WEBVTT - Bing Bing Bong 0:00:10.310 --> 0:00:14.750 All right, it's a voicemail episode. You got a question 0:00:14.770 --> 0:00:15.130 for us, Joe? 0:00:15.450 --> 0:00:15.650 Yeah. 0:00:16.010 --> 0:00:18.130 If we were arrested as a family for some reason, 0:00:20.090 --> 0:00:22.130 why did we get arrested? And also, who was the 0:00:22.170 --> 0:00:23.209 first to snitch? 0:00:24.050 --> 0:00:28.730 Oh, wow. Amongst our family. Definitely you. He would be what? 0:00:28.770 --> 0:00:32.130 The reason we're in a jail? Both. I'm the reason 0:00:32.170 --> 0:00:34.850 we're arrested and I'm gonna snitch. For sure. I'm gonna 0:00:34.870 --> 0:00:39.430 tell him myself? No, you're gonna rat us out. I 0:00:39.450 --> 0:00:41.030 don't know about that. And take us down with you. 0:00:41.050 --> 0:00:45.339 I don't know. Snitches get stitches. That's true. Okay, so 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:46.900 what did we do as a family? What did we 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:54.260 get arrested for as a family? We rocked too hard. Also, 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:59.130 we're like, you know, Halloween's past now. It's Thanksgiving time. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:01.770 It's the season of nearly Thanksgiving. Kevin's got 10, 12 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:03.450 Christmas trees up. Not yet. That's next week. 0:01:03.620 --> 0:01:03.870 Okay. 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:08.110 Your daughter is phenomenal at carving a pumpkin. Yeah, it's crazy. 0:01:08.170 --> 0:01:10.430 It's so impressive. Put her in a competition. 0:01:10.550 --> 0:01:14.250 We went over to, you know, Priyanka's cousin's house. Shout out, 0:01:14.330 --> 0:01:14.870 premium basket. 0:01:15.090 --> 0:01:15.619 Thanks for having us. 0:01:15.890 --> 0:01:16.100 Thank you. 0:01:16.110 --> 0:01:18.580 And they had pumpkins prepared and Alina got in there 0:01:18.590 --> 0:01:23.819 and started carving this pumpkin with such precision. 0:01:23.860 --> 0:01:24.820 It was mind-blowing. 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:28.800 She's very crafty. She made a Birthday gift for her 0:01:28.819 --> 0:01:30.830 best friend that lives down the street. She made an 0:01:30.890 --> 0:01:35.669 entire toilet bowl out of cardboard that each part that 0:01:35.690 --> 0:01:37.250 you would open had gifts inside. 0:01:37.410 --> 0:01:39.210 And it was silly and fun. Why did she do that? 0:01:39.650 --> 0:01:42.010 Because it's silly and fun. It's silly and fun. 0:01:42.270 --> 0:01:42.569 Oh, wow. 0:01:42.690 --> 0:01:45.650 That's fun. That is actually silly and fun. 0:01:46.450 --> 0:01:48.150 And it came with a fart machine, which is great. 0:01:48.410 --> 0:01:51.170 What's your thoughts on Friendsgiving versus Thanksgiving? I mean, like 0:01:51.210 --> 0:01:53.270 family giving. I've never done a Friendsgiving. 0:01:53.290 --> 0:01:57.510 I think Friendsgiving is important for those people that have... 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:00.980 trouble being around their family. I don't have trouble being 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:02.300 around my family. Or that don't get to be at 0:02:02.340 --> 0:02:04.180 that time of year. I choose not to be. That 0:02:04.220 --> 0:02:07.860 are not in a position to travel across the country. 