1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: The only thing my grandmother had. The only thing my 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: great grandmother had was that house. It doesn't matter if 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: it's just that I think that we have to do 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: a better job of not comparing, like everything looks flashy 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: and shiny on social media. The first thing is that 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: I really don't have a lot. I don't care what 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: you have. You need to realize that it's worth it. 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: So why do you think that what you have is 9 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: not important. 10 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: Enough to protect? That doesn't make any sense. You worked 11 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: for it's yours. 12 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: Make sure nobody's taking it. 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 3: Everybody. Welcome to another episode of butter NOMIGX. I'm your host, 14 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 3: Brandon Butler, found in CEO of Butter atl And. Today 15 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 3: we got a special guests up in here and we 16 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 3: go way back like we go back you know again. 17 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 3: This is the thing, man, y'all think I'll be playing around, man, 18 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 3: I got deep relationships in this city. I know people, 19 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: and I've known people for a while. It's not a gate, 20 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: it's not a game. And I got my friend, my 21 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 3: homegrown Miss Amber Saunders is esquired up at une. Amber 22 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 3: Saunders esquire, how you doing man good? I'm doing great. 23 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 3: I'm doing great, so real quick, you know what Before 24 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 3: we get into that, We've been doing some a little 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: bit different here on button nomics lately. Right. I usually 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 3: have people introduce themselves, like you know, who are you 27 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 3: and all this kind of stuff. But what I've actually 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 3: been doing lately is I'm just asking chat Cheapt. So 29 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what chat Cheapt said about you 30 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 3: when I said, do you know who? Amber Saunders is 31 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 3: of the Saunders Firm. 32 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: Oh? 33 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 3: Okay, you ready for this? 34 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: Interesting? Okay? 35 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: Amber C. Saunders is the principal attorney at the Saunders 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 3: Firm in Atlanta based law practice, specializing in the state 37 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: planning and business law. She holds a Juris doctor degree 38 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 3: from Atlanta's John Marshall Law School and an LLM from 39 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 3: Emory University School of Law class of twenty twenty one. 40 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: Before practice in law, Ambers founded in Richmond Prepp, an 41 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: alternative test prep company, and authored Ahead of the Curve 42 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 3: What Parents Need to Know to Get their Kids Into College. 43 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: Her firm officer services in the state planning, a state administration, 44 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 3: and business law, aiming to help clients and protect generational wealth. Now, 45 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 3: my question for you is is that accurate? And did 46 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 3: it leave anything out? 47 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: I'm about to copy it. I like that. 48 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: You like that? 49 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like you know, you didn't give too much. 50 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: It didn't give too much and gave just an. 51 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 3: You know, I've had a couple people because some people 52 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 3: a coup. People were like, you know, it's closed. They 53 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 3: left a couple of things out. But I think you know, 54 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 3: if you feel like that's kind of directionally on point, 55 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 3: you know. 56 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's more, but like it didn't it didn't need 57 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 1: to read out my resume, So it's all right, Okay. 58 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 3: I like that now again just for a little context, 59 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 3: and we met long, long, long time ago, long time 60 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 3: ago of coming out of twenty ten? Was that it Yeah, yep, 61 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 3: it was around twenty ten. It was after I know, 62 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 3: I had won that Black Enterprise pitch competition and then 63 00:02:53,720 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 3: we got put in the the one hundred ue a 64 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 3: program that was a we're supposed to cut us some checks. 65 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 3: Did you ever get your check? 66 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: I think so. 67 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 3: I got a little bit of mine. I got a 68 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 3: little bit of mine, but you know I ain't get 69 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 3: all of it. 70 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: I think I did. Yeah, mine was at Justin's. Yeah, 71 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: that's where I did mine. Okay, that's what it was. Well, 72 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: we know I was at Justin's. There were some other 73 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: connections in there back in the day. 74 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, who knows. 75 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 3: I don't know where all those folks are now, but 76 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: that was when that's when you were doing in Richmond prep, right, 77 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: that was when you were getting all that stuff going. 78 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: Yep, that's when I started it. I think I got mine. 79 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: Does that helped me with all of that stuff? 80 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's when I had the website shop. I remember 81 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 3: I had to fight them to get a little bit 82 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: of my money and then they told me at a 83 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 3: certain point they were like, well Brandy, you can't really 84 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: so just for those that don't know, so we got 85 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: putting this accelerator program. I don't care. There are a 86 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: lot of business now, so we can say what every 87 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: want to say. We gotta put this accelerator program. I 88 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 3: think they promised both of us, Like was it one 89 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 3: hundred grand? It was ten? Okay, I know it was 90 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: some numbers on there. Yeah, it was ten grand or something. 91 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 3: And you know, I thought when I won the competition 92 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: they gave me a check, I was like, all right, 93 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 3: where my money at? And then the yeah, I took 94 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 3: the picture and then they were like, well, actually get 95 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 3: it over time, you get it over time, but we've 96 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 3: actually subcontracted this out to another company. In order for 97 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 3: you to get your money. Now, you got to go 98 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 3: through this business accelerator program. And at that time, I 99 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 3: was doing the website shop. I had a chain of 100 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: web design stores and like malls and brick and mortar, 101 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: and I remember I was just like, why you got 102 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 3: me in meetings with people asking how to build design 103 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: a logo, like I'm makinggn logos, I'm making stuff like 104 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: I'm a little bit further ahead. 105 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: Then. 106 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 3: I remember we got to a certain point and they 107 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: were when it was finally time to get the money, 108 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: they were like, well, in order to get the money, 109 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 3: you got to basically like write a request or a 110 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 3: proposal for why you need the money. This is again, 111 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 3: this is probably three or four months after we actually won. 112 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 3: And then on top of that, I remember they told 113 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 3: me that you can't ask for the money all at 114 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 3: once because other people need their money too. 115 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: Mm. 116 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: I don't think that happened to me, didn't happen to you? No. 117 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 1: I feel like I got mine all at once, because 118 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: I think I was one of the first. 119 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 3: Oh you you went through and got it. 120 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: I think they gave me my I think, I mean, 121 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: I still had to go through the program, but I 122 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: don't remember having to do a request. I remember other 123 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: people having to ask for it when we were going 124 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: through the power, but I don't remember having to do that. 125 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I remember I had to send a 126 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 3: very pointed email to the oh y'all, to the good 127 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 3: people at Black Enterprise, and I got my I got 128 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: I got some more of my money from them directly, 129 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 3: you know. So it was it was a mess. 130 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: You were causing a rucket. 