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Come celebrate 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: Mother's Day at Whole Foods Market. 10 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are. 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 3: A hot Listen to the rhyme it's a black date 13 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: fat percentile rate of date rape is fat. This is 14 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 3: all true to the reasons of the Skezins. You got 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 3: the right picking, but you're in the wrong season. If 16 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 3: you're in the wrong season, that mean you gotta break. 17 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: Especially if a squad tries to cry out rape. You'll 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: be y'all vexed because you got it going on. You 19 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 3: don't want to fight because you know that you're wrong, 20 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 3: so instead you rest your head on the arm of 21 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: the couch. Envision in your ahead of a great sex beout. Hey, 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: welcome to the Blackout Tess podcast. Your host Rod ed 23 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 3: Karen Saturday Morning feedback time. Yes, sir, if you're listening 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 3: to this episode, you should already know all the stuff 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 3: like this. The black Out Tips find on iTunes and Stitcher. 26 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: Leave us five star reviews on i Tunes of Stitcher. 27 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 3: We didn't get any five star reviews this week on 28 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 3: either platform. 29 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 4: Oh shame on you for imus. 30 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 5: Said, not even one said did you take Canada too? 31 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 4: Yep, nobody loves us, Karen, we have exhausted. 32 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 5: We're five stars. 33 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: No mo Yeah, people taking Christmas break from reviewing us, 34 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: but uh yeah, no five star reviews this week. But 35 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 3: you can leave five star reviews on iTunes and Stitcher 36 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 3: and we read them on the show regardless of content. 37 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 3: So if you hate the show even this is a 38 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 3: good time to get it in. Leave us five stars 39 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: and we can talk about how much you hate us. 40 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 3: But if you love the show, it's also a great time. 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 3: It's Christmas time, the time of giving, and much better 42 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: than giving someone five stars. 43 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 5: Yes, it didn't cost you a dime. 44 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 3: And you can also go on the Blackout Test dot 45 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 3: com leave comments, voting the post, join our premium section, 46 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 3: like we would love people to listen to the premium shows. 47 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 3: We did a new episode of Balls Deep yesterday with 48 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 3: b Cold aka Negro, and it was very fun. 49 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 4: Man. We had a good time. We fit right in. 50 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: I think people enjoy that show. We got extremely silly, 51 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 3: so you guys will probably love it. I think I 52 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 3: did a Jay z impersonation at one point. It was 53 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 3: pretty crazy, So make sure you guys check out that 54 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 3: if you can. Also, you can do stuff like voting 55 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 3: the post, leave comments, leave comments on your votes in 56 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 3: the polls, like get your voice heard a ton of 57 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 3: different ways. You can also leave voicemails for the show 58 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 3: seven oh four five five, seven zero one eighty six. 59 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,679 Speaker 3: Let us know what you think about some of the 60 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: stuff we talked about this week. You know, just a 61 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: shout out, whatever it is. Just make sure your voicemail 62 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 3: is under three minutes. Went on like long ass winding 63 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: ass voicemails, so let's keep it under. 64 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 4: Three minutes and uh, that'll be cool. 65 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 3: The official weapon of the show is an unofficial sport 66 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: and bullet ball extreme. Uh, let's go ahead and talk 67 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 3: about the people who gave us money. 68 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 4: Uh, you can do. The people donated the money this week. 69 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 3: We want to give you a shout out because you 70 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: guys keep a party going here. 71 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:26,239 Speaker 5: Yes you do. 72 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: Terry W hit us with that recurrent donation. Damian Jackson, 73 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 3: I am for real. 74 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 4: Hit us with Derek current donation. 75 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: Thank you, Damien d D hit us with Derek currentation, 76 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 3: recurrent donation, d D F. Remy W hit us with 77 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 3: that recurrent donation. Man, appreciate you to Remy Cedric w 78 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 3: uh he hit us with the current donation. 79 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 4: Chandra G. 80 00:03:53,120 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 3: Recurrent Yes, Gabriel L. I believe this is a first 81 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 3: time uh recurrent donations. Set up a current donation with us. 82 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 5: Thank you so much. 83 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 3: Appreciate that we got a one time donation from Damien 84 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 3: t all the way out in Tennessee. 85 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, Tennessee, Tennessee. 86 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: Uh. 87 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 4: Lewis E. The Lewis e Jr. 88 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 3: Hit us with that one time donations said for the 89 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 3: first round of sake bombs. 90 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 4: Enjoy good people. It's like he read our minds. 91 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 5: We was talking about ssaki today. 92 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, we were looking at the saki supply. We already 93 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: got the we already got the eggnog. 94 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 6: So yes. 95 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 7: I walked in the stove and I knew it was coming, 96 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 7: but I didn't know like what it's gonna be on shelves, 97 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 7: because you know, eggnog is seasonal. 98 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 5: So I walked in there, I said, oh, shooting that 99 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 5: Egna and I looked at him like we got ssaki, 100 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 5: so that's gonna be coming up soon. 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 4: Uh yeah. 102 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 6: Uh. 103 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 3: But Tabitha m she hit us with the current donation 104 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 3: and we got a one time donation from Paul Andre 105 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 3: Joseph make up of the Fine Cocktails. Thank you so 106 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 3: much man for all you guys to donate. Like I said, 107 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 3: very important to us. Between you guys, the people who 108 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 3: subscribe premium definitely keep the show afloat. It's the reason 109 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 3: that we can now afford to do this. Honestly, could 110 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: not literally could not do this without. 111 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 5: You guys at all. 112 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 7: We want to thank each and every one of you 113 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 7: who do recurring, one time everything counts. 114 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 5: We just want to thank you. 115 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 3: And Joe Harris, I need your address, Bro, you won 116 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: something in the h and never email me his address. 117 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 4: Man hit me up, dog what happened? 118 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: Brou still wrote down all the stuff you want, But 119 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 3: I haven't talked to you. So everybody else should have 120 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 3: have that stuff either on the way or may some 121 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 3: of you guys may have even received it by now. 122 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 3: I haven't checked the ship in on all of them, 123 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,679 Speaker 3: but I know I think three of the four packages 124 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 3: already shipped. 125 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 4: So no, like. 126 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: I said, no five star reviews. But I did see 127 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: a link to our site from Blackpodcasting dot Com. I 128 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 3: guess it's someone who is like keeping a catalog of 129 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 3: black podcasts and took it upon themselves to write some descriptions. 130 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 3: So they wrote this nice little description about us, And 131 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 3: I guess someone linked to us from here, and I'll 132 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: read it for you guys, and I'll put a link 133 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 3: in the I'll put a link into the chat for 134 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:27,799 Speaker 3: you guys. 135 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 4: You can see it yourselves. But there you go. Yeah, 136 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 4: so he or she wrote something about us. 137 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: Show profile The black Out Tips The Black Guy Who 138 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 3: Tips is one of the most popular shows in the 139 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: black podcast and community. It's host are married couple riding 140 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 3: care The show is all encompassing and that they discuss news, politics, relationship, sports, 141 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: and whatever else comes up. They normally have a guest 142 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 3: on their shows, which are usually other podcasts hosts. The 143 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 3: guests are pretty diverse because they all host different types 144 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 3: of podcasts. There are comedians, movie reviewers, music reviewers, musicians, 145 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 3: et cetera. They do a weekly feedback show in which 146 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 3: they read emails, comments from their sites and ratings. If 147 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 3: you give them a five star rating, they will read 148 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 3: your review no matter what it says. The coolest thing 149 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 3: about this show is they almost always broadcasted on spree Cast, 150 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: so you can go there watching chat. The show opens 151 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: up with either Rod or their guests rapping. I like 152 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 3: how they just left you out because you know I 153 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: haven't asked you in a while. 154 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 5: I knows the shout out to the people to be 155 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 5: like I love one can't rap. 156 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 3: I'll be like X Rod or their guest rapping lyrics 157 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: from a song that Rod chooses, which is fun. The 158 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: show has three regular segments at the end of every episode. 159 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 3: Fucking with Black People is actually how it sounds. They 160 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: tell the stories about people messing with black people. The 161 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 3: next segment is Guess the Race, in which they read 162 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 3: news stories and challenge their guests in the chat room 163 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 3: to determine the ethnicity of the people involved. And finally, 164 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 3: the last segment is sword Ratchetness, in which they report 165 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: on stories of people committing crimes and being generally ratchet 166 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 3: with swords. You can find the show on iTunes, app, Stitcher, 167 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 3: Potomatic and is mentioned before its freecasts. Hosts Roding care 168 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 3: main topic everything. 169 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 4: Tone of the show, comedy, everything. 170 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 3: I like this so far. What you should know when listening. 171 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: Nothing is wrong, if it's funny. This is the mottel 172 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 3: of the blackout tips. So that gives you an idea. 173 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 4: What the show is. 174 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 5: Thank you for letting the people know what kind of. 175 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 4: Show it is. 176 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 3: There will be shows. There's no true there's true. No, 177 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 3: there's true, no rigid schedule for the show. They just 178 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 3: broadcast record whenever they can. Well that's not true. 179 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 5: We just turn on and look at you. You feel 180 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 5: like recording day. 181 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 3: I know it's moves around, So maybe people don't understand, 182 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 3: like because it's not the same time every day. But 183 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 3: it's ten thirty Saturday mornings, it's ten am Sunday mornings. 184 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 3: It's nine pm on Monday, seven pm on I mean 185 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 3: five pm on Tuesday, nine pm on Wednesday. 186 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: The thing is sometimes we adjust to. 187 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 3: Our guess so we'll you know, take around or yeah, 188 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 3: you know, but in general we try to do it 189 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: at the same time on the same days, and you know, 190 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 3: hopefully we catch as many people as possible, because I 191 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: feel like sometimes people can catch that can the kind 192 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 3: of person that can catch the show at five might 193 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 3: not be the same person. 194 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 5: That can catch it at nine, yeah. 195 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 3: And vice versa. So hopefully we give people different chances 196 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: to see the show. 197 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, And for those of you out there, they'd be like, well, 198 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 7: when are y'all go on spreecast, I always. 199 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 5: Miss the show? 200 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 7: Sign up for through the spreecast apps sign up, or 201 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 7: even better than that, you can actually go to our 202 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 7: page and sign up for email, because when Rogers sends 203 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 7: it out, it sends out of email that if you're 204 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 7: on an email or listening to let you know, hey 205 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 7: they live. 206 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're in the spreecast chat right now, there's 207 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 3: a follow button that you can click that will absolutely 208 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: you can set it up in your settings to email 209 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 3: you every time that I even go in and set 210 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 3: a show, like, you'll get an email like the black 211 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 3: out tips. Just set a show and I know and 212 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 3: what I've been trying to do is put in the 213 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: description the guests. So maybe you're kind of person where 214 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: you're like, I don't want to hear so and so, 215 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 3: but I want to hear this person. And it's like, hey, 216 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 3: am Rep is gonna be on at ten am on Sunday. 217 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 3: It's like, okay, cool, I'll make time for that or whatever. 218 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 3: You know, Chris Lamber's gonna be on nine pm Wednesday, 219 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 3: Like I try to do that. So it's a good 220 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 3: way to kind of get their heads up so you 221 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 3: can know the schedule before anybody else does. 222 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 5: Yep, because it do work. 223 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 7: Because I've been looking, like because I have two separate 224 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 7: emails scheduled up for it, I'm like, hey, we we 225 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 7: got a show. Because sometimes I have to check the. 226 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 5: Time to be like that time. 227 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 4: This tends to be several times a week, which is great. 228 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 3: I recommend dowloading multiple shows and binge listening when you 229 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 3: are doing housework, working out, community to it from work, 230 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 3: et cetera. So turn on your alerts and check for shows. 231 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 3: Often they have premium content. They have specialized shows that 232 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 3: are available on their website. You can become a member 233 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 3: of the site for free, and for a small fee, 234 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: you can become a premium member. Premium members have access 235 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 3: to extra shows. So listen and enjoy. 236 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 237 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 3: Man, that's saying Shane Baker does his website. Okay, who 238 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: I've seen in the chat, you know a few times, 239 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 3: seen on Twitter and stuff. 