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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Meila. And it's fucking late.

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Speaker 1: That's really late. Yeah times.

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Speaker 2: Uh it is twelve fifteen, am kyl. What a great

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Speaker 2: time to talk about threesomes, the perfect time. This is

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Speaker 2: Good Mom's after hours.

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Speaker 1: Welcome. We even have rope after.

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Speaker 3: Dark, Good Mom's after John.

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Speaker 1: I how that sounds right, that's.

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Speaker 3: A little it has a ring to it. Where are

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Speaker 3: you going? Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: We.

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Speaker 2: Have Well I've had a long day and I'm tired

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Speaker 1: I know, but we have a very interesting topic tonight.

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Speaker 2: Well, first you want to talk about actually, well, Jamila

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Speaker 2: came over and our homeboy Carlton was here, and for

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Speaker 2: some reason, Lifetime happened to be on.

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Speaker 3: Or do you guys turn on the time?

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Speaker 1: He reminded me it was on, And then I had

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Speaker 1: seen hi meme, and we had to of course tune

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Speaker 2: I think he'll still get the past.

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Speaker 1: He in some people's minds, gets the pass. Yeah, but Erica,

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Speaker 2: I just mean like for some reason in society we

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Speaker 2: Was like not recently, more like five years ago. He

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Speaker 2: And but I was at a music festival. I was

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Speaker 4: Four years ago from this is all Wait a minute,

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Speaker 2: No, he's singing so r kelly at his shows he

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Speaker 1: R Kelly, oh R Kelly. He was like trolling the

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Speaker 1: What kind of digmatizing.

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Speaker 1: Is this sorcery? Sorcery? What is it.

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Speaker 1: It was because you thought it meant it was cool.

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Speaker 3: It's kinky.

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Speaker 1: So tonight's episode is about, oh already told you guys

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Speaker 1: Self proclaimed experts. You have questions, we have answers.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So Number one communication slash rules major key, major key

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Speaker 1: for this whole.

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Speaker 3: Experience to go down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, so just a little backstory on why this If

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Speaker 3: We had a listener call in not callin on our hot.

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Speaker 2: Line right and ask us like some advice because she's

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Speaker 2: been with her husband for nine years, they have two kids,

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Speaker 2: and they've only ever been with each other.

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Speaker 3: I think her husband had slept with one other person.

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Speaker 2: And they're about to get married, or they're about to

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Speaker 2: they think that they're in a really great place in

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Speaker 2: sex with other people.

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Speaker 1: Because I've never he's had sex as one other person.

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Speaker 1: She's never had sex with anyone but.

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Speaker 2: Him, like maybe a threesome or maybe just sex on

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Speaker 3: But she didn't know, like just.

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Speaker 1: To open up their marriage or relationship.

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Speaker 3: She didn't know how to go about it.

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Speaker 2: She didn't know what the rules were, she didn't know

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Speaker 2: if she should wait till.

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Speaker 3: She's married or not married.

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Speaker 2: And also a friend of ours, uh, she also has

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Speaker 2: been inquiring about or like just interested in having a

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Speaker 2: threesome with her husband, and she's never hooked up with

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Speaker 2: long time. And she was asking me, like, there's a

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Speaker 2: like a blueprint to the ship, like who's supposed to

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Speaker 2: doing what?

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Speaker 1: What are the wrong questions? Like how do you how

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Speaker 1: do you get a girl to do it? Like what

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Speaker 1: do you say? How do you know if they're down?

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Speaker 2: And I think we're just in a much more I

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Speaker 2: think I hear that, I hear this come up more

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Speaker 2: and more for people because I think we're in a

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Speaker 2: much more liberal, sexually liberated time than ever where like

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Speaker 2: couples are more like open relationships are very normal now, right.

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Speaker 1: It's almost the normal.

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Speaker 2: It is the norm, and it's not the It's not normal,

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Speaker 2: I don't think for everyone in their head. But it's

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Speaker 2: becoming a popular or more popular idea. I think people

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Speaker 2: have the idea, only a few act on it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think it's been happening for a

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Speaker 3: It is, but I mean but I mean, like but

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Speaker 3: openly talking about it.

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Speaker 1: Right, No, not so much. You know this is our personals,

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Speaker 1: quiet understanding.

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Speaker 2: Right and so yeah, so that's where this this, you know,

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Speaker 2: having two people reach out to us in one week

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Speaker 2: about how to have a.

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Speaker 1: Threesome because clearly everybody thinks we know the answers because

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Speaker 1: we've had multiple.

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Speaker 2: I mean my threesome experience I've I've had, I've had some,

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Speaker 2: but not You're way more experience than I am.

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Speaker 1: I think that you have a very interesting perspective, which

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Speaker 1: I really like your perspective. I'm kind of jealous of

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Speaker 1: which I found a cool couple like that when you like,

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Speaker 1: like a platonic relationship with a married couple. I think

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Speaker 1: I thought that was a cool marriage to be a

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Speaker 1: part of for part of time, like a temporary point

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Speaker 1: of time, and they're both hot hot.

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Speaker 2: I was like, wow, really, I know, I got really lucky.

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Speaker 1: I don't, yeh, super lucky, luckiest tender like the luckiest

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Speaker 1: tendering bitch I've ever so a lot of my experiences.

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Speaker 1: We're all random, i'd say, and drunken fun but uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: not as thought I guess thought how But anyway, we're

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Speaker 1: here to tell you all that we know.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, number one communication slash rules.

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Speaker 1: Also, Okay, we're gonna go down this list and we're

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Speaker 1: going to do it from a couple perspective, and also

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Speaker 1: the guest perspective, because sometimes you'll be the guest star

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Speaker 1: and sometimes you may be listening to know how to recruit,

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I think the first question, which.

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Speaker 2: Is really important question, and actually I called our girl

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Speaker 2: Weezy to ask her about her threecome experience before this episode,

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Speaker 2: and she actually gave me some really good good things

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Speaker 2: to think about, which one of them was why are

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Speaker 2: you having the threesome? And it's like, are you having

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Speaker 2: this to revive your relationship? Are you having this because

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Speaker 2: always been interested in women and you you know, you

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Speaker 2: having it? And like if your answer is not out

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Speaker 2: of I think derived out of like an insecurity.

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Speaker 1: Or or also like from a man's perspective, like if

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Speaker 1: you're if you're okay, well, I mean I don't know

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Speaker 3: I think it's tricky.

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Speaker 1: I think it's tricky. It could work and it could.

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Speaker 3: Not or could have a backfire on you.

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Speaker 1: So you need to be honest if this is someone

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's healthy if you're doing it to

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Speaker 2: If you're doing it because your man isn't giving you

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Speaker 2: attention and you think maybe like you need to bring

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Speaker 3: Don't do that either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys have some shit to work on. If

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Speaker 1: you have any like major doubts. If you don't like pussy,

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Speaker 1: don't do it. You know, don't just try pussy because

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Speaker 1: you think your man like it, because once your face

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Speaker 1: gets close to that pussy, it's things you're gonna get strange.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna be like, damn, I'm here, I'm here now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If you're curious about it, then definitely I think act

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Speaker 2: Just communicating with your partner, having open conversations about you know,

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Speaker 1: A common thorough understand, thorough.

