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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with Broths and Gavin to

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Speaker 1: Grab and I heard radio podcast. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of How Men Think. My name is Brooks Like and

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Speaker 1: this is the show where we dive into the male

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Speaker 1: mind and we give you the male perspective on all

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Speaker 1: things life. And we have a very special co host.

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Speaker 1: We do not have our good buddy Gavin to Ground

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Speaker 1: with us today, but we have a much more handsome,

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Speaker 1: much more rugged Hey, we have another fantastic musician to

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Speaker 1: sit in Gavin's chair and carry the load for Gab

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Speaker 1: while he's not here. We have the country music star

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Speaker 1: Mr Tyler Rich with us today. Tyler my brother. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show. What's up man? Happy to be here, dude.

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Speaker 1: I love One, I just want to say thank you

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Speaker 1: for coming on the show. And two, I love having artists.

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Speaker 1: I love like doing this show with gav artists in

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Speaker 1: my I have a lot of artist friends, and you guys,

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Speaker 1: sem to have just a real depth and interesting perspective

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Speaker 1: on so many things in life, and you just come

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Speaker 1: at things from a different angle. Um. So I always

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Speaker 1: appreciate when artists come on the show and I just

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Speaker 1: sit back and I listen, and we have producer Danielle

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Speaker 1: and producer Tor with us as well. And sometimes artists

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Speaker 1: will say stuff and we're just like damn, no wonder

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Speaker 1: they can write songs and like, just so well, I've

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Speaker 1: got I've got big shoes to fill because Gavin is

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Speaker 1: one of the best. You don't you have. I've only

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Speaker 1: met Gavin a couple of times in passing. Um, he

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Speaker 1: lives in Nashville, I believe most of the time or

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Speaker 1: all the time. So you know, we got some mutual

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Speaker 1: friends and stuff. Um, I'm uh. I know Brett Young

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Speaker 1: fairly well. We've toured together and stuff, and him and

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Speaker 1: bred are super tight. Um. But Gavin man one of

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Speaker 1: one of my big influences growing up. And so that's

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Speaker 1: really cool to phillip spot for a day. Man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got, you get you get a cote with like

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Speaker 1: in a couple of days in the mail, you'll get

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Speaker 1: a co host, a co host like Sheriff's badge. You

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Speaker 1: can wear that around town if you want. Perfect Brett

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Speaker 1: was on the on the show. I know Brett well

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Speaker 1: think right, you toured with Brett, was it? Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: did the samet on tour is what it's called. Uh.

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Speaker 1: And that was yeah, the end of God Man, time's flying.

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Speaker 1: It was the end. It feels like it was yesterday.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. So I want to talk to you first.

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Speaker 1: I want to get into what you're doing, Tyler, because

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Speaker 1: you're doing something super cool. Um. And it seems to

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Speaker 1: me that you have taken this quarantine time, this unique

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Speaker 1: and crazy, chaotic time, and spun it into an amazing opportunity.

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Speaker 1: UM because as an artist, you're not touring, you're not

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Speaker 1: performing concerts and venues. And so then it seems like

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Speaker 1: you said, Okay, I still love music. I have a

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Speaker 1: passion for music. I need to get it to people

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Speaker 1: people now more than ever. I know I'm consuming more

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Speaker 1: you've done something really unique where you go instant ground live.

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Speaker 1: What is it every you do Sunday, but you also

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Speaker 1: do it? Is it Wednesdays? What's the other one you do?

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Speaker 1: It kind of depends on my schedule, but anywhere towards

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Speaker 1: a live concert from your home. Yeah, man, this's couch trailer.

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Speaker 1: Live from home, so cool, live at home, so you

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Speaker 1: put on a live concert for fans for people to

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Speaker 1: creative with this? Has this been? I just want to

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Speaker 1: ask you, like, how what has been your mentality and

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Speaker 1: how have you turned this quarantine time into an opportunity

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Speaker 1: How how does this work for you as an artist? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean we've got we for sure have more time

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Speaker 1: the world. Um. It was. It was kind of crazy

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Speaker 1: is the Internet, right, We've all we're all toyed with it.

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Speaker 1: We've all had Instagram Live for so long. We've had

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Speaker 1: virtual tour. So every Tuesday I did the thing called

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Speaker 1: sing behind the Scene Tyler and Friends sing behind the Scenes.

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Speaker 1: song that we've written together. Um, and then I would

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Speaker 1: and you're used to interaction, you know, you used to

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Speaker 1: but it just creates created such an incredible and unique

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Speaker 1: So I texted, I text I was like, yo, babe,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You've been feeding me this song for a

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Speaker 1: year and I didn't take the bait. But I think

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Speaker 1: I love that you bring your love, that you bring

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Speaker 1: the show with Gavin. I have such a respect and

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Speaker 1: appreciation for artists one the ability to sing, the ability

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Speaker 1: infertility and health issues are two completely different, you know,

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00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: that could be two completely different topics. But um, I

428
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: mean it all comes down to the bond, right. I

429
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: would never drop something like that on somebody right away,

430
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: but as soon as you do feel like it might

431
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 1: be turning to serious because some people you know, prefer

432
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: to adopt you know. I mean, it's not gonna be

433
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: necessarily a deal breaker for somebody. You never know that. Um,

434
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, having having experienced with that as well.

435
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: It's it's not an issue for me because you choose

436
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: the person. Ultimately, if you are in a relationship, you

437
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: are choosing the person, So you don't just choose parts

438
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 1: of them. You choose them as a whole, and they

439
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: choose you as a whole. And so if it is

440
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 1: an issue for you, you know, get out of the relationship.

441
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 1: It's not that's that's you're actually not choosing the person.