240 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 4: So thank you, Shay. 241 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 3: We appreciate the con up and uh, yes, pretty accurate. Man, 242 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 3: can't even I can't even argue with it, so thank 243 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: you so much. 244 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 4: All right. We also have comments on. 245 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 3: The site where people listen to the shows and they 246 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 3: write comments in or they wrote in the polls and 247 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 3: stuff like that. So let's start with I guess we'll 248 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: see what was the last episode we did was music 249 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 3: Trivia Giveaway That No, that was two weeks ago, so 250 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: we will be somewhere around the Official Hymn of. 251 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 4: The black Out Tips, all right, man. 252 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, The Official Him five ninety four is a feedback episode. 253 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 3: It's called the Official Him of the Blackout Tips because 254 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 3: the Possible White Man Jay and Miss Chris let Like 255 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 3: combined to make a song for the Man that was hilarious, 256 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 3: and we made that the clip for the show on 257 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 3: Spree casts and spread it out so people could watch 258 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 3: just that couple of minutes of the show if they 259 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 3: wanted to. 260 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 7: Uh. 261 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 3: And basically the poe was simple, no comments, it was 262 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: just votes. How was your Thanksgiving? It was okay, it 263 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 3: was great, or it's sucked. Fifty people had an okay Thanksgiving. 264 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: Well that's good. Thirty five percent had a great Thanksgiving. 265 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 7: I'm in this right here is one of the best 266 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 7: Thanksgiving I've had in a while. It was fun, it 267 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 7: was enjoyable, it was relaxing. Everybody was happy. We had 268 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 7: an ugly sweater contest. We had a really really good time. 269 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and fourteen percent of people had sucky Thanksgivings. 270 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 5: Oh I feel bad. 271 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 3: Sorry, guys. Bat it up next year. Hopefully it won't 272 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 3: suck so bad. We had episode five ninety five Fast 273 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 3: Hell Girls, and people left different comments and stuff. 274 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, it looked like people had some things to say. 275 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 8: It isn't there. 276 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, we got three comments, got some people voting in 277 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 3: the poll about the bus driver getting fired and stuff. 278 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 4: So let's just start with the comments. 279 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 3: Prince all Ron says Ride is one hundred percent correct 280 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 3: that sex itself is scary enough. Most guys don't admit 281 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: before your first time. The fear of pussy is real. 282 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: The first time was similar to H two okvs. I 283 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: was along with the chicken. She decided that some sex 284 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 3: was going to happen that day. That had to be 285 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 3: the case because at the time I didn't have the 286 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 3: confidence to initiate the process or to wherewithal to understand 287 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 3: that that was a good situation to try something. Yeah, 288 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 3: I definitely, you know, was not like I think people 289 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 3: on TV and stuff are like kind of right guys 290 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:44,679 Speaker 3: as these not know everything no, but these horn dogs 291 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 3: at like thirty, like I just want some puzzy puzzy pussy. Yeah, 292 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: And it's not true necessary, Like a lot of guys 293 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 3: are kind of scared and nervous and don't really know 294 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: what to do and uh, you know, you don't even 295 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: know what the appropriate situation to try to have sex is. 296 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 5: So and it's weird and it's awkward and right, you know. 297 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 7: And what they don't talk about is that, you know, 298 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 7: just the first time, especially for guys in regular, normal 299 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 7: straight relationship, is one of those things where you know 300 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 7: you got to hear. 301 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 5: Oops wrong, hold oops, back it up, Oops, Nope, that's 302 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 5: not it. Oops, go down. You're dealing with more that 303 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 5: until you get into the right spot. 304 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 3: And then not to mention, you know, when you pile 305 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 3: on like parents lying and shit to their kids and 306 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 3: putting all his guilt trip on them like it's even 307 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 3: more fucked up, like kids end up more, even questioning 308 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 3: themselves more. You know, Russia star Pupil says, man, this 309 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 3: has to be one of my favorite episodes for two reasons. 310 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 4: Number one, H two. 311 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 3: O cavs impersonations had me done. His uncle Ruckus was 312 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 3: dead on. 313 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 314 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 3: I was even cracking up there and that shit. I 315 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 3: was barely able to keep the show going. Number two, 316 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 3: the story about the lady who rammed her car into 317 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 3: her husband's lover hitting her with a back. We saw 318 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 3: that on TV a while ago. Being a local Minnesotan, 319 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 3: those crazy stories tend to not happen a lot. I 320 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 3: don't know if I should be proud or discussing that 321 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 3: my state was on Guest the Race. 322 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 4: Oh well, shout out to be cold guys. 323 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 5: I know we were finding you the black folks out there. 324 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 3: So tell Brandy, we said, what's up all the black 325 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 3: people in Minnesota? 326 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 4: Yes? Oh yo. 327 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 5: Number has raised up with two with official at five 328 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 5: or six. 329 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 4: Now, I know they hate that joke. You know niggas 330 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 4: is in Minneapolis, But I'm sorry, guy, it's just funny. 331 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 3: Dust Daughter right saying regarding hashtag fast tailed girls and 332 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: fixing themselves. It seems like telling repressed women to fix 333 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: themselves is easy to say and very hard to deal. Yeah, 334 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 3: I agree. Like a lot of people are like, just 335 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 3: don't be fast and shit like that. I'm like, nah, 336 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 3: they it's. 337 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 7: Not that simple, especially if you're not educated and you 338 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 7: don't know what's going on. 339 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know. 340 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 3: And the thing is, though it sounds harsh, but at 341 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 3: some point it doesn't even matter, Like I think that 342 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 3: was the point, and it sounds cold, and you know, 343 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 3: I wish there was a better, more simple I mean, 344 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 3: there probably is a better, more sympathetic way to say 345 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 3: certain things. But at some point you're fucked up and 346 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 3: you have to take upon the onus upon yourself because 347 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 3: no one else is ever going to and nobody gives 348 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 3: a fuck. 349 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 4: Like that's life is fucked up. 350 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 3: I remember we talked about the Fatherhood specials that Oprah 351 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 3: did and how. 352 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 4: You know, she had the one with the women and 353 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 4: she had the one with. 354 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 3: The guys and it was completely different, which I thought 355 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 3: was kind of fucked up anyway too. But the end 356 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 3: of the day, when you're talking to adults and not kids, 357 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 3: you're really just gonna end up being like, Okay, I'm 358 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: sorry all this shit happened to you. I'm sorry you 359 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 3: have all these issues. The world is not going to 360 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 3: ever stop doing what it's doing to help you out 361 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: because the world doesn't even care, like it's really if 362 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: you don't find a way to like, you know, maybe 363 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 3: through therapy, counseling. 364 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 4: Uh, you know, there's all kinds. 365 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 3: Of grooves through you know, like yeah, but if you don't, 366 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 3: nobody will ever stop and do it for you, because 367 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 3: nobody cares. 368 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 7: And especially uh, and this is mine, especially in the 369 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 7: black community for some reason, newer generations, but a lot 370 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 7: of older people kind of shun away from like therapy 371 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 7: and therapists and things like that. But honestly, some people 372 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 7: literally need that in order to work their way through this. 373 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 7: But I'm sorry, you can't pray everything away. Everything just 374 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 7: can't be prayed and medicated away. 375 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 3: And then and then in a relationship, you can't put 376 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 3: that burden on someone else all the time because not 377 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 3: everyone one not everyone can handle it, which is really 378 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 3: the most important car because the a lot of people 379 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 3: will make it worse, you know. And then too, even 380 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 3: if sometimes people don't want to handle it, like that's 381 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 3: true too, you know, like relationships, I think we romanticized 382 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 3: stuff and we talk stuff up, but it's a cold game. 383 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 3: Like there's so many people that are just like, oh, 384 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 3: you got a kid already, Yeah, that can't work. Oh 385 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 3: you got your you know your job is uh uh 386 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: sends you overseas every couple of months. 387 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, this can't work you Uh. 388 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 3: You know you you've been in a relationship with somebody 389 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 3: that was crazy at one point. Yeah, I can't deal 390 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 3: with you. None of these have None of these are 391 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 3: your fault necessarily. None of these are things that are 392 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 3: deal breakers for everyone. But if someone tells you, uh 393 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: that they can't work through something, you just got to 394 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 3: accept it because the only thing worse is them trying 395 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 3: to work through something that they fucking know. 396 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 5: They can't do and they don't want to deal. 397 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 3: With Yeah, resent you and making you feel like it's 398 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 3: your fault and shit like it's the relationship game is cold, man. 399 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 3: So I think when we were saying like, you almost 400 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 3: have to work on yourself because you can't depend on 401 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 3: somebody else that like, because I think it was keV 402 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 3: that was saying like he was dating a check that 403 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 3: she had some of these, you know, like religious issues 404 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 3: and some of these like guilt issues and stuff stemming 405 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 3: all the way back to like childhood, and he was 406 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 3: like he couldn't deal with it because it was too 407 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 3: much for him, you know what I mean. And it's 408 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 3: like part of I think everybody like wants to judge, 409 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 3: you know, like people outside of that situation are like, yeah, well, 410 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 3: you know you could have stepped up and did. But 411 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 3: then when you really think about it, it's like should 412 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 3: someone that doesn't want to deal with this step up 413 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 3: and try to do it when they don't want to? 414 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 7: You know, that's the thing you don't want to And 415 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 7: a lot of times it's sad, But a lot of 416 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 7: times it's almost like the way the world is structured, 417 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 7: it's almost like women are only one with issues when 418 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 7: men come in with issues too, that women have to 419 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 7: help them get through also all the time, for some reason, 420 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 7: it's structured to where because women are quote unquote more 421 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 7: emotional than men and all this. 422 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 3: Well, technically the hashtag was about women, which is why 423 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 3: that that's what what the subject was, but we can 424 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 3: talk about some fucked up men that and and vice 425 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 3: versa too. Like there's a lot of men that have 426 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 3: deal breaking issues that it's not really their fault, but 427 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 3: there's still an issue. And it's like when the co 428 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 3: reality of dealing with someone day in and day out, 429 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 3: dealing with their problems, it can wear on people and 430 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 3: sometimes people don't want to do it, like it doesn't 431 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 3: make them a bad person. 432 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 7: It does thought they could, but then it got to 433 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 7: the point where if it comes too much because not 434 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 7: the off topic, but it's just one of those things 435 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 7: where you know, everybody think everybody want to put you know, 436 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 7: the problems of relationships on women when men play that 437 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 7: role too, because it's some women the same thing. 438 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 5: They look at it. Man, you got kids, I don't 439 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 5: want to deal with you. You got anger issues. I 440 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 5: don't want to deal with you. You don't get along 441 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 5: with your mama. 442 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 4: I want to not. 443 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 3: Even just anger repressing shit, like right, those dudes that 444 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 3: have like there's I know women that are very vocal 445 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 3: about this nigga crying in front of me and that 446 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 3: was it. 447 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 4: We can never be together period, you know what I mean. 448 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,919 Speaker 3: I've seen that, uh, like as a thing where people 449 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 3: are like vocally being like, yeah, this nigga was I 450 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 3: was talking to me start crying like a bitch. So 451 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 3: I was like, hell, no, we can't date and that, 452 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 3: you know, and it happens, and it's like one of 453 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 3: those things where you're like, if this person is not 454 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:23,360 Speaker 3: really respecting the fact that you did that, should I repress? 455 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 4: Should I be judging them? 456 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 7: Like? 457 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 3: You need to stick around and work through that. They're 458 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 3: not ready for that. They obviously can't handle it. It's 459 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 3: just it just sounds cold to be like, yeah, you 460 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 3: gotta fix that crime shit dog like, it just sounds cold, 461 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 3: and I think, you know, when we're having a conversation, 462 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 3: it may have sounded callous to be like, you know, 463 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 3: these people have to work on themselves, because no, people 464 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 3: don't want to deal with these issues and it's fucked up, 465 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 3: but they don't. 466 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, and uh, I'm gonna say this, and then I 467 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 7: know we need to move on. This is one of 468 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 7: those things where this is my personal opinion. I think 469 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 7: that society in the fucked up way has taught men 470 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 7: and women that men should not have emotions, and there 471 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 7: are some women that live by that same standard that 472 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 7: men live by. You you got you can't cry, you 473 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 7: can't be tough, you can't have emotions, and that's fucked. 474 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 5: Up the people too. 475 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's patriarchy, but I mean the Yeah, I don't 476 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 3: want to go down that road either. 477 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 4: My point. 