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Speaker 2: Understand, common trust. And I think what leads the us

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Speaker 2: too is rules. So communicating the rules of what this

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Speaker 2: if you're for example, like we're for going down like

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Speaker 3: Okay, So if you're a.

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Speaker 2: Couple, like like I would say, you know, you guys

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Speaker 1: You don't communicate outside of the text.

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Speaker 2: And you need to really have a make your man

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Speaker 2: really understand this because men are weak.

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Speaker 1: And a lot of times you give these motherfuckers an

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Speaker 1: ech and they will take a mile. And this is

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Speaker 1: for the men out there. Don't do that. If your

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Speaker 1: all women are down to do, or we know, just

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Speaker 1: explore things sexually, definitely don't take advantage of that, be honest,

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Speaker 1: even if it's uncomfortable, and definitely like respect the fucking rule.

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Speaker 3: Don't damage that trust to do because that's almost worse

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Speaker 1: It is because I've given, I've given you, and now

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Speaker 1: you're taking advantage and now I'm gonna slap the shit

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Speaker 1: out of you. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 3: No, you're not.

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Speaker 1: I don't contain. I don't condone domestic violence.

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Speaker 3: Only in times of threesome.

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Speaker 1: Cheating the worst type of cheating. It's it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: pretty bad. Rules. Oh, a lot of people have rules

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Speaker 1: about Okay, I don't really believe in this, but I've

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Speaker 1: heard a lot of people have rules about, like kissing,

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Speaker 1: you don't want your man eat another bitches pussy. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it depends where you get this bitch. Where I can

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Speaker 1: understand that rule. But where'd you get the bitch depends

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Speaker 2: You know, she's.

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Speaker 1: Quality, she top notch. You know, if she's in you

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, do you not want the kiss? I

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Speaker 1: think stuff like that is silly because to me, if

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Speaker 2: Already putting limitations on, like if you' putting supposed to

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Speaker 1: Which is right titty. You know, like if you if

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Speaker 1: you want, if you have ridiculous expectations, especially physically, it's

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Speaker 1: it kind of you can't. You can only contain sex

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Speaker 2: You know. That's another thing. It's like, you know, once

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Speaker 2: you open that box, it's open. It's it's like the

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Speaker 2: opening Pandora's box. That shit don't close back up the time.

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Speaker 1: Ever comes out of Pandora's box, the good and the bad.

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Speaker 1: You have to deal with it because you've given permission

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Speaker 2: And also, I think as a partner you have to

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Speaker 2: as it's opening Pandora's box, like you also have to

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Speaker 2: and can you handle that?

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Speaker 1: Can you handle like tasting it them and not being

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Speaker 1: and start acting crazy that's not okay. If you're coming

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Speaker 1: in as a guest, be a motherfucking guest like you

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Speaker 1: would be in somebody's house. Be respectful, Be respectful, you know, like.

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Speaker 2: Ask them questions, get to know them both. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's important that they feel equal, and.

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Speaker 1: I think it's important that you respect the relationship just

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Speaker 1: because it just makes everything better. And I'm not into

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Speaker 1: that sneaky shit.

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Speaker 3: To tell them.

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Speaker 2: Also, I think the couple too, like they have a

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Speaker 2: And you know, like kind of I feel like whine

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Speaker 2: and dining that person dating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, dependence on the scenario, but yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: In a way not wine and dine them, but you

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Speaker 1: Like also for me when I've been a guest, buy

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Speaker 1: me a drinker too, Yeah, for sure, or also okay,

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Speaker 1: that's a difficult, we'll get downe there. You should usually

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Speaker 1: include liquor just step one. Usually alcohol is highly recommended.

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Speaker 2: Not always, not always, but if you're trying to loosen

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Speaker 1: Nervous, maybe if you're not a good drinker, don't oh oh.

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Speaker 1: The rules for the couple to the guest. I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: any remote jealousy or weirdness or awkwardness, I'm out. I

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00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: don't want anything to do with this because you guys

445
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: think you want this, but I can tell that this

446
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: bitch doesn't. I don't like that.

447
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 3: So what happened to you?

448
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: I've been different situations where I could tell, like the guy,

449
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 1: I was wanting to do it, and she was maybe

450
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 1: feeling threatened, and I was trying to like warm her up.

451
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: And this makes me sounds terrible, I mean, but just

452
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: like being a but and even not even saying like

453
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: I was going into it knowing that this was the exectation,

454
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: but just getting the feel. That's just if you go

455
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: out to dinner with people, when you run into a couple,

456
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,719
Speaker 1: it's just courtesy. Don't overflirt with a bitches guy and

457
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: he's acting overly anxious to have more conversation with her.

458
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: You know, No, you're know your spot, bitch.

459
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, So then what else is okay?

460
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 3: So think another rule? I don't know.

461
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I think your partner, I think I think sexually,

462
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 2: like it's important for everyone to be equal to you know,

463
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: or I.

464
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 3: Mean, it depends what kind of setup you're trying to.

465
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: Have, right, dedicating it all. If it's someone's birthday, you know,

466
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: is it your man's birthday, so everybody's attentions on him,

467
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:59,199
Speaker 1: is it your birthday? All the attentions on you, you know,

468
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: is it her birthday? Maybe this is about you guys

469
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: pleasing her. I mean, it's all I think.

470
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 3: Also, I think men, you guys need to let the

471
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 3: woman choose.

472
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: No, it's not you think it's an absolutely mandatory thing.

473
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 2: The woman that had I think that's the that's the

474
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 2: number one rule and the rules, and the woman has to.

475
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 1: Unless she has. If you have the best bitch on earth,

476
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: then she said you choose, then congratulations. No, she's not

477
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: so smart, honestly, Like, no, don't even don't even suggest,

478
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: don't even try to recommend. You could say something like, oh,

479
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: what do you think about her? She's kind of cute,

480
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 1: maybe a little, but don't make any requests. And don't

481
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: suggest someone you fucked before. Yeah, don't lie and say

482
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: you don't have fuck that person before and then introduce them.

483
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: Those are all absolute fuck nos. Yeah, I just think

484
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: you absolutely have to put that in the woman's the

485
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: woman's court. Oh also, oh wait, are there yet?

486
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: No, Okay, I think also like it makes the woman

487
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: feel like she's more in control of the situation. And

488
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: you know, unfortunately and niggas have a real bad track record,

489
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 2: so like we need to we need that and we

490
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: need that that. I guess that validation I think, you know,

491
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 2: for me, like I'm kind of I know, I'm I've

492
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 2: been aggressive lately, but I'm like kind of shy when

493
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: it comes to women because it's so strange to me

494
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 2: because I don't know how to really like I've always

495
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 2: been on the other side, I'm the woman, Like I

496
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 2: don't really even I know how.

497
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 3: I know.

498
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm not good at flirting with women.

499
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: So maybe a wife would feel uncomfortable approaching the woman,

500
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 2: so she needs the support of her husband or her partner,

501
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: her boyfriend whatever to do.

502
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like and that's like even me, Like when I've been.

503
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: Out with a guy I'm dating who were interested in

504
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 2: doing that, Like I'll be like, this is the girl

505
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 2: I like, I need you, but I've let him know

506
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: like I like her, and now I need you to

507
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 2: try to seal this deal.

