WEBVTT - 5 Ways to Have a Successful Threesome Experience

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<v Speaker 1>He lifts morning, But don't stand with the same one.

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<v Speaker 1>Stalk to me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what you're doing, and you're backing enough to

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<v Speaker 2>talking to me to what your other with me?

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<v Speaker 1>So don't say he's too high. Do fun thinks with

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<v Speaker 1>the bright guy a long eyes. Don't try to make

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<v Speaker 1>you said so, baby, don't think right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Meila. And it's fucking late.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really late. Yeah times.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh it is twelve fifteen, am kyl. What a great

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<v Speaker 2>time to talk about threesomes, the perfect time. This is

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<v Speaker 2>Good Mom's after hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome. We even have rope after.

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<v Speaker 3>Dark, Good Mom's after John.

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<v Speaker 1>I how that sounds right, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>A little it has a ring to it. Where are

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<v Speaker 3>you going? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>We.

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<v Speaker 2>Have Well I've had a long day and I'm tired

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<v Speaker 2>as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but we have a very interesting topic tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, first you want to talk about actually, well, Jamila

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<v Speaker 2>came over and our homeboy Carlton was here, and for

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<v Speaker 2>some reason, Lifetime happened to be on.

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<v Speaker 3>Or do you guys turn on the time?

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<v Speaker 1>He reminded me it was on, And then I had

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<v Speaker 1>seen hi meme, and we had to of course tune

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<v Speaker 1>into the R. Kelly documentary, and I kept going back

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<v Speaker 1>in the room and getting so caught into.

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<v Speaker 2>It, like I know, you guys would be like mid

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<v Speaker 2>conversation and quiet all of a sudden, like.

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<v Speaker 1>She was sucking me in, like and then he did

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<v Speaker 1>a what I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really, I wasn't really watching it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it's getting a lot of attention about like just

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<v Speaker 2>really how fucked up he is and why he I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know why he gets he discontinuously even after this,

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<v Speaker 2>I think he'll still get the past.

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<v Speaker 1>He in some people's minds, gets the pass. Yeah, but Erica,

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<v Speaker 1>you said recently, I don't. I don't mean he gets

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<v Speaker 1>the pass from me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just mean like for some reason in society we

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<v Speaker 2>like he gets the past.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but you also say you saw in concert recently

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<v Speaker 1>and it was fired doc.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like not recently, more like five years ago. He

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<v Speaker 2>was still a pedophile of that, and I knew it.

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<v Speaker 2>And but I was at a music festival. I was

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<v Speaker 2>at Pitchfork in Chicago, and so there are multiple shows

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<v Speaker 2>going on, and so at first I wasn't at his show,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I heard his music and it just sound

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<v Speaker 2>it was so like it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>It was lit over there, he was he was going in.

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<v Speaker 1>I only have one thing to say. There's nothing, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no excuse.

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<v Speaker 4>Four years ago from this is all Wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean fish.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see the one where he's on stage on

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<v Speaker 2>all the passport were in a bitch of passport?

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<v Speaker 1>No, oh my god, what do you mean he gave

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<v Speaker 1>her a passport?

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<v Speaker 2>No, he's singing so r kelly at his shows he

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<v Speaker 2>does a lot of like freestyle singing and he will

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<v Speaker 2>just like go on rants and they're all hilarious. But

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know should I play it? Is this terrible

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<v Speaker 2>with me like support not that I supporting him currently,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm so confused by like what's appropriate and what

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<v Speaker 2>is it?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, because come.

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<v Speaker 1>Closer what this means is I don't know. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a catch twenty two because I think as women,

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<v Speaker 1>we low key have kind of been conditioned to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but the abuse is real and the manipulation is real,

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<v Speaker 1>and but it's honestly it's like mind control, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just manipulation and a whole different level. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't excuse it. I think he's totally weird and something's

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<v Speaker 1>probably wrong with him. Not something, Definitely, he's a pedophile, Definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a little girl fetish and he's gotten away

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<v Speaker 1>with it over and over and over and over.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>As a black like, I feel like as a black community, like,

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<v Speaker 2>we give him the past. I think also because we

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<v Speaker 2>don't I don't know what it is. We don't respect

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<v Speaker 2>our women. Men don't respect am the black woman enough

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<v Speaker 2>that their favorite R and B singer they can't.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't.

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<v Speaker 3>He got the pits, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, damn that is I guess that's bottom line. I

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<v Speaker 1>have anything to say the women. I wants to respect

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<v Speaker 1>the kids. No, it's true, it's true. Yeah, he's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Even in the documentary they're talking about how he was

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<v Speaker 1>like trolling, the trolling the high schools.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, well.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you, Okay, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Just it's not picking up that great. Sorry, we're having

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<v Speaker 3>we have a new mic.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you to Nisha SB who on Christmas sent us

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<v Speaker 2>a new mic because she felt bad for our terrible sound.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're also technologically slow, and you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if any of you guys have ever tried to

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<v Speaker 2>start a podcast and not knowing what the fuck you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But here we are, here, we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Growing attempting to be sound engineers.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>R Kelly, oh R Kelly. He was like trolling the

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<v Speaker 1>the high schools and like it was a known fact

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<v Speaker 1>but that people didn't really pay attention because it was

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<v Speaker 1>like black girls, so like they didn't really pay attention.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what one of the one of the victims said,

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<v Speaker 2>right like he felt she felt like no one was

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<v Speaker 2>protecting them because they were black girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in Chicago, it was just yeah, it's just very strange.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know what the problem is is that

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<v Speaker 1>people like that really need mental attention. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that's like a really mental thing. If you fetish size

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's like not fully developed, that's that's something you

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<v Speaker 1>got to deal with, like with a therapist. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think we need to provide more support and like not

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<v Speaker 1>brushed under the rug, but address it so that people

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<v Speaker 1>know that they have. Like I think people probably have

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<v Speaker 1>that fetish and don't say it because it's so taboo,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have to at some point admit it to

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<v Speaker 1>go get help for it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you're shamed because it's so terrible. It's terrible,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've probably abused somebody, right, you know exactly, And

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<v Speaker 2>so instead of like trying to correct them, we like,

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<v Speaker 2>well not in R. Kelly's case, but in most cases

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<v Speaker 2>we throw them away, right, you know, because they deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do those people get help to even address it? So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is more about that than anything.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not sympathizing with him because at this point,

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<v Speaker 2>like he knows the shit's fucking wrong, and he's doing

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<v Speaker 2>nothing to try and change it. In fact, he's continuing

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<v Speaker 2>on because he's gotten away with it so many times

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<v Speaker 2>and now taking victims like not to take prisoners and shit.

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<v Speaker 1>That reminds me the last time I popped my head

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<v Speaker 1>in there. This girl was saying they were together and

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<v Speaker 1>they had a really nice night and she was happy,

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<v Speaker 1>and he bought her a gown and then they got

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<v Speaker 1>back to the house and there was a girl there waiting,

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<v Speaker 1>and he explained to her that she was a neighbor

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<v Speaker 1>and that she was sixteen, and basically try to make

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<v Speaker 1>it seem like he wanted to try something new with her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and the girl yes, and like had a mattress set

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<v Speaker 1>up a tripod and a camera, and basically the girl

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<v Speaker 1>started crying, the little girl, no, the grown woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, man, I'm gonna fucking watch my video

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<v Speaker 1>now what you cry?

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<v Speaker 3>And shit.

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<v Speaker 1>His response that he was mad, not that she was crying,

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<v Speaker 1>but that he wouldn't be able to enjoy his video later.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he doesn't have any he's not with his sociopath,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no emotion of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But his ex wife is on there and they have

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<v Speaker 1>kids together. Hell, he wouldn't let her come out of

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<v Speaker 1>the room. She had to ask to come out of

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<v Speaker 1>the room to eat. Everybody was brought downstairs watching the

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<v Speaker 1>playoff game and she was knocking on the room door

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<v Speaker 1>and Sparkle was like, is somebody knocking And he was

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, and she's like, can I come get a

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<v Speaker 1>bite to eat? He's like, yeah, come on. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>fucking imagine, dude?

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<v Speaker 3>What is she doing in there?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of digmatizing.

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<v Speaker 3>Dick trickery?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this sorcery? Sorcery? What is it.

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<v Speaker 3>That hard?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the dick sorceres? This ship is this ship

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<v Speaker 1>away from that Dick's surcery? Ladies, it's out there digmatized

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<v Speaker 1>and that ship will get you every time. Not to

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<v Speaker 1>that level though then I also heard a little peep.

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<v Speaker 1>I only saw some of that peep about they were

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<v Speaker 1>all on the bus, the tour bus, when they were,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, speculating whether or not him and Aliyah were

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, even though ali and him were making

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<v Speaker 1>appearances on television shows and matching outfits. Right, like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, the tour bus door swung open, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>basically having sex with Olia, a sixteen year old girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and he at that point, I don't know how old

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<v Speaker 1>he was, but old enough to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah for sure, Lord Jesus, Oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to remember Eliah that way.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean said, it's actually because it is manipulation. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I even looking back into my high school experience, I

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<v Speaker 1>had situations when I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, yeah, that was not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I had an older, much older boyfriend in

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<v Speaker 2>high school and he knew, like he he liked that

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<v Speaker 2>I was young. Yeah, he would talk about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like huh, and I liked it too, weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It was manipulate.

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<v Speaker 1>It was because you thought it meant it was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I was special.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, honestly, yeah special. That's so fucked up and weird.

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<v Speaker 3>That is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of weird things, is that a good transition to

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<v Speaker 1>our topic? Sure, it's not weird, It's no, it's not weird.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kinky.

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<v Speaker 1>Though. Okay, this was a really bad transition. That was

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<v Speaker 1>really that was a f I mean, you put on

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<v Speaker 1>your sexy boy so I've been told to have a

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom voice. This is a quiet storm, hi, guys, Jesus. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tonight's episode is about, oh already told you guys

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<v Speaker 1>last week. What it's about? Top five Ways a half

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<v Speaker 1>of positive threesome Experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>How do we manage to get this classy title Top

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<v Speaker 1>five Ways Experience Women? Three? One on one.