442
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: You're choosing circumstance, you know. So, Um, for me, in

443
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: my past and my history, UM, neither of those have

444
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: scared me because I chose the person. So I would

445
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: encourage guys to to look at that, and then women

446
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: to look at that, like, I choose this person, and

447
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 1: I'd have many friends who have I have a friend

448
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 1: that just got married um recently whose partner has some

449
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: health issues and they aren't concerned about it. They're like, yeah,

450
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: we know this, we were transparent about this. This is

451
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 1: our life. I love this person. Um, life will continue

452
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 1: with this person, and that's just part of our journey.

453
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: You know, you accept that versus trying to change it.

454
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: So if you choose the person, you accept that and

455
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: you move forward with life. I find no issue. Yeah,

456
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: I feel like if you're looking when you're looking at

457
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: a dating pool, very figuratively speech like speaking, if you're

458
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: staring at a dating pool, you're not necessarily looking around.

459
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: I never looked around cool. Who can I make a

460
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: baby with? Who's completely healthy to have a life with.

461
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: You look for somebody you connect with, right. You look

462
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: for somebody that you know you're physically you're attracted to,

463
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 1: and you love the personality and you love this about him,

464
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: and you go through this cycle of dating and dating

465
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: until you find the person that connects the most with

466
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:39,239
Speaker 1: you and you know your soul like your partner, and

467
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: then everything else that comes on top of that. You know,

468
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm not married to Sabina for the baby we might

469
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: have one day. I'm married to Sabina because it's Sabina. Yeah, yeah,

470
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: that's a that's a great point. That's a great lasting point. Wow,

471
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 1: excellent Tori from Anna or Anna not too sure? What's

472
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: the longest acceptable time to not have sex with the

473
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: spouse or partner and it be okay? Whole depends on it,

474
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: put a caveat on it depends if you are traveling,

475
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: you know, like your your career. You said you you

476
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: and Sabina live in different places back and forth, like

477
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: especially when you would be touring or something. When I

478
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: was playing hockey, Um, I was traveling a lot of

479
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: let's just take that out of it. But if you

480
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 1: are living in the same house, it's gotta be tough

481
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: if you go over a month, Yeah, for sure. I

482
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: mean life gets crazy, right, I mean we Sabine and

483
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: I we haven't these two dogs, one dog I've had

484
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: a fifteen years and then one dog that we just adopted.

485
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: He's fifteen, found him for eight ten weeks. He's like

486
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: a rehab project, trying to get him back up to

487
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: a healthy anyways, and he's a lot of work, and

488
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 1: there are a lot of work and we just candidly

489
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: we just had to talk, like two nights ago, we're

490
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: talking about when is the last time we had sex,

491
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: and we guys like, is this what it's like to

492
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: have toddlers? It's like, we have these kids that were

493
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: taking care of the senior citizen dogs. And I think

494
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: as long as yeah, as long as it's not something

495
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 1: where you guys are one person is upset about it,

496
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: you know, as long as it's not if it's something

497
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 1: where you're so busy that you don't realize it, I

498
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: think it's okay. But as soon as one person is like,

499
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: why does this person not want to then it becomes

500
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: an issue. Yeah. I also think you can prioritize it,

501
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: like because I everybody talks about a work life balance

502
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, but there it's kind of just an integration

503
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: of a back and forth. Like sometimes you might swing

504
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: more into work, or like you said, it might be

505
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,120
Speaker 1: a busy time you're really writing a lot, you've got

506
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: a couple or one new dog that you're really trying

507
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: to rehabilitate, maybe some of your priority and your resources

508
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,360
Speaker 1: go there. But then it can also swing back to like, Okay,

509
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,239
Speaker 1: I now really want to connect with my wife, you know,

510
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: and I want to focus on that and make at

511
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: home date nights or your Sunday brunch thing and turn

512
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: that into a romance or something like that. So I

513
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: think I think sexuality is something that gets pushed down

514
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: on the priority list on the totem pull for people.

515
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: They're like work, kids, job, would ever got a clean house,

516
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: get the groceries one of it. It's something that people,

517
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: at least in my experience I have like pushed down

518
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: versus holding up at the top, almost like living, eating, breathing. Um.

519
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: So I think at some point you just have to realize, Okay,

520
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: our connection has dissipated a little bit, Let's intentionally move

521
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: back into this space, and even if we aren't feeling it,

522
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: let's create even if it's not just naturally a pull

523
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: like oh my god, we're all over each other, Let's

524
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: create an atmosphere and environment or something where we are

525
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: making time to be intentional about this and that can

526
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: spark the natural poll too. Yeah. Absolutely, I would say

527
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: you said a month, I'm saying two weeks. But I'm yeah,

528
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say two weeks a month. A month in

529
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: the same house, in the same you know, constant, constant

530
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: next to each other for a month without sex might

531
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: seem like a long time to me. But I've also

532
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: Spade and I the longest we've ever been together in

533
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: the same in the house, it's just like three weeks

534
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: around Christmas. Um, we're usually like on a on a

535
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: five day rotation, you know, like give her take um.

536
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: Whereas now we've been in the house for five months together, uh,

537
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: for the first time ever. And but yeah, I'm gonna

538
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: go two weeks, brooks aging. I agree with your two weeks.

539
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: I think it's like alarms are sounded in a month,

540
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: like we we But I agree with your two weeks.

541
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: Two weeks. It's like, yeah, we should probably do something

542
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: like I'd like some a month. It's like, oh, what's

543
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: going on here? State of the Union? Okay? Next story.