131 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: I was causing all kinds of ruckets because I was like, yeah, 132 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 3: I need my money, all right right now, y'all gave 133 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: me this big old check. 134 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: I had that big check. Took this picture. 135 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 3: I think. I think I threw that check away a 136 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 3: couple of years ago. But I used to take that 137 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 3: check with me to stuff. I remember I went to 138 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 3: another pitch competition. I brought the check with me to 139 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: another pitch competition one time, like I was like, you 140 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: know what, if I ain't getting this money, I'm gonna 141 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: use this check to get me some more money. So 142 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 3: imagine that. Imagine me walking to a pitch competition to pitchbok. 143 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 3: Somebody else with somebody else's check and then being like, 144 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: y'all should give me this because I already won this one, 145 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 3: Like I know what I'm doing. I was wild out. 146 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 2: Back in the day. Oh that's fun. We've come a 147 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 2: long way since then, though, we've come a long way. 148 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 1: Look at us now, Okay, they'll doing this, They'll still 149 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: running doing businesses, trying to figure it out. 150 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 3: Trying to figure it out. Now, tell me now again 151 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 3: after that, tell me now what is the stist from 152 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 3: what exactly you're working on? 153 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: Now? 154 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 3: Chat chet to us a little bit, but now you 155 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: can tell. 156 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: Us a business and a state planning. The bulk of 157 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: the practice is a state planning because I just love 158 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 1: doing that. I think that it is really important. I 159 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: don't think there are enough people who do it, and 160 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: so that's my favorite kind a lot of practice. And 161 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have thought so because it was born and 162 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what in law school it was terrible. 163 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 3: No, what led you down that path? How did you 164 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 3: get involved in it? 165 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: My grandmother was the only person that I really knew 166 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: who did any estate planning. 167 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 2: And she did it. She like used to go. 168 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: Meet with her friends on Sunday and pick stocks and 169 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: she got long term care, insurance, health care directive, power, attorney, 170 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: all this stuff. So when she had a stroke and 171 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: her dementia got bet, it was really easy for my 172 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: mother and my uncle to take care of her. And 173 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: when she passed away, the property just was in their 174 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: name and there were no issues. 175 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: But then we saw all these. 176 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: Other people in my family who who folks was cutting 177 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: up And then the last person that died during her 178 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: time here is my uncle and my mother had to 179 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: go to court for like three years and some change, 180 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: and so it was like, well, why didn't y'all do 181 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: this when Grandma did it? 182 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: It didn't make any sense. 183 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: And finally my mother was able to sell the house 184 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: and that money that the house was originally my great grandmother's, 185 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: her grandmother. 186 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 2: It helped her pay for stuff when she was sick. 187 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,119 Speaker 2: It helped all of this stuff. 188 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: And so I'm like, if just one house can do that, 189 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: imagine if all of us are setting up things for 190 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: our children, and yeah, you know, it can just eat. 191 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: I mean, we wouldn't have to do pitch competitions. 192 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: If there was some money through some money or somewhere 193 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: that might make it easier for you to start the business. 194 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: You don't have to go big banks or try and 195 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: do all this stuff because you have something there that 196 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: will allow you to be able to start something and 197 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: figure it out. So I just want to evangelize that 198 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: as much as possible, because I think we have a 199 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: thing in our community about making folks grind for stuff 200 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: all the time or like, well I worked for it. 201 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: They need to work. What help them? Help them a 202 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: little bit. 203 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 3: Helped them out, help them out. 204 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: You know. 205 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 3: It's interesting because I mean, again, I've worked with a 206 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 3: lot of people and one thing I've just again noticed 207 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 3: and realized over the years, especially in basically non black communities, 208 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: like get a lot of wealth comes from insurance and 209 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: passing down assets. I mean, don't even get me started 210 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: on the whole like big borrow and die and you 211 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 3: know all that kind of stuff, right, But like I 212 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 3: don't I think the people kind of missed that critical step. 213 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 3: Like I have a friend of mine. I remember he 214 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: started his business. He recently sold his company for millions 215 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 3: of dollars, and I used to work with him, and 216 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 3: I remember he had an uncle that passed away and 217 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 3: his uncle left him like a couple hundred grand and 218 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 3: that's what he used to fund his business, right, and 219 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 3: so I think getting people missed that step, and like 220 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 3: we were even talking about before, I'm like, look, gofund 221 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 3: me is not it should not be your option, right, 222 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: I mean, look, I understand stuff happens, but like go 223 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 3: fund me should not be the default way that we're 224 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 3: gonna put some of y'all on the ground. On top 225 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 3: of that, you're still not leaving anything for anybody. So 226 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 3: when it comes to a state plan and a lot 227 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: of people think it's only for wealthy people, people that 228 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 3: have money, you know, when did you realize that people 229 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 3: in our community especially were kind of missing out on 230 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 3: this critical. 231 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: Step because I thought back to childhood in life and 232 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: I don't even think i've ever heard a black person 233 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: say somebody died. They'll be like going up yonder a transition, 234 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: right got their wings. I mean, it's all kind of 235 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: and it's like if you don't even say the word, 236 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: you're not even dealing with it, Like you won't you're 237 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: not even thinking about this might happen to you, what 238 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: I need to plan for. We don't even want to ooh, 239 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: don't talk about it or something like that, or I 240 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: mean there's just and I don't want to call it 241 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: superstition because it's not like, oh, there's a black cat 242 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: walking by, But it's like we act like if you 243 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: talk about it, it's going to happen faster. And it's 244 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: not just us, like there are other communities in the 245 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: in the Latino community. 246 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: People don't talk about it. 247 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: Then like they're not planning for we're not talking about it, 248 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: and I think we leave our children, our community at 249 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: a disadvantage just period. 250 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: So that's one thing. 251 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: And then two we think we have time, like we 252 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: literally like, Okay, I'm gonna do it later. 253 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: I got too much other stuff to do. 254 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: Why am I going to sit here and start talking 255 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: about Well, if I'm in the hospital, this is what 256 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: I want to happen. 