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Speaker 1: over some ha been out. I've been in an outa

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Speaker 1: sitting loki. I've been working over some I been out.

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Speaker 1: I love why you hide me? Tell them all to

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Speaker 1: tell me when you come around a clown up with

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Speaker 1: dun't me. I'm a little spicy at you talk to

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Speaker 1: me nicely? Yeah, when you come around.

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Speaker 2: I never got a welcome back. This is good mom's

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Speaker 2: bad choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Nila, and Happy Wednesday, guys.

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Speaker 2: It's not really Wednesday. Well, it's actually Saturday. It's Friday.

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Speaker 2: What day is it Friday?

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Speaker 4: We don't forget.

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Speaker 2: We have the things. I don't know she's trying to forget.

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Speaker 2: We're recording.

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Speaker 3: We've we've we've been recording early because we have our

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Speaker 3: first live show tomorrow and bitches are nervous. So yeah, anyway.

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Speaker 5: Hi, hi, oh, Okay, we have a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 5: We've been fucking up our recording schedule. And I just

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Speaker 5: listened to our last episode. It's so late with our

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Speaker 5: current event. It's late at hill.

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Speaker 2: We recorded that episode like three weeks I know.

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Speaker 5: So I'm trying to explain that we were talking about

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Speaker 5: Jesse Smullen and we come to the conclusion that it

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Speaker 5: wasn't even We don't even know if that was true.

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Speaker 5: So she's a little bit off schedule this week, but.

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Speaker 2: You know, well you'll get it.

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Speaker 3: Well, the only thing that's happened is we went to

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Speaker 3: Mexico with Oh yeah, we did go to Mexico with

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Speaker 2: We had a great time.

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Speaker 3: We uh happened to go during spring break college spring break,

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Speaker 3: which it was interesting.

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Speaker 5: It made me feel very old. We were trying so

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Speaker 5: hard to be cool and young too, Like we tried

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Speaker 5: to go out the three nights in a row and

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Speaker 5: fell asleep. First of all, Yeah, my friend was throwing

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Speaker 5: with like Migos and shit, and like through two nights

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Speaker 3: Like, you come in, you come in, and I was

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Speaker 3: like yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Then finally we got out.

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Speaker 3: Well, we had to go see Migos, and I really

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Speaker 3: was trying to see Cardi B because she was there

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Speaker 3: and I was trying to like make her our friend

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Speaker 3: she's a mama and that would be fucking fire.

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Speaker 2: But it didn't happen that way.

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Speaker 5: Our dream our hopes and dreams didn't happen that day,

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Speaker 5: but they're they're going to happen.

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Speaker 2: But we saw the.

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Speaker 3: Migos, which was dope, and then we went to a

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Speaker 3: club afterwards, which I hated every moment of it, but

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Speaker 2: But it was just like very young, and I'm not,

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Speaker 2: I can't do it.

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Speaker 5: It was first of all, when I was in college,

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Speaker 4: Trips to go.

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Speaker 5: On, Like who the fucking college can afford to go

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Speaker 5: drink plans, like you know, that's a meal plan. Certain

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, what fucking kids can afford this? I'll

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Speaker 2: tell you who. White kids, kids, they were all.

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Speaker 5: It was so odd. We were in the cloud. I

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Speaker 5: was like, Eric, I have not seen one brown or

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Speaker 2: No, there wasn't.

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Speaker 5: It was like I was in the fucking twilight zone.

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Speaker 5: Not that everybody was white, but there's no color, not one,

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Speaker 5: And there are. They're all wearing those like skippy shoes,

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Speaker 3: Uh, crocs not crocs like the boat ones and like

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Speaker 2: It was very odd. It was very preppy, very preppy.

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Speaker 5: We were talking on couches at a concert only, and

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Speaker 2: Like, why is everyone not turning up with us? Oh,

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Speaker 3: And then I got to the we got to the

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. But Jamila met like a guy

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Speaker 2: the biggest crocket show. No more, we were there for

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Speaker 5: If my phone is recording, I were called to me

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Speaker 5: out next to that bearded guy.

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Speaker 3: No, we were in that bar in general for about

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Speaker 3: an hour and a half. That before we left, full

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Speaker 3: We sat with that even fifteen minutes we left.

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Speaker 2: Fucking hated it. Anyway. We came to the conclusion we're

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Speaker 3: But it was beautiful and I highly recommend you go

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Speaker 3: to Cabo guys, especially if you live in California.

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Speaker 2: It's so close. But just don't go during.

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Speaker 5: Break Danielle who made those fucking plans and didn't think

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Speaker 5: and it was fine. The kids had fun. Thankfully. We're

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Speaker 5: so fucking lucky we got to take floor because we

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Speaker 5: wouldn't have been able to do any of that shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Like you should have seen how happy we were to

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Speaker 2: We like celebrated in the car as soon as it

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Speaker 2: I could have had an extra two hundred and fifty.

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Speaker 5: Dollars or more five hundred dollars because you're eating a lot.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: They're just like rats no matter what city you're in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm so happy we did because like Luna

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Speaker 2: That was cool. They did have a good time worked out.

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Speaker 3: But anyway, we have a special guest today. We have

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Speaker 3: Lamiah Good Hello you join Stays for having me.

