1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: My coworker accused me of lying about the apartment I 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: was renting, so I confronted her. 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: She's the liar. 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: To start out, I want to provide some background. Everyone 5 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: in this story is in their twenties. My husband and 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: I worked with this guy back in twenty eighteen slash 7 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. 8 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: Let's call him Jake. 9 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: Jake wasn't a great manager, making bets with other managers 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: on who can have spicy time with the most female employees. 11 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 3: Sounds like a really bad manager. Yeah, that's not a manager. 12 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 3: You should report. 13 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: Hopefully he's losing his bets, I hope. 14 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: So you'd go on weird power trips and showed no 15 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: respect for anyone unless it was to better him in 16 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: some way. By the way, this comes from users Sad 17 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: Tuna Salad on the r slash Okay storytime, so I 18 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: read it. So. My husband and I ended up quitting 19 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: before the pandemic, and he got fired as the pandemic started. 20 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: I decided to come back to this place a year 21 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: after they got new management. I enjoyed the job before, 22 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: so I wasn't upset about going back. Well, Jake's girlfriend, 23 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Mindy started working there this year as well. I feel 24 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: like everyone who had previous experience with Jake gave her 25 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: a fair shot. She was nice and we became kind 26 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: of close. I got her birthday presents, she got me 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: some as well. Things were chill, chill. Mindy was traveling 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: about forty minutes to work. She would complain about how 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: she can't cook, eat, or do anything while living in 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: Jake's mom's basement more often than not. 31 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: I there's a dog in my there's a dog in 32 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 2: my laugh. I know. Oh, she's cute. I'm not supposed 33 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 2: to read a story when I got it is cuteness 34 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: of down here? What the heck? Hello, she's okay, Honda By, 35 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: I have to keep reading? Okay, hey, but come over here. 36 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: Fast forward to these last three weeks. I have a 37 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: side job of cleaning. I've been doing it for about 38 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: five years, so I'm not an amateur. My old landlord, 39 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: from the same town we both work in, contacted me 40 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: to clean a one bedroom, one bathroom. This place was 41 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: about four minutes away from work, rough shape but not unlivable. 42 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: He charges eight hundred dollars a month for this particular unit. 43 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: So I put out feelers to the people I work with. 44 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: If anyone would be interested in taking this place before 45 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: he put it up to the market. Well, Jake saw 46 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: my post and told me to contact Mindy. I did, 47 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: and Mindy said she would love to check the place out. 48 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: Great, there we go. It sounds like this is a 49 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: situation out where everybody gets to win. Everyone's winning here. 50 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: Nothing's gonna go wrong. 51 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: Nothing could possibly go wrong. What. 52 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: They went there and toured it, said they wanted it, 53 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: so my old landlord said they could move in the 54 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: first of this month. I did put in eight hours 55 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: worth of work into this place to get it good 56 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: enough for my old landlord to show. He said the 57 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: eight hours of this work looked great and he was satisfied. 58 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: I personally would have spent another four hours worth of 59 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: work on it, but I was. 60 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 2: Told to leave it be. 61 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: Once I learned Mindy was going to move in with Jake, 62 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: I told her the place wasn't cleaned to my standards, 63 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: so I would offer her my services at half the 64 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 1: price to get it completely move in ready. She agreed, 65 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: and we let my old landlord know that I would 66 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: be coming back before the move in day. To clean 67 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: landlord had to do some quick renovations on the bathroom, 68 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: so I'm assuming he left the post construction mess for 69 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: me to clean. 70 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: I don't mind. 71 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: Well, Mindy said they had to pay a Wi Fi 72 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: fee that wasn't easy on their pockets, so she didn't 73 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: want me to come by and clean beforehand. I assumed 74 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: that they would be fine cleaning it themselves, So I 75 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: thought my part in all this was done wrong. 76 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 2: Oh boy, not if I know Mindy. 77 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: I said, we got a classic miscommunication slash poor communication 78 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: scenario aways Mindy. Mindy was like, ah, we got to 79 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: pay for the WiFi. I don't know if I can 80 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: afford you cleaning. And then she's like gonna be like, okay, 81 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: how dare you not clean for me? 82 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 3: I just I can hear it now. 83 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 84 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: Two days after they move in, I get six text 85 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: messages at one thirty am from Jake off of Mindy's phone. Oh. 86 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: I hate that already, where it's like getting getting a 87 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: text from someone's number, but it's someone else sending the text. 88 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 3: She hates it too. 89 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: Hey, He's like, uh here, sniff into the microphone, just 90 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 1: like text messages from somebody, like somebody else communicating like 91 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 1: as someone from someone's phone. Yeah, and it's like I 92 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: don't know. It's just it's annoying, it's too bid. But 93 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: this is what the message set. Hey, this is Jake. 94 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: This crap hole is filthy. 