257 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to do that. Yeah, like people just 258 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: will avoid that at all costs. 259 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: But you can see examples of I mean celebrities and 260 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: see how it can You know you don't you want 261 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:41,719 Speaker 1: to tell people the same way you want to run 262 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: your business or you want to plan your vacation. 263 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 2: You want to plan what happens in the case of 264 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 2: an emergency. 265 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 3: Okay, so tell people if you don't do this, because again, 266 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 3: like here's the thing. Look, I hope everybody's here for 267 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 3: a long time. I wish all health and happiness and 268 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 3: wealth and all these things. But again, the reality is 269 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 3: we're all not going to be here. But if you 270 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 3: don't do these things, if you don't put these things 271 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 3: in place, what will happen. 272 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 1: So there's a few things. I mean, I think that 273 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: there are simple stories. One of one that I think 274 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: is in the news that people might remember is take 275 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: Off dying. And he didn't have a relationship with his father, 276 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: so he's not married, he doesn't have any kids. His 277 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: mother would get it, his mother and father would get it. 278 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: His father didn't raise him, according to reports. So now 279 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: this person is getting half of a twenty six million 280 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: dollar estate, and it is probably going to continue to 281 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: get money because there are royalties that would be. 282 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 2: Going from what all the songs that they had. 283 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: So now this person who didn't raise you private and 284 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: pay child support, didn't do whatever, gets half of your 285 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: stuff instead of your mother. But of course he was 286 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: twenty something years old. He didn't think he was gonna die, right, 287 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,599 Speaker 1: So there's no plan not to mention the amount that 288 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: the estate is going to have to pay in taxes, 289 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 1: Aretha Franklin had a special need son. They're looking for 290 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: stuff on napkins and things like that. That, or it 291 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: can be as simple as siblings are arguing because whatever 292 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: beef they had growing up is going to show up 293 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: when someone passes away. Or the thing that I see 294 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: a lot is with blended families. People get married, they 295 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: have second marriages, and there's money and things that they 296 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: want for their children to be able to have, but 297 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: they didn't take care of it. So then the spouse 298 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: gets part of it. And if something happens to that 299 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: spouse and their children get it. And the person who 300 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: died doesn't want this other person's children to get their stuff. 301 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: They want their children to But you don't sit down 302 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: and go through that because it means you have to 303 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: have uncomfortable conversations. 304 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: Yea, and we do it all the time. 305 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: My grandparents did not get a divorce until they both 306 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: were about to marry somebody else. 307 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 2: So if they had died but they were in. 308 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: A relationship with someone else or had other kids, then 309 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,439 Speaker 1: your ex gets everything. Because you don't want to sit 310 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: there and have a conversation about it, It just doesn't. 311 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: We can you can cause considerable harm to your family. 312 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: It can go through probate court if someone opens up 313 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: in a state, But if they don't and it's just there, 314 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: then you're living in the house, Grandma's house. Which is 315 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: why we have so many issues with airs property and 316 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: we can't you know, rehab or get mortgages on or 317 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: do things like that because it's not properly changed over. 318 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't even have a good reason 319 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:15,559 Speaker 1: why we don't do it. Some of it I think 320 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 1: is we don't know, but a lot of it I 321 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: think is we just avoid it. 322 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now, just for definition's sake, because I think sometimes 323 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 3: again language matters, words matter, And you know, when you 324 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 3: hear a state, you think some big you know, I 325 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 3: think about like Dallas show. 326 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: Dallas white fence and you have to go down a 327 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: couple acres before you get to the house. 328 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 3: Right Jr. You And you know what I'm saying, some 329 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: big But again, like what is the definition of an estate? 330 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 1: Just in general, anything that's in your name, that you own, 331 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: your shirt is a part of your state. 332 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 2: Anything that you have is a part of your estate. 333 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 1: And a state planning means that essentially you saying what 334 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: happens to those things if something happens to you and 335 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: what happens to your body or to your bank account. 336 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: So with the healthcare directive or a living will, you're saying, 337 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: if I can't make these decisions, this is. 338 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 2: What I want you to do. 339 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: It's dictating what happens with everything in your life, including yourself. 340 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 3: Okay, okay. Now, the other big word that we know 341 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 3: you see anytime you turn on social media, anytime you 342 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: look around, is generational wealth. Generational wealth. Got to have 343 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 3: generational wealth, you know. And look, a lot of us 344 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 3: are first generation, if we're just being totally honest, you 345 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: know a lot of I was having a conversation at 346 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 3: a location in Atlanta, very high up in the city, 347 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 3: and I was, you know, sitting this table with a 348 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 3: bunch of people that were definitely multi generational, and I 349 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 3: was explaining to them. I said, you know what, I'm 350 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 3: I'm first generation. I'm figuring this thing out too. You know, 351 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 3: I'm glad that I've got where I'm at. But like again, 352 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 3: like I don't have didn't nobody you know, my parents 353 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 3: are still here, thankfully, But like I said, nobody passed 354 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 3: me now any money or anything like that. But like 355 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 3: when it comes generational wealth, How do you define that 356 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 3: based on what you do? 357 00:14:56,040 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: By definition, generational wealth means this generation is passing something 358 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: down to the next. You can't have generational wealth without 359 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: making a plan to transition it, because that means you 360 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: just have wealth. It's not generational if it can't go. 361 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 2: Yeah to the next group. 362 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: So when people are saying we want generational wealth, they 363 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: really mean when I hear it, they really mean, let 364 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: me just make a lot of money. They're not talking 365 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: about how am I going to leave it for my children. 366 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: That's the part that they missed in the conversation. 