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Speaker 2: Fellow mama mom to be. I know, I can't believe

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Speaker 2: I'm mama too, and I can't believe it. I just

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: I know we were talking about that too, because I

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Speaker 2: It's like when we started our podcast.

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Speaker 3: Right about then is where I felt like, oh I

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We only had like two weeks of that pregnant again.

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Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, that's what happened. You That what

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Speaker 7: The glow came right back and I got pregnant like

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Speaker 2: Were you trying? We weren't? We were not not trying.

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Speaker 7: He wanted another baby like right after Eli, and I

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Speaker 7: just wasn't going for that ship.

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Speaker 7: I definitely wanted my body to get back and just

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Speaker 7: I was like blocking that shit every which away that

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Speaker 4: We're married, condoms, No, what do you mean?

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Speaker 7: I was for sure because of discipline, because the bitch

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Speaker 7: was not trying to get pregnant again. I'm just I

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Speaker 7: just knew I'm not the type that could have handled

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Speaker 7: it was like, I mean, obviously he wasn't happy with it.

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Speaker 2: The end of the day, mama was not getting pregnant.

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Speaker 7: So I finally had decided, Like I said, I just

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna keeping I'm not gonna keep blocking every

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Speaker 2: no girl. When I started talking, okay, well we.

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Speaker 7: But the funny thing is, you know, at our age,

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Speaker 7: typically I know, it's supposed to take like usually a

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Speaker 7: year and a half of active trying. At our age,

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Speaker 7: I'm thirty nine, he's thirty five, thirty that was my baby.

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Speaker 4: He's thirty five, thirty four.

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Speaker 2: I'll get back.

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Speaker 4: I just know I'm a cougar.

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Speaker 7: So you know, typically it's supposed to take like a

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Speaker 2: It took three months. Yeah, it was a healthy bam, bam.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 2: And were you excited when you found out or.

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Speaker 7: Were you I was I was actually at a place.

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Speaker 7: I mean, like I said, I finally mentally accepted it, so.

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Speaker 2: I was happy. I was like, oh, we were just

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Speaker 2: sitting there, we're so cute, like with the birth control, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean with the birth control.

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Speaker 7: I'm I'm now on the birth control the test, and

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Speaker 7: you're just sitting there like we're gonna have another one.

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Speaker 4: So we were really happy.

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Speaker 5: That's nice, super excited and then nice and you're excited

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Speaker 5: and not like what the fuck is this?

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Speaker 7: Yes, girl, we tried the first time and I knew

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Speaker 7: was like, oh shit, it's I'm like pregnant for real,

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Speaker 7: right and that, and I kind of freaked out.

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Speaker 4: He was like should I not be happy? Like, what's

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Speaker 4: what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 7: We were trying to get pregnant and it's just so

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Speaker 7: crazy right now. And I was like, I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 7: don't mean to suck all the life out of you,

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Speaker 7: but I'm scared. I'm pregnant and I'm scared and now

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Speaker 7: just going to change right exactly. Because you have a

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Speaker 7: four year old right it's four.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Libra Libra. What's your husband? He's the aries

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Speaker 2: I'm just different. Oh nice, Yeah, I don't know anything

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Libra's air sign aries earth fire fire, Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she's like, mm, get those baby edges, get the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So how long have you been married? We've been

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Speaker 7: Oh please, it's a lot, a lot just giving life

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean, just trying to you know what

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Speaker 7: I think we all do this. We all fall for

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Speaker 5: Oh girl wells ninety three days good?

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Speaker 7: So but I think that journey taught me a lot

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I'm definitely feeling like I'm in that space. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 5: Well what the fuck is wrong with me that I have?

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Speaker 5: I keep manifesting or infrecting these weird ass I'm mad

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Speaker 7: And then people can change their mind and say, hey,

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Speaker 7: I've known Eric since he was nineteen. My godmother was

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Speaker 4: It's the whole thing. So I've known him for a

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Speaker 2: So I used to look at him like that, But no,

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Speaker 7: It wasn't foreign to him, you know, it was just

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Speaker 7: I literally our first date was a serial date because

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Speaker 4: Okay, so why should I have a picture of it?

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Speaker 7: Most important way, and he will tell you that first

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Speaker 7: I'll have every cereal you like.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. We set up the date.

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Speaker 7: We're just talking bringing up old school. We actually went

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Speaker 4: But we fell asleep talking on the couch.

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Speaker 4: I have all my shit today, I'm just feeling myself.

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Speaker 7: But I knew it, so he didn't know that day.

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Speaker 7: We just don't hold on long enough to find that person.

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Speaker 7: And sometimes we don't believe that we deserve that because

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Speaker 7: nigga's gonna do that. Niggas don't do that. He used

443
00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 7: to always like, so you want me to come get me,

444
00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,480
Speaker 7: come get the bag, and every time like, I'm like,

445
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 7: it's all good because you ain't never did it, not once,

446
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,200
Speaker 7: but okay. But in my mind, I just kept thinking,

447
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 7: there's got there's somebody out there.

448
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,399
Speaker 2: It got some damn sen it got some sense. That's

449
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,400
Speaker 2: not that hard. That's really like on the easy list.

450
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,680
Speaker 2: These are basic. Yeah. So I mean I think I

451
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,399
Speaker 2: just believe to the core and I just was not.

