1: what conversations you're liking? And um, just to meet you

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Speaker 1: us your name John Chris. Well, the funny thing is

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Speaker 1: you are right, Chip. But if we're not slide into

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Speaker 1: oh my god, freaking out. I'm still freaking up. And

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00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 1: it's like still very hypothetical, you know, I think. So

429
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: I feel first of all, I feel like you and

430
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: Dax do have a lot in common and would be

431
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: great friends. Um and said that is like not far

432
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: fetched to me. And then now it's like you have

433
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 1: you have multiple actually people in common. So it's like

434
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: it just feels like it's a matter of time to

435
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 1: me versus like, you know, fairy tale. I don't think

436
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,239
Speaker 1: you're living in a fairy tale on this one. You're

437
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,360
Speaker 1: not Jayless. I don't. I don't think yeah, I think yeah,

438
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna happen. But it's it's not like

439
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: I am having dinner with Dax on September twelve, you know,

440
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: so I don't have a date. I don't know we

441
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 1: have no date on the books, so it's just more

442
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: time to like learn more about him so that the

443
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 1: conversation flows really smoothly. You should stop learning about him though.

444
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: That's like when you're on dating apps and you kind

445
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: of like googling people and then you learn all this

446
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 1: stuff about him, so when you go on the first date,

447
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 1: you're like, I already know that it's well, and no,

448
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: it's it's less about learning about him. But what I

449
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: need to do is learn about things that he's interested in.

450
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: Like I should probably start watching F one racing so

451
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: I can talk about the you know, the drivers. But

452
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: this is where it gets a little stockery. Uh, well,

453
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: you know what I can. You know, he can tell

454
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: me things that I should learn about. You know, I'm

455
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: open to things docks okay, And next thing you know,

456
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: we're going to have him on this podcast. Oh my god,

457
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: let's start manifesting that. I love that conversation very much.

458
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: And Monica like, yes, this isn't just about that. I

459
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,679
Speaker 1: remember when I tried to make you cheese between them

460
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: and you literally making a parent cheese. Yeah, I can't.

461
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean I love them both so much for different reasons.

462
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: Them together is like perfection. I think that, like, my

463
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: chances of meeting Decks sooner are probably greater coming here,

464
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 1: and then Monica will obviously visit at some point. You know,

465
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: have to be like you have to get my really

466
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 1: good friendship when you're in town. Are the conversation okay? Um?

467
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: In a scenario where like if we had to be

468
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: like I'm I'm Dax and your Monica, who's who, like

469
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: in my Monica or my Dax? Um? In this in

470
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: the context of this podcast, you're more Dax because I

471
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: am okay, yeah, like Monica's Monica. Does you know she

472
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: edits ship? Like she is doing a lot of ship

473
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, but in the way that the the

474
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: podcast plays out like she is his sidekick and I

475
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: feel like I'm your sidekick here. Oh yeah, I'm your

476
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 1: side piece. That immediately makes me think about driving around

477
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: like on a motorcycle with a little sidecar and you're

478
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: just in the sidecar. I would do that in a heartbeat.

479
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: And you know who has one of those? Somebody we

480
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 1: know than Plato. We could we should do a photo

481
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: shoot in it is it plate you? I always called

482
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,719
Speaker 1: him Palladio. Palladio, Oh wow, Yeah, it's not that anyway,

483
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: so it doesn't matter. Interesting. Yeah, well, so that just

484
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: took a spin on our new podcast Pick. Obviously we're

485
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: gonna have to reshoot. Well, that's fine, We're gonna we're

486
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: gonna need lots of photos. This is gonna go on

487
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: for a hundred years, Okay, content for days clearly. Yeah. Well,

488
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,959
Speaker 1: I hope that that actually comes to fruition. It may

489
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: take all but you know, I think you just keep

490
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: dreaming in hope and Chip and I think that it

491
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: will happen. Dreams do come true, games do come true.

492
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: Make a wish sometimes you just have to put in

493
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: the effort to make them happen. And you can't. You

494
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: can't throw it out into the universe. And like, look,

495
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: I do think the universe listens, but I also think

496
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: it takes effort. Right. It's like like I want to

497
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: win the lottery and never buy a lottery to exactly.

