1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: And welcome back to Coast to Coast George Norrieback with 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: doctor Christopher Kerr. His website is linked up at Coast 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: to coastam dot com. Chris, of the people who are 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 2: at the dying stage, what generally is taking them down? 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 2: What affliction do they have? Is it cancer? 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? It was pretty representative across the board. Cancer is 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 3: certainly a number, but a lot of heart and lung 9 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: disease as well, and more and more we're seeing people 10 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 3: live longer with multiple comer abidities. But yes, cancer is 11 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 3: highly represented. 12 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 2: Have you ever seen a patient pull out of it 13 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: completely where everybody thought that including them, that they were 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: going to die and they still kept going. 15 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen a few in my life. I think 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: that oftentimes there was a misdiagnosis, but there are certainly 17 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: kind of unexplainable changes in the trajectory of certain people's illness. 18 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Explain how they find love and insight with this 19 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: pre death situation that comes to them in dreams and visions? 20 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 2: How does that come as what it's it? 21 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: I think a couple of things are important. One is there. 22 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 3: They describe these experiences as virtual or lived. They're they're 23 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 3: not merely memories. So so it has this lived feeling 24 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: to it. And with that because of the themes they're 25 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: they're they're reconnecting with people they loved, a parent, a 26 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 3: child that they they they feel a sense of being restored, 27 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: of feeling lost love that kind of returns to them, 28 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 3: of being put back together, and and that's that's really 29 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: the meaning of it. 30 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: Is there anything religious about this at all? With them? 31 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 3: You know, this is something we wrestled with, but others 32 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: have reported the same thing. We don't see a lot 33 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 3: of reference to the symbols of religion, but certainly with 34 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: the tenets of the faith. So if the tenants of faith, 35 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 3: our love, and forgiveness, those are those are the overarching themes. 36 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: The family members, the people who of course are related 37 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: to the person who's dying, how do they react with 38 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: all of this. 39 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 3: So we've done two studies involving about seven hundred and 40 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 3: fifty breed family members, and the best way to say 41 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: it is that what's good for the patient is also 42 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 3: good for their loved one. I how people leave us 43 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: matters whether we see death as something just as a 44 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 3: physical lessening or suffering, or whether we see something else 45 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 3: that's not as empty and as limiting. I think that 46 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 3: you know, if you have two partners and someone's dying 47 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 3: in the bed and they lost a child decades earlier, 48 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 3: in the person in the beds referencing that child, that 49 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 3: very much changes how death is viewed. Rather than something 50 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 3: that's empty, it's it's it's it's full of something with meaning. 51 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: And that's what our surveys showed. In fact, we looked 52 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 3: at an instrument that measures how people grieve in healthy 53 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: versus unhealthy ways, and people who witness these experiences absolutely 54 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: remembered differently, moved on differently, were able to recall differently. 55 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 3: So it's it's a very healthy thing. 56 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: Chris, have you videotaped many of the patients? 57 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, we have. It was as mentioned, it was meant 58 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 3: for doctors, and we knew everyone would have this preconceived 59 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 3: bias about what a dying patient looked like, right, that 60 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,119 Speaker 3: they would be feeble minded, confused, So we were very 61 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: deliberative in filming patients. And it's kind of funny because 62 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: it was meant for physicians and lectures and it ended 63 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: up as part of a Netflix documentaries and a PBS documentary. 64 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 2: Do most of the people who are at the dying 65 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 2: stage think that there's life after death? 66 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 3: It's a great question, and we were really careful not 67 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 3: to delve into the interpretation of this. So we were 68 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: just wanted to take their words and experiences and transcribe it, 69 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 3: because you could go to a number of directions, right 70 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: you go towards religion, after life, paranormal, et cetera. I 71 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: think what's most important is they didn't get a sense 72 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 3: of finality. They don't talk in those terms. They don't 73 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 3: talk in terms of fear. I guess the best way 74 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 3: to say it is there's something within the dying. It's 75 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:05,919 Speaker 3: actually life affirming, So it doesn't deny the dyings occurring, 76 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 3: but rather instead it affirms the life that was led. 77 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: Knowing what you know what generally would be more acceptable 78 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: to be knowing you're dying and you'd have a few 79 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: weeks to prepare, you know, through these insights, or to 80 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: somebody who just dies suddenly and they're gone. Oh. 81 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 3: I prefer would prefer the former for a few reasons. 