WEBVTT - Selective Ignorance: Ep. 74 | Right Message, Wrong Messenger

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However,

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure y'all get that. Now let's get to this

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<v Speaker 1>week's episode. This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance,

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<v Speaker 1>a production of The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey y'all, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Mandy B. And Baby, we are getting into

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<v Speaker 1>all the things up first, of course, as per you,

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<v Speaker 1>we're starting with some ignorant shit and John had quite

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<v Speaker 1>the ignorant thought this week, and you know it. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be good. It's gonna be good, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is America. We're talking a stand your ground case where

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<v Speaker 1>the NAACP is questioning a judge and his decisions. Then

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<v Speaker 1>right or wrong? Are you able to curse in yo

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<v Speaker 1>Uber because technically you the customer and ain't the customer

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<v Speaker 1>always right? Or when you're in somebody's space, should you

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<v Speaker 1>abide by their rules? We're getting into what's right and

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong. And then we're getting into the LGBTQ plus

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<v Speaker 1>Virgin Voyage cruise that was denied entry into Turkey and

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<v Speaker 1>Egypt because of the country's moral standards. Now we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lean into the conversation of well, why do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go somewhere where you ain't welcome? Then in celebrities

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<v Speaker 1>say the darness things we are talking about, right message,

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<v Speaker 1>wrong messenger. Tristan Thompson gives advice to Clay Thompson. We're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a white man who says that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want a black woman that looks like Lorilla and sexy red.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Stephen, a Smith's daughter, says that she will

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<v Speaker 1>love him from a distance, but baby, he can't come

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<v Speaker 1>live with her. When you get old, What are your

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on what your parents gonna do when they get old,

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<v Speaker 1>Can they come and live with you? We might get

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<v Speaker 1>a little toxic today. And I'm really excited because we

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<v Speaker 1>are joined by the OG crew. Everybody's here. Let's start

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<v Speaker 1>with my superb producers.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>We got journalism Jason up in Jersey joining us. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you just be working. You just don't be available. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't be bringing charges. You be leaving us mid show

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<v Speaker 1>with a dead laptops.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm trying to get right. You shall got my

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<v Speaker 4>mic arm now here. I'm trying to get the studio right.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, you look real legit now. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I like I'm trying to match your vibe over there.

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<v Speaker 3>I got lights coming.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm be doing things soon, not the lights.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm excited. We're uh trying to plan a trip.

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<v Speaker 1>We're literally in conversations with Black Effect to get the

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<v Speaker 1>whole team up to New York and you know, get

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<v Speaker 1>all of us in the same room.

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<v Speaker 3>We gotta have a group shot.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. You know what, Now we make the trip

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<v Speaker 1>to New York, we're gonna do the nineteen forty two.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do they too. Jason, what you'll be drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>I do forty two.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you would do forty two.

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<v Speaker 1>But what do you drinking? What you what? You you

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<v Speaker 1>be on whiskey because we didn't drink.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm big whiskey. You are to walk, Give me a

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<v Speaker 4>Johnny Walker and get out my way. I'm good with that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're such a grown man, Johnny.

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<v Speaker 3>Walker crypto.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all that other boys comes from none other than the

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<v Speaker 1>O G. Pot legend. A king of the building from

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<v Speaker 1>New York. Just landing off a flight, straight off fight

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<v Speaker 1>with It's Chris White.

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<v Speaker 3>T after cancel flight after you.

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<v Speaker 1>You be dealing with, You be dealing with the airline.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what it is? The weather.

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<v Speaker 2>The weather is very moody right now, and you could

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<v Speaker 2>guarantee if it's if it's flashed on warning and you

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<v Speaker 2>got a flight to catch in New York on the

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<v Speaker 2>East Coast, it's probably not gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what else I noticed too, Atlanta will be

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<v Speaker 1>quick to ground and not let flights go out like Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't know, because it's such a big fucking airport.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think it would be that much issues. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always something with Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, here's the thing too, is what I'm now learning

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<v Speaker 2>having these experiences is that the planes are not coming

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<v Speaker 2>in or they're delayed from.

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<v Speaker 3>Their origin because of the weather.

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<v Speaker 2>So once the once they figure out two or three times,

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<v Speaker 2>that's pretty much.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's their window. That's it. Then you gotta

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<v Speaker 3>rebook if you can rebook.

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<v Speaker 2>In my case, I think I was supposed to come

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<v Speaker 2>back Saturday, and there was no flights with the Green,

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<v Speaker 2>the Green and.

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<v Speaker 3>White until until Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh ship.

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<v Speaker 3>So what I did was, oh, I didn't tell you

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<v Speaker 3>all this part. No, oh Jay.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in Philly. I had to go to Philly.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to leave from Philly. I had to drive

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<v Speaker 2>the Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>All the way to Philly to catch a flight.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I had to, Holy Ship, I had to.

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<v Speaker 2>But there was nothing going out unless you wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>pay fifteen hundred dollars a day.

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<v Speaker 1>But probably rich Man, we're not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have the points like men remix nah, but seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>that was my only option. I was like, this is

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna go on. There's a new airline that

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<v Speaker 2>leads out of the small Mark, the small airports Avello.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a bellow A V e l O.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna do.

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<v Speaker 2>That, but I would have had to go to Connecticut

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<v Speaker 2>that comes to Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 3>But I ain't gonna just that.

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<v Speaker 1>We got ANBA anything. I am flying no new airline

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<v Speaker 1>that thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, y'all operate a little on the got your home,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but a king.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you didn't take a vellow. I just looked

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<v Speaker 4>it up. They started as Casino Express Airlines.

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<v Speaker 3>See you. Yeah, my brother made a good decision. Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>that's not no, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that sounds like some mobsters just throw yeah yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>waste management and they probably was able to cop them

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<v Speaker 1>Spirit flight. Yeah for the fifteen thousand they were Trump

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to bomb.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no ship. That sounds yeah, that sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a dude ask yeaheah.

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<v Speaker 3>Pal give it to the moon and yn they get

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<v Speaker 3>on that ship getting give it to the movie. Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all him.

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<v Speaker 1>We got the King of adline none other than Jason

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<v Speaker 1>joh Lee.

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<v Speaker 3>Pod blessing all the yet niggas, what up?

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<v Speaker 1>What up? What up?

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<v Speaker 3>Up?

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<v Speaker 4>Not you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we what is the fit today? Because you

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<v Speaker 1>got the mickey out? Yeah, like you want a Disney World.

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<v Speaker 5>The fifty Day is is playful. I don't say I

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<v Speaker 5>feel youthful in my spirit. I love that, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that happening?

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<v Speaker 4>I know?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, my big Spanish it today too.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason, you right to have before I did, because I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>I could my eyes stopped working after a certain time

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<v Speaker 4>of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't see it. But ya ya yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>big big tomorrow energy. Well let's let's tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get into uh you and your ignorant thoughts, and

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's have a little combo.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so yeah. So the other day I was this

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<v Speaker 3>is a random thought.

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<v Speaker 5>This wasn't even really sparked by anything in particular, but

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<v Speaker 5>I was thinking about, you know, like we got this

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<v Speaker 5>election coming up in November, the mid terms, we do

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<v Speaker 5>twenty eight, We got a new presidential election, and we

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<v Speaker 5>know it seems like nobody knows what's going to happen

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<v Speaker 5>in this presidential election, right, Like we're pretty sure jd

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<v Speaker 5>Vance is going to run for the other side, but

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<v Speaker 5>like who else might pop out the woodwork, We don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>We talked a little bit a few weeks ago about

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<v Speaker 5>Kamala looks like she might be trying to dip her

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<v Speaker 5>toe back into this thing, but like there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>some unexpected things that pop up, candidates whatnot. So I

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<v Speaker 5>was thinking like who could be the next president and

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<v Speaker 5>not just who could be the next president, but like

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<v Speaker 5>what minority group could become has the best chance of

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<v Speaker 5>becoming like next Already? I feel like this is some

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<v Speaker 5>shit that would end up on Calci or on prize pick.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right, yeah, that.

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<v Speaker 5>Could be six to seven you said group. Yeah, so like,

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<v Speaker 5>is the next president going to be like a straight

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<v Speaker 5>black woman? Is the next president going to be somebody

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<v Speaker 5>in the LGBTQ community? Is could the next president be

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<v Speaker 5>somebody Muslim, somebody Latino? Like what what underrepresented group could

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<v Speaker 5>be like the dark horse to become the next president.

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<v Speaker 4>President or the next Democrat nominee?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, that's that is a more specific question that

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<v Speaker 5>limits the amount of people because it was like, is

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<v Speaker 5>THEREAMI like cut his way and boot lick his way

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<v Speaker 5>to becoming like the time Republicans on the Republican side, Right,

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<v Speaker 5>but yeah, if if you're talking about Democrat versus Republican, yeah, Jay,

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<v Speaker 5>I think that limits narrows the field a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Ignorant. I'm gonna go ahead and just say it. A

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<v Speaker 1>straight black woman's at the bottom of the total that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be. I think I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on the last, Okay, damn, I think what.

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<v Speaker 1>Else has the least Muslim?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry I was last.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the country is still so ignorant to

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<v Speaker 1>Muslim We are all still it still almost seems still

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<v Speaker 1>very fresh from not eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>Even here was to justify their racing ignorant take is

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<v Speaker 2>that every day that well, not only that.

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<v Speaker 1>I am hoping he sues the dog ship out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>But did y'all see the recent Muslim guy whose phone

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<v Speaker 1>just went off into the prayer, but it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>his alarms and the flight attendant alerted. They detoured and

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<v Speaker 1>did an emergency stop in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 3>If you can't actually in Atlanta, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Did an emergency stop in Atlanta. I think they were

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<v Speaker 1>heading to Florida. Could you look this up to see

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<v Speaker 1>what airline it was? I hold this man sued the

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<v Speaker 1>dog ship out of this airline. Literally it was just

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<v Speaker 1>his phone that came off, but it was just a prayer.

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<v Speaker 4>Southwest airlines there, we got all.

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<v Speaker 3>Southwest airlines.

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<v Speaker 4>Could you read what happened in this case, Jason Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>Southwest Airlines flight traveling from Tennessee to Florida was diverted

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<v Speaker 4>and made an emergency landing in Atlanta after a passenger's

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<v Speaker 4>phone along arm trigger the device played the the Islamic

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<v Speaker 4>called a prayer, which caused concern confusion among crew members.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to say racist, but it's just ignorance ship.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say I will say this though.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's be clear Tennessee to Florida, right, so let's we

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<v Speaker 2>know the demographic of that plane.

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<v Speaker 1>The fighters alerted and diverted the plane to an emergency landing.

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<v Speaker 4>He l even better if if it brings you comfort.

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<v Speaker 4>They just described it as a misunderstanding, and they didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I am the suit of dogs ship matilt misunderstanding?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, why couldn't they process what that was in real

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<v Speaker 2>time rather than having to stop the whole plane and inconvenience.

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<v Speaker 1>Old these people ignorance?

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<v Speaker 3>Because what you could google this ship? Oh ship, that's

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<v Speaker 3>they're about to do the like. But but what does

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<v Speaker 3>like if you the flight attendant and you hear Arabic prayer, like,

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<v Speaker 3>what does that mean? Like the hot is coming? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you say because you heard Arabic words mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Did they say what type the person? The fight attendant was?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course white?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel I feel like it has to be.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm not gonna lie. Black people are also

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<v Speaker 1>ignorant too, muscle.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't think we would. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 3>start the point.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I think it was black attendants. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like they were amongst themselves, like hey, they.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, hey, hey, sir, can you turn that down? It'll

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<v Speaker 3>be one of those right, we'll make it about the

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<v Speaker 3>noise and not the prayer. Correct, So you know what, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not gonna lie now talking about this Muslim is below?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Muslim, how long did a long play?

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<v Speaker 3>Two checkings? Maybe he was probably sleep And that's what

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<v Speaker 3>the whole way.

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<v Speaker 1>Mostly I said, Muslim is below a black woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>then okay, tricky, here we go. I actually think I

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<v Speaker 1>actually think that the next the the next president could

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<v Speaker 1>be I would want to say half though I think Latino.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think they.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if we had a president running that was

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not even Puerto Rican because the white still don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know that's a part of the US.

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<v Speaker 3>But a half like like Puerto Rican. Yeah, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna say like a like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have to be port It doesn't have to be

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<v Speaker 1>a Puerto Rican because you can be You could be

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<v Speaker 1>American born and be Latino from another country, right, true,

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<v Speaker 1>like because it's just about being born in that's done

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<v Speaker 1>camp run.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, which is also probably why they're going so hard

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<v Speaker 5>with birth right citizenship because.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't they don't. They probably don't. They're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>eliminate options.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it's exactly what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just thinking of connection to the country. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I'm saying Puerto Rico.

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<v Speaker 1>Well did I did skip the lgbt Q plus, But

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<v Speaker 1>I will go out on a lemon, say we don't

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<v Speaker 1>already have to gay president. He was just on the

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<v Speaker 1>down load. Like I believe that a few of these niggas,

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<v Speaker 1>if you even the little curls they.

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<v Speaker 3>Was wearing back in the day, it was just it

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<v Speaker 3>was well they say Eisenhower was like playing that game.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, come out and what they said about

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<v Speaker 1>Alaho tell the people.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, no, I thought there was I don't want to thing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>there was rumors.

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<v Speaker 1>But Amy, Dad, what you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 4>We just questioned, do you think Trump has tendencies?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's crazy Trump is if if Trump was

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<v Speaker 1>in the closet, I would one hundred percent believe he

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<v Speaker 1>was a bottom because only because do y'all see on

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<v Speaker 1>South Park? And maybe this is me just really believing

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<v Speaker 1>he got that little strip dick like they show in

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<v Speaker 1>South Park. I'm like, where is that going?

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<v Speaker 3>I think Trump like pumpum. I don't think he's I

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<v Speaker 3>don't I think he's like.

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<v Speaker 2>Because if you look at like Trump his early day,

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<v Speaker 2>like seventies and eighties, how he was very high profile

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<v Speaker 2>celebrity in linelight.

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<v Speaker 3>He loved women. He just be around women a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>You never had no.

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<v Speaker 4>But the people, the people who talk about women too much.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like it's like the red flag and it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>gorgeous women, Like I love women, women, women, women.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's the thing about Eisenhower, right, what I was

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<v Speaker 5>gonna say, he looked it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I was trying to make sure I had this

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<v Speaker 3>right because I didn't want to say it the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 5>So Eisenhower, when he was in office, he purged LGBT

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<v Speaker 5>people from federal jobs. They called it the lavender Scare,

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<v Speaker 5>where it was like anybody who he thought was gay,

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<v Speaker 5>rumored to be gay, thought was living in a quote

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<v Speaker 5>unquote alternative lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>He wanted all of those people purged.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was an actual law that he signed in

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<v Speaker 5>like the fifties, I believe about getting gay lesbian people

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<v Speaker 5>out of the federal government. So to me, that speaks

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<v Speaker 5>to the same thing Jay's talking about, Like, you hate

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<v Speaker 5>gay people too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you probably, like I, trying to compensate for something.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't want to have interactions with other people, identify,

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<v Speaker 2>identify who might see him, and be like, eliminate.

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<v Speaker 3>My, you know, in that community, and then he could

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<v Speaker 3>have free ranks, right, he could do his things.

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<v Speaker 5>So it was never confirmed, but that was always the

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<v Speaker 5>thing that people kind of talked about.

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<v Speaker 3>What it was, like, why are you going so hard?

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to say there was another president with speculations,

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<v Speaker 1>President James Buchanan. You never married and had a very

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<v Speaker 1>close friendship with William Rufus King who also never married.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what of the minority groups, great, great ignorant

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<v Speaker 1>conversation too. I would say a Latino gonna take office.

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<v Speaker 3>Off about this A Latin woman? No, so that was

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be my next question though, think a Latin.

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<v Speaker 2>Women because of what we've seen in terms of galviny

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<v Speaker 2>galvanizing communities, galvanizing an agenda.

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<v Speaker 3>What we the sample size that we have now, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna I would think this is gonna be a lot of.

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<v Speaker 5>People think AOC is gonna put her name in, So

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<v Speaker 5>we'll see how had the spirit and the energy to

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<v Speaker 5>go forward.

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<v Speaker 3>To do that thing.

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<v Speaker 5>That would be my next question is which of these

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<v Speaker 5>could cross over? Like could we have a gay Muslim president?

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<v Speaker 5>Could we have all due respect?

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<v Speaker 3>You can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Do this.

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<v Speaker 3>You only get.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying, like like those cross streams and Muslim

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<v Speaker 2>and gay, Yeah, there might be, but I thought that

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<v Speaker 2>goes Christianity too, but it's gay Christians like they don't

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<v Speaker 2>care about what the Bible says and they live their

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<v Speaker 2>life because I've never seen I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, you're not going to see a gay Muslim.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure there's probably they have to be out there,

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<v Speaker 5>just the numbers that don't have to be I just

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<v Speaker 5>never you know, I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>There was do you be at the monsques?

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<v Speaker 3>Not at the monque? But I've been around like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you ever been a avenue Bedford?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been in their bedrooms? You don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what they do behind closed door?

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<v Speaker 5>Like hold on there now that we're talking about that,

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<v Speaker 5>are there any publicly out Muslim gay celebrities what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm really.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinking about it now, Like damn, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>they're I don't know if I could name it.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe over there, maybe overseas, there's people who have, you

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<v Speaker 5>know whatever, But in America, in American society, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't think of anybody who's openly gay and Muslim.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean in America.