478 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 3: My point was, uh, we were talking about women, which 479 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 3: is because you brought up women versus men, and it 480 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 3: wasn't I don't. 481 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 4: I want to be clear, we weren't getting into it. 482 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 4: Will women be doing this? 483 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 3: The cop The topic happened to be about women that day, 484 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 3: so you know, if it would have been about men, 485 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 3: I'm sure you know we have to be clarified the 486 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 3: other way. But but like she said, the back there point, 487 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry got wayside tracked. Uh, these women didn't didn't 488 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 3: become repressed by themselves, so I don't see how they'd 489 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 3: be able to fix it on their own. Sure that's therapy, 490 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 3: but eventually these women will still need a willing and 491 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 3: patient partner or partners that will help provide a safe 492 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 3: place for them to explore. I think Karen said as 493 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 3: much on the show. She may have man, and like, 494 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 3: that's the thing in any successful relationship, no matter what 495 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 3: your issues are, period, because everybody I believe does have issues. 496 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 3: Everybody You're gonna need a patient partner no matter what. 497 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 3: And I believe that that kind of goes without saying 498 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 3: almost like it's obvious like. 499 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 5: With some people. And I know, but like you said, 500 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 5: it's one of them things. 501 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 7: The world is so crue a lot of people, cause 502 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 7: I don't want to deal with nobody ship but mine. 503 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 7: It's so self centered and so self absorbed that they 504 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 7: think I don't have to deal with your ship at all, 505 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 7: but I want to be in a relationship with you, 506 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 7: and the world don't function like that. 507 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, some people, but even but even a lot of 508 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 3: people are just more like I don't want to deal 509 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 3: with your ship and I don't want to be in 510 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 3: a relationship like I just would yeah, you know, and 511 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 3: for personally, you know, my philosophy is any reason to 512 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,679 Speaker 3: break up is a good reason. 513 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't. 514 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 7: Don't waste your time doing with somebody you'll resent them 515 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 7: and be angry. 516 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 3: Right, don't be with me out of pity or be 517 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 3: with me holding ship against me and that I don't 518 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 3: have nothing to do with. 519 00:23:58,720 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 4: Don't do that shit to me. 520 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 3: Just I would rather you leave than walk in the 521 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 3: house looking at me in anger every day like this 522 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 3: motherfucker here, like nope, get the fuck out. We can 523 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 3: I can try to make half the rent with someone else. 524 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 3: I know it's so like that, but uh nah. But 525 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,719 Speaker 3: but I do understand her point though, and that, you know, 526 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 3: is I don't like And that's the thing. When you say, like, 527 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 3: they didn't get, you know, into this situation by themselves, 528 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 3: you're right. But at the same time, I'm not responsible 529 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 3: for putting them in that situation either. So it's it's 530 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 3: really I think there would really have to already be 531 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 3: something there for men or women to want to invest 532 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 3: in another person to fix quote unquote, because it's you know, 533 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 3: a lot of people try to fix people. And that's actually, 534 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 3: to me one of the biggest downfalls of most relationships 535 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 3: is people are like, I'm going to fix this person. 536 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: You don't have the training, you don't have the wherewithal 537 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 3: and more than likely you will run out of the 538 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 3: patience because this isn't like you know, I blame like TV, 539 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 3: pop culture and shit like it makes everything look so simple, solved, 540 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 3: like and easy and sweet. Yeah, you know, they do 541 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 3: a montage in a movie and suddenly the guy's over 542 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 3: his fear of commitment, or suddenly the girl is able 543 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 3: to move on from her past abusive relationship and it's 544 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 3: like it doesn't always work like that, and the commitments 545 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 3: people are making a lot of times are lifelong. You 546 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 3: will be dealing with this till the person dies. So 547 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 3: if it's cold up front to be like I'm walking away, 548 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 3: it's probably a favorite down the line. 549 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true. 550 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 7: And I think for a lot of issues for men 551 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 7: and women, but I know women in particular, a lot 552 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 7: of times you gotta admit there's an issue. It's a 553 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 7: lot of people that won't even admit that there's an 554 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 7: issue or something that needs to be addressed or fixed. 555 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 7: So you can't help sim fix something that they don't 556 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 7: even that they won't even admit to themselves that there's 557 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 7: something wrong. 558 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 3: I have a very good friend that he was dating 559 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 3: a girl for a long time and she was like 560 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 3: very religious but still sleeping with him and still kind 561 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 3: of you know, like she wouldn't let him move in, 562 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 3: but they were having a lot of sex and stuff. 563 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 3: But she was like also like making him go to 564 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 3: church with her and like all this stuff. And he 565 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 3: was like, you know, when we have sex, she won't 566 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 3: do anything pretty much like it's pretty much missionary style 567 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 3: or nothing. And if we try any other position she'll 568 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 3: say she feels like a whore or a slut or 569 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 3: she you know, like I'm looking like I'm looking down 570 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 3: on her or something like that. And yeah, He's like, 571 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 3: and I'm not like that. And it's been years, like 572 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,439 Speaker 3: I can't, like there's a certain amount of surreness. She 573 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 3: will never get that certainty from me, because it's an 574 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:48,959 Speaker 3: insecurity she has on herself. 575 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 4: And you know, I mean, I'm sure that that's not 576 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 4: the only. 577 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 3: Thing, but that had to be a major reason why 578 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 3: the shit didn't work out, because you know, him telling me, 579 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: first of all, guys, we don't talk about our problems. 580 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 3: For him to even tell me this means it was 581 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 3: like issue. You know, I'm sitting there and I'm just like, 582 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 3: I don't know, like talk to somebody, counseling therapy, couple's therapy. 583 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 4: All it's like, Yo, we tried this shit. It's not working. 584 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 3: Like I like, it's been years now. I can't do 585 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 3: this my whole life. And you do have that like 586 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 3: you know when they give you those vows that sickness 587 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,359 Speaker 3: in hell for better or worse, like that is the 588 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 3: ship that people just gloss over because you can, you know, 589 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 3: go foul for the voice and get up, get out 590 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 3: of the ship, and it's like, nah, man, no one's 591 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 3: taking it that serious. So when someone does say that 592 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 3: they won't do something for somebody and they don't want 593 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 3: to be there with them, they don't want to be 594 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 3: in a relationship, I actually kind of understand because it's 595 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 3: like they actually are considering what a lifetime of that 596 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 3: looks like. And that person is like, I can't deal 597 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 3: with this, you know. It's why I don't get mad 598 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 3: when people are like, well, I want date someone with kids. 599 00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 4: At least you know. 600 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 7: That's right, And yeah, you understand I don't want to 601 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,640 Speaker 7: have kids, and you're telling people that up front. 602 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 5: I don't want to have. 603 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 3: Way worse than getting halfway through and deciding that shit, 604 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 3: which a lot of people do, and a lot of 605 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 3: people be like, eight years in, I don't want no 606 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 3: kids what we already had to. 607 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 7: Ain't that the truth for eight years in? I don't 608 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 7: want to be a parent. They just or I'll date. 609 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 7: I'll date this person, but she got a kid. But 610 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,679 Speaker 7: that's her and that that dude's problem. Now it's everybody's issue. 611 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 7: Now you're involved in that kid's life. 612 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 4: It's you too. 613 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 3: Not to the same degree, but it's going to affect 614 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 3: your life because it affects their life. But people are 615 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: just so like they gloss over these important things because 616 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 3: I think Hollywood kind of like off your patient and 617 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 3: you work it out and you talk to them. There's 618 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: nothing love can congress. Like, yeah, there's a lot of 619 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 3: people in the divorce line that love didn't conquer shit. 620 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 2: I know. 621 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 4: It's so I'm glad you talked about this on the show. 622 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 3: I wish there were more women on this episode to 623 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 3: discuss this further, although it's interesting to hear a man's 624 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 3: respective on dealing with a repressed woman. Yeah, it was 625 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 3: cool to hear cav talk about it, and yeah, we 626 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 3: didn't have more like we didn't want to do like 627 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 3: a panel discussion or nothing, which is not that show. 628 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 3: We'll talk about anything, but we're not the you know, 629 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 3: we're not trying to be MSNBC or whatever. Like I'm 630 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 3: sure other shows talk about stuff and they go, yeah, 631 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 3: get all that stuff, but we just, you know, just 632 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 3: something I saw trending and it wasn't a lot of 633 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 3: planning to talk about. It's just kind of like, what 634 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 3: do you guys think about this? And just giving our 635 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 3: general thoughts man. You know, we didn't claim to come 636 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 3: up with the concept, and we didn't claim to, uh, 637 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 3: you know, be promoting the concept like. It was just 638 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 3: something that came across my purview because people were tweeting 639 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 3: and talking about it, and it was like, what is 640 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 3: your experience with the idea or the words and stuff 641 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 3: like that. So it was cool, thank and thank you, 642 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 3: y desk starter. The poe was should the bus driver 643 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 3: been fired? Yes, he didn't follow a protocol. No, he 644 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 3: seemed to have it under control. This was a bus 645 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 3: driver who student it had a knife on the bus. 646 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 3: He stopped the busy, said I won't drive until you 647 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 3: give me the knife, got the knife, and then took 648 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 3: all the kids home, came to work to try to 649 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 3: report it to a supervisor who had already went home, 650 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 3: came back to work the next day, and got fired 651 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 3: because they said he didn't handle it correct. Yes, he 652 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 3: didn't follow a protocol. Twenty one percent of people say 653 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 3: he should be fired. Seventy nine percent of people said no, 654 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 3: he seemed to have it under control, He shouldn't be fired. 655 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 3: I thought this would be an interesting poll because you know, 656 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 3: we had the driver who punched a woman in the face, 657 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 3: and people were trying to make the oh, he shouldn't 658 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 3: have got fired argument, and I was like, well, he 659 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 3: didn't follow what you're supposed to do. 660 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, and the school it's like, you possible 661 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 7: the situation, you could be completely different, and it's also 662 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 7: possible we could have get a lawsuit and we still 663 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 7: may get a lawsuit over but it's because you didn't 664 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 7: follow protocol. 665 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 3: The comments were Astronaut Jones says, it seems like the 666 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,959 Speaker 3: bus driver was just trying to appease the kids. If 667 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 3: they're complaining about the boy having a knife, you can't 668 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 3: just let him keep it. He probably probably even gave 669 00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 3: it back to the kid after dropping them off. Well, 670 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 3: how are you gonna add that? In Astronaut Jones, he 671 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 3: just added to some details in he probably let he 672 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 3: probably stabbed a couple of motherfuckers with the nights with 673 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 3: the kid. You know, they probably committed a couple burglaries 674 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 3: after this. Ah, I blame the parents. That kid is 675 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 3: just a couple of years away from carrying swords, and 676 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 3: you know what happens, then that's true. 677 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 5: That's never good. 678 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 3: Erica says, I feel bad for the bus driver. No 679 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 3: he didn't follow a protocol, but he safely defused the situation. 680 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 4: He was trying to help the little badass fuckers. 681 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 3: Karen says, punk ass parents need to step that game 682 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,239 Speaker 3: up and start checking book bags. Yes, these kids are 683 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 3: bad as hell and need some good sound ass for this. 684 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 7: Uh. 685 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 3: Professor Elsia says this episode's pick gives me. 686 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 4: A sads man. I hate everything. 687 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 5: Ails. 688 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's a little adorable, precocious black girl painting 689 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 3: her toenail, having fun and yeah, and I and to me, 690 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 3: it kind of exuded the fast tailed girls whole thing 691 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 3: of like over sexual like just sexualizing. 692 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 4: These children, like she's. 693 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 3: Still a child and instead of looking at that and go, 694 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 3: isn't that adorable if that was a white baby, it's 695 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 3: a black baby. And now it's like, look at her 696 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 3: trying to be fast, you know what I mean, which 697 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 3: just leads to this like over sexualization of just black 698 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 3: women in general. Yes, sir, but anyway, Episode five ninety 699 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 3: six insert don Lemon pun when we were joined by 700 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 3: Bossa from the fire Starter podcast. 701 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 4: Oh I forgot in last episode? 702 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 3: Obviously H JOKEV y'all, y'all love comments from movie trailer reviews. 