82 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 3: I think it's a completely different injury to leave people abruptly. Yeah, 83 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 3: I think that there's important living to do. In the 84 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 3: dying process. I think we see some of the best 85 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 3: of our human nature. I see, we see people who 86 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: may not have hope for cure, but their hope transitions 87 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 3: to other people. There's gestures of love, there's selflessness, selflessness. 88 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 3: So I think that it's meant to be that way, 89 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: and that's so profound. Living goes and we see this 90 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 3: in caregiving. You know, people are going along with their 91 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: lives and all of a sudden they stop and the 92 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 3: adult child is now caring for their parents who needs them. 93 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 3: So we see, we see incredible acts of kindness, of compassion, 94 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 3: and you know what our caregivers will say is it's 95 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 3: kind of the best hardest thing they ever did. So 96 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:43,799 Speaker 3: I think depriving people of all of that, of of 97 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 3: of of saying what needs to be said, of sharing 98 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 3: the very special moments together, of remembrance, I think that's 99 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 3: really important. So yeah, no, I think, I think. I 100 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 3: think it's much harder to die suddenly it leaves a 101 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 3: different wound. 102 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: What have you learned by this process that you didn't 103 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: know prior to. 104 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 3: I think I you know, I trained in a very 105 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 3: traditional medical model, and I saw dying as almost medical failure, 106 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: as a problem to solve, and I looked at it 107 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: in terms of organ function rather than what it really is, 108 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: a very human event and a closing of a life. 109 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: I certainly didn't start with a bias towards trying to 110 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:37,239 Speaker 3: understand or appreciate the spiritual aspects of living and dying. 111 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 3: And I think, you know, you can't come out of 112 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: this without being very moved by all that. I think 113 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: there's a better story. I think that I'm just so 114 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 3: impressed with how people do this and what they're capable of. 115 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 3: So I learned a lot. 116 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: Do any of those that are ready to die talk 117 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: about being visited by other we had relatives or family 118 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: members to kind of comfort them. 119 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the majority of the reports. We get far 120 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: and away, So we ask people on a menu list, 121 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 3: you know, pick what it is you're seeing and far 122 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: and away. And that was actually the most predictive variable 123 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 3: of impending death. So not only do the frequencies of 124 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 3: these pre death dreams and visions increases people get close 125 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 3: to death, but most importantly, they focus on specifically on 126 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 3: people who they've loved and lost, and when we ask 127 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 3: them to measure comfort, as in terms of what they 128 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 3: were seeing. Seeing the deceased gave them the greatest comfort, 129 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 3: and they're just some fascinating features. And this comes out 130 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 3: in our videos. You know, very little is said between 131 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: the dreamer and the person in the dream, but everything 132 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: seems to be understood or implied, you know. So we 133 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 3: see ninety five year old men who've lost their mother 134 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 3: when they were five. You know, it's it's it's her 135 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 3: presence that they feel, Smell the perfume, the cooking in 136 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 3: the kitchen, so all this remembrance is again this idea 137 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:13,359 Speaker 3: being put back together. So seeing the deseases overwhelmingly comfortable, comforting, 138 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 3: highly predictive of impending death. 139 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 2: What can you conclude by that, the fact that they 140 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: see their loved ones who are passed on. 141 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 3: I think it's a great question. I think where I 142 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 3: end up is this. I think I'm impressed that time 143 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 3: and distance seem to kind of vanish, and that those 144 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 3: who we've loved, who have been so formative to us 145 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 3: are never really gone. They're still accessible, they're still proximate 146 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 3: to us, and and and the depth of that feeling 147 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 3: doesn't vanish. It does when we're well, And it's a 148 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 3: distant memory, but not towards the end. It seems to 149 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 3: come back to people in a very profound way. 150 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: Does the age chris of the person who's dying have 151 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: anything to do with how they react? 152 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 3: Very much. There's absolutely a difference between people whose lives 153 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 3: are kind of unfinished. So somebody who has young children 154 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 3: when others are dependent on you, I think that that's 155 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 3: a different burden as to oppose to somebody who's their 156 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 3: ninth decade, who's tired, who many of the people who 157 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: they've loved have died, whose quality of life is diminished. 158 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 3: There's a different level of ease and grace. So yeah, 159 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 3: very different. 