95 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: What did he have you clean? 96 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: It looks like nothing was clean. I'm just puzzled why 97 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: he would let someone move in with this condition. I'm 98 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: staring at strings of dust hanging from the ceiling over 99 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: my bed, and I know we were in talks about 100 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: paying you to clean, but like we're broke, and frankly, 101 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: we shouldn't have to. It should already be clean. This 102 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: is just not what I would have expected from my recommendation. 103 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: Opie literally told you, already told you the conditions and said, hey, 104 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: I'll clean it. This is just my fee. Yeah, she's 105 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: literally doing she's doing a nice thing for you. 106 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was trying to give you a discount too, 107 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: trying to give you the half priced fee, literally and like, Hey, 108 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: if you move in somewhere and it turns out to 109 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: be dirty and you can't afford to have a professional 110 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: clean it, clean it, hey, it looks like you're gonna 111 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: have to do some clean. 112 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 3: Got to clean it yourself, yeah. 113 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: OPI responded, Hey, mindy, I'm sorry to hear things haven't 114 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: been going as smoothly as you wanted. I would love 115 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: to talk about how I can help you out. I 116 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: will be in Friday and Saturday at work. I can't lie. 117 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: I was pretty upset to wake up to those messages already, 118 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: not being a fan of this guy. Yeah, my husband 119 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: saw the messages and got beyond mad and took it 120 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: upon himself and contacted Jake over Facebook to quote, never 121 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: talk to me that way again, and I deserve an 122 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 1: apology and how I'm not responsible for the condition of 123 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 1: the apartment. Yeah, but hey, w husband right there being like, 124 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: don't talk to my wife like that, you dirty loser 125 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 1: ever shy. 126 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 3: But now but now we have a again, we have 127 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 3: two people fighting through their own like. 128 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 2: Fighting for her honor. 129 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeh no, but she he contacted Jake directly. I heard you. 130 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: It's like through her phone. They go back and forth, 131 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: and my husband ends up telling him if he doesn't apologize, 132 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: then we're gonna have problems direct quote. Yeah, yeah, those 133 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: are real problems. Jake messaged me off of his Facebook. 134 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 1: So why is your boyfriend threatening me? 135 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 2: Now? 136 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 3: You know what we need to do? 137 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 2: Create a group chat. Yeah, they needed hate in group chat. 138 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 3: Come on, this is getting confusing. 139 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, group chat for hayten behind OHP responded, Hey, Jake, 140 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: you could have messaged me personally. I did tell Mindy 141 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: that the place wasn't up to my standards, so that's 142 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: why I offered to come back and deep deep clean 143 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: it for you guys. I get things are tight financially 144 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: right now, and I totally would have been down to 145 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: do for a later payment on top of offering my 146 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: services at half price, which which I did. Yeah. Also, 147 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: dust will build up over three weeks, which is the 148 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: last time I touched it. 149 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 2: It's an old place. 150 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: I thought it would be a great place for you 151 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: guys to start anew right down the street from work, 152 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: no credit check and a landlord that. 153 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: Won't pray for you. 154 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: They're not gonna pray for you, And I think what 155 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: he meant to say was they weren't going to pry 156 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: about you. Yeah. Yeah, where it's like the the landlord's 157 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: not gonna pry into all your business all the time. 158 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: I think they're not gonna pray and they won't. 159 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: Pray for you, which I guess is kind of the 160 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah, I'm sorry, it isn't what you imagined. 161 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: But you guys did check it out before signing the lease. Yeah, 162 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: my husband is upset because waking up to those messages 163 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: at six am wasn't great. I'm trying to be as 164 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: chill as possible because if anyone else messaged me that way, 165 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: I would have told them to go pee up a poll. 166 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: You may have thought that it wasn't out of line, 167 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: but it totally was. And you know what totally isn't 168 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: out of line? You joining us live on YouTube every 169 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: weekday at three pm. 170 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: All you gotta do is tap. 171 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: That profile that's in line. 172 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not out of line whatsoever. We have a 173 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: little bit of the story, little bit of the story. 174 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it seems like they're they're not being grateful for 175 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 3: the solid that you did. 176 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: Them, and they're like, well, you know, not clean. 177 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 3: It's like I don't, I don't know. 178 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: You told me not to clean it. You literally just 179 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 2: told me not to. Yeah. 180 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: It seems like they just like didn't want to pay 181 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 3: op and we're a now are expecting like free stuff. 