544
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: Next one is meg Montiana. How did men really feel

545
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: about therapy? I'll talk about this one because I said

546
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: this on the show. I've recently recently, like six eight

547
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: months ago, I went to therapy, and call it what

548
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: you want, therapy, counseling, um, you know, life counseling, whatever,

549
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: life coach, whatever you want, Put any title you want

550
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: on it. The stigma of therapy, I think shocks people.

551
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: But after I saw this, I saw a woman I

552
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: saw a guy and I saw a woman. UM to

553
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: walk through trying to release hockey and some of the resentment, bitterness, anger,

554
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: and and move through the the retirement process of hockey. UM.

555
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: It was wonderful tool. It was amazing and every time

556
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: I left, I was like, God, that was just an

557
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: amazing conversation. I was able to express myself to somebody

558
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: with an unbiased perspective. They asked me really unique questions.

559
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: They had tools to try and pull more expression or

560
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: emotion out of me that that maybe I had suppressed

561
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: or it wasn't even aware that I was feeling. And

562
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: so they were just equipped to have a very high

563
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: level conversation with what I was going through. So I

564
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: actually really enjoyed my my experience there and would be

565
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: an advocate for it for anybody. Prior to that, I

566
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: was like, I don't need therapy. I don't need this.

567
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: I could deal with it. I deal with my own stuff.

568
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: But after having gone to it, be advocate for it. Mhmm, Yeah,

569
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: there is such a stigma about therapy. UM. I don't

570
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: have the stigma about therapy personally. UM. I have never

571
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: done an official like sit down therapy session. UM. But

572
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: I'm completely not opposed to it, it just hasn't happened. Um,

573
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 1: I yeah, I think therapy is incredible. Yeah, a couple

574
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: of therapy, individual therapy, career therapy, whatever. People need to talk.

575
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: Mental health is important, very important, and it's like, um,

576
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: you know, if you want to improve your diet, you

577
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: go to a dietitian or nutritionist. You know, if you

578
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: want to get in better shape, you go to a

579
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: physical train like a fitness trainer. You know, we don't

580
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 1: do that for our emotions or our thoughts very much.

581
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: And that's just what a therapist or counselor somebody is.

582
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: There's somebody to help you move through what's going on

583
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: in your heart and your mind. And I think, um,

584
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: I think the stigma of therapy met people feel like

585
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: they're broken or the you know, you're not broken. We

586
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: all have doubts or concerns or is shoes that we

587
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: want to process. This is just somebody to help you

588
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: do that. So big, but develop on that. Why do

589
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: you think men don't are as open to going to

590
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: therapy in a generalized way because we think we're tough. Yeah, absolutely,

591
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: while we can handle it. I'll deal with it, don't worry,

592
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: I'll deal with. Like, we think we're tough. We UM

593
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: guys are for the most part, very independent, guys want

594
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: to solve issues themselves. There. For myself speaking, I'm very

595
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: much an introvert um. You know, it's tougher for most

596
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: men to express their actual truth and their feelings and

597
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: be vulnerable and open up and cry and like let

598
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: out their heart. It's tougher for men. UM. I don't

599
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: know why. Truthfully, I don't know why. It wasn't something

600
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: that my my dad told me you need to be

601
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: this way or this is how a man acts. I

602
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: don't know. We just it's just tougher for men. Yeah,

603
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: uh yeah, there's the I mean yeah, I mean every

604
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: man is right, and it's I don't really have many

605
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: friends that open up about anything that's going on with them.

606
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta like, you gotta pride details out

607
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: of you know, abuddy that's upset usually And yeah, to

608
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: go and talk to a stranger sounds terrifying, but once

609
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: you do it, everybody says it's incredible. It's um. Like

610
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: you just said, Tyler, like, guys will get together, we'll

611
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: talk about things, talk about the game, we'll talking about

612
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: the new guitar. You guys, we're talking about the truck

613
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: you're looking at getting or like what's going on? And

614
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: talking about things we won't talk about, like how are

615
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: you doing? Brother? Like how are you? How are you

616
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: feeling with the uncertainty of losing the headlining tour and

617
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: now having to perform from your couch? Like how is

618
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: your heart doing? You know that guys don't generally do.

619
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: I think females are far more advanced at that than males,

620
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: you know, for sure. And it changes like an entire dynamic.

621
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: You know, it's like anytime you're hanging out with the guys,

622
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: it's always like a loud, rowdy, fun kind of experience.

623
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: And then m as soon as somebody says something like that,

624
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: like hey, how are how are you feeling? How's everything

625
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: going on? You know, it's the whole mood. Everything's changes

626
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: right away. And I think that's a change a lot

627
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: of guys aren't comfortable with yet. Yes, great point. Well,

628
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: this speeds in perfectly with Stacy. She asks how do

629
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: I get my husband to open up more? He refuses

630
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: to talk about his feelings. I really want to answer

631
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: this question, Well, ty, do you have anything on it.

632
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: I really want to honor this question. Yeah, honor the question.

633
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: Sabina wants to get something out of it, like actually

634
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: get me to open up and talk. She will. It's

635
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: hard because I'm kind of a closed book a lot

636
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: of the times, especially, and like even with her, like

637
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to so, you know, be open with

638
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: her about I'm feeling about everything. Um it's ah, it

639
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: just goes back to the tough thing. Man. It goes

640
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: back to the I've got this, I can handle anything.

641
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: But when I do kind of break down and actually

642
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: start talking to about stuff, it's usually um, I don't know.