452
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,399
Speaker 3: I made me think of like my dad first of all,

453
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,440
Speaker 3: who always says allmen cheap, and then also made me

454
00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 3: think of my ex, who also I remember, I've never

455
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 3: forgotten we got an argument, not when we were together,

456
00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,399
Speaker 3: and him saying like, you know, you don't wuck with me,

457
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,640
Speaker 3: but every man's gonna cheat on you, Erica, every single one.

458
00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 5: Wow.

459
00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 4: The brain washery, the manipulation when you're.

460
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 7: Not right right exactly, and that's what they try to do.

461
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 7: They try to mentally whip you down to fit.

462
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 5: In their little box and maybe feel like you're crazy

463
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 5: for having standards or wanting something, isn't it crazy?

464
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, And for a minute you feel like maybe they're right,

465
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 4: because it is really hard out in these streets.

466
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:30,919
Speaker 2: But I do feel like the.

467
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 7: Energy you put out there, when you really put everything

468
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 7: into yourself, it does manifest itself.

469
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,640
Speaker 2: It doesn't even leave room for that kind of shit.

470
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 7: Once you start fixing your holes, your potholes and stuff,

471
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 7: it's a whole different I.

472
00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,639
Speaker 2: Believe that too, Like you know, like a lot of

473
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 2: you know.

474
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 5: Obviously, first of all, I find that women we oddly

475
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 5: like we talk about shit, but we always.

476
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 2: Be talking about men, how your dating life? And and

477
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 2: he ain't shit?

478
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 5: Or I met this new guy, he might be the one.

479
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 5: It's just like some aware hot somehow it's always the center.

480
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 2: Of our conversation, not always, you know. And you know,

481
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 2: might have friends who are.

482
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,200
Speaker 5: You know, I'm doing the same thing, trying to date

483
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,120
Speaker 5: frogs and ship making princess inc.

484
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:11,919
Speaker 2: They ain't turning.

485
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 5: And a lot of friends I see subtle, you know,

486
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 5: and or like try to make like see the potential

487
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 5: and then and say like.

488
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:23,119
Speaker 4: Well there's not that much chemistry or the sex is

489
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 4: I But I think, you know, he's a good guy.

490
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 2: He's a good guy.

491
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 5: This could be this, this could be that, you know,

492
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 5: and I'm just like, eh, bitch, because I'm out of

493
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 5: that place right now. I mean, like I'm I but

494
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 5: I you can't force fucking chemistry, right, You can't if

495
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 5: you're not attracted to someone, right, you're not going to

496
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 5: be attracted.

497
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 2: No, and three years online when they're getting on your

498
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 2: fucking nerves and you're gonna be like and and you're

499
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 2: not my ship right kind of.

500
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 3: Right, like no, I'm not marrying that's mine. Doesn't make

501
00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 3: my pussy jump, but I'm sorry. No, real has to

502
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 3: be like a whole thing.

503
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 7: Because I'm girl, I'm married, and I'm like every day

504
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 7: it ain't all about Kiki. You you my friend, And

505
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 7: sometimes it is just that raw chemistry. Sometimes it really

506
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 7: is if all the elements count, and don't you want that?

507
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 5: I refuse to believe, like when it's like, when it's

508
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 5: that good, it's not real. I have friends like, well,

509
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 5: you know, it's not realistic.

510
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:21,120
Speaker 2: Bull shit.

511
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 5: It's we're business partners. What has to be good and like,

512
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 5: you know, he's a good business partner. I'm like, but

513
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 5: I don't want to fuck my business partner. Right, I

514
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 5: want someone that makes me like that. You get that,

515
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 5: like those butterflies inside.

516
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 2: You want to get a little bit of makeup when

517
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 2: you go out and ship you want to say, right,

518
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 2: you don't want to lose that.

519
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm happy.

520
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: You have to work to keep that to absolutely one

521
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 2: hundred and fifty percent.

522
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 5: But if you have a nigga you're attracted to, and

523
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 5: the man you're attracted to, then you're gonna want to

524
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 5: put that extra effort in absolutely, Like if he's doing

525
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 5: what he's supposed to do, he looks good, you're attracted to,

526
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,160
Speaker 5: like you ready.

527
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: My dress for sure, you know, but it takes work.

528
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

529
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 2: So I'm so happy I've started this journey. Hopefully my

530
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: husband is.

531
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 4: Oh, he's coming around, He's coming, He's coming. You all

532
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 4: on the journey, girl, You good, it's coming.

533
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 2: So, so are you gonna go? How long do you

534
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 2: think you're gonna go? Oh? Me, Well, you know, I

535
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 2: initially we said sixty days. I didn't even think that

536
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: was fucking possible. And I was like, oh, I'll push

537
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: for an I D And at this point, I'm just

538
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm cool, Like I'm chilling.

539
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 4: Do you feel like more clear headed.

540
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 2: I do feel more clear headed.

541
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 5: I mean sometimes I get like crazy like thinking about it,

542
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 5: but I'm yeah, I'm clear.

543
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: I realized there's more important to worry about, Like Dick

544
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 2: is a distraction.