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<v Speaker 4>A dude from a queer eye for what the guy

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<v Speaker 4>Tom France or whatever is he is a Muslim, He's Muslim.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I just it says, yes, there are many

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<v Speaker 2>gay Muslims navigated the intersection of faith and sexuality can

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<v Speaker 2>be complext droughe to traditional interpretations. Numerous individuals to identify

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<v Speaker 2>as both progressive organizations and welcoming communities. Exists to support

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<v Speaker 2>the LGBTQ plus Muslims through social and family acceptance.

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<v Speaker 3>Those social and family except.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna just ignorant.

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<v Speaker 3>Ha.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you're supposed to be sort of hope, but we're

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<v Speaker 2>not saying it did. Letting us informing us that this exists. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>shout out.

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<v Speaker 1>To the you know, so, then let's let's put a

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<v Speaker 1>bow tie on this conversation with for the twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 1>eight presidential election. Do we have a minority bucket candidate

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<v Speaker 1>or is it still too early for that? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>clearly maybe Kamala.

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<v Speaker 3>We do, yeah, of course.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's not Kamala or AOC. It's just gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>white men running the table. It's definitely how I'm putting

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<v Speaker 4>it on white men.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Okay, because the.

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<v Speaker 5>Way it's lining up, it sounds like it would be Kamala, AOC,

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<v Speaker 5>Gavin Newsome and maybe jos Shapiro Jo Shapiro.

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<v Speaker 3>Here like that, and that would probably that sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>the most likely for that.

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<v Speaker 1>ALC would be running for twenty twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if she's ready for that yet. I don't,

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<v Speaker 5>but there's been speculation about what is she going to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Over the time more time in Congress than Obama did

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<v Speaker 4>when he ran.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true, her profile is probably higher than his.

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<v Speaker 2>She does have a higher problem than him at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>so at the time, but we can't play tip for

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<v Speaker 2>tat here either.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like this is the stakes is high right now.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the end of the day, it's like you

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<v Speaker 2>got to put your biases aside and say, yo, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to be locked up in cages.

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<v Speaker 3>That's simple.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the question will become it's really not about the Democrats.

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<v Speaker 5>The question would be is how many cal we're asking this,

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<v Speaker 5>how many Republicans can we could get on this train

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<v Speaker 5>if that was the case.

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<v Speaker 4>But John, do you really think it's Do you think

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<v Speaker 4>it's that versus like just getting the Democrats excited to

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<v Speaker 4>come out, because you know, sometimes it's like they lose

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<v Speaker 4>because of like low terms. If you want to flip

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<v Speaker 4>a Republican as much as you'll get a Democrat to

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<v Speaker 4>just sit home because like I imagine a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>Democrats would sit home because they would be tired of

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<v Speaker 4>Kamala because they're saying she did it before extension of Biden.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just not going to vote.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the question, I guess I asked that because in

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<v Speaker 5>the era of Maga is like we saw Republicans basically

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<v Speaker 5>like hold their nose and vote for Trump, and we

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<v Speaker 5>saw Republicans who said, I voted for him once, I

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<v Speaker 5>can't do it no more.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm curious at the Republicans knowledge of DeSantis and

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<v Speaker 1>what he stands for, because if DeSantis puts his hat

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the race, I'm really coming from a

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<v Speaker 1>Floridian voter and what he's done at, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>Florida over the past. I don't know he's been there.

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<v Speaker 3>For a little while now, but definitely over the past.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would be very curious to know if there

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<v Speaker 1>would be any switch within the Republican voters as to

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to get someone probably more evil and wicked than

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<v Speaker 1>what we have right now in office. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if people are aware that DeSantis is probably worse

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<v Speaker 1>than Trump, if anyone can imagine somebody worse than Trump

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<v Speaker 1>on policy and hate for He passed the He's the

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<v Speaker 1>one that removed the critical race theory out of the schools.

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<v Speaker 1>He passed the you can't say gay bill. He's very anti.

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<v Speaker 5>Everything was on Disneyland to not was it? I think

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<v Speaker 5>it was de I and yeah it might have been

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<v Speaker 5>even been LGBTQ stuff, But he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was aligned with marijuana being lee a lot of ship

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<v Speaker 1>that if he came in and start just I would

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<v Speaker 1>want you all to do y'all research on DeSantis, because baby,

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<v Speaker 1>that is the devil and.

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<v Speaker 4>We do not want, we do not want to go

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<v Speaker 4>on high heels.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, and he on the.

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<v Speaker 3>The criss crossy with oh yeah crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. Well Andrew, Okay, now before we get to

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<v Speaker 1>this is America this week. Hello, gotta do a double

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<v Speaker 1>down or take it back? And you know what, this

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<v Speaker 1>past week has been quite interesting. I do have a

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<v Speaker 1>clip to play if you have been living under a

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<v Speaker 1>rock and didn't hear this clip recently went viral. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's go ahead and play the clip that got everybody's

0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:32.960
<v Speaker 1>paintings in a bunch over the last week. Agree everything

0:23:33.000 --> 0:23:37.000
<v Speaker 1>that you have if you're a woman that is focused

0:23:37.040 --> 0:23:39.359
<v Speaker 1>on making more, having your own career, bringing your own money,

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:41.760
<v Speaker 1>absolutely I think. Okay, so this is gonna be my

0:23:41.800 --> 0:23:44.560
<v Speaker 1>hot take and no shade to either. And I know

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I think marriage is for broke bitches, and so I

0:23:47.520 --> 0:23:50.160
<v Speaker 1>think a woman who wants to be married is leaning

0:23:50.200 --> 0:23:53.520
<v Speaker 1>more into the patriarchy and wants to be essentially possibly

0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:55.879
<v Speaker 1>taking care of how their man is the leader. All

0:23:55.920 --> 0:23:57.720
<v Speaker 1>of the ideals for me of what marriage looks like

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<v Speaker 1>is that. So I just saw my friends recently this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>She like, did you want to be married? And I

0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 1>literally said, yeah when I was poor as a woman

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 1>who can now like provide for herself, also doesn't want

0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:08.680
<v Speaker 1>motherhood and also sees a lot of these celebrity women

0:24:09.119 --> 0:24:11.920
<v Speaker 1>now having to continue working because they have to pay Allalony.

0:24:11.960 --> 0:24:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we have even podcasters now paying Alaloni shout

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 1>out to Rachel lindsay like, there's all these people that

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<v Speaker 1>once you make a certain amount of money, if if

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:20.960
<v Speaker 1>your man doesn't, you have to pay them out. And

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to say that. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be that. So I listened to this and I'm like,

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 1>this is what everyone is so up in arms about.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I want to clarify something. This episode

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>released in August of twenty twenty five. So this is

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:47.440
<v Speaker 1>a conversation regarding my views on marriage, sitting with two

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:51.399
<v Speaker 1>people who at the time did not yet have an

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:54.880
<v Speaker 1>engagement ring, but was talking about how much they both

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:59.760
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be engaged to be married. So Cammy and Weezy,

0:25:00.280 --> 0:25:03.359
<v Speaker 1>both at the time of this episode, were not married,

0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:07.080
<v Speaker 1>and so in a conversation with two women that want

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:10.000
<v Speaker 1>to be married, and as a woman who does not

0:25:10.240 --> 0:25:13.920
<v Speaker 1>seek marriage, this was my hot take, and of course,

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 1>yes the delivery was awful. Okay, but maybe it's a podcast,

0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I gotta make it a little spicy to be fair.

0:25:23.320 --> 0:25:28.359
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely am someone that didn't grow up wanting or

0:25:28.440 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 1>thinking about my white dress or what venue or the

0:25:32.000 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 1>ring shape that I wanted, And even now today as

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:40.879
<v Speaker 1>a woman with my own I just don't seek getting

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:46.080
<v Speaker 1>into another business arrangement. I think I've shared this plenty

0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:48.359
<v Speaker 1>of times before. I think I even shared this on

0:25:48.600 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 1>this specific episode of Relationship with Kemmy Crawford. I have,

0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:58.920
<v Speaker 1>in my opinion experienced kind of two divorces already, of

0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:05.000
<v Speaker 1>course leaving thee where said person got perpetuity and I'm

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:08.639
<v Speaker 1>still somehow attached to him all these years later. And

0:26:08.720 --> 0:26:10.359
<v Speaker 1>then of course with the end of see the thing

0:26:10.560 --> 0:26:14.719
<v Speaker 1>is where lawyers were involved, assets for stolen assets had

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:18.360
<v Speaker 1>to be split court and all of that got involved,

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:21.840
<v Speaker 1>that got sued after. I don't want to deal with that.

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>And unfortunately, as someone who doesn't lean heavily into the church,

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:32.359
<v Speaker 1>I also don't remember if the conversation between or on

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 1>that particular podcast leaned into the church either so as

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 1>someone who doesn't lean heavily into religious beliefs in terms

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:45.720
<v Speaker 1>of marriage, and as someone who doesn't seek to be

0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:49.680
<v Speaker 1>a trad wife, as someone who is also consuming and

0:26:49.880 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 1>talking to all these girls who apparently want their bills

0:26:53.000 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>paid on date one to me marriage. As it pertains today,

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:03.520
<v Speaker 1>the divorce rate at fifty percent is heavily due to finances,

0:27:04.960 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people are currently dating with finances

0:27:08.520 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>in mind. Straight out the gate. I don't understand why

0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>this was like such the hot take that it was.

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I listen to this today and believe the same sentiment.

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>Mary J. Blige, Kelly Clarkson, Madonna, Wendy Williams, like the

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:35.320
<v Speaker 1>list goes on and on. We are now seeing that

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:38.399
<v Speaker 1>women don't have to be defined by the amount of

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 1>kids that they have, by partners, their ability to even

0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:48.440
<v Speaker 1>bear children, or a man claiming them because whoop do

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:51.919
<v Speaker 1>you do? We see how y'all be out here embarrassing men,

0:27:52.880 --> 0:27:57.320
<v Speaker 1>and speaking of embarrassing men, the idea that the response

0:27:57.480 --> 0:28:04.159
<v Speaker 1>to this is that I am unmarriageable. I want to

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 1>lean into the fact that I'm not offended that a

0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 1>man called me unmarriageable, but what I am offended by

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:17.920
<v Speaker 1>is that someone who is unmarried, who got denied a

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 1>proposal on national TV, and someone who is prone to

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:28.040
<v Speaker 1>self sabotage calls himself a terrible friend, is emotionally stunted,

0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:34.200
<v Speaker 1>is problematic, is jealous, all of these terrible adjectives to

0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 1>describe himself, while also someone who has made bitches feel

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable in a room, while also being alleged to have

0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 1>assaulted women and other things, has the nerve tous site

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 1>here and say I'm unmarriageable, as if that is the

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 1>eligible bachelor that we have to consider out here in

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:56.240
<v Speaker 1>these streets. I swear to God, if my option is

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:58.959
<v Speaker 1>to be wiped up or proposed to by a man

0:28:59.040 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>of that caliber, Jesus saved me. That's the other thing,

0:29:04.680 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 1>as women, whether it's our size, whether it's our weight,

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:11.080
<v Speaker 1>our looks, whatever, the fact that a man with that

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 1>type of background, with that type of history can have

0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:20.600
<v Speaker 1>the nerve to hop on a microphone and shade me

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 1>for what he thinks I am and how I've lived

0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 1>my life well. It is available in Noel's Bard, which

0:29:27.640 --> 0:29:30.520
<v Speaker 1>is a New York Times bestseller. Like you, Joe, I've

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 1>gone through therapy and I've sat here and made the

0:29:33.160 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 1>best of my life too. Okay, I'm glad that you're

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:40.239
<v Speaker 1>no longer struggling with drugs. I'm glad that you are

0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 1>a better person. I'm glad that you also are out

0:29:43.200 --> 0:29:46.320
<v Speaker 1>here on the GLP ones taking care of your house,

0:29:47.080 --> 0:29:51.280
<v Speaker 1>making yourself a better eligible bachelor because you're still technically

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>an eligible bachelor too, regardless of how many years you've

0:29:54.920 --> 0:30:01.720
<v Speaker 1>been in relations with whomever. My issue isn't that you

0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>said I was unmarriageable. I have an issue with you

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 1>leading into the fact that it's because of my wildly popular,

0:30:10.600 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 1>my legacy horrible decisions as to being the reason why listen,

0:30:17.040 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>say what you want about horrible decisions, do it. All

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying is nothing about what I've created is going

0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>to make me less desirable than maybe I would be

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.560
<v Speaker 1>to anyone who already saw me as less desirable.

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:35.000
<v Speaker 6>That also being that, being.

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 1>That being the disc listen. I am blessed to have

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:48.479
<v Speaker 1>worked on myself, both inside and out. I am blessed

0:30:48.480 --> 0:30:52.479
<v Speaker 1>to have been loved and as a woman, I am

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>blessed to experience choosing my partners because they respect me

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:03.440
<v Speaker 1>and make me happy, and not being dependent on a

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>man and so I'm sorry if it really missed the

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>mark in my delivery. I say all of that to say,

0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty six, I am so proud to be

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 1>able to say I don't want to be a mom.

0:31:20.120 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to be chosen by a man to

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>have my value dictated by society, and I want more

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 1>women to strive to do that. Yes, in my twenties,

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think i'd be able to travel to certain

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>countries without a man booking my ticket. That's not the

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>case now. I didn't know I'd be able to live

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 1>the way I live unless a man were to do it,

0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:48.280
<v Speaker 1>because unfortunately, that is kind of what I grew up around.

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:55.720
<v Speaker 1>That's what I saw women wanting that and not my

0:31:55.920 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>case specifically. I mean, there's deep rooted into my thoughts

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 1>and views on women staying with abusive men and in

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:10.000
<v Speaker 1>terrible homes because they didn't have any other choice. You

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>could date it back, maybe to the seventies, before women

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:15.000
<v Speaker 1>could even get a bank account without living under a

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>man's roof. You could go back to when men needed

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>to give dowries to me, like when literal families were

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 1>pushing women to marry men they ain't even want. I

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:30.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't watch Pride and Prejudice. What I said is nothing new,

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't deliver it correctly. If you want to

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 1>be married, go be married. But I don't believe in

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 1>getting married to a man for stability, for tried wife, bullshit,

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 1>for a home over your head. I am pro ladies,

0:32:55.720 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>get it yourself. And what I'm not is for the

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:06.719
<v Speaker 1>inceels hopping on the internet telling a woman where her

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 1>value is based on XYZ elemental p. There are sex workers,

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 1>porn stars, felons, there's all of these buckets of people

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 1>that are viewed as undesirable by society, and they're getting

0:33:26.200 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 1>married every day, They're finding love every day, and I

0:33:32.040 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 1>want that for them. I say all of this to

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:42.680
<v Speaker 1>say I'm doubling the fuck down on everything that I said.

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not taking it back. And you know what, at

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 1>this point, in terms of aligning myself with a man,

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 1>I can do bad by myself. And I say all

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:02.200
<v Speaker 1>of that to say, here we are, Here we are.

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 1>So I'm hoping that this is done with. And the

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:20.400
<v Speaker 1>last thing I'll say, the last thing I'll say cross signals.

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't you know what, I ain't even gonna go

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:27.319
<v Speaker 1>there I ain't even go go there, but I'll say,

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 1>what a bitch I ain't never been at her motherfucking

0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 1>life is a liar. And anybody who know me and

0:34:35.920 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 1>it pulls ass hold, it don't cross me. Anyone who's

0:34:39.880 --> 0:34:44.799
<v Speaker 1>worked with me, anyone who's been my friend, anyone who's

0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:49.160
<v Speaker 1>been my phe knows I ain't gotta lie, Craig. I

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:51.239
<v Speaker 1>ain't never had to lie, Crag. I swell for God.

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:54.200
<v Speaker 1>So whatever I've said in the last week, I said

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 1>it with my chest and meant it because ain't nobody

0:34:57.440 --> 0:35:01.800
<v Speaker 1>got a lie. Doesn't matter how long you've known me,

0:35:02.200 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 1>what body changes, you see me go through, what obstacles

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:07.760
<v Speaker 1>I'd have been through.

0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 7>Maybe.

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got a lie, Craig. And on that note,

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:22.759
<v Speaker 1>let's get to this is America. Let's get into this

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 1>is America baby, which is at this point just embarrasson.

0:35:28.719 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Let's start with this Sandior ground case. John put us

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:38.399
<v Speaker 1>up to what's happening with this NAACP case, and I'm

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 1>ready to talk about it because I love a little

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Standiar ground case.

0:35:42.160 --> 0:35:47.400
<v Speaker 5>So back in twenty twenty five, there was a shooting

0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 5>where a teenage boy, young man whatever, allegedly pulled out

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 5>a shotgun, aimed it at a couple of some black

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:01.839
<v Speaker 5>people that were outside, and much like the other case

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 5>that we talked about, like black folks retaliated, they shot

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 5>back at the barbecue.

0:36:06.560 --> 0:36:08.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the white the marine around.

0:36:08.719 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 5>There's a similar situation where this guy comes along with

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 5>the gun. Black people feel threatened, they fired back at him.

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 5>They end up shooting him, killing him. Okay, two black

0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:21.359
<v Speaker 5>men are two I guess they were teenager at the time.

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:27.320
<v Speaker 5>Jamarian Byrd and Travis Roberts Junior were eventually arrested. This

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 5>is months after the incident, so they happened. Months went by,

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:34.280
<v Speaker 5>everything was whatever. Then they were arrested and got charged

0:36:34.320 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 5>with first.