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<v Speaker 2>We are some classy sexually liberate, sexually liberated black.

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<v Speaker 1>Women, and we're going to educate.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to take you through.

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<v Speaker 2>Our top five because we are the experts.

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<v Speaker 1>Self proclaimed experts. You have questions, we have answers.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So Number one communication slash rules major key, major key

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<v Speaker 1>for this whole.

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<v Speaker 3>Experience to go down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So, so just a little backstory on why this If

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't tune into last week's episode.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a listener call in not callin on our hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Line right and ask us like some advice because she's

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<v Speaker 2>been with her husband for nine years, they have two kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and they've only ever been with each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I think her husband had slept with one other person.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're about to get married, or they're about to

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<v Speaker 2>get married next month and or in two months, and

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<v Speaker 2>they think that they're in a really great place in

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<v Speaker 2>the relationship, but they both feel the urge to have

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<v Speaker 2>sex with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I've never he's had sex as one other person.

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<v Speaker 1>She's never had sex with anyone but.

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<v Speaker 2>Him, like maybe a threesome or maybe just sex on

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<v Speaker 2>their own.

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<v Speaker 3>But she didn't know, like just.

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<v Speaker 1>To open up their marriage or relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know how to go about it.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't know what the rules were, she didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>if she should wait till.

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<v Speaker 3>She's married or not married.

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<v Speaker 2>And also a friend of ours, uh, she also has

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<v Speaker 2>been inquiring about or like just interested in having a

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<v Speaker 2>threesome with her husband, and she's never hooked up with

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<v Speaker 2>a girl, and but she's interested in it in a

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<v Speaker 2>long time. And she was asking me, like, there's a

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<v Speaker 2>like a blueprint to the ship, like who's supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>doing what?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the wrong questions? Like how do you how

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<v Speaker 1>do you get a girl to do it? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>do you say? How do you know if they're down?

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<v Speaker 2>And I think we're just in a much more I

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<v Speaker 2>think I hear that, I hear this come up more

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<v Speaker 2>and more for people because I think we're in a

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<v Speaker 2>much more liberal, sexually liberated time than ever where like

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<v Speaker 2>couples are more like open relationships are very normal now, right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's almost the normal.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the norm, and it's not the It's not normal,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think for everyone in their head. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>becoming a popular or more popular idea. I think people

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<v Speaker 2>have the idea, only a few act on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I think it's been happening for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time.

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<v Speaker 3>It is, but I mean but I mean, like but

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<v Speaker 3>openly talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, No, not so much. You know this is our personals,

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<v Speaker 1>quiet understanding.

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<v Speaker 2>Right and so yeah, so that's where this this, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>having two people reach out to us in one week

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<v Speaker 2>about how to have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Threesome because clearly everybody thinks we know the answers because

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<v Speaker 1>we've had multiple.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean my threesome experience I've I've had, I've had some,

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<v Speaker 2>but not You're way more experience than I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you have a very interesting perspective, which

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<v Speaker 1>I really like your perspective. I'm kind of jealous of

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<v Speaker 1>which I found a cool couple like that when you like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like maintaining a relationship, not even relationship, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a platonic relationship with a married couple. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool because everybody is in the know, which is interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was a cool marriage to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of for part of time, like a temporary point

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<v Speaker 1>of time, and they're both hot hot.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, really, I know, I got really lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, yeh, super lucky, luckiest tender like the luckiest

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<v Speaker 1>tendering bitch I've ever so a lot of my experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all random, i'd say, and drunken fun but uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not as thought I guess thought how But anyway, we're

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<v Speaker 1>here to tell you all that we know.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, number one communication slash rules.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, Okay, we're gonna go down this list and we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do it from a couple perspective, and also

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<v Speaker 1>the guest perspective, because sometimes you'll be the guest star

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes you may be listening to know how to recruit,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're in a couple or you want to introduce

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<v Speaker 1>it as a couple things, so it's different.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I think the first question, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Is really important question, and actually I called our girl

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<v Speaker 2>Weezy to ask her about her threecome experience before this episode,

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<v Speaker 2>and she actually gave me some really good good things

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<v Speaker 2>to think about, which one of them was why are

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<v Speaker 2>you having the threesome? And it's like, are you having

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<v Speaker 2>this to revive your relationship? Are you having this because

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<v Speaker 2>your husband keeps mentioning it and so you're like just

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<v Speaker 2>want to please him. Are you having it because you've

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<v Speaker 2>always been interested in women and you you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>want to try it out, explore, like why are you

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<v Speaker 2>having it? And like if your answer is not out

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<v Speaker 2>of I think derived out of like an insecurity.

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<v Speaker 1>Or or also like from a man's perspective, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're if you're okay, well, I mean I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you're doing it to revive your relationship or revive

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<v Speaker 1>your interest in your partner, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's tricky.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's tricky. It could work and it could.

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<v Speaker 3>Not or could have a backfire on you.

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<v Speaker 1>So you need to be honest if this is someone

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<v Speaker 1>you really want to do that with, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>even want to be with that person to begin with,

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<v Speaker 1>they were enjoying it as an escapism and a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's healthy if you're doing it to

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<v Speaker 1>add to your relationship and to you know, like pump

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<v Speaker 1>it up.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're doing it because your man isn't giving you

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<v Speaker 2>attention and you think maybe like you need to bring

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<v Speaker 2>another woman in, then I would say no, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't do that either.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you guys have some shit to work on. If

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<v Speaker 1>you have any like major doubts. If you don't like pussy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it. You know, don't just try pussy because

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<v Speaker 1>you think your man like it, because once your face

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<v Speaker 1>gets close to that pussy, it's things you're gonna get strange.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna be like, damn, I'm here, I'm here now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're curious about it, then definitely I think act

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<v Speaker 1>on it, because you know, you only live once, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Just communicating with your partner, having open conversations about you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what your expectations are or and like you know, just

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<v Speaker 2>having an understanding and.

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<v Speaker 1>A common thorough understand, thorough.

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<v Speaker 2>Understand, common trust. And I think what leads the us

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<v Speaker 2>too is rules. So communicating the rules of what this

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<v Speaker 2>threesome is going to be, whether it's you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>if you're for example, like we're for going down like

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<v Speaker 2>the couple side right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So if you're a.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple, like like I would say, you know, you guys

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<v Speaker 2>need to be on a group text and you don't

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<v Speaker 2>stray from the group text.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't communicate outside of the text.

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<v Speaker 2>And you need to really have a make your man

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<v Speaker 2>really understand this because men are weak.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of times you give these motherfuckers an

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<v Speaker 1>ech and they will take a mile. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>for the men out there. Don't do that. If your

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<v Speaker 1>woman is cool enough and open enough and secure enough

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<v Speaker 1>to open it up and obviously do things that not

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<v Speaker 1>all women are down to do, or we know, just

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<v Speaker 1>explore things sexually, definitely don't take advantage of that, be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's uncomfortable, and definitely like respect the fucking rule.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't damage that trust to do because that's almost worse

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<v Speaker 3>than cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>It is because I've given, I've given you, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're taking advantage and now I'm gonna slap the shit

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<v Speaker 1>out of you. I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't contain. I don't condone domestic violence.

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<v Speaker 3>Only in times of threesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheating the worst type of cheating. It's it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty bad. Rules. Oh, a lot of people have rules

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<v Speaker 1>about Okay, I don't really believe in this, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard a lot of people have rules about, like kissing,

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<v Speaker 1>certain things you can and cannot do physically sexually. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want your man eat another bitches pussy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it depends where you get this bitch. Where I can

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<v Speaker 1>understand that rule. But where'd you get the bitch depends

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<v Speaker 1>you found her.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Quality, she top notch. You know, if she's in you

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<v Speaker 1>may not want to. Anyone might not want to eat

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<v Speaker 1>that pussy. You may not have to, you know. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying is, do you not want the kiss? I

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<v Speaker 1>think stuff like that is silly because to me, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're having an intimate relationship, you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Already putting limitations on, like if you' putting supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be free.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is right titty. You know, like if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you want, if you have ridiculous expectations, especially physically, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of you can't. You can only contain sex

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<v Speaker 1>to a certain extent if you're opening it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. That's another thing. It's like, you know, once

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<v Speaker 2>you open that box, it's open. It's it's like the

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<v Speaker 2>opening Pandora's box. That shit don't close back up the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever comes out of Pandora's box, the good and the bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to deal with it because you've given permission

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<v Speaker 1>to open that door.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, I think as a partner you have to

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<v Speaker 2>also again I was saying before we're talking about this,

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<v Speaker 2>before we're recorded, it's like you have to as much

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<v Speaker 2>as it's opening Pandora's box, like you also have to

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<v Speaker 2>be open to the idea that like maybe one year,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe your partner doesn't like it and closing that box,

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<v Speaker 2>and can you handle that?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you handle like tasting it them and not being

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<v Speaker 1>able to continue frolicking in it. Also, if you're the

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<v Speaker 1>person coming in and it's not a couple of situations,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get no motherfucking feelings for somebody in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and start acting crazy that's not okay. If you're coming

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<v Speaker 1>in as a guest, be a motherfucking guest like you

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<v Speaker 1>would be in somebody's house. Be respectful, Be respectful, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask them questions, get to know them both. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's important that they feel equal, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's important that you respect the relationship just

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<v Speaker 1>because it just makes everything better. And I'm not into

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<v Speaker 1>that sneaky shit.

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<v Speaker 3>To tell them.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I think the couple too, like they have a

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<v Speaker 2>responsibility to make that guest feel special and feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, like kind of I feel like whine

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<v Speaker 2>and dining that person dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, dependence on the scenario, but yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 2>In a way not wine and dine them, but you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like also for me when I've been a guest, buy

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<v Speaker 1>me a drinker too, Yeah, for sure, or also okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a difficult, we'll get downe there. You should usually

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<v Speaker 1>include liquor just step one. Usually alcohol is highly recommended.

