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Speaker 1: Second date of date.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it takes a bold move to make a first

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Speaker 2: date really stand out. Oh okay, what that means going

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Speaker 2: along with you, or giving them your car at the

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Speaker 2: end of the night.

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Speaker 1: It's a little thank you gift for meeting up.

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Speaker 3: He signed the title over to you.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like a great day.

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Speaker 2: Another bold move is to have your first date during

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Speaker 2: the most romantic holiday of the year, Valentines. That's what

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Speaker 2: happened for one of our listeners, Melissa, who now needs

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Speaker 2: our help on Valentine's Day. So, Melissa, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, I'm so curious. Who would ask you out on

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Speaker 3: a first date around this time?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Well, it was this guy that online.

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Speaker 1: Actually, all right, it's gonna sound silly. Did he in

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Speaker 1: any way say I don't like you like that?

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Speaker 4: See?

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Speaker 3: I feel like he probably just forgot that it was

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Speaker 3: the holiday. I mean, he's a that's a classic guy.

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Speaker 2: Going to do a lot of like complicated question. Let's

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Speaker 2: start with an easy one. Does he have a name?

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Speaker 4: There is, Yes, his name is John.

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Speaker 1: Tell Us about tell Us about easy John.

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Speaker 4: John. He's really nice, He's so cute. Okay, I just

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Speaker 4: thought he was like a perfect gentleman.

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Speaker 3: Really, what did he do that was so gentlemanly?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, he definitely knew that it was Valentine's weekend

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Speaker 4: and he went above and beyond. Oh, booked this really

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Speaker 4: nice restaurant.

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Speaker 1: So he didn't shy away from it.

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Speaker 2: He was like, I want to take you on a

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Speaker 2: Valentine's date on Valentine's weekend, proper totally.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So how did it go?

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Speaker 4: Well, So we get to the restaurant, really nice, but

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Speaker 4: it is so busy.

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Speaker 3: Oh did he have reservations?

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Speaker 4: Yes, he made a reservation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, wow, man, nice restaurant like reservations on Valentine's weekend.

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Speaker 2: It's very romantic, but it could put a lot of

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Speaker 2: pressure on both of them going into that day. Did

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Speaker 2: you feel that pressure energy at all?

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Speaker 4: I felt pressure going into it, but then once I

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Speaker 4: got there, he made me so comfortable.

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Speaker 3: Oh we did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: How was it?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: Did you have a good time with him?

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Speaker 4: I had a good time, like I no, no, no, I

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Speaker 4: really liked Tips. It was just that the atmosphere was

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Speaker 4: so insane and hectic, like we get seen at our table,

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Speaker 4: we get our orders in our food comes out, and

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Speaker 4: we noticed there's only one fork, Like the waiter's so busy,

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Speaker 4: never bring in another fork, Like, okay, I guess we

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Speaker 4: share it?

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Speaker 3: Did you? Did you share it for?

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Speaker 4: We tried to share the fork, but that just like

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Speaker 4: took too long because then each person was waiting for

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Speaker 4: the other person's take.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, take a bite from the fork, and then you'd

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Speaker 2: pass the fork over to John and then he would

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Speaker 2: take a bite from his meal.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can't make it like wait for one to finish.

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Speaker 1: The other person's gonna get cald.

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Speaker 3: He's a real gentleman. He'd wait for her. Gentleman, he'd

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Speaker 3: just go in the back like I do and steal

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Speaker 1: Station about this, I mean all the joking aside.

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Speaker 2: Isn't that like a weird way to go about your

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Speaker 2: first date sharing utensils?

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Speaker 5: Yes, but it was like sort of.

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Speaker 4: We had a laugh about it. I switched over to

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Speaker 4: a spoon. It kind of makes it a little bit.

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Speaker 4: It made it low stakes because we were like, this

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Speaker 3: So he cut up your meat for you and then

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Speaker 3: you spooned it into your mouth.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get past the fork sharing. What what

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Speaker 2: other highlights happened during your restaurant date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So this is where it got.

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Speaker 3: A little bit weird, a weirder.

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Speaker 4: We're finishing up our main course and then the host

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Speaker 4: speak to John, like away from the table's. John goes over,

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Speaker 6: I couldn't hear what.

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Speaker 3: It's a little animated.

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Speaker 4: It lasted like five minutes. It's kind of long for you.

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Speaker 1: Is the host a male or a female?

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Speaker 4: A guy?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: I was wondering if it maybe was an ex or something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, not an ex.

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Speaker 3: So what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, so when John comes back from the conversation,

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Speaker 4: he was like really upset and he was like, screw this,

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Speaker 4: We're leaving. The host chases after and is like you

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Speaker 4: still have to pay? Like I'm in the middle of it.

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Speaker 4: I'm confuseding, like, what's happening.