0:36:34.800 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Degree murder by the way, only because you didn't say,

0:36:37.960 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's important to state that this took place

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 1>in Florida.

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:44.480
<v Speaker 5>This did take place in Jackville, Florida, where you know

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:47.759
<v Speaker 5>this is at that point. Florida is like the hotbed

0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:50.719
<v Speaker 5>of standing year ground. These cases that happened.

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:53.120
<v Speaker 2>With Trayvon Martin and all these other places like this

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 2>is always the case in Florida.

0:36:56.120 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>It was the conversation even with the uh the woman

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:00.959
<v Speaker 1>for the Netflix.

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 3>Shooter Lawrence, same thing. The the best neighbor. Yeah, something

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:08.200
<v Speaker 3>like that.

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:14.400
<v Speaker 5>The case, right, So these two brothers were charged with

0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 5>first degree murder, which already sounds crazy because first degree

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 5>murder is usually about premeditation. They were defending themselves in

0:37:21.800 --> 0:37:24.680
<v Speaker 5>real time, So how did they premeditate that somebody was

0:37:24.719 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 5>going to come put a gun on them and they

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 5>were gonna have to shoot back. So I don't understand

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:30.760
<v Speaker 5>that whole thing, but the judge in the case essentially

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:35.440
<v Speaker 5>said that you shot back too much, that they fired around,

0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:38.520
<v Speaker 5>that the guy started to run away because he was

0:37:38.560 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 5>getting shot at and they kept shooting. He was still

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:43.839
<v Speaker 5>holding his gun, so they probably thought, well, this guy

0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:45.640
<v Speaker 5>is still a threat. He just tried to shoot at us.

0:37:46.000 --> 0:37:48.520
<v Speaker 5>They kept shooting until they got it. And the judge

0:37:48.560 --> 0:37:52.600
<v Speaker 5>is basically saying that when he turned around and ran off,

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:55.880
<v Speaker 5>the incident was over and you were supposed to stop shooting.

0:37:56.280 --> 0:37:58.120
<v Speaker 5>And this is the thing that happened, that he was retreating.

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 5>He was retreating and so and this happens a lot

0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:03.959
<v Speaker 5>in cases where you're in the heat of the moment,

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 5>someone's trying to kill you and you shoot because you

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:08.360
<v Speaker 5>feel under threat.

0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:12.480
<v Speaker 1>While he's explaining this, can you pull up the case

0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:19.279
<v Speaker 1>that's still ongoing with the the convenience store who they

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:21.320
<v Speaker 1>came out and shot the guy that they thought.

0:38:21.239 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 3>So Richild there Richild case.

0:38:23.600 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, could you look that up because that's the I

0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>know him running away, right is what's happened.

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:31.680
<v Speaker 3>What's happening is right? Yes, they say that.

0:38:31.920 --> 0:38:35.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the guy who rich Child shot was leaving the inding.

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 5>Richild shot him in the back and rich Child with

0:38:38.320 --> 0:38:41.520
<v Speaker 5>no weapon, and rich Child got acquitted. He got quitted

0:38:42.000 --> 0:38:42.400
<v Speaker 5>because of.

0:38:42.560 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 3>Standing his ground. He was allegedly being attacked.

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:47.760
<v Speaker 1>So the na A CP got involved in this because

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:51.040
<v Speaker 1>they felt like the judges charges are just.

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:53.400
<v Speaker 3>Too harsh, yes, and that they're misapplying.

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:57.200
<v Speaker 5>They're picking and choosing how they apply stand your grounds,

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:00.759
<v Speaker 5>and it's like in this case you slide, and the

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:03.240
<v Speaker 5>other case with these black boys, you're not letting it slide.

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:05.319
<v Speaker 5>You're saying they were supposed to stop. And like there

0:39:05.400 --> 0:39:08.360
<v Speaker 5>was a case actually here with the very famous Atlantan

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:12.279
<v Speaker 5>Shakazulu had a case a few years ago, and I

0:39:12.480 --> 0:39:15.000
<v Speaker 5>when that case happened, I was watching the video and

0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 5>I was scared for him because I'm like it wayed

0:39:17.080 --> 0:39:19.720
<v Speaker 5>like it was gonna go back the way it happened

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:21.960
<v Speaker 5>was like, Okay, these guys tried to jump you.

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:23.360
<v Speaker 3>You were on the ground.

0:39:23.520 --> 0:39:26.640
<v Speaker 5>Security guard came and broke up the situation, and you

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:29.279
<v Speaker 5>got off the ground and shot And it was like,

0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 5>I was worried that of this exact thing.

0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 3>Now the incident is over, security guard has come down

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:36.839
<v Speaker 3>and stopped the confrontation. You shot the kid. Anyway, how

0:39:37.000 --> 0:39:38.600
<v Speaker 3>is the court going to look at that?

0:39:38.880 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 5>And apparently they're too you know that was in Georgia,

0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 5>but apparently the court doesn't have a unified way of

0:39:45.160 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 5>how to look at these cases because in some cases

0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:49.279
<v Speaker 5>they'll say, oh, no, this is perfectly fine.

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:52.080
<v Speaker 3>In some cases they'll say, no, you did too much.

0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:52.680
<v Speaker 3>You were supposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll be honest with you. As someone who

0:39:55.000 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 1>is like anti civilians with gun ownership, we've talked about

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:02.760
<v Speaker 1>this a lot. I think that's where it gets tricky

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:06.239
<v Speaker 1>for me because as a human being, you know how

0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 1>like when you go to the hospital, a doctor really

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 1>can't tell you. You can't tell your pain tolerance, the

0:40:13.040 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 1>pain level. It's one of those things. That's why tell

0:40:15.680 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 1>me your pain rt it from what It's the same

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:22.359
<v Speaker 1>conversation we had with the Carmelo Anthony case, where how

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.560
<v Speaker 1>can you tell someone their life wasn't in danger in

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:28.440
<v Speaker 1>the moment or what they felt like in terms of

0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:33.560
<v Speaker 1>defending their because some people could be more pussy than others.

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:35.799
<v Speaker 1>I really could have thought I was going to lose

0:40:35.840 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 1>and risk my life and that my life was in danger,

0:40:38.200 --> 0:40:42.759
<v Speaker 1>so I had to a gun. And unfortunately, when you

0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:47.640
<v Speaker 1>look at all of the details, the people, the prosecution,

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>the judge, the jury may not or US podcasters may

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:55.480
<v Speaker 1>not feel like you actually had to use a gun

0:40:55.880 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 1>or had to use a deadly force.

0:40:57.480 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 4>In this incident.

0:40:58.719 --> 0:41:01.680
<v Speaker 1>And so this is tricky because at least with this one,

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 1>the other person did still have a weapon. Like I said,

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 1>there's so many cases where in the convenience storecase, the

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 1>boy didn't even have a gun on him, right, it's

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know where do y'all stand with this?

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 5>Well, and digging into it, the the the burden of

0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:21.719
<v Speaker 5>proof in this case is on the prosecution. Prosecution has

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:25.720
<v Speaker 5>to prove that it was intentional and that this person

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:28.840
<v Speaker 5>was was was not acting in self defense and the

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 5>whole thing. So it gets dicey because now it's like, Okay,

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:34.520
<v Speaker 5>here are the facts of the case, quote unquote, and

0:41:35.200 --> 0:41:37.800
<v Speaker 5>they have to make a case as to why the

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 5>defense has to make a case as to why they

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:40.880
<v Speaker 5>did have to use the least man.

0:41:41.280 --> 0:41:42.960
<v Speaker 3>They argue the other side.

0:41:43.160 --> 0:41:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Listen, I'm arguing, I don't watch enough movies. The motherfuckers

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 1>could still shoot what they bet they can't like if

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>there's a if there's a gun, if you still are

0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:55.879
<v Speaker 1>holding onto a weapon, you accidentally are.

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Still and that's what the police would say, We're going

0:41:57.920 --> 0:42:00.359
<v Speaker 2>to stop turning around and then put and put it back.

0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 5>And when the police say, I feared for my life

0:42:02.640 --> 0:42:04.520
<v Speaker 5>A lot of times. You see it all the time

0:42:04.560 --> 0:42:06.520
<v Speaker 5>in these videos. You see the dash can video or

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.719
<v Speaker 5>the body can video. The person is running away and

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 5>they're saying, oh, he's holding a gun, holding a gun,

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 5>so I had to shoot him because who knows what

0:42:13.200 --> 0:42:15.560
<v Speaker 5>he was going to do next. Here, when they shot

0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:18.520
<v Speaker 5>Richard Brooks in the wind, he's parking lives for the

0:42:18.960 --> 0:42:19.279
<v Speaker 5>same thing.

0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:20.080
<v Speaker 3>He was running away.

0:42:20.239 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 5>Police said, oh, he was holding something, so I had

0:42:22.719 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 5>to shoot him. And so I was felt like my

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:27.360
<v Speaker 5>life was in danger because he was still holding a weapon.

0:42:28.120 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 2>How much case study is going to be involved now,

0:42:30.040 --> 0:42:32.880
<v Speaker 2>because usually these cases they have some kind of president

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:36.200
<v Speaker 2>precedent and reference points where they can go in well

0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 2>for the defense.

0:42:37.480 --> 0:42:43.000
<v Speaker 3>Particularly so it's Florida too, I just say, but it's Florida.

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:45.759
<v Speaker 2>Those people in Florida don't give no ships about this, right,

0:42:46.080 --> 0:42:47.560
<v Speaker 2>So of course they're going to go this was a.

0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:49.359
<v Speaker 1>White man that got shot. Yes, it is a white

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>man like because then then, unfortunately, especially with the state

0:42:54.239 --> 0:42:57.240
<v Speaker 1>of Florida is in our country, I think it becomes

0:42:57.640 --> 0:42:59.880
<v Speaker 1>a part of crime is a problem.

0:43:00.520 --> 0:43:02.320
<v Speaker 3>So they're gonna I think the judge did that to

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:04.120
<v Speaker 3>try to bleed the money of.

0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:07.759
<v Speaker 2>The defense now because it's what you said, a first

0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 2>degree murder, agree murder, which seems like an old child

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 2>and did the n double a CP go ahead and

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:14.759
<v Speaker 2>get them attorneys for year.

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 3>That's encouraging.

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's that's the first thing I bleed them.

0:43:22.360 --> 0:43:27.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, double A you get behind bars? Correct, Yeah,

0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:27.279
<v Speaker 3>they are.

0:43:27.480 --> 0:43:30.800
<v Speaker 5>They are fighting for you know, fairness in this situation.

0:43:30.920 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 5>We don't know how it's gonna turn out. I'm gonna

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.200
<v Speaker 5>be watching that right now really closely.

0:43:34.320 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 3>They their hands.

0:43:35.520 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about fairness. Uh, Jason, can you pull up

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:42.439
<v Speaker 1>the clip for this next conversation because this is where,

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:45.600
<v Speaker 1>by the way, me and a king love talking about

0:43:45.600 --> 0:43:47.880
<v Speaker 1>our experiences happened in these goddamn ubers.

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:50.800
<v Speaker 5>Okay I might be ignoran. I don't know if'na be

0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:54.280
<v Speaker 5>the ignorant one. Okay, I might be the ignorant.

0:43:55.200 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>We have four people, you will have to be the tiebreaker.

0:44:01.680 --> 0:44:03.759
<v Speaker 1>We want to know who's right and wrong. Here could

0:44:03.760 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you play this this video? Please?

0:44:06.200 --> 0:44:06.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:44:06.440 --> 0:44:09.919
<v Speaker 1>Here we go, fucking man like this ship is nicle

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:10.439
<v Speaker 1>talking about?

0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:11.000
<v Speaker 8>Don't cuss.

0:44:12.200 --> 0:44:14.719
<v Speaker 1>They told me to stop talking on the phone, so

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.200
<v Speaker 1>we can't even like. I am so silly and tired

0:44:17.239 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 1>of fucking men. Now I'm about to keep pushing to

0:44:21.280 --> 0:44:29.520
<v Speaker 1>make sure he's like, it's crazy.

0:44:29.760 --> 0:44:33.879
<v Speaker 3>We didn't do a black women.

0:44:34.719 --> 0:44:35.920
<v Speaker 9>You're supposed to protect us.

0:44:37.280 --> 0:44:41.360
<v Speaker 8>You're exactly, so you're supposed to protect black women.

0:44:42.800 --> 0:44:43.360
<v Speaker 3>Exactly.

0:44:45.800 --> 0:44:48.280
<v Speaker 2>You get in, you start cussing, and I said, ladies,

0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:53.719
<v Speaker 2>please language please women, and we're you can turn.

0:44:53.680 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Out cancel the grown women? Can you after you canceled

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:58.879
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not going to pay. You're not not getting

0:44:58.880 --> 0:45:01.240
<v Speaker 1>into it. Oh yeah, hold on, you're not even.

0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:01.680
<v Speaker 3>In a tesla.

0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:12.520
<v Speaker 1>He's driving the wrong car. No problem. So these women

0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 1>took to social media to share about their experience in

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:21.919
<v Speaker 1>this uper Clearly, y'all heard what happened. The Uber driver

0:45:22.360 --> 0:45:25.520
<v Speaker 1>respectfully asked them not to curse in their car, and

0:45:25.640 --> 0:45:29.160
<v Speaker 1>they turned it into misogyny and patriarchy. Baby, But want

0:45:29.200 --> 0:45:32.320
<v Speaker 1>to know y'all thoughts on this clearly not how they responded.

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:36.080
<v Speaker 1>We know the girls here are wrong. None.

0:45:36.400 --> 0:45:39.359
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, here we got fuck that nigga and his car.

0:45:40.440 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 3>Drive the car. Nigga, I pay you to drive the car.

0:45:42.680 --> 0:45:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Drive the car.

0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:45.360
<v Speaker 5>Just tell me where I gotta go. Like, I get it,

0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:47.880
<v Speaker 5>it's your personal vehicle. But you signed up to be

0:45:47.920 --> 0:45:48.560
<v Speaker 5>an Uber driver.

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 3>Just drive the car. What I'm talking about, Me and

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:53.360
<v Speaker 3>a conversation were in the backseat saying whatever we're.

0:45:53.200 --> 0:45:55.040
<v Speaker 5>Saying to each other, that's our business. All you got

0:45:55.160 --> 0:45:56.920
<v Speaker 5>to do is get us to our destination and get

0:45:56.960 --> 0:45:57.359
<v Speaker 5>your money.

0:45:57.600 --> 0:45:58.360
<v Speaker 3>Who the fuck is you?

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:02.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you say that when you walk to the front

0:46:02.280 --> 0:46:05.920
<v Speaker 1>door of an establishment and they present you a dress code,

0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:08.520
<v Speaker 1>they tell you you can't wear something because this is

0:46:08.600 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>their establishment. We are not.

0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:12.719
<v Speaker 4>I think this is more like I would compare this

0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:15.520
<v Speaker 4>more to like you renting your own hotel room and

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:16.840
<v Speaker 4>you could do whatever the fuck you want to do,

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:17.880
<v Speaker 4>And that's not what this.

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I disagree with that. I disagree with if you're like

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:25.120
<v Speaker 1>maybe because none of us are ubers when people come

0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:27.480
<v Speaker 1>into our vehicles. I remember when I had a car.

0:46:27.840 --> 0:46:30.839
<v Speaker 1>If my friends got into my car, even though I'm driving, baby,

0:46:30.880 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>you can't eating my ship. You're not gonna smoke cigarettes

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:36.360
<v Speaker 1>in my car. This is my car and you're driving

0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:36.880
<v Speaker 1>around in.

0:46:36.920 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 4>It, right, because you're preventing But in that case, you're

0:46:39.239 --> 0:46:40.680
<v Speaker 4>trying to prevent damage to your car.

0:46:40.719 --> 0:46:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Correct, But also okay, okay, okay.

0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:49.879
<v Speaker 4>In your instance, you're you're trying to prevent damage. He's

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 4>trying to police behavior.

0:46:51.239 --> 0:46:55.320
<v Speaker 3>Like yeah, I'm not with you, yeah, yeah, yeah, like

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:56.800
<v Speaker 3>if you like, if you if you're.

0:46:57.280 --> 0:47:01.200
<v Speaker 5>A super hype and you don't want to be around

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:03.400
<v Speaker 5>vulgar language or whatever, put in your air pods and

0:47:03.480 --> 0:47:04.400
<v Speaker 5>listen to Kirk Franklins.

0:47:04.440 --> 0:47:06.839
<v Speaker 3>We get the fuck out the car, but don't talk

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:08.640
<v Speaker 3>to me about what I'm saying back. You can say

0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:10.359
<v Speaker 3>whatever the fun. I'm not cursing at you now.

0:47:10.400 --> 0:47:14.000
<v Speaker 5>If I was abusing the driver again, by all means, okay, yeah,

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:15.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't curse at me, don't you know whatever. But

0:47:16.040 --> 0:47:18.120
<v Speaker 5>I'm talking to my friend in the backseat, and I

0:47:18.200 --> 0:47:21.239
<v Speaker 5>said fuck and you're like a language please, who are

0:47:21.320 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 5>you nigga?

0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 2>Like sound like they say way more thing then.

0:47:29.520 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Talk about sucking dick and eating ass. But if my

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, I dont no. But if my Uber driver

0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:41.320
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, respectfully, can you not have that conversation

0:47:41.440 --> 0:47:44.000
<v Speaker 1>in my car, I don't think I'm gonna over it,

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:47.240
<v Speaker 1>like understood. I hold the conversation till I get.

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:50.480
<v Speaker 3>Out my only see look.

