1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:01,120 Speaker 1: So Steve. 2 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 2: This is from KG on Steve Harvey FM. KG says 3 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 2: I get together with my homeboy about once every couple 4 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 2: of months. He doesn't have any kids and does really 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: well and always insists upon picking up the bill slash 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: tab when we go to lunch or grab drinks. I 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: try to get to check sometimes, but he will insist 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: on paying. 9 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't do as. 10 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 2: Well as he does and I have four kids, but 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 2: I make a good living and can certainly of court 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: afford to pay for lunch or drinks for us from 13 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: time to time. It makes me feel a bit guilty 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 2: that he always pays and might make me not want 15 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 2: to get together with him as often. I don't want 16 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: to make a big deal of it, but I would 17 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: like to make our lunches a bit more equitable. How 18 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: can I let him know that I don't think it's 19 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 2: cool that he never lets me pay without risking making 20 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: it uncomfortable for either of us. 21 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 3: Well, listen to me, bruh. First of all, that's just 22 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 3: a good friend to have a bro Go hey, man, Look, 23 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 3: I'm single, I know you married, I know you got 24 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: folk kids. 25 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: Man, Just let me get this. I love you, brother. 26 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 3: This is my contribution and my tribute to you for 27 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 3: being a father, husband or dad and not know that's 28 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 3: got to be tough because I know nothing about it 29 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: because I'm single. That's all he's saying with that gesture, Man, 30 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: let me do something for you, for all you do 31 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 3: for so many people. Because he know that crown you 32 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 3: got on your head. That's a heavy one. He know 33 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: it because he ain't put it on yet. He already 34 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: know that's heavy. So that's all that is. 35 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: Now. 36 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 3: If you insist, you can say, hey, bro, let me 37 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 3: just holler at you for a minute. 38 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: Bruh. 39 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 3: I appreciate you buying, man, but you got to let 40 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: me pick up this tab sometime because man, I'm just 41 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: feeling some kind of way about it. Man, and I'm 42 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: doing good enough. Man, I can afford this stuff, So 43 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 3: just do just every now and then, man, bru just 44 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 3: let me pick up the tab now. Ain't nobody gonna 45 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 3: be uncomfortable. That ain't even an uncomfortable conversation with men. 46 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 3: Oh dog, I got you all right, Man, go ahead, 47 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 3: once he understands, well, you're not finna make uncomfortable. That's 48 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 3: if me and talk men know what money is. If 49 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 3: we don't know nothing else. We know that, and that's 50 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 3: all you got to do is do it like that. 51 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: Bro. But understand what your guy's saying to you. Is 52 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: he paying tribute to you. That's what he's doing. And 53 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: then let me take care of this for you, man. 54 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 3: Because I know no, Bro, he the clown you put 55 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: on your head because he know you. 56 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,119 Speaker 1: You got folk, kids and a wife. I'm single, man him. 57 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: But do men feel some kind of way though? I mean, 58 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 2: he is feeling some kind of way. 59 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 4: If a man would all the time he pick up 60 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 4: that bill, I'd be so proud when he do that. 61 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 4: I know that's right. I don't even look away. They've 62 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 4: actually brought me the bill. I handed right down to it. Man, 63 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 4: back to my conversation. I don't know what you don't 64 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 4: never get the bill to what you know? I did 65 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 4: watch I did. 66 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: Junr them ladies on this show. 67 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 3: Yeah they not, they don't if that bill, if they 68 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 3: said it, I've been with them. 69 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: They look right at Tommy. 70 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like. 71 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: At y'all. 72 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 4: What yeah, yeah, bill over here. 73 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: Yeah they ain't bought uh a PEPSI you a hamburger 74 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: one time from Bud Rutgers. You need to stop what Yeah, 75 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: what and bood Ruckers and l A, Yes, I was 76 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: in for. Let me tell y'all something that was before 77 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: two thousand and five. It probably was four. I know 78 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: been here well, I ain't been here? Y well, thank 79 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: you calling. 80 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, now, y'all they pick up the tab when we 81 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 3: were talking about a hamburger from would you say, y'all 82 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 3: ain't pick up no tab when we's at the high 83 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 3: ass restaurant open got. 84 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: Off that table. We were too scared that was a 85 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: haunted hotel. 86 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 3: Come up to the table, I said, can I get 87 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 3: another order extra? Because the devil eggs, which especially like 88 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 3: extra double eggs. I'm sorry, sir, but that'll be extra, he. 89 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: Said, I got egg money. Hell came up to the 90 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: morning show. This you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 91 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: Show