703 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 3: I net. But yeah, Bossa from the Hot Fire Stars podcast, 704 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 3: and uh, we talked about Don Lemon and a bunch 705 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 3: of other stuff. The actual poll was pretty simple. It 706 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 3: was was Boyce Watkin's too harsh on Don Lemon? I 707 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 3: was interested to see the results of this pole. The 708 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 3: choices were yes he got a dial it back a bit, 709 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 3: or no, he was fair. The reason I was interested 710 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 3: is because niggas hate Don Lemmon this point. Yeah, and 711 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 3: I was like, it's no way that uh that that 712 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 3: they say that Boyce Watkins way too hard because they're 713 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 3: at the point where they're like, fuck Don Limit Well, 714 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 3: I was wrong. Sixty women Center our audience says, yes, 715 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 3: Boyce Watkins got a dial it back a bit, and 716 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 3: which is still pretty high. 717 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 4: Say it was fair. 718 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 3: Princell Ron says whether he was harsh or not isn't 719 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 3: really good point since he was factually incorrect. 720 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 4: Right. That bothered me so bad because. 721 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 3: I you can't attack You can't attack Don Lemon for 722 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 3: being sloppy and flat factually incorrect with sloppy factually incorrect. 723 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 4: Shit, that's right. 724 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 5: At least have Yoshi somebody, somebody need to be organizing 725 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 5: the ship. 726 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you sit up here, triving and stuff that he 727 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 3: said on the time joining the morning show to his 728 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 3: actual program. Just you know, some of the stuff was anyway, 729 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: Watkins has just taking advantage of the fact that a 730 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 3: certain demographic will co sign what you say as long 731 00:33:58,640 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 3: as it is shipping on Donald. 732 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 4: I agree so much. I begin it. I'm for real, 733 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 4: I'm beginning to. 734 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 3: Question people, real real, if people really know why they 735 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 3: are upset with women my issue with women that he 736 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 3: tries to come at come off as a black man 737 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 3: that tells Black people what they what he thinks they 738 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 3: need to hear. 739 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 4: But really he tells white people what he thinks black 740 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 4: people need to hear. I agree. 741 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 3: That's why he brought up the sagging and the N 742 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 3: word in his original Die Tribe yep. 743 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 4: I believe that. 744 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 3: And more importantly, Uh, he's sloppy because he can get 745 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: I think we've had people do the I'm gonna call 746 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:34,800 Speaker 3: the black community. 747 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 4: The fucking president has done it. Guys. 748 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 3: That's it doesn't get more popular than him, but the 749 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,919 Speaker 3: way they do it leads to less uproar because it's 750 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 3: not like President Obama would not go to more House 751 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 3: and say I was watching Bill O'Reilly the other day. No, no, 752 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,320 Speaker 3: he would, and he said a lot of the same critiques, 753 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 3: and people were more like, Okay, maybe not to this audience, 754 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 3: but still I understand your point, you know what I mean, 755 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 3: Like it wasn't like black people just said, oh, this 756 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,760 Speaker 3: is sell out ass uncle Tom, Like that didn't happen. 757 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 4: Fay Con has done it. Bill Cosey's even done it, 758 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 4: you know. 759 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 3: Like it's just I just hate when people act like 760 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 3: black people don't talk about black issues. 761 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 7: Yeah, people don't care about black issues just because you 762 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 7: don't see it in the news every day. 763 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 5: Like them blacks over there just don't don't don't give 764 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 5: shit about what's happening in that community. Do you be like, 765 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,439 Speaker 5: goddamn people, margin y'all cameras ain't here. 766 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 3: We had a shocking poll for episode five ninety seven, 767 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 3: the Sauce Revolution. Yeah, no comments on the show, but 768 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 3: what the poe was, Will you joined the sauce Revolution? 769 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 4: Yes, sauceage should be free? 770 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 3: No, this is too much, Rod, And I was nervous 771 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 3: because I was figured that some people were gonna say 772 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 3: it was too much. You know, I did throw those 773 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 3: pennies down in front of that lady, And I mean 774 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 3: a couple of days later, they were walking out of 775 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 3: McDonald's to prove a point. So I was like, maybe 776 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 3: y'all look like I'm on the wrong side of this one. Yeah, well, 777 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,720 Speaker 3: apparently I was on the right side. One hundred percent 778 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 3: of people agree with me that sauces should be free. 779 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 5: What the fuck are you losing nothing? It's already paid for. 780 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:23,720 Speaker 3: We got some comments Eddie Long wrightsn brother ride, winky 781 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 3: turkey face. 782 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 4: Why he's seeing turkey face to me, Sister Karen, I. 783 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 3: Can't believe it's been It's almost twenty fourteen, and we 784 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 3: don't live in a free sauce world. Old sauce should 785 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 3: be free for you and me, sauces for the people 786 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 3: and by the people. 787 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 4: It's saddens me that you were treated so harshly. 788 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 3: If you would like to have a baby pool full 789 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 3: of hot mustard in my place. 790 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,720 Speaker 4: We could go what we could have rived. 791 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:55,320 Speaker 3: We could around in it and dip our taters in 792 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 3: that sweet hot sauce. 793 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 5: Oh lord, do I need to leave the room? 794 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 4: The sauce red Lusiah has a gun. 795 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 3: Indeed, Happy holiday, Eddie Long aka ready Eddie. 796 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 4: I don't like the I don't want none of the sauce. 797 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 4: You talking about Eddie. 798 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 5: No, I don't want that hot sauce. 799 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 3: Sha Love says, Sha Love. Can't believe this shit. You 800 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,760 Speaker 3: didn't ask for a handy, You just wanted some sauce. 801 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 3: A handy would have gave her the sauce. Shall Love 802 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 3: love some puns, Shah Love things. He need to band together. 803 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,840 Speaker 3: We need to band together and show them motherfuckers. We 804 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 3: won't stand for this. Viva la sauce Love, Viva lat sauce, 805 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 3: Viva la revolution on Miss Cryscipal says Annie up. Run 806 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 3: your package food. We snatching the sugar, splenda and the 807 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 3: flavor of cream coffee creamers. Oh god, we accidentally own 808 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,240 Speaker 3: purpose dropping food on the ground to get a free refill. 809 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 4: Be belligerence once we go to the pickup window. 810 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 3: It since we asked for two apple piees so we 811 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,800 Speaker 3: could get them for free. What I even started bringing 812 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 3: back the tumbleware to the buffets. You know what tumpleware 813 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 3: McDonald's to pump out the saucy two better yeah and 814 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 3: empty barbecue sauce ketch up with salad dressing bottle Number 815 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 3: one you get rid of the middle man. Number two 816 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 3: is eco friendly plus them tiny paper cups will spill 817 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 3: all over in my pocket belt. Look just slow pump 818 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 3: and look at the cash is dead in the eye. 819 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,280 Speaker 5: Like what you're gonna do? Pump, pump. 820 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 4: They know what's up. Viva sauce, HUDs and kisses. 821 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 3: Miss Cryscible frees Elcia says, this episode's pick is everything. 822 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,240 Speaker 4: It's a pick of a McDonald's. Burning Prince. 823 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,720 Speaker 3: Aron says, there's a McDonald's here in Boston that gives 824 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 3: two differing sauces for a ten piece nugget come out now, 825 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,439 Speaker 3: but only three for a twenty piece. I noticed that too. 826 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,399 Speaker 3: The sauce math is wrong, and you guys are trying 827 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 3: to get over on me to get that thirty two cent. 828 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 3: I can't do sauce math now. That shit they don't 829 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 3: even add up. I average three nuggets per dipping container. 830 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 3: Limited sauces. Take all the romance out to split in 831 00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 3: the twenty piece with your sigigga get other exactly. I 832 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 3: don't even order anymore. I don't even get nuggets from 833 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 3: that no more. Shoot, you sure don't, do you know, 834 00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 3: sauce The nugget ratio is too fucked up, man. 835 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 4: I don't even like I'll skip the McDonald's meal for real. 836 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 3: I tried to bully the young Asian girl into giving 837 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 3: the extra buffalo sauce, but she went and got her manager. 838 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 4: Oh they be doing that dart. They for thirty two cents. 839 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 3: It costs more to go get this nigga for thirty 840 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 3: two cent than to just give me my motherfucking sauce. 841 00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 7: And I know that manager to be pissed that they 842 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 7: be the fuck person that make the rule upright, You 843 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 7: gotta go harass them. 844 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 3: They be trying to act like they didn't know what 845 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 3: seems to be the problem. Yeah, I want extra hot mustard. 846 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 3: Oh well hold on, let me see just that'll be 847 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,239 Speaker 3: thirty two cents on me ring it up. Now, he 848 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 3: gotta ring the shit up, find the one hidden sauce button. 849 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 4: And shit, man, and you know it. 850 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 7: You know that shit be made up because they'd be 851 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 7: looking at looking down in the end. What they also 852 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,879 Speaker 7: do is if they really don't have it in their thing, 853 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 7: they like you do that miscellaneous point thirty two cent nigga, 854 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 7: This was not in your you made this shit up 855 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 7: in charge miscellaneous price. 856 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 3: When I saw that manager was a middle aged black woman, 857 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 3: I knew them dry nuggets were in my immediate future. 858 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 3: It's situations like this that make me sad to be 859 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,840 Speaker 3: an American. All I wanted was some hot sauce in 860 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 3: my bag. Hot sauce in my bag. I understand. Man, 861 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 3: it's a struggle out there, for real, it is. And 862 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 3: then we had episode let's see that was five ninety seven, 863 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 3: five ninety eight. 864 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 4: Tomlin did it on purpose? We had two comments. Kevin says, Honestly, 865 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 4: why didn't they just suspend him? 866 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 3: Talking about Mike Tomlin, who I believe obviously stood on 867 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 3: the field to try to stop a touchdown, Why didn't 868 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 3: they just suspend him instead of taking draft picks. Maybe 869 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 3: the league wants to hurt the stealers. Less chances are 870 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 3: they draft of linemen who couldn't block anyway. Yeah, they 871 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:55,240 Speaker 3: do stay getting hurt. And this episode did have comedian 872 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,359 Speaker 3: Chris Lambeth on it. 873 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 4: For the record, HC. 874 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,720 Speaker 3: Says, Chris Lambeth has been on so many times recently 875 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 3: recently he might have to officially take Justin's old place's 876 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,319 Speaker 3: co host, especially now that Justin is too good for 877 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,360 Speaker 3: the regular show. 878 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,879 Speaker 4: Now and only does premium shows. But more. 879 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 3: Chris Lamborth is fine with me as long as he 880 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 3: doesn't forget about the racist chat room when he and 881 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,480 Speaker 3: Chris Harwick become Hollywood stars. 882 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, hopefully won't. He won't remember who who supported him 883 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 4: from the jump. 884 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,240 Speaker 3: The poll for the show is that Mike Tomlin's staying 885 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:29,280 Speaker 3: on the field on purpose? 886 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 4: Yes or no? 887 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 3: Yes, he definitely did it on purpose. No, it was 888 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,800 Speaker 3: an honest mistake. Yes, he definitely did it on purpose. 889 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 3: Seventy five percent of people have significant smarts in our audience, 890 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 3: and twenty five percent of you guys are either still 891 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 3: as fans or so sensitive to a black coach that 892 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 3: you will lie. Yeah, because y'all think he didn't do 893 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 3: it on purpose. VC three says, of course he did 894 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 3: it on purposes written all over his face. How you 895 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 3: gonna do that and cheese like that on national television 896 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 3: then turn around to act like you didn't do that 897 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 3: on purpose. Come on, people, there's no need for y'all 898 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,160 Speaker 3: to cop please with Mike. 899 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 4: Tomlin on this. He did it. He got fine us 900 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:11,520 Speaker 4: all there is to it. I agree. Uh, we got 901 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:16,280 Speaker 4: a couple emails, I mean voicemails this week. Apparently it worked. 902 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:17,880 Speaker 4: I don't know why it stopped working. 903 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,399 Speaker 5: That Yeah, last week it was I'm nice even ship 904 00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:20,960 Speaker 5: when you. 905 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 4: See what I could play them for everybody. 906 00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 9: Karen, what's up? 907 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:28,760 Speaker 8: It's Mike, Uh when you're talking about uh the breast 908 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,840 Speaker 8: milk ship. And one that was an obvious clue that 909 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 8: it was a white lady because only white women will 910 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,359 Speaker 8: post on Facebook like look at my titties, I'm rest 911 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 8: feeding my baby, uh with just impunity like that. 912 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 9: And the other thing is too y'all remember the running 913 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 9: back Jamal Innocent used to play for the Falcons when 914 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,520 Speaker 9: they were in there, like Dirty Bird era. M He 915 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 9: had a NTV Criz episode and then he went to 916 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 9: the fridge and like opened the fridge and was like 917 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,120 Speaker 9: happy and shit and talking about, look, this is all 918 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 9: my breast milk. I used this for the extra so 919 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 9: I can you know breaking tackle? And I was like, nigga, 920 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 9: you don't need breast milk to do that. You're a 921 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 9: professional athlete. They got supplements for that ship. You're just 922 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 9: weird and you like to drink breast milk for no reason. 923 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,880 Speaker 9: So that always struck me his eyes because I didn't 924 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,839 Speaker 9: see why anybody would just immediately go to breast milk 925 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 9: instead of like way proteins. But you know, I guess 926 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 9: when you get rich, get these football contracts, you decided 927 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,359 Speaker 9: to get new on people. Anyway, That's all I got. 928 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 3: Later, every time I think about the breast milk, I 929 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 3: always think about that day Chapelle. You know that camboni 930 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,880 Speaker 3: and breast milk. Part of that that that puffed addy skod. 931 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, that's weird. That is a little weird grown 932 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 3: man and drinking breast milk, just keeping it in his fridge. 