0:02:08.060 --> 0:02:09.560 I'm in a position to travel across the country. I 0:02:09.580 --> 0:02:12.380 prefer to spend one big holiday with you guys. Are 0:02:12.419 --> 0:02:14.460 you giving us the hint right now that you are 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:15.900 going to be not spending it with us? 0:02:16.370 --> 0:02:19.049 I haven't been invited anywhere yet. You've been invited to 0:02:19.070 --> 0:02:21.850 my house three times. Nick's pretty much the only one 0:02:21.910 --> 0:02:24.070 for sure doing something. Not one person has invited me 0:02:24.090 --> 0:02:27.570 for their Thanksgiving. Literally three times. I'm going to start 0:02:27.790 --> 0:02:31.210 inviting you on the podcast. Wait, hold on. Are you 0:02:31.250 --> 0:02:34.650 officially having, that means you're officially having Thanksgiving at your home. 0:02:35.350 --> 0:02:37.310 I've always been having Thanksgiving at my home. Well, there's 0:02:37.370 --> 0:02:39.590 a chance we were going to be in Scottsdale. Maybe 0:02:40.030 --> 0:02:41.019 you have made this up. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:45.320 And my guests that I invited for Thanksgiving, this just happened. 0:02:45.380 --> 0:02:47.799 I called them yesterday and I said, Hey, just making 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:49.280 sure everything's good with your travel plans. 0:02:49.620 --> 0:02:52.520 Let me know if you need anything. And they said, Oh, well, 0:02:52.540 --> 0:02:54.239 Kevin said that you guys were thinking of going to, 0:02:54.460 --> 0:02:55.360 to Phoenix. 0:02:55.380 --> 0:02:55.540 Yeah. 0:02:56.410 --> 0:02:58.470 And I was like, I have never. That seems like 0:02:58.510 --> 0:03:01.000 a game of telephone that happened there. But it seems 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:04.440 like you. The last time we had this conversation. This 0:03:04.460 --> 0:03:10.429 was about me. Now you guys are making it about yourselves. Well, 0:03:10.470 --> 0:03:13.830 I'm sorry, Nick. You're invited. You're invited. Thank you. I 0:03:13.870 --> 0:03:17.210 appreciate that. I'll let you know. My people will talk 0:03:17.230 --> 0:03:21.430 to your people. Let's get to these voicemails. Voicemail brothers. 0:03:22.180 --> 0:03:24.829 If you've got a question, just leave it. 0:03:26.150 --> 0:03:29.050 All right, these voicemails today are presented by our friends 0:03:29.090 --> 0:03:29.490 at Hyundai. 0:03:29.870 --> 0:03:30.990 Hey, guys. 0:03:31.050 --> 0:03:33.950 This feels so surreal to say, but we are having 0:03:33.970 --> 0:03:37.290 baby number two in just a couple of months, and 0:03:37.310 --> 0:03:41.790 I am feeling, like, excited and nervous and really overwhelmed. 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:46.880 And my question for you, you know, a couple of 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.720 you have a couple kids, so I am wondering, like, 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:54.210 what was that transition like from one to two? Any 0:03:54.270 --> 0:03:57.650 advice or guidance as we step into this new role 0:03:57.690 --> 0:04:00.910 as a family of four? It feels a little crazy 0:04:00.930 --> 0:04:01.330 to say. 0:04:01.350 --> 0:04:01.630 Thanks. 0:04:02.430 --> 0:04:04.790 Congratulations. That's huge. 0:04:04.830 --> 0:04:05.050 Nice. 0:04:05.070 --> 0:04:08.770 That's massive. Four is great. You can still go in 0:04:08.790 --> 0:04:11.030 a convertible. You can still sit at a dinner table 0:04:11.070 --> 0:04:15.500 without a fifth chair. It's a row on an airplane. Yeah, exactly. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.180 You don't need an extra chair. You can be a 0:04:17.220 --> 0:04:18.980 table four. It's a four table four. So much easier. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:21.060 Reservations wise. 0:04:21.310 --> 0:04:23.190 I sometimes feel like before you get to like six, 0:04:23.420 --> 0:04:24.960 the world is built for four people. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:27.460 I think all the people that have five or six 0:04:27.500 --> 0:04:28.960 or seven kids might feel different. As you said, the 0:04:29.020 --> 0:04:31.500 world is built. Doesn't mean that's wrong. Okay, well, that's... 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:34.270 The world is built for four people. Put it together, yeah. 0:04:34.450 --> 0:04:35.110 Kevin Jonas. 0:04:35.630 --> 0:04:35.909 Great. 