508
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 3: Like go flirt with her, you know what I mean?

509
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 3: So it's like you gotta.

510
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: And that's a really good indication to let the girl know. Wait,

511
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 1: which you're implying, like what you're trying to get? You know,

512
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: like there's equal flirting and it's equal. I don't. I

513
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: guess it's more it's more difficult for the woman because

514
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: what do you what do you? How do you like?

515
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: It's harder for a woman to foot with the woman

516
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: to know if she's down with the get down, like

517
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: if you're not, if you're not being aggressive and she's

518
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: not being aggressive either, someone at some point has to

519
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: be the aggressor. But I don't know. I think you're

520
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: lying because I've seen it. So Erica and I have

521
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: a slight girl crush on one of our guests recently.

522
00:26:59,000 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: That's Carmen.

523
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 3: Damn what Okay, we're putting it out there hopefully.

524
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: Already knows.

525
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a secret.

526
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: I think it's a very known fact. She has a

527
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: really nice body.

528
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 3: She's beautiful.

529
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's really beautiful. She's cool and she's fun. Anyway,

530
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:24,239
Speaker 1: me and Erica having a slight rivalry, a little bit

531
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: of rivay, she's a lesbian rivalry anyway. Erica is claiming

532
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: right now that she's all innocent and that she doesn't

533
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: approach women and blah blah blah. But I've seen a

534
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: different side of Erica. You know, Tequila does that.

535
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: Like we said, step one alcohol.

536
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: Okay, if you want to bring out your inner a week,

537
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: get you some tequila, because fucking Erica. We went out

538
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago with Carmen and others are partying,

539
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: and you know, we're all in the photo booth and

540
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: literally I look back. I just like, maybe i'd look

541
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: back for like five seconds. I just see Erica moving

542
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: in towards Karmen's face. I'm like, this little sneaky bitch.

543
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 3: On earlier you were touching her, and stop touching her.

544
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: Stop that's that fucking scorpion.

545
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 3: I was like, stop it.

546
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: You don't know.

547
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 2: I already told you that I'm on that.

548
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: She did? Did? She claimed it, like before we even

549
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: she even met her. I have a crush on one

550
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: of our listeners. I did, Yeah, Okay, so I guess

551
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: that's all you Carmen, now, you know, unless you want

552
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: to choose otherwise.

553
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: Look, I'm first okay. Anyway, so most of the time

554
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 2: I am meek and and very awkward in front of women.

555
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: Until she gets a little tequila and okay, she will

556
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: make out with you, whether you like it or not.

557
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: Not saying that Karmen didn't like it.

558
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't make out with Carmen.

559
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: Oh there was no time, right, No.

560
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, anyway, maybe we could do like a three

561
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: way kiss. See she's trying to negotiate, just like what Okay, fine, fine, okay.

562
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: This is the number one rule of all the rules.

563
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: This is all number one golden threesome rule. Do not

564
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 1: plan the threesome. Just don't do it. It has to

565
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: happen organically. You can't go out on the prow. When

566
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: you go on the prow, epic fail, you never meet

567
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: a good bit.

568
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 3: But I don't.

569
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: I don't agree with you because I did plan one

570
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: and it was with my it was with the couple

571
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: that I was hang out with.

572
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: And but you guys were seeing each other like that

573
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 3: was that was because it was off an app.

574
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was off an app. You knew the intention,

575
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: it was set.

576
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: Up that way.

577
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I guess so, Yeah, if you're going out.

578
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: Even then you guys went out. Guys went to dinners.

579
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 2: I know what we knew it was going down. We

580
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: went to one, We went to dinner and then went

581
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 2: to the room, went to the condo, condo, their condo.

582
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: Well it's tender. Yeah, okay, yeah, I don't know if

583
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: you guys, did we already touch on this if you

584
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: were turned into the first episode, Erica had a tender

585
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: love affair?

586
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 3: What like my couple?

587
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? Did we talk about this? Sorry?

588
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Well, basically I met a beautiful couple on Tinder,

589
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: and I didn't believe it was real. And it was

590
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: like right around the beginning of me breaking up, or

591
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: it was I was broken up with, but I was

592
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: like trying to like get out there and try new shit.

593
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: And so I found them and we chatted and they

594
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 2: sent me other photos that I knew they were real,

595
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, god damn. And then I wasn't

596
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 2: sure if I was going to do it. They told

597
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 2: me I wanted to go to dinner and they wanted

598
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 2: to take me to dinner, went to dinner, had some

599
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 2: Margarita's Margarita's yeah and.

600
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 3: Yeah m hm, and then she did.

601
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: Then I did it several times and it was lovely.

602
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: It was great.

603
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's a success.

604
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and to see their relationship, like you know, they

605
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: the only reason I know some of these rules is

606
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: because of them, you know, because they had rules, which

607
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 2: brings us to two.

608
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: How how do you go about having a threesome? How

609
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: do you recruit?

610
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, friends versus strangers?

611
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: And do you use an app? Do you recruit an

612
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: erica from a tender? Hey? Do you go to the bar?

613
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: I would say any of the above depends how direct

614
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: you're trying to be. I personally like an in person

615
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: meet up because I can feel you out, I could

616
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: see you. Energy is big for me sometimes, you know,

617
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: those five picks don't do all the justice.

618
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 3: It's that computer allowed. Yeah.

619
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: I wonder if it's affecting the sound. We have these

620
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: classy microphones. I think we're good, but it's recording through

621
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: the computer.

622
00:31:50,960 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 6: Oh well, all right, whatever, it doesn't matter now okay, yeah, bar.

623
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: Bar again with the liquor. I put a dance bar.

624
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: What's a dance bar?

625
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 3: But I mean.

626
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: The club? The club because you know, like that's how

627
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: a lot of my lesbians spot me out on the

628
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: dance floor to see how close they're getting.

629
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 3: You know it's that witchy dance. They're enticed.

630
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I think for me because I am

631
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 2: a little like awkward, and I don't I'm not really

632
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: good at reading women in that way all the time.

633
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: I think that an app was better for me, and

634
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: it's probably still isn't in ways because it's like a

635
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: sure thing.

636
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: You don't think the dance bar helps.

637
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: I mean the dance bar maybe now that I've entered

638
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: into I've done, I've done, I've had more experiences like that.

639
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: Now you can now I could do that. But early on,

640
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: like I felt awkward. I wasn't as like secure in

641
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: just approaching a woman and being like, what's up?

642
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: You know, I'm like, because.

643
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 2: Actually there's a girl that I've liked for a really

644
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 2: long time when I lived in New York, and like

645
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: I did not I wanted to sleep with her and

646
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 2: I had no idea how to do it. And I

647
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: would hang out with her all the time and I

648
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 2: would like think, I'm like, am I giving off the sign?

649
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, is I doing that?

650
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: Maybe she doesn't like girls? Like I'm so confused? Do

651
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: I ask her? And it was just it was just

652
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: I had no game, zero fucking game.

653
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: I don't have any game either. You have to like

654
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: basically tell me, no, you have game.