933 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 10: Interesting, he rights like. 934 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:04,240 Speaker 11: I was calling to reiterate or you know, co sign 935 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 11: your affiction that Mike Commlin definitely steps on the field 936 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 11: on purpose. In soccer, there's like a commonly accepted thing 937 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 11: called a professional file where if you're not the last defender, 938 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 11: because if you tackle somebody, you're the last defender on 939 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 11: a clear chance they could score, you get detective from 940 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 11: the game. But like, if you're not the last defender, 941 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 11: but they're the team's clearly like on a breakaway or 942 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 11: has a bunch of office defensive momentum, dude will just 943 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 11: straight up arm tackle guy to the ground like they 944 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,720 Speaker 11: are football players and just take the yellow card because 945 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 11: they know it's gonna stop them from having a very 946 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 11: very good chance of scoring. So and sometimes you don't 947 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,959 Speaker 11: even get called for it, Like if the referee doesn't 948 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 11: catch it, then they're down, You get the ball back, 949 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,280 Speaker 11: and you just play on like nothing ever happens. 950 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:54,840 Speaker 12: Wow. 951 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 11: So yeah, like, come on, dog, there's way more of 952 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,959 Speaker 11: an upside to just fuck with the play and see 953 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:09,400 Speaker 11: what happens, then to concede a guaranteed touchdown otherwise, And 954 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 11: I don't think he can find a draft pick, but 955 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 11: k you know, don't do that shit next time. I 956 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 11: don't think he caught it nearly. His dad a penalty 957 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 11: is like Belichick and a couple other people. So it's fine. 958 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 11: He probably won't do it again. But he did that 959 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,319 Speaker 11: ship on purchase this time, that's all. 960 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,440 Speaker 3: And uh, the only reason that's weird to me is 961 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 3: that people lied about what we all saw. 962 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:36,800 Speaker 5: Ain't that the true? 963 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 7: So then I'm like a stand up there at the 964 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 7: big screen watching that dude run. 965 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 4: Come on, you know, I'm like, are y'all trying to 966 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 4: say this man is dumb? 967 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 3: Because he seems to be a very savvy, smart individualize 968 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 3: and now y'all want me to believe he's so dumb 969 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 3: that he did something no coach has ever done by 970 00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:00,320 Speaker 3: accident before and walk onto the field in the middle 971 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 3: of a fucking play like, sorry, but I'm not buying it, okay, 972 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 3: in his face, actors gave away everything like, I don't 973 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,919 Speaker 3: know how you look at that face and go, that's 974 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 3: a man who definitely didn't do that on purpose. Like 975 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 3: he like a dude who was happy as hell. He 976 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 3: stopped six points for being on the board. 977 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:31,400 Speaker 10: Next voicemail, Hey, Rod and Karen, it's r J from 978 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 10: Colorado or better known as Rublox Riot. 979 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 980 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 13: I haven't left like feedback in a while, so but 981 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 13: what I wanted to say was, well, first of all, 982 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 13: you guys are doing awesome as always. And the episode 983 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 13: I think it was five ninety seven where the lead 984 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:02,879 Speaker 13: singer from Lost Profits, you know, admitted to all those 985 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,440 Speaker 13: charges that kind of broke my heart because I grew 986 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,720 Speaker 13: up listening to them. They had been around for so long, 987 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 13: and when I heard it, I was like, well, I 988 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 13: guess I gotta go burn all their music or in 989 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 13: the age, you know, I got to delete it from 990 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 13: my computer. I don't want to be held accountable for 991 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 13: listening to their music and being judged for supporting them 992 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 13: or whatsoever. But yeah, it just kind of threw me back. 993 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 2: You know. 994 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 13: It's like I didn't expect that to happen whatsoever, and 995 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 13: considering that's Welsh, you know, I didn't really think that, 996 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 13: you know, like that was going to happen. But with 997 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 13: people you never know, and a lot of the topics 998 00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 13: you guys have talked about, you know, I have been 999 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 13: really really good and very on point, especially the whole 1000 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,399 Speaker 13: discussion about girls being fast. It's like girls are being 1001 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 13: born into society already with labels on them. You know, 1002 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 13: it's like, oh, you're a girl, well for autumn, going 1003 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:06,399 Speaker 13: to label you sweatsh you have low rights whatsoever, and 1004 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 13: good luck. So but that's all I wanted to say. 1005 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 13: You guys, have a good one and happy holidays and 1006 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:17,840 Speaker 13: keep up the good work. 1007 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 5: Bye bye bye, Thank you sweetie. 1008 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 4: Thanks r J. Yeah, there was a couple of things 1009 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 4: about the lost profits. 1010 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:30,840 Speaker 3: Do one like I've noticed on Twitter, like people go 1011 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,479 Speaker 3: back and forth on like r Kelly, where you'll see 1012 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,879 Speaker 3: people like I was listening to this album or Hey, 1013 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,919 Speaker 3: Trapped in the Closet seventy five is out, let's live 1014 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 3: to it between that and then vacillating back to uh, 1015 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:48,800 Speaker 3: he's a pedophile that you know, society kind of protects 1016 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,920 Speaker 3: and stuff. And I've been off of that dude for 1017 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:56,879 Speaker 3: a long time, Like really, uh, And it wasn't even 1018 00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 3: on purpose. 1019 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,399 Speaker 4: It wasn't to make some statement. I don't. 1020 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 3: It's not a social media stance or some shit that 1021 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 3: I have against them. It really before even Twitter, Facebook 1022 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 3: all that shit. It was just a I could not 1023 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 3: unders get over it. And then it was the discussion 1024 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 3: around it that really turned me off for R. Kelly's Like, 1025 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,359 Speaker 3: I was talking to too many people that seem to 1026 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 3: not have any problem with what he did, and were 1027 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 3: even worse, were compiling it by being like, oh, those 1028 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,839 Speaker 3: girls are the problem. They're fast, or they even doing 1029 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 3: at a concert. If they if their parents took money 1030 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 3: to hush up, then you know, then what did he 1031 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 3: really doing anything wrong? 1032 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,759 Speaker 4: And I was like I can't. Yeah, I was just 1033 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 4: like I can't have these conversations, man. 1034 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,800 Speaker 3: So all of a sudden, I couldn't listen to the 1035 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 3: music without thinking about, you know, people, because my thing 1036 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 3: is if I you know, my reaction to stuff is 1037 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 3: I joke about it. So if I think somebody is 1038 00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 3: fucking pedophile, probably wild mock them. And these motherfuckers get 1039 00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 3: mad at me, Like, man, why you keep saying I 1040 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:00,360 Speaker 3: was like, cause he is. 1041 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:01,280 Speaker 5: And it's the truth. 1042 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 4: It's a child. It's not even close to not you 1043 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 4: have videotape evidence. It's not even close. And of course, like. 1044 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 3: With this dude, you know, it's funny because you know, 1045 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 3: I don't think a lot of black people necessarily listen 1046 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 3: to uh to the Lost Profits, So maybe that was 1047 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 3: part of it, but you know, it may it makes 1048 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 3: sense that people would feel that way, and I think 1049 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 3: the Lost Profits lost a lot of profits behind this scandal. 1050 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:40,279 Speaker 4: Uh, all right, let's move to the next box man. 1051 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,319 Speaker 4: Visual jokes are so cool. 1052 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,400 Speaker 13: It's urga again. Sorry, there is something else that I 1053 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 13: wanted to make a comment about the life of premises 1054 00:50:53,280 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 13: from North Dakota. I think when out four was sub 1055 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 13: Saharan black, I started laughing. I was like, no, he 1056 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:13,200 Speaker 13: should be fourteen percent white devil, That's what I thought. Yeah, 1057 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:17,960 Speaker 13: nobody's exactly one hundred percent. I mean unless you're you. 1058 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 5: Know, nobody is. 1059 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 13: I don't know from uh, possibly you know, from from 1060 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 13: the same country, But as far as I'm concerned, anybody 1061 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 13: in America's never one hundred percent. But I'm gonna let 1062 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 13: you guys go. It's like negative six or seven degrees here, 1063 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,200 Speaker 13: so I'm gonna running inside and get warm. 1064 00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 5: But you guys take care by praise r J and 1065 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 5: stay warm. 1066 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 3: Uh And yeah, I don't even know why white supremacists 1067 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,840 Speaker 3: make those kind of claims. 1068 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 4: They can't back up anyway. 1069 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 3: Come on now, I'm one hundred percent pure aryan white 1070 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 3: man all the way back to the north Lands. It's like, 1071 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,879 Speaker 3: you don't know that shit, and you ain't never had 1072 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,399 Speaker 3: no fucking family tree it all. 1073 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:00,759 Speaker 4: The way out. 1074 00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 7: Everybody's mixed up with some man. I'm trying to tell 1075 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,240 Speaker 7: you light scamped people needn't come from nowhere. 1076 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, that late that black lady started laughing so good. 1077 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 5: Though he's a nigga. I counted the math. You don't 1078 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 5: add up. 1079 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 4: It's not one hundred That's what I know. 1080 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 5: That's all they met. 1081 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 4: Last voice, ma'am. 1082 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:27,719 Speaker 6: Hey boos, it's nicked NICKI Jew Patty Light give a 1083 00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,760 Speaker 6: dog a bone uptown three five seven Max o'clock will him. 1084 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,400 Speaker 6: I'm just going to say, and got from another great 1085 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 6: week of shows. Always great to hear, Sollo Theater nerd 1086 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,200 Speaker 6: Chris Lambeth on the show, I want to say, I 1087 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,239 Speaker 6: know people give like me a lot of hell and 1088 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,680 Speaker 6: his movies be about. 1089 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,800 Speaker 2: Fifty eleven things. He is one of my favorite directors, 1090 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:56,960 Speaker 2: five of not top three. Some of his cinematic fingerprints 1091 00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:03,000 Speaker 2: are unmistakably undeniable, unique, and he's kind of revolutionized the 1092 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:07,400 Speaker 2: film game in that respect. And I also just wanted 1093 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 2: to say thank you for reminding me why I'm not 1094 00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 2: supposed to buy Papa Johns, because they are writing down 1095 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,880 Speaker 2: the street from my house and they delivered in a 1096 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:16,719 Speaker 2: lot of time I ordered from them. I was like, 1097 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 2: there is a reason why I'm not supposed to be ordering, 1098 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 2: and you reminded me. So happy belated Hankah to the 1099 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:31,919 Speaker 2: rest of the people, and they tried love y'all, see y'all, 1100 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 2: seon bye. 1101 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:34,759 Speaker 4: Thank you, Nick, Jill. 1102 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 3: Yes, we appreciate the car for sure, and the con words. 1103 00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:45,560 Speaker 3: We do have some emails, Okay, so let's get to him. 1104 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 3: Five ninety five Fast Tailed Girls from Jeffrey Sales. 1105 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:50,759 Speaker 4: He says, good afternoon. 1106 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,040 Speaker 3: My name is jeff and I've been an avid fan 1107 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,200 Speaker 3: of your podcast for a good while now. I felt 1108 00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 3: the need to write in about your last episode. I 1109 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 3: just wanted to say kudos talking on the subject, because 1110 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,560 Speaker 3: I can relate to the subject to being a father 1111 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,799 Speaker 3: of a fifteen year old daughter, you know. For the record, Also, 1112 00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 3: one of the things that I saw around the conversation 1113 00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 3: was like, and this is like a social media thing. 1114 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,000 Speaker 3: It's like a politically correct, like left type of idea 1115 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 3: that I don't believe in. But it's the idea that 1116 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:25,560 Speaker 3: only the victim of something can even discuss something, or 1117 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,320 Speaker 3: if you want to contribute in any type of opinion, 1118 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 3: then it should just be to The only thing you 1119 00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 3: should be able to ask is how can I help? 1120 00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:35,399 Speaker 4: And that's it. 1121 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 3: And that's cool if you want to be an ally 1122 00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 3: or advocate or whateverever label you want to have on it. 1123 00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 5: But other people around that person too, now. 1124 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 3: Right, and not just that, But it's not everybody that 1125 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,879 Speaker 3: is has experienced something or been a victim of something 1126 00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 3: doesn't even always see things the same way. 1127 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 4: Number two, You're still. 1128 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 3: In the world and you have to deal with these 1129 00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 3: other people who either perpetuate these things, they live under 1130 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,040 Speaker 3: the same issues with these things as far as in 1131 00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 3: the same world, like they live in the same world 1132 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 3: where maybe you have a daughter, maybe you have a wife, 1133 00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:14,279 Speaker 3: maybe you have a mother that has dealt with this stuff. 1134 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 4: And you can't. Really it does matter what you think, and. 1135 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,240 Speaker 3: The conversation should happen without it just being dictated one way, 1136 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,759 Speaker 3: because there's a lot of knowledge to be gained on 1137 00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 3: both sides, I think. 1138 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 4: But it's very people are very dismissive. 1139 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 3: So that was another reason that I would never be like, 1140 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,360 Speaker 3: let's go get a panelist of people to talk about this. 1141 00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:38,759 Speaker 3: The one time I went and try to get a 1142 00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 3: panelist of people to talk about someone, I show end 1143 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:43,319 Speaker 3: up being a clusterfuck. Remember that when it was like 1144 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 3: people talking of each other, people getting mad each other, 1145 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:49,239 Speaker 3: People couldn't agree because just because people are all of 1146 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 3: one background doesn't mean they even all agree with this shit, 1147 00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:56,400 Speaker 3: you know. I think we did two different episodes about 1148 00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 3: reviewing girls, and both of them ended up being like 1149 00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:02,840 Speaker 3: very argument. Not between me. I was just basically listening, 1150 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 3: but the guests were like this and that and the other, 1151 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 3: and I don't agree with you, and I don't agree 1152 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 3: with that, and it's like, yeah, this is a terrible idea. 1153 00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,440 Speaker 3: So but I like when I hear people that, you know, 1154 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:15,440 Speaker 3: even if it's just to hear their opinion and go, well, 1155 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:16,920 Speaker 3: I don't agree with that, but this is how I 1156 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 3: see it. I like that we have conversations that in 1157 00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:25,080 Speaker 3: voting people to like that typically wouldn't even talk about. 