0:47:50.360 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 1>At y'all, y'all don't want I don't think.

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:55.879
<v Speaker 3>I don't think the Uber drivers and you don't want

0:47:55.880 --> 0:47:58.000
<v Speaker 3>to respect them, I don't think that. I don't. It's

0:47:58.040 --> 0:47:58.640
<v Speaker 3>not his space.

0:47:58.719 --> 0:47:59.720
<v Speaker 4>They're literally renting.

0:48:00.000 --> 0:48:04.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, service is a car ride, but you're

0:48:04.920 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 1>still in somebody when you go and eat it somebody's restaurant,

0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:08.840
<v Speaker 1>it's their restaurant.

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 4>Yes, a restaurant is a public space. That's like a bus.

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:15.719
<v Speaker 4>That's like comparing a bus to a private car. To me,

0:48:15.800 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 4>it's different like the exchanges. They've rented out the space.

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:20.799
<v Speaker 4>They could say whatever they want as long as they're

0:48:20.800 --> 0:48:23.520
<v Speaker 4>not damaging his vehicle. The confines of that car is

0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:25.319
<v Speaker 4>their space for the ride. If they want to curse,

0:48:25.520 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 4>if they want to take a phone call. If they

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:29.279
<v Speaker 4>just want to be quiet, it's all them.

0:48:29.600 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 3>But see, the thing is right, so one I'm giving

0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:34.440
<v Speaker 3>them one star.

0:48:34.520 --> 0:48:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Because for these bitches bumbell, I'm.

0:48:40.719 --> 0:48:43.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm not giving them No, I'm not giving them bum

0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:44.800
<v Speaker 2>bail because at the end of the day, you know,

0:48:44.880 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 2>what's that question here?

0:48:46.320 --> 0:48:50.919
<v Speaker 3>What decency? Yes, that's it. Nobody the ober driver.

0:48:51.040 --> 0:48:53.759
<v Speaker 2>No ober driver is supposed to police anything, right, They're

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:55.440
<v Speaker 2>just supposed to get you to your destination safely.

0:48:55.600 --> 0:48:55.880
<v Speaker 3>That's it.

0:48:56.120 --> 0:49:00.560
<v Speaker 2>However, it's still which is not in the print or

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:01.360
<v Speaker 2>the term of condition.

0:49:01.520 --> 0:49:04.840
<v Speaker 3>This is just a moral value. Why you got to

0:49:04.880 --> 0:49:08.360
<v Speaker 3>do all of that? Calling Aaron kemp.

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Care curse in public all the time you go anywhere

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:19.920
<v Speaker 2>at the Hawks game.

0:49:20.440 --> 0:49:27.600
<v Speaker 3>Whatever the elders I have, would you vehement for all

0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:29.759
<v Speaker 3>kinds of sons of bitches in front of an elder.

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 5>If I'm looking at an old woman, I'm not gonna

0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:34.839
<v Speaker 5>say anything. You would say, oh my bad, I'm sorry.

0:49:34.920 --> 0:49:37.480
<v Speaker 5>Let me carry myself because of decency. If we're in public,

0:49:37.800 --> 0:49:41.000
<v Speaker 5>I'm just talking and anyone who's around me hearing me talk,

0:49:41.080 --> 0:49:42.439
<v Speaker 5>can hear the words I say?

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:44.319
<v Speaker 3>Get away?

0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 1>We take when we take ubers. We asked them to

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.680
<v Speaker 1>turn down the radio. I ask scuber drivers, hey, can

0:49:51.719 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 1>you get off the phone?

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:55.000
<v Speaker 3>Like yeah, because I'm the boss now. But there's an

0:49:55.000 --> 0:49:58.640
<v Speaker 3>exchange of because you want decency. So this to me,

0:49:58.960 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 3>and I know those girls on right cursive go ahead?

0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you're right.

0:50:03.280 --> 0:50:05.920
<v Speaker 3>They don't they're talking. They don't know how to express

0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:07.760
<v Speaker 3>motherfucking bitchy.

0:50:09.040 --> 0:50:11.400
<v Speaker 4>That behavior was if you're if you're if you're in

0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:13.359
<v Speaker 4>an uber and you say can you turn that down?

0:50:13.480 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 4>And they say no, this is my car, my space.

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:19.040
<v Speaker 4>Are you gonna Are you gonna knock them on their stars?

0:50:20.320 --> 0:50:21.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm knocking their stars down.

0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:28.880
<v Speaker 3>Most likely they won't do that though, No, Mandy.

0:50:29.000 --> 0:50:30.720
<v Speaker 4>So for you, when you get in an uber, who

0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:33.440
<v Speaker 4>ultimately who's in charge? Because you said earlier the customer

0:50:33.520 --> 0:50:35.160
<v Speaker 4>is right, So if you're in the uber, who's in

0:50:35.239 --> 0:50:36.200
<v Speaker 4>charge you or the driver?

0:50:36.680 --> 0:50:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I think there's an equal balance of an exchange.

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:39.840
<v Speaker 7>No you.

0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:46.200
<v Speaker 3>Even it changed these nuts. Let me tell you.

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:48.960
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you this the same way. I'll be

0:50:49.120 --> 0:50:51.840
<v Speaker 1>tricky on who the hell is out here owning guns.

0:50:52.200 --> 0:50:56.200
<v Speaker 1>What I'm not gonna do is get snippy with someone

0:50:56.200 --> 0:50:58.400
<v Speaker 1>who has my life in their hands. When someone is

0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:02.399
<v Speaker 1>behind goddamn will to be very clear, they run ship,

0:51:02.719 --> 0:51:05.759
<v Speaker 1>they could speed up, they could fucking crash this bitch.

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:06.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:51:06.760 --> 0:51:09.240
<v Speaker 1>And honestly, the way I'll be talking to these super drivers,

0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:12.520
<v Speaker 1>their lives be hard. Man went through the lives being hard.

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sitting here trying to have any sort of

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:18.279
<v Speaker 1>turmoil or chaos with someone who has my life in

0:51:18.320 --> 0:51:19.480
<v Speaker 1>their hands. Are we kidding me?

0:51:19.800 --> 0:51:19.840
<v Speaker 4>Like?

0:51:19.920 --> 0:51:21.799
<v Speaker 5>Hello, Well, if their life is so hard, they should

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 5>do themselves a favorite and make it easy and shut

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:24.879
<v Speaker 5>the fuck up and drive the car.

0:51:25.360 --> 0:51:28.239
<v Speaker 3>Well, way is not hard. No more to do his drive,

0:51:28.560 --> 0:51:30.239
<v Speaker 3>but you got to do nothing else. Just drive the

0:51:30.360 --> 0:51:32.560
<v Speaker 3>car and shut the fuck up and everything can be okay.

0:51:32.880 --> 0:51:35.560
<v Speaker 3>He'd be saying the Uber driver was being respectful. He wasn't.

0:51:35.719 --> 0:51:38.600
<v Speaker 2>He wasn't full, and they had they took note of it,

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:41.200
<v Speaker 2>not trying to do all that lie.

0:51:42.760 --> 0:51:43.160
<v Speaker 3>Decency.

0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:45.120
<v Speaker 2>I know he shouldn't plea It shouldn't have got to

0:51:45.160 --> 0:51:47.880
<v Speaker 2>that point. They should have been the I'm assuming the

0:51:47.960 --> 0:51:48.759
<v Speaker 2>adults right though.

0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what if he started, we don't even by the way,

0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 4>we don't know how he started. He could have said, ladies,

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:55.280
<v Speaker 4>watch your tone. He could have used all the triggering

0:51:55.400 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 4>language of ladies or watch that he could have said, ladies,

0:51:58.600 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 4>let's be respectful of yourself.

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:01.600
<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't.

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:04.680
<v Speaker 2>I do believe they didn't do that because you heard

0:52:05.000 --> 0:52:06.680
<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to protect us a black woman.

0:52:06.760 --> 0:52:09.240
<v Speaker 3>You heard that, right? Yeah, he sounds like Israel nigga.

0:52:09.680 --> 0:52:10.000
<v Speaker 1>The girl.

0:52:10.239 --> 0:52:12.720
<v Speaker 3>The girl said that, the girl, but he's he sounds

0:52:12.760 --> 0:52:14.720
<v Speaker 3>like one of the niggas that be like now, black queens,

0:52:14.800 --> 0:52:18.320
<v Speaker 3>y'all are supposed to be. Y'all was supposed to be classy,

0:52:18.440 --> 0:52:23.960
<v Speaker 3>young ladies. You're not acting like a class class her

0:52:24.000 --> 0:52:25.239
<v Speaker 3>whole big shut up?

0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Then?

0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:25.600
<v Speaker 3>What?

0:52:25.880 --> 0:52:26.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay?

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:28.440
<v Speaker 3>So wait a second, everybody get it one story.

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Let's both he.

0:52:32.520 --> 0:52:33.480
<v Speaker 3>Who is right here?

0:52:34.000 --> 0:52:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Is it the passenger or the driver?

0:52:36.840 --> 0:52:37.000
<v Speaker 2>King?

0:52:37.120 --> 0:52:39.239
<v Speaker 1>I think the who's right here?

0:52:39.360 --> 0:52:39.960
<v Speaker 3>Who's right?

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:41.799
<v Speaker 1>Who's right? Who's in the right?

0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:42.759
<v Speaker 3>They're both in the right.

0:52:43.200 --> 0:52:43.959
<v Speaker 1>Who's in the wrong.

0:52:46.840 --> 0:52:49.160
<v Speaker 3>That's what I see what you did? We girls are wrong,

0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:52.120
<v Speaker 3>the girl. Girls are wrong for not being Who's wrong?

0:52:52.480 --> 0:52:54.040
<v Speaker 3>The driver? Uh?

0:52:54.680 --> 0:52:58.239
<v Speaker 1>Jason, who's wrong? The driver? I say, the girls are wrong?

0:52:58.360 --> 0:53:03.759
<v Speaker 1>D We're coming to you, damn the driver was? I

0:53:03.800 --> 0:53:05.120
<v Speaker 1>need to know what the discord, y'all?

0:53:05.640 --> 0:53:08.320
<v Speaker 2>I think they tell you why This is triggering for

0:53:08.400 --> 0:53:10.759
<v Speaker 2>them because they all did that ships.

0:53:12.880 --> 0:53:15.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm actually gonna take triggering because it didn't happen to me.

0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:18.279
<v Speaker 3>There was a case. This was last year, I think

0:53:18.719 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 3>in Atlanta, of course where there was it was this time.

0:53:21.640 --> 0:53:25.560
<v Speaker 5>It was two black women talking about So. The woman

0:53:25.600 --> 0:53:27.919
<v Speaker 5>got picked up from the airport. She had long days,

0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:30.560
<v Speaker 5>fucked up whatever. She had her window cracked or something

0:53:30.600 --> 0:53:32.040
<v Speaker 5>like that. Oh no, no, she wanted the air on.

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:32.600
<v Speaker 3>That's what it was.

0:53:32.680 --> 0:53:35.880
<v Speaker 5>The driver had the window cracked. It's fucking July in Atlanta.

0:53:36.080 --> 0:53:39.239
<v Speaker 5>It's hot as ship. The passenger asked the driver, Hey,

0:53:39.280 --> 0:53:43.320
<v Speaker 5>can you roll the window up? No me, No, like

0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:46.239
<v Speaker 5>it's hot in here. I just want to get some air. No,

0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 5>because something about I don't know if she was trying

0:53:48.640 --> 0:53:50.919
<v Speaker 5>to prevent a smell or air out.

0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 3>Of car, whatever it was, she said no.

0:53:53.239 --> 0:53:57.720
<v Speaker 5>So they get into a beef and the driver stops

0:53:57.800 --> 0:54:00.400
<v Speaker 5>the car like on the exit, like on a highway,

0:54:00.600 --> 0:54:01.160
<v Speaker 5>pulls over.

0:54:01.400 --> 0:54:02.839
<v Speaker 3>Was like, yeah, this is over, get out of my car.

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:06.040
<v Speaker 2>And people in the comment section with saying exactly what

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:08.040
<v Speaker 2>you're saying, include to some of my homegirls, It's.

0:54:07.920 --> 0:54:09.879
<v Speaker 3>Like that's their car. They can do. You can't tell

0:54:10.000 --> 0:54:12.200
<v Speaker 3>nobody how to run their car. No, you're an uber driver.

0:54:12.280 --> 0:54:13.719
<v Speaker 3>It is your car. But you're an Uber drive.

0:54:13.760 --> 0:54:15.520
<v Speaker 5>You're not gonna put me out on the side of

0:54:15.600 --> 0:54:18.120
<v Speaker 5>the highway because I'm asking you to do something that.

0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got a car to uber drive, cause nigga,

0:54:20.920 --> 0:54:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you're getting out my ship. I'm ending this ride right

0:54:24.120 --> 0:54:28.040
<v Speaker 1>the fuck now. But you ship the same way. If

0:54:28.080 --> 0:54:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I feel disrespected in my house, I'm gonna kick you out.

0:54:30.560 --> 0:54:33.520
<v Speaker 1>If I feel disrespected and what is mine? You do

0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:36.360
<v Speaker 1>not get to disrespect people, and they ship and so

0:54:37.000 --> 0:54:39.600
<v Speaker 1>the same way when it comes to like, like, bro,

0:54:39.800 --> 0:54:44.759
<v Speaker 1>what I be seeing right now and on on, Uh yeah,

0:54:44.840 --> 0:54:48.120
<v Speaker 1>my algorithm is all over the goddamn But there's like

0:54:48.680 --> 0:54:54.080
<v Speaker 1>right now, these y ns fucked up this airbnb like tragic,

0:54:54.760 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>and people are like, well that you better have insurance

0:54:57.680 --> 0:54:59.640
<v Speaker 1>because you're right yourse, Like there's the.

0:54:59.680 --> 0:55:00.279
<v Speaker 3>Wast a whole.

0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:05.280
<v Speaker 1>There's a way that we as people over decency. Decency

0:55:05.400 --> 0:55:08.239
<v Speaker 1>is so important that you don't get to be indecent

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:12.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're in the private also space of someone else.

0:55:12.800 --> 0:55:16.080
<v Speaker 1>So I think back to Jason's uh state this, these

0:55:16.200 --> 0:55:19.360
<v Speaker 1>aren't public spaces with rules, These are private spaces. And

0:55:19.440 --> 0:55:22.440
<v Speaker 1>what do private companies and private schools all get to

0:55:22.480 --> 0:55:24.880
<v Speaker 1>do whatever the fuck they want to do. So, nigga,

0:55:24.920 --> 0:55:27.400
<v Speaker 1>get the fuck out my car. If you don't have

0:55:27.600 --> 0:55:30.880
<v Speaker 1>the decency to respect me in my ship, you here

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:33.239
<v Speaker 1>your luggage, You get the fuck out. You got me

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:33.839
<v Speaker 1>fucked up.

0:55:36.000 --> 0:55:39.040
<v Speaker 4>This clip, y'all talking about the Santists and y'all talking

0:55:39.040 --> 0:55:40.960
<v Speaker 4>about jd Vance and put it together.

0:55:43.400 --> 0:55:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Would fully Agreegan, would fully agree this topic.

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:51.200
<v Speaker 1>We're going to the next one.

0:55:51.440 --> 0:55:56.279
<v Speaker 2>I ain't taking jobbers. You don't put me in a way.

0:55:58.400 --> 0:55:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Problem.

0:55:58.719 --> 0:56:00.920
<v Speaker 5>We don't have a fucking robot having us around run

0:56:01.160 --> 0:56:03.160
<v Speaker 5>off the road about the ship.

0:56:04.160 --> 0:56:06.760
<v Speaker 1>All right, So this one we do have a clip, Jason,

0:56:07.880 --> 0:56:09.719
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk. Oh, this is gonna be fun too,

0:56:09.960 --> 0:56:13.360
<v Speaker 1>because this leads into moral standards and people wanted to

0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:15.000
<v Speaker 1>go with they are not welcome.

0:56:15.000 --> 0:56:17.439
<v Speaker 3>Welcome out. That's how I fliped. Now, that's how flip.

0:56:17.560 --> 0:56:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:56:20.040 --> 0:56:24.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm glad we did these back to back. I can't wait.

0:56:25.520 --> 0:56:29.520
<v Speaker 1>You can play the clip for this one. The Turkish

0:56:29.600 --> 0:56:33.799
<v Speaker 1>government band travelers from jocking because of quote moral standards.

0:56:34.200 --> 0:56:37.040
<v Speaker 3>At least a thousand Americans are on board, including passengers

0:56:37.080 --> 0:56:38.120
<v Speaker 3>from South Florida.

0:56:38.120 --> 0:56:41.400
<v Speaker 8>Thomas Barker is from Miami. The ten day trip was

0:56:41.480 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 8>a gift to him from his husband, And so.

0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:46.839
<v Speaker 10>There are thousands of men who come to the ship

0:56:46.960 --> 0:56:49.960
<v Speaker 10>to celebrate UH and to feel free to be who

0:56:50.000 --> 0:56:53.640
<v Speaker 10>we are without any fear of homophobia, or to be

0:56:53.719 --> 0:56:55.440
<v Speaker 10>able to be ourselves in that public space.