0:04:36.510 --> 0:04:42.029 Breaking news. I think advice... Well, look, ultimately, your journey 0:04:42.150 --> 0:04:44.900 is your journey. But I will say, from experience. 0:04:45.730 --> 0:04:46.860 You're definitely like better at it. 0:04:47.370 --> 0:04:49.430 You may not be great, but you're definitely... The second child. Yeah, 0:04:49.450 --> 0:04:51.050 you're definitely better at it. You know what to expect. 0:04:51.070 --> 0:04:53.510 You're like a little less worried. Okay, they're climbing a 0:04:53.529 --> 0:04:55.890 little bit on the chair. You're not as like, oh 0:04:55.910 --> 0:04:57.490 my God, oh my God, oh my God. A little 0:04:57.510 --> 0:05:00.010 bit more ease with it. You know the stuff not 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.479 to buy, the stuff to buy. And then you realize, 0:05:02.620 --> 0:05:04.820 really rely on those baby registries. 0:05:05.580 --> 0:05:09.020 Interesting. Rely on the baby. You lean in. Rely on it. 0:05:09.020 --> 0:05:09.960 Get those gifts, girl. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.659 Yeah. Yeah. 0:05:12.779 --> 0:05:16.650 We're talking, you know, Talking about baby, a Duna. A Duna. 0:05:17.290 --> 0:05:17.750 The Nuna. 0:05:17.870 --> 0:05:20.110 There's a Duna and a Nuna. The Nuna is the one. 0:05:20.710 --> 0:05:23.599 You know what baby cams to get, not to get? Yeah. 0:05:24.150 --> 0:05:25.640 That's really important. It's a racket. 0:05:25.779 --> 0:05:27.020 I'm just going to go ahead and say it. The 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.700 baby monitor thing is a farce. 0:05:30.460 --> 0:05:30.560 Aye. 0:05:31.300 --> 0:05:36.900 And it's, they're just overcharging you. And those things never work. 0:05:37.220 --> 0:05:39.020 What do you need to subscribe to a baby monitor? 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:40.140 I have to subscribe. 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.880 I have to consent to 25 different things. 0:05:43.940 --> 0:05:45.380 It's a lot of work. You know what we did? 0:05:45.740 --> 0:05:47.260 This is not sponsored by them, but I'm just going 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:48.860 to tell you. Eventually, we just went to Blue Rams. 0:05:49.580 --> 0:05:54.260 Those get on Amazon. They're reliable. They're inexpensive in comparison 0:05:54.350 --> 0:05:55.850 to the Babymoon. 0:05:55.870 --> 0:05:57.950 I agree. Very easy to hook up to new Wi-Fi. 0:05:57.970 --> 0:05:59.590 I have another piece of advice for them. 0:06:00.510 --> 0:06:03.810 Get that Babymoon trip in, but also do a separate 0:06:03.830 --> 0:06:05.570 little trip, even if it's just like a day out 0:06:06.170 --> 0:06:07.150 with your firstborn. 0:06:07.570 --> 0:06:09.110 It's a lot to think about. I think when. 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:12.539 I came into this world and was the greatest gift 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:14.260 to Kevin. He didn't realize that until years later. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:15.380 Very true. 0:06:15.660 --> 0:06:17.920 But when I showed up, he was like, oh, you 0:06:17.940 --> 0:06:20.240 guys were serious? And all your love and affection is 0:06:20.260 --> 0:06:21.320 going to be now on this thing? 0:06:21.339 --> 0:06:24.480 Yeah. It does take a minute, so you need to 0:06:24.500 --> 0:06:26.520 make sure to show some love. 0:06:27.220 --> 0:06:30.190 Democratize the love. Maybe get a gift for the older sibling. 0:06:30.820 --> 0:06:32.310 I was actually going to say that, Joe. But I 0:06:32.350 --> 0:06:35.609 said it first, technically. Because, you know, the older sibling 0:06:35.690 --> 0:06:37.690 maybe brings a gift for the new sibling. 