545
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 5: Getting this money is really important, you know, And I'm like,

546
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 5: you know, I don't worry about Dick, but I have

547
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,640
Speaker 5: a million dollars. Yeah, so there's no It's no unless

548
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 5: I'm gonna ask you when you started your celibacy journey,

549
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 5: where you like, I'm gonna not fuck for eighteen months

550
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 5: or were you just like when the right I don't

551
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 5: know when the right person comes, Like, how did you

552
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 5: decide to break it?

553
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 2: When you decided to do it? You know, I did

554
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 2: put a time on it. I really thought. I was like,

555
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just not have sex ti I get married now,

556
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: is what I thought.

557
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 4: Are you religious? I'm very spiritual.

558
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 7: I'll say this, I'm a Jesus freak, but I don't

559
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 7: believe that's inclusive like you Jesus.

560
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,959
Speaker 2: Yeah I am. I am.

561
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 7: I'm like a person that really for me in my

562
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 7: life and what has worked for me and has been

563
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 7: a strength and a source for me is him. But

564
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 7: I don't push that on other people, And I don't

565
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 7: think that other people are wrong for their beliefs because

566
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 7: at the end.

567
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 2: Of the day, I'm not fucking God, I don't know.

568
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 7: All I can do is just tell you what works

569
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 7: for me, and if it works for you, then how

570
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 7: Lolly praised Jesus amen, And if not, I'm totally cool

571
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 7: with you doing your thing and you know, hearing about

572
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 7: what works for you. I'm one of those people, so

573
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 7: you know, I thought I was gonna wait yea, So

574
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 7: he like a couple of months in. It was crazy too,

575
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,719
Speaker 7: because like I always ruined the first moments for him.

576
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 7: It's so bad, like with the pregnancy when I brought

577
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 7: it and I looked crazy, like so happy, just like

578
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 7: when I gave him the booty, and then we were

579
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 7: just like he was basking and I wanted to bask,

580
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 7: but my soul felt so.

581
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: Like why did you do that?

582
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 7: You know what your husband that's even stupider, like what

583
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 7: did you just wait? So I was like, you know, overthinking,

584
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 7: I was overthinking it. But I learned also that journey

585
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 7: was not about just about getting married. It was about

586
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 7: the discipline that it takes to be with somebody. If

587
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 7: you are going to be married to somebody, the type

588
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 7: of discipline, that's the kind of discipline that it takes.

589
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 7: The celibacy thing became more of when life gets hard,

590
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 7: when shit gets crazy, am I going to have the

591
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 7: discipline to.

592
00:25:53,280 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 4: Resist my you know, cardinal instincts? And can I hold

593
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 4: down the fort? And that's what it became about.

594
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 7: And so I started to realize the journey was really

595
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 7: about the discipline, the discipline is gonna take to maintain

596
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 7: a marriage and a friendship and a family ship with somebody.

597
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 4: And so that's why I think celibacy is a great

598
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 4: journey for people to take.

599
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 7: Not necessarily for the no, no, not necessarily for me.

600
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 7: It's it was about discipline. Anything in life is about discipline.

601
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 7: Can you hold down the fort and you're gonna get

602
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 7: a husband?

603
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 2: Exactly? Yeah. So you know for me that was like

604
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: the thing, Well that speaks to me a lot. I

605
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: lack a lot of discipline.

606
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 7: Well, obviously you don't, cause you ninety six days in one.

607
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,360
Speaker 7: You have to start somewhere and you have to start

608
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 7: accepting that you have made a lot of progress. You

609
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 7: just said sixty I thought sixty days was gonna be impossible,

610
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 7: And now you're at ninety days.

611
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 2: You need to give yourself some.

612
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 7: Credit, you know, see that where you have progressed and

613
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 7: where you have made a difference, Like, that's all part

614
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 7: of this journey too.

615
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: That's right. I'm proud. I'm certainly gonna be proud that exactly.

616
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 2: But that's how I was feeling. The clubs.

617
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 4: I'd be like, yeah, all, yall, you're fucking I'm clean.

618
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 2: You know, I was a girl.

619
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 7: I was.

620
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 2: I thought I was just too. I was like, I can't.

621
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:31,159
Speaker 2: You can't drink from my bottle and you can't see that.

622
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 4: I was definitely feeling myself.

623
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 7: That's why I had to laugh when I got like, God,

624
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 7: you're gonna just put this right here, and I just

625
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 7: started having fun with this ship.

626
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 2: That's funny. How long did you guys stay before you

627
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: before you got married, before we got pregnant?

628
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, let's start there.

629
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 4: Let's say our ship moved very fast from the port.

630
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 4: Why didn't when you know you now you just just

631
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 4: like you said, yeah, girl, the least was happened. Okay,

632
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 4: let me bring it break it down.

633
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 7: We started talking somewhere in November of twenty thirteen, just

634
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 7: so talking twenty fourteen happened New Year's all his.

635
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 2: Old bitches had to go.

636
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 7: Like it was like yeah at that point, you know,

637
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 7: even when we came to the club where we kissed

638
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 7: on New Year's and it was anyways, that was.

639
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 2: One other thing. So so from that time, what happened?

640
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: Our leases?

641
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 4: Our leases at our places were up around the same time.

642
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: I think it was like April or something. I don't know.

643
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 7: I was pregnant by like the babies in March. So

644
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 7: when was I When did I get pregnant?

645
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 2: Was nine months before that?

646
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 5: I don't know.

647
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: June? Yeah, somewhere in there.