367 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 3: You know, when people talk about the state planning and all, 368 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 3: and you know, in generational wealth, a lot of times 369 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 3: I guess they just think it starts to just really 370 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: just writing a will, Like is it more than that? 371 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 3: Are there other misconceptions that you kind of deal with 372 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: when you're talking about a state planning, Yeah. 373 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: Because it's you have to be more thoughtful than that. 374 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: Having a will isn't enough. I've seen too many times 375 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: that so you have a will, it has to go 376 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: to probate court. Probate court, they say the purpose of 377 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: probate court is is to make sure the will is 378 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: valid and follows the proper structure, and then to distribute 379 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: the assets. But in all honesty, the purpose to probate 380 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: court is to preserve your assets for the benefit of 381 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: your creditors, because they don't want people to die and 382 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: owe the hospital, owe all these people money and then 383 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: give stuff to their children and not pay these debts off. 384 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: So it is opening up, for example, the estate of 385 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: Amber Saunders, and if I had if once that death 386 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: certificate issues, my family or whoever is going to start 387 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: getting letters that says. 388 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: Oh, my condolence is for your loss. Who's going to 389 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: pay this bill? 390 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: Right? And so they're waiting to see if someone opens 391 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: in a state, they want you to notify them, and 392 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: there's ways for them to be able to see whether 393 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: or not, and then they're going to file a claim. 394 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: And so before the will can even work and give 395 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: something to your children or whomever else, all those creditors 396 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: have to be paid first. 397 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 2: Taxes have to be paid for whatever income you made 398 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: that year. 399 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: All of that is to pay off all of that debt, 400 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: and then whatever's left over goes according to your will. 401 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 2: And so there are ways to get around that. 402 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: So when people just want to have a will, or 403 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,199 Speaker 1: they think, you know, TV does a disservice because they'll say, oh, 404 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: we're going to do a reading of the will. It's 405 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: like that don't matter because it's still got to go 406 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: to court and go through the process. So what you're 407 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: reading it for, you're not gonna get anything until it 408 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 1: goes through probate. Right, and now, if they were doing 409 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: a reading of the trust maybe or something like that, 410 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: like a trust will allow you a revocable living trust 411 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: will allow you to skip all of that, so your 412 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: trust would be the beneficiary of your bank accounts or 413 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: whatever you want to make to go inside of the trust, 414 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: you can change the deed to your house the warranty 415 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: ded to put the trust on there so that when 416 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: you pass, there's nothing to open up in a state 417 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: for it doesn't have to go through that process. So 418 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: then whoever you designate as the person in charge the trustee, 419 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 1: they can go the next day and sell whatever as 420 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 1: soon as they get the death certificate or whatever they 421 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: need to show that you are no longer there, then 422 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: they can follow your wishes, take care of everything, and 423 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: they don't. 424 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 2: Have to go get a GoFundMe. 425 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah now, yeah, you just brought up another term too, 426 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 3: a trust. 427 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: Again. 428 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 3: I hear that thrown around on social media all day. 429 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 3: I keep on hearing this is what the wealthy people do. 430 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 3: They put their stuff in the trust. And you do 431 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 3: this and so get what is a trust? 432 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: So it's an agreement that you make. Essentially, you're the 433 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: grantor meaning the person who created it. In these terms, 434 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: I mean whatever, You the person who made it. Right, 435 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: You make the trust, You decide who the trustee is. 436 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: Most of the time, you're going to be the trustee 437 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 1: of your revocable living trust. And it's an agreement that 438 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: you're making during your life to give these things over 439 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: to this trust and say what is supposed to happen, 440 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 1: How your children receive it, if they're allowed to sell 441 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 1: property do You're just saying what you want to happen. 442 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 2: That's it. 443 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: There's a revocable and an irrevocable revocable you can change 444 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: as many times as you want. The mortgage companies not 445 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: going to have a problem if you put your property 446 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: in it, because it's still attached to you. The EI 447 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: in is your Social Security number. You don't have to 448 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: file any taxes. It's not like it's a separate entity. 449 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: When you have an irrevocable trust, you are giving all 450 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: of whatever assets you want to put in there, you're 451 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: giving it away. Once you put it in there, you 452 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: cannot take it back. It does not belong to you. 453 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: That's it. 454 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: You're not the trustee. Most of the time. You cannot 455 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: be the trustee at all. You can't change the terms. 456 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: That's why it's irrevocable. You cannot revoke it. 457 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 2: That's it. When you do that, you might. 458 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: Be subject to gift tax if you're unless you're below 459 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: the exemption. And that's where people are like, oh, we 460 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: want asset protection during their life. Whatever these assets are 461 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 1: they're putting in there, it's protected from creditors under certain 462 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: conditions all of that. Most people don't need that in 463 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: all honesty, because we have this paranoia about, oh, I 464 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 1: want to protect my assets from creditors. 465 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 2: Who is coming to get you? 466 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: Like, and if you put things in there knowing someone's 467 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: coming to get you, it can be undone each state 468 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 1: there's a uniform, like I can't even remember the name 469 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: of it now because because I'm about to tell you 470 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 1: it's probably why I don't remember. But essentially, if if 471 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: you know of a creditor and things like that, and 472 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:57,719 Speaker 1: you're trying to hide stuff, they can undo the transfer, 473 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: fraudulent transfer anyway, they'd consider that. So it just depends 474 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 1: on the circumstance under which you're transferring it. But it's 475 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: going to pay higher taxes, plays the highest tax rate 476 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: on any gains. 477 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 2: Things like that. 478 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: Depending on the circumstance, depending on how much money you have, 479 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 1: depending on what your profession is, you might need it, 480 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: but in general most of us do not. So when 481 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 1: people are calling my office saying they need a rock 482 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: a fella trust, I'm like, do you have Rockefeller money? 483 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: Because for what like it doesn't even make any sense 484 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: for you to make it that complicated for your family. 485 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: Just make sure it doesn't go to probate court and 486 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 1: tell them, teach them how to continue what you're doing. 487 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: But you don't. Necessarily it becomes irrevocable on your family anyway. 488 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: So like, once you die as the grant or the 489 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: person who creates it, nobody else can change the terms. 490 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so they are stuck. 491 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: The same way it would be if you created one 492 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 2: for yourself. 493 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: Then so you can you really have the power to 494 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: craft it the way you want to make them or 495 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: to help them. You know, if you teach them the 496 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: right thing, they'll be able to preserve it and put 497 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 1: more things in and do all of that stuff. 498 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, So estate planning is essentially coming up with a 499 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 3: plan for your state and figuring out what types of 500 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 3: things you need. Do you need a trust, Do you 501 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 3: need a revocal, irrevocable trust. Do you need a will? 502 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: Like? 503 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 3: Right? 