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<v Speaker 2>Not always, not always, but if you're trying to loosen

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<v Speaker 2>up and it's your first time, you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Nervous, maybe if you're not a good drinker, don't oh oh.

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<v Speaker 1>The rules for the couple to the guest. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not only include her and make her feel comfortable, but

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<v Speaker 1>as a guest, if I can feel any sense of

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<v Speaker 1>any remote jealousy or weirdness or awkwardness, I'm out. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want anything to do with this because you guys

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<v Speaker 1>think you want this, but I can tell that this

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<v Speaker 1>bitch doesn't. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 3>So what happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been different situations where I could tell, like the guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wanting to do it, and she was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>feeling threatened, and I was trying to like warm her up.

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<v Speaker 1>And this makes me sounds terrible, I mean, but just

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<v Speaker 1>like being a but and even not even saying like

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<v Speaker 1>I was going into it knowing that this was the exectation,

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<v Speaker 1>but just getting the feel. That's just if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out to dinner with people, when you run into a couple,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just courtesy. Don't overflirt with a bitches guy and

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<v Speaker 1>he's acting overly anxious to have more conversation with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, No, you're know your spot, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, So then what else is okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So think another rule? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think your partner, I think I think sexually,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's important for everyone to be equal to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>or I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, it depends what kind of setup you're trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>Have, right, dedicating it all. If it's someone's birthday, you know,

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:54.359
<v Speaker 1>is it your man's birthday, so everybody's attentions on him,

0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:59.199
<v Speaker 1>is it your birthday? All the attentions on you, you know,

0:23:59.400 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 1>is it her birthday? Maybe this is about you guys

0:24:01.840 --> 0:24:03.840
<v Speaker 1>pleasing her. I mean, it's all I think.

0:24:04.040 --> 0:24:08.679
<v Speaker 3>Also, I think men, you guys need to let the

0:24:08.680 --> 0:24:09.359
<v Speaker 3>woman choose.

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:13.600
<v Speaker 1>No, it's not you think it's an absolutely mandatory thing.

0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 2>The woman that had I think that's the that's the

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:21.000
<v Speaker 2>number one rule and the rules, and the woman has to.

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Unless she has. If you have the best bitch on earth,

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:27.600
<v Speaker 1>then she said you choose, then congratulations. No, she's not

0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:36.960
<v Speaker 1>so smart, honestly, Like, no, don't even don't even suggest,

0:24:37.119 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>don't even try to recommend. You could say something like, oh,

0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:43.399
<v Speaker 1>what do you think about her? She's kind of cute,

0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:46.400
<v Speaker 1>maybe a little, but don't make any requests. And don't

0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:49.920
<v Speaker 1>suggest someone you fucked before. Yeah, don't lie and say

0:24:49.920 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't have fuck that person before and then introduce them.

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Those are all absolute fuck nos. Yeah, I just think

0:24:57.400 --> 0:25:00.280
<v Speaker 1>you absolutely have to put that in the woman's the

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 1>woman's court. Oh also, oh wait, are there yet?

0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:08.840
<v Speaker 2>No, Okay, I think also like it makes the woman

0:25:08.920 --> 0:25:12.280
<v Speaker 2>feel like she's more in control of the situation. And

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:17.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, unfortunately and niggas have a real bad track record,

0:25:17.800 --> 0:25:20.919
<v Speaker 2>so like we need to we need that and we

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 2>need that that. I guess that validation I think, you know,

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:27.320
<v Speaker 2>for me, like I'm kind of I know, I'm I've

0:25:27.320 --> 0:25:29.840
<v Speaker 2>been aggressive lately, but I'm like kind of shy when

0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:32.000
<v Speaker 2>it comes to women because it's so strange to me

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:36.119
<v Speaker 2>because I don't know how to really like I've always

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:37.639
<v Speaker 2>been on the other side, I'm the woman, Like I

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:39.159
<v Speaker 2>don't really even I know how.

0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:39.720
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like I'm not good at flirting with women.

0:25:42.960 --> 0:25:46.280
<v Speaker 2>So maybe a wife would feel uncomfortable approaching the woman,

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 2>so she needs the support of her husband or her partner,

0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 2>her boyfriend whatever to do.

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:54.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like and that's like even me, Like when I've been.

0:25:54.080 --> 0:25:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Out with a guy I'm dating who were interested in

0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 2>doing that, Like I'll be like, this is the girl

0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:01.719
<v Speaker 2>I like, I need you, but I've let him know

0:26:02.080 --> 0:26:05.280
<v Speaker 2>like I like her, and now I need you to

0:26:05.320 --> 0:26:06.480
<v Speaker 2>try to seal this deal.

0:26:06.359 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 3>Like go flirt with her, you know what I mean?

0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 3>So it's like you gotta.

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:15.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's a really good indication to let the girl know. Wait,

0:26:15.200 --> 0:26:17.639
<v Speaker 1>which you're implying, like what you're trying to get? You know,

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:23.080
<v Speaker 1>like there's equal flirting and it's equal. I don't. I

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 1>guess it's more it's more difficult for the woman because

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:27.520
<v Speaker 1>what do you what do you? How do you like?

0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 1>It's harder for a woman to foot with the woman

0:26:29.600 --> 0:26:32.240
<v Speaker 1>to know if she's down with the get down, like

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 1>if you're not, if you're not being aggressive and she's

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 1>not being aggressive either, someone at some point has to

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:39.400
<v Speaker 1>be the aggressor. But I don't know. I think you're

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:49.080
<v Speaker 1>lying because I've seen it. So Erica and I have

0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:56.440
<v Speaker 1>a slight girl crush on one of our guests recently.

0:26:59.000 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>That's Carmen.

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<v Speaker 3>Damn what Okay, we're putting it out there hopefully.

0:27:06.400 --> 0:27:06.879
<v Speaker 1>Already knows.

0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:08.879
<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's a secret.

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a very known fact. She has a

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>really nice body.

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:14.560
<v Speaker 3>She's beautiful.

0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's really beautiful. She's cool and she's fun. Anyway,

0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:24.239
<v Speaker 1>me and Erica having a slight rivalry, a little bit

0:27:24.280 --> 0:27:33.680
<v Speaker 1>of rivay, she's a lesbian rivalry anyway. Erica is claiming

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 1>right now that she's all innocent and that she doesn't

0:27:36.680 --> 0:27:40.600
<v Speaker 1>approach women and blah blah blah. But I've seen a

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 1>different side of Erica. You know, Tequila does that.

0:27:42.880 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 3>Like we said, step one alcohol.

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, if you want to bring out your inner a week,

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:50.760
<v Speaker 1>get you some tequila, because fucking Erica. We went out

0:27:50.840 --> 0:27:55.920
<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks ago with Carmen and others are partying,

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:58.040
<v Speaker 1>and you know, we're all in the photo booth and

0:27:58.200 --> 0:28:02.080
<v Speaker 1>literally I look back. I just like, maybe i'd look

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:05.119
<v Speaker 1>back for like five seconds. I just see Erica moving

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 1>in towards Karmen's face. I'm like, this little sneaky bitch.

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 3>On earlier you were touching her, and stop touching her.

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Stop that's that fucking scorpion.

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 3>I was like, stop it.

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't know.

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.879
<v Speaker 2>I already told you that I'm on that.

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>She did? Did? She claimed it, like before we even

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 1>she even met her. I have a crush on one

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:32.119
<v Speaker 1>of our listeners. I did, Yeah, Okay, so I guess

0:28:32.320 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 1>that's all you Carmen, now, you know, unless you want

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 1>to choose otherwise.

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Look, I'm first okay. Anyway, so most of the time

0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:53.120
<v Speaker 2>I am meek and and very awkward in front of women.

0:28:53.200 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 1>Until she gets a little tequila and okay, she will

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>make out with you, whether you like it or not.

0:28:57.880 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Not saying that Karmen didn't like it.

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 3>Oh I didn't make out with Carmen.

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh there was no time, right, No.

0:29:04.120 --> 0:29:08.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, anyway, maybe we could do like a three

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 2>way kiss. See she's trying to negotiate, just like what Okay, fine, fine, okay.

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>This is the number one rule of all the rules.

0:29:20.600 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 1>This is all number one golden threesome rule. Do not

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:29.040
<v Speaker 1>plan the threesome. Just don't do it. It has to

0:29:29.080 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 1>happen organically. You can't go out on the prow. When

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>you go on the prow, epic fail, you never meet

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>a good bit.

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:36.240
<v Speaker 3>But I don't.

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't agree with you because I did plan one

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 2>and it was with my it was with the couple

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 2>that I was hang out with.

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:45.880
<v Speaker 3>And but you guys were seeing each other like that

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:47.480
<v Speaker 3>was that was because it was off an app.

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was off an app. You knew the intention,

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 1>it was set.

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:50.720
<v Speaker 3>Up that way.

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I guess so, Yeah, if you're going out.

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>Even then you guys went out. Guys went to dinners.

0:29:54.440 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I know what we knew it was going down. We

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:57.840
<v Speaker 2>went to one, We went to dinner and then went

0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:04.440
<v Speaker 2>to the room, went to the condo, condo, their condo.

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 1>Well it's tender. Yeah, okay, yeah, I don't know if

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:10.320
<v Speaker 1>you guys, did we already touch on this if you

0:30:10.480 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 1>were turned into the first episode, Erica had a tender

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>love affair?

0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:19.040
<v Speaker 3>What like my couple?

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Did we talk about this? Sorry?

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, Well, basically I met a beautiful couple on Tinder,

0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't believe it was real. And it was

0:30:25.840 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 2>like right around the beginning of me breaking up, or

0:30:28.360 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 2>it was I was broken up with, but I was

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:31.920
<v Speaker 2>like trying to like get out there and try new shit.