1158 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,760 Speaker 7: This shit, to talk about it because of so many people, 1159 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 7: especially a lot of political or either other places just 1160 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 7: completely skipped over this. It's like we either we're not 1161 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 7: gonna talk about it, or if we talk about it, 1162 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:37,200 Speaker 7: it's going. 1163 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 4: To be a very controlled conversation. 1164 00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,719 Speaker 7: Yes, we're not going to get into things to make 1165 00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:43,839 Speaker 7: people feel uncomfortable. 1166 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,600 Speaker 5: We're not going to get into things that make you. 1167 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 7: Make you get to the point where people turn off, 1168 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:51,880 Speaker 7: stop listening. This is one of these things. But we 1169 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 7: don't care. You either listen or you don't. We want 1170 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 7: to talk about this and we're going to be heard. 1171 00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,799 Speaker 3: Which is the point of all conversations I think on 1172 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,360 Speaker 3: the show is that it's it's okay to be uncomfortable, 1173 00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,799 Speaker 3: it's okay to even be wrong, but have the conversation. 1174 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,400 Speaker 4: Man, Like, too many people say they're having. 1175 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 5: A conversation, it's not really a conversation. 1176 00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 3: It's them dictating to other everyone else like what they 1177 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:14,960 Speaker 3: should and should not be able to say or do. 1178 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 5: And that's it. 1179 00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 7: Yes, it's one Saturday, and sometimes you just your particular 1180 00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:20,680 Speaker 7: point of view can be wrong. 1181 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 5: So it's good to open up. It's good to have debates. 1182 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,800 Speaker 3: Because at the end of the day, that was just 1183 00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 3: more of a jumping out point for us to talk 1184 00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:31,840 Speaker 3: about different issues. Like I don't really care that much 1185 00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:34,160 Speaker 3: about this topic in general. I don't care about a 1186 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 3: lot of topics that we bring up on the show 1187 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,920 Speaker 3: in general. But I like the jumping off spot for 1188 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 3: us to have a conversation of our own, and that 1189 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 3: conversation is ours, not you know, I don't want to 1190 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 3: own this shit. 1191 00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 4: I don't care about. 1192 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,440 Speaker 3: It, like honestly, like a lot of times we'll bring 1193 00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 3: up stuff on the show where it's like I don't 1194 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 3: care about it this way, but I do care about 1195 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 3: Like we talked about religion, which I didn't see a 1196 00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:56,400 Speaker 3: lot of people talk about, and it's like, you know, 1197 00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,800 Speaker 3: let's talk about that, you know, let's talk about you know, 1198 00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,080 Speaker 3: how we you know, let's talk about the other side 1199 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,000 Speaker 3: of it from other people's perspectives. So anyway, this dude, right, 1200 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 3: Sinny says, I just wanted to say kudos talking on 1201 00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,160 Speaker 3: the subject because I can relate to the subject being 1202 00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 3: a father of a fifteen year old daughter, I have 1203 00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 3: to explain to her how important it is to address 1204 00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,480 Speaker 3: what feelings she is dealing with, and she grows up 1205 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 3: as a younger woman. I keep it real with her, 1206 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,600 Speaker 3: but I don't do the scared straight methods that our 1207 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,320 Speaker 3: parents used that in all honesty didn't work. 1208 00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 4: Of course, I. 1209 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,080 Speaker 3: Do my best to tell her how to deal with 1210 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 3: those feelings carefully and to be able to properly address 1211 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 3: the guys that approach her, as well as how her 1212 00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:32,000 Speaker 3: peers try to pressure her into doing something she may. 1213 00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 4: Or may not be ready for. 1214 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,920 Speaker 3: Me personally, when I was young growing up, we made 1215 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,240 Speaker 3: bad errors due to our parents not talking to us properly, 1216 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 3: and both on both ends. 1217 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 4: As boys, we were simply drilled. 1218 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,960 Speaker 3: Into our heads about getting the girl pregnant and how 1219 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 3: bad we were looking. We did something early, and girls 1220 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,960 Speaker 3: were shamed into thinking that acting on their feelings was 1221 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 3: evil and horrible. Had I had better talk to my parents, 1222 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,520 Speaker 3: then maybe I would not have been so apprehensive about 1223 00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,520 Speaker 3: those feelings or making poor judgment calls. I don't want 1224 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 3: my child have to go through what me and her 1225 00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,960 Speaker 3: mother went through his teens, but sometimes it gets hard 1226 00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,280 Speaker 3: due to similar pressures as well as other factors like 1227 00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:09,640 Speaker 3: social media and the pressures that comes from that. 1228 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:11,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and a lot of. 1229 00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,960 Speaker 3: People still have like social circles where you know, maybe 1230 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,920 Speaker 3: your grandmother's you know, your mom's religious, so she's a 1231 00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,920 Speaker 3: grandmother your child. You know, she may take care of 1232 00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,919 Speaker 3: your child from time to time. You never know how 1233 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:27,000 Speaker 3: other people are laying because this shit is like insidious. 1234 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 3: It's ingrained in society, like you know, that's just that's 1235 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:32,400 Speaker 3: just what it is. So you're gonna have people that 1236 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 3: are like, yeah, yo, you might not tell your daughter this, 1237 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,280 Speaker 3: but when you go down grandmama house, she getting called 1238 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 3: fast for painting her toenails. 1239 00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. It's like you gotta deal 1240 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:44,120 Speaker 4: with this shit too. 1241 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 3: Perfume, right, other people's kids, you know, they come in 1242 00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:53,439 Speaker 3: to school with their preconceived notions like it's out there, man, 1243 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,000 Speaker 3: and I don't know how you you know, deal with it. 1244 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 3: Sex and jokes, says Shana Hey Karen Rod listen episode 1245 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 3: five ninety five and on the weigh in on a 1246 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:04,720 Speaker 3: couple of things. I was raising the church during my 1247 01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,840 Speaker 3: early life, but my parents also encouraged me to ask 1248 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:10,760 Speaker 3: questions and be skeptical about what ministers say. I will 1249 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,200 Speaker 3: never forget my first convo with my mom about sex. 1250 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,760 Speaker 3: It went like this, twelve year old Shana, Mom, what 1251 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,280 Speaker 3: do you think about premier or sex? 1252 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:18,680 Speaker 7: Mom. 1253 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:20,840 Speaker 3: I know I'm probably supposed to tell you wait until 1254 01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 3: you get married, but I'm if I'm going, if I'm 1255 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,120 Speaker 3: being honest, you really should take it for a test 1256 01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,920 Speaker 3: drive first a few times. Actually, well, you know that 1257 01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,040 Speaker 3: is a different spin on that, you know, I'm quite honestly, 1258 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 3: I understand. I was never told that my body, on 1259 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 3: my sexuality was anything to be ashamed of, and I 1260 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 3: credit my parents for the fact that I have always 1261 01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 3: been in control of what happens with my body and 1262 01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:45,480 Speaker 3: who is allowed to do it. I found that when 1263 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 3: I started having sex, I was much more knowledgeable than 1264 01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 3: my peers about safety, etc. 1265 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:49,919 Speaker 12: Yep. 1266 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 3: And sex was significantly more pleasurable for me than my 1267 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:56,080 Speaker 3: female friends. I believe that too, Yeah, because we do 1268 01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,160 Speaker 3: put women in this like that was. You know, we 1269 01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:01,000 Speaker 3: talked about that the relationship my earlier with my friend 1270 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 3: and the girl. 1271 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 5: People are women are suppressed and they're taught. If it 1272 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:06,440 Speaker 5: ain't missionary, you're dirty. 1273 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 3: You can't hear she's told she was told that, and 1274 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 3: not just that, but she probably thinks like with herself, 1275 01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:16,400 Speaker 3: like I can live this way. 1276 01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:16,920 Speaker 4: I can. 1277 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,040 Speaker 3: I can, I can, I can be okay being a 1278 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:22,840 Speaker 3: quote unquote prude because at least I'm a q quote 1279 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:23,880 Speaker 3: unquote good girl. 1280 01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,720 Speaker 7: And if I open up, I don't want you to 1281 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 7: look at me other than this. And even if that 1282 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:34,200 Speaker 7: dude is like, I don't care, she's like, no, I've 1283 01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 7: been taking I've been trained, I've been taught. If I 1284 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 7: do anything outside of that, I'm a whore and I'm 1285 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 7: a slipt. I don't want to be considered anything any 1286 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 7: of that. 1287 01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 3: And sex was significantly more pleasurable than my female friends. Yeah, 1288 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 3: there's a lot of women that are like, I've never 1289 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,760 Speaker 3: had an orgasm and shit like that, cause it's like 1290 01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:53,040 Speaker 3: that would also be some type of exuded some type 1291 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 3: of control or aggressiveness quote unquote to your sex. And 1292 01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 3: you're not supposed to want that because you're a woman. 1293 01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you have lady parts. 1294 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,680 Speaker 7: I know that that that and also I think that 1295 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:12,040 Speaker 7: also in my particular opinion, might contribute to a lot 1296 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 7: of women since they've never really explored their body, had organism, 1297 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,400 Speaker 7: even women that I'm married with children. You get to 1298 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,200 Speaker 7: the point where you're like, well, sex is just something 1299 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 7: I do because my husband's wanted, not because I physically 1300 01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,680 Speaker 7: enjoy it. Because it's like it's nothing desirable to me. 1301 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,760 Speaker 7: It's like he get finished, and you look like that's it. 1302 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 7: There's nothing more to this. When you come to parties over. 1303 01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't won't, I don't masurbate, I don't have 1304 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,919 Speaker 3: anything I don't like. None of this is all sex 1305 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:40,040 Speaker 3: is for reproduction and the pleasing of my man. 1306 01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,640 Speaker 7: Other than that, I don't fuck, so you know, and 1307 01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,160 Speaker 7: then you know, dudes wonder why these women shut down 1308 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:47,760 Speaker 7: or they have a baby, and then they're like, well, 1309 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:48,480 Speaker 7: we ain't fucking at all. 1310 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,040 Speaker 5: All my teams going to my baby because I don't 1311 01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 5: like sex. 1312 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:50,640 Speaker 7: No way. 1313 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:53,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, the Bible doesn't have too many good sex scenes. 1314 01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 3: And all of them happened in Sardamga morn. You saw 1315 01:02:56,680 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 3: what happen in that place. There are emotional consequences, confusion 1316 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:05,240 Speaker 3: and consent the potential consequences for a person's sexual partners. 1317 01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,680 Speaker 3: Shame about one's body can also prevent folks from doing 1318 01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 3: everyday things like going to the doctor because they never 1319 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,600 Speaker 3: checked those hidden places anyway. 1320 01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 4: That's my two cents. 1321 01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:17,800 Speaker 3: Also, as it relates to the Paul Walker jokes, you 1322 01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 3: didn't have to explain yourself. Rod, the nigga from Fast 1323 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,720 Speaker 3: and Furious, died in a fiery car crash. I laughed 1324 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,840 Speaker 3: at the irony even before anyone started making jokes about it. 1325 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,160 Speaker 3: If Paul Walker's ghost came back and haunted Rod, he 1326 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 3: would probably make jokes on Twitter about how ashing he 1327 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:37,720 Speaker 3: looks after the car fire, and I would favored it 1328 01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:41,640 Speaker 3: and laugh a lot, so keep the jokes coming. Yeah, 1329 01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:45,080 Speaker 3: it was funny too because he's Paul Walker who dies 1330 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 3: in the ironic way and the people that cared only 1331 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 3: cared because he was fine. So that was what was 1332 01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,720 Speaker 3: funny to me. Like Man Della died the other day, 1333 01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:57,040 Speaker 3: I didn't have any jokes for that shit. I couldn't 1334 01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,120 Speaker 3: really think of any anyway, but I didn't have any 1335 01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,760 Speaker 3: jokes for it because I was like, that motherfucker really. 1336 01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:05,600 Speaker 5: Mattered, Yeah, you know, like for freedom. 1337 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:06,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. 1338 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 3: He lived one of the hardest lives, uh in the world. 1339 01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,680 Speaker 4: Point Paul Walkers lived in a lap of luxury. 1340 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,360 Speaker 3: Man can't like, I don't get why people were like 1341 01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:20,040 Speaker 3: he's so off limits. 1342 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 4: But it was funny to. 1343 01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:26,680 Speaker 3: Watch a person who really had an impact on the 1344 01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 3: world die four or five days after a person that 1345 01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:34,600 Speaker 3: people shallowly used as a tool to make themselves look 1346 01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:39,680 Speaker 3: more righteous. On Twitter, Uh, it was so much different 1347 01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,920 Speaker 3: because motherfuckers was on some like I bet not hear 1348 01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:48,640 Speaker 3: nothing about Nelson Mandela. I bet not hear nothing about 1349 01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:54,760 Speaker 3: let a nigga please anyone. They were making jokes. I 1350 01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:59,160 Speaker 3: couldn't find a joke on Twitter, but motherfuckers were swearing 1351 01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 3: they would. Some one was gonna do it and they 1352 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,280 Speaker 3: was gonna get them. I was like, I hope you 1353 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,520 Speaker 3: ain't talking to me. I'm not mak that's like maying 1354 01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,400 Speaker 3: a joke with Martin Luther King nine or something like. 1355 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 4: It's you know. 1356 01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 3: I was wonder one person even hit me. I was like, 1357 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,240 Speaker 3: you don't got no Mandela jokes. I was like, of 1358 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,480 Speaker 3: course not, he fucking mattered. 1359 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 5: Come on now, I spent no got is something years 1360 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 5: in prison? Come on, doll. 1361 01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:23,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like Nelson Mandela had one of the bottom five 1362 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 3: lives as far as hardship, and Paul Walker had one 1363 01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:30,040 Speaker 3: of the top five. What are we even discussing here? 1364 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, what did he end up? Did Paul Walker 1365 01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 3: end some apart tied? 1366 01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 4: I didn't know about. Come on, man people, so man anyway? 