648
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 7: Okay, so you do that math. We moved into April May, June.

649
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 7: I was pregnant in June. We got married.

650
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 4: January first, twenty fifteen, while you were pregnant.

651
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: You remember, Oh, I was so pregnant. I show that

652
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:04,959
Speaker 2: to you too.

653
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:10,479
Speaker 7: And then we had the baby March six, So everything

654
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 7: was fast. It was like a year basically. Yeah, exactly.

655
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 5: But when you hold out and you're kiss enough frogs

656
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 5: and you get your start, let's get the ship started.

657
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: What are we waiting for? You know?

658
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 4: But we did not realize the game of marriage, like

659
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 4: the what it takes.

660
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 2: And then we did have to.

661
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 7: Learn like, oh, there's a whole shitload of shit that

662
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 7: we have to work on as a marriage together.

663
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was a whole nother thing.

664
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 3: And and him being younger than you, because you know,

665
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 3: I am. I don't think I've ever dated anyone younger

666
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 3: than me. And even the men that I have dated,

667
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 3: they're not considerably older than me really, and they're still

668
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 3: fucking mature. So I'm just curious, like, how does that work.

669
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 3: Did you just find the most mature younger man out there?

670
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 3: Or it had there been a process of like, you

671
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 3: know him, like push you pushing him?

672
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 9: I mean we always do with that. I mean we

673
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 9: are absolutely you know, but like absolutely no. I will say,

674
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 9: had you ever dated someone younger than you before?

675
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 8: I have?

676
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 7: I have, Like, I mean, yeah, I've liked young boys,

677
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 7: old boys, it doesn't really matter. But he, you know,

678
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 7: I will say this, he had a lot of growing

679
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 7: to do, maturing to do. But his his core values

680
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 7: is what the glue was. Because we have the same

681
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 7: core values. So it enabled him to grow in that

682
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 7: process and for me to be patient with him maturing

683
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 7: in that process.

684
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: Because at the end of the day, we still have

685
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: the same beliefs. The same values.

686
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 7: So whatever decision he makes on that journey is still

687
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 7: going to boil down to what's best for this household,

688
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 7: what's best for our family.

689
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 4: So no, and he'll tell you himself, he definitely grew

690
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 4: a lot.

691
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 7: My life experiences had been so much more than his

692
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 7: because of the way that he grew up.

693
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 4: So he'll tell you, you know, he feels like he

694
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 4: learned a lot, you know, and that he there.

695
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 7: There was definitely a feeling of the age early on

696
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 7: because I had had so much experience in life and

697
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 7: he was just beginning on that journey.

698
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 4: So no, you know, it wasn't like I just he

699
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 4: was just like, oh, I'm he was not the Eric

700
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 4: he is today when we.

701
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 7: First met as far as maturity wise, but who he

702
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 7: was at the core is the same.

703
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 5: How was even you guys get married like because like

704
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 5: thirty thirty, yeah, which is like from these.

705
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 2: Days, you know, nineteen, I got a section right now,

706
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 2: That's how I got forty two.

707
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 5: Uncle the fuck and you still holler at the at

708
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 5: and now like get the fuck out of my friends. Oh,

709
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 5: but I was gonna ask you, do you think you're

710
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 5: selling the seed journey? Look at me, I'm like writing,

711
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 5: taking it and your sell do you think in your

712
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 5: cell of the journey? It made it clearer for you,

713
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 5: like about the like the man you wanted, because I

714
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 5: realized that sometimes you're not clear about what we want.

715
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: We're not realizing I think we have to be really clear.

716
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: I mean I think about everything in Yeah, it's a manifestation.

717
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: That's why you have to be clear exactly.

718
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 5: And you know, like even like the slightest manifestations, when

719
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 5: you think about something and then and that you know,

720
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 5: it starts to see how much you can harness your power.

721
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 5: So if you're not clear with yourself and with the

722
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 5: universe about exactly what you want, you'll still you'll get

723
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 5: a lot of fun boys because he'll like he's.

724
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 4: Smart, but yeah, but he's broke, you know, like no,

725
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 4: you're you hit the nail on the head.

726
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 7: Absolutely during that journey, I absolutely from my experiences, I knew.

727
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: What I would never deal with ever again.

728
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 7: And I knew what I wanted, you know, what I expected,

729
00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 7: and I stopped bearing the things that I felt make

730
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 7: a good man. You know. I was like vocal with

731
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 7: him where everybody you know, I told you guys, try

732
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 7: to beat you down and make you not want to

733
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 7: say that shit out loud, like something's wrong with you, Like, yeah,

734
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 7: like you expect being opened that dot. So you know,

735
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 7: I just started accepting that I don't give a fuck

736
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 7: what nobody says.

737
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't care.

738
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 7: This is what I'm gonna have and I and all

739
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 7: that all men are gonna cheat and this and that

740
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 7: it's bullshit everybody.

741
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: There's individuals in this world.

742
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 7: And for somebody to say you, as a as an individual,

743
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 7: as a woman, are gonna do something that they just

744
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 7: stereotype all women to do, You're gonna be like, but

745
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 7: I'm an individual and I do what the fuck I

746
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 7: do at the end of the day, period, right, you

747
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 7: can't you can't put me in the group meeting exactly exactly,

748
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 7: so you know, to me, it was like and it's

749
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 7: not even it, And it becomes so much more than

750
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 7: just if a man will cheat or not.