504 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: Like? 505 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 3: That's basically it comes down that always people just mix 506 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 3: all this stuff together. 507 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 2: And I mean and that people will want to land. 508 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 1: All of that stuff is a part of a state 509 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: planning because the land of property, all that stuff is 510 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 1: a part of your estate. 511 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: So that's just a general name for it. 512 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: You might just want asset protection, you might just want 513 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: I mean, they're a trust where you just put life 514 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: insurance in there because you don't want it a part 515 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 1: of your taxable estate. 516 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: So it'll be an irrevocable life insurance trust. 517 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: Depending on your financial situation, how much money is there, 518 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 1: what you want to accomplish or determine what kind of 519 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,199 Speaker 1: trust or what kind of things you might need. But 520 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: for most of us, we don't need things that are 521 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: that complicated. The real thought process needs to go into 522 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: what terms do we want to put in there? How 523 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 1: do we make sure because we might be we're the 524 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: first generation probably for a lot of people making the 525 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: most money. So how do we want to make sure 526 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: that our children or our beneficiaries, whoever you're leaving it to. 527 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 2: Don't blow it all? 528 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 529 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 2: How do you make sure that it grows or something 530 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: like that. 531 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to lay a blueprint out because again 532 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: you're the first person who did it. 533 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 2: Who knows. 534 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: Maybe hopefully you're teaching them. If not, you're gonna have 535 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 1: to give them some guidance in the document to make 536 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: sure that they don't blow all of it. 537 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 3: Now, one thing you hear too when you talk to 538 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 3: people is just so at least I know I hear 539 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: when I talk to people is like I don't have 540 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 3: enough money or enough assets to have an a state plan? Like, 541 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 3: what's the reality behind that? Is that true? 542 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 1: Nah? 543 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,199 Speaker 2: If you have anything? I mean, for my grandmother, it 544 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 2: was just a house. 545 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: That house that my grandmother had, that was my great 546 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: grandmother's was bought I don't know in the sixties. 547 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 2: I think my mother sold it. 548 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: Finally, in twenty twenty one, my mother was diagnosed with cancer, 549 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: March fourteenth, twenty twenty four. That house and that money 550 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 1: is what made her not have to work from my 551 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: great grandmother's house, so we don't have to be nothing 552 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 1: but that. But again they had a plan for it 553 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: and it was paid off. Sometimes people will just leave 554 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: someone a house. But if your income is gone and 555 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: you don't have enough life insurance, then can they pay 556 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: the mortgage? Right? Like, you know, you have to sit 557 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 1: there and think about that, because if you're the breadwinner 558 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: and you're leaving this person the house and then they 559 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: have to they can't maintain that lifestyle. 560 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 2: You really need to have a plan. 561 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 1: You need to talk to a financial advisor to see 562 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 1: how much insurance you need or how long will they 563 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: be able to maintain that lifestyle. If you're not there 564 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: and that income's not there. It just requires some thought. 565 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: You shouldn't just leave it. And they not really know 566 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 1: what it means to be a They can be a 567 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: home buyer, but they're not a homeowner. They don't know 568 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: that taxes are a part of it, so then taxes 569 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 1: don't get paid all of those things. 570 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 2: It just requires a little bit more work. 571 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now a lot of people they might think this 572 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 3: all sounds. You know, they might be hesitanting because they 573 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 3: feel like it's expensive or you know, they can't afford it. 574 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 3: But like when it comes to just again like the 575 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 3: long term value of doing this plan in versus the risks, 576 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,919 Speaker 3: Like how do you kind of communicate that to people? 577 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm gonna keep it a buck what 578 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: anybody who calls it they don't need it, I'm just 579 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: gonna tell them now I'll do this, like don't spend 580 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,719 Speaker 1: this money. I feel like this is God's work, like 581 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 1: helping people do this because this can really change. If 582 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: things go the way they are, We're not gonna have 583 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: I mean, our community is not going to have a 584 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: lot of money, and what they said twenty fifty, it'll 585 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: be like zero. 586 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: So we have to like do something. 587 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: So I would rather, you know, tell people like, hey, 588 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 1: just update the beneficiaries. Do this if you're not trying 589 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: to do any you know, in depth planning. But they 590 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 1: need to just have a consultation. It's worth the money 591 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: to just talk to somebody and figure out what you 592 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: should do and then you can. 593 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 2: Plan for it. 594 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: If you feel like it's too much, then okay, what 595 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: can you do right now? Get a health care directive, 596 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: power of attorney and get it well. If you want 597 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: to plan for a trust later, then plan for the 598 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 1: trust later. 599 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 2: You don't have to do it all in one sitting. 600 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 1: But the alternative is for the state to decide what 601 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: to do with your stuff, for your family to potentially 602 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: be in conflict because you didn't write down what was 603 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: supposed to happen, and you trust them that your children 604 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: are not gonna act a fool when you know they 605 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 1: are or shout out Grandpa, like we went to this funeral, 606 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: I found I had another uncle. 607 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 608 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 2: That happens. 609 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: And so it's like, if you don't care about your family, 610 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 1: just say that, because essentially that's what you're saying. 611 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 2: They can fend for themselves. I'm going to be gone. 612 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: You don't think enough of them to make it easier. 613 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: And also think about the fact that they're going to 614 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: be grieving you. You're gone, so you want them to 615 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: have to handle your business and deal with your mess 616 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: and they can't even process the fact that you're not 617 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: there anymore to be there with them to sort through 618 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: for them to figure out what to do, like just 619 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: do them a solid. 620 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: So somebody's hearing this and they realize they do need 621 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 3: to do a state planning. Like, what's the first thing 622 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 3: they should do. What's the first step they should take. 623 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: I'd say, and that the. 624 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 3: First step is not just going on social media and. 625 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,120 Speaker 1: Don't listen to all of those things. I would tell 626 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: people just go into it with an open mind because 627 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: I get a lot of I've talked to other states, 628 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: and we get people who are calling, and we have 629 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: to undo what people are saying on social media, so 630 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: people will call. I had somebody call me and tell 631 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: me they need a family office. I said, sys, how 632 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: much money you're trying to put in there? And she 633 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 1: was like, I'm building a trillion dollar company. Do you 634 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: have any money now? No, so don't spend it. That 635 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense, since like, what are you talking about. 