1367 01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 7: Uh? 1368 01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:47,760 Speaker 3: Feedback Chris Lambert is from Christine. She says, big fan 1369 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,320 Speaker 3: of the show. Thank you for helping my work dad 1370 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:54,280 Speaker 3: A little bit, be a little bit, be a little 1371 01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,400 Speaker 3: easier to get through. I usually don't do things like this, 1372 01:05:58,080 --> 01:05:59,560 Speaker 3: but I had to. I had to put it out 1373 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:01,920 Speaker 3: there on staff. But I think I have a slight 1374 01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:07,000 Speaker 3: crush on Chris Lambert all he is funny, seems I 1375 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 3: have good tastes in music and movies, smart, and something 1376 01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 3: about his voice is kind of hot. I ain't his type, though, 1377 01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,440 Speaker 3: judging on what you guys say on the show and 1378 01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 3: his love for quirky white girls. I'm quirky, but I'm black. 1379 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,960 Speaker 3: Just kidding, but he seems like a great guy. For 1380 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,560 Speaker 3: the record, I make I make that joke about Chris 1381 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:37,320 Speaker 3: Lambert because he likes independent movies, and every independent movie 1382 01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:41,280 Speaker 3: is basically about a quirky white girl. Yes, and it's 1383 01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,320 Speaker 3: annoying and shit to me, But Chris loves these movies 1384 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:45,200 Speaker 3: and I'm just like that. 1385 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:47,360 Speaker 4: It's not good. It's the same shit over it. 1386 01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:51,760 Speaker 3: It's a white girl, but she she collects leaves in 1387 01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 3: a book and her hair is dyed. Curbles like, no, 1388 01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:58,560 Speaker 3: fucking let me guess. Another awkward dude meets a quirky 1389 01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,560 Speaker 3: white girl and falls in love. He loved the movies 1390 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,040 Speaker 3: though the plot is the same that every fucking one 1391 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:08,000 Speaker 3: of those movies anyway, But he loves those movies. He 1392 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,120 Speaker 3: loves the performance. So I made the joke like, oh, 1393 01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,600 Speaker 3: he loved white women, But I don't know that for 1394 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 3: a fact. Anyway, I would have to check up his 1395 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:16,920 Speaker 3: check out his stand up if he comes of my 1396 01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:18,600 Speaker 3: town and his podcast. 1397 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:18,640 Speaker 5: Please do. 1398 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:23,040 Speaker 3: He's hilarious The Mundane Festival keep please keep this anonymous? 1399 01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 4: Too late, Plus, just a regular fan of the show. 1400 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,080 Speaker 3: First of all, if you want an anonymous, you guys 1401 01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:29,560 Speaker 3: got to start with that in the first line. 1402 01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:30,600 Speaker 4: Sorry. 1403 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:32,600 Speaker 3: I don't know how you spake me to get halfway 1404 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,480 Speaker 3: through this to be like, oh, I'm sorry. 1405 01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:36,919 Speaker 4: Just a regular fan of the show. PS. I follow 1406 01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:38,600 Speaker 4: you guys on Twitter. I just joined. 1407 01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:41,240 Speaker 3: I know I am laying and lay lol cares Walking 1408 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 3: Dead profile picks are hilarious. 1409 01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:44,280 Speaker 4: Black and Mad had me dying. 1410 01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:46,280 Speaker 5: You're welcome, sweetie. 1411 01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,720 Speaker 4: They are good. If you follow card on Twitter, say 1412 01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:49,200 Speaker 4: that again. 1413 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 5: I change it, Like every week for The Walking Dead, 1414 01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 5: I was like, now, what happened this week? 1415 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 7: Because the Mexican dude when he died, I did a 1416 01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,280 Speaker 7: pick of him looking crazy, going almost. 1417 01:07:59,000 --> 01:07:59,640 Speaker 5: Had it all. 1418 01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:04,440 Speaker 3: Episode five eighty five, Dinner in the Show from a 1419 01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,080 Speaker 3: man Mike Gray. You know over a season in London. 1420 01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:11,280 Speaker 3: I'm just caught up on five eighty five, best episode ever. 1421 01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 3: I'm glad you guys met Fante. I didn't listen. I 1422 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:15,960 Speaker 3: don't listen to hip hop. I don't know anything about it, 1423 01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 3: but I heard It's too late for us when you 1424 01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:21,160 Speaker 3: played it on your podcast and instantly liked it. Like 1425 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,439 Speaker 3: in the first second or two, I recognize a sample 1426 01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,560 Speaker 3: from a record that was really important to me, A 1427 01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:27,400 Speaker 3: jazz fusion record that came. 1428 01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:28,439 Speaker 4: Out in nineteen ninety seven. 1429 01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:29,000 Speaker 10: Cool. 1430 01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 4: When I was in my twenties by a band named 1431 01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:35,599 Speaker 4: National Health Wow. They had a band. Ain't National Health Wow, 1432 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 4: That's what it was. Yeah, Obama conspiracy continues. 1433 01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,320 Speaker 5: Yes, they got a whole band, a natural health band. 1434 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:45,240 Speaker 3: I never expected to hear using hip hop. It is 1435 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:48,519 Speaker 3: about as far away as you can get. You put 1436 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,720 Speaker 3: the video link in here. If we want to listen 1437 01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:53,559 Speaker 3: to it. Let me see if I could play the sound. 1438 01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:56,800 Speaker 4: Do I have just mute it or something? Oh? No, 1439 01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:18,880 Speaker 4: there is hy hang it a little bit. That's my health. 1440 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:34,840 Speaker 4: Oh there is. That's it. Yeah, that was it dog. 1441 01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,040 Speaker 5: Oh it sure is. 1442 01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:46,120 Speaker 1: Not drugs. 1443 01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,560 Speaker 3: And uh, let me see if I can play the 1444 01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:03,000 Speaker 3: regular the f version with Todd Phoenix. 1445 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:13,880 Speaker 12: Yes, yes, you know how like the woman that got 1446 01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 12: away or whatever. This would be like it'd be like. 1447 01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:34,160 Speaker 4: On her side of the bed because and now she's 1448 01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:36,519 Speaker 4: that's my ship. By the way. 1449 01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:40,840 Speaker 5: Wow, thank you, than knowledge. 1450 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:44,719 Speaker 3: Appreciated, Mike and London shout out overseas Doll. Kyle Love writes, 1451 01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 3: saying humbled and honored. Peace riding Karen. I just want 1452 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:50,240 Speaker 3: to let you both know how much I enjoy your show. 1453 01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,600 Speaker 3: And as I said on Twitter, your show is a 1454 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:55,680 Speaker 3: two for one because them racist members of the chat 1455 01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:57,880 Speaker 3: room are crazy as hell and I love them all. 1456 01:10:58,680 --> 01:10:59,120 Speaker 4: That's true. 1457 01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,559 Speaker 3: A recent episode with Moody was so damn good, as 1458 01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:06,439 Speaker 3: Aaron B shared, I was so it was so amazing 1459 01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:10,360 Speaker 3: to see two of my favorite podcasters podcast show hosts 1460 01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,720 Speaker 3: interacting together with no ego King Moody, flat line me 1461 01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:15,680 Speaker 3: and Guess the race with blizz Ak. 1462 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:17,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was awful. 1463 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 3: Lastly, I just want to say that Karen contems to 1464 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,400 Speaker 3: be an inspiration to me and all of my sisters 1465 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 3: on the Black Astronauts podcast Ladies Launch, Yeah, I. 1466 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,080 Speaker 5: Just want to tell them thank you so much. 1467 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:32,720 Speaker 7: I actually recorded with them Thursday night, and we had 1468 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:34,840 Speaker 7: such a good time sex and the sisters, y'all go 1469 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:35,519 Speaker 7: check that out soon. 1470 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:38,320 Speaker 5: Astet up. I'll let y'all know. And we had such 1471 01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:38,799 Speaker 5: a good. 1472 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:43,960 Speaker 7: Time and and it was a lot of how can 1473 01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:46,160 Speaker 7: I say me doing this, Sometimes you don't realize how 1474 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:48,760 Speaker 7: much of influence that you are other people. And it's 1475 01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,560 Speaker 7: wonderful for black women to actually share love and not 1476 01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 7: always tearing each other down like people quote unquote think 1477 01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:54,920 Speaker 7: we always do. 1478 01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:57,760 Speaker 4: It is awesome, man. I'll listen to you when you 1479 01:11:57,920 --> 01:11:59,720 Speaker 4: at our whiskey Wuna moonshine too. 1480 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:01,240 Speaker 5: Uh my girls too. 1481 01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:01,840 Speaker 12: I love it. 1482 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 13: Man. 1483 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:06,040 Speaker 3: It's funny because I think people feel a little weird 1484 01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,679 Speaker 3: about the idea of like everywhere you guys go, it's 1485 01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:09,519 Speaker 3: like a love fest. 1486 01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:12,880 Speaker 4: Everybody loves y'all. Y'all loved them one. I wish that 1487 01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,120 Speaker 4: was true, but. 1488 01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:19,080 Speaker 3: As we've experienced a few times it's not always true, 1489 01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 3: but I love that it is that way, and I 1490 01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,240 Speaker 3: hope we get to a point where it doesn't make 1491 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:30,320 Speaker 3: people uneasy, that two people can appreciate each other's work 1492 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:34,360 Speaker 3: and get along and be nice and yeah, and not. 1493 01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:37,000 Speaker 4: Have to like insult each other and. 1494 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 7: Tear each other down and things like that, and and 1495 01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 7: and and For me, uh uh, personally, I feel as though, 1496 01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:47,880 Speaker 7: because the world is so mean and cruel, I think 1497 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 7: some people don't think we're genuine I'm not trying to 1498 01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,439 Speaker 7: be fun. They don't. They really don't think that we 1499 01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 7: genuinely love doing what we're doing. We love reaching out, 1500 01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,040 Speaker 7: we love introducing more people to to to, I guess 1501 01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:01,120 Speaker 7: and like for me, I like all types of podcasts, 1502 01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 7: but like I told them, I literally look for women, 1503 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,240 Speaker 7: like if if you're a woman, I especially a particular 1504 01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:10,240 Speaker 7: Black woman, because our voices are very, very small in 1505 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:14,599 Speaker 7: the podcasting community. I look for you because you know, women, 1506 01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 7: I really taught women period, but especially black women. I 1507 01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:19,400 Speaker 7: really tall your voice. Don't matter who wants to hear you. 1508 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:22,240 Speaker 7: Nobody's out there wanting to listen to you. And and 1509 01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 7: also to let them know too, there are black men 1510 01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:27,560 Speaker 7: that I out there to support you because with a 1511 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,400 Speaker 7: Sex and the City and Whiskey lind of the Moonshine, 1512 01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:30,599 Speaker 7: they talking about how a lot of black. 1513 01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:33,280 Speaker 5: Sex and sister sex. Now I said Sex and the City, 1514 01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:34,200 Speaker 5: Oh my bad. 1515 01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, well I was Samantha. 1516 01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:40,599 Speaker 5: Yes about it. But a sex and and the sisters. 1517 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:42,960 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, y'all. And it's just one of those things where. 1518 01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:48,840 Speaker 7: Black females out there and we're and it's more of us, 1519 01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,719 Speaker 7: and I'm constantly it's some more sisters that I found 1520 01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:54,560 Speaker 7: and things like that. And I told Roderick that I 1521 01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:56,760 Speaker 7: know we had the Black Astronauts on, but I want 1522 01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 7: like the women on separately because they're kind of like 1523 01:13:59,880 --> 01:14:01,880 Speaker 7: a spin off from the dudes. 1524 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:04,439 Speaker 5: And just to let the dudes over there from Black 1525 01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 5: Astronauts know that. 1526 01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:06,879 Speaker 4: I applaud y'all. 1527 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:10,080 Speaker 7: For even bringing women on, because women actually listen and 1528 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,760 Speaker 7: sometimes we want to voice too. And I know to me, 1529 01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:16,200 Speaker 7: it makes a big difference me being a female podcast 1530 01:14:16,320 --> 01:14:17,800 Speaker 7: a lot. You know, for a while, I really thought 1531 01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:19,120 Speaker 7: I was the only one, and I mean that in 1532 01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 7: a bad way. Like you see people sprinkle here and there, 1533 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 7: but it's different once you go you see a group 1534 01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,080 Speaker 7: and you see them getting along and you see them 1535 01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:28,680 Speaker 7: sharing love, you know, because Amber is out there, Nick 1536 01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:31,880 Speaker 7: de Jeue is out there, Rent is out there, so 1537 01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:34,439 Speaker 7: they're out there. But it's just beautiful when you look 1538 01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:36,400 Speaker 7: and you see, oh, it's more out there than just 1539 01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,040 Speaker 7: these single ones even there. 1540 01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:40,080 Speaker 5: And it's just one of those things. I know, to me, 1541 01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,360 Speaker 5: I take it personal being a black woman. I love it. 1542 01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:43,160 Speaker 5: I enjoy it. 1543 01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,600 Speaker 7: I reach out and I just thank thank them for 1544 01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 7: reaching out to me, because I know I said it 1545 01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:48,720 Speaker 7: on the podcast. I was like, Hey, y'all want me 1546 01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:50,720 Speaker 7: to be on, let me know, and they hit me 1547 01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,400 Speaker 7: up and I was just surprised that they hit me 1548 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:53,880 Speaker 7: up and they was like, well, you was gonna be 1549 01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:54,679 Speaker 7: the first one anyway. 1550 01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 5: And I but but it's one of those things. 1551 01:14:56,479 --> 01:15:00,880 Speaker 7: But I'm I'm I'm humbled and honored somebody would even 1552 01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 7: consider me in that way because y'all, I really just 1553 01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:05,200 Speaker 7: think I'm just a normal person with the microphone in 1554 01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:05,639 Speaker 7: my hand. 1555 01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, obviously they're home with the honor too, 1556 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:13,439 Speaker 3: because that's what kl los email was coming full circle. 1557 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:16,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, it's it's cool, man. So I think it's uh, 1558 01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:18,479 Speaker 4: you know, it's neat. 1559 01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:21,000 Speaker 3: And I also enjoy seeing so many different black women 1560 01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,800 Speaker 3: and stuff like having shows and just black people in general, 1561 01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:29,400 Speaker 3: and especially like, you know, there's something about like like 1562 01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:32,240 Speaker 3: one of the reasons I don't want our show to 1563 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:37,000 Speaker 3: become less something happened. Let's go get five black women 1564 01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,080 Speaker 3: to discuss it. Let's go get this happened. I want 1565 01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:44,280 Speaker 3: people to be like, create your own platform and talk 1566 01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:47,040 Speaker 3: about it. It doesn't need to be moderated by me. 1567 01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:49,120 Speaker 3: It doesn't need to be a Blackout Tips joint. It's 1568 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,559 Speaker 3: just like you can talk about it better than I can. 1569 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:55,160 Speaker 3: Like everybody, you know, people got blogs. Like people gotta 1570 01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,680 Speaker 3: recognize their own power. We're only gonna have the conversations 1571 01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:02,200 Speaker 3: we want to have and because we don't carry ourselves 1572 01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:05,280 Speaker 3: as like to have the conversations we feel responsible for having. 