655
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 3: Okay, you do, thanks, it's just natural. Okay, yeah you

656
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 3: got a game. I thought you were trying to hook Carmen.

657
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 3: Back the fuck up.

658
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. One time Carmen posted a pic and I feel

659
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: like the droolie face or something. This bitch sent me

660
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: a threatening text message like, back the fuck up, bitch,

661
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: don't be comment on her pictures like that. I was like,

662
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: is she really mad? This pitch is really mad? She's

663
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: like I already told you. I was like, damn, it's

664
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: like our first fight.

665
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: This.

666
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm so sorry Carmen.

667
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: I think I was like, gonna think for aggressive aggressive

668
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: two pairs of friends.

669
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 3: Well now she definitely is. She's like, never gonna hang

670
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 3: out with us again.

671
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: Don't be scared, Kian, we don't buy it. Oh my goodness.

672
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so yeah, I think.

673
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: Okay.

674
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 2: I think also like, if you're a conservative couple going

675
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 2: back to couples, if you're a conservative couple, you've never

676
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 2: done this before, either one of you, you want to

677
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 2: even just test out if you even really like, first

678
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 2: of all, if you're okay seeing another woman be on

679
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: your man first of all, because you might think about

680
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 2: it and like the idea, but then when you actually see.

681
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 3: It might fuck you up.

682
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: So I think a really good place to start is

683
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 2: going to a strip club.

684
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: And uh, just buying a few lap.

685
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: Dances, buying some lap dances, enjoying the women, and seeing

686
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,760
Speaker 2: how you feel with your man being with another woman,

687
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,479
Speaker 2: because whether you're having a threesome or he's out doing

688
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 2: his own thing and you're out doing your own thing. Like,

689
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,720
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a visual that you need to see,

690
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: like to know for sure.

691
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and even if you think a do I like pussy?

692
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: Do I want to eat it?

693
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 5: You know?

694
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: Like that's also a good place because the shippers are

695
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: always going to be nice to you. It's their job,

696
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: so you know, you can't get rejected. There's no aquard moments.

697
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: She's that's gonna be your you know, sometimes even shippers

698
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: are good candidates. I've known some like birthday situations where

699
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: they got to like a stripper. And I know friends

700
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,919
Speaker 1: or ex friends that used to be strippers and we're

701
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:27,959
Speaker 1: like purchased for three someome purposes. That sounds really bad, yeah,

702
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: but whatever. And also if you're a very very very

703
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: very conservative couple and.

704
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 3: Too much.

705
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: Pretty much, you need to start by watching porn together,

706
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: maybe indulging in some threesome porn together to see if

707
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: it even you're comfortable with it, or lesbian porn or whatever.

708
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because your man will be aroused at watching it

709
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: and maybe that'll either make you uncomfortable or not and

710
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: or spce versa.

711
00:35:54,600 --> 00:36:04,760
Speaker 1: You know, also choosing a friend or choosing a stranger.

712
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: This is a very tricky one. I hear this a

713
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: lot because is it too close to home inviting your friend?

714
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: Do you are you going to feel weird after and

715
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,760
Speaker 1: now you've fucked up your friendship because somebody's feeling weird?

716
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: Do you feel like now is that bitch looking at

717
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: my man because she's around and she's fucked him? Is

718
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: he looking at her? Blah blah blah? Or if you're

719
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: the friend sometimes I don't mean ergar have both experienced this.

720
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: You have sex with a friend couple and then they

721
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,479
Speaker 1: want to do it all the time and you're like, wait,

722
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: that was just like fun time one time. You don't know,

723
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: this is not a regular thing. We're friends, and then

724
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: it gets you know how to say? Now, I think

725
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: you have to. If you're going to do a friend,

726
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: he has to be a friend, a really good close friend,

727
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: like you know which friends are like.

728
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 2: And that you know you can talk to about it

729
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: afterwards not gonna be weird. Well, there's just no way

730
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 2: to know, actually, because even though my my my first

731
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 2: ever recent experiences with experiences was with one of my

732
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 2: best friends and we were young though, but still we

733
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: didn't I didn't know how to.

734
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: Talk to her about it afterwards.

735
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 2: Like it was like our friendship just kind of fizzled

736
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: out because, like you said, like she still wanted to

737
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 2: continue doing it, and I was like, wait, we're like

738
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 2: friends best friends were like a long time, Like I don't,

739
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: I'm good, and so instead of dealing with it, we

740
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 2: just kind of like stopped hanging out. It was weird. Yeah,

741
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 2: I'm also young, so I think I'm more mature now.

742
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: But you know, if you but you know it doesn't

743
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 2: take it didn't you can you can be emotionally immature

744
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 2: at thirty one too.

745
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: So I'm so unawkward that I might. I can set

746
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: a zone where I can make you feel like did

747
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 1: we even have sex? Like I can. I've had friends

748
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: who I were like try me alone, and we were

749
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: like have sex in the next days, like them all

750
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: like whatever. It doesn't even like I could go either way.

751
00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: We could talk about it. We don't have to talk

752
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: about it. I could pretend it didn't happen. It doesn't

753
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: really matter. But everybody's not like that, and you have

754
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: to be able. That's why you have to know your

755
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: friends and know who's like you know. Don't you choose

756
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: any sneaky bitches friends you know, only friends you really trust,

757
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: or no friends at all. Yeah, I think.

758
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 2: Friends can feel safe, you know they can. But I think, yeah,

759
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 2: you really have to think about it. I I think

760
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 2: I prefer like more like strangers or like just acquaintances,

761
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 2: not friends. It's not like real friends that I hang

762
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 2: out with. Yeah, you know, especially like especially if you're

763
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 2: in a marriage or a relationship and then bringing a

764
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: friend in it might be too close because you all are.

765
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: Going to hang out all the time and it's just

766
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 3: going to ruin it.

767
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: Unless your friend is me.

768
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 3: What else.

769
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: Choosing a friend versus a stranger. I've actually I've done

770
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,720
Speaker 1: it a couple of times. I preferred to be the guest.

771
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 2: What about you, I've only been the guest Okay, so well,

772
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 2: actually that's not true because my experience.

773
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: In Spain, I wasn't the guest.

774
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Oh we'll hear about that later. But and yeah, I

775
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: felt more like empowered.

776
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 3: Yeah for sure.

777
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: I did not feel empowered with like the couple that

778
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 2: but it's just a different sense of empowerment, which I'm

779
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: sure you know the wife probably fell to you know,

780
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 2: and I wanted to give that to her.

781
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 3: As the guest.

782
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because that's your role as a guest.

783
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, have we done with that?

784
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, this list is drinky. It looks like, oh.

785
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, the partner must know you're the VIP. That's a

786
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 3: good one. Did we say that allowed yet? Yeah?

787
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: So you have to make your partner the VIP. Yeah,

788
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 1: don't make the bitch the VIP, that is, unless you

789
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: guys prediscussed some shit like that.

790
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I felt like a VIP with a couple.

791
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Well, because you're excited that you're there.

792
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah you're the guest.

793
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. They definitely like made me feel pleased.

794
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: I have to do that. Yeah. Yeah, this has to

795
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,280
Speaker 1: be equal parts everybody.

796
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,240
Speaker 3: I think everybody needs their VIP moment.

