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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the COLO, our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building right now. This is from

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Speaker 1: Tia in Youngstown. Tia writes, I went to a work

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Speaker 1: conference and the food at the hotel was bad, so

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Speaker 1: I ordered two bottles of wine, some wings, and a

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Speaker 1: big cheese tray. My husband flew in the next day,

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Speaker 1: and he assumed I had company the day before. Should

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Speaker 1: I entertain his foolishness?

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Speaker 2: I mean you got to say something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why would you leave your husband thinking that you

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Speaker 3: had you had company and you didn't. Why don't you

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Speaker 3: just tell him what really happened? Should I entertain his foolishness?

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. Let's just reverse that. You fly

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Speaker 3: in to see your husband and he got cheese, trade,

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Speaker 3: two bottles of wine.

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Speaker 2: There's some chicken wing yummy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you would have them do one to you. I

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Speaker 3: would take some time to explain it to this man.

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Speaker 3: It looks two bottles of wine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just first comfort level.

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Speaker 2: You're right, A big cheese tray.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. She does what she said, A big cheese tray.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hooter, all right, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Aaron in Shreveport. Aaron says, my wife

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Speaker 1: and I went to a party and she was smiling

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Speaker 1: all up in another man's face. I made it a

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Speaker 1: point to introduce myself to him, and I told him

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Speaker 1: that Pam is my wife. He said he didn't know

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Speaker 1: a Pam. Was he trying to throw me off? What

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Speaker 1: is Pam up to?

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Speaker 2: Come on, Pam, bruh? How you how you asking me?

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Speaker 2: I know what Pam up to? The dude told you

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Speaker 2: he don't know no Pam.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but he ain't your problem though, right Pam? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: talk to Pam because he don't know Pam. But obviously

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Speaker 3: Pam know him. You need to talk to Pam. She

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Speaker 3: wasn't running up on these dudes for he said, he's

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Speaker 3: not married to your wife?

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Speaker 2: You are? You and your wife took the vials? He

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Speaker 2: ain't took no vows.

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Speaker 1: So what is Bam up to? What do you think?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what Pam up to? But she grinted

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Speaker 3: in this man's face and he the road.

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Speaker 2: He can Yeah, yeah, just like you just I don't

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Speaker 2: know who he is.

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Speaker 3: But I think that you do the situation that garment.

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Speaker 3: Who is he and what is he to you?

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Speaker 1: Pam?

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Speaker 2: A man we passed has tried to still be down

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Speaker 2: and when how I.

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Speaker 3: Looked at you, you looked at at the ground.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a song?

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Speaker 1: Fair all right, We're gonna move on now to Vanessa

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Speaker 1: and Heart. Vanessa writes, I'm dating a guy that's engaged,

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Speaker 1: but he said he's not going to get married. I

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Speaker 1: feel bad for this dance because she doesn't know. On Facebook,

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Speaker 1: it's all she talks about. I told him he's being

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Speaker 1: cruel by waiting to break it off. What's taking him

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Speaker 1: so long?

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Speaker 3: Wow? You you the one? You can you know? Are

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Speaker 3: you stupid? Peter gave you the information to keep you

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Speaker 3: playing along?

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Speaker 2: He gonna marry that girl tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Peter told you he ain't getting married. He just ain't

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Speaker 3: getting married right now? Why while he giveing it to you?

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Speaker 3: But he gonna marry that girl.

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Speaker 1: But she feels badly for the fiance though.

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Speaker 2: You're stupid.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, you're dating a man who's given you just

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Speaker 3: the information you need to keep giving him what he

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Speaker 3: needs and won't And now it's gonna be over for you.

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Speaker 2: They gonna get married.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's waiting for him to break it off with

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Speaker 1: the fiancee.

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Speaker 2: That's what she's little.

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Speaker 3: Little girl, Little girl, you would be the fiance if

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Speaker 3: this was going.

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Speaker 1: Somehow, Okay, all right, I like that again. Say that again,

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Speaker 1: Say that again.

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Speaker 3: Make sure I just forgot if you was the one,

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Speaker 3: you would be the fiance. You're not the one. She's

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Speaker 3: the fiance. She's getting married. And I didn't know you

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Speaker 3: could keep telling people that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think too. With young girls, a young woman,

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Speaker 2: sometimes they just don't know.

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Speaker 3: You don't know.

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Speaker 2: May be awake up, call you know.

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Speaker 3: This guy has given you the piece of information you

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Speaker 3: need that will keep you on the hook.

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Speaker 2: That's it. He'd have done.

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Speaker 3: Everything, first of all the mass So anyway, has he

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Speaker 3: broke up with the fiance?

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Speaker 2: Is that on face?

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Speaker 3: Because since she posted everything about the wedding when she pays,

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Speaker 3: he's getting hesitant. He cold feet, ain't heard none of that.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to think and he got cold feet,

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Speaker 3: and he don't you know why you don't have cold feet,

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Speaker 3: because you're keeping them warm to you, keeping them warm

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Speaker 3: into the wedding.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna get the cold shoulder.

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Speaker 3: And then he gonna say he had to because he

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Speaker 3: felt pressured, but he always wanted you, and he regrets

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Speaker 3: the decision, and then that may be enough to make

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Speaker 3: you stay on board as the mistress promote you.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, so even beyond the ment wow?

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Speaker 3: Okay, way, yes, it's levels to this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hear all.

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Speaker 1: Right, lest one and last one, Felo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Dewanda and Charleston. Dewanda writes, I got a text from

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Speaker 1: an old friend and she asked me to borrow some money.

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Speaker 1: She is having a financial crisis, but she didn't give

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Speaker 1: any details. She opened up to our other friend who

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Speaker 1: told me, should I tell her to go ask that

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Speaker 1: girl for the money?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I don't know. What does she

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Speaker 3: do it make if she told you what it was for?

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Speaker 3: She just says she having a financial crisis. She tells

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Speaker 3: certain people certain things.

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Speaker 1: But when you're lending money, don't you want to know

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Speaker 1: or you don't have to know you're saying what it's for.

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Speaker 3: Look, if you don't want to help the lady, Dan

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Speaker 3: tell her you can't do it. What are you looking

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Speaker 3: for a reason not to give it to her or

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Speaker 3: reason to help her? And if you look for a

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Speaker 3: reason not to give it to it, then your reason

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Speaker 3: is she told your other friend what it was about it?

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Speaker 3: She never told you? Okay, so now, don't give it

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Speaker 3: to her. You really don't want to give her the money.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like it. So go ahead.

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Speaker 1: If if we ask you for some money, do we

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Speaker 1: have to tell you what it's for?

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Speaker 2: No, we don't. No, he's just gonna say no.

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Speaker 1: Don't you see that, He's just gonna say no.

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Speaker 2: I'm in a hole. I need five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: If you want to crist the situation and you asked

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Speaker 3: me for help, I would help anybody on this show.

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Speaker 1: You see it's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: I need five grand

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