1573 01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 3: And also I think if people do it, one, their 1574 01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:12,880 Speaker 3: voices become less marginalized, right it does. But then two 1575 01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:17,560 Speaker 3: more importantly, they can understand some of the pressures of 1576 01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:20,360 Speaker 3: getting up here and talking and stuff too. When people 1577 01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,519 Speaker 3: start listening, it's a little different, Like it's you know, 1578 01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:25,200 Speaker 3: I think a lot of people have an idea of 1579 01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:27,320 Speaker 3: like how they would run to show if they did it, 1580 01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 3: and it's like it's difficult because there's sometimes you think 1581 01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:35,120 Speaker 3: that some shit that you do is interesting and nobody 1582 01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:38,439 Speaker 3: wants to hear that shit. Other times you say something 1583 01:16:38,479 --> 01:16:41,599 Speaker 3: that you think is it ain't and not even gonna matter, 1584 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:45,040 Speaker 3: and everybody's like, that's the craziest thing I ever heard. 1585 01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,120 Speaker 4: I'm so glad you talked about it. Nobody does. 1586 01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:50,720 Speaker 7: And it's one thing where I applied them, and I 1587 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:54,720 Speaker 7: applied black women in podcasting in general to see to 1588 01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,720 Speaker 7: listen and see you evolve and see you grow and 1589 01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,439 Speaker 7: see the different personalities and just listen the women. 1590 01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:01,320 Speaker 5: And it's not caddy. 1591 01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:05,479 Speaker 3: It's not mean like I don't have like I don't 1592 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 3: have everybody's life experience, and neither is Karen, so we 1593 01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:12,160 Speaker 3: can't draw on that to discuss things. But I love 1594 01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:16,680 Speaker 3: listening to people who have different experiences than the right 1595 01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:19,200 Speaker 3: because that's how you like, I'm like, oh cool, that's 1596 01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:23,360 Speaker 3: how people think about this. Yeah, listening to Amber Pea 1597 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 3: was was a big thing for me to be like, oh, 1598 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:29,840 Speaker 3: this person is bipolar. The only thing I really know 1599 01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:32,439 Speaker 3: about by polar disorder is ship that I see in 1600 01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:36,560 Speaker 3: movies and TV like, so it's just like, oh, this 1601 01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:39,800 Speaker 3: is and not that she represents every bipolar person, but 1602 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,559 Speaker 3: just this is a person that deals with this issue 1603 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,120 Speaker 3: that I'm listening to that I like, you know what 1604 01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:50,000 Speaker 3: I mean that you know that I want to be happier, 1605 01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 3: succeed or whatever. 1606 01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:51,960 Speaker 4: It is that fulfills her. 1607 01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:55,160 Speaker 3: That's a personal connection that I can only get via 1608 01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:58,960 Speaker 3: this podcast. And that's so many other people in my 1609 01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:01,800 Speaker 3: you know, purview of people that I listened to, same thing. 1610 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 3: I was like, I remember when I first talked to 1611 01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:07,360 Speaker 3: Brandon from Where's my forty Acres? And he started his 1612 01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,599 Speaker 3: showing stuff and I remember telling him, like, I'm friends 1613 01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:11,560 Speaker 3: with some backpackers. 1614 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:13,360 Speaker 4: Now I never had been before. 1615 01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:17,200 Speaker 3: I pretty much had my own Like I hate backpackers 1616 01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 3: and these niggas always having these fucking hip hop debates 1617 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,760 Speaker 3: all the goddamn time, And now you know I would 1618 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:23,759 Speaker 3: count them as my friends. 1619 01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:24,000 Speaker 7: Man. 1620 01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,200 Speaker 3: So like, I think that kind of shit matters, and 1621 01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:29,400 Speaker 3: I would never shy away from giving people credit or 1622 01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:32,120 Speaker 3: props for it either, And I'll never shy away from 1623 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:36,120 Speaker 3: loving him for it. And I don't mind being love back, 1624 01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,559 Speaker 3: like there's nothing wrong with that. I hate the idea 1625 01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 3: that we have to fight amongst each other or something 1626 01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:44,520 Speaker 3: because it really is not productive. 1627 01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 5: No, it's not. 1628 01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 4: And you know, and especially with women, the radio has 1629 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:50,560 Speaker 4: been horrible to him, you know. 1630 01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:53,519 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, And there's one of those things. Because of 1631 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:56,920 Speaker 7: the Internet, you've killed the middleman. And it's one of 1632 01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:01,120 Speaker 7: those things where people can actually be radio show hosts 1633 01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:04,200 Speaker 7: without having to deal with when you gotta look like this, 1634 01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:06,000 Speaker 7: you gotta be like this, you gotta have this type 1635 01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:07,639 Speaker 7: for it, you gotta speak on these topics. 1636 01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:09,160 Speaker 5: You can do it the way that you want to 1637 01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:09,439 Speaker 5: do it. 1638 01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:13,559 Speaker 7: And I want to encourage anybody out there that if 1639 01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:15,360 Speaker 7: this is a genre that you want to get into, 1640 01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:16,160 Speaker 7: step into it. 1641 01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 5: You never know where's going to go, where it's gonna 1642 01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:18,360 Speaker 5: take you. 1643 01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:23,280 Speaker 3: And like, for example, think of all the radio shows 1644 01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:26,400 Speaker 3: that you know that have women on them, like black 1645 01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,880 Speaker 3: radio shows that you know, such and such in the morning. 1646 01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:31,439 Speaker 4: I'm not saying as far a few, there's a lot 1647 01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:34,800 Speaker 4: of women. How many of them get the host the show, 1648 01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:37,840 Speaker 4: most don't. How many of them are even named. 1649 01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 3: And being the host of the show, yep, Tom join 1650 01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,880 Speaker 3: them on the show, Steve Harvien on the show you 1651 01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:46,000 Speaker 3: know with Power ninety eight, you know, and not to 1652 01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:48,400 Speaker 3: mention how many of the women have the role on 1653 01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:51,320 Speaker 3: the show that only they only speak about once every 1654 01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:53,960 Speaker 3: Blue Mob to say anything yep. 1655 01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:57,040 Speaker 5: Or they bring them on just for segments, right, or 1656 01:19:57,600 --> 01:19:58,000 Speaker 5: they're the. 1657 01:19:58,080 --> 01:19:59,360 Speaker 4: Joke killer of the show yep. 1658 01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:01,920 Speaker 3: That a person that that that goes, oh oh guys, 1659 01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,960 Speaker 3: not now, come on, sisters, do be shopping? Like I 1660 01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:09,080 Speaker 3: hate that shit, So I wanted to talk to and 1661 01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:13,680 Speaker 3: listen to real people have conversations, and podcasts is the 1662 01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:16,920 Speaker 3: place where we found it, and uh, it's it's it's 1663 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 3: you know, it's to me, it's even more astounding because 1664 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:23,160 Speaker 3: Karen didn't want to do this shit and now you 1665 01:20:23,280 --> 01:20:24,840 Speaker 3: have all these black women been like if it. 1666 01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:29,400 Speaker 5: Wasn't for you, yeah, man, And I'm not even gonna 1667 01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:29,880 Speaker 5: lie something. 1668 01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:32,080 Speaker 7: And it's just one of them things where I can't 1669 01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,600 Speaker 7: speak for Roger, but sometimes you just do what you 1670 01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:37,519 Speaker 7: do and you don't realize how much you affect and 1671 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:40,360 Speaker 7: influence people. And for me, it's kind of odd and 1672 01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:43,439 Speaker 7: strange when people kind of pour that love back, because 1673 01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:44,799 Speaker 7: a lot of times it's not expected. 1674 01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:49,840 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, I feel like but I feel 1675 01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:52,839 Speaker 3: like the person that told Lebron James to stick with basketball. 1676 01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:56,000 Speaker 4: That's how I feel that's how like. 1677 01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,599 Speaker 3: It's just like Nigga put that. If you don't put 1678 01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 3: that fucking baseball down, you got to shoot some jump shots. 1679 01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:03,320 Speaker 3: That's how I feel because Karen's like, I don't even 1680 01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 3: really know why anybody would. 1681 01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:05,640 Speaker 4: Want to hear from me. 1682 01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:08,040 Speaker 5: I know, I was like, who want to listen to me? 1683 01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:11,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? Now she gets booked on all the shows, all 1684 01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:12,679 Speaker 4: of that show. 1685 01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:13,000 Speaker 12: Yeah. 1686 01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:13,960 Speaker 5: I mean, y'all just don't know. 1687 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,120 Speaker 7: I literally have recorded every damn day this week and 1688 01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:19,120 Speaker 7: have loved every second of. 1689 01:21:19,160 --> 01:21:21,080 Speaker 3: The Women don't call me to be on the show. 1690 01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:24,240 Speaker 3: They call Karen to be on the show, and she 1691 01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:25,200 Speaker 3: want all the tippies. 1692 01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:29,040 Speaker 4: I know, I know my role. I'm just I'm just 1693 01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:31,400 Speaker 4: stocked in to Malone Nigga. I'm just setting them up, 1694 01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:32,680 Speaker 4: yes and then. 1695 01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:35,640 Speaker 5: And I love it and I really do love it. 1696 01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:38,839 Speaker 7: And it's just one of those things where I encourage 1697 01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:40,720 Speaker 7: women period get your voice out there. 1698 01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:43,479 Speaker 4: We were so honored that you agreed to be our 1699 01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,160 Speaker 4: first guest. Karen. 1700 01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:47,720 Speaker 3: You are so professional, real and just a true to 1701 01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:49,800 Speaker 3: like to chop it up. I can't wait for the 1702 01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 3: listeners to hear the magic we created. We have so 1703 01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:54,680 Speaker 3: much fun with you and Rod keep doing what you 1704 01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:56,840 Speaker 3: do because you do it well and are one of 1705 01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:57,320 Speaker 3: the greatest. 1706 01:21:57,520 --> 01:22:01,000 Speaker 4: Thank you very much, Colin, Thank you Eric seeing huge fan. 1707 01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:04,240 Speaker 4: What's up, Karen and Rod. My name is Eric ci. 1708 01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:07,160 Speaker 3: You know you know my name is Eric McLean ak 1709 01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:11,400 Speaker 3: Eric m aka Prince l Ron, Prince of Laurn. 1710 01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:13,600 Speaker 5: About to say what is he? 1711 01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:13,760 Speaker 7: He? 1712 01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,280 Speaker 5: Is it all capture something like somebody from Africa. 1713 01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:21,000 Speaker 4: I'm a graduate of a Fanviel State University. 1714 01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:24,680 Speaker 3: I'm currently attending graduate school at Harvard University Molecular and 1715 01:22:24,800 --> 01:22:28,800 Speaker 3: Cell Biology. Please believe the culture shocks from FSU to 1716 01:22:28,840 --> 01:22:29,679 Speaker 3: Harvard is real. 1717 01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:32,400 Speaker 5: I know, it's so sweet. It is not the same. 1718 01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:36,200 Speaker 3: For example, I used either a, I used ether as 1719 01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:38,800 Speaker 3: a verb and then had to explain that I was 1720 01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:39,720 Speaker 3: not referring. 1721 01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:40,439 Speaker 4: To organic chemistry. 1722 01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:45,000 Speaker 3: Your show is the best escape for my new reality 1723 01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:47,120 Speaker 3: and reassures me that I'm not one the one who 1724 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:50,800 Speaker 3: is crazy. The premium shows are worth every cent. I 1725 01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:53,400 Speaker 3: went through all of the premium shows under a month. Wow, 1726 01:22:53,479 --> 01:22:54,240 Speaker 3: that's crazy. 1727 01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:56,000 Speaker 5: Because we got over one hundred in their dollars. 1728 01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:58,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I looked the other day. We're like one fourteen. 1729 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:02,760 Speaker 7: And the funny part about it, y'all, I still be 1730 01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:05,280 Speaker 7: thinking up shit, like I said, and I'm type person 1731 01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:07,040 Speaker 7: I always give Roger most shit to do. 1732 01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:09,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not really funny at all. I don't know 1733 01:23:09,200 --> 01:23:10,560 Speaker 4: why you say it's the funny thing about it. 1734 01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:13,320 Speaker 3: It's more work, Like you know what, we should do 1735 01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:17,920 Speaker 3: a podcast on podcasting about podcasting podcasting. 1736 01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:21,120 Speaker 5: Has anyone done that yet? I'm like, it's a reason 1737 01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:21,600 Speaker 5: why not. 1738 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,479 Speaker 4: It's hard and it's not for so many hours in 1739 01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:24,800 Speaker 4: the day. 1740 01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:28,160 Speaker 5: That'll be my ideas, Like like, I'm always thinking the 1741 01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 5: most shit for him to do, So. 1742 01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:32,360 Speaker 4: You should interview President Obama. That would be a good 1743 01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:35,639 Speaker 4: person to that on the show. Like, yeah, I don't 1744 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:38,520 Speaker 4: think he'll okay, I'll send an email. 1745 01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:42,479 Speaker 5: Yes, Like I'm literally constantly doing and thinking of shit. 1746 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:48,200 Speaker 3: Yes, but yeah, your show is the best escape from 1747 01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 3: my new reality. I'm not the one who's crazy. The 1748 01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:52,400 Speaker 3: premium shows are worth every cent. I went through all 1749 01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:55,040 Speaker 3: the premium shows under a month. I was a it 1750 01:23:55,160 --> 01:23:58,840 Speaker 3: was a tbg WT binge. I just started listening to 1751 01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:02,680 Speaker 3: archive podcast age very well. I never feel like I'm 1752 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:04,920 Speaker 3: listening to old shit. I listened to the podcast or 1753 01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:06,920 Speaker 3: working in the lab. I can't keep but laughing constantly 1754 01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:11,040 Speaker 3: whenever you do your Wesley Pipes impersonation. So keep up, 1755 01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:14,280 Speaker 3: thus down and work Prince Lauren, hey man, thank you 1756 01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:16,040 Speaker 3: so much for listening. 1757 01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:20,880 Speaker 4: Thank you for you know, being a premium member, and uh, 1758 01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:21,960 Speaker 4: we appreciate you. 1759 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 6: Dog. 1760 01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:27,360 Speaker 3: I actually asked, I've emailed Wesley Pipes like five times 1761 01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:29,280 Speaker 3: to see if he'll let me interview them on the show. 1762 01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:31,040 Speaker 5: No, we have tried, y'all. 1763 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:32,960 Speaker 4: You just seemed like a nigga that don't know how 1764 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:36,200 Speaker 4: email work. Just I don't know. I hit him on 1765 01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:38,320 Speaker 4: Twitter the other day, like, nigga, answer your email. 1766 01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:41,599 Speaker 3: Goddamn you over here on Twitter talking about Nick making 1767 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:43,120 Speaker 3: nasty to all these fucking people. 1768 01:24:43,520 --> 01:24:44,439 Speaker 4: Answer my email. 1769 01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:46,679 Speaker 5: No, we ain't trying to get you. We just wanted 1770 01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:47,920 Speaker 5: we just want to interview your dog. 1771 01:24:48,200 --> 01:24:52,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it should be great anyway. Man, Thank y'all so 1772 01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:55,519 Speaker 3: much for you know, listening to the show today. Get 1773 01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:58,599 Speaker 3: us leaving feedback. We'll be back next. 1774 01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:00,639 Speaker 4: Week with more feedback. Obviously, we'll be back. 1775 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:04,120 Speaker 3: Tomorrow ten am for another regular show and uh, you know, 1776 01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,120 Speaker 3: regular weekly show, So be on the lookout for that. 1777 01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:11,160 Speaker 3: I think that's about it, So continue to leave five 1778 01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:14,800 Speaker 3: star reviews, Continue to email the show. Continue to leave 1779 01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:19,439 Speaker 3: voicemails and we appreciate it. And if you want to 1780 01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:23,920 Speaker 3: get on my Christmas list, your SME, your addresses. I'll 1781 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:27,639 Speaker 3: mail you guys at Christmas card. All right man, until tomorrow, 1782 01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:29,360 Speaker 3: I love you, my