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:35.760
<v Speaker 2>And so I found them and we chatted and they

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:37.720
<v Speaker 2>sent me other photos that I knew they were real,

0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:39.720
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, god damn. And then I wasn't

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:40.920
<v Speaker 2>sure if I was going to do it. They told

0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:42.360
<v Speaker 2>me I wanted to go to dinner and they wanted

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 2>to take me to dinner, went to dinner, had some

0:30:44.720 --> 0:30:48.800
<v Speaker 2>Margarita's Margarita's yeah and.

0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah m hm, and then she did.

0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Then I did it several times and it was lovely.

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 3>It was great.

0:30:55.000 --> 0:30:56.520
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's a success.

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and to see their relationship, like you know, they

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 2>the only reason I know some of these rules is

0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:04.520
<v Speaker 2>because of them, you know, because they had rules, which

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 2>brings us to two.

0:31:08.800 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 1>How how do you go about having a threesome? How

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 1>do you recruit?

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, friends versus strangers?

0:31:15.480 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>And do you use an app? Do you recruit an

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>erica from a tender? Hey? Do you go to the bar?

0:31:24.200 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I would say any of the above depends how direct

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:31.200
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to be. I personally like an in person

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.720
<v Speaker 1>meet up because I can feel you out, I could

0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:37.920
<v Speaker 1>see you. Energy is big for me sometimes, you know,

0:31:37.920 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 1>those five picks don't do all the justice.

0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:43.680
<v Speaker 3>It's that computer allowed. Yeah.

0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 2>I wonder if it's affecting the sound. We have these

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:50.080
<v Speaker 2>classy microphones. I think we're good, but it's recording through

0:31:50.080 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 2>the computer.

0:31:50.960 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 6>Oh well, all right, whatever, it doesn't matter now okay, yeah, bar.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Bar again with the liquor. I put a dance bar.

0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 1>What's a dance bar?

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 3>But I mean.

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:14.840
<v Speaker 1>The club? The club because you know, like that's how

0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:17.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of my lesbians spot me out on the

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 1>dance floor to see how close they're getting.

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 3>You know it's that witchy dance. They're enticed.

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I think for me because I am

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 2>a little like awkward, and I don't I'm not really

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 2>good at reading women in that way all the time.

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 2>I think that an app was better for me, and

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.040
<v Speaker 2>it's probably still isn't in ways because it's like a

0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 2>sure thing.

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 1>You don't think the dance bar helps.

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:40.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean the dance bar maybe now that I've entered

0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 2>into I've done, I've done, I've had more experiences like that.

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:46.360
<v Speaker 2>Now you can now I could do that. But early on,

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 2>like I felt awkward. I wasn't as like secure in

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 2>just approaching a woman and being like, what's up?

0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:53.760
<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm like, because.

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 2>Actually there's a girl that I've liked for a really

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:58.880
<v Speaker 2>long time when I lived in New York, and like

0:32:59.400 --> 0:33:01.280
<v Speaker 2>I did not I wanted to sleep with her and

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I had no idea how to do it. And I

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 2>would hang out with her all the time and I

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:07.440
<v Speaker 2>would like think, I'm like, am I giving off the sign?

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is I doing that?

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:11.680
<v Speaker 2>Maybe she doesn't like girls? Like I'm so confused? Do

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:13.400
<v Speaker 2>I ask her? And it was just it was just

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 2>I had no game, zero fucking game.

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any game either. You have to like

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>basically tell me, no, you have game.

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:22.320
<v Speaker 3>Okay, you do, thanks, it's just natural. Okay, yeah you

0:33:22.360 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 3>got a game. I thought you were trying to hook Carmen.

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:27.600
<v Speaker 3>Back the fuck up.

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. One time Carmen posted a pic and I feel

0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 1>like the droolie face or something. This bitch sent me

0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 1>a threatening text message like, back the fuck up, bitch,

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:41.680
<v Speaker 1>don't be comment on her pictures like that. I was like,

0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 1>is she really mad? This pitch is really mad? She's

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 1>like I already told you. I was like, damn, it's

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>like our first fight.

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 2>This.

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I'm so sorry Carmen.

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.800
<v Speaker 1>I think I was like, gonna think for aggressive aggressive

0:34:01.880 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 1>two pairs of friends.

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 3>Well now she definitely is. She's like, never gonna hang

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 3>out with us again.

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Don't be scared, Kian, we don't buy it. Oh my goodness.

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, so yeah, I think.

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:17.919
<v Speaker 2>I think also like, if you're a conservative couple going

0:34:17.960 --> 0:34:21.839
<v Speaker 2>back to couples, if you're a conservative couple, you've never

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 2>done this before, either one of you, you want to

0:34:24.239 --> 0:34:27.319
<v Speaker 2>even just test out if you even really like, first

0:34:27.360 --> 0:34:29.960
<v Speaker 2>of all, if you're okay seeing another woman be on

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 2>your man first of all, because you might think about

0:34:32.600 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 2>it and like the idea, but then when you actually see.

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:35.319
<v Speaker 3>It might fuck you up.

0:34:35.600 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 2>So I think a really good place to start is

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 2>going to a strip club.

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 1>And uh, just buying a few lap.

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Dances, buying some lap dances, enjoying the women, and seeing

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:48.760
<v Speaker 2>how you feel with your man being with another woman,

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:51.479
<v Speaker 2>because whether you're having a threesome or he's out doing

0:34:51.480 --> 0:34:53.400
<v Speaker 2>his own thing and you're out doing your own thing. Like,

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:56.720
<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's a visual that you need to see,

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 2>like to know for sure.

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and even if you think a do I like pussy?

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Do I want to eat it?

0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:01.799
<v Speaker 5>You know?

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Like that's also a good place because the shippers are

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>always going to be nice to you. It's their job,

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.240
<v Speaker 1>so you know, you can't get rejected. There's no aquard moments.

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>She's that's gonna be your you know, sometimes even shippers

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>are good candidates. I've known some like birthday situations where

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:19.360
<v Speaker 1>they got to like a stripper. And I know friends

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:21.919
<v Speaker 1>or ex friends that used to be strippers and we're

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:27.959
<v Speaker 1>like purchased for three someome purposes. That sounds really bad, yeah,

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:32.360
<v Speaker 1>but whatever. And also if you're a very very very

0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:34.000
<v Speaker 1>very conservative couple and.

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 3>Too much.

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Pretty much, you need to start by watching porn together,

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>maybe indulging in some threesome porn together to see if

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:46.440
<v Speaker 1>it even you're comfortable with it, or lesbian porn or whatever.

0:35:47.680 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because your man will be aroused at watching it

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 2>and maybe that'll either make you uncomfortable or not and

0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 2>or spce versa.

0:35:54.600 --> 0:36:04.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, also choosing a friend or choosing a stranger.

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:08.920
<v Speaker 1>This is a very tricky one. I hear this a

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:13.960
<v Speaker 1>lot because is it too close to home inviting your friend?

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you are you going to feel weird after and

0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:19.760
<v Speaker 1>now you've fucked up your friendship because somebody's feeling weird?

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like now is that bitch looking at

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 1>my man because she's around and she's fucked him? Is

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 1>he looking at her? Blah blah blah? Or if you're

0:36:29.680 --> 0:36:33.400
<v Speaker 1>the friend sometimes I don't mean ergar have both experienced this.

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>You have sex with a friend couple and then they

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:38.479
<v Speaker 1>want to do it all the time and you're like, wait,

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:41.279
<v Speaker 1>that was just like fun time one time. You don't know,

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 1>this is not a regular thing. We're friends, and then

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:46.759
<v Speaker 1>it gets you know how to say? Now, I think

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you have to. If you're going to do a friend,

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>he has to be a friend, a really good close friend,

0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:53.239
<v Speaker 1>like you know which friends are like.

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:55.879
<v Speaker 2>And that you know you can talk to about it

0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:58.080
<v Speaker 2>afterwards not gonna be weird. Well, there's just no way

0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 2>to know, actually, because even though my my my first

0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:03.840
<v Speaker 2>ever recent experiences with experiences was with one of my

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:08.360
<v Speaker 2>best friends and we were young though, but still we

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 2>didn't I didn't know how to.

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:10.640
<v Speaker 3>Talk to her about it afterwards.

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:12.840
<v Speaker 2>Like it was like our friendship just kind of fizzled

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 2>out because, like you said, like she still wanted to

0:37:15.320 --> 0:37:19.239
<v Speaker 2>continue doing it, and I was like, wait, we're like

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:22.399
<v Speaker 2>friends best friends were like a long time, Like I don't,

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm good, and so instead of dealing with it, we

0:37:25.960 --> 0:37:29.399
<v Speaker 2>just kind of like stopped hanging out. It was weird. Yeah,

0:37:29.440 --> 0:37:31.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm also young, so I think I'm more mature now.

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 2>But you know, if you but you know it doesn't

0:37:35.000 --> 0:37:38.120
<v Speaker 2>take it didn't you can you can be emotionally immature

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:39.719
<v Speaker 2>at thirty one too.

0:37:39.840 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 1>So I'm so unawkward that I might. I can set

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 1>a zone where I can make you feel like did

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:49.760
<v Speaker 1>we even have sex? Like I can. I've had friends

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:52.960
<v Speaker 1>who I were like try me alone, and we were

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 1>like have sex in the next days, like them all

0:37:56.080 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>like whatever. It doesn't even like I could go either way.

0:37:58.640 --> 0:37:59.719
<v Speaker 1>We could talk about it. We don't have to talk

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 1>about it. I could pretend it didn't happen. It doesn't

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.400
<v Speaker 1>really matter. But everybody's not like that, and you have

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>to be able. That's why you have to know your

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 1>friends and know who's like you know. Don't you choose

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 1>any sneaky bitches friends you know, only friends you really trust,

0:38:12.200 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>or no friends at all. Yeah, I think.