643
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: I mean, she forces it out of me. So come

644
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: and sit down and she'll be like you're talking to me,

645
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: um or I'm not getting up. And but she can

646
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: definitely tell like when a full mood changes, like if

647
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: if someone's really bothering me. Mm hmm. It's that's a

648
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: great question. It's hard, all right. So as a as

649
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: a man, I wish I hadn't way more emotional capacity

650
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: and emotional intelligence earlier in my life. And I really

651
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,879
Speaker 1: didn't really find it until um Tyler, we had two

652
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: dogs and our dogs passed away, and once they passed

653
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: my heart just broke open and it's the they just

654
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 1: gave me such a gift, and it's a lasting gift

655
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: that they gave me. There and that after that we

656
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 1: had our our pastors say a prayer for him and said,

657
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,959
Speaker 1: I pray that this softens hearts, not harden's hearts. And

658
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: it completely did that. The passing a Lexi and Harley

659
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: completely softened my heart where now I am completely open

660
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: to sharing everything inside of it. And it actually makes

661
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: me proud to fully truly wear my heart on my

662
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: sleeve that what you see is what you get. That

663
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,959
Speaker 1: I don't have to put on a facade or don't

664
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,879
Speaker 1: choose to hide anything or have to be protective or

665
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: manly or macho like. Trust me, I can do that.

666
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: I spent fifteen years on the ice with lions at

667
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: the top level. I can do that. I don't need

668
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: to prove that anymore. So for me, it's actually been

669
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: amazing to like lower drop the armor and actually share

670
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: my heart. Um. And I felt so much more alive,

671
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 1: so much more expressed. Uh, so much less tension, so

672
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 1: much less hate or anger or any anxiety. UM. I

673
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: feel congruent, feel honest, and actually feel like you're honoring

674
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: your partner. The person you're having that doesn't even have

675
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: to be your spouse, could be just the person you're

676
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: having that conversation with, you know. And I don't think

677
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: anything has ever felt better than truly fully feeling fully

678
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: expressed through my heart. UM. So I hope maybe Stacy

679
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: play that clip for for your husband. But man, there's

680
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: just so much greatness that comes. And I wish I

681
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: didn't learn it until our our girls passed away, And

682
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: I wish I was a better man and could have

683
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: personally learned what that felt like. And that's why I'm

684
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: just so grateful for the gift that they gave me

685
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: and what I learned through that experience. But UM, I

686
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: would say that a way to get a way to

687
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: get a guy to open up, way to get your

688
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: husband to open up, is exactly what just happened to

689
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: have one of his friends another guy talk to him

690
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: about how they've opened up and how it has helped

691
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 1: their lives. Because hearing you just say that makes me

692
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 1: want to open up more. It makes me want to

693
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: go to therapy, It makes me want to talk to

694
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: see more about stuff that's bothering. UM. Hearing how liberating

695
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: it is to you and how it's uh, clearly just changed.

696
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: You know, your mindset, your mental health, you're likely your

697
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: physical health because I believe it's all you know intertwined. Um. So,

698
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: if you can't get your husband to open up about stuff,

699
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: you know, get one of your friends to inspire him

700
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: to great answer. Wow, I hope that helps, Stacy from Clara.

701
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: How do I create that spark in a marriage again?

702
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: I've lost my spontaneous sexiness and he's lost his romance.

703
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, mm hmm. Great question. I'm curious how long

704
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: they've been married one. There's no no insight to that

705
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: is there is Tori, there is not? Okay. Um And

706
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: I think I think the same with anything, the same

707
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: with if if you want a result in something, you

708
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: have to put resources into it. You have to. Um.

709
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 1: Let's be like, as an artist, you're probably not always creative,

710
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: Like seven years on end? Are you always just creative?

711
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: All songs come easy? They just come out of me,

712
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: like all the time. No, it it leaves you and

713
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: it finds you again. And and also like artists I

714
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 1: think are exceptional that like I want to go here

715
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: and write, I want to create an atmosphere and go

716
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: to a place where I'm I just feel creative and

717
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: creativity will come through me. Then, Um, I do that

718
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: with my gym. You know, I'm I'm an artist in

719
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: a different way. I create an atmosphere within the gym,

720
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: And so when I show up into my gym, I'm

721
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: not always just on fire ready to go, but like

722
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: I create this space. I'll put on some music, I'll

723
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: do some mobile and put resources into it and then

724
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: that energy will come through me. So the same I

725
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: think with marriage, within physicality and the marriage that you

726
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 1: can create an environment, whether it's lower the lights, put

727
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: on some light music, maybe get some flowers, maybe a

728
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: cent in the house, maybe a bath, whatever it is,

729
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: speak the love language of your partner, whatever that is,

730
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: and actually put resources into creating this environment. Will be

731
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: very intentful with it. Yeah. Um, and revisit, you know,

732
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: like revisit old pictures, old videos. Um. Sometimes I'll go

733
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: through my calendar and just look at random trips or

734
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: like what we're to being and I doing this day.

735
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: You know four years ago, what was going on in

736
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 1: either your computer or your phone. You've got you know,

737
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: you've got memories on there. Go back and revisit it

738
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: and kind of what you're saying, where I don't just

739
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: write songs all day, you know, it's gotta creativity comes

740
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: from other creativity and stuff. And it's like, I've got

741
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: to revisit if I'm feeling uninspired, if I just pick

742
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: up my guitar and I just start playing it, or

743
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: I start playing one of my favorite songs, or I'm like,

744
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: I want to learn how to play this song on

745
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 1: the radio. As soon as I start playing my own

746
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: creative juices and ideas start coming um slowly but surely.

747
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: And so if you sit on the outside and you

748
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: look at yourself as a couple and you think, man,

749
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: how do I get this spark back? What do I do?

750
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 1: And you just sit there, it's never gonna happen, you know,

751
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 1: Like it's it's slowly, it's it's little moves, it's a

752
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: little revisiting things, it's a little dates again, and it's

753
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: it's not gonna change overnight. You know, it's gotta you

754
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 1: just kind of gotta enter your way back in, I guess,

755
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: and then it's gonna explode. It's gonna go crazy. But

756
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,959
Speaker 1: I have like two thoughts to two other things upop

757
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: my brain. I think one um is appreciation. I think

758
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 1: sometimes appreciation is lost, and I think that can dimmer romance.