636 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: You can't pay all of these people. And I had 637 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: to try and explain what it was. But she heard 638 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: somebody say that that's what rich people have, and it's like, 639 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: but you are right, I mean, And so it ends 640 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: up being a lot of work trying to undo some 641 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 1: of the So first I would just say, doing inventory 642 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: your assets, because that's one of the things that a 643 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 1: lot of people don't know what they have, so they 644 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: don't realize how much they have because they haven't really 645 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 1: looked at you had this many accounts, you have some crypto, 646 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: you have a house, you have it. They might have 647 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: five fifty thousand or ten thousand dollars insurance policies. 648 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 2: Maybe they kept it up, maybe it's term or not. 649 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 2: Just look at everything. 650 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: Just sit down and so that when you're going to 651 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,640 Speaker 1: talk to somebody and you fill out whatever intake form 652 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 1: they have, you can say, let me show you mine, 653 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 1: and then they can kind of give you some guidance 654 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: on what to do. Most lawyers will be honest enough 655 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 1: and say, m M, you don't need a trust. 656 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 2: Just do this. 657 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: And you have to really think about what you want 658 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: to be done with it, because there are some people 659 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: who don't want I mean, we've had significant land loss 660 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,879 Speaker 1: in our community. Do you really want them to be 661 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: able to sell it? If you don't, and you want 662 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: them to keep it? Do they know what to do 663 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: with it? If they don't, are you going to give 664 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: them some instructions in there? Like? You just have to 665 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 1: think through it, whether it's difficult or not. That's the 666 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 1: biggest blessing you let them just follow the steps, give 667 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: them the steps, give them the game. 668 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 3: I think for a lot of people to you know, 669 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 3: I mean there's one not known, but there could also 670 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 3: just be I don't know if it's embarrassment or just hesitation, 671 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 3: because yeah, like sometimes you do have to sit down 672 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,919 Speaker 3: and look at the numbers sometimes and like, yeah, you 673 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 3: might not have a one hundred million dollars in the bank, right, 674 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 3: But like, how do you deal with people that are 675 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 3: just you know, apprehensive to even do this because they're 676 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 3: embarrassed when they actually put it down and say, you 677 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 3: know what, I'm actually not worth five million dollars. I'm 678 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 3: worth you know, five thousand dollars. But you still you 679 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 3: can still do this kind of work though, yeah, you. 680 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: I mean, you can't build anything if you don't if 681 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: you don't even have visibility, right, So you have to 682 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: This can be a starting point for you all to 683 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: make for you to make a chance, for you to 684 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,439 Speaker 1: see this and say, okay, let me protect what I 685 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: have and then now I'm gonna come back and get 686 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 1: an amendment in three years because I've built more once 687 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: I saw what I had. But it just requires you 688 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: to have some sort of and it's you have to 689 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: just have the little courage. 690 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, But 691 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 3: you're not laughing at nobody, or you're not judging nobody 692 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 3: if they coming to you and they don't, and you know, 693 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 3: because again they got to start somewhere. 694 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: You have to. 695 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 1: And I mean again, my my, the only thing my 696 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 1: grandmother had, the only thing my great grandmother had was 697 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 1: that house. 698 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 2: And it was important to us because they worked for it. 699 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: My great grandmother was a maid. 700 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how she in Boston of all places 701 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: that you know what I mean, and bought these houses 702 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 1: on her own. It doesn't matter if it's just that, 703 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: Like I think that we have to do a better 704 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: job of not comparing. Like everything looks flashy and shiny 705 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: on social media. Yeah right, and so we're compared. Oh well, 706 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: the first thing is that I really don't have a lot. 707 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: I don't care what you have. You need to realize 708 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: that it's worth it. So why do you think that 709 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: what you have is not important enough to protect? That 710 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. You worked for it, it's yours. 711 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: Make sure nobody's taking it. 712 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and again like these are your assets. Again, you 713 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 3: want to make sure that whatever it is, you will 714 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 3: to make sure that you can you have those and 715 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 3: you're not dealing with it now. A lot of people 716 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 3: that are entrepreneurs also listen to this podcast, and you 717 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 3: probably deal with those two, especially in the state like Atlanta. Like, 718 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 3: what are just some specific things that entrepreneurs should consider 719 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 3: when they're getting ready to go down this path of 720 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 3: a state planning man? 721 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,479 Speaker 1: What happens to the business if something happens to you? 722 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: Can the business operate without you? If you are gone? 723 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: Does it fall apart? And if it does, what are 724 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: they supposed to do do with it? Like I have 725 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: clients who is a couple and the business is in 726 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:12,239 Speaker 1: her name because they get designated as a minority all 727 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: this other stuff. But if something happens to her, he 728 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: loses some of those designations because it's tied to her. 729 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: Like do you all have a plan on what to do? 730 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 1: Do you have for example, key Man insurance? I refer 731 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 1: a lot of my clients to advisors to get something 732 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: like that. So that if you have a partner, a 733 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: business partner who you're not related to in any way, 734 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 1: do they really want to be in partnership with your spouse? 735 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: If you die, probably not, So you might need a 736 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: policy that pays for that interest that you have in 737 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: the business so that they're not having to deal with 738 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: your spouse. I had a client who was it was 739 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: three brothers. One of the brothers died. They had key 740 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: man insurance, but they talked to her and when he 741 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 1: died about ten years ago, they decided to keep the 742 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: money and grow the business and let her have an interest. 743 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: She is terrorizing them now she wants her son to 744 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 1: be a part Like they've never been involved in the business. 745 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: The two surviving brothers have been taking care of everything, 746 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: and now this person wants documents and they want to 747 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: be a part of They want to force their son 748 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: to be able to be in the business. 749 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 2: Who never like it's. 750 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: A nightmare because they didn't just pay it out and 751 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: follow the blueprint, get some money from somewhere else, let 752 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: this lady be gone. 753 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 2: They didn't think she was going to do that. 754 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: They thought she would just allow and they were like, well, Amber, 755 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,719 Speaker 1: can I just pay the original amount? 