797
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, and there's got to be a

798
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 2: lot of eye contact with you and your partner.

799
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a juggle. This is not an easy thing.

800
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: There are rules, there are things you need to be

801
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: conscious of while interacting.

802
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if you're with your man or you're you're

803
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 3: with your woman, you.

804
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 2: Need to make motherfucking eye contact with her a bunch

805
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 2: of times.

806
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: And it has to be to.

807
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 2: Let her know we're in this together. Yeah, I'm here

808
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,240
Speaker 2: with you, baby. Yeah, she's here.

809
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: But like we're here, we're here, we're doing that.

810
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're doing this for us.

811
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're ye. And it's and you've got to

812
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: just make sure everybody's vibe is right. A lot of

813
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: reassurance is required, especially if this is like the first

814
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: time or the first couple of times whatever.

815
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: Number three where is where is? Oh?

816
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 3: There?

817
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: It is recruiting? Do we do that?

818
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: What does that say? Is that say recruiting? What does

819
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 2: that say underneath it?

820
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: Empowered?

821
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 3: Empowered? I guess that we just touched on that is.

822
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, the empowerment part is empowering your your your.

823
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: Partner and.

824
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 2: You know, just making them feel assured and also, like

825
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 2: I said before, like knowing your partner well enough to

826
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: know if they're enjoying this or not and not being selfish.

827
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: Oh and also I think what we forgot to touch

828
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: on on the recruiting is what do you say to

829
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: recruit someone to come to the bedroom with you and

830
00:41:58,920 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: your partner?

831
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 3: Right?

832
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: And if you're a guest, we're gonna hope that they're

833
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: asking you. You don't ask a couple. You can seem

834
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: available and fun, but you don't. You don't ask only

835
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: couples and single people or it just happens. But yeah,

836
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: do you have any suggestions?

837
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 2: I mean, for me as the guest, Like most of

838
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 2: the time, the woman is the one that's like like

839
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 2: made me feel comfortable at first, touching, you know, rubbing

840
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: my leg. You know, it's it's all about its contact,

841
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 2: you know that.

842
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 1: Like how comfortable you're getting, how flirty.

843
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: Like when you're talking tou touch her legs, touch her arm,

844
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 2: get closer, like.

845
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: Dance close, dance sexy music.

846
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then maybe like grab your man, let him

847
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 2: touch her, give him permission, you know, like whawt she has.

848
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: Such nice boobs? Lookt her boobs? Damn.

849
00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like so I think it's just be physical.

850
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: You're beautiful, wow, you know, beautiful complimentary, or you could

851
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 2: be like me and it's.

852
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 3: Like Jamila is one was getting the shower.

853
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like once you get them back to the house, well,

854
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: this also ensures that she's clean. But it's and it's fun.

855
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, let's just take a shower. I'm so

856
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: like dirty, No, don't say that, but it's like, look

857
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: at the shower. To take a shower, drunk shower. It

858
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: just seems fun. And then you can make your moves,

859
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: you know, like wash each other. You wash, you know,

860
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: so you know what's going on, she knows what's going on.

861
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: And then you could just go and it flows from there.

862
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: Kissing obviously. Maybe if you are taking a girl home

863
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: and your husband's driving, jump in the back seat with

864
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: the girl and then that's the nicest we did that. Yeah,

865
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: that's done. That too. A nice place to get it started.

866
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: He can look in the rear room mirror. It's kind

867
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: of hot. It builds up.

868
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 3: You get connected to the girl first first, right, it's.

869
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: Kind of like Avatar, you know, when you they pull

870
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: their ponytail behind and they stick it in that thing

871
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: that flies to connect. You get your first so you've

872
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 1: made the bond.

873
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: I literally just can't with this example and the mining

874
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: that just happened with your braids, is that what it's like?

875
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I guess.

876
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: So that's also the same thing with the woman has

877
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 1: to recruit. It has to be someone she initiates contact with,

878
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: someone she chooses, because that's the part of making that

879
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: avatar bond. Because I've set my stamp our relationship is

880
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: you were like, it's just it's just protocol. Yeah, and

881
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: then it makes her feel more comfortable, and essentially that's

882
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: who needs to feel more comfortable. I don't know, but

883
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: then we're not thinking, we're thinking very feminist because what

884
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: if there are men who don't really want to open

885
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 1: their relationship up and maybe the woman really is craving

886
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,879
Speaker 1: some pussy and or some dick or some dick, which

887
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: is a whole different con verstation. I've come across a very,

888
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: very very limited amount of men who would be willing

889
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: to give, first of all, to hear the fantasy that

890
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: his wife or a woman wants to be with more than

891
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: one guy one at the time, because there's such it's

892
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: such a stigma. Men can fucking crave it all day long.

893
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: But if a woman crazy it, she's a whoreor it's a.

894
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 3: Train, right, It's always a train. It's always a train. Literally.

895
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 2: My friend was just here right now and we were

896
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 2: talking about threesomes. And when he was talking about threesomes,

897
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: he was we were talking about girl, two girls and

898
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: a guy.

899
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, yeah, threesome.

900
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 2: And I've only had one, and then we did and

901
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: then we were talking about well, two girls and a guy,

902
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 2: I mean two guys and a girl.

903
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 3: He was like, oh, yeah, I've done that. That's a train.

904
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's literally the same thing. It's the

905
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: exact same thing.

906
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: Right, right, And even like the word it's a train,

907
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: like she's a train.

908
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so demeaning, it's so degrading.

909
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: And oh yeah. Even I had this conversation with young Bin.

910
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: He's like, if you've ever if I've ever found out

911
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: you had sex with you guys a one time, I

912
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: would never fuck with you. I'm like, wow, despite the

913
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: fact that you know me right and I am right right.

914
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 1: So it's you know, as much as we'd like to

915
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: say like men are open minded, they're like there's so

916
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: many there's still so much like constriction on who we're

917
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: allowed to be and who they're allowed to be because

918
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: even in my mind it sounds like a train.

919
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 3: Because that's.

920
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 2: You know what, I don't think that when I think

921
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 2: of it, I think of it as threesome. When I

922
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 2: think of train, I think of something different. I think

923
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 2: of like orgy more.

924
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm trying to think of like a lot of

925
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: guys like.

926
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 2: Org one girl and like more than one two guys.

927
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 2: But that's but that's but that's it's not true.

928
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I one guy told me that his girl had

929
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: expressed wanting to have sex with two guys, and he

930
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: was actually open to giving her what she wanted. He said,

931
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: Now the guy couldn't like stay, he would have to

932
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: get the fuck about there after that I can like

933
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: saying cuddle, he's like, whereas if it was me, Yeah,

934
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 1: I want like you two to just like cuddle up

935
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: under my arms and fallows, nestle under me and fall asleep.

936
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: And if that would be word, I've had three times

937
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: like that, but two guys, no, no oh, I was.

938
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 2: Thinking of two guys nestling each other, saying he would

939
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: just not weird, but that would be like I think

940
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: the guy was also getting pleasure out of the guy

941
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: as well.