160 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: Do you see a difference between people with various ailments 161 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: dementia versus cancer or anything like that. 162 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 3: It's really interesting people who are kind of neuro different, 163 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 3: such as dementia, they'll often do this in very interesting ways. 164 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 3: You know. We have a fascinating video of a daughter 165 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: whose mother was very advanced to mention a dementia unit actually, 166 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 3: and towards the end of her life her husband had 167 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 3: predeceased her, and towards the end of her life, every 168 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 3: time she closed her eyes, she would relive the love 169 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: that she shared with her husband in a way that 170 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: he was experienced. So the daughter would go see her 171 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 3: demented mother and she'd just be full of life and 172 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 3: love and laughter. And she had a foot more in 173 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 3: that world with her deceased husband. And towards the end, 174 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 3: we lived near Niagara Falls, the wedding capital, and so 175 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 3: towards the end, the woman, the mother with dementia, is 176 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 3: caught trying to leave the building. This is days before death, 177 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 3: because she was trying to get to her husband because 178 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 3: it was her wedding day. So again the most meaningful 179 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 3: parts of living had come to her. And what's fascinating 180 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 3: is where you would expect escalating kind of psychological distress from, 181 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 3: you know, worsening physical conditions, she's dying. Instead, she's feeling 182 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 3: reclaimed love. And of course the effect is had on 183 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 3: the daughter was immense, because what this tends to do 184 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 3: is connect us to one another, daughter to mother, to 185 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 3: deceased father, so that lives, whether they're living or dead, 186 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 3: are remain interwoven because they kind of returned to them. 187 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: What did you learn about this that you did not 188 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: know before? 189 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 3: Oh? I again, I thought as a physician, I thought 190 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 3: of dying in terms of in physical dimensions, without really 191 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: any appreciation that the patient. The view from the bed 192 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: was different. I was looking at a body, and yes 193 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: I was concerned whether there was pain or nausea, But 194 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 3: I didn't have an appreciation that the person who's dying 195 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 3: had a view and a perspective and an experience and 196 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 3: an inner experience that really I would have no appreciation of. 197 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: And what was fascinating I think what got me truly 198 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 3: interested in this. I was almost off put by it 199 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 3: at the beginning. I don't I'm not naturally bent towards 200 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 3: this stuff. But what was so undeniable was that it 201 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 3: was clearly so therapeutic for people, and so who was 202 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: I to discount it or get stuck on where does 203 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 3: it come from? You know, where's the source of this? 204 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 3: I think what ultimately matters is not that I understand it, 205 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 3: but that it matters to our patients. 206 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 2: How many die without pain? 207 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 3: Christopher, Oh, vast majority of our patients die without pain. 208 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 3: Pain is probably the if you were told, for example, 209 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 3: you had a terminal illness. I think one of the intuitively, instinctly, 210 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 3: one of our mind immediately goes to fear, for fear 211 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 3: of suffering. But nature takes care of a lot of us, 212 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 3: so there's not many pains that we don't get the 213 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 3: upper hand on, and a lot of the pains take 214 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 3: care of themselves. You know, people who have pain getting 215 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 3: around are now bed bound, etc. I think what we 216 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: see more of is confusional states delirium than we do 217 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 3: physical pain that we can't manage. 218 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: If you were to do your studies over, is there 219 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 2: anything you would alter or would you keep the same? 220 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I would, and I think we're doing that now. 221 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 3: I think we would ask better questions, deeper questions, so 222 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 3: you know, what do these experience? How do these experience 223 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 3: inform you? What does this change, for example, about what 224 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: you think about dying or what goes beyond death. So 225 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 3: you tried to get a better understanding of how the 226 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 3: patient makes sense of this. We did a really interesting 227 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: study where we looked at there's a scale of measurement 228 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 3: for post traumatic growth, So the idea that you can 229 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: be in a negative experience like war but still have 230 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 3: there's positive experience and growth in it, for example, friendships 231 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 3: that from the camaraderie being in war, And we looked 232 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 3: at that with dying patients who are having these experience, 233 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: and it was fascinating. They did show growth, So even 234 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 3: though they're diminishing and fading from us, they're growing and adapting, 235 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 3: gaining insights largely from these experiences. So I think that's fascinating. 236 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: So I think the meaningfulness having the patient to find 237 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 3: that for us becomes very important. And that's across the board. 238 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: So what does this mean, for example, for your religious convictions, 239 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 3: your thoughts on continued consciousness, those sort of things. 240 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 2: Were you shocked by any of the results. 241 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, almost all of them. I was. I continue to 242 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 3: be blown away by how the people can recall with 243 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 3: such vividness earlier experiences that might otherwise be lost. 244 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 2: I get it. 245 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at 246 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: one am Eastern and go to Coast to coastam dot 247 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: com for more