0:56:55.680 --> 0:56:58.640
<v Speaker 8>But that freedom of expression was challenged when the ship

0:56:58.760 --> 0:57:02.640
<v Speaker 8>tried docking in Turkey. The government unexpectedly denied the ship

0:57:02.840 --> 0:57:06.920
<v Speaker 8>entry because of what they call moral standards. Authorities posted

0:57:07.000 --> 0:57:10.640
<v Speaker 8>this online translated in English, it says, a cruise ship

0:57:10.800 --> 0:57:13.040
<v Speaker 8>chartered by a group known for behavior that does not

0:57:13.160 --> 0:57:15.720
<v Speaker 8>align with the values and moral standards of our society

0:57:16.120 --> 0:57:19.360
<v Speaker 8>and that had generated significant concern among various segments of

0:57:19.400 --> 0:57:22.720
<v Speaker 8>the public, has been canceled. It is absolutely out of

0:57:22.800 --> 0:57:25.200
<v Speaker 8>the question that this group will come to our province

0:57:25.280 --> 0:57:26.040
<v Speaker 8>for such an event.

0:57:26.320 --> 0:57:27.200
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think what's.

0:57:27.080 --> 0:57:28.960
<v Speaker 10>Really disappointing is that we spend a lot of our

0:57:29.040 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 10>times is gay people really trying to find safe spaces,

0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:35.000
<v Speaker 10>and going on this cruise spaces about as safe as

0:57:35.040 --> 0:57:37.800
<v Speaker 10>it's supposed to get, right, And we were excited to

0:57:38.320 --> 0:57:42.160
<v Speaker 10>go to new places and potentially experience that safe space

0:57:42.280 --> 0:57:44.400
<v Speaker 10>in places like Turkey and in Egypt, where it is

0:57:44.760 --> 0:57:47.560
<v Speaker 10>obviously very difficult to be a gay person in those countries.

0:57:47.800 --> 0:57:50.360
<v Speaker 8>The cruise who has been rerouted to Egypt, but at

0:57:50.400 --> 0:57:54.160
<v Speaker 8>the last minute the port was also canceled without any explanation.

0:57:54.480 --> 0:57:56.520
<v Speaker 10>We thought that it would be a great opportunity for

0:57:56.600 --> 0:58:01.320
<v Speaker 10>those people in those countries, also experiences in the rest

0:58:01.360 --> 0:58:04.160
<v Speaker 10>of the world where people can be free and be celebrated.

0:58:03.760 --> 0:58:04.240
<v Speaker 3>For who they are.

0:58:04.480 --> 0:58:07.400
<v Speaker 8>In a statement, Atlantis Events said in part, they hope

0:58:07.440 --> 0:58:10.200
<v Speaker 8>this is an isolated incident and to return in the future.

0:58:10.560 --> 0:58:13.320
<v Speaker 8>They also hope Egypt and Turkey will welcome all guests

0:58:13.400 --> 0:58:15.040
<v Speaker 8>without conditions, all prejudiced.

0:58:15.160 --> 0:58:18.520
<v Speaker 10>I think it's definitely sort of taking a bit of

0:58:18.560 --> 0:58:21.200
<v Speaker 10>a magic away if you can, if I can explain

0:58:21.240 --> 0:58:23.600
<v Speaker 10>it in that way, because it started off with such

0:58:23.640 --> 0:58:25.760
<v Speaker 10>a high and everyone being so excited to be together

0:58:25.800 --> 0:58:26.400
<v Speaker 10>and see people.

0:58:28.080 --> 0:58:31.840
<v Speaker 3>Nope, so look, I love it. Go ahead.

0:58:32.520 --> 0:58:35.680
<v Speaker 2>Look, I haven't been to Saudi Arabia. I would love to,

0:58:36.120 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 2>but I know that there's certain things you cannot do.

0:58:38.400 --> 0:58:42.080
<v Speaker 2>It's not acceptable. So weed, for instance, you can't get

0:58:42.120 --> 0:58:45.960
<v Speaker 2>caught with weed out there. You can yeah, a year minimum, right,

0:58:46.360 --> 0:58:48.800
<v Speaker 2>they know they try to move the gold they try

0:58:48.800 --> 0:58:51.440
<v Speaker 2>to move. Well, yes, so they try to move the

0:58:51.520 --> 0:58:54.360
<v Speaker 2>gold post and try to do reform in real time.

0:58:54.760 --> 0:58:57.280
<v Speaker 2>My question is how did they know. Did they have

0:58:57.320 --> 0:58:58.840
<v Speaker 2>a manifest and said, okay, what.

0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Does the LGBT cube boy like the right was getting so.

0:59:02.880 --> 0:59:05.040
<v Speaker 2>So they thought that they was going to do some

0:59:05.240 --> 0:59:07.800
<v Speaker 2>activism with a whole country that's been doing this shit

0:59:07.880 --> 0:59:10.040
<v Speaker 2>for forever since the inception of the decade, since the

0:59:10.120 --> 0:59:11.640
<v Speaker 2>inception of with the other country.

0:59:12.360 --> 0:59:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you remember, especially with the World

0:59:14.400 --> 0:59:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Cup ending. So the last World Cup took place in

0:59:18.160 --> 0:59:21.960
<v Speaker 1>cutter and there was a whole conversation about this because

0:59:22.320 --> 0:59:26.160
<v Speaker 1>they were refusing people to wear rainbow flag in lgbt

0:59:26.400 --> 0:59:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Qia because of course.

0:59:27.560 --> 0:59:28.960
<v Speaker 3>Pride is not sat.

0:59:31.560 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 1>And this is the ignorance of Americans to believe that

0:59:35.200 --> 0:59:38.240
<v Speaker 1>they can just go into these other countries and be

0:59:38.480 --> 0:59:40.600
<v Speaker 1>full American in these countries that don't allow. It's the

0:59:40.600 --> 0:59:43.400
<v Speaker 1>same conversation we had about Brittany Grehner. Baby, you can't

0:59:43.480 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>just be having bape pins brought into other countries when

0:59:46.840 --> 0:59:50.960
<v Speaker 1>there's rules against fucking bapes or THHC. Or the same

0:59:51.000 --> 0:59:55.440
<v Speaker 1>way our sexuality is kind of even, uh, you know,

0:59:55.840 --> 0:59:59.960
<v Speaker 1>kind of dictated here. It's ten twenty thirty times more.

1:00:00.120 --> 1:00:02.800
<v Speaker 1>In these other countries, you cannot be openly gay. When

1:00:02.800 --> 1:00:06.479
<v Speaker 1>I went to uh I went to to cutter maybe

1:00:06.600 --> 1:00:11.200
<v Speaker 1>like fifteen years ago with one of my partners, and

1:00:11.680 --> 1:00:14.400
<v Speaker 1>he literally had to pay the front desk because we

1:00:14.520 --> 1:00:17.480
<v Speaker 1>were not married. We couldn't stay in the same room together.

1:00:17.800 --> 1:00:20.120
<v Speaker 1>When we went out to the clubs, we couldn't dance

1:00:20.200 --> 1:00:22.760
<v Speaker 1>on each other. There was a respect that we had

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<v Speaker 1>to adhere to in another country, because that's how the fuck.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not respect. Your niggas ain't want to go

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<v Speaker 3>to jail how long.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not respect respect, But respect is not under the

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<v Speaker 2>threat of fucking persecution, death or imprisonment.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not respect. That's just a nigga.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to die here, so I'm gonna keep

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<v Speaker 5>my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time too, hearing him talk, Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know that Turkey and Egypt are both anti

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<v Speaker 1>gay essentially, right, you do it? Why the fuck do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go parade yourself not gonna welcome you.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on, they didn't do anything the cruise. They don't

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<v Speaker 5>dictate where the cruise go.

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<v Speaker 3>They get on the cruise knowing where the cruise is

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<v Speaker 3>going sure, but the cruise ship knows that too.

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<v Speaker 5>So if the cruise ship knows, hey, we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 5>this cruise, we're gonna invite folks on there, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 5>go to these places.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, why did you take them there?

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<v Speaker 5>If it was gonna be a big deal B To me,

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<v Speaker 5>it suggests that this cruise ship has probably been there

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<v Speaker 5>before and done the same thing before. Now all of

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<v Speaker 5>a sudden, it's a problem. See, these are just gay

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<v Speaker 5>people all within these countries. And so what is Turkey

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<v Speaker 5>in Egypt saying, oh, because we can tell that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you can tell this is a

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<v Speaker 3>gay cruise, but we can tell.

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<v Speaker 1>This, so probably like that. I do want to add

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<v Speaker 1>that this particular cruise has successfully docked LGBTQ cruises in

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<v Speaker 1>Istanbul thirteen times. Yeah, twenty five years.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I figured. Okay, just like with our country.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, you know what happens. New people get in fucking seats,

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<v Speaker 1>New people get in control, New people come in and

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<v Speaker 1>say what's gonna happen and what ain't gona happen. Look

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<v Speaker 1>at all the things that we had to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>with FIFA coming like coming into America, this year, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, No, But the difference is nobody here thought that

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<v Speaker 5>that shit made any sense. Nobody here thought, oh, we're

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<v Speaker 5>at war were Iran? So ye had Iranian shit fly

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<v Speaker 5>to Mexico and then fly back to Seattle every game.

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<v Speaker 5>Nobody here was like, oh, these people aren't allowed in

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<v Speaker 5>here because we have this beef, and of course we

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<v Speaker 5>can't because we're American, and that's what we say. No,

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<v Speaker 5>we said, everyone said that's some fuck shit. Why y'all

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<v Speaker 5>fucking with these people? And that's what I'm saying about here.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone, well, very clear. Everyone did not say.

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<v Speaker 5>People with good sense, people will get in politics, said

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<v Speaker 5>that this is fucked up, while y'all doing these people

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<v Speaker 5>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the same thing here. I get that these.

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<v Speaker 5>Countries don't fuck with homosexuality or anything like that, but

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<v Speaker 5>this idea that they're picking and choosing, Oh this this

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<v Speaker 5>ship is pink.

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<v Speaker 3>We must be some gay people on that ship. We're

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna let me do this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>This makes me think of like a black person going

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<v Speaker 1>to Argentina and then coming back complaining that he was

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<v Speaker 1>treated with racism or that he was discriminated against. Hebe

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<v Speaker 1>you took your ass to Argentina.

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<v Speaker 3>And like, I'm kind of black though.

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<v Speaker 5>If I go to a bar in America in the

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<v Speaker 5>wrong red neck ass town and I walk in there

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<v Speaker 5>and there and everybody's looking at me, like what are

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<v Speaker 5>you doing here?

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<v Speaker 3>Boy, I'm gonna order more drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I'm gonna see that was gonna Now it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be a party at olck in a sundowntown

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<v Speaker 2>Nigga you walking around, I know, but a but but

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<v Speaker 2>I order you know, white right there, right there, this

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<v Speaker 2>is I'm ordering. I'm ordering South. He wouldn't do something.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we're ordering ordering.

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<v Speaker 5>We're ordering michelob light for everybody in this bitch. Now, now,

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<v Speaker 5>let me let me ask you. Let me ask you

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<v Speaker 5>not running me out.

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<v Speaker 1>Of enough, Jason, as the resident Latina here, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do femino and mascolino.

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<v Speaker 3>And masculino as.

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<v Speaker 4>You do.

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<v Speaker 1>You and your community had these conversations about where you're

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<v Speaker 1>accepted or not accepted, Like, are these conversations to that

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<v Speaker 1>that you have with your peers?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, last time I hit the group text, I was

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<v Speaker 4>talking to them about this conversation. No, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 4>think to Job's point, like he's saying it kind of correctly,

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<v Speaker 4>like you have a sense of where you're welcome and

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<v Speaker 4>not welcome, and some people like to challenge that, right

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<v Speaker 4>and so you might get your uber driver saying, sir,

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<v Speaker 4>stop using that language.

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<v Speaker 9>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's it's it's that case.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you brought up the point about like they've

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<v Speaker 4>successfully done this before in the past, but the seats

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<v Speaker 4>have changed, because that's really the thing that's been initiating

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<v Speaker 4>this is the seats have changed. So it's like the

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<v Speaker 4>community can kind of feel a certain way. But I

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<v Speaker 4>actually feel like it's a theme throughout this episode, like

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<v Speaker 4>with the Muslim in the air line, with the standard ground.

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<v Speaker 4>With this, there's there's other there's other people who are

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<v Speaker 4>dictating towards us, our behavior and what's acceptable, and they're

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<v Speaker 4>deciding subjectively what's okay for us or not.

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<v Speaker 5>But the thing I guess I have a question about

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<v Speaker 5>is even with the seats thing, right, like, it ain't

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<v Speaker 5>like Egypt or Turkey has ever been run by the

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<v Speaker 5>fucking Democratic Socialists of America.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, sometimes there's hardliners, right Like, sometimes there's

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<v Speaker 4>like more traditionalists, like Muslim hardliners who they'll follow it

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<v Speaker 4>to the t by the Quran. And then sometimes there's

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<v Speaker 4>other people who it's less like based on religion and

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<v Speaker 4>more based on like power. Right, so like right now

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<v Speaker 4>there's just a group of people on power who are

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<v Speaker 4>like hardline religious sect and what they say is like,

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<v Speaker 4>this is how the book goes, and it's that it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Giving that they have a closeted Eisenhower running the show

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<v Speaker 5>over there, and they've decided they've decided to have a

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<v Speaker 5>lavender scare in Turkey in Egypt because now all of

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<v Speaker 5>a sudden, well they don't want to be outed for

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<v Speaker 5>their bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, they're probably aligned with that ideology, the mega megaology,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>So, oh yeah, Magga is definitely global. I think people

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<v Speaker 5>should start to understand that too. Like this idea what's

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<v Speaker 5>going on here is not limited to America. There's lots

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<v Speaker 5>of other world leaders who feel.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly Turky is a part of that. It's like Turkey, Italy, Yeah, Italy,

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<v Speaker 4>like the populace, right, the populace who are.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, there's there's certain countries within the African continent.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you can look it up. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you Ganda, is one of them. But there's certain

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<v Speaker 1>countries that also will kill you if you are gay.

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot be open about it. There's like you will

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<v Speaker 1>be imprisoned. I think, if I'm not mistaken, Ghana was

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<v Speaker 1>one of those as well. Ended up looking into that.

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<v Speaker 1>When we were in Ghana, like, bitch, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>we could be dancing on each other out here, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>we ain't fing to go to jail because they might

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<v Speaker 1>think were bumping coucies.

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<v Speaker 4>So like the Cameroon, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think Lgeria might even be on that as well, where

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<v Speaker 5>it's like, yeah, you know what, it's going to be

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<v Speaker 5>a problem out here.

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<v Speaker 1>And so to me, yes, I mean, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>we've luckily been a part of a country that only

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<v Speaker 1>also by certain states, allow.

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<v Speaker 3>You to be did right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even a federally mid rated acceptance here in

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<v Speaker 1>this country. So you know, the same way some states

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be able to get abortions, some not. Some

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be able to get married as a gay person,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not. When you travel abroad, you can't think that

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<v Speaker 1>all of your beliefs in the way that you exist

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be accepted. It's just literally the American

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<v Speaker 1>ignorant way of fucking thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do you get I guess what it is for me.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm never going like, if there's a situation like that

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<v Speaker 5>where there is like, Okay, this is how they get down,

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<v Speaker 5>this is how we get down.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm never going to.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, I'm not wanting to really capitulate to the wrong

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<v Speaker 5>side of it. I don't care if that's your morals,

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<v Speaker 5>in your standards, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're wrong, you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>And so that's what probably makes me ignorant because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>trying to fuck up your shit. Yes, oh I I'm

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<v Speaker 5>trying to make a scene of your bullshit standard, of

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<v Speaker 5>your bullshit rules.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Now fuck that. Take me back to twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty sixteen, when I was a solid two twenty. The

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<v Speaker 1>meatpacking district, the white clubs, the upscale places in New

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<v Speaker 1>York did not welcome me. I was charged at the door.

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<v Speaker 1>Same for LA. There's certain places that as a black

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<v Speaker 1>woman of a certain size, I was not welcome into spaces.

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<v Speaker 1>I got treated poorly at the door. When I tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as I did not feel welcomed, y'all will

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<v Speaker 1>never get my fucking money, y'all will never see me again.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for me, I have never been a person

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<v Speaker 1>who felt the need to go to spaces or feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I had to be in spaces where I was

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<v Speaker 1>not welcomed. And as someone black and someone thick and big, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, certain places it becomes hard to get

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<v Speaker 1>into if you don't look a certain way. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you, once I realized that place didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>me in there, I don't want to be in here.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, you know I go ahead and touch

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<v Speaker 1>your gun, wave it around and bottom shots in the

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<v Speaker 1>Sundowntown Listen, listen. Well, let's get into for celebrities say

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<v Speaker 1>the darnest things. We're gonna lean into possible right message,

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<v Speaker 1>wrong messinger. Now we'll start off with Tristan Thompson, who

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<v Speaker 1>gave the advice to Clay to just be quiet, and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people felt like he was the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>messenger for this advice in terms of Clay actually coming

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<v Speaker 1>out and finally responding to the cheating allegations from megde Sallion.

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<v Speaker 1>He's also someone who has not stayed quiet. We just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about him not too long ago, sitting with Chloe

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashian and explaining, you know, his bullshit. But I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, y'all, and I wanted to have fun with this.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know if there are any celebrities that

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<v Speaker 1>could say something that sounded right, but because of who

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<v Speaker 1>they are and where they've leaned into, we just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear it from them, even if they're right.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, for example, say Kim Kardashian talking about climate change, Babe,

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<v Speaker 1>we saw you cry over that diamond that fell into

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<v Speaker 1>the ocean. We know that you take private jets. We

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<v Speaker 1>know what those fuel admissions doing to the universe. I

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<v Speaker 1>would also say I never want to hear the baby

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<v Speaker 1>talk about gay rights or have him even if he

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<v Speaker 1>learned against it, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all, I was gonna say it, depending on maybe he

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<v Speaker 3>people that do the work.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know what the work was. I never

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear Jess Hilarious talk about trans rights or Muslims,

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<v Speaker 1>because baby, what what a can you of? Your cutdown?