942
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: Right, Well, I don't know everyone has a nestle. But

943
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: have you guys seen Savages? Is that with the Blake? Like, yeah,

944
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 1: I always talk about this when we talk about three

945
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: because it's my favorite threesome movie. Yeah, it's so loving,

946
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 1: it's so friendly. It's like my ideal. Like if it's

947
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: just the other movie too, if I was going to

948
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: have a relationship like that, it would be like that,

949
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: like we're all best friends and I get the best

950
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: of both worlds.

951
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 3: Is that one with Penelope Crews and Scarlet Johansen? You

952
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: just see that one because we're both hot and Harvier Bardome?

953
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh he two girlfriends?

954
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 3: Those are his two girlfriends.

955
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Well that's just like the Savages. They're both hot, hot,

956
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: and they both fuck her like totally different. It's so hot.

957
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: He focks are all hardcore and one fucks are all

958
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: gentle and soft, and they all love each other. They're

959
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: best friends. They love her, they shoot her like a queen.

960
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 1: It's great.

961
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, what else is there?

962
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: Oh?

963
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 3: What about the condom thing?

964
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 2: We were talking about this too, because you know my

965
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 2: friend is my computer about today?

966
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

967
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, the contemp thing, like whether like how you deal

968
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 2: with that as a couple. You know, if you're married

969
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 2: or you're in a relationship and you guys don't use condoms, well.

970
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: You definitely slip a condom on.

971
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: Well, I know how it works with I know how

972
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 2: it's worked in my situation.

973
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: But wait, he just put a condom on when he yeah, yeah,

974
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: and then when he's with her he does he takes

975
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: it off, you know, And if it's two bitches, you don't.

976
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: It's all nobody's fucking wrong. You need to switch condoms

977
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: between bitches, pussies. You need to enter one, switch it

978
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: out and enter the other. There shouldn't be no double

979
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: dipping of the condoms because that's pretty strange. Oh uh,

980
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: what else did we forget? That's a big one. The

981
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: condom one you cannot fuck up with that. Do not

982
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: fuck up and have a threesome row because that. I've

983
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: heard a bad story about that too. A couple was

984
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: having sex with her friend multiple times. The guy pulled

985
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: the condom off, like the friend wrong and basically pulled

986
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,919
Speaker 1: out kind of late. Bitch ended up getting pregnant the friend.

987
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: The friend she was saying it wasn't his. The baby

988
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: came looking just like this guy and it was just

989
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: very sketchy. Was that intentional on her part? I don't know.

990
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 2: But just to avoid all of that, just don't have

991
00:49:55,200 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: sex with unprotected with some situation. Yeah, no, I measure

992
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 2: if you got pregnant.

993
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 3: But like with your husband during is that weird?

994
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: No? Okay, your husband always have this little funny secret

995
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: secret about your kid.

996
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 3: Oh god that no kid ever wants to know. I'm

997
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: a mom, do not? What does that say?

998
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 2: Do you?

999
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: Not? Planning a threesome? Must be organized organic?

1000
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 3: Organic?

1001
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1002
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 1: I think that's we talked about that already, right, yeah,

1003
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 1: because that was like the number one rule. Yeah, open

1004
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: relationship versus occasional threesome, there's a difference, totally different things.

1005
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: Just because you're is mean you have an open relationship?

1006
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 3: Men, well, open relate.

1007
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 2: The definition of open relationship is means your relationship is open.

1008
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,280
Speaker 2: You by yourself can go sleep with somebody else.

1009
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: Because some people have open relagions, but don't ever partakee

1010
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: in threesomes right.

1011
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: Right, No, they do it separate. They do it separately, period, but.

1012
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 1: They don't want to see it. Right and overall, to

1013
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: top off this list, the aftermath? What now after the threesome?

1014
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: Has gone down. Oh, we forgot to talk about like

1015
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: specific threesome moves A three like what oh like actual

1016
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: like sex positions. Yeah, oh yeah, okay, okay, Like we said,

1017
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,359
Speaker 1: if we want to start it off, I suggest maybe

1018
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: a shower, group shower, maybe, like you said, a leg rub,

1019
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: a little massage. Oh, you have nice boobs, let me touch.

1020
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,760
Speaker 1: But once it gets really started and we've initiated, it's threesome,

1021
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: it's happening, we're in motion. What do we do now?

1022
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 1: You can do like a two people giving one person

1023
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: head at the same time, you can give one person

1024
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 1: giving a head, another person giving someone else.

1025
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 2: Do you think it's like proper Do you think it's

1026
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 2: like threesome etiquette to let the couple, if you're if

1027
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 2: you're a guest, have sex first, like let them start

1028
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 2: fucking first before you are in that space.

1029
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I never even thought about that.

1030
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 3: These are questions that I'm sure like people I have.

1031
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: I think that if the couple, I think, if you're

1032
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: the guest, I kind of let the couple initiate.

1033
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 3: What's what's going on?

1034
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: What's going on? Because clearly you guys know what you like.

1035
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys have done this before, right.

1036
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: Or so you assume. Yeah.

1037
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 2: But as far as moves, yeah, I would say, you know,

1038
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: there's there's so many and I.

1039
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: Could just kind of let it happen naturally.

1040
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 2: But basically one person should always be received. Everyone should

1041
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: be receiving pleasure simultaneously.

1042
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, and sometimes you sometimes you want to just sit back,

1043
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: I can watch, yeah, and just kind of play a

1044
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: little here, play a little there. You know, doesn't have

1045
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: to always be hardcore three way involvement.

1046
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1047
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: And also I mean I like, I like, I told

1048
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: my friend I sent her a porn because she told me,

1049
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 2: like what's the playbook, what's the rules?

1050
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: Like who does what?

1051
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 3: Do that?

1052
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 2: And like, yes, there you should watch maybe porn. But

1053
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 2: also porn can be really unrealistic when it comes to

1054
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: a threesome two like don't don't get carried away on

1055
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: like whatever your favorite threesome porn was, and think that

1056
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 2: you have to reenact in.

1057
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's in any sexual experience, I think.

1058
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.

1059
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: A more advanced move was like maybe if the guy

1060
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: eats one pussy and pumps the other girl at the

1061
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: same time, couch and a couch, that's a little advanced.

1062
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: But if you know one person can ride with the

1063
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:45,879
Speaker 1: other person rides a face.

1064
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 3: Right, right, right.

1065
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's actual terms for this anyway, just okay,

1066
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: I just wanted to touch on a couple.

1067
00:53:55,160 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 2: Of those, like reverse cowgirl, she's on the couch, cow

1068
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 2: girls eating pussy on.

1069
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, calgars. We could be facing either way, getting Yeah,

1070
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: but that would be nice. You could face each other

1071
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,919
Speaker 1: and she's right, he's just there, Yeah, he's just there. Yeah,

1072
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 1: underneath you both like a log. We'll call it.

1073
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 3: Reverse log.

1074
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: Two logs on a train. What's that salary snack with

1075
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 1: the raisins? No, my god, okay, whatever, anyway, I'm sure

1076
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:38,439
Speaker 1: it's late, it's fun.

1077
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 2: We'll provide some diagrams on our on our the story

1078
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 2: and you'll you can see maybe even upload them to

1079
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 2: our website.

1080
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 3: Good idea, bamu.