759
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,280
Speaker 1: And when you actually look at a person and and

760
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 1: not for what they do for you, not for what,

761
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: just like appreciating who that person is, um, loving that person,

762
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: loving the way they are in the world, loving what

763
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: they give to the world. Um. Just like full on

764
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:21,959
Speaker 1: appreciation I think can bring back that that romantic look

765
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: at somebody. And then the other thing that I think

766
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 1: that just popped in my brain is just like a

767
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: little bit of a little bit of surprise and and

768
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: spontaneity of like maybe you leave a little note here,

769
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: you play a little sex game or something, or you

770
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: make a little sex bed on something, or like just

771
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 1: get playful again, right, like get playful again and whatever

772
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: way that is for you for the couple, Like get

773
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: playful in a way that actually brings some spontaneity, some

774
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 1: laughter and some like just joy and connection back to

775
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: one other. And then hopefully from that will stand more

776
00:41:54,000 --> 00:42:06,280
Speaker 1: romance and more spontaneity and more connection. Yeah, absolutely all right.

777
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: Next is from Carol. Do you guys care if a

778
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: wedding is postponed due to coronavirus just like us girls care.

779
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, I mean we just got married

780
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: September of last year, and um, I'm assuming this question

781
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,720
Speaker 1: means does the groom care as much as the bride

782
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: does that their their wedding got postponed. Um, I would

783
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: say it's I mean, the wedding is supposed to be,

784
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: you know, as exciting on both sides, um, And a

785
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,240
Speaker 1: lot of planning, you know, a lot of hard work

786
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: and very strategic planning and very seasonal planning, and you know,

787
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: it's a lot goes into a wedding. And I just

788
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: I've thought about it so many times that if we

789
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: would have got married this year and had to postpone

790
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:58,479
Speaker 1: everything we put into that wedding, it would be OK. Yeah.

791
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: I have friends that had to postpone their wedding in

792
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: my heart absolutely breaks for them because reflecting on my

793
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: wedding and how that was just the greatest time of

794
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: my life, I just want everybody to have that experience

795
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 1: and that memory of your world, her world, both worldwiding,

796
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: the people you love the most in the world coming

797
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: together to celebrate love. UM. I just want that for people,

798
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: and it breaks my heart to hear weddings being postponed,

799
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: and so my perspective would be, yeah, from the guy's standpoint,

800
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: is as disappointing or saddening if the wedding has to

801
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: be postponed. How much were you guys involved in your wedding?

802
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: Did you guys have any groom duties? Like, I feel

803
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: like I need to be honest. Men are as passionate

804
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: about what the food is, what what song you walk

805
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: down the aisle too. There's a lot of details women

806
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 1: do that men aren't involved in. So if you're excited

807
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 1: about it, what were you excited about for your wedding? Well,

808
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: the involvement level went like it's like to me what

809
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: There's also like a recognition like who's better at this?

810
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: You know, like who's better at picking flowers or picking

811
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: design of something or color matching or palette or like,

812
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 1: let's be honest, I spent my life in a freaking

813
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: hockey rink, right, like somebody better at that. Somebody's better

814
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 1: at that than I am. Um. But then where I

815
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 1: was helpful, where I was like, Okay, if you're stuck

816
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 1: on a decision, full faith in you in what you're decided.

817
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: But if you're stuck on a decision. Bring me two options,

818
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: and I will help us hammer out a decision. Yeah. Man,

819
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: So well, your wedding was one of my wife's favorite

820
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: things she's ever seen, and so she bookmarked and pictured

821
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: all these things, and she's like, I want this, you know.

822
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: And then but choices and planning stresses to being out

823
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: to the like the full extent of stress. And so

824
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: she told me everything she wanted and we got, you know,

825
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: an incredible wedding planner. H And I have been performing

826
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 1: obviously my whole life, but I've been putting on events

827
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: my whole life, you know. So planning and structuring and

828
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: stuff has been part of my my whole existence. And

829
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: so um, I actually found a lot of fun in

830
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: the fact that I pretty much planned our entire wedding.

831
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: It was super stressful, but I also, you know, it's

832
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: a sli ish I'm looking around cause I'm afraid she's listening.

833
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,439
Speaker 1: If she looks at all of these choices, she would

834
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: stare at him for hours, hours and hours and hours

835
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: maybe days. Whereas and I can make an executive decision

836
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: pretty quick. And if she didn't like it, you know,

837
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: she wasn't she wasn't at the meeting. But the wedding

838
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: was perfect. It was everything we could have ever imagined.

839
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: And yeah, my heart goes out to everybody that has

840
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: had to postpone, extremely sad. Yeah, this is the last

841
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: question going out to all the men who are looking

842
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: for their future bride. Some days from Heartbeak in two

843
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: and one, advice on how to get out of the

844
00:45:55,800 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 1: friend zone. Oh so this is a I is from

845
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: a guy. I mean it goes either way to go

846
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: for anybody stuck in the friend zone. Oh tailor as

847
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 1: old as time. Um, honestly ringe when we get asked that, Tyler.

848
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: Just the coldest, hardest, bitter truth is if you're in

849
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: the friend zone, you're supposed to be personally my experience,

850
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: it's and it's like and that doesn't mean friends can't

851
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: eventually you know, phone of or that one person isn't

852
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,479
Speaker 1: you know. But I would say in most cases, if

853
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: that person that you like is asking you for about

854
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: other people because they're you know, dating other people, and

855
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: you don't get that vibe at all, that like maybe

856
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: they're shy to talk to you about it about you guys,

857
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: then that means there's probably just not that same spark

858
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: they're Unfortunately, I could be wrong. I'm just thinking of

859
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: what what's his name in the movie The Ugly Truth?