756 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 2: Nope, the business is worth more. 757 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 1: Now you're not going to be able to just give 758 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 1: her that policy because the agreement wasn't with her. 759 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 2: You all let it go. 760 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 1: So like they're not planning for what happens if someone's gone, 761 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: and then a lot of business owners need to just 762 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: come up with some succession planning. If the business is 763 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: supposed to be able to operate without you, what does 764 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 1: that plan look like? 765 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, who's going to who are you grooming. 766 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: In the business to take over the CEO spot or 767 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: whatever you're doing so that it's not tied to you? 768 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: One if you want to sell it, because a lot 769 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: of folks kids don't want their businesses. It's not like 770 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: people are passing them on to children. So who is 771 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: going to take it? Are the children or is the 772 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: plan to sell it or is the plan to make 773 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: sure that they can eat they're getting distributions or something 774 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: like that. But you have to plan that out because 775 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 1: otherwise they're gonna be doing a fire sale and selling 776 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: all the stuff. 777 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 2: Uh. 778 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now you said something's there about key Man insurance, 779 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 3: and that's something I've heard that Tom, I've forgotten all 780 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 3: about that specifically. Are there other interesting or useful types 781 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 3: of insurance like that that people should also just in general? 782 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 3: Like you know, I'm I'm just curious, right, like, what 783 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 3: are some other unique types of insurance or you know, 784 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 3: things people should consider in that space. 785 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 2: I definitely would say everyone needs key man. 786 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: If you have a partner or you know, just figure 787 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: out how to make sure to get people out of 788 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: the way if you need it too. I don't think 789 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: I think people underestimate the value of long term care insurance. 790 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: I would just let the business pay for it if 791 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 1: you don't want to pay it for it, But like, 792 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: you need long term care because the cost of senior 793 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: living if you don't have all of that stuff is 794 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 1: a lot. And the reason why we didn't have to 795 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: put my grandmother in the home home, it's because she 796 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: paid for that. So a nurse came to her home 797 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: every day and bathed her and fed her and did 798 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: all of those things to make it easier for my uncle, 799 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: who was the main caregiver. People need to have that. 800 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: There's insurance for everything. I mean, when my mother got diagnosed, 801 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: I went and called Aflak the duck and got some 802 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 1: cancer insurance. There's insurance for everything, and I didn't even 803 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: know they had that until one of my clients told 804 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: me so. I mean, if you talked to an advisor 805 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: or you can find some insurance for a lot of things. 806 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, really didn't. Yeah I didn't know about that. Yeah, 807 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 3: I've been under the AFFLAC headquarters a couple of times. 808 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 3: You know, you know, you know this is crazy, just 809 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 3: as totally as in a side on afflack. Have you 810 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 3: ever been down to Columbus to like afflet headquarters. So 811 00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 3: the CEO of AFLAC at the headquarters, they have their big, 812 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 3: huge office right and then next to the office they 813 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 3: have a huge like parking deck. He built an Italian 814 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 3: villa on the top. You can look it up on Google. 815 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 3: A huge mansion Italian villa on the top of the 816 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 3: parking deck, direct next to athletic headquarters. He said he 817 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 3: didn't want to have to walk far to get home. 818 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 3: It's a different kind of money. I'm just trying to 819 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 3: tell folks. 820 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 2: That strowed off. You want to be that close. 821 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,359 Speaker 3: To work, he said, he want to be that close 822 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 3: to work. He would work that much where. Literally you 823 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 3: can look it up. I've seen it. I've actually been 824 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 3: up there before. 825 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 2: So they need Joe. 826 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,439 Speaker 1: You got to just not going to excuse me, sir, 827 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 1: if you come to work, you just I know that's interesting. 828 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna go look it up. 829 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 3: Total total random fact, total random fact. Sir, Please, if 830 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 3: you could tell every listener that we have, just like, 831 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 3: what's one thing they can do today to start protecting 832 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 3: their future and thinking about it? 833 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: What would it be, have conversations with their loved ones 834 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: about it, what they're thinking, what they would want to do. 835 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: Because I think also the planning doesn't have to be 836 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: a singular thing where you're just doing it yourself because 837 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: it's for your family. Really, estate plan is not for 838 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: you because you'll be gone anyway, right, but it's for them. 839 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: So talk to them kind of about, you know, whether 840 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 1: or not they want to participate in the process. 841 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 2: What does that look like? An example of? 842 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 1: And I mean I keep referencing my mother because it 843 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,839 Speaker 1: was really the first time I had to go through 844 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: it myself when she was sick and I had to 845 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: tell her like I don't want to pull to plus 846 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 1: somebody else has to be I don't want to do it. 847 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 2: I'm an only child. Were gonna find a friend because. 848 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the person like I'm fine 849 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: if someone else does it, but I don't want to 850 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: tell any money to take my mother off the machine. 851 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 2: M I'm not about to live with that. I don't 852 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 2: want to you be in my living room. 853 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 1: For ten years, like James, however long they had, you 854 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: gonna be here with me. 855 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: But I don't want to do it. 856 00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 1: But without having that conversation, she's gonna put my name 857 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: on everything because I'm the only child. Listen, let me 858 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,839 Speaker 1: tell you what my capacity is and what it's not. 859 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: And so until we sat there and had that conversation, 860 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: I probably would have been and she'd have been mad. 861 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: She'd have been mad coming back trying to haunt me. 862 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: But I just know myself. I know I don't want 863 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,319 Speaker 1: to do it. You need to start having conversations with 864 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: your children, with your parents because old black people gonna 865 00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 1: tell you it's none of your business and they don't 866 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,880 Speaker 1: like So the easier you can make it for yourself 867 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: when it's time for you to take care of your parents, Like, 868 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 1: these conversations need to have be had before there's an emergency. 869 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: So I would just start with, Hey, what do you 870 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 1: want me to do? I just want to make sure 871 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: I don't do something wrong, I don't mess up. Can 872 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,799 Speaker 1: you just help me out because I'm writing up my 873 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,839 Speaker 1: own I just need to know. And if you make 874 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: your parents feel like they're helping you as opposed to 875 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: you taking something from them. 876 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 2: Oh you can't. My grandma was mad when we said 877 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 2: she couldn't drive. 