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Speaker 2: So you're dashing, Well, it sounds like they're being kicked

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Speaker 2: out of the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Not dashing.

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Speaker 2: They're like, you have to pay, but hey, you're kicking

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying either. Yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, John told me to go out and like wait

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Speaker 4: and he pays, he settles up. Okay, So when we're

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Speaker 4: on the car ride home, I'm asking, like.

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Speaker 6: What just happened? Crazy?

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Speaker 4: Apparently the host told John that we were taking too

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Speaker 2: Oh sometimes, ye didn't John say? It only took so

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Speaker 2: long because we had to share one fork passing it

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Speaker 3: That was probably, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, and I was supportive. John was like really upset

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Speaker 4: about and I was like, honest, but too, that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Time on your day. Well that sucks.

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Speaker 2: That puts like definitely a sour taste at the very

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean he took me home again. He was

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Speaker 4: a perfect gentleman, walk me to the door, that he

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Speaker 4: would call we should do it again? Really, so he

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Speaker 4: apologized for the restaurant thing, even though I could tell

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Speaker 4: he was still sort of heated by it and it

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Speaker 4: wasn't his fault.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, so you haven't heard anything from him

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Does that feel like I don't know. Maybe he's busy.

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Speaker 7: It's weird to do a whole Valentine's DA date and

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Speaker 1: Yea, all that build up and nothing super embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Or maybe he only has one cell phone that he

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Speaker 2: shares with his roommate back and forth, and so his

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Speaker 1: Cell phone this week. Yeah, so I don't know. There

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call the number that you gave us, hopefully

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Speaker 2: it's John, and we'll try and get to your second

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Speaker 1: Right after this.

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, all right, hold on second date

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Speaker 5: update two meals one spoon should be the title of

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Speaker 5: our second date today.

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Speaker 3: You still shouldn't look that up on the internet.

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Speaker 2: Well, because our listener Melissa went on a Valentine's date

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Speaker 2: on the busiest weekend of the year, with couples packed

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Speaker 2: into nice restaurants.

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Speaker 1: Their waiter was too busy to give.

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Speaker 2: Them another fork. Sorry, so I said fork before, But

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Speaker 2: so they just shared one, which it's a little awkward

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Speaker 3: Date and for a long meal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it does.

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Speaker 2: Sound like it helped break the tension of having a

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Speaker 1: On a holiday light totally.

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Speaker 3: I actually got to taste each other's food. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The weird part though, was when the host came over

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Speaker 2: All of it led to John saying, though, screw it,

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Speaker 2: We're gonna leave.

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Speaker 3: Dude. They basically got kicked out of the restaurant. It's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of questions about that, but apparently they

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, so rude.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, almost ended in disaster. I mean it did, Melissa.

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Speaker 6: Do you think?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe John's just embarrassed that that situation happened on

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Speaker 4: Maybe I was also trying to think of anything else

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Speaker 3: He put you up right like you guys were in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he picked me up Okay, too late.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you're part of the reason that may be

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Speaker 3: Yep, got shifted.

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, but.

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Speaker 2: If they only have you blocked out for like an

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Speaker 3: Have you ever dated a woman like? Are we ever

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Speaker 7: I mean, come on, oh, you should pat it into

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Before you even get a kay, I would put myself

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Speaker 2: and now you're never gonna You're always gonna remember the

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Speaker 2: first day yelling, storming out of the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna save this vale.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I can see if.

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Speaker 2: He is we're gonna save it, or we're gonna blame

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Speaker 2: John for not understanding what women are really there there

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Speaker 2: is here will make him say I'm sorry right when

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Speaker 2: he gets on the phone.

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Speaker 3: It felt good when you said, do you feel good

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Speaker 3: about that?

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Speaker 1: Melissa?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just want to answer.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get those dials number right now here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for John. This is

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Speaker 2: John and John Maya. My name is Jeff from a

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Speaker 2: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, John, sorry for how seductively my host tried to

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Speaker 1: say that to you. But John, it is Valentine's Day

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Speaker 1: after all, Dear John.

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Speaker 3: Okay, John, it's just.

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Speaker 2: A yeah, we're kind of a wacky fun show and

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Speaker 2: we do this wacky segment called second Date Update.

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Speaker 6: Okay, and we're.

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Speaker 2: Trying to help one of our listeners get back in

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Speaker 4: Oh Man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we heard.

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Speaker 3: We heard.

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Speaker 7: I thought bold move on your part for going on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a big deal, dude.

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Speaker 6: Melissa you Yeah, she.

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Speaker 2: Emailed us and we reached out to her to find

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Speaker 1: So we have a few of the details.

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Speaker 2: The information we're looking to get from you, though, is

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Speaker 2: She says, it's been a few days and got nothing.