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:22.399
<v Speaker 2>Friends can feel safe, you know they can. But I think, yeah,

0:38:22.440 --> 0:38:27.399
<v Speaker 2>you really have to think about it. I I think

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:33.600
<v Speaker 2>I prefer like more like strangers or like just acquaintances,

0:38:33.960 --> 0:38:36.879
<v Speaker 2>not friends. It's not like real friends that I hang

0:38:36.960 --> 0:38:40.520
<v Speaker 2>out with. Yeah, you know, especially like especially if you're

0:38:40.560 --> 0:38:42.799
<v Speaker 2>in a marriage or a relationship and then bringing a

0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 2>friend in it might be too close because you all are.

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:47.080
<v Speaker 3>Going to hang out all the time and it's just

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:47.960
<v Speaker 3>going to ruin it.

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Unless your friend is me.

0:38:58.120 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 3>What else.

0:39:00.680 --> 0:39:05.879
<v Speaker 1>Choosing a friend versus a stranger. I've actually I've done

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.720
<v Speaker 1>it a couple of times. I preferred to be the guest.

0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:17.200
<v Speaker 2>What about you, I've only been the guest Okay, so well,

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 2>actually that's not true because my experience.

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 3>In Spain, I wasn't the guest.

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh we'll hear about that later. But and yeah, I

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 1>felt more like empowered.

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah for sure.

0:39:36.880 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 2>I did not feel empowered with like the couple that

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:44.239
<v Speaker 2>but it's just a different sense of empowerment, which I'm

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 2>sure you know the wife probably fell to you know,

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:48.800
<v Speaker 2>and I wanted to give that to her.

0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:49.200
<v Speaker 3>As the guest.

0:39:49.320 --> 0:39:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, because that's your role as a guest.

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, have we done with that?

0:40:01.880 --> 0:40:07.439
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, this list is drinky. It looks like, oh.

0:40:07.360 --> 0:40:10.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the partner must know you're the VIP. That's a

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:12.919
<v Speaker 3>good one. Did we say that allowed yet? Yeah?

0:40:13.440 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>So you have to make your partner the VIP. Yeah,

0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:19.279
<v Speaker 1>don't make the bitch the VIP, that is, unless you

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:20.799
<v Speaker 1>guys prediscussed some shit like that.

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean I felt like a VIP with a couple.

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did. Well, because you're excited that you're there.

0:40:26.760 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you're the guest.

0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. They definitely like made me feel pleased.

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I have to do that. Yeah. Yeah, this has to

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:36.280
<v Speaker 1>be equal parts everybody.

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:38.240
<v Speaker 3>I think everybody needs their VIP moment.

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you know, and there's got to be a

0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:42.400
<v Speaker 2>lot of eye contact with you and your partner.

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is a juggle. This is not an easy thing.

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 1>There are rules, there are things you need to be

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>conscious of while interacting.

0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like if you're with your man or you're you're

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:53.040
<v Speaker 3>with your woman, you.

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:56.520
<v Speaker 2>Need to make motherfucking eye contact with her a bunch

0:40:56.560 --> 0:40:57.040
<v Speaker 2>of times.

0:40:57.120 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 1>And it has to be to.

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 2>Let her know we're in this together. Yeah, I'm here

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:02.240
<v Speaker 2>with you, baby. Yeah, she's here.

0:41:02.280 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 1>But like we're here, we're here, we're doing that.

0:41:04.160 --> 0:41:05.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're doing this for us.

0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we're ye. And it's and you've got to

0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:09.440
<v Speaker 1>just make sure everybody's vibe is right. A lot of

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:12.640
<v Speaker 1>reassurance is required, especially if this is like the first

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 1>time or the first couple of times whatever.

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Number three where is where is? Oh?

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:22.759
<v Speaker 3>There?

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 1>It is recruiting? Do we do that?

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:28.200
<v Speaker 2>What does that say? Is that say recruiting? What does

0:41:28.239 --> 0:41:29.319
<v Speaker 2>that say underneath it?

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Empowered?

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:34.440
<v Speaker 3>Empowered? I guess that we just touched on that is.

0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:38.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the empowerment part is empowering your your your.

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:39.520
<v Speaker 3>Partner and.

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:45.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, just making them feel assured and also, like

0:41:45.640 --> 0:41:48.160
<v Speaker 2>I said before, like knowing your partner well enough to

0:41:48.239 --> 0:41:51.200
<v Speaker 2>know if they're enjoying this or not and not being selfish.

0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:53.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh and also I think what we forgot to touch

0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:55.680
<v Speaker 1>on on the recruiting is what do you say to

0:41:55.800 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 1>recruit someone to come to the bedroom with you and

0:41:58.920 --> 0:41:59.600
<v Speaker 1>your partner?

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:42:01.800 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 1>And if you're a guest, we're gonna hope that they're

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:06.719
<v Speaker 1>asking you. You don't ask a couple. You can seem

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:10.439
<v Speaker 1>available and fun, but you don't. You don't ask only

0:42:10.480 --> 0:42:15.200
<v Speaker 1>couples and single people or it just happens. But yeah,

0:42:15.320 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>do you have any suggestions?

0:42:18.680 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean, for me as the guest, Like most of

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:27.840
<v Speaker 2>the time, the woman is the one that's like like

0:42:28.360 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 2>made me feel comfortable at first, touching, you know, rubbing

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 2>my leg. You know, it's it's all about its contact,

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:35.319
<v Speaker 2>you know that.

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:37.919
<v Speaker 1>Like how comfortable you're getting, how flirty.

0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 2>Like when you're talking tou touch her legs, touch her arm,

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:43.080
<v Speaker 2>get closer, like.

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:45.600
<v Speaker 1>Dance close, dance sexy music.

0:42:45.800 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then maybe like grab your man, let him

0:42:48.719 --> 0:42:51.560
<v Speaker 2>touch her, give him permission, you know, like whawt she has.

0:42:51.520 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Such nice boobs? Lookt her boobs? Damn.

0:42:55.880 --> 0:43:01.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like so I think it's just be physical.

0:43:02.080 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 2>You're beautiful, wow, you know, beautiful complimentary, or you could

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:08.200
<v Speaker 2>be like me and it's.

0:43:07.920 --> 0:43:09.880
<v Speaker 3>Like Jamila is one was getting the shower.

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh, it's like once you get them back to the house, well,

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:17.280
<v Speaker 1>this also ensures that she's clean. But it's and it's fun.

0:43:17.400 --> 0:43:19.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, let's just take a shower. I'm so

0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:23.279
<v Speaker 1>like dirty, No, don't say that, but it's like, look

0:43:23.320 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 1>at the shower. To take a shower, drunk shower. It

0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 1>just seems fun. And then you can make your moves,

0:43:28.200 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, like wash each other. You wash, you know,

0:43:32.280 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 1>so you know what's going on, she knows what's going on.

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:36.560
<v Speaker 1>And then you could just go and it flows from there.

0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:42.759
<v Speaker 1>Kissing obviously. Maybe if you are taking a girl home

0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>and your husband's driving, jump in the back seat with

0:43:46.120 --> 0:43:49.200
<v Speaker 1>the girl and then that's the nicest we did that. Yeah,

0:43:49.239 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that's done. That too. A nice place to get it started.

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:54.040
<v Speaker 1>He can look in the rear room mirror. It's kind

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:55.160
<v Speaker 1>of hot. It builds up.

0:43:56.080 --> 0:43:58.879
<v Speaker 3>You get connected to the girl first first, right, it's.

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Kind of like Avatar, you know, when you they pull

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>their ponytail behind and they stick it in that thing

0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:06.080
<v Speaker 1>that flies to connect. You get your first so you've

0:44:06.120 --> 0:44:06.800
<v Speaker 1>made the bond.

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 2>I literally just can't with this example and the mining

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:20.160
<v Speaker 2>that just happened with your braids, is that what it's like?

0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I guess.

0:44:22.080 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 1>So that's also the same thing with the woman has

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:28.920
<v Speaker 1>to recruit. It has to be someone she initiates contact with,

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:31.880
<v Speaker 1>someone she chooses, because that's the part of making that

0:44:31.960 --> 0:44:35.920
<v Speaker 1>avatar bond. Because I've set my stamp our relationship is

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:41.400
<v Speaker 1>you were like, it's just it's just protocol. Yeah, and

0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>then it makes her feel more comfortable, and essentially that's

0:44:43.840 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 1>who needs to feel more comfortable. I don't know, but

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 1>then we're not thinking, we're thinking very feminist because what

0:44:49.560 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>if there are men who don't really want to open

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:54.280
<v Speaker 1>their relationship up and maybe the woman really is craving

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:57.879
<v Speaker 1>some pussy and or some dick or some dick, which

0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>is a whole different con verstation. I've come across a very,

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 1>very very limited amount of men who would be willing

0:45:07.400 --> 0:45:11.440
<v Speaker 1>to give, first of all, to hear the fantasy that

0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:14.360
<v Speaker 1>his wife or a woman wants to be with more than

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:17.239
<v Speaker 1>one guy one at the time, because there's such it's

0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 1>such a stigma. Men can fucking crave it all day long.

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:23.120
<v Speaker 1>But if a woman crazy it, she's a whoreor it's a.

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:27.280
<v Speaker 3>Train, right, It's always a train. It's always a train. Literally.

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:28.920
<v Speaker 2>My friend was just here right now and we were

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:31.320
<v Speaker 2>talking about threesomes. And when he was talking about threesomes,

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 2>he was we were talking about girl, two girls and

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 2>a guy.

0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 3>He's like, oh, yeah, threesome.

0:45:34.640 --> 0:45:36.840
<v Speaker 2>And I've only had one, and then we did and

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:38.759
<v Speaker 2>then we were talking about well, two girls and a guy,

0:45:39.360 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean two guys and a girl.

0:45:40.760 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 3>He was like, oh, yeah, I've done that. That's a train.

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, it's literally the same thing. It's the

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 2>exact same thing.

0:45:46.560 --> 0:45:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Right, right, And even like the word it's a train,

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:51.880
<v Speaker 1>like she's a train.

0:45:52.600 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so demeaning, it's so degrading.

0:45:55.840 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 1>And oh yeah. Even I had this conversation with young Bin.