0:06:37.710 --> 0:06:40.650 And then You have something. The baby gives a gift. 0:06:41.190 --> 0:06:42.290 The baby gives a gift to the news. 0:06:42.310 --> 0:06:44.670 Pops out with a Nerf gun. By the way, shoot 0:06:44.710 --> 0:06:46.190 lots of content. You don't know which one of these 0:06:46.250 --> 0:06:48.390 kids is going to be famous. You want to have 0:06:49.010 --> 0:06:52.060 stuff for the documentary. You can also get a, like, 0:06:52.100 --> 0:06:53.060 what's that line? 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.020 I'm kidding, but do it. Bit my finger. What's that line? 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:57.240 Charlie. 0:06:57.260 --> 0:06:59.539 Charlie bit my finger. You might get captured that moment. Okay, 0:06:59.750 --> 0:07:01.089 next one. You could go viral. 0:07:01.750 --> 0:07:06.570 Hey, guys. Love y'all. Love the pod. Love Listen When Sad. 0:07:06.610 --> 0:07:10.160 It's my top streamed song for the past four weeks, 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:11.360 so that's pretty exciting. 0:07:11.420 --> 0:07:12.520 Purvis. 0:07:12.620 --> 0:07:15.600 I just had a question. My fiance and I are 0:07:15.620 --> 0:07:19.670 getting married next September, and I need some honeymoon advice. 0:07:19.990 --> 0:07:24.720 He's very much a tourist attraction. do-something-everyday kind of guy, 0:07:24.740 --> 0:07:27.100 and I want to sit on the beach and read 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:30.620 my book and have a margarita in hand kind of girl. 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:33.100 Do you guys have any ideas of where we could 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:35.690 go or what we could do? Do we split it up? 0:07:36.490 --> 0:07:39.230 Just let me know your thoughts. Thanks, guys. Love the pod. 0:07:39.450 --> 0:07:40.110 This is a great question. 0:07:40.130 --> 0:07:41.350 This is a great question because I'm the type of 0:07:41.370 --> 0:07:44.170 person that's like, good morning, what are we doing? 0:07:44.630 --> 0:07:45.850 Even when you're on a beach vacation, though. 0:07:45.950 --> 0:07:48.230 Well, he's got to find the coffee shop that's, you know, 0:07:48.830 --> 0:07:50.480 only 10 minutes away, which is an hour and a 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:50.690 half away. 0:07:50.710 --> 0:07:52.760 I'll tell you, I have the answer. To this question. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.200 I have the answer. Depending on a budget, yes. Yeah, 0:07:56.230 --> 0:08:00.750 but it's all... It's all relative. Yeah, doable. What's your answer? 0:08:01.030 --> 0:08:04.990 The answer is go to Hawaii. And specifically, go to Oahu. So, 0:08:05.410 --> 0:08:07.450 I'll just say this. Depending on a budget. You can 0:08:07.570 --> 0:08:09.550 use airline points or miles. 0:08:09.610 --> 0:08:09.710 Yes. 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:12.300 Kevin will pay for it. He's now famous. But there's options. 0:08:13.100 --> 0:08:16.430 Somewhere like Oahu, you get the Hawaiian experience and the 0:08:16.460 --> 0:08:18.080 fun of the beach and all those things, but you 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:19.510 also do. 0:08:19.430 --> 0:08:22.230 Have stuff to do. And you kind of have to 0:08:22.290 --> 0:08:25.650 do it. Because you went all the way to Hawaii. 0:08:25.670 --> 0:08:27.490 You're like, oh my gosh, we went all the way 0:08:27.510 --> 0:08:29.490 to Hawaii. Why would we not go see that waterfall? 0:08:30.290 --> 0:08:32.090 But I don't think that's it, though. I don't think 0:08:32.130 --> 0:08:32.929 that's what she's saying. 0:08:33.210 --> 0:08:35.300 Maui is like that, where you could be like, oh, 0:08:36.130 --> 0:08:37.790 You want to chill on the beach? That's totally cool. 0:08:37.870 --> 0:08:38.429 It's chill. 