1081
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So the aftermath, I've touched on every step before,

1082
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: the before, the recruiting, the after. Now we're here, we've

1083
00:54:59,160 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: done it.

1084
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 3: You're done.

1085
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: You're feeling good.

1086
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 3: I keep thinking of her, are waking up.

1087
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: You need to chill with your faces. Everything's like, but no,

1088
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 1: you're scared. Okay, what now ending sex relationships after threesome experience.

1089
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, like do you want to just have one off

1090
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 2: experiences or are you down Like if you find that

1091
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 2: right guest, is that someone you want to CONSI reoccurring

1092
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 2: a reoccurring guest?

1093
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 3: Or do you have a few reoccurring guests.

1094
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 1: Or is the rule that they get cut off immediately

1095
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 1: after right, because sometimes that's a rule with no contact

1096
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: with her after bybe maybe it's just a vacation, you know,

1097
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: maybe that's the whole point, or maybe you maintain it.

1098
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 1: But those things also need to discuss. Also as the guests,

1099
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 1: do you sleep, do you spend the night, do you stay?

1100
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: Do you cuddle? Right, don't say too long?

1101
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 3: I think the guests you really like.

1102
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 2: I hate people that don't get the fucking clue, like go,

1103
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 2: like leave, like we're tired, we don't want to talk anymore,

1104
00:55:58,080 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 2: or like you know.

1105
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: It's just get in the room. Read energies.

1106
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 3: This is don't be selfish.

1107
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, yeah, I've said I spend the

1108
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: night the next day and then just dip out in

1109
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: the morning. I've had threesoms where we cuddle, but usually

1110
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:18,800
Speaker 1: it's time to go. I thought through some of his

1111
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: friends and it's like not a big deal at all.

1112
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 1: The next day, you know, I.

1113
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 2: Mean unless they unless the couple is like really and

1114
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 2: you know, making you feel like they want you to stay,

1115
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 2: they want you to join them with to breakfast, you know,

1116
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 2: and you feel comfortable with that, then fine. But if

1117
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: they're not really like giving you any more guidance as

1118
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 2: to where to go from here, it means it's.

1119
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 3: Time to go.

1120
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh yeah, I think as a couple, like

1121
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 2: you have to kind of have that conversation like what

1122
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 2: what is that? What is what is? What is the

1123
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 2: end game? You have to think about the end game

1124
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 2: a little bit, you know, and.

1125
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: Don't wake up the next day. Don't get so drunk

1126
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 1: so that the next day like what have I done?

1127
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 1: Don't overthink ship. Sometimes a good fucking is a good

1128
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: fun just laugh, it's just fun. You have to remember

1129
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: it's just your secret. Yeah, it's your little secret. Don't

1130
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,399
Speaker 1: overthink it. I always give a girl that I think

1131
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 1: is a little less cute than you, I'm gonna be good.

1132
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 3: Is that a rule?

1133
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: You're gonna get the finest bitch? I mean kind of

1134
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: sometimes Yeah, it depends.

1135
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 2: I mean for me, I mean, I guess in my

1136
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 2: one experience not being the guest like I knew I

1137
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 2: was definitely I felt like I was more attracted attractive

1138
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 2: to him than she was to him.

1139
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it's not even I mean, but that's.

1140
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 2: Just that's so lame. It's kind of whack. It's kind

1141
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 2: of insecure. We gotta work on that. That's not a

1142
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 2: good that's not a good sound advice. You know, you

1143
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 2: don't agree. She's like, no, actually, I stand by what

1144
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 2: I said.

1145
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I said what I said. What I said,

1146
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: I said, it said my statement. I said my statement,

1147
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 1: and that's what I said, and I stand I want

1148
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: to say it's my statement. No, it is insecure, and

1149
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,439
Speaker 1: that's not true because if it's a bitch on my fuck,

1150
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: it's a bitch fat right, But am I gonna fucking

1151
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 1: fuck the finest is big booty is bitch? Pick her

1152
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: for me and my man? Yeah? No, probably not.

1153
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 2: Well you I mean, do you want to sleep with her?

1154
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:25,919
Speaker 2: Would you sleep with her on your own?

1155
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: Maybe? Yeah? I mean, I guess it depends how bad

1156
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: I want to sleep with her. I said my statement.

1157
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 3: She said what she said, y'all. I can see that.

1158
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: I guess it's like your homegirl, unless it's like.

1159
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 3: I can see how that would. I don't know.

1160
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: It's insecure, but it's just how I feel. Sometimes that's

1161
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: real and it's real. And it also depends how your

1162
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 1: man makes you feel, because if you're like.

1163
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, and as a man, if you are praising this

1164
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 2: new person way more because it's new pussy and it's

1165
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 2: more and your wife has not seen you this excited

1166
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: in a long time. To bring it down.

1167
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: Bringing down, pretend you're gonna lose your chances quick, chilled

1168
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: the fuck out. Don't even be smirking too hard, naggad,

1169
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, some specialists I don't know. Okay, I'm lying.

1170
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: I've had I've had three. Oh I was the guest. Okay,

1171
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: never mind, whatever, you know, you know what you like, Yeah,

1172
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: you know what he likes to, So get a little

1173
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: different kid. So I think that concludes.

1174
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think those I think you know those are

1175
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 2: you want to tell your whole stories? Yeah, So basically

1176
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 2: my horror story happened in Spain. I was out there

1177
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 2: with Trembling Lippe and we were in a bisa with

1178
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 2: a group of friends and we were out dancing, having

1179
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 2: a really great time, drinking a lot of tequila end stincts,

1180
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 2: and we were dancing and this girl came up to

1181
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 2: me and I just I don't know, I was just

1182
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 2: in the mood. It was yeah, I was spontaneous. I

1183
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I want to share this with.

1184
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 2: I'm in Spain. I want to share this with this person.

1185
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 2: Met the girl I guess she was. She was not

1186
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 2: as cute as me for sure, and.

1187
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, let's do this. Sure she'll do.

1188
01:00:55,880 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: She was English, and we went back to the conto

1189
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 2: and she ended up getting fucked up, really really fucked up. Yeah,

1190
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 2: like she drank too much, did a bunch of too much.

1191
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: And drugs. Uh yeah, drugs. Also, we don't condone this.

1192
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: Some drugs help threesome.

1193
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 3: Some drugs that may some drugs may not help for

1194
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:28,919
Speaker 3: the man.

1195
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for the man that's happened. They can enhance

1196
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: the threesome or they could not.

1197
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 3: Not you need to not be excitable.

1198
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so then we, uh you.

1199
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 3: Know, we started having sex and.

1200
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 2: I was really connecting with him, like that's what it

1201
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 2: was really cool because that was like, that was my

1202
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: first time not being a guest. And I understood the

1203
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 2: like why you feel empowered because I know him? He

1204
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 2: doesn't she doesn't know him. You know what I mean,

1205
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 2: this is our thing. We've talked about it. We're making

1206
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 2: eye contact. It's sexy, like it.

1207
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: Could take your sex life to a whole different level. Yeah,

1208
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,440
Speaker 1: a lot of times if once the persons the guest leaves,

1209
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: the sex with the couple can heighten.

1210
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 2: Right. So, then at some point in the during the sex,

1211
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 2: she kept trying to like, She's like, I'm a dominate tricks.