182 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: She was and she was willing to work out a deal. Yeah, 183 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 2: and that dude likes to power trip. Yeah. 184 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 3: I think, I honestly think that if the coworker and 185 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 3: Jake had been had gone to Op and said, hey, 186 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 3: you know, this is a little bit out of her budget. 187 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 3: Is there anyway that we could work out a deal 188 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 3: or at exchange or something so that you can clean 189 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 3: the place. 190 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: But no, they just went straight. 191 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 3: To like, your shock, We hate you. 192 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: This isn't what we get wanted. And that's not even 193 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 2: really on her. That's more on the landlord too. 194 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: Me. It's like, how is it her fault for being 195 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: the cleaner that the landlord hired three weeks ago and now. 196 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 2: The place is dirty? Yeah? 197 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: Come on, It's like, aren't you gonna have to clean 198 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: your own apartment at some point as well? 199 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've gotta figure this out. 200 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: What is really good? 201 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 3: It's gotta be cobwebs. 202 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: Let's finish this off now. 203 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: Mindy is telling my coworkers that I wasn't honest about 204 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: the apartment, that I maliciously got them to take the 205 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: place to have another cleaning job and to make a 206 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: quick buck off of them, and that she no longer 207 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: wants to associate with me at all, and I'm not 208 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: her friend anymore? 209 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 2: So redd it give it to me? 210 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: Am I the ahle uh No, it seems like she's 211 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: just a little bit tense and is not very not 212 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: very grateful. Yeah, like that's the most unhinged take that 213 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: you can possibly have, where it's like she tricked us 214 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: into moving into an apartment so that she could have 215 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: a cleaning job. 216 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 2: Yeah that last. 217 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 3: The landlord stuff. Yeah, she's not getting paid for this, Okay, 218 00:09:58,800 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 3: Riley's getting socks. 219 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: Riley's little tootsies are cold cold. Riley's got cold little piggies. 220 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: This little piggy went to marketing, got cold, and then 221 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: this little piggy that's the only one that I know 222 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: from that song. 223 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time 224 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: for okop Relam. 225 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 4: I found out my step mom was cheating with my 226 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 4: dad years before the divorce. Now my step brother has 227 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 4: something to tell me. 228 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Is it? I just got a no pack of Pokemon 229 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 2: cards and I found a holographic charte aard and I 230 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 2: want to share in the reward with you. 231 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 4: You know, Sam, I have to let you know that's 232 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 4: exactly what it was. 233 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 2: I love holographic chars. 234 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 4: Let's collect them, all right, Let's let's find out what 235 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 4: it actually is. 236 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 2: You're thinking to catching Pokemon work catching cheaters? Oh, oh, 237 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: catching nuts. 238 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 4: When I twenty two, Mail was four, my dad forty two, 239 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 4: divorced my mom. About a year later, he introduced me 240 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 4: to my step mom, forty two female, and she now 241 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 4: has two girls, N and D that are both twenty 242 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 4: two as well. They married only a few months after 243 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 4: dating and went on to have three more kids, G 244 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 4: sixteen male, L ten male, and S four female. Okay, 245 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 4: my father adopted the twins N and D because their 246 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 4: biological father was not involved. I've always considered all five 247 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 4: of them my siblings, and we've never used step or 248 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 4: half to refer to each other as siblings. When I 249 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 4: was six, shortly after GE's birth, my mom passed away 250 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 4: in a car accident, and because of it, I started 251 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 4: to live with my dad full time. My relationship with 252 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 4: my step mom improved from there. She never adopted me, however, she, 253 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 4: along with my dad, kept my mom's memory alive by 254 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,599 Speaker 4: keeping in touch with my maternal grandparents and other relatives, 255 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 4: as well as visiting the grave with me on special days. 256 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 2: Okay, so it sounds like things are going well. 257 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I think a pretty good dynamic they have. 258 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 2: So can visit the grave your real mom with your 259 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: step mom. Then things are peachy. It's pretty good. Yeah, 260 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 2: that's that's the rule. 261 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 4: Yes, Sam's rule of step parents. 262 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: Boom. 263 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 4: Now I started calling her mom when I was around 264 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 4: seven or eight, and she refers to me as her 265 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 4: eldest child. 266 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 2: Wow, okay, things going on, that's pretty close. Now. 267 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 4: After eighteen, I started to work, but I continued to 268 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: live with my parents. But last week I was in 269 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 4: the attic when I found a photo album that I've 270 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 4: never seen before. 