751
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: It becomes like, is that their personality? Is this who

752
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 2: they are?

753
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 4: They just cheat her?

754
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 7: Do they ease just so many elements, you know, But yeah,

755
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 7: I just say it's I definitely knew at that point, like, Okay,

756
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 7: this is what I will, this is what I want,

757
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 7: this is what.

758
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 8: I'm not ever doing and not be brainwashed into thinking

759
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 8: you're crazy exact because somebody telling me, somebody my maybe daddy,

760
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 8: told me.

761
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 5: Like, you're not supportive, You've never supported me, you don't care,

762
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 5: like you never tried.

763
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, niked, Like what, I've known you for fifteen years.

764
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: I've had two jobs. I can't try it harder? How

765
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 2: much harder can I try? I'm like, I'm not supportive?

766
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 4: What two years?

767
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,959
Speaker 2: And then it made me think, like did I not try?

768
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 7: Like?

769
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 2: Was I not trying harder? But now he could tell

770
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 2: you that was get out of here? Was I beating

771
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 2: him down?

772
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 5: I was giving a massage, trying to manifest energies that

773
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 5: didn't You're going to be disciplined.

774
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 4: You're going to be better, Like.

775
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 2: Do you feel the energy I'm putting into you. I'm

776
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 2: doing reiki on your back right now? No energy exchange experience,

777
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 2: but in my mind, I'm like, I need to try harder. Yeah,

778
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: oh my god, that'll happen. Yeah, brainwashery is how was

779
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 2: your first pregnancy?

780
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 7: It was pretty easy, peasy, to be honest, outside of

781
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 7: the horrific morning sickness in the beginning, it was pretty easy.

782
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 7: You have morning sickness, this time, I have morning sickness.

783
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 2: This time it's not as bad, but it's lasting.

784
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 7: Longer because by this point I'm around seventeen weeks now,

785
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 7: eighteen weeks.

786
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm so late and I don't know somewhere in there.

787
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 7: And with Eli, I stopped having morning sickness like at

788
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 7: thirteen weeks something like that, but it was horrific up

789
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 7: until then.

790
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 4: So it's interesting. Yeah, and I'm having these.

791
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 7: Headaches, really really bad headaches, and I wanted to make

792
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 7: sure it wasn't my blood pressure. Everybody's blood It ain't

793
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 7: no bad blood pressure, everything's good, So I think it's

794
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 7: just the hormones.

795
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 4: That's what my doctor's saying. But these headaches are horrible.

796
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 2: I never got it, so, like, what are they? They

797
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 2: just come an They're just.

798
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 7: A band around my head. And yeah, they just mostly

799
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 7: at night. I'm noticing now it's mostly at night.

800
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: And they tell you not to really take anything, right

801
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: girl tiling all right?

802
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 4: It makes me so angry. I'm like, just throw the

803
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 4: fucking twel all away. That shit does not work.

804
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 7: So yeah, I've been suffering from headaches this time around,

805
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 7: which is really annoying.

806
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: Do you have any word crave any craving. Do you

807
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 2: have any cravings that you had then that you're having

808
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: again now?

809
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 4: Yep, I know I'm not supposed to be eating tuna,

810
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 4: but no, no, like.

811
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, chicken and the seagurl that with both of them,

812
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 7: I like salads. I mean, I'm solid girl anyway, so

813
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 7: I'm surprised I still like salad.

814
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:49,439
Speaker 2: What else?

815
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 7: Oh, peanut butter and jug sandwiches, that's for sure with

816
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 7: both of them. Now with this one, I've been on

817
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 7: these hard boiled eggs, something tough. And peppers of all sorts.

818
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 7: Any peppers. I don't care, bell peppers, green peppers, holpeno peppers, anything.

819
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 4: I love peppers right now. So definitely a spicy bay.

820
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 10: I don't think spicy baby winterard Today August twentieth, Leo, we're.

821
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: Gonna have the good old summer pregnancy.

822
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 7: Oh the serverybody keeps telling me it's okay, just be naked, Yeah,

823
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 7: just be naked, just wear a bikini. Yeah, you know

824
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 7: when you actually have the stomachers right now, like in

825
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 7: between right and yeah, people are not sure if they

826
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 7: wouldn't be like, oh are you pregnant, You're just out

827
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 7: of straight right right, So it's the annoying pace that

828
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 7: I'm in right now now, kept trying to work.

829
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 3: Now, I know, like you, because you're thirty thirty nine,

830
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 3: this is considered a high pregnancy.

831
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 2: And it's so funny.

832
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,439
Speaker 3: When I looked up Hyri's pregnancy, I didn't realize, bitch,

833
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 3: were almost thought.

834
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 2: To be high. If we get pregnant five, yeah, I

835
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: mean I'm gonna I'm gonna be thirty two. You know,

836
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 2: I don't live in Western medicine, you know, I think

837
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: they're full of shit. So but I was shocked. I thought,

838
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: like Hyris precture was like forty and up. I think

839
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 2: they like lowered it. I feel like they keep lowering.

840
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,919
Speaker 7: It's been thirty five, even with my first one. Yeah,

841
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 7: I was thirty four. I had them when when I

842
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 7: was thirty five. And it's just a percentage that they

843
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 7: go by that.