0:08:38.490 --> 0:08:40.170 And we've been there. And you can go and do 0:08:40.530 --> 0:08:44.339 a luau. You can go do touristy things. I think 0:08:44.380 --> 0:08:46.300 she was looking for a little bit of who's right, 0:08:46.340 --> 0:08:48.140 who's wrong. But I think it's compromise here. And you're 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:49.300 going to have to go to a place you both get. 0:08:49.260 --> 0:08:50.300 A little something you want. You're going to have to 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:51.160 do a little bit of both. And so that's why 0:08:51.179 --> 0:08:52.620 your suggestion is. Buy him a paddle board and you lay. 0:08:52.580 --> 0:08:52.900 On the beach. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:53.579 Or how about this? 0:08:53.780 --> 0:08:57.210 If it's possible, Barcelona is another one of these places. 0:08:57.230 --> 0:09:00.410 You can have the tourist attraction experience. You can also 0:09:00.450 --> 0:09:01.510 be like, I just want to go chill on the 0:09:01.530 --> 0:09:02.770 beach and just chill. 0:09:03.130 --> 0:09:03.330 Yeah. 0:09:03.890 --> 0:09:06.110 Maybe have some tapas. We had a great time in 0:09:06.150 --> 0:09:08.000 Barcelona last time we were there. Oh, I always have 0:09:08.010 --> 0:09:09.680 a good time. I love Barcelona. It's one of my 0:09:09.700 --> 0:09:10.120 favorite cities. 0:09:10.460 --> 0:09:10.640 Same. 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:14.080 Top three. Top three. Name them. One, two, three. No 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:17.020 particular order. Yeah, this is just... Yeah, okay. Top three 0:09:17.140 --> 0:09:17.620 in no order. 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:18.319 In no order. 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:19.209 Barcelona. 0:09:19.420 --> 0:09:19.610 Yep. 0:09:19.660 --> 0:09:23.410 Barcelona. Tokyo. Tokyo. And third? New York City. 0:09:23.990 --> 0:09:24.210 All right. 0:09:24.410 --> 0:09:27.470 To visit, because I live in Miami. Mine is Barcelona. 0:09:28.290 --> 0:09:29.929 In no particular order. Paris. 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:30.200 Paris. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:33.179 Yeah, that was going to be a close third. It 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.660 can't be. It's a little predictable, but it's an incredible place. 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.740 It's Paris. I'm going to say. 0:09:39.940 --> 0:09:40.160 Nice. 0:09:42.179 --> 0:09:42.820 Or Florence. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:43.660 Okay. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:51.110 If you had two, then I'll have to. I'll say Paris, too. Okay. Devin? Wow. Barcelona. Orlando. 0:09:51.950 --> 0:09:52.090 No. 0:09:52.309 --> 0:09:56.930 Well, I love Orlando. Nassau, Bahamas. Exumas was actually on 0:09:56.950 --> 0:09:59.230 my list. But Tuscany. Tuscany. 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:00.459 Yeah. 0:10:00.900 --> 0:10:01.240 Tuscany. 0:10:01.340 --> 0:10:05.880 Can't beat it. And it is the Exumas. Bahamas. Okay, 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:06.480 roll it. 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:12.370 Hey, guys. I have two boys. They're preteen, and they're 0:10:12.450 --> 0:10:15.410 pretty close in age. And I'm a single mom trying 0:10:15.429 --> 0:10:16.790 to sort of figure. 0:10:16.610 --> 0:10:17.809 Out how to. 0:10:18.710 --> 0:10:21.689 teach them some of the things that normally a dad 0:10:21.750 --> 0:10:26.710 would teach the boys to do, like shaving and just 0:10:26.790 --> 0:10:32.050 sort of, you know, general upkeep of their appearance. So 0:10:32.110 --> 0:10:34.569 I was wondering if you had any tips for a 0:10:34.630 --> 0:10:37.510 single mom on how to sort of, you know, broach 0:10:37.570 --> 0:10:39.790 this topic and what I should be teaching them. 0:10:39.809 --> 0:10:40.910 Thanks so much. 0:10:41.210 --> 0:10:45.570 Organic brand integration moment. Don't mind if I do. As 0:10:45.610 --> 0:10:48.730 you both know, I have a relationship with Schick. Oh, 0:10:48.910 --> 0:10:50.370 I've been working with shake now for about a year 0:10:50.390 --> 0:10:53.350 and did commercial, did some, some stuff with them. Um, 0:10:54.250 --> 0:10:56.429 I would say that there are some videos that I've 0:10:56.450 --> 0:10:59.329 actually posted about how I shave, clean up my neck and, uh, 0:11:00.250 --> 0:11:02.910 my cheeks and all that. That could be a way 0:11:02.929 --> 0:11:05.490 into the conversation if they like Nick, if they like 0:11:05.550 --> 0:11:07.360 Nick and if they like shake, which I'm sure they will. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:09.960 Um, shake notice, but to back. 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:13.620 It up one degree, single mothers out there, you're superheroes. 0:11:13.700 --> 0:11:16.940 We love you. Shout out, shout out to you. And, uh, 0:11:17.990 --> 0:11:19.130 I think you're going to be able to figure this 0:11:19.190 --> 0:11:22.050 out perfectly because you know what? There's no math or 0:11:22.730 --> 0:11:23.890 rule book on how. 0:11:25.410 --> 0:11:26.750 To raise kids. Exactly. 0:11:27.070 --> 0:11:29.890 And the other thing I would say is that, you know, 0:11:29.929 --> 0:11:36.359 something as significant as shaving in someone's life doesn't need 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:38.980 to just be a male teaching a male how to 0:11:39.020 --> 0:11:41.500 do that. It could be a really unique experience, I think, 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:45.340 for you and your sons to connect and grow together 0:11:45.420 --> 0:11:47.900 and just be something that That becomes a really wonderful 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:52.020 memory down the road. I recall simple things like grooming 0:11:52.179 --> 0:11:55.500 my fingernails, for instance. Dad would do it with us 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:57.359 when we were younger, but then as I got older, 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:00.599 Mom also taught me how to keep up grooming and 0:12:00.620 --> 0:12:01.920 things like that. It just really meant a lot that 0:12:01.940 --> 0:12:03.660 we could also share in those moments. 0:12:04.570 --> 0:12:07.990 Hats off to you. Jokes aside, there are. 0:12:07.950 --> 0:12:12.990 Some great resources online, both on my feed and other 0:12:13.070 --> 0:12:17.429 places to learn about shaving and the nuances of that. 0:12:17.790 --> 0:12:21.240 Shaving party. But yeah, the Shake Hydro limited edition is 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:22.940 pretty nice. Want to check that out? Check it out 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.540 on Amazon. You'd be like, let's all shave our bodies today. Yeah, 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.520 shaving party. Let's roll the next one. 0:12:28.820 --> 0:12:32.030 Hey guys, this is Brittany. So I need advice. What 0:12:32.090 --> 0:12:36.329 do you guys do when you feel stuck and you 0:12:36.530 --> 0:12:40.650 need momentum to uplift yourself and your spirit? Because I 0:12:40.790 --> 0:12:45.050 often feel like I am behind. I'm 31 for context. 0:12:45.500 --> 0:12:50.800 I haven't finished my undergrad, not married, or started a 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.700 family like others my age. And last year, I just 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:57.939 got out of a relationship, very much necessary for my 0:12:58.020 --> 0:13:00.360 personal well-being. So I've taken the time to basically work 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:05.460 on myself, self-care, reset my nervous system after picking up 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:09.180 the pieces, all that fun stuff that I needed to do. 