271 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 2: Is it a photo album. 272 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 4: That would be funny like Dad's Dad's like, yeah, freaking 273 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 4: sevent just like or Dad's lingerie. 274 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go. I was, I'm imaginate about Dad 275 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 2: and some the lettos. Oh bottom long heels where the thong? 276 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, just give it a little a little snap 277 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 4: form snapping at g string. 278 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 2: Baby Daddy, Daddy, Daddy was like that, Daddy. That's a 279 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 2: whole different retistory. 280 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 4: So Opie opened it and I saw several pictures of 281 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 4: my dad, my stepmom, and the twins when they were babies. 282 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. 283 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 4: That makes no sense to me, because, like I said, 284 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 4: they were toddlers when our parents met. 285 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: Wait, they were toddlers when the steps. 286 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 4: The steps stepmom and dad met. How could they be babies? 287 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 4: Huh makes no sense. I decided to confront my parents 288 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 4: about it. I sat them down in the kitchen alone 289 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 4: and asked them how they met. And they told me 290 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 4: the story that soon after my dad's divorce, he met 291 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 4: my step mom' through a mutual friend. But when they 292 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 4: were done, I took one of the pictures and threw 293 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 4: it down on the table and demanded, they tell me 294 00:13:59,000 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 4: the truth. 295 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 2: Like a cake. This is like a courtroom log track. 296 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: It's like, where were you the night of the seventeenth? 297 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: Oh? 298 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 2: Really, you were just out with your friends by the broom. 299 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 2: How about these apples? I can see you clearly fucking 300 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: the maid. 301 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 4: I objected, sustained, sustained over rules. Now I could tell 302 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 4: by my dad's face he understood what I meant. 303 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 2: We know what's going down. 304 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 4: My dad told me that his marriage with my mom 305 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 4: was going through a hard time because of my mom's 306 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 4: infertility issues. One day he met my stepmom and things 307 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 4: escalated quickly, and when he was ready to leave my mom, 308 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 4: she found out that she was pregnant, but so did 309 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 4: my stepmom. 310 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: He got them both pregnant at the same time. 311 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 4: He was ready to leave his original his biological mother. 312 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 4: Both of them got pregnant at the same time. 313 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: Yo, man's packing a Punch's straight shooters. What was in 314 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 2: the whatever? It was in the juice that week? Juice 315 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: more my friends. 316 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 4: So he lied to my mom several times so that 317 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 4: way he could spend time with my stepmom and her 318 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 4: baby twins. 319 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 2: Yow, only does he get a kid with the stepmom, 320 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: but it's twins twins? 321 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 4: Bro, can you imagine baby? 322 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow, goodness. 323 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 4: One day he admitted to my mom that he was 324 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 4: having an affair and then they got divorced. 325 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: Yikes. 326 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 4: So I looked at my step mom and she was 327 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 4: in tears. They both tried to say sorry, but I 328 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 4: couldn't stay in that house any longer. I'm currently staying 329 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 4: at my girlfriend's house. I haven't talked to my other siblings, G, 330 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 4: L and S. It's paid me a lot and G 331 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 4: said that S cried for me, and that just breaks 332 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 4: my heart. Now I have refused to talk with my 333 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 4: parents or the affair twins, N, and D. The three 334 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 4: of them lied to me fair twins. 335 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: It's like it's not because they're putting non parties and 336 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: affairs because my parents cheated. This feels like such an 337 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 2: origin story of like. 338 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 4: I trusted the twins, but they betrayed me, betrayed me, 339 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 4: and now I'm seeking revenge. Yes, I feel like my 340 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 4: whole life was built on lies and I am lost. 341 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: I do not know what to do. 342 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 4: I still love my sisters and my parents, but they, 343 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 4: especially my parents, have hurt me so much. 344 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big secret to uh keep under lock 345 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 2: and key huge right, Like you're saying, I don't know 346 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 2: how Op he's going to be able to get over this. Well, 347 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 2: OP has a plan. What's the plan. 348 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 4: I have come to the conclusion that I should talk 349 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 4: with the a Fair twins N and D, and I 350 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 4: will send them a message so we can meet in 351 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 4: person and talk about it the affair twins. I will 352 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 4: also try to meet with my younger siblings because I 353 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 4: have not seen them since last week. I just talked 354 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 4: to them over the phone, and I miss them about 355 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 4: my parents. I don't know what I'll do. I need 356 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 4: to talk to them so I can at least get 357 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 4: some closure, but I don't know if I'll be able to. 358 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 2: Yikes, this is a this is a tricky situation. I 359 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: wonder what will happen at that that meeting. Well, we're 360 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: about to find out we have updates on updates. Let's 361 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 2: see it. Let's hear it. 362 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 4: So, my sisters knew about my father's affair with their mother. 