844
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: That you can have.

845
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 4: What is it called, girl, I can't even get the

846
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 4: damn worried out.

847
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 2: See that's the pregnancy. You could have preclamsia.

848
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 4: Well not just no, not just right, you know, I

849
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 4: mean like issues with the baby, like.

850
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 5: Chromosotal issues exactly, syndrome exactly.

851
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 7: So that the percentage what happens Why they call it

852
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 7: high risk is because the percentage goes up.

853
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 4: And it's not even drastically, which is the crazy part

854
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 4: to its like very good night. It's so it's so minor.

855
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 4: I think if you do it, it's even less than that.

856
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 5: If at age thirty five it's one and one hundred

857
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 5: and ninety two if you can be down they have

858
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 5: chromosome issues like Down syndrome, and at age forty it's

859
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 5: one in sixty according to the March of Dimes.

860
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 4: Oh that's a big john.

861
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 7: When I looked at it with my doctor, she said,

862
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 7: it's not that big of a deal, but it is

863
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 7: something where you do have to take it into account.

864
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 4: So I did genetic testing with both.

865
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 2: Did they make you do the one where they poke

866
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: your stomach because I heard no, Okay, So.

867
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:28,959
Speaker 7: That's amnuosantisis And that's if they do the blood test

868
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 7: and there is some abnormalities that come back, then they

869
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 7: do to yeah, to make sure that it's not Down

870
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,439
Speaker 7: syndrome or it's like a certain it's like a top

871
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 7: three that they're looking for. So that's when they do

872
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 7: the amniocentesis. So the genetic testing is where they'll do

873
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 7: a blood test and then they'll do You'll have to

874
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 7: go into the genetics doctor and they do this measurement

875
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,720
Speaker 7: of the spine and the neck and all that good stuff.

876
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 7: Then they ask you to go through it's genetic counseling.

877
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 7: What are the genetic diseases in your family. We had

878
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 7: to go through that, and my husband's on his side

879
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 7: of the family, they have sickle cell So that was,

880
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 7: you know, of some concern just making sure that I'm

881
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 7: not a carrier because then when you have.

882
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 4: Two carriers exactly, so you know, we had that, but

883
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 4: there wasn't too much.

884
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 7: I think cystic fibrosis was another thing that we had

885
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 7: to just make sure he was not a carrier because

886
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 7: I was so.

887
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 4: You know, it's it's it's interesting. The first to go around,

888
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 4: I was scared because I'm like, what is all.

889
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: This testing and what?

890
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 8: You know?

891
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 4: They scare you, right, and they do. They really do

892
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 4: scare you.

893
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 7: And this time around, I'm just like, oh, this is

894
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 7: just what they got to do, the basics. But they

895
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 7: definitely scare you. All that high risk talk and stuff.

896
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: They make it so weird and creepy and it's not

897
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: that deep.

898
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 4: It's really not that deep.

899
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 2: Did you have a natural birth or no no epidural.

900
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 4: So happened with that.

901
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 2: One. They put it in kind of weird.

902
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 7: So I started having like this extreme contraction in my

903
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 7: butt in my right blue where I thought it was

904
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 7: gonna pop, but I thought my butt cheap.

905
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 4: I was screaming, it was so bad.

906
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 7: They were pushing it in and every time they would

907
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 7: push the fluid, it contracted. So they hit a nerve

908
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 7: where it contracted and it felt like it was gonna explode.

909
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 4: And I'm like, just stop, let me take it out.

910
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, my ass is gonna explode, like, get it out.

911
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: So they took it out. They had to redo it.

912
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 5: Girl.

913
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 7: They put this one in my toes start tangling. I'm like,

914
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 7: oh shit, it's working. It's starting to feel because my

915
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 7: attraction started hurting. Bitch, just stopped at my ankles.

916
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 2: It was done. It just didn't work for me. So

917
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 2: they tried and you just didn't.

918
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 4: You still felt then, and.

919
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,280
Speaker 7: That was it, girl, And they were like, some people

920
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 7: just don't take Yes, why couldn't I find this out before?

921
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: I was had no idea. Yeah, some people do not take.

922
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 4: With it until then I started getting hives.

923
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: Then I was.

924
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 7: It was like you get these chills and stuff. So

925
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 7: then they started flushing me more with the potocin and

926
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 7: it was just a hot mess.

927
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 2: It was a hot mess.

928
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 7: So basically, no, when I had him, I was in

929
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 7: labor for thirty eight hours, four and a half hours

930
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 7: of active labor, which usually they take you in for

931
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 7: a c section at two hours cause the baby starts.

932
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: To lose oxygen, the mommy, all that good stuff. We

933
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: were strong. I was fine.

934
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, at that point I was falling asleep in between contractions.

935
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 7: Eric was pushing and counting for four and a half hours,

936
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 7: and that was it. I just slept my way through that.

937
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 7: I'm so tired at that point, right, But it did

938
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 7: hurt from what I can remember. So you're not even

939
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 7: gonna bother with the epideral this time, No, I don't

940
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 7: think so. And I'm also considering maybe I want to

941
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 7: do like a water bird. Yeah, you shaid something new

942
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 7: and interesting at home?

943
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 2: Or I was thinking at home? Maybe have you seen

944
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 2: the birth of the business of Dan born? Oh?