860
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: Where you did you ever see that? With Truth? It's

861
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: kind of like perfect for this how men think um?

862
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:15,760
Speaker 1: With Gerard Butler? Correct Gerard Butler. Oh my god, Gerard Butler.

863
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: It's so funny. And he literally just like he does

864
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: this and he says something along those lines of you know,

865
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: he's just not that into um. But let's say that

866
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: there is something that could be there. But you're in

867
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: the friend zone? Do you risk at all to try

868
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: not to be um? Have you? Brooks's question for you?

869
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,879
Speaker 1: Have you ever been in that situation where somebody want

870
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 1: to be more than friends with you and you blew

871
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: them off or vice versa. Oh what a great question. No, man,

872
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: I gotta go back into the drives because if we

873
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: take are, if we take personal accountability for this, you

874
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: might be able to give a better response. Um. I

875
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: So I do agree with you. I think you're right.

876
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: If you are in the friend zone, it means you're

877
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: probably where you're supposed to be. But if it's a

878
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: new friend, if it's an old friend you grew up with,

879
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: that could change. But I feel like, if it's somebody

880
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: new in your life, right, I actually think that way.

881
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 1: I think if it's an old friend, you're probably there

882
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 1: because you're supposed to be there. If it's a new one,

883
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: you might have a chance to like switch it up.

884
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 1: But I don't know, but I will say you agree

885
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,399
Speaker 1: with you. I do agree with you that if you're

886
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 1: in the friend zone, it's probably where you're supposed to be.

887
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: But as there's an exception to all rules, as they

888
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 1: say or whatever. I know two people. I know somebody

889
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: who was in the friend zone for twelve years, knew

890
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: this girl for twelve years, was in the friend zone,

891
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: saw countless boyfriends whatever, and ended up um proposing to her.

892
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: They ended up dating. They ended up dating, ended up

893
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 1: getting engaged. They're not Verry Corona and stuff. But they

894
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: are now engaged. And he was in the friend zone

895
00:48:54,840 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 1: for a decade plus. He this is what I would

896
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: say to people. If you yeah, that's a question, how

897
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: do you get out? He shot a shot, He shot

898
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: He shot a shot multiple times. Actually tried once like

899
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 1: five years ago and it didn't work, And then he

900
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: tried again. She was single again a couple of years

901
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: ago or something, and He's like, listen, I'm not just

902
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: your friend, like I see you as more than that

903
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: in my life, Like, why do you think I'm around you?

904
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: Why do you think I'm invested in you? Like I

905
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: I love you. I don't know if you said that

906
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: on the first on that conversation, but like that was

907
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 1: the intention. I see you as more than a friend. Um,

908
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: And so he shot a shot. Man, I think, listen,

909
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: if you never shoot your shot, it's never going to change.

910
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: And at least you just got to shoot. And yeah,

911
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: at least if you shoot your shot, you know, and

912
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: you'd be like and you can be adults about you, like, hey,

913
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: I tried. I had to try. I had to try,

914
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: otherwise I maybe live with regret the rest of my life.

915
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: The fact that I tried shouldn't make shouldn't end our friendship,

916
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: you know, So you're not that kind of thing. If

917
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: that did work to like that kind of a long

918
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 1: friendship and then you guys start dating, that's uh, that's

919
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: one of those probably moving quick situations. I would guess

920
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: if you've got all that history, right, Uh, Tori, what

921
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: about you? What about me? How would you answer that?

922
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: If you are if you are a woman, and you

923
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: are in a friend zone, and but you like this,

924
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: if you if you are a woman, if I am

925
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: being a woman hypothetically speaking very PC of you, um,

926
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: I I am guilty of friend zoning a lot, friend

927
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: zwing yourself or friend zwing guys, probably both ways. Um.

928
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 1: But if I were a girl in a situation where

929
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: I wanted to kind of like put myself back out there,

930
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: I would just start asking for a lot of one

931
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 1: on one time with that person, besides doing like group situations,

932
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: just being like, hey, like the game's on, want to

933
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: bring a beer over and watch or kind of whatever,

934
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: just to ease my way in there. And then if

935
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: you guys are like on the couch and maybe he

936
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: sits closer to you, like, there's ways to inch that,

937
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: but you have to get your alone time in their

938
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: strategy and you gotta be you gotta be extremely strategic.

939
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: And if they like that thing comes through that text

940
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: comes through a friend of mine and says, hey, you

941
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 1: want to come over and grab a beer and watch

942
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: this game, I'm immediately going to think maybe this is

943
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 1: maybe this is a is this like a subtle date

944
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: kind of a solo hang And then you can easily

945
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 1: say oh, I've got something going on to be busy

946
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: and never even have to cross that road of having

947
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: an awkward friendship moving forward, because none of us are dumb.

948
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: We've been through this so many times. Uhumb just used lightly.

949
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,479
Speaker 1: Men are kind of oblivious. Let's just point that out there.

950
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: I could be like, hey, leaning in for a kiss

951
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: and they're like, all right, so you know later like

952
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: she's not enemy, and it's like I gave you all

953
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: the signs, all right, are you trying to smell my face?

954
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: I would probably because I think I would. I think

955
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 1: I'd be like terribly oblivious. Yeah, like truthfully, like I

956
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: think i'd be terribly oblivious. Oh I didn't. Maybe now

957
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 1: I'm better as I've gotten older, but like, oh when

958
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: I was younger, for sure, like in my twenties, I

959
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 1: probably didn't even have a clue what was going on.