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<v Speaker 4>Reille?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying is when people, when people speak out

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<v Speaker 1>so much against or their behaviors go against something, they're

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<v Speaker 1>the last person I want to hear in a campaign

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<v Speaker 1>or messaging, even if their celebrity does bring more eyes

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<v Speaker 1>to a certain cause.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean that perfect and you can evolve and

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<v Speaker 3>grow and learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Trisian Thompson probably learned from his ways and he wants

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<v Speaker 2>to give advice, you know, to someone in his peerdom.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, yo, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's why I said, I need to see the work.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know what the work was to know

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<v Speaker 1>that you are not still in your ignorance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean this is when we talked about this

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit last week with Antoinette about communication.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. Communication works two ways. It's what you say and

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<v Speaker 3>what they understand.

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<v Speaker 5>What is heard right when you're speaking to somebody, and

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<v Speaker 5>the idea is that you want to communicate yourself clearly

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<v Speaker 5>enough that they take you seriously or in this case,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're a celebrity or some public figure, you need

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<v Speaker 5>to not be perfect, but you need to maintain some

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<v Speaker 5>level of credibility, dignity or otherwise about what it is

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<v Speaker 5>that you're saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Mind you, this came about seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>This came about as a topic as well because me

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the misinformation that's spread online in regards to

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<v Speaker 1>the history of the KKK niggas literally was in the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe because I'm by racial acting like I couldn't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the history of the KKK.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, wrong messenger.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of your African American studies you're one in college.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what that is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's more so because they know that you what will

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<v Speaker 3>respond and you're halfway you know, I'm saying that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't talk about history because I'm half like, so.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what That's just that's the Internet, you know how,

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<v Speaker 3>they just like the.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there any credible message you would take from somebody

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<v Speaker 4>like Safari or like ray J?

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<v Speaker 3>They have experience, you know what, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Have real you you know what? He's the thing and

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<v Speaker 1>I did no, no, no, you know what's crazy on

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<v Speaker 1>the Bonus episode and it was really it was all

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<v Speaker 1>the way end. So I don't know if people heard it,

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<v Speaker 1>I would absolutely and I do think that ray J could.

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<v Speaker 1>He could, he could be a spokesperson for Gilead and

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<v Speaker 1>getting tested and at least sharing results because on the

1:13:33.360 --> 1:13:36.160
<v Speaker 1>in a conversation that he was having he was openly

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<v Speaker 1>talking about STDs and yes, he said he liked the

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<v Speaker 1>ones you could get rid of. He was the tattoos

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that don't go nowhere. But I do think

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<v Speaker 1>that there is benefit in a black man openly talking

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<v Speaker 1>about STDs, openly acknowledging that he knows what he has.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of black men that don't even do that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>We had the final balls, so that already what that

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<v Speaker 3>that said, he had the biggest one.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you're talking about, Magic Johnson? Oh yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but he specifically asked about Safari and ray Jar because that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like the premise of like Scared straight right, Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>people who went through it who are able to explain

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<v Speaker 4>it and hold that.

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<v Speaker 3>So hopefully you're gonna have to go through that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, I'm not gonna lie. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything Safari could tell me. I don't I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how to wind his hips. I don't know what is far.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if there's anything that I care. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he has I don't know if he's smart.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything about Safari outside of the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that he was Nicki Minaja's backup dancer and that he

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<v Speaker 1>manipulated and chased Eric Amenna just to leave her with

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<v Speaker 1>two kids and being single mama a single mother, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know much of what he's done or given

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<v Speaker 1>the culture or what he has to say about much.

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<v Speaker 4>Of anything, honestly, So for right message, wrong messenger? What

1:15:03.600 --> 1:15:06.000
<v Speaker 4>makes it the wrong messenger? Is it like they're they're

1:15:06.240 --> 1:15:07.680
<v Speaker 4>like you said Safari, like I don't know if he's

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<v Speaker 4>not that smart or because I presumably if they want

1:15:10.120 --> 1:15:12.600
<v Speaker 4>through the experience, they're a good messenger.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you would think.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's because it's the patterns that they've they've

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<v Speaker 2>displayed over the years.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not favorable. So it's like I'm listening to you for.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like like Safari coming out and discussing how to

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<v Speaker 1>love a woman, but seeing his behavior, I just don't

1:15:30.080 --> 1:15:33.559
<v Speaker 1>know if that's what would make you the wrong messenger.

1:15:33.680 --> 1:15:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Like and that's the thing. A lot of people get

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<v Speaker 1>on these microphones and have opinions about things, but their

1:15:38.880 --> 1:15:42.519
<v Speaker 1>behavior goes as like, oh, you're just giving us a

1:15:42.560 --> 1:15:45.880
<v Speaker 1>word salad. Oh you're just telling us what we think

1:15:46.520 --> 1:15:48.360
<v Speaker 1>you know or what you think people want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't live life this way, which is why

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<v Speaker 1>I come on here and I talk from this is

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<v Speaker 1>why my opinions are not favored in society because they

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<v Speaker 1>come from my lived experience, and people may disagree with them,

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<v Speaker 1>but at least I'm coming from a place of what

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<v Speaker 1>I believe, and when I'm wrong, we hop on this

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<v Speaker 1>mic and we correct ourselves. I think I'm an ever

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<v Speaker 1>evolving person. I think that people choose to continue in

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<v Speaker 1>their ignorance, but out of their mouth they want to

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<v Speaker 1>be right.

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<v Speaker 3>If that makes sense, You got to have some credibility factor.

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<v Speaker 5>What there's opposing forces at play too, right, Like, cynicism

1:16:21.680 --> 1:16:25.160
<v Speaker 5>in society is like an all time high. Nobody believes

1:16:25.520 --> 1:16:28.960
<v Speaker 5>anything that they see in a public sector, everyone is lying,

1:16:29.040 --> 1:16:31.360
<v Speaker 5>Everyone has an ulterior motive. Or he just said that

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<v Speaker 5>because he's paid all you work for Rock Nation, that's

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<v Speaker 5>why you said that. Like, it's always a thing that

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<v Speaker 5>someone will come up with as to why the person

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<v Speaker 5>saying whatever they're saying is not being in good faith.

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<v Speaker 1>Now here we go. I got a clip, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a clip, Could you play the white Man? And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure what radio show or podcast this is, but

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<v Speaker 1>he goes into just play the clip.

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<v Speaker 9>But see, like my taste in black women's a little

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<v Speaker 9>bit more refined than the average black women. You find nowadays,

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<v Speaker 9>Like I like the Lauren Hale type of black women,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, the Pam Greer or the Tisha Campbell kind

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<v Speaker 9>of black women. Why is it every time I walk

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<v Speaker 9>through a mall or I walked into a convenience store,

1:17:15.360 --> 1:17:18.280
<v Speaker 9>all the women there look like glow Rilla or sexy red.

1:17:18.720 --> 1:17:21.360
<v Speaker 9>It's like those women just look like science experiments from

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<v Speaker 9>the CIA meant to destroy Black community.

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<v Speaker 3>So like you're saying that a man, do you think

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<v Speaker 3>like glow? Really?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Now, if you got me a girl that.

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<v Speaker 9>Looked like Patrece Russian, then all day, every day, let's

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<v Speaker 9>get a Kraken. But I'm not gonna curse my children

1:17:36.800 --> 1:17:40.080
<v Speaker 9>with a mother that goes skam phonem.

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<v Speaker 3>Ain't no way, just ain't no way.

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<v Speaker 9>These two is the disgusting hair colored hair they have nowadays.

1:17:48.320 --> 1:17:51.080
<v Speaker 9>Whatever happened to afros and looking like you're guarded from

1:17:51.080 --> 1:17:54.000
<v Speaker 9>Stephen Universe? Now they all got like red hair with

1:17:54.160 --> 1:17:57.880
<v Speaker 9>green highlights. Like look at Kanye West daughter. It's like, baby, girl,

1:17:57.960 --> 1:18:01.839
<v Speaker 9>you do not need aquamarine hair to make yourself look beautiful.

1:18:01.920 --> 1:18:04.599
<v Speaker 9>You're beautiful the way you already were born. I don't

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<v Speaker 9>need I don't need no girl, to look like, oh

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<v Speaker 9>my gosh, bro.

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<v Speaker 3>That there's a lot going on.

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<v Speaker 7>So this.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, it's a message. It's a it's a not bad message,

1:18:19.640 --> 1:18:21.160
<v Speaker 1>but possibly wrong messages.

1:18:21.800 --> 1:18:24.840
<v Speaker 2>It's intellectual Plotlust's an intellectual plot.

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<v Speaker 3>Lush The first about to rast I see the hand.

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<v Speaker 5>The first thing is like he's doing this thing where

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<v Speaker 5>it's like it's wildly racist, is it? Yeah, yeah, it's

1:18:41.880 --> 1:18:46.280
<v Speaker 5>wildly racist. But he's also trying to he's also trying

1:18:46.320 --> 1:18:48.560
<v Speaker 5>to find a soft space that he can land to

1:18:48.760 --> 1:18:52.960
<v Speaker 5>express his preference. I guess, and naming t Campbell and

1:18:53.000 --> 1:18:55.920
<v Speaker 5>Buttes Russian is like a very specific type of black

1:18:55.960 --> 1:18:57.680
<v Speaker 5>woman that I'm like, I'm surprised you even know.

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<v Speaker 1>But I honestands that black is not a monolith. And

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<v Speaker 1>so for me, I'm not gonna hold you. I say

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time because I women. I don't like

1:19:07.000 --> 1:19:10.200
<v Speaker 1>the lace Wiggs, I don't like the super So to me,

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<v Speaker 1>this is if a black man or to say this

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<v Speaker 1>on any of these black pods, no one would say.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's true at all.

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<v Speaker 1>You you don't think a black man could say that

1:19:21.200 --> 1:19:23.800
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want I think that's type. But he wants

1:19:24.160 --> 1:19:25.960
<v Speaker 1>a refined, natural type.

1:19:26.080 --> 1:19:28.439
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think that it's worse that a white man

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<v Speaker 3>said it.

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<v Speaker 5>That's I think that's what you always can never just

1:19:31.320 --> 1:19:33.120
<v Speaker 5>leave that part out, like it's a white man talking

1:19:33.200 --> 1:19:36.080
<v Speaker 5>like that, so that's always gonna get your Spidey senses up,

1:19:36.120 --> 1:19:37.040
<v Speaker 5>like hold on, what the fuck?

1:19:37.200 --> 1:19:40.160
<v Speaker 3>Like maybe he dates black women, that's why he's so

1:19:40.280 --> 1:19:42.200
<v Speaker 3>so let me get to that. Though. The version of

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<v Speaker 3>that clip that I saw wasn't that clip. It was

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<v Speaker 3>a clip from O. G. Big Matt OG Big Matt.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, of course, and yeah, and og Big Matt is

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<v Speaker 5>loved on Instagram because most of the time he is

1:19:57.880 --> 1:20:01.599
<v Speaker 5>on the right side of the politic that people feel

1:20:01.720 --> 1:20:03.400
<v Speaker 5>is appropriate for the time being.

1:20:03.920 --> 1:20:04.160
<v Speaker 1>O G.

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<v Speaker 5>Big Matt is also married to a white woman, and

1:20:08.320 --> 1:20:12.800
<v Speaker 5>his response to this was, oh, well, I'm not mad

1:20:12.840 --> 1:20:16.200
<v Speaker 5>at this guy because what he's saying has some merit

1:20:16.360 --> 1:20:20.000
<v Speaker 5>because he mentioned people like Tisha Campbell and Patrets Russian.

1:20:21.240 --> 1:20:23.240
<v Speaker 5>But he also went on to og Big Matt also

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<v Speaker 5>replied by saying, just talking about like the greatness of

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<v Speaker 5>black women in general.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the problem is that everyone has their preferences,

1:20:30.760 --> 1:20:33.759
<v Speaker 3>everyone has likes and dislikes. But when you start talking

1:20:33.840 --> 1:20:38.160
<v Speaker 3>about like a science experiment and cursing my family and

1:20:38.280 --> 1:20:42.320
<v Speaker 3>the CIA, and these look like like you've gone too far.

1:20:42.479 --> 1:20:45.639
<v Speaker 3>You're not talking about you going out of your way.

1:20:46.160 --> 1:20:49.840
<v Speaker 3>These narratives the narrative that exists before.

1:20:49.840 --> 1:20:56.280
<v Speaker 5>He said that for us us, but those astic narratives.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not and I disagree. It's the same way as

1:20:57.840 --> 1:21:01.280
<v Speaker 1>the black community. We are like we and when I

1:21:01.320 --> 1:21:05.879
<v Speaker 1>say we, people who do like to see us more refined.

1:21:05.920 --> 1:21:09.360
<v Speaker 1>We cringe at a zoos network, We cringe at the

1:21:09.479 --> 1:21:13.080
<v Speaker 1>stereotypes being being pushed to the media.

1:21:13.439 --> 1:21:14.960
<v Speaker 3>Those are respectability politics.

1:21:15.240 --> 1:21:16.920
<v Speaker 1>But let's but let's talk about it too. There's still

1:21:16.920 --> 1:21:19.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that question why Sexy Ray got

1:21:19.760 --> 1:21:21.800
<v Speaker 1>the push and platform that she did. But a rhap

1:21:21.840 --> 1:21:25.240
<v Speaker 1>city doesn't black excellence. But we're trying, and so to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at anywhere. You said a black man

1:21:28.400 --> 1:21:31.120
<v Speaker 1>couldn't have even said that. I disagree.

1:21:31.240 --> 1:21:34.160
<v Speaker 3>They said, all the time he sounds like all.

1:21:34.080 --> 1:21:35.120
<v Speaker 1>The time, me all the time.

1:21:35.160 --> 1:21:36.960
<v Speaker 3>I said, all the time, exactly how he talks.

1:21:37.120 --> 1:21:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want a nigga with but dazzlement at all.

1:21:43.320 --> 1:21:44.560
<v Speaker 3>Patricia Rushland, No, no, no, no.

1:21:45.160 --> 1:21:47.800
<v Speaker 5>Myron Gaines doesn't like black women because he thinks black

1:21:47.880 --> 1:21:51.120
<v Speaker 5>women are sexy red whatever that means to him and

1:21:51.560 --> 1:21:52.599
<v Speaker 5>Glorilla whatever.

1:21:52.479 --> 1:21:56.000
<v Speaker 1>That means acknowledging that that's not the case here. So

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<v Speaker 1>like for me and for me as a black woman,

1:21:58.360 --> 1:22:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I want an educated, wealth came, clean cut black man.

1:22:01.680 --> 1:22:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want a hook booker.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry book for context of who this guy is before,

1:22:07.800 --> 1:22:10.280
<v Speaker 4>because you guys are saying some good points. But so

1:22:10.400 --> 1:22:14.160
<v Speaker 4>his name is Fawcett, he's fought streamer, and he has

1:22:14.400 --> 1:22:16.320
<v Speaker 4>he has a lot a lot of large play streaming

1:22:16.400 --> 1:22:18.640
<v Speaker 4>on kick and and kick is where you get like that.

1:22:18.760 --> 1:22:20.680
<v Speaker 4>Aiden Ross is yeah about to say, you know what,

1:22:22.360 --> 1:22:25.320
<v Speaker 4>maggot Jason Folks so that that's kind of the sandbox

1:22:25.360 --> 1:22:25.840
<v Speaker 4>that he plays.

1:22:26.479 --> 1:22:27.080
<v Speaker 3>Who's saying this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still not mad, And I think I think anyone

1:22:31.520 --> 1:22:33.600
<v Speaker 1>should be able to say that there with no no

1:22:33.800 --> 1:22:34.759
<v Speaker 1>race is a monolith.

1:22:34.880 --> 1:22:35.000
<v Speaker 3>Right.

1:22:35.120 --> 1:22:39.200
<v Speaker 1>So to me, him coming out and saying that he

1:22:39.400 --> 1:22:42.360
<v Speaker 1>prefers that he still loves black women but he wants

1:22:42.600 --> 1:22:44.720
<v Speaker 1>his black woman to look a certain way is no

1:22:44.800 --> 1:22:47.040
<v Speaker 1>different than me as a black woman saying that even

1:22:47.120 --> 1:22:49.479
<v Speaker 1>in me only dating black men, there's a certain black

1:22:49.520 --> 1:22:50.880
<v Speaker 1>man I don't very different.

1:22:50.920 --> 1:22:53.280
<v Speaker 5>He's a white man also, he's not just saying the

1:22:53.320 --> 1:22:55.720
<v Speaker 5>white women the black women that I like. There was

1:22:55.760 --> 1:22:58.840
<v Speaker 5>no reason to even bring Blowrilla or Sexy Red or

1:22:59.120 --> 1:23:00.679
<v Speaker 5>Northwest into none of that fear.

1:23:00.720 --> 1:23:03.000
<v Speaker 3>He could just say what I dated black. The question

1:23:03.120 --> 1:23:05.320
<v Speaker 3>that someone perpetly sent him was, would you date a

1:23:05.320 --> 1:23:06.040
<v Speaker 3>black women? Sure?