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:13.290 But now one of my best friends is getting remarried 0:13:13.670 --> 0:13:18.030 after being divorced. And I'm kind of back in that 0:13:18.830 --> 0:13:21.570 lowly feeling of feeling stuck. So I guess I'm just 0:13:21.590 --> 0:13:24.490 trying to ask what you guys do when you feel 0:13:24.530 --> 0:13:28.280 like you need uplifting of your spirit to get away 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:30.679 from the feeling of being stuck. How do I get 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:35.260 myself unstuck? So I love you guys. I can't wait 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.179 to see everything that you do. Thank you. 0:13:37.580 --> 0:13:40.050 Well, we appreciate the call. And we love you, first 0:13:40.070 --> 0:13:41.429 of all. For sure. 0:13:42.130 --> 0:13:46.309 It's a tough thing to navigate, the feeling of being stuck. 0:13:47.330 --> 0:13:50.610 I think it sort of means different things for everybody. 0:13:50.630 --> 0:13:53.050 I can only speak to my experience. When I feel 0:13:53.130 --> 0:13:56.740 stuck in a situation, it's often when an event has 0:13:56.770 --> 0:14:02.320 happened that has caused me to fall into a pattern of, frankly, 0:14:02.460 --> 0:14:05.110 feeling bad for myself and wanting to stay in it, 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.179 even if I don't realize it. 0:14:08.410 --> 0:14:10.309 Um, and I, I've only ever. 0:14:10.190 --> 0:14:13.369 Been able to come out of that by way of 0:14:14.210 --> 0:14:16.569 engaging in meaningful and real conversation with people that, that 0:14:16.790 --> 0:14:20.650 love me and that I love. Um, and not just 0:14:20.690 --> 0:14:25.560 seeking advice or, you know, a comforting conversation, but actually 0:14:26.940 --> 0:14:29.800 just laughing or talking about life or reminiscing about better 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:34.360 times really does, I think, help you have some perspective 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:36.930 that you, you don't need to stay in it. 0:14:37.340 --> 0:14:38.780 Um, It's not serving you. 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:43.860 And, you know, the first step towards health is in 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:45.640 looking at the people you love and just saying, hey, 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:47.940 I need to laugh today or I need to cry 0:14:48.180 --> 0:14:50.640 or I need to get out of the house. Whatever 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.300 it is, I think I would implore you to do that. 0:14:53.540 --> 0:14:55.830 Reach out to the people you love and that love you. Secondly, 0:14:56.470 --> 0:14:58.590 when it comes to dating and things like that, timing 0:14:58.650 --> 0:15:02.230 is different for everybody. And, you know, you can't really 0:15:02.710 --> 0:15:04.570 draw out the perfect roadmap or thing that you think 0:15:04.630 --> 0:15:06.170 it's supposed to be because. 0:15:05.950 --> 0:15:08.910 It isn't that. Well said. Really well said. 0:15:09.130 --> 0:15:13.010 And also, you know, I think like, remind yourself that 0:15:14.390 --> 0:15:17.290 you're on your own journey. You know, you have your 0:15:17.590 --> 0:15:20.170 family dinner and be like, you're so lovely. When are 0:15:20.220 --> 0:15:23.860 you going to settle down? And it's like, awesome grandma. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:24.540 Thank you so much. 0:15:24.580 --> 0:15:27.020 Like I really needed to hear that too. And now 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:30.640 can you pass mashed potatoes? That doesn't feel great, but 0:15:30.660 --> 0:15:32.900 also you're on your own journey. And I think at 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:34.100 the end of the day, there's a core of is like, 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.330 people want to see you happy, but, You got to 0:15:36.350 --> 0:15:38.710 be happy with yourself before you step into a relationship 0:15:39.670 --> 0:15:42.530 or it's going to be this kind of cycle of like, well, 0:15:43.270 --> 0:15:44.820 I don't feel my best because I haven't been taking 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:45.620 care of myself the best. 