498
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: You can't say I want to meet the love of

499
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: my life and sit on your couch all day. So

500
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 1: you can't say you want to meet Dax and not

501
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: put in the effort. So here you talking about it,

502
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: even though you look borderline stockersh and I look really

503
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: appreciate the effort. I still have another method in my

504
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: back pocket because my friend joys friends with him, so

505
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 1: to enjoy I could, But you know, if it's going

506
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: to happen more naturally, then we're just gonna do that.

507
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: I like the organic approach. I think it lessens the

508
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: threat for him. Maybe yes, well he has nothing to

509
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: worry about with me, But yeah, he doesn't have to

510
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: worry about me. I mean, you know what's more likely.

511
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: Were you with me the time that um we were

512
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: at the Hollywood Bowl and um t J was there

513
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: and I had a massive crush on him at the time,

514
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: and like literally I just like went silent, Like Everyone's like,

515
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: what happened? Do you like? That's what I'm scared will

516
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: happen When I meet Dax. You'll go mute. Yeah, I'll

517
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: just be like, well that I'm with you, so I

518
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: can translate what he means to say. He's a huge fan,

519
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: you've been trying to be for years. Yes, it would

520
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: be good friends. And he wants to talk about F

521
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: one racing. Yes, there we go. I want you to

522
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: take me dirt biking. Oh my god, you want the

523
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: back of Dax's dirt bike? It would never happen because

524
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: I'd be too scared. Anyway, let's just keep willing that

525
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: to happen, Dox, if you're listening, I'm just kidding. He's

526
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 1: not listening. Um Okay, Well, so our theme for this

527
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: month was to refocus, check back in on life, and

528
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: just really get ready. I mean, the school years starting

529
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: for a lot of people. We feel like this is

530
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 1: just a really good time switching into a new season

531
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: to just set intentions and so, Chip, did you walk

532
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: away with anything this month? I you know, I think

533
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: from this month it's literally just like um, sort of

534
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: refocusing on like investing in myself, which I think we

535
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: hit on before. Um, And yeah, I think it's just

536
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: like nothing big changes aren't gonna happen overnight, but making

537
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: small efforts towards a goal will eventually get you there. Yeah.

538
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: So it's like it's really easy to like get disheartened

539
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: and give up right away, um, when you're not getting

540
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: the results if you want. But um, you know, even

541
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: with my this weight lost thing, it's like last week

542
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: when I went I was like, oh god, I'm gonna

543
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: have a gain weight and they're gonna yell at me,

544
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: but like fuck it, I need to be humiliated. It's

545
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: the only way to stay on path, like blah blah blah.

546
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: And I went there and I'd fucking lost point two

547
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: pounds and I was like, God, damn it, I wanted

548
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: to be yelled at, but like it was just um.

549
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: It was a great example of like perception. Your perception

550
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: isn't always the reality. Um, And in order for you

551
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: to understand the really the reality, you gotta do what

552
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: you gotta do to like know it. If that makes sense,

553
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: take the right steps to actually find gone to that appointment,

554
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have known that I've actually lost weight, and

555
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: then I probably would have taken another a whole week

556
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: not doing what I needed to do to continue losing weight,

557
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: and then I would have gone in and gained weight.

558
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: You know. I'm actually I just started this book called

559
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: The Untethered Soul, and it's so interesting because it's talking

560
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: about um, just like our mind chatter and how it's

561
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: constantly going and if we start to recognize it as

562
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: another because it is a part of us, right, Like,

563
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: because a lot of times people will be like, that's

564
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: just your fear talking or or whatever, but all of

565
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: these things are a part of us. But if we

566
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: can start to name it, they're actually in this place

567
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: right now, I'm describing it as another human being, like

568
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: to recognize your mind as the roommates sitting next to

569
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: you on the couch, and like all the things were

570
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: saying to ourselves constantly, and so much of us have

571
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: this just like negative mind chatter thing, just like what

572
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: you're saying, like, uh, just probably gained a bunch of

573
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: weight and um, just beating yourself up or whatever. But

574
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: then exactly like what you're saying, when you go live

575
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: out the scenario and take the steps, you find out

576
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: that reality is different. And so anyway, it's just been

577
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: interesting to me to even kind of start to recognize

578
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: how much I'm constantly talking to myself and to know that,

579
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: you know, those are just narratives that are coming out

580
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: of my brain and our brain is just constantly in

581
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: survival protection mode of how to keep us safe, and

582
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: so it's just not always true, like it really is not. Um.