363 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 2: They knew, they knew, they knew. How the time bro 364 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 2: Like when I was that age, I could barely keep 365 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 2: any secret about like what bubblegum flavor I would eat, Like, 366 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 2: I have no idea how the affair. Twins literally kept 367 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 2: that secret for like their whole life. And what do you. 368 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 4: Say, Like, so mommy and daddy had a very special 369 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 4: fun time and then the stork decided to I. 370 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 2: Mean, I mean, there's no good way to say it, 371 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 2: but like I just imagine it coming up in like 372 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 2: a fight or something where it's like, uh, get out 373 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 2: of my room, and it's like, no, you get out 374 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 2: of my room. Well, dad cheated with our mom because 375 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 2: our mom's so much harder, hotter than your mom. That's 376 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: how imagine it comes. Oh, she got it. They got 377 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 2: hot mommy. They can't help that hot mommy. Molly can't 378 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 2: help it. But let's see, let's see how it went down. 379 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 4: So I made my post and I made the group 380 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 4: chat with the twins and texted them. We decided to meet. 381 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 4: My girlfriend wanted to come with me, but I told 382 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,160 Speaker 4: her I'd rather go alone. And when I arrived there, 383 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 4: they were already there and they started to try and 384 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 4: make small talk, but I just went straight to. 385 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: The point, Straight to the point, let's get it. 386 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 4: I asked them if they knew, and they started to 387 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 4: tear up. They always knew that my dad had an affair, 388 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 4: but they only knew that they were his daughters when 389 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 4: they turned sixteen, because our parents told them. 390 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 2: Why a sixteen the age? 391 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 4: I think that's like cause you you don't want to 392 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 4: wait too long, you know, So it's like, okay, get 393 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 4: it is just when they're mature enough to take it, 394 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 4: but you know, can't. 395 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 2: Wait too long. 396 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like you're forty and you're yeah, you're a 397 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 4: fair baby. 398 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 2: Not dang. 399 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 4: They initially wanted to tell me, but my dad and 400 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,479 Speaker 4: stepmom pressed them not to say anything because if they 401 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 4: told me, it would destroy our family. 402 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 2: I mean, probably true. 403 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 4: Probably true, and I think that is right happening right now. 404 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 4: I asked them how things were at home. They told 405 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 4: me that GNL started to be rude to our parents, 406 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 4: while S just kept asking about me. They asked if 407 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 4: I could forgive them. I told them that I still 408 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 4: love them, but I need time, and they told me 409 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 4: they understood that. I said I was sorry that I 410 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 4: shouldn't blame them for my dad's mistakes. They told me 411 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 4: that they should have told me earlier. We hugged it 412 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 4: out and cried together. We said our goodbyes, and I 413 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 4: went home and my girlfriend asked me how I was, and. 414 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 2: I just broke down. Yeah. 415 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 4: She helped me tight and teld me not to hold 416 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 4: on and that she was there for me. Words cannot 417 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 4: describe how much I love this woman. She has been 418 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 4: my rock through. 419 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 2: All of us. 420 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 4: That's sweets. I talked to my younger siblings this morning 421 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 4: and we met at the park. I hugged them really tight, 422 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 4: especially s. I'm super attached and really protective of her, 423 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 4: and I tried to explain her in a toddler friendly 424 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 4: way that I was mad at our parents because they 425 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 4: did a bad thing, and I. 426 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 2: Wasn't mad at her. 427 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 4: She asked if I was ever going to come back home, 428 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 4: and I told her I didn't know, but I still 429 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 4: loved her. 430 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 2: Man, it's so hard to like, yeah, like, like the 431 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: kid is caught in the middle and what do you 432 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: what are you going to do? Like it's they literally 433 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 2: can't comprehend. Yeah, I mean you can't do much except 434 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 2: say basically what op said. I feel like Ope is 435 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 2: making a lot of the right moves. One hundred brides 436 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: such a tricky situation. Yeah, it's really bad. 437 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 4: I talked to my brothers to see how they were 438 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 4: holding on. G and L told me that they've been 439 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 4: having a hard time because they never thought that our 440 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 4: parents could do something so horrible. They told me they 441 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 4: missed me, but understood why I had to leave. We 442 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 4: spent the morning together and after lunch they went back home. 443 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 4: I haven't talked to my parents yet, but I planned 444 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 4: to call my maternal grandparents tonight to see if they 445 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 4: knew or not. 446 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, if the maternal at the grandparents knew too, Like 447 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 2: Opie was just fricking betrayed by everyone. But you know what, Sam, 448 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 2: We're going to the final level here, the final countdown. 