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.620 So whatever makes you happiest. And yeah, be around the 0:15:48.660 --> 0:15:49.100 right people. 0:15:49.300 --> 0:15:51.800 Find that core group of people and like less of 0:15:51.820 --> 0:15:53.580 the shit talking friends because that can also be a 0:15:53.580 --> 0:15:56.680 little bit of like clouds in your head and heads 0:15:56.700 --> 0:15:57.100 in your clouds. 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.180 Well, yeah, your head is in the clouds. I know 0:15:59.210 --> 0:16:02.330 what you meant. Yeah, thank you. But you got this, girl. 0:16:02.610 --> 0:16:02.970 You got it. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:05.240 All right, we have to get on stage soon, so 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.520 let's jump ahead here to voicemail number 10. I think 0:16:08.540 --> 0:16:09.980 it's a fun question, and I also want to know 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:10.360 the answer. 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:14.780 Hey, I have a question for Joe. What does Bing 0:16:14.820 --> 0:16:17.950 Bing Bong mean? That would be really helpful if you 0:16:17.970 --> 0:16:19.350 could answer that. Thanks. Bye. 0:16:20.290 --> 0:16:24.670 What does it mean? What doesn't it mean? I was 0:16:24.750 --> 0:16:29.970 hoping you would say that. What doesn't it mean? Bing 0:16:30.010 --> 0:16:37.270 Bing Bong lives on. It's everything and nothing. It's going in, 0:16:37.370 --> 0:16:41.350 going out. I don't like that one. It's in fashion. 0:16:42.050 --> 0:16:45.400 It's out of fashion. The beginning, middle, and end. I'm 0:16:45.460 --> 0:16:51.740 Shane Gray for crying out loud. It's obtuse. It's the anniversary. 0:16:52.340 --> 0:16:55.660 It's the engagement. It's giving thanks. 0:16:56.660 --> 0:17:00.640 It's... serving it's bing bing bong thank you anyway i 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.740 hope that answer i hope that doesn't answer and answers 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.080 the question all at once it's actually it kind of 0:17:06.140 --> 0:17:08.409 is the answer though it is the answer it is 0:17:08.450 --> 0:17:11.489 the answer i've been asked this by people like it's 0:17:11.550 --> 0:17:14.090 everything it's it's all of it. 0:17:15.570 --> 0:17:17.379 And in that moment, Joe was feeling all of it. 0:17:17.490 --> 0:17:21.879 We need Neil deGrasse Tyson on the podcast to speak specifically. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:23.500 About Bing Bing Bong. Break it down. What does it 0:17:23.540 --> 0:17:25.800 mean to you? Well, guys, this was a blast. 0:17:25.980 --> 0:17:28.800 This was so fun. And there's some voicemails we didn't 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.580 get to. So on our next episode of the voicemail episode. 0:17:31.619 --> 0:17:35.150 We'll have to do a double parked. That's like, you know. 0:17:35.590 --> 0:17:39.970 Yeah. You know all about parking cars. Wait, wait. 0:17:40.010 --> 0:17:40.330 Hold on. 0:17:40.910 --> 0:17:42.630 Did you hit a cone while driving in New York 0:17:42.850 --> 0:17:44.450 with Nick in the city the other day? 0:17:44.850 --> 0:17:45.270 No, we didn't. 0:17:46.050 --> 0:17:46.190 Why? 0:17:46.210 --> 0:17:47.430 Why are you bringing this up? I didn't. 0:17:47.570 --> 0:17:47.750 No. 0:17:47.830 --> 0:17:48.050 Okay. 0:17:48.230 --> 0:17:48.410 Why? 0:17:49.030 --> 0:17:49.290 No reason. 0:17:49.350 --> 0:17:52.340 Is someone making AI videos of Joe hitting cones? Is 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:53.980 somebody talking shit at me? 0:17:54.020 --> 0:17:54.220