960
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah it's twenties. Is that's like a whole another lifetime though, right,

961
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 1: All these answers, all these answers for me are coming

962
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: from a thirty four year old male perspective, so different

963
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: than in the twenties. What was our conversation the other day, Tory,

964
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: we we're talking about like for a man if he's

965
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: thirty four, you have to for a man, you have

966
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so for when you date a man, maturity wise,

967
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: you subtract four years. So I'm twenty five. If I

968
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: date someone who's twenty five, I subtract four years, so

969
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm really dating ad Yeah, got it, got it. It's

970
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: pretty accurate. Thank you. Yeah. Research and they say girls

971
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: are more mature. You have to add before correct. It's well,

972
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: we're just perfect. So we just come perfectly package. We

973
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: just run around it. Yeah. Um yeah, so that's I

974
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: don't know, just shoot your shot. If anybody stuck in

975
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: the friend zone, you have to. You just have to

976
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: at least for one on one time, ask for one

977
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 1: on one time. Yeah. I love that approach. I really

978
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: love that approach. Um. And you know what, throwing it

979
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: back again one of the other questions, and so we're

980
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: talking about, Uh, ask them real, real questions, you know,

981
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: not surface Get them to open up a little bit too.

982
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: Hey how are you doing? Like, how is it this

983
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: affecting your career right now? Um? And uh, the more somebody,

984
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: the more I've opened up to people in the past,

985
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: the more emotionally connected I've felt to him, and I

986
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: think that's a pretty standard feeling. Uh So that's our

987
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 1: that's our couple of tips of how to lure them

988
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: in the friends Zone. I guess, well, the Vaughans and

989
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 1: Friends Zone. Maybe we should do a whole episode Tori

990
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,800
Speaker 1: on the friend Zone. I love it. Everyone can relate.

991
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: Everyone's been there, right, I appreciate your brother. Dude, you're

992
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: great at this. You should like, no wonder you can

993
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: tell they've been on camera and you've been like can

994
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: You're fantastic? Like some people come on. You have to

995
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: like get them to say something like you actually enjoy

996
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: conversing and like being in front of an audience, and

997
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: so you're you're great at Thanks. Yeah, I was sick

998
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: of the whole time. I was like, I need better answers, teller,

999
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,479
Speaker 1: think better, think for what they want to hear. It's old.

1000
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 1: Then I'm like, they're relying on us right now. Think

1001
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: it's kind of the fun, Like it's kind of That's

1002
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,359
Speaker 1: what I love doing the shows where our listeners send

1003
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 1: in questions and we get to answer because it just

1004
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: comes out organically, like and to try and honor the question,

1005
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: like how can we serve this person? How can we

1006
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: help this person see what like be inside a man's mind,

1007
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 1: like this is how we see things, um so. But

1008
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: it's also it keeps your knife sharp, you know when

1009
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 1: you do it live versus like, Oh that's why I like,

1010
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: I don't get the They send me the questions before,

1011
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: but I don't like reading them because I'm like, I

1012
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: just want to answer with like what's truthful and honest

1013
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: to me, versus curating some sort of answer. So, um so,

1014
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: I appreciate your willingness to answer them. Brother, Um, I

1015
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: think it's fun. Man. I've never done anything quite like that,

1016
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: so it's fun. So once again, where can people let's

1017
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 1: touch on this, where can people find you so they

1018
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: can tune into your your live at home Instagram? Yeah,

1019
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: every everything is just always under my name. So my

1020
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:33,720
Speaker 1: Instagram is just Tylerer less m is rich uh spelled

1021
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 1: like rich um and everything Tyler's just across the board

1022
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: everywhere you can get music, all that good stuff beautiful.

1023
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: And then you go Thursday Friday. Do you put it

1024
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: out in advance or do you kind of just pop

1025
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: on like, hey, I'm live now, or do you will

1026
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:50,439
Speaker 1: you say like akmorrow at this time, I'm going live? Um,

1027
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: I will usually drop the fields like home one UM

1028
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:57,760
Speaker 1: a day before or the morning of UM. And then Sundays,

1029
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: unless I'm out of town or doing something, you can

1030
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: always pretty much count on our Sunday brunch happening UM,

1031
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 1: and that's always at one o'clock and it's fun. But

1032
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: if you're gonna watch our Sunday brunch, have liquor because

1033
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: it's a or some type of drink. And if you

1034
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 1: don't drink, that's fine. You know, you can drink whatever

1035
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 1: you want. But if you do drink, feel free to

1036
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 1: partake with us because even though we can't see you,

1037
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: it becomes a hell of a lot more fun when like,

1038
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:22,439
Speaker 1: for instance, Brooks' I'm gonna drag you on. You're gonna

1039
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: be my surprise guest one of these times now, But

1040
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: so so you The deal is basically when we do

1041
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 1: this drinking trivia and I'll say, hey, everybody at home,

1042
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: it's watching. You're either team Brooks or your team Tabina.

1043
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: And to be if we have to take a shot,

1044
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: you have to take shot. If you have to take shot,

1045
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 1: they have to take shot. UM. And it's funny, man.

1046
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: People get people get hammered and they start like you're

1047
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 1: trying to answer the triviae questions in the in the

1048
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,840
Speaker 1: commons threads, and um, it's a lot of fun. We

1049
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: have a good time. Yeah. The other day, I was

1050
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: at my lake house and I played a game with

1051
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: some friends. Um, I don't drink. It's something I don't drink.

1052
00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: I haven't drank in a couple of years. Kind of things,

1053
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: just personal choice. But um, the friends I was with

1054
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: didn't drink. Um, I can't have a drink or not.