0:45:59.320 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 1>He's like, if you've ever if I've ever found out

0:46:01.520 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 1>you had sex with you guys a one time, I

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 1>would never fuck with you. I'm like, wow, despite the

0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:08.279
<v Speaker 1>fact that you know me right and I am right right.

0:46:08.440 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 1>So it's you know, as much as we'd like to

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:13.399
<v Speaker 1>say like men are open minded, they're like there's so

0:46:13.760 --> 0:46:18.879
<v Speaker 1>many there's still so much like constriction on who we're

0:46:18.880 --> 0:46:20.880
<v Speaker 1>allowed to be and who they're allowed to be because

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:22.920
<v Speaker 1>even in my mind it sounds like a train.

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:24.400
<v Speaker 3>Because that's.

0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:27.200
<v Speaker 2>You know what, I don't think that when I think

0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:29.640
<v Speaker 2>of it, I think of it as threesome. When I

0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:32.400
<v Speaker 2>think of train, I think of something different. I think

0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:33.359
<v Speaker 2>of like orgy more.

0:46:33.520 --> 0:46:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm trying to think of like a lot of

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:35.960
<v Speaker 1>guys like.

0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Org one girl and like more than one two guys.

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:41.719
<v Speaker 2>But that's but that's but that's it's not true.

0:46:42.520 --> 0:46:48.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I one guy told me that his girl had

0:46:48.360 --> 0:46:51.680
<v Speaker 1>expressed wanting to have sex with two guys, and he

0:46:51.800 --> 0:46:54.839
<v Speaker 1>was actually open to giving her what she wanted. He said,

0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Now the guy couldn't like stay, he would have to

0:46:56.960 --> 0:46:58.960
<v Speaker 1>get the fuck about there after that I can like

0:46:59.000 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>saying cuddle, he's like, whereas if it was me, Yeah,

0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:03.799
<v Speaker 1>I want like you two to just like cuddle up

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 1>under my arms and fallows, nestle under me and fall asleep.

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:10.720
<v Speaker 1>And if that would be word, I've had three times

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:14.239
<v Speaker 1>like that, but two guys, no, no oh, I was.

0:47:14.160 --> 0:47:18.240
<v Speaker 2>Thinking of two guys nestling each other, saying he would

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:20.560
<v Speaker 2>just not weird, but that would be like I think

0:47:21.600 --> 0:47:23.560
<v Speaker 2>the guy was also getting pleasure out of the guy

0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 2>as well.

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 1>Right, Well, I don't know everyone has a nestle. But

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:29.960
<v Speaker 1>have you guys seen Savages? Is that with the Blake? Like, yeah,

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I always talk about this when we talk about three

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's my favorite threesome movie. Yeah, it's so loving,

0:47:35.680 --> 0:47:38.879
<v Speaker 1>it's so friendly. It's like my ideal. Like if it's

0:47:38.880 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>just the other movie too, if I was going to

0:47:41.080 --> 0:47:42.879
<v Speaker 1>have a relationship like that, it would be like that,

0:47:43.080 --> 0:47:45.879
<v Speaker 1>like we're all best friends and I get the best

0:47:45.880 --> 0:47:46.640
<v Speaker 1>of both worlds.

0:47:46.840 --> 0:47:50.120
<v Speaker 3>Is that one with Penelope Crews and Scarlet Johansen? You

0:47:50.120 --> 0:47:53.560
<v Speaker 3>just see that one because we're both hot and Harvier Bardome?

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh he two girlfriends?

0:47:55.239 --> 0:47:56.280
<v Speaker 3>Those are his two girlfriends.

0:47:56.360 --> 0:47:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Well that's just like the Savages. They're both hot, hot,

0:47:59.040 --> 0:48:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and they both fuck her like totally different. It's so hot.

0:48:01.840 --> 0:48:03.960
<v Speaker 1>He focks are all hardcore and one fucks are all

0:48:03.960 --> 0:48:06.319
<v Speaker 1>gentle and soft, and they all love each other. They're

0:48:06.320 --> 0:48:08.360
<v Speaker 1>best friends. They love her, they shoot her like a queen.

0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:09.919
<v Speaker 1>It's great.

0:48:11.080 --> 0:48:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, what else is there?

0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:19.799
<v Speaker 3>What about the condom thing?

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:22.319
<v Speaker 2>We were talking about this too, because you know my

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:23.759
<v Speaker 2>friend is my computer about today?

0:48:23.840 --> 0:48:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god?

0:48:26.440 --> 0:48:30.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the contemp thing, like whether like how you deal

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:32.880
<v Speaker 2>with that as a couple. You know, if you're married

0:48:33.080 --> 0:48:36.560
<v Speaker 2>or you're in a relationship and you guys don't use condoms, well.

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:37.600
<v Speaker 1>You definitely slip a condom on.

0:48:37.719 --> 0:48:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Well, I know how it works with I know how

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:40.000
<v Speaker 2>it's worked in my situation.

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.680
<v Speaker 1>But wait, he just put a condom on when he yeah, yeah,

0:48:42.719 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and then when he's with her he does he takes

0:48:44.640 --> 0:48:47.120
<v Speaker 1>it off, you know, And if it's two bitches, you don't.

0:48:47.320 --> 0:48:51.120
<v Speaker 1>It's all nobody's fucking wrong. You need to switch condoms

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:55.759
<v Speaker 1>between bitches, pussies. You need to enter one, switch it

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:59.360
<v Speaker 1>out and enter the other. There shouldn't be no double

0:48:59.400 --> 0:49:10.640
<v Speaker 1>dipping of the condoms because that's pretty strange. Oh uh,

0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:12.759
<v Speaker 1>what else did we forget? That's a big one. The

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:14.719
<v Speaker 1>condom one you cannot fuck up with that. Do not

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:18.759
<v Speaker 1>fuck up and have a threesome row because that. I've

0:49:18.800 --> 0:49:22.160
<v Speaker 1>heard a bad story about that too. A couple was

0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:26.960
<v Speaker 1>having sex with her friend multiple times. The guy pulled

0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:34.920
<v Speaker 1>the condom off, like the friend wrong and basically pulled

0:49:34.920 --> 0:49:38.919
<v Speaker 1>out kind of late. Bitch ended up getting pregnant the friend.

0:49:39.880 --> 0:49:43.480
<v Speaker 1>The friend she was saying it wasn't his. The baby

0:49:43.560 --> 0:49:47.360
<v Speaker 1>came looking just like this guy and it was just

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:51.680
<v Speaker 1>very sketchy. Was that intentional on her part? I don't know.

0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:55.120
<v Speaker 2>But just to avoid all of that, just don't have

0:49:55.200 --> 0:50:03.960
<v Speaker 2>sex with unprotected with some situation. Yeah, no, I measure

0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:04.840
<v Speaker 2>if you got pregnant.

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:09.680
<v Speaker 3>But like with your husband during is that weird?

0:50:10.000 --> 0:50:17.040
<v Speaker 1>No? Okay, your husband always have this little funny secret

0:50:17.440 --> 0:50:18.440
<v Speaker 1>secret about your kid.

0:50:18.520 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh god that no kid ever wants to know. I'm

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:28.600
<v Speaker 3>a mom, do not? What does that say?

0:50:29.160 --> 0:50:29.239
<v Speaker 2>Do you?

0:50:29.360 --> 0:50:32.800
<v Speaker 1>Not? Planning a threesome? Must be organized organic?

0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:33.320
<v Speaker 3>Organic?

0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:34.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:50:34.320 --> 0:50:36.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that's we talked about that already, right, yeah,

0:50:36.920 --> 0:50:41.320
<v Speaker 1>because that was like the number one rule. Yeah, open

0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:48.680
<v Speaker 1>relationship versus occasional threesome, there's a difference, totally different things.

0:50:49.400 --> 0:50:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Just because you're is mean you have an open relationship?

0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:53.120
<v Speaker 3>Men, well, open relate.

0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:56.279
<v Speaker 2>The definition of open relationship is means your relationship is open.

0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:59.280
<v Speaker 2>You by yourself can go sleep with somebody else.

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Because some people have open relagions, but don't ever partakee

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:04.120
<v Speaker 1>in threesomes right.

0:51:04.080 --> 0:51:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Right, No, they do it separate. They do it separately, period, but.

0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:11.360
<v Speaker 1>They don't want to see it. Right and overall, to

0:51:11.440 --> 0:51:19.200
<v Speaker 1>top off this list, the aftermath? What now after the threesome?

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:21.080
<v Speaker 1>Has gone down. Oh, we forgot to talk about like

0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:25.440
<v Speaker 1>specific threesome moves A three like what oh like actual

0:51:25.520 --> 0:51:30.239
<v Speaker 1>like sex positions. Yeah, oh yeah, okay, okay, Like we said,

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:32.359
<v Speaker 1>if we want to start it off, I suggest maybe

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:36.400
<v Speaker 1>a shower, group shower, maybe, like you said, a leg rub,

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a little massage. Oh, you have nice boobs, let me touch.

0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:43.760
<v Speaker 1>But once it gets really started and we've initiated, it's threesome,

0:51:43.800 --> 0:51:46.600
<v Speaker 1>it's happening, we're in motion. What do we do now?

0:51:49.200 --> 0:51:53.240
<v Speaker 1>You can do like a two people giving one person

0:51:53.280 --> 0:51:57.120
<v Speaker 1>head at the same time, you can give one person

0:51:57.160 --> 0:51:59.839
<v Speaker 1>giving a head, another person giving someone else.

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:02.560
<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's like proper Do you think it's

0:52:02.560 --> 0:52:05.279
<v Speaker 2>like threesome etiquette to let the couple, if you're if

0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:08.400
<v Speaker 2>you're a guest, have sex first, like let them start

0:52:08.480 --> 0:52:11.680
<v Speaker 2>fucking first before you are in that space.

0:52:12.239 --> 0:52:16.520
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I never even thought about that.

0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 3>These are questions that I'm sure like people I have.