878 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 1: Well, you turned in oncoming traffic, man, Yeah, so you can't, 879 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 1: but she didn't want that freedom taken away. Don't make 880 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 1: them feel like you're taking something away from them. Make 881 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 1: them feel like they're helping you, and they're more likely 882 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 1: to do it. I don't want to make the wrong decision, 883 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: do something wrong. I need you to help me and 884 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,440 Speaker 1: write this down. Maybe that'll open up the conversation. But 885 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: you got to just start talking to people, because we 886 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 1: don't like communicating. 887 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I mean yes, it's a topic that we 888 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 3: definitely in our community we kind of avoid. And then 889 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 3: when it comes up, like you said, you're dealing with 890 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 3: a million other things. And you know, again, people a 891 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 3: lot of times think is just enough to have life 892 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 3: insurance in place, And I mean, I hope you people 893 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,879 Speaker 3: will definitely kind of getting that part. But again, there's 894 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 3: other parts to it, because like you said before, if not, 895 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 3: what you don't want to do is certain having the 896 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 3: government and you know, and everybody getting involved and figuring 897 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,359 Speaker 3: out how you're gonna split things up. When you're not here, 898 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 3: because like to your point, I mean, I've seen it 899 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 3: many times where you know, somebody passes away and they 900 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 3: have enough if they have a policy, you know, now 901 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 3: you got even the family like arguing about all right, 902 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 3: we're gonna split up. I mean I've been the situation 903 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 3: where I've literally seen the family argue over splitting up 904 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 3: what was left, and I mean everybody got like two 905 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 3: hundred bucks. 906 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 2: Right, It's like you and hope is not a strategy. 907 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,320 Speaker 2: I hope they'll do the right thing. That don't work, 908 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: Like I hear people, well, I just hope that they will. 909 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: How about let's just give them some instructions that they 910 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 1: have to follow instead of just hoping. We have to 911 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 1: do more than that, because if you want your family 912 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: to stay together, be together any of those things, the 913 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: likelihood is that they will fight over two hundred dollars 914 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 1: is way larger than you think. 915 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,359 Speaker 3: Absolutely. Now, one thing, I I'm sure people also kind 916 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 3: of want to just in general, how much is this 917 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 3: kind of thing cost? Right, and again you don't have 918 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 3: to be like overly specific, but again we're talking about 919 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 3: tens of thousands of dollars to get this stuff done, 920 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 3: or like like how much does it cost, like just 921 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 3: the average person that doesn't have, you know, again, millions 922 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 3: of bucks or like huge assets and all that stuff. 923 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 2: It's gonna cost you a couple thousand dollars at least. 924 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: It depends on I would try and find an attorney 925 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: that does flat fees because I'm not a fan of billing. 926 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 2: You don't want to call. 927 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: You don't want to feel like you're calling them, and 928 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,719 Speaker 1: then you're gonna get a bill for ninety dollars for 929 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes because you're gonna stop asking questions, right, and 930 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 1: so it deters And part of you going through that 931 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: process is for you to get some education and know 932 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,399 Speaker 1: how to operate. I want, at the end of the day, 933 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 1: anybody who leaves my office to know how to put 934 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 1: assets into trust without me. 935 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 2: You shouldn't have to. Now, if you want to call, 936 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 2: that's fine. You shouldn't have to. This is your stuff. 937 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 1: You should know how to maneuver it and know how 938 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: to do all those things. So through the process, we 939 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 1: want to educate you. So I would look for someone 940 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: who has a flat fees so that you don't have 941 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,080 Speaker 1: to worry about that and you can get it as 942 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 1: much information as you can, but if you need to, 943 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 1: there's some people who might need to do it yourself. 944 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 1: Start somewhere. I'm not a I mean, I think I 945 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 1: don't like templated stuff. I don't like you not sitting 946 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,120 Speaker 1: down and just talking about your family. 947 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 2: And going through those things. 948 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: But if you have to do that in the beginning, 949 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 1: I'd rather you have something than nothing. Go to one 950 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 1: of the websites, get something, do that, but don't go 951 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 1: to the people on the interweb and get people who 952 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 1: are non lawyers selling you stuff, and then it doesn't work. 953 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 2: I've had to had people give somebody who. 954 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 1: Was non attorney person in another state like six grand. 955 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:43,320 Speaker 1: You ain't somebody six grand who wasn't like, there's no repercussion. 956 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 2: You can't get the money back, there's nothing like. 957 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 1: There's a lot of the only bad thing I love 958 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 1: the Internet, but it made everybody feel like they had 959 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 1: a right to an opinion and to tell people all 960 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,399 Speaker 1: sorts of things, and a lot of the times is wrong. 961 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: So just try and find somebody. See if you can 962 00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: pay for a consultation. If you feel good about it, 963 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 1: for it, but just understand the price structuring. 964 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 2: Just try it. 965 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: It's going to depend on the complexity. But like I said, 966 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,240 Speaker 1: most people don't need anything complex. 967 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and you I'll just learned something to 968 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 3: even for you. Like again, like you could, you could 969 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 3: set it up so that you can do it yourself 970 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 3: and you don't necessarily have to call an attorney every time. 971 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 2: Right every time? You should not. 972 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 1: I don't want anybody to Oh, I bought a new house, 973 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,800 Speaker 1: what do I do? You know how to put it 974 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 1: in there? Because I'm going to tell you beforehand. As 975 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: long as you're not changing the actual document, you shouldn't 976 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 1: have to go to them every time and pay for that. 977 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 2: You should be able to do it yourself. 978 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,839 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Well look, if you need somebody to do this, 979 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 3: which I would definitely recommend everybody looks into it, you 980 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 3: should definitely consider Amber and the Saunders Firm. So if 981 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 3: they do want to reach out to get more information, 982 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 3: how can they get in contact with you and learn 983 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 3: more about this process? 984 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 2: Thank you. 985 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 1: Our website is Thesaundersfirm dot com sa U n d 986 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 1: ers who. A phone number is six seven eight six 987 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: eight zero four three three six, or you can I'm 988 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,359 Speaker 1: on Instagram. Mostly I'm trying to do better and get 989 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 1: on TikTok, but that's the lord's work. My instagram is 990 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: ask Amber Saunders, okay, and then I can point them 991 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: in the right direction and go from there. 992 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,280 Speaker 2: But there's plenty of information. 993 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: There's other attorneys here, just you know, talk see who's 994 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: a good fits like Dayton check them out. 995 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, see absolutely how it. 996 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,280 Speaker 3: Works, Absolutely well. Amber, Thank you so much for pulling 997 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 3: up shared a lot of great information. Y'all. Please take 998 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 3: this information and do something with it. And make sure 999 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:23,320 Speaker 3: again we're not doing go fund me. 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