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Speaker 6: Oh Man, because this is very embarrassing. You know, I

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Speaker 1: You weren't physically attracted to her?

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Speaker 6: No, no, you.

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Speaker 7: Don't.

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Speaker 2: People, it was a bad guess. Sorry, I get three

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Speaker 6: So I was really nervous about the date, and so

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Speaker 6: But I waited too long to get dinner reservations, and

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Speaker 6: there was no restaurant open, you know that had anything

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Speaker 7: Wait, she said that you had reservations and that you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well I might have done something a little weird

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Speaker 6: what I don't know if she told you. But so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was mentioning that it got kind of heated

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So basically what happened was the host he pulled

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Speaker 6: so what happened was the actual John showed up.

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Speaker 7: Wait wait, wait what you took someone else's reservation that

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 3: How did you know there was another John there?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Did you just go a table for two for John?

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Speaker 1: What about Tom? What about Sarah?

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Speaker 3: I bet Kurt?

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Speaker 1: How did this happen?

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Speaker 6: So the day before, me and my friend went to

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Speaker 1: That's brilliant.

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Speaker 3: And like it's such a generic name.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I can't tell if I'm flattered that you

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Speaker 7: put you you put energy to making sure you had

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Speaker 2: Seriously, it makes sense because Melissa was saying you wanted

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I thought I could sneak it in there, you know.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hold on the server and me has to ask

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Speaker 2: was John the table for one? Which is why there

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right, figured it out, okay.

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Speaker 3: John, Well you should have just asked John to join you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, And you've been waiting to tell Melissa this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess that's just too embarrassed to let her know.

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Speaker 6: I had a great time on the day with her,

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Speaker 7: I guess I think it's kind of fun I think

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Speaker 2: All the women think that it's great that you took

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Speaker 1: But that's okay. I wonder sure, I wonder how Melissa

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Speaker 2: Who actually is on the other line listening to this conversation, dude?

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Speaker 6: Oh are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: I'm serious you Yeah? She I think she's still there, Melissa,

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Speaker 1: you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, curious that's what happened.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hey Melissa, why.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't you just tell it? Why did you have to

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Speaker 4: We could have gone anywhere.

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Speaker 6: I know, we just we clicked so and I just

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Speaker 2: When you're starting to vibe with someone online, you don't

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Speaker 3: You sound good, right, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, I guess I do see how much he likes

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Speaker 7: But also kind of sketch. That he wasn't going to

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Speaker 3: Remember that I.

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Speaker 6: Was going to pay it, but I just didn't want

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Speaker 6: had to get out of.

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Speaker 3: It, had to get her out.

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Speaker 1: That's sweet.

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Speaker 2: If he commits crimes or makes mistakes, he won't involve

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Speaker 3: That's chivalry. You say it's dead.

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Speaker 2: And it's not just I have to promise every man

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Speaker 1: The vibees going on here.

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Speaker 2: We'd like to send you guys out on another date, Melissa,

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Speaker 2: that we would pay for.

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Speaker 3: We can't get reservations for tonight though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I promised two forks at the table. You're

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Speaker 4: You know that is weird that that was happening, and

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Speaker 4: I had no idea, but I do think that it is.

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Speaker 4: It's actually kind of really nice that you were like

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Speaker 3: Love is real.

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Speaker 1: Look at that.

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Speaker 2: If you are a little bit dishonest on a first

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Speaker 3: But it's all in the name of love, Jeffy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's fine as long as you say that.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to actually believe it.

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Speaker 2: Just say that it's for love and we can get

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, guys, Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Valid, time's day.

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Speaker 2: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning brooking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's official.

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Speaker 2: The hot new first date move is stealing someone else's

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Speaker 3: It's romantic.

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Speaker 2: Still the effort is I mean, Brook, if you found

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Speaker 2: out that your husband Michael did that for your Valentine

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Speaker 2: State and stole some other couple's table, would you would

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Speaker 2: your reaction be on Michael, You're so conniving and manipulative.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, I love you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I would be impressed. I am not even lying.

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Speaker 2: Okay, an effort.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we got into a fight over how he hadn't

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Speaker 2: I just find someone with a generic name like Michael

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Speaker 3: Could be I had a great date on Saturday night.

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Speaker 1: There's like five man Michael Fox.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, the lesson that we're learning is it's okay to

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Speaker 4: Action benefits from it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as long.

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Speaker 7: As the girls on top of everybody wave, I'm so

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Speaker 2: I feel bad for the original John guy whose reservation

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Speaker 3: Feel bad that he was eaten by himself on Valentine's

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Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, on anyway he shows up. Of course,

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Speaker 1: someone already has team. We promise not to pile on

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Speaker 1: to you, though.

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Speaker 2: If you need some help with your dating life, email

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,