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:26.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that if the couple, I think, if you're

0:52:26.160 --> 0:52:28.160
<v Speaker 1>the guest, I kind of let the couple initiate.

0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:29.880
<v Speaker 3>What's what's going on?

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:34.239
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Because clearly you guys know what you like.

0:52:34.360 --> 0:52:36.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you guys have done this before, right.

0:52:36.920 --> 0:52:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Or so you assume. Yeah.

0:52:42.719 --> 0:52:45.440
<v Speaker 2>But as far as moves, yeah, I would say, you know,

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:48.000
<v Speaker 2>there's there's so many and I.

0:52:48.000 --> 0:52:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Could just kind of let it happen naturally.

0:52:50.000 --> 0:52:52.719
<v Speaker 2>But basically one person should always be received. Everyone should

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:54.560
<v Speaker 2>be receiving pleasure simultaneously.

0:52:54.680 --> 0:52:56.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and sometimes you sometimes you want to just sit back,

0:52:56.800 --> 0:52:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I can watch, yeah, and just kind of play a

0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:01.120
<v Speaker 1>little here, play a little there. You know, doesn't have

0:53:01.200 --> 0:53:03.800
<v Speaker 1>to always be hardcore three way involvement.

0:53:03.960 --> 0:53:04.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:53:04.160 --> 0:53:06.000
<v Speaker 2>And also I mean I like, I like, I told

0:53:06.000 --> 0:53:07.960
<v Speaker 2>my friend I sent her a porn because she told me,

0:53:08.000 --> 0:53:09.720
<v Speaker 2>like what's the playbook, what's the rules?

0:53:09.760 --> 0:53:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Like who does what?

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:11.000
<v Speaker 3>Do that?

0:53:11.080 --> 0:53:14.840
<v Speaker 2>And like, yes, there you should watch maybe porn. But

0:53:14.840 --> 0:53:16.799
<v Speaker 2>also porn can be really unrealistic when it comes to

0:53:16.800 --> 0:53:20.120
<v Speaker 2>a threesome two like don't don't get carried away on

0:53:20.200 --> 0:53:22.920
<v Speaker 2>like whatever your favorite threesome porn was, and think that

0:53:22.960 --> 0:53:23.840
<v Speaker 2>you have to reenact in.

0:53:24.239 --> 0:53:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's in any sexual experience, I think.

0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:28.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.960
<v Speaker 1>A more advanced move was like maybe if the guy

0:53:31.000 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 1>eats one pussy and pumps the other girl at the

0:53:34.080 --> 0:53:38.120
<v Speaker 1>same time, couch and a couch, that's a little advanced.

0:53:39.080 --> 0:53:44.360
<v Speaker 1>But if you know one person can ride with the

0:53:44.360 --> 0:53:45.879
<v Speaker 1>other person rides a face.

0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:48.680
<v Speaker 3>Right, right, right.

0:53:49.280 --> 0:53:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's actual terms for this anyway, just okay,

0:53:54.000 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to touch on a couple.

0:53:55.160 --> 0:54:01.799
<v Speaker 2>Of those, like reverse cowgirl, she's on the couch, cow

0:54:01.840 --> 0:54:03.880
<v Speaker 2>girls eating pussy on.

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, calgars. We could be facing either way, getting Yeah,

0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:09.239
<v Speaker 1>but that would be nice. You could face each other

0:54:09.800 --> 0:54:12.919
<v Speaker 1>and she's right, he's just there, Yeah, he's just there. Yeah,

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:17.240
<v Speaker 1>underneath you both like a log. We'll call it.

0:54:18.840 --> 0:54:19.640
<v Speaker 3>Reverse log.

0:54:21.160 --> 0:54:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Two logs on a train. What's that salary snack with

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:34.359
<v Speaker 1>the raisins? No, my god, okay, whatever, anyway, I'm sure

0:54:37.520 --> 0:54:38.439
<v Speaker 1>it's late, it's fun.

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:42.640
<v Speaker 2>We'll provide some diagrams on our on our the story

0:54:43.560 --> 0:54:45.759
<v Speaker 2>and you'll you can see maybe even upload them to

0:54:45.840 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 2>our website.

0:54:46.840 --> 0:54:49.320
<v Speaker 3>Good idea, bamu.

0:54:51.760 --> 0:54:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the aftermath, I've touched on every step before,

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:59.120
<v Speaker 1>the before, the recruiting, the after. Now we're here, we've

0:54:59.160 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>done it.

0:55:00.360 --> 0:55:00.880
<v Speaker 3>You're done.

0:55:02.920 --> 0:55:04.000
<v Speaker 1>You're feeling good.

0:55:04.239 --> 0:55:06.600
<v Speaker 3>I keep thinking of her, are waking up.

0:55:07.400 --> 0:55:11.560
<v Speaker 1>You need to chill with your faces. Everything's like, but no,

0:55:11.880 --> 0:55:19.759
<v Speaker 1>you're scared. Okay, what now ending sex relationships after threesome experience.

0:55:20.160 --> 0:55:22.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like do you want to just have one off

0:55:22.440 --> 0:55:25.160
<v Speaker 2>experiences or are you down Like if you find that

0:55:25.280 --> 0:55:28.680
<v Speaker 2>right guest, is that someone you want to CONSI reoccurring

0:55:28.960 --> 0:55:29.759
<v Speaker 2>a reoccurring guest?

0:55:29.880 --> 0:55:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Or do you have a few reoccurring guests.

0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:33.320
<v Speaker 1>Or is the rule that they get cut off immediately

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:35.600
<v Speaker 1>after right, because sometimes that's a rule with no contact

0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:39.160
<v Speaker 1>with her after bybe maybe it's just a vacation, you know,

0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:41.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe that's the whole point, or maybe you maintain it.

0:55:41.719 --> 0:55:44.320
<v Speaker 1>But those things also need to discuss. Also as the guests,

0:55:44.320 --> 0:55:46.360
<v Speaker 1>do you sleep, do you spend the night, do you stay?

0:55:46.480 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you cuddle? Right, don't say too long?

0:55:49.840 --> 0:55:51.160
<v Speaker 3>I think the guests you really like.

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:53.920
<v Speaker 2>I hate people that don't get the fucking clue, like go,

0:55:54.320 --> 0:55:57.840
<v Speaker 2>like leave, like we're tired, we don't want to talk anymore,

0:55:58.080 --> 0:55:59.480
<v Speaker 2>or like you know.

0:55:59.520 --> 0:56:03.239
<v Speaker 1>It's just get in the room. Read energies.

0:56:03.400 --> 0:56:04.520
<v Speaker 3>This is don't be selfish.

0:56:04.760 --> 0:56:10.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, yeah, yeah, I've said I spend the

0:56:10.400 --> 0:56:12.160
<v Speaker 1>night the next day and then just dip out in

0:56:12.200 --> 0:56:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the morning. I've had threesoms where we cuddle, but usually

0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:18.800
<v Speaker 1>it's time to go. I thought through some of his

0:56:18.920 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 1>friends and it's like not a big deal at all.

0:56:21.280 --> 0:56:22.359
<v Speaker 1>The next day, you know, I.

0:56:22.280 --> 0:56:25.680
<v Speaker 2>Mean unless they unless the couple is like really and

0:56:25.719 --> 0:56:27.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, making you feel like they want you to stay,

0:56:27.640 --> 0:56:30.560
<v Speaker 2>they want you to join them with to breakfast, you know,

0:56:31.520 --> 0:56:34.839
<v Speaker 2>and you feel comfortable with that, then fine. But if

0:56:34.840 --> 0:56:38.719
<v Speaker 2>they're not really like giving you any more guidance as

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:40.239
<v Speaker 2>to where to go from here, it means it's.

0:56:40.160 --> 0:56:40.560
<v Speaker 3>Time to go.

0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:44.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and uh yeah, I think as a couple, like

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:46.839
<v Speaker 2>you have to kind of have that conversation like what

0:56:46.840 --> 0:56:49.560
<v Speaker 2>what is that? What is what is? What is the

0:56:49.680 --> 0:56:51.719
<v Speaker 2>end game? You have to think about the end game

0:56:51.960 --> 0:56:53.600
<v Speaker 2>a little bit, you know, and.

0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Don't wake up the next day. Don't get so drunk

0:56:55.200 --> 0:56:56.399
<v Speaker 1>so that the next day like what have I done?

0:56:57.440 --> 0:57:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Don't overthink ship. Sometimes a good fucking is a good

0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:03.719
<v Speaker 1>fun just laugh, it's just fun. You have to remember

0:57:03.840 --> 0:57:07.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just your secret. Yeah, it's your little secret. Don't

0:57:07.000 --> 0:57:10.399
<v Speaker 1>overthink it. I always give a girl that I think

0:57:10.520 --> 0:57:14.239
<v Speaker 1>is a little less cute than you, I'm gonna be good.

0:57:16.160 --> 0:57:16.800
<v Speaker 3>Is that a rule?

0:57:18.680 --> 0:57:20.720
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get the finest bitch? I mean kind of

0:57:20.840 --> 0:57:23.000
<v Speaker 1>sometimes Yeah, it depends.

0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:28.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean for me, I mean, I guess in my

0:57:28.400 --> 0:57:30.480
<v Speaker 2>one experience not being the guest like I knew I

0:57:30.520 --> 0:57:33.960
<v Speaker 2>was definitely I felt like I was more attracted attractive

0:57:35.280 --> 0:57:38.440
<v Speaker 2>to him than she was to him.

0:57:38.880 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know it's not even I mean, but that's.

0:57:41.800 --> 0:57:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Just that's so lame. It's kind of whack. It's kind

0:57:44.920 --> 0:57:46.760
<v Speaker 2>of insecure. We gotta work on that. That's not a

0:57:46.760 --> 0:57:51.720
<v Speaker 2>good that's not a good sound advice. You know, you

0:57:51.760 --> 0:57:55.160
<v Speaker 2>don't agree. She's like, no, actually, I stand by what

0:57:55.200 --> 0:57:55.560
<v Speaker 2>I said.