449 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 2: Let's go. 450 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 4: We are confronting the father and stepmom about the affair. 451 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 4: So my dad and stepmom have wanted to meet and 452 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 4: talk since I found out about their affair. I wasn't 453 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 4: feeling ready to do it. My girlfriend said I should 454 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 4: to eventually meet with them so at least I could 455 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 4: hear their side, and my girlfriend told me that she 456 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 4: wanted to come with me. My girlfriend and I sat 457 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 4: down with my dad and my step mom yesterday in 458 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 4: a public space. 459 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 2: We arrived before them. I was feeling nervous and my 460 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 2: leg was shaking. Why public space, It's a good question. 461 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 2: That seems like overdoing it. Yeah, I mean it seems unnecessary, 462 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 2: like it's like like no one's gonna like hurt you. Yeah, 463 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: maybe they don't are I've always heard like, oh, like 464 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: break up with someone in public space because then they 465 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 2: can't overreact. 466 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, or like if someone's not super stable, whatever, you 467 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 4: have terrible news them, don't don't uh, don't do it 468 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 4: in antarctica where no one can hear you. 469 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 2: Or I mean, but some people are would just go 470 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 2: crazy anyway. So that's true. That's true. 471 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 4: You want to be on World Star, Yeah, that's the question. 472 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 4: My girlfriend held my hand and told me not to 473 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 4: worry because she was there for me. When they arrived, 474 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 4: I was looking at the floor. I just couldn't look 475 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 4: them into the eyes. My dad was trying to ask 476 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 4: me things like how I was, and I just asked 477 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 4: him to explain everything from the moment he met my 478 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 4: mom to the moment he divorced her. Getting the full 479 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 4: story here. My dad told me that he met her 480 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 4: at church and the moment he eyes on her, he 481 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 4: fell in love and they soon started dating. My dad 482 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 4: said my mom was a perfect partner. He said she 483 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 4: was kind, loving, and very concerned about him. My dad 484 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 4: proposed to her on her eighteenth birthday, Wow, and she 485 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 4: cried tears of joy. My dad said that he never 486 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 4: saw my mom so happy until the day I was born. 487 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 4: But they did have problems having kids. They had several miscarriages, 488 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 4: and my dad started to cheat on my mom with 489 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 4: my now stepmom because the step mom could give me 490 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 4: what your mom couldn't, like a child, Yes, adopt bro, 491 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 4: literally so dumb. My dad started to spend less and 492 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 4: less time at home, and at this point he started crying. 493 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 4: He said that my mom tried her best and told 494 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 4: him every day how much she loved him and how 495 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,439 Speaker 4: sorry she was that she couldn't give. 496 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 2: Him a family. Bro, why would you? Wow? And he's 497 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 2: literally cheating on her. God like at least last hole hole. 498 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 4: Bare bear, bare minimum be like, I love you, but 499 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 4: I do want like a biological child, so like and 500 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 4: then and then be upfront and get a divorced don't 501 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 4: go and cheat, yeah, and have a kid like if 502 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 4: you're going to do that, which. 503 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 2: Is still like she was such like an angel, like exactly, 504 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she died and then she died. Bro. God. 505 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 4: My father was planning on leaving my mom, but then 506 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 4: she told him she was pregnant. In the same week, 507 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 4: my dad found out my step mom was pregnant as well. 508 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 4: My dad initially believed that I was going to be 509 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 4: a miscarriage, but it didn't happen. He said that when 510 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 4: I was born, my mom couldn't stop looking at me 511 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 4: and crying and smiling at the same time. My dad 512 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 4: said that my mom held his hand and said, we 513 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 4: finally did it, my love. Oh, bro, imagine what's going 514 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 4: through his head. 515 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 2: Gees. I started to cry a bit. 516 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 4: My dad and my stepmom tried to comfort me, but 517 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 4: I just asked how my mom reacted to my dad's 518 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 4: affair and why my dad. 519 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 2: Oh, this sucks, It sucks, sucks. It's so much worse 520 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 2: than I could have imagined. I like, why couldn't the 521 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 2: mom be like an alcoholic or a cheater of herself, 522 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 2: even like a stripper, would you know, just like you know, 523 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 2: give us something, give us, give us something. Or she 524 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 2: was like kind of cheating, yeah, blowing dudes on the 525 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 2: side for money, just like anything. But but it gets better, sam. 526 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 4: I asked him all that and why my dad waited 527 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 4: four years to divorce her. 528 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 2: He kept it a secret for four more years. That 529 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 2: is that's impressive, honestly, keeping a secret that big, having 530 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: two families with the fair twins. He needs to be 531 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 2: like an international spy or something. The way he's man 532 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 2: man is is doing well in all the wrong ways. 533 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 2: My dad said that during those four years, my mom 534 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 2: became overprotective of me. He gave me a few examples, 535 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 2: like my mom had me in a crib in their 536 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 2: room when I was a baby. Whenever I was crying, 537 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 2: she was the one to call me down and didn't 538 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: let anyone else do it. She wouldn't let anyone else 539 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 2: hold me until I was a bit older, and she 540 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 2: wanted to be a stay at home mom so she 541 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 2: could spend literally all her time with me. It took 542 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 2: my dad and grandparents from both sides to convince her 543 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 2: not to do that. This caused him to have less 544 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 2: and less time alone, and during those four years, my 545 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 2: mom sex drive got lower and she didn't get pregnant again. 