1:23:06.080 --> 1:23:08.840
<v Speaker 5>I love black women like Tisha Campbell and Patrese Russian

1:23:08.960 --> 1:23:12.360
<v Speaker 5>And go about your business here, taking your opportunity to

1:23:12.600 --> 1:23:16.560
<v Speaker 5>kick somebody's back in just because you think that that

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<v Speaker 5>shit is ghetto and ugly and niggery. That see, That's

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<v Speaker 5>pretty much what he said, everything except calling them niggers

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<v Speaker 5>science experiments created by the CIA.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that I ain't gonna hold you. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hold you. When I watched Zeus, I wouldn't fuck

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<v Speaker 1>any of them bitches.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure yuck.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we are seeing if I could see him

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<v Speaker 1>and say that we as people are anti the behaviors

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<v Speaker 1>and the way would they portray themselves even on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying me as a person, I would not fuck

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<v Speaker 1>or be with a person who dresses or looks or

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<v Speaker 1>behaves in that manner. I don't think it's wrong for anybody,

1:23:54.760 --> 1:23:57.080
<v Speaker 1>especially if he's saying he loves them, he dates them,

1:23:57.120 --> 1:23:59.519
<v Speaker 1>I like black women. He's not being racist about it.

1:23:59.560 --> 1:24:01.800
<v Speaker 1>He's saying, but this is the type that I like.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if we are a place that allows preferences

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<v Speaker 1>and types and the way that y'all do, what is

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<v Speaker 1>the problem with expressing that.

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<v Speaker 4>Out louds The messengers the problem here?

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<v Speaker 1>We got the messages the problem.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a white man. Part of it can never be

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<v Speaker 5>stripped away from the conversation. You saying that, it's not

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<v Speaker 5>the same thing as him saying, I'm only bringing that

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<v Speaker 5>up also a black man. I don't think you're saying

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<v Speaker 5>a black man, because no, I think black men have

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<v Speaker 5>gotten cooked for saying that same type of ship for

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<v Speaker 5>years and years and years.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that is new.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think him getting cooked is specific to him

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<v Speaker 5>being a white Yeah, he's the wrong message.

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<v Speaker 1>So a man is the wrong message, because am I

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get cooked for saying I wouldn't with someone that's.

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<v Speaker 3>They might well find out when a clip.

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<v Speaker 4>You're saying, you're saying, you're saying your preferences. He's not

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<v Speaker 4>setting it up as his preferences.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that is better than this right here, And

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<v Speaker 5>the preference is proofessed of like, Oh, I'm not racist.

1:25:00.000 --> 1:25:02.639
<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying what I like. I'm not misogynist. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just saying what I like. That's exactly how Dusty red

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<v Speaker 5>Pill managed to your niggas.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about it. If that's exactly how you had a choice.

1:25:11.880 --> 1:25:14.959
<v Speaker 1>Next week he came about to give me a problematic

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<v Speaker 1>ass you have.

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<v Speaker 3>To say, you have to pick one. Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 3>that thrill, Sexy Red? Which one you let touch it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>None?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing?

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<v Speaker 3>Not? I said one of them, touch them touch it?

1:25:35.760 --> 1:25:38.040
<v Speaker 1>You. I let them touch me.

1:25:39.240 --> 1:25:40.799
<v Speaker 3>Gloriohole's touch touches.

1:25:42.160 --> 1:25:44.360
<v Speaker 1>They got glorioleside. They got to be in a whole

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<v Speaker 1>ski man. I don't like. I don't want to see them.

1:25:46.680 --> 1:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>I put my puss it through a hole.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna say Glory, I don't know Glory got that's crazy.

1:25:56.560 --> 1:26:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I'm not sexually and mind you got to

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<v Speaker 1>interview Sexy Red. I think she's dope and cool. You

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<v Speaker 1>set that up for us. Yes, yes, what I want

1:26:05.479 --> 1:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>to be intimate with either one of them? Absolutely not,

1:26:08.720 --> 1:26:12.800
<v Speaker 1>but that's fine. Like to be fair, I even find

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<v Speaker 1>brandon Ingram to be disgusting now, because that's who's got

1:26:16.240 --> 1:26:19.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot going on. I don't even like him choosing

1:26:19.280 --> 1:26:21.639
<v Speaker 1>her as his partner makes me be like, E yuck.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I judge niggas about who they fuck, and Brendan Ingram

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<v Speaker 1>is e yuk to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, no, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 5>I just think there's a huge difference. Like I can

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<v Speaker 5>say what I like without saying what I hate. Like

1:26:35.360 --> 1:26:38.120
<v Speaker 5>it's real, it's real simple to do. I don't have

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<v Speaker 5>to kick nobody's back in. I don't have to talk

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<v Speaker 5>about nobody's gender or nobody how they look or whatever

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<v Speaker 5>they do.

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<v Speaker 3>I could just be like, what do you what do

1:26:45.320 --> 1:26:47.920
<v Speaker 3>you like? Do you like vanilla ice cream? Do you

1:26:48.120 --> 1:26:51.080
<v Speaker 3>like cookies and cream? Do you like mink chocolate chip? Yeah?

1:26:51.600 --> 1:26:53.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't have to uh what they call it? Yuck,

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<v Speaker 3>you're young. I heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>But even your this or that, let's move it to

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<v Speaker 1>if I was talking about and that that this or

1:27:01.800 --> 1:27:05.679
<v Speaker 1>that is comparable to me, and you asking me boosy

1:27:05.800 --> 1:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>or Charleston white like that's what like? And so I

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<v Speaker 1>think that we should be able to identify that there

1:27:16.880 --> 1:27:19.439
<v Speaker 1>are differences even in preferences, and we should be able

1:27:19.479 --> 1:27:20.960
<v Speaker 1>to say it. And I don't hear how much you

1:27:21.000 --> 1:27:21.920
<v Speaker 1>don't like your niggle.

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<v Speaker 4>Preferences is fine, hierarchies is not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, let's get into the last topic here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Let's play this clip, and this is where

1:27:31.680 --> 1:27:35.639
<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about to uh if y'all felt anything was wrong,

1:27:35.720 --> 1:27:38.479
<v Speaker 1>if if also the messenger was wrong here because it's

1:27:38.520 --> 1:27:42.599
<v Speaker 1>the child to the parent, and I saw this one

1:27:42.720 --> 1:27:45.000
<v Speaker 1>last topic of the pod. Let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 3>This was there.

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<v Speaker 4>My own house.

1:27:51.960 --> 1:27:55.160
<v Speaker 3>You really are on drugs. You need to find me.

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<v Speaker 1>My AMEX card.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to find me more clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. There's so much to build.

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<v Speaker 1>Like how you said you're still going up. We can

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<v Speaker 1>go up together.

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<v Speaker 3>This doesn't have to be a you thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be a wee thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when I'm older and I have no nursing

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<v Speaker 2>home and I need you to take care you can't

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<v Speaker 2>do that, nurse, You're not going to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Two words, she's hilarious. So you put your dad in

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<v Speaker 3>the nursing home.

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<v Speaker 1>What else would I do? Take care of you myself?

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<v Speaker 1>Go all, put me in your home and have twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hour nursing assistant in my house with my kids.

1:28:35.680 --> 1:28:37.920
<v Speaker 3>She's effectively in my.

1:28:38.080 --> 1:28:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Car and my husband and my pool, my guest trip.

1:28:45.760 --> 1:28:47.519
<v Speaker 3>The one that made it all possible.

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<v Speaker 1>She's from a distance guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't want to see him public. I

1:29:02.560 --> 1:29:05.240
<v Speaker 3>don't want to see him debating, no other sports figure out.

1:29:05.280 --> 1:29:08.320
<v Speaker 3>I just want him and his daughter on the screen

1:29:08.720 --> 1:29:12.720
<v Speaker 3>on and just thephew with their nephew. Every once in

1:29:12.760 --> 1:29:14.840
<v Speaker 3>a while a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>People said the exact opposite of you and was like,

1:29:17.439 --> 1:29:19.920
<v Speaker 1>this is cringe. Don't want to see it. How dare

1:29:20.000 --> 1:29:21.040
<v Speaker 1>she say that to her father?

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<v Speaker 2>I love I don't believe she's serious. I do believe

1:29:23.720 --> 1:29:26.200
<v Speaker 2>she's performing. I do believe she's from the line of

1:29:26.240 --> 1:29:28.960
<v Speaker 2>stephen A. Smith, and she doing it. She understands, con

1:29:29.200 --> 1:29:30.679
<v Speaker 2>she understands, she understands.

1:29:30.680 --> 1:29:33.639
<v Speaker 3>The tone of voice suggested to me that she knows

1:29:33.760 --> 1:29:34.280
<v Speaker 3>exactly what.

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<v Speaker 5>The way she's getting so queer and why she said

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<v Speaker 5>nursing home, like like, that's not that's what she's not

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<v Speaker 5>going to do.

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<v Speaker 3>That's performance. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So do y'all find a problem with someone saying to

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<v Speaker 1>their parents, I'll put you in a nursing home.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't stay with it. I don't believe she generally.

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<v Speaker 1>In general, because are y'alling kidding me? Nursing home.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, listen, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I want to anyone in my space.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not that type you don't want to care

1:30:04.720 --> 1:30:07.800
<v Speaker 3>for them. It was just different things. That's being in

1:30:07.840 --> 1:30:10.960
<v Speaker 3>this space because you're not going to be them being

1:30:11.000 --> 1:30:11.400
<v Speaker 3>in a space.

1:30:11.439 --> 1:30:13.720
<v Speaker 2>They confined to it. That's the reason why they're going

1:30:13.760 --> 1:30:15.679
<v Speaker 2>to be in your place. So it's just a matter

1:30:15.800 --> 1:30:17.400
<v Speaker 2>of at that point you have to care for them.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the part you probably don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he did say the twenty four hour nurse.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's rich. I'm pretty sure they'll have it set up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>have ANX.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is it's crazy because whenever I have the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about not wanting children, right the first thing immediately

1:30:35.720 --> 1:30:37.160
<v Speaker 1>is like, well, who's going to take care of you

1:30:37.200 --> 1:30:39.960
<v Speaker 1>when you're old? And when we talk about you saying well,

1:30:40.000 --> 1:30:41.639
<v Speaker 1>they have a big house, they have all this space.

1:30:42.080 --> 1:30:44.719
<v Speaker 1>The majority of people are struggling right now, can't afford

1:30:44.760 --> 1:30:47.120
<v Speaker 1>a twenty four hour nurse, don't have extra bedrooms. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about the majority of America. So this idea

1:30:52.200 --> 1:30:55.280
<v Speaker 1>that anyone has to now bring in their parents and

1:30:55.360 --> 1:30:58.719
<v Speaker 1>care for them, it's not realistic. It's not a realistic ask, it's.

1:30:58.640 --> 1:31:01.439
<v Speaker 3>Not a feasibley's not equipped for that everyone.

1:31:01.640 --> 1:31:04.439
<v Speaker 1>And so this is maybe not for Steven A. Smith,

1:31:04.520 --> 1:31:06.720
<v Speaker 1>but this is a common response, and I saw so

1:31:06.840 --> 1:31:10.920
<v Speaker 1>many people upset that this was the response. And maybe

1:31:10.960 --> 1:31:13.840
<v Speaker 1>because of the wealth, but for most of America, I

1:31:14.000 --> 1:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>believe a nursing home is what's the most.

1:31:18.240 --> 1:31:20.479
<v Speaker 2>Every parent knows their kid, they know if their kid

1:31:20.600 --> 1:31:22.439
<v Speaker 2>is going to be willing to do something like that,

1:31:22.680 --> 1:31:26.040
<v Speaker 2>and hopefully they would set it up where that wouldn't

1:31:26.040 --> 1:31:28.720
<v Speaker 2>even be a conversation because you don't want miscare from

1:31:28.760 --> 1:31:32.240
<v Speaker 2>your own offspring, right right, But if you know the hand,

1:31:33.040 --> 1:31:35.120
<v Speaker 2>that's where you tend to lean towards, and if the

1:31:35.200 --> 1:31:38.280
<v Speaker 2>hand is not you know, there to be cared, then yeah,

1:31:38.280 --> 1:31:39.360
<v Speaker 2>you might have to go to the nursing home.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, my mom has always said, like even when

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<v Speaker 5>she was in her like forties, she was like, yeah,

1:31:43.600 --> 1:31:46.240
<v Speaker 5>when it's time to move out of like the house,

1:31:46.439 --> 1:31:48.479
<v Speaker 5>and we always have like, yeah, send me to a

1:31:48.560 --> 1:31:50.920
<v Speaker 5>senior citizens joint and let us talk about My mom

1:31:50.960 --> 1:31:52.760
<v Speaker 5>will always say that and he always she said that

1:31:52.840 --> 1:31:53.920
<v Speaker 5>for years she said that.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's not tripping off of it. But guess what

1:31:56.120 --> 1:31:57.960
<v Speaker 3>when it was time. I think I think we take care.

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<v Speaker 4>Of my sentiment.

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<v Speaker 1>Right you said?

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<v Speaker 4>What they think them in is like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>take care of your kids, and you don't want your

1:32:02.400 --> 1:32:03.679
<v Speaker 4>kids to take care of you, right.

1:32:05.200 --> 1:32:05.599
<v Speaker 3>Understood.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like that to be just an okay sentiment

1:32:09.479 --> 1:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>to have because like it does become a burden and

1:32:13.400 --> 1:32:15.479
<v Speaker 1>it becomes like, why would you want my life to

1:32:15.560 --> 1:32:18.920
<v Speaker 1>become difficult in your old age when we all know

1:32:19.040 --> 1:32:21.640
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get old, Like there should be conversation. And

1:32:21.680 --> 1:32:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what's crazy, now that I think about it,

1:32:23.439 --> 1:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I've had the conversation with my mom with what she

1:32:25.840 --> 1:32:27.760
<v Speaker 1>wants to do in her passing. She wants to be

1:32:27.840 --> 1:32:30.439
<v Speaker 1>cremated and put into the ocean. But I don't think,

1:32:30.920 --> 1:32:32.679
<v Speaker 1>now that I think about it, we've had the conversation

1:32:32.760 --> 1:32:36.000
<v Speaker 1>about old age because my mom is babe, she gonna

1:32:36.000 --> 1:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>be trucking if you ask me, she's gonna be working

1:32:38.000 --> 1:32:42.840
<v Speaker 1>till she in a step. Oh I'm gonna be I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hire somebody. I don't want none of my I

1:32:45.320 --> 1:32:48.639
<v Speaker 1>don't want any of my family, first of all my sisters.

1:32:48.680 --> 1:32:51.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, none of my sisters. I don't want my

1:32:51.240 --> 1:32:51.880
<v Speaker 1>mama to do it.

1:32:54.040 --> 1:32:57.120
<v Speaker 3>Give everybody fits to me, I'm not gonna lie in

1:32:57.200 --> 1:32:57.920
<v Speaker 3>my old age.

1:32:58.040 --> 1:33:00.360
<v Speaker 1>I would like to hopefully be in a position to

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<v Speaker 1>higher care. But I mean, my mom is a nurse,

1:33:04.040 --> 1:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>but she gonna be older than me or not here anymore.

1:33:08.800 --> 1:33:09.439
<v Speaker 3>And none of my.

1:33:09.600 --> 1:33:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Sisters are nurses. I can't think that any of my

1:33:12.680 --> 1:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>sisters would know what the fuck to do with me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean?

1:33:14.840 --> 1:33:16.439
<v Speaker 3>I mean, all play too right.

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<v Speaker 5>We're talking about like old is one thing, infirmed is

1:33:20.920 --> 1:33:22.960
<v Speaker 5>something different. So like you can just you can be

1:33:23.120 --> 1:33:25.360
<v Speaker 5>ninety five years old and still be able to wipe

1:33:25.400 --> 1:33:27.479
<v Speaker 5>your own ass and it just is what it is. Well,

1:33:27.479 --> 1:33:29.840
<v Speaker 5>you could be seventy two and be in bad shape

1:33:29.920 --> 1:33:33.439
<v Speaker 5>and need constant care and everybody a isn't equipped for that,

1:33:33.600 --> 1:33:36.439
<v Speaker 5>willing to do that, And that's just like you said,

1:33:36.479 --> 1:33:36.800
<v Speaker 5>it's not I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't think that's realistic for most Americans.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, And that's that's the thing too, right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>like I know that dementia runs in my family. If

1:33:45.800 --> 1:33:51.280
<v Speaker 1>it becomes difficult like that, like I have like BPD, bipolar,

1:33:51.400 --> 1:33:57.360
<v Speaker 1>people with like neurological you know, issues that I choose

1:33:57.439 --> 1:34:00.719
<v Speaker 1>not to deal with if I am faith with dementia.

1:34:01.360 --> 1:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be that burden on anybody. And

1:34:03.320 --> 1:34:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that there's a level of awareness that I think,

1:34:09.240 --> 1:34:12.760
<v Speaker 1>even in old age we should have to wear. As

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<v Speaker 1>old parents, we shouldn't want to be a burden onto

1:34:15.960 --> 1:34:18.280
<v Speaker 1>our children. We shouldn't want them to have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with the emotional label or emotional abuse of what's to

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<v Speaker 1>come once you start, you know, declining. And so I

1:34:26.439 --> 1:34:28.240
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I'm not mad at her saying this because

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna hold you Stephen A. Smith at his healthiest.

1:34:31.240 --> 1:34:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't imagine putting up with that nigga in old age.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my God, think home for you.

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<v Speaker 3>A nigga like Stephen A.