0:57:55.800 --> 0:57:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I said what I said. What I said,

0:57:58.200 --> 0:58:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I said, it said my statement. I said my statement,

0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:05.320
<v Speaker 1>and that's what I said, and I stand I want

0:58:05.320 --> 0:58:10.760
<v Speaker 1>to say it's my statement. No, it is insecure, and

0:58:10.800 --> 0:58:12.439
<v Speaker 1>that's not true because if it's a bitch on my fuck,

0:58:12.440 --> 0:58:15.880
<v Speaker 1>it's a bitch fat right, But am I gonna fucking

0:58:16.040 --> 0:58:19.280
<v Speaker 1>fuck the finest is big booty is bitch? Pick her

0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:21.320
<v Speaker 1>for me and my man? Yeah? No, probably not.

0:58:22.200 --> 0:58:24.080
<v Speaker 2>Well you I mean, do you want to sleep with her?

0:58:24.640 --> 0:58:25.919
<v Speaker 2>Would you sleep with her on your own?

0:58:26.160 --> 0:58:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Maybe? Yeah? I mean, I guess it depends how bad

0:58:28.640 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to sleep with her. I said my statement.

0:58:40.680 --> 0:58:45.960
<v Speaker 3>She said what she said, y'all. I can see that.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's like your homegirl, unless it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>I can see how that would. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's insecure, but it's just how I feel. Sometimes that's

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<v Speaker 1>real and it's real. And it also depends how your

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<v Speaker 1>man makes you feel, because if you're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and as a man, if you are praising this

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<v Speaker 2>new person way more because it's new pussy and it's

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<v Speaker 2>more and your wife has not seen you this excited

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<v Speaker 2>in a long time. To bring it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Bringing down, pretend you're gonna lose your chances quick, chilled

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck out. Don't even be smirking too hard, naggad,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, some specialists I don't know. Okay, I'm lying.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had I've had three. Oh I was the guest. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>never mind, whatever, you know, you know what you like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what he likes to, So get a little

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<v Speaker 1>different kid. So I think that concludes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think those I think you know those are

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<v Speaker 2>you want to tell your whole stories? Yeah, So basically

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<v Speaker 2>my horror story happened in Spain. I was out there

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<v Speaker 2>with Trembling Lippe and we were in a bisa with

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<v Speaker 2>a group of friends and we were out dancing, having

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<v Speaker 2>a really great time, drinking a lot of tequila end stincts,

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<v Speaker 2>and we were dancing and this girl came up to

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<v Speaker 2>me and I just I don't know, I was just

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<v Speaker 2>in the mood. It was yeah, I was spontaneous. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, I want to share this with.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in Spain. I want to share this with this person.

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<v Speaker 2>Met the girl I guess she was. She was not

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<v Speaker 2>as cute as me for sure, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, let's do this. Sure she'll do.

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<v Speaker 2>She was English, and we went back to the conto

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<v Speaker 2>and she ended up getting fucked up, really really fucked up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like she drank too much, did a bunch of too much.

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<v Speaker 1>And drugs. Uh yeah, drugs. Also, we don't condone this.

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<v Speaker 1>Some drugs help threesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Some drugs that may some drugs may not help for

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<v Speaker 3>the man.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, for the man that's happened. They can enhance

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<v Speaker 1>the threesome or they could not.

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<v Speaker 3>Not you need to not be excitable.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so then we, uh you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, we started having sex and.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really connecting with him, like that's what it

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<v Speaker 2>was really cool because that was like, that was my

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<v Speaker 2>first time not being a guest. And I understood the

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<v Speaker 2>like why you feel empowered because I know him? He

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't she doesn't know him. You know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>this is our thing. We've talked about it. We're making

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<v Speaker 2>eye contact. It's sexy, like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Could take your sex life to a whole different level. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times if once the persons the guest leaves,

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<v Speaker 1>the sex with the couple can heighten.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So, then at some point in the during the sex,

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<v Speaker 2>she kept trying to like, She's like, I'm a dominate tricks.

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<v Speaker 2>And she kept trying to coach me, coach us, what

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<v Speaker 2>coach me? No, coach him and me? And then at

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<v Speaker 2>some point I got fucking annoyed dominate tricks.

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<v Speaker 1>She said what else?

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<v Speaker 3>She said, I'm a dominate tricks.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I like, put your leg up. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm gonna tell me that to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, really, in my I was feeling

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<v Speaker 2>super empowered, like, shut the fuck up, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're not a dominate trick.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm the dom I make the rules, bitch, love key.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I felt, and that's how I acted. I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of a bitch. I'm not gonna lie. Uh So,

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<v Speaker 2>I you know, I was like, I think you should leave.

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<v Speaker 2>And so, you know, thank god the guy that I

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<v Speaker 2>was sharing this experience with you know, could read me

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<v Speaker 2>and was on the same page and was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you should, and I was like, yes, that's how you

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Teamwork.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because sometimes it's too much. It's too much, too

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<v Speaker 1>much energy, and you're gonna be able to like we're good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>She shared a few things that made me uncomfortable, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, bit, she got to go.

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<v Speaker 3>So anyway, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Leaves and you know, we calm back down to the room. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is all happened on the balcony overlooking the ocean.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys three someommed on the balcony. Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we went back into the room and then

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<v Speaker 2>me and him continued to finish and then we ended

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<v Speaker 2>up passing out for like maybe ten minutes, and his

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<v Speaker 2>phone kept ringing and I was like, what the fuck

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<v Speaker 2>was calling?

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<v Speaker 3>And I see that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's her and I ignore it. I'm like, no, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>like buy calls again. And I was like, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to borrow.

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<v Speaker 1>And then what happened? And he's like.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to answer and I'm like fine, so answer

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like hello.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like guess She's like, oh please I've I've fallen

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<v Speaker 3>and I can't get up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm falling.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't get up, literally that's what she said. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not fucking exaggerating. I was like like humpty dumpy,

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<v Speaker 2>like what the fuck with the accent, with the accent

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<v Speaker 2>crying please come help me, please please, And I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I'm such a bitch. I was like, let's leave her.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to figure this shit out, like like I'm done.

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<v Speaker 2>It's five am. I'm fucking tired, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>can't get up. So then so, uh, his nice ass

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<v Speaker 2>makes us go out there and taking mind we're staying

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<v Speaker 2>in like a fortress city, like we're saying in old

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<v Speaker 2>town Abisa. So it's like it's like built in to rock.

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<v Speaker 2>So the stairs are like massive. You have to crawl

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<v Speaker 2>up these massive stairs to get to the road.

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<v Speaker 3>And we get to the top.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the stairs and the bitch is laid out in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of the street with her dress up. She

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<v Speaker 2>looked like she had been seizureing, like she had like

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of foam coming out of her cot bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even kidding. Her eyes were like rolling in

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<v Speaker 2>the back of her head, and she was just crying,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh my god, so we had

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<v Speaker 2>to get her up, sit her down.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, you gotta go get her water. So

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<v Speaker 1>then I had to fuck it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so annoyed at that point because I had

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<v Speaker 2>to crawl down those big ass stairs again, go get

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<v Speaker 2>the bitch some water, come back, crawl up the fucking

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<v Speaker 2>fortress stairs. And at this point, we're calling her a

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<v Speaker 2>cab and she finally, finally the cab comes. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to take her because clearly she's fucked up.

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<v Speaker 3>She's staying like.

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<v Speaker 2>On the the other side of the island, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was like seven to sixty pounds to get her there.

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<v Speaker 2>So we basically paid for the pussy because okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>put this bitch in a cab for sixty pounds, and then.

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<v Speaker 3>The next day she what's that? I still have it?

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<v Speaker 3>My god, I should play the what's that message?

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<v Speaker 1>Where is my phone? Have you never played this?

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<v Speaker 2>Fo?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god, this is great, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it's so oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Where is she? Oh man? Do I still have it?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she better have it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Where is she? When did this happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it happened July? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Here it is here?

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<v Speaker 1>It is hi, had I.

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<v Speaker 5>Was calling you, I couldn't get through. I just wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to know that I'm home safe.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you very very much.

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<v Speaker 5>You doesn't understand how much you've made my trip, and

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<v Speaker 5>it really means not to me. I don't think i'll

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<v Speaker 5>get to see you guys before you leave. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm coming to lap you guys. Whenever you come to London,

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<v Speaker 5>come to Playboy.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's the Playboy London.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you're not in the casino because obviously I'm got

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<v Speaker 5>that kind of count.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well be face.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm so good to meet you guys. Wait, so I

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<v Speaker 5>forgot to say I'm so sorry about that little like

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<v Speaker 5>thing when I was throwing up outside did and sit

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<v Speaker 5>it on the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>That probably makes you even you probably saw that. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, to know this fucking girl. Yeah, but actually,

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<v Speaker 1>don't judge me for that. Don't judge, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>And on that note, we would never played that. You

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<v Speaker 1>never played that for me? All right? Oh about that

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<v Speaker 1>me just throwing up on the floor, Well I'm all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I've made it. Don't judge me off.

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<v Speaker 3>That choose your threesome partner's wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want the tequila interfere as much as it interfere

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<v Speaker 1>with the air coage judgment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's my horror story because that was a

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<v Speaker 2>hot ass fucking man.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, that wraps up tonight's episode of Top five

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<v Speaker 1>Ways that have a positive threesome experience. Hopefully find up

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<v Speaker 1>the go.

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<v Speaker 2>She comes to you bitches, and she's really bombed at

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<v Speaker 2>everything she does.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh yeah, alright, good night.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, yeah, it is am yep, good.

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<v Speaker 1>Night, this is fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Good night? Can I Good Moms after dark?

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<v Speaker 1>You know you don't gotta do est you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really do extra I even go away. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>well you don't need daddy, now you get away.

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<v Speaker 5>It's that word you need to gotta do estrats this moment.

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<v Speaker 2>And I already know what to think.

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<v Speaker 1>How you talking to me? Now? Have we rolling in