546 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 2: When they did it, my dad told my mom about 547 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 2: the affair, and he laid everything out, including the twins. 548 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 2: My mom begged him not to leave her, making promises 549 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 2: that she would Oh god, my mom begged him not 550 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: to leave her, making more promises that she would have 551 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 2: more sex with him, and if my dad wanted, he 552 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 2: could continue to have the affair and have another child, 553 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 2: and that my mom would still treat them. 554 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 4: Well oh she's oh god, oh. 555 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 2: Ah h, that sucks. Oh my goodness, this is heartbreaking. 556 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 4: My dad said that his mind was made up, and 557 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 4: my mom cried and asked him to leave her alone 558 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 4: for a while. 559 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 2: Thought this guy, dude, thought this guy. 560 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 4: Literally, that's what, like, what more could he want if 561 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 4: she is open to that? 562 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:35,360 Speaker 2: Like literally what this guy's come? God, come, I don't 563 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 2: even do I don't even know what, like I'm my 564 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: heart hurts so much for this family. Oh, it's insane. 565 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 2: What what what breaks my heart is like her on 566 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: the like on the in the hospital just having had 567 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 2: a baby, and then after years of like miscarriages and 568 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: it not working, like and she's so happy, did it honey? 569 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 4: Literally Meanwhile the whole time he has another affair twins 570 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 4: over here, Oh my goodness. 571 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 2: And then she like she loves him so much, she's like, yo, 572 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 2: you can have your affair family literally just like stay 573 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 2: with me. 574 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 4: Just just to stay together, like crazy. Fuck. 575 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: Fuck, this sucks. This sucks so much. It does. This 576 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 2: is the This is terrible. 577 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 4: This is one of the worst scenarios probably that we've 578 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 4: that we've come across. 579 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: You can't fucking trust anyone. You really can't. Bro, you 580 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 2: can't trust anyone. You really can't. Oh, where where are 581 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 2: the red flags? Yes? Yes, there had flags. There's always 582 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 2: reads that good. Maybe he's that good if you can 583 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 2: balance four years. Maybe she also probably maybe she saw 584 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 2: the signs and just like chose to ignore them. 585 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 4: It's probably be a combination of both, I'm sure which 586 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 4: would have been that like she saw that, she saw 587 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 4: the red flags, but she was like, I want my family, 588 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 4: like I had so many men, she'd been through so much. 589 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way, like, there's no way you're having 590 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 2: a whole ass out there family and there's not some suspicion. 591 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: But it so it sounds like she was like okay 592 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 2: living in that she was okay without arrangement. Yeah, that's 593 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 2: what he wanted. It's kind of like Hillary Clinton, Bill Clinton, 594 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 2: you know. 595 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's like, all right, let's stay together for 596 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 4: for the politics. 597 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, for politics. Yeah, and then you can, you know, 598 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 2: go on, yeah, just on the side, go on that 599 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: that plane that am I rightez? 600 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 4: But uh, all right, we shout out Bill Clinton, shout 601 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 4: out to like Willy. So when my dad got back, 602 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 4: he heard my mom singing my song. Uh, he went 603 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 4: to my room and peeked through the door and saw 604 00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 4: my mom in the room holding me in your arm 605 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 4: while singing. I fell asleep after my mom started crying softly, 606 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 4: probably so I wouldn't wake up. My dad said she 607 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 4: just started kissing me on the forehead and that she 608 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 4: loved me over and over again. My dad told me 609 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 4: that my mom slept with me that night, and the 610 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 4: next day they started to discuss their divorce. Oh. My 611 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 4: dad said that my mom did her best not to 612 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 4: portray him as the bad guy. And when I asked 613 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 4: who I was going to live with, my mom said 614 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 4: I was going to be with her one week and 615 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 4: then my dad the other. 616 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 2: So she even still split time. She's not even trying 617 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 2: to get full custody. Oh, my dad tried to guilt 618 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 2: trip me. 619 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 4: He said that my mom could tell everyone about the 620 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 4: affair and could have pushed to have full custody of me, 621 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 4: but she understood it wasn't healthy for you. 622 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 623 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 4: She just wants what's best for She literally is like, 624 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,239 Speaker 4: she only wants what's best she She's completely putting her 625 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 4: own self interests aside in every scenario. 