583
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's actually I kind of feel the same

584
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: about that as you do. And that book is really great.

585
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: If you guys haven't heard of it, it's called Untethered

586
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: Soul Um. I think Refocus like for me is a

587
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: lot of what I'm taking away from this month is

588
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: similar to what you're saying, And probably because I've been

589
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: so sick and just realizing that, you know, cumuitative stress

590
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: for a certain amount of time has just really done

591
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: some intense damage on my body. And so as much

592
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: work as I've been doing on my emotional wellness and

593
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: like mental health stuff, it's kind of maybe needs to

594
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: transition or you know, move or also involve physical health.

595
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: And um, I thought I was doing good with that,

596
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: but I really feel like I need to up the

597
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: antie a little bit because my immune system just seems

598
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: really worn down. So my refocus is just to start

599
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: really taking care of myself on a physical level. And

600
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: I started seeing a holistic doctor again. He hasn't had

601
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: some supplements and just kind of like I just did

602
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: some blood work, so we're just running tests to see

603
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: like what's going on. I think it's just really important,

604
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: especially as the age, to really understand what's happening in

605
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: our bodies. Like they're so amazing and all the things

606
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: that they do and how they work, and then we

607
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: don't really pay attention to them unless something isn't right.

608
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: But like maybe trying to maintain versus like waiting for

609
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: the crash of getting COVID twice in a month, you

610
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Right, Yeah, it's like what is

611
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: your body not doing that it needs to be doing,

612
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: Because it's not like what is your body doing that's

613
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: indicating that there's a problem. Sometimes it's what is your

614
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: body not doing? Yeah? And for me, a lot of

615
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: times it can start off and you know, I'm not

616
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: sleeping and then it just like snowballs after that. Um.

617
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: And just also like for me, that really ties into

618
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: taking care of myself on all levels, and like even

619
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: what I'm exposing myself too, especially in relationships, like the

620
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: kind of people I'm allowing in my life, because I

621
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: think that was a huge problem with where I really

622
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: just you know, got in a bad place was because

623
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't in safe situations, and so that just transitioned

624
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: into crashing with work for I mean, these are all

625
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: my interpretations of it, but just not being able to

626
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: show up in the way that I know I can

627
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: that was the hardest thing. Um. And then now it's

628
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: like watching my physical health kind of deteriorate a little bit,

629
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: and so I'm just wanting to take the power back,

630
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: and um, you know, I know a lot, but it's

631
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: actually like putting it into place sometimes, like putting things

632
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: into action, just like you're saying. So that is sort

633
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: of my refocus going into the fall, really holding boundaries

634
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: and like standing up for myself. I've been doing that

635
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: a lot lately, not in a you know, overly aggressive way,

636
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 1: but in a very like just using my words, kind

637
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: of freeing when you actually take your power back. Um.

638
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: And then yeah, just refocusing on physical health moving into

639
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: the fall. I'm kind of excited for fall, honestly. I

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Speaker 1: mean the weather has kind of been hinting at it,

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Speaker 1: which has been really nice. Yeah, but I'm not quite

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Speaker 1: ready for it yet really. Yeah. I mean I want

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Speaker 1: to still want a little bit of summer. I I

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Speaker 1: don't want it to be like super hot anymore. Um,

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Speaker 1: but I love really dissecting this well because our weather

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Speaker 1: hinted at it. Although it's been it's been hot in

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Speaker 1: the last couple of days. So yeah, I think we

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Speaker 1: still got a little bit of summer left. Yes, Um,

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Speaker 1: we did get a message I wanted to read and

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Speaker 1: I realized that that date on the Prett Foundation in

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Speaker 1: Nashville has started doing um gun buy back they were

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Speaker 1: doing in August, so we've actually missed the date of

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Speaker 1: reporting this in. But I want you guys to just

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Speaker 1: know that those kind of options are out there. So

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Speaker 1: a lot of I know, major sports organizations are doing

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Speaker 1: this kind of buyback program. So whatever area you are in,

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Speaker 1: you can look into that if that's something that you

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Speaker 1: feel called to do or if you want to participate in.