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<v Speaker 5>Smith is probably gonna hire like five only fans girls

1:34:43.320 --> 1:34:46.479
<v Speaker 5>and like taking care of them and shit like that.

1:34:46.600 --> 1:34:49.360
<v Speaker 3>Nigga's not gonna have no regular nurse. That nigga's not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna have no old lady.

1:34:50.720 --> 1:34:54.680
<v Speaker 5>He's gonna be perfectly happy whatever situation that he figures out.

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<v Speaker 5>That had nothing to do with my daughter having to

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<v Speaker 5>come and change my depends every she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do you feel though, that that narrative is

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<v Speaker 1>a healthy one for us overall? Like that as children,

1:35:08.160 --> 1:35:11.479
<v Speaker 1>we are supposed to be take care of our parents

1:35:11.560 --> 1:35:14.720
<v Speaker 1>in old age and for parents and vice versa. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think it's fair that to have children just to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of you when you get old on the

1:35:18.800 --> 1:35:23.400
<v Speaker 1>conversation the expectation because the conversation is what we're happening now.

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<v Speaker 1>But to me, I think it's almost put as an

1:35:25.880 --> 1:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>expectation and you're looked at as a bad person like

1:35:28.600 --> 1:35:32.639
<v Speaker 1>people are like nursing home. Like there's also society's input

1:35:32.840 --> 1:35:35.439
<v Speaker 1>or opinion that you're not a good child if you

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<v Speaker 1>choose not to take care of your parents in old

1:35:37.560 --> 1:35:40.960
<v Speaker 1>age and then also as parents is people CARTI said,

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<v Speaker 1>I like having these kids because I need people to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of me when I get old. That's also

1:35:45.320 --> 1:35:47.760
<v Speaker 1>to me an expectation that you're putting on people that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think is realistical. But they got to have

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<v Speaker 1>those conversations with the I agree, and that's why I'm

1:35:52.080 --> 1:35:54.160
<v Speaker 1>realizing I didn't.

1:35:53.920 --> 1:35:57.439
<v Speaker 2>Have to have it. I'm just gone through that. And

1:35:57.520 --> 1:35:59.320
<v Speaker 2>it was like my mom always said, I don't want

1:35:59.400 --> 1:36:03.080
<v Speaker 2>y'all to but me. I'm like, but I would never

1:36:03.240 --> 1:36:05.000
<v Speaker 2>not do it, you know what I mean? Because I

1:36:05.080 --> 1:36:08.280
<v Speaker 2>know that it wouldn't it's that's my mom, right. It's

1:36:08.320 --> 1:36:11.519
<v Speaker 2>just you know, I'm thankful that I was able to

1:36:11.840 --> 1:36:16.800
<v Speaker 2>participate in that. It's just a matter of having a conversation.

1:36:16.960 --> 1:36:19.160
<v Speaker 2>And to your point, it's not wrong to not want

1:36:19.200 --> 1:36:21.000
<v Speaker 2>to be able to do that. Either if you don't

1:36:21.000 --> 1:36:23.240
<v Speaker 2>have the bandwidth or you're not you don't think you

1:36:23.320 --> 1:36:28.519
<v Speaker 2>can tolerate that, that is absolutely fine, But conversations are necessary.

1:36:28.840 --> 1:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>I hope that people are commenting and watching this, do

1:36:31.240 --> 1:36:33.160
<v Speaker 2>the fake outrage shit. I hope y'all are having a

1:36:33.200 --> 1:36:36.519
<v Speaker 2>conversation with your parents, probably have kids, just to what

1:36:36.640 --> 1:36:37.880
<v Speaker 2>your expectations is talking.

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<v Speaker 5>But also I think some of it is cultural, not

1:36:40.040 --> 1:36:44.160
<v Speaker 5>like Black culture, but like for culture, immigrant families and

1:36:44.240 --> 1:36:47.240
<v Speaker 5>things like that. Sometimes the idea is like, no, we

1:36:47.400 --> 1:36:50.040
<v Speaker 5>all live together, like the family is the family.

1:36:50.600 --> 1:36:52.519
<v Speaker 3>There is no like you're over there, I'm over there.

1:36:53.680 --> 1:36:56.080
<v Speaker 5>If you have an elder who is infirmed, if you

1:36:56.280 --> 1:37:00.800
<v Speaker 5>have a cousin who is down bad, whatever the case is,

1:37:00.920 --> 1:37:03.360
<v Speaker 5>like we all stay in this same house or in

1:37:03.400 --> 1:37:05.720
<v Speaker 5>this same neighborhood. You're already the city, You're already there.

1:37:05.720 --> 1:37:07.920
<v Speaker 5>The community is already established for us to be able

1:37:07.960 --> 1:37:08.559
<v Speaker 5>to help each other.

1:37:09.040 --> 1:37:13.439
<v Speaker 2>And sometimes for if you don't grow up inside of

1:37:13.520 --> 1:37:15.560
<v Speaker 2>that kind of culture, with that kind of idealism.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just like like the daughter, like, all right, nurse

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<v Speaker 3>a home for you.

1:37:18.760 --> 1:37:20.760
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna go about my life in my pool, in

1:37:20.840 --> 1:37:23.439
<v Speaker 5>my house with my husband and my kids, and you

1:37:23.600 --> 1:37:26.120
<v Speaker 5>be over there and we'll come holl at you on Thursdays.

1:37:26.520 --> 1:37:29.840
<v Speaker 3>I think I act like I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, in terms of the need for conversation,

1:37:32.840 --> 1:37:35.400
<v Speaker 1>you said the conversation needs to be had with your parents,

1:37:35.640 --> 1:37:38.479
<v Speaker 1>I will say also, this is a conversation to be

1:37:38.560 --> 1:37:41.640
<v Speaker 1>had in romantic partnerships, yes, because if you're going to

1:37:41.680 --> 1:37:47.519
<v Speaker 1>be cohabitating, like you don't know if your spouse is

1:37:47.600 --> 1:37:50.200
<v Speaker 1>aligned with moving in their parents in old age, and

1:37:50.280 --> 1:37:52.120
<v Speaker 1>now that becomes a burden that you have to take

1:37:52.160 --> 1:37:54.280
<v Speaker 1>on as well. So this is a conversation that also

1:37:54.360 --> 1:37:56.240
<v Speaker 1>needs to be had in romantic partnerships.

1:37:56.320 --> 1:38:00.800
<v Speaker 5>And honestly, and I hear this conversation more about men

1:38:00.960 --> 1:38:03.519
<v Speaker 5>in getting married that I even do about kids. I

1:38:03.600 --> 1:38:05.559
<v Speaker 5>know a lot of women who are like, look at

1:38:05.600 --> 1:38:08.040
<v Speaker 5>these old niggas with nobody, and they think they still

1:38:08.040 --> 1:38:08.439
<v Speaker 5>in the club.

1:38:08.479 --> 1:38:11.120
<v Speaker 2>They think it's cute. But when you get old, who

1:38:11.680 --> 1:38:13.200
<v Speaker 2>you're not going to have a wife to help you out.

1:38:13.280 --> 1:38:14.960
<v Speaker 2>You're not going to have a partner to help you out.

1:38:15.000 --> 1:38:17.680
<v Speaker 2>You're just going to die alone and be like Kevin Samuels.

1:38:18.080 --> 1:38:21.720
<v Speaker 1>I just hate that rhetoric because again, and this is

1:38:21.760 --> 1:38:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I think what men need to do better at is friendships.

1:38:25.080 --> 1:38:28.519
<v Speaker 1>Like when people talk about dying old or dying with

1:38:28.640 --> 1:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>nobody there, maybe I got a community around me. I

1:38:32.400 --> 1:38:35.439
<v Speaker 1>have no fear in saying that I don't want to

1:38:35.439 --> 1:38:37.760
<v Speaker 1>be married, saying that I don't want children, and that

1:38:38.040 --> 1:38:41.519
<v Speaker 1>I fear dying alone. I have really good friends in

1:38:41.600 --> 1:38:43.400
<v Speaker 1>my system now and cut a lot of these bitches

1:38:43.439 --> 1:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>off because I realize they're not good. But the ones

1:38:46.040 --> 1:38:49.400
<v Speaker 1>that are still in my life I have that are strong.

1:38:49.479 --> 1:38:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I have very good male friends in my life. I

1:38:52.760 --> 1:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>have show that I still think would always show up

1:38:55.720 --> 1:38:58.720
<v Speaker 1>for me. And so to me, this idea that only

1:38:58.800 --> 1:39:01.360
<v Speaker 1>your romantic partners are your children or who's gonna watch

1:39:01.680 --> 1:39:05.559
<v Speaker 1>you after age. We all create communities and villages around us,

1:39:05.800 --> 1:39:07.519
<v Speaker 1>and I think that that needs to be pressed as

1:39:07.560 --> 1:39:10.599
<v Speaker 1>what's more important not just that your kids or your

1:39:10.680 --> 1:39:13.320
<v Speaker 1>husband gonna be the only ones. When you build community

1:39:13.360 --> 1:39:15.120
<v Speaker 1>and you live life as a good person and a

1:39:15.240 --> 1:39:17.720
<v Speaker 1>giving person and a caring person. You're never going to

1:39:17.720 --> 1:39:18.120
<v Speaker 1>be alone.

1:39:18.200 --> 1:39:19.479
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm with you one thousand percent.

1:39:19.520 --> 1:39:22.519
<v Speaker 5>And I think that's an important point to make because

1:39:23.040 --> 1:39:25.439
<v Speaker 5>you're right, Like you talk about your family and then

1:39:25.479 --> 1:39:28.120
<v Speaker 5>the family that you choose, yep, and like who you

1:39:28.240 --> 1:39:29.880
<v Speaker 5>surround yourself with, Who do you trust?

1:39:29.960 --> 1:39:31.559
<v Speaker 3>Who do you know will show up for you? Who

1:39:31.560 --> 1:39:33.360
<v Speaker 3>do you know actually loves you, cares for you and

1:39:33.400 --> 1:39:34.560
<v Speaker 3>wants to do those things for you?

1:39:34.960 --> 1:39:37.680
<v Speaker 5>And people are wrapped up in that romance of like

1:39:38.080 --> 1:39:40.800
<v Speaker 5>my husband, my wife, if that's the only thing you'll

1:39:40.800 --> 1:39:42.880
<v Speaker 5>ever have once you get married, And.

1:39:42.920 --> 1:39:43.679
<v Speaker 3>That's just not true.

1:39:43.840 --> 1:39:44.439
<v Speaker 1>It's just not true.

1:39:44.479 --> 1:39:46.959
<v Speaker 3>It could be an uber driver, it could be a driver.

1:39:48.400 --> 1:39:52.920
<v Speaker 5>The most wants you to be decent. We're putting decent

1:39:53.040 --> 1:39:57.599
<v Speaker 5>right along with great these sense decen the same place.

1:39:57.720 --> 1:40:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Saying bout nowhere child, now any old Jason, I love

1:40:03.120 --> 1:40:05.639
<v Speaker 1>having We gotta talk. We're gonna talk because baby, the way,

1:40:05.800 --> 1:40:08.840
<v Speaker 1>our calendar just well, you know, the summertime tricky. We

1:40:08.920 --> 1:40:11.000
<v Speaker 1>got a lot of travels coming up. Things is happening,

1:40:11.400 --> 1:40:14.439
<v Speaker 1>a lot of moving pieces, but we are trying to

1:40:14.479 --> 1:40:16.360
<v Speaker 1>get up there at the end of the month.

1:40:16.439 --> 1:40:20.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm so this whole episode with this goddamn AirPod some real.

1:40:22.400 --> 1:40:24.759
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if that would you because I kept getting

1:40:24.800 --> 1:40:26.799
<v Speaker 1>the air pod notification on my iPad.

1:40:27.040 --> 1:40:29.840
<v Speaker 3>Oh maybe see he had one?

1:40:32.600 --> 1:40:34.760
<v Speaker 1>Did you? Were you getting the notification to bro? It

1:40:34.880 --> 1:40:36.160
<v Speaker 1>kept on my screen?

1:40:37.320 --> 1:40:38.880
<v Speaker 3>You on his head. They're gonna be like, think at

1:40:38.880 --> 1:40:42.360
<v Speaker 3>this nigga bluetooth talking ship. As long as you have

1:40:42.400 --> 1:40:45.040
<v Speaker 3>the Atlanta ship they be doing over the big head.

1:40:45.240 --> 1:40:46.880
<v Speaker 3>I thought we was past that part in life, and

1:40:46.960 --> 1:40:49.519
<v Speaker 3>nigga starts. Niggas bringing that ship back.

1:40:49.600 --> 1:40:53.120
<v Speaker 5>Niggas have headphone, I see with your microphone. Yeah, the

1:40:53.160 --> 1:40:56.320
<v Speaker 5>truck be having everybody the gamer or the gamer headphones.

1:40:56.400 --> 1:41:00.120
<v Speaker 5>Niggas be buying groceries and Kroger with the headset one

1:41:00.160 --> 1:41:00.320
<v Speaker 5>of them.

1:41:00.400 --> 1:41:01.000
<v Speaker 3>Niggas would do that.

1:41:03.280 --> 1:41:10.080
<v Speaker 1>You well, y'all, this was a really this was a

1:41:10.120 --> 1:41:11.519
<v Speaker 1>fun episode. This was ignorant.

1:41:11.600 --> 1:41:22.040
<v Speaker 6>This was ignorant, Jason, we push the limit.

1:41:22.120 --> 1:41:23.760
<v Speaker 3>We push the limit here.

1:41:24.120 --> 1:41:26.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, y'all, if you want to watch a full episode

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1:41:41.760 --> 1:41:45.680
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1:41:45.760 --> 1:41:51.880
<v Speaker 1>the weeds of the conversations and share that about this episode.

1:41:52.160 --> 1:41:54.439
<v Speaker 1>And I'm excited next week I'll come back and let

1:41:54.560 --> 1:41:56.400
<v Speaker 1>y'all know about my time in Saint Martin and Saint

1:41:56.439 --> 1:41:57.960
<v Speaker 1>bart This is where.

1:41:57.840 --> 1:41:58.559
<v Speaker 3>I'll be this week.

1:41:58.680 --> 1:42:01.639
<v Speaker 1>So if y'all want to see all of the bikini content,

1:42:01.760 --> 1:42:04.640
<v Speaker 1>bag head on the instagram.

1:42:05.280 --> 1:42:05.880
<v Speaker 2>What you are?

1:42:07.040 --> 1:42:10.840
<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you, Mandy Ship Yo, listen, you walk

1:42:10.920 --> 1:42:12.360
<v Speaker 3>with lighting like your pictures.

1:42:13.360 --> 1:42:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, yo, outside it's outside, or I get

1:42:17.920 --> 1:42:20.519
<v Speaker 1>lucky I be with Yomi, you know yo yah. Yeah,

1:42:21.560 --> 1:42:24.200
<v Speaker 1>shout out to the homie Yomi. Were waiting on your

1:42:24.439 --> 1:42:27.599
<v Speaker 1>your lovely return. Until then, enjoy the fall off the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello col world, Uh Jason, are you going? I think

1:42:31.400 --> 1:42:34.679
<v Speaker 1>it's next this week or no, it's next week this weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>I got check it out. I'm stuck in like Summer

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<v Speaker 4>jams on.

1:42:38.479 --> 1:42:40.519
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it's a lot of go. Let's go.

1:42:40.960 --> 1:42:45.760
<v Speaker 7>Who's the headliner for Summer jam This three stages French Montana,

1:42:45.960 --> 1:42:51.240
<v Speaker 7>Young Miami, uh forty one Ice Spice Zeeddi will Oh Wow,

1:42:51.520 --> 1:42:52.880
<v Speaker 7>thirty eight special.

1:42:54.200 --> 1:42:54.880
<v Speaker 4>Say It every Morning.

1:42:55.000 --> 1:42:57.080
<v Speaker 3>That's I was going to say, this sounds like, sounds

1:42:57.120 --> 1:43:01.240
<v Speaker 3>a straight voice. Cobain is gonna be there, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>official welcome party.

1:43:10.800 --> 1:43:11.120
<v Speaker 4>You know what?

1:43:11.280 --> 1:43:13.800
<v Speaker 1>That actually sounds very New York. That is a very

1:43:13.880 --> 1:43:14.679
<v Speaker 1>New York lineup.

1:43:15.040 --> 1:43:15.439
<v Speaker 3>I like you.

1:43:15.520 --> 1:43:17.200
<v Speaker 1>It's very intentional, very intentional.

1:43:17.920 --> 1:43:19.120
<v Speaker 2>And I saw that you're going to do like a

1:43:19.600 --> 1:43:22.120
<v Speaker 2>doing a different style where it's three stages and then

1:43:22.120 --> 1:43:24.000
<v Speaker 2>he's gonna cap with a with a party, a big

1:43:24.080 --> 1:43:25.719
<v Speaker 2>old stadium party arena.

1:43:26.360 --> 1:43:28.559
<v Speaker 4>I got some insight. I don't know about it ready.

1:43:28.600 --> 1:43:32.840
<v Speaker 2>I ready, I saw it on the fly the bill,

1:43:34.200 --> 1:43:35.840
<v Speaker 2>so I'm and I'm using theater to mind, Like, yo,

1:43:35.880 --> 1:43:36.720
<v Speaker 2>that'd be pretty dope.

1:43:37.640 --> 1:43:39.240
<v Speaker 1>Jason's like, I don't know, I just gotta work.

1:43:39.280 --> 1:43:39.479
<v Speaker 4>I just.

1:43:41.280 --> 1:43:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not putting on the event. Well, guys, thank you' all.

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