626 00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 2: I am in turmoil. I am in turmoil. This is 627 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 2: this is the worst story. Sorry, I'm sorry. I'm killing me. John, 628 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: You're fucking killing me. And we're not done yet. No, 629 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 2: we're not done yet. 630 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 4: I simply asked about the twins, how is their relationship 631 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 4: with him before and why did he tell them? He said, 632 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 4: when the twins were born, my mom was already at home, 633 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 4: but he was able to visit my stepmom in the hospital. 634 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,479 Speaker 4: I asked him if he had always been the twins 635 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 4: i legal father, to which he replied yes. My father 636 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 4: said that he would visit the twins in my stepmom 637 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 4: at least once a week, and he said he thought 638 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 4: the twins should know because he wanted the truth to 639 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 4: come from them. 640 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: Why did you not like? Why not the same for op? Yeah? 641 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 2: Why did the twins deserve truth in your. 642 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 4: Your other son doesn't like? My goodness? Who's being like 643 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 4: the kind of the victim assent this scenario? 644 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 2: This guy sucks. 645 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 4: I told my dad that his actions have showed me 646 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 4: he is nothing more than a selfish a whole, that 647 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 4: he's hurted me, the twins, my mom, and all the 648 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 4: people he loves and respects. Truly, I told him that 649 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 4: we could never have any type of meaningful relationship. To 650 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 4: forget about being at my wedding or ever meeting my kids. 651 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 4: The maximum I could ever do was tolerating him and 652 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 4: his wife for the sake of my siblings, mainly my 653 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 4: four year old sister. My stepmom tried to intervene, and 654 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 4: she said son, So she like, uh, referred. 655 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: To her as the son. Well, there's a clopback coming. 656 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 4: Before she could continue, my girlfriend replied that I was 657 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 4: not her son, that she was just my father's lover, 658 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 4: and that my real mom. 659 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 2: Has passed away. Fuck fuck. We soon left. 660 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 4: As we were walking home, my girlfriend said, if it 661 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 4: was all right to say that, to which I said yes. 662 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 4: When we got home, she held my hand and took 663 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 4: me to our room. We laid down in our bed 664 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 4: and I buried my face in her chest. I want 665 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 4: you to know how proud I am of you and 666 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 4: how you've shown how strong and mature you are. But 667 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 4: you don't need to act tough around me. Please let 668 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 4: it all out. I started to cry, as I never 669 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 4: have before, that says r Relndant. 670 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 2: I know, I know. Let it in, John, let it end. 671 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 4: After what seemed to be an eternity, I told my 672 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 4: girlfriend I wanted to see some of my mom's pictures 673 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 4: so I could calm down. Oh it started off all right, 674 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 4: but then I landed on these two pictures, and the 675 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 4: first one my mom was holding me and looking at 676 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 4: me with a big smile, and the other one she 677 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 4: was giving me a big kiss, and I just lost 678 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 4: it again. She didn't deserve any of this. I wish 679 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 4: she could have found someone better than my dad, someone 680 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 4: she could have loved and treated her like she deserves. 681 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 4: I'm a little better now, but I'm still an emotional mess. 682 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 4: My girlfriend says that she's been worried about my mental 683 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 4: state and that she wants me to see a therapist. 684 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 2: Yes, please, please do. For the love of God and 685 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: all things holy, you need to see like twelve therapists 686 00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: because this shit. I need a therapist. For having listened 687 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 2: to this, I told her I agreed, and asked her. 688 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 4: To help set up the appointment because I was not 689 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 4: capable of doing that right now. I want to thank 690 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 4: everyone who's commented set DMS and gave me advice. Thank 691 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 4: you all. It means a lot. If something happens in 692 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 4: my life, I will keep you updated. 693 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 2: That sucked. That sucked. I hated. I hated it. Yeah, 694 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: I don't know how you recover from that. 695 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 4: I mean, it's it's it's just I mean, like he said, 696 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 4: like just having a relationship with. 697 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 2: Your like how in dead? Oh God? 698 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 4: I think the silver linings like it seems that Op 699 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 4: has found an amazing partner. Yeah, seems like he still 700 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 4: has at least he. 701 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 2: Has that he has that until the update is my 702 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 2: girlfriend cheated on me with my dad? Yeah, fucking piece 703 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 2: of shit. Yeah, man, Jesus, And you like that's a 704 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 2: great place to close it off, ain't it. This is 705 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 2: like just teaching me, like what the what not to 706 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: do in relationships. It's honestly, it is. It is the 707 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 2: master class. Yeah, dude, we're gonna be so good at 708 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 2: not fucking up relationship. 709 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 4: My god, we're gonna we're just too many relationship kings due. 710 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 4: It's gonna be crazy.