1212
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 2: And she kept trying to coach me, coach us, what

1213
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,320
Speaker 2: coach me? No, coach him and me? And then at

1214
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 2: some point I got fucking annoyed dominate tricks.

1215
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: She said what else?

1216
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 3: She said, I'm a dominate tricks.

1217
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 1: You know, I like, put your leg up. She's like,

1218
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tell me that to do.

1219
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 2: And I was like, really, in my I was feeling

1220
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: super empowered, like, shut the fuck up, bitch.

1221
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 1: No, you're not a dominate trick.

1222
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 2: No, I'm the dom I make the rules, bitch, love key.

1223
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 2: That's how I felt, and that's how I acted. I

1224
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 2: was kind of a bitch. I'm not gonna lie. Uh So,

1225
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: I you know, I was like, I think you should leave.

1226
01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 2: And so, you know, thank god the guy that I

1227
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 2: was sharing this experience with you know, could read me

1228
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 2: and was on the same page and was like, yeah,

1229
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 2: you should, and I was like, yes, that's how you

1230
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 2: do it.

1231
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 3: Teamwork.

1232
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, because sometimes it's too much. It's too much, too

1233
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: much energy, and you're gonna be able to like we're good.

1234
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 3: It's too much.

1235
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 2: She shared a few things that made me uncomfortable, and

1236
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 2: I was like, bit, she got to go.

1237
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 3: So anyway, she.

1238
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 2: Leaves and you know, we calm back down to the room. Okay,

1239
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 2: this is all happened on the balcony overlooking the ocean.

1240
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: You guys three someommed on the balcony. Oh wow.

1241
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 2: And so we went back into the room and then

1242
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 2: me and him continued to finish and then we ended

1243
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 2: up passing out for like maybe ten minutes, and his

1244
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 2: phone kept ringing and I was like, what the fuck

1245
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 2: was calling?

1246
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 3: And I see that.

1247
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: It's her and I ignore it. I'm like, no, bitch,

1248
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 2: like buy calls again. And I was like, we're gonna

1249
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 2: have to borrow.

1250
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 1: And then what happened? And he's like.

1251
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 2: You have to answer and I'm like fine, so answer

1252
01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 2: and she's like hello.

1253
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 3: I'm like guess She's like, oh please I've I've fallen

1254
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 3: and I can't get up.

1255
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm falling.

1256
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 2: I can't get up, literally that's what she said. Like

1257
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking exaggerating. I was like like humpty dumpy,

1258
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 2: like what the fuck with the accent, with the accent

1259
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 2: crying please come help me, please please, And I was.

1260
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 3: Like, I'm such a bitch. I was like, let's leave her.

1261
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 1: You have to figure this shit out, like like I'm done.

1262
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 2: It's five am. I'm fucking tired, you know, like I

1263
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 2: can't get up. So then so, uh, his nice ass

1264
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 2: makes us go out there and taking mind we're staying

1265
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 2: in like a fortress city, like we're saying in old

1266
01:04:57,040 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 2: town Abisa. So it's like it's like built in to rock.

1267
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 2: So the stairs are like massive. You have to crawl

1268
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 2: up these massive stairs to get to the road.

1269
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 3: And we get to the top.

1270
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 2: Of the stairs and the bitch is laid out in

1271
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: the middle of the street with her dress up. She

1272
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 2: looked like she had been seizureing, like she had like

1273
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 2: a little bit of foam coming out of her cot bitch,

1274
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 2: I'm not even kidding. Her eyes were like rolling in

1275
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 2: the back of her head, and she was just crying,

1276
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, so we had

1277
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: to get her up, sit her down.

1278
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: He was like, you gotta go get her water. So

1279
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: then I had to fuck it.

1280
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 2: I was so annoyed at that point because I had

1281
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 2: to crawl down those big ass stairs again, go get

1282
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 2: the bitch some water, come back, crawl up the fucking

1283
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 2: fortress stairs. And at this point, we're calling her a

1284
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 2: cab and she finally, finally the cab comes. He doesn't

1285
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 2: want to take her because clearly she's fucked up.

1286
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 3: She's staying like.

1287
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 2: On the the other side of the island, and it

1288
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 2: was like seven to sixty pounds to get her there.

1289
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 2: So we basically paid for the pussy because okay, we

1290
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 2: put this bitch in a cab for sixty pounds, and then.

1291
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 3: The next day she what's that? I still have it?

1292
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 3: My god, I should play the what's that message?

1293
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: Where is my phone? Have you never played this?

1294
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 2: Fo?

1295
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, this is great, Oh

1296
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 1: my god, it's so oh my god.

1297
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 3: Where is she? Oh man? Do I still have it?

1298
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: Did she better have it? Oh?

1299
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 3: Where is she? When did this happen?

1300
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 1: Did it happened July? Oh?

1301
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 3: Here it is here?

1302
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: It is hi, had I.

1303
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 5: Was calling you, I couldn't get through. I just wanted

1304
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 5: to know that I'm home safe.

1305
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: So thank you very very much.

1306
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 5: You doesn't understand how much you've made my trip, and

1307
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Speaker 5: it really means not to me. I don't think i'll

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Speaker 5: get to see you guys before you leave. Well, no,

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Speaker 5: I'm coming to lap you guys. Whenever you come to London,

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Speaker 5: come to Playboy.

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Speaker 1: Like she's the Playboy London.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you're not in the casino because obviously I'm got

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Speaker 5: that kind of count.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well be face.

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Speaker 5: I'm so good to meet you guys. Wait, so I

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Speaker 5: forgot to say I'm so sorry about that little like

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01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 5: thing when I was throwing up outside did and sit

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Speaker 5: it on the floor.

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Speaker 1: That probably makes you even you probably saw that. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, to know this fucking girl. Yeah, but actually,

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01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: don't judge me for that. Don't judge, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And on that note, we would never played that. You

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01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: never played that for me? All right? Oh about that

1324
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: me just throwing up on the floor, Well I'm all right,

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Speaker 1: Well I've made it. Don't judge me off.

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Speaker 3: That choose your threesome partner's wife.

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Speaker 1: Don't want the tequila interfere as much as it interfere

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Speaker 1: with the air coage judgment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's my horror story because that was a

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Speaker 2: hot ass fucking man.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, that wraps up tonight's episode of Top five

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Speaker 1: Ways that have a positive threesome experience. Hopefully find up

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Speaker 1: something more clever than the time this air. Visit us

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Speaker 1: on Instagram. Good Moms Underscore Bad Choices. This episode is

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Speaker 1: the go.

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Speaker 2: She comes to you bitches, and she's really bombed at

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01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:42,759
Speaker 2: everything she does.

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Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, alright, good night.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, it is am yep, good.

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Speaker 1: Night, this is fun.

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Speaker 3: Good night? Can I Good Moms after dark?

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Speaker 1: You know you don't gotta do est you.

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Speaker 2: I don't really do extra I even go away. Well,

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01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: well you don't need daddy, now you get away.

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Speaker 5: It's that word you need to gotta do estrats this moment.

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Speaker 2: And I already know what to think.

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Speaker 1: How you talking to me? Now? Have we rolling in