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Speaker 1: It's just a great way to kind of clean up

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Speaker 1: this mess that we have going on with guns, or

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Speaker 1: if you're not using your gun, whatever it is, just

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Speaker 1: that's something that you feel called to do. Check into

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Speaker 1: your sports organizations wherever you are. I know the President

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Speaker 1: Nashville are doing that, so check it out. Nashville Chicks,

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Speaker 1: have anything else you would like to leave the people

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Speaker 1: with for the month of August, not really profound always

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Speaker 1: um oh like I'm grateful and um thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for listening away. Yeah, yeah, I don't have anything else, really,

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Speaker 1: I will. I do have something I want to add.

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Speaker 1: I'm really fed. I'm kind of having a whirlwin weekend

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Speaker 1: this weekend. Like I'm going to New York tomorrow today Wednesday. Yeah, today,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to New York tomorrow for work. I'm coming

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Speaker 1: back on Friday. There's a show in town on Friday,

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Speaker 1: Dirk's is playing. Going to that and then Saturday, I'm

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Speaker 1: getting on a plane apply to Los Angeles to go

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Speaker 1: see def Leopard Poison and Molly Crewe Wow in Los Angeles,

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Speaker 1: which is like the middle school me is like fucking

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Speaker 1: losing his mind. But there's also the adult version of

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Speaker 1: me that gets to drink at this thing. So and

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Speaker 1: I pull on like I'm starting to drink on the flight. Like. So,

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Speaker 1: I'm going with my friend Jen and her boyfriend Chris,

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Speaker 1: and we booked a car service that's gonna pick them up.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna meet me at the airport I landed at.

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Speaker 1: Joan Jett is opening the show. She starts at four thirty.

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Speaker 1: We're going straight to the show and it ends at eleven,

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Speaker 1: And um, this is gonna be you coming off of

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Speaker 1: a Dirk show in Nashville too. Yeah, I mean you

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Speaker 1: might as well just keep drinking. Yeah, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: keep drinking. So Luckily my flight isn't until um like

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Speaker 1: one on Saturday, so I get to sleep in a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Um. Wow, you find back here Sunday Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my flight's not till six pm. I land at one

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Speaker 1: am here, so I'll get to sleep in a little

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Speaker 1: bit in Los Angeles too. But what is your life?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm gonna be regretting it on Monday,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I would regret. I've never seen

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Speaker 1: def Leppard, and I feel like this is the show

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Speaker 1: to see. You know, it's a stadium show. It's no,

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Speaker 1: it's it's at the so Fi Stadium, the new Football Stadium. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be pretty up, it gonna be fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So where can people follow along for content if they're

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Speaker 1: interest in? Probably my stories and I'm just gonna apologize

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Speaker 1: in advance, um because they'll probably be shaky. I'll probably

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Speaker 1: use curse words. Um. I feel like there's gonna be

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Speaker 1: a lot of body rolling, lots of body rolling, maybe

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Speaker 1: some headbanging. And people find that it's on Instagram at

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Speaker 1: h I P D O R S H. You just

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Speaker 1: sit in that girl. You guys can always message me

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Speaker 1: or follow along on my journey at Velvet's Edge on

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Speaker 1: Instagram as well. We just thank you so much for listening,

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Speaker 1: and again, if you see us like we met our

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Speaker 1: fun listener on whatever day. That was why did I

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Speaker 1: try to? Saturday was Saturday at tracks. Come say hi.

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Speaker 1: We love meeting you guys. Um And as you go

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Speaker 1: into your weekends really good, as you go into your weird,

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Speaker 1: it's not to be. As you go into your weekend,

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Speaker 1: then you're living on the edge. I hope you always

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