1055
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: I just whatever. I just prefer not to. But they

1056
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: don't drink. Um. But two of our friends really like

1057
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: energy drinks, you know, like Monsters, rock stars, whatever, rain whatever,

1058
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: like energy drinks. And we played this card game where

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00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: when you lost, you had to take a shot of

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00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: an energy drink. And I hate energy drinks. I never drink.

1061
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: I don't need the energy. But they're also just like

1062
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: not good for you. And we played this game where

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00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: you had to take this shot the energy drink if

1064
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: you lost, and it was just a freaking nightmare. By

1065
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: the end of it. Everybody's just like fly, every just wired, wired,

1066
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: And it kind of just made it a fun stupid

1067
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: like it kind of elevated a stupid little experience, but

1068
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: it was it was actually really really enjoyable. And I

1069
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: haven't had a because I tried a red Bull when

1070
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: I was like twenty four, when I was playing hockey.

1071
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm tired and I might need a red Bull.

1072
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: I tried on my heart just about blew out my

1073
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: chest and I'm like, yeah, I can't drink that crap um.

1074
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: So I hadn't had one in like thirteen years. And

1075
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: then we tried like shots of an energy drink the

1076
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:05,919
Speaker 1: other day and I was just like, oh my god,

1077
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: what was my life coming? Dude? Your body was probably

1078
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: going crazy. And then we've got you know, we've had

1079
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: guests on the show that you know, we've had musical

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00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: guests at the end that are nineteen years old, you know,

1081
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: and like or just you know, some of my friends

1082
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 1: that don't drink and they come on and uh, they'll

1083
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: do you know, shots of iced tea or like thin.

1084
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: It's it's you know, it's not necessarily the alcohol. It's

1085
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 1: it's the engagement that's fun. Yeah, you should make them

1086
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: do not something nice though, they should do like a

1087
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 1: shot of vinegar or a shot of pickles or like

1088
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: something where it's like, oh, God, pickle juice. Pickle juice

1089
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: is the jam man our pickle juice like a pickleback

1090
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 1: is our favorite thing. I could drink pickle juice out

1091
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: of the jar. Oh my buddies. If somebody I was like, man,

1092
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: you gotta drink pickle juice. The shot is punishment, like

1093
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: as much as you want, man, jeez um. And then

1094
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: can you tell us about when Live at Home the

1095
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 1: EP is out on what is July thirty? Is this

1096
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: coming out? Yeah? So my whole idea with Live at

1097
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: Home was, I mean, obviously we don't have any end inside.

1098
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: We don't know when quarantine is gonna be over, we

1099
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: don't know when I'm gonna get to start touring again.

1100
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: And um, just kind of like an ode to all

1101
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: of the fans that have been tuning in every week

1102
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: to watch me play guitar on my couch. Uh. And right,

1103
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 1: a lot of people will go and they'll play the Rheman,

1104
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: or they'll do a big show and they'll release a

1105
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: live full band live from the Rieman. And I was like,

1106
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: when all this is over, you know, say a year

1107
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: from now, touring and stuff, there's gonna be a bunch

1108
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 1: of fans like, man, remember when Tyler. We just just

1109
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: watched Tyler hang out in couch play songs all the time.

1110
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: So I wanted to give them that as something to keep.

1111
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: So I recorded five songs at home. I don't know

1112
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I have zero technological education as far

1113
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: as recording. I just set up Mike's played five songs

1114
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: acoustic within saying no production, no edit, is just me

1115
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: and my guitar, quote unquote, live at home, and uh

1116
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: it's that comes out next week thirty one, super super

1117
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: a super stript. I love that because I think what

1118
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: I love about that and why I appreciate and respect

1119
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: that is I believe a musician should be able to

1120
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 1: sit there with their guitar and nothing else around them,

1121
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: no lights, cameras, dancers, fire works, whatever, and play music.

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01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, like that's otherwise you're just kind of

1123
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: a performer, but not like like, give me a guitar,

1124
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: let me sit here, and I can entertain you without

1125
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: anything else around. That is an artist. That is true

1126
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,439
Speaker 1: like honoring of the craft and then you can build

1127
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: the other stuff around you. But like, I just love

1128
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: that you're able to sit and do that. So I

1129
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: can't wait till it comes out. Anytime you want me

1130
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: to come on the brunch, I am there and also,

1131
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: like I have, I'm pretty busy, but I'm sure i'll

1132
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 1: find in phase space to be featured on your next album.

1133
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: Like we'll have to talk to Gav wanted me to

1134
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 1: be exclude, so you know, so, um, it is what

1135
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: it is. But we're all friends. And yeah, you know, Gavin,

1136
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: well this arm wrestler or something you know, who could

1137
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 1: take as many shots pickle juice. You know, we'll figure

1138
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: out a competition to earn your ear to earn your due. Yeah,

1139
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 1: Kyler rich my man, I appreciate you, wishing you and

1140
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: Sabinea the best. Also, I love that you have uh

1141
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: two dogs. I'm a husky owner myself, so amazing. Yeah,

1142
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: they're the best. She's walking around back there right now.

1143
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me, man, this has been an absolute

1144
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: blessed Thank you, buddy. I appreciate your insight and love

1145
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: to have you back on the show and love to

1146
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 1: meet you when this whole thing kind of blows over,

1147
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: I come to Nashville or something hang out. Um and

1148
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: everybody that sent in your questions, thank you so much.

1149
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: The show was for you, guys. Thank you for sending

1150
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 1: in your questions. Continue to do so. Men at I

1151
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: Heart radio dot com is where you can email us

1152
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: until next week. Take care of one another, love one another,

1153
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: and we'll see you back here for another episode of

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