945
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I did I have with Rosie? Yeah, just like yeah, yeah,

946
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 5: I don't know why I get them confused. I've done

947
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 5: that before, you know, I know it's a little.

948
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: Late in the game to be considering, But I am,

949
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: I'm really highly did you do it?

950
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 7: No?

951
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 2: I wanted to, and I was obsessing about it, and

952
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: I was preclamsy yet and I couldn't know.

953
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I had to deliver early, but I planned

954
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 5: on it. And I have like a lot of girlfriends

955
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 5: who have I've deliver twins. I have a girlfriend who

956
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 5: did twice a half. And it's like a totally different experience.

957
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, the hospital is.

958
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 2: Just so extra it is and it's just so where

959
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 2: did you give birth?

960
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 4: Saint Joseph's that now.

961
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 2: They were very good.

962
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 7: They were very like family time in Burbank Okay, oh yeah,

963
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 7: very family time, like with the baby. They wouldn't even

964
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 7: let family or any in for like an hour. They

965
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 7: wanted the baby to have bonding time with me and

966
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 7: daddy and they were just very like serious about their ship. No,

967
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 7: their their family, We're gonna leave them in there have

968
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 7: their time, you know.

969
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 2: So it was good, I mean other than my.

970
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 4: Right, Other than that, you know, it was great.

971
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I really much. You have a humber.

972
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm definitely considering at this point.

973
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 2: It's no point.

974
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 4: At this point, it's no point for an.

975
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: Right right, and and then what I've noticed at the hospital,

976
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 2: even though I like I was prett clamcy and had

977
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 2: high blood pression all the other ship and ended up

978
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 2: getting an epidural, Like there's so many interruptions that I realized,

979
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: like they don't like do ship, Like what did my

980
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: daughter do? Like harp my pajina?

981
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 11: A little bit like coming everyone like I did this, y'all,

982
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 11: y'all watch me do this? Like he cut the cord,

983
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 11: I pushed. It doesn't really matter how much I've dilated.

984
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 11: I'm gonna have it at some point, so what the

985
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 11: fuck doesn't.

986
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 4: Matter archizing, I'll hold my legs.

987
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 2: We got this, I've done it, you know. So yeah, yeah,

988
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 2: I'm so exciting.

989
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm ready, though, I'm just ready, go ahead, schedule.

990
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: Well, girl, you've got a long time.

991
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 4: I'm getting tired right now.

992
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, And that's the thing.

993
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 4: I've been sleepy as hell, definitely pregnant, Oh my god.

994
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 4: And I'm trying to, you know, take care of my ship,

995
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 4: keep my little workouts going.

996
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 7: You know.

997
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 12: I want to be.

998
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 4: Forty in fabulous, not forty in flabby.

999
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 7: The baby September at twenty seven so right after I

1000
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 7: let it go, it might not be all the way.

1001
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 2: No, I can't. Where did you figure on? Job? Broke

1002
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 2: the baby hop out and started doing crazy.

1003
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 7: You know what I did?

1004
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 2: Last time?

1005
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 5: I did?

1006
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 7: I did?

1007
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 4: I was really skinny, really fast.

1008
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 2: Did you rest me? I did five and a half months.

1009
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 2: I was trying to go longer, but me and the niggas.

1010
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 4: Just wasn't compatible.

1011
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,959
Speaker 7: So he was like, because he starved like the first

1012
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 7: three days, and I thought he was getting milk, I'm

1013
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 7: like thinking, I'm doing my job, my book at even

1014
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 7: they didn't even come.

1015
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 2: No, I was traumatized. So we started realizing that he

1016
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: was getting weak.

1017
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 7: Oh no, he hadn't been eating girls and he had

1018
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 7: taken to the hospital. Yeah, so it's funny because he

1019
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 7: was traumatized after that. So let me tell you about

1020
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 7: this boy. He wanted breast milk, not for my titties,

1021
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 7: because he was like, those don't work. But he didn't

1022
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 7: want formula. He would not take the formula, so it

1023
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 7: had to be breast milk from the bottle. So I

1024
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 7: was pumping my life away. It was very stressful, it

1025
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 7: was very hard, and he just didn't give a fuck.

1026
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 4: And he's still like that. He wants what he wants,

1027
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 4: how he wants it. So I should have just known.

1028
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 4: Now take those early signs.

1029
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: And run with it.

1030
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 4: That's there. That's who they are.

1031
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:43,800
Speaker 2: They do what they want to do.

1032
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 4: They do what they want to You can, girl, he'd

1033
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 4: be like them titties is broke.

1034
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but yeah.

1035
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 7: I lost a lot really fast, and then I gained

1036
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 7: a quick thirty because I thought I was cute so

1037
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 7: fast I was like, I'm good.

1038
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,919
Speaker 2: Like I don't have to and then I gave thirty

1039
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: pounds and those two years fighting that all those thirty

1040
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 2: pounds that was me. Those last for me. It was

1041
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 2: at those last thirty pounds, not just like off.

1042
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 7: Because it's a different type of weight. People don't understand that. Baby,

1043
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 7: it's that mama weight.

1044
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 3: Your weight has been distributed in what places that You're like,

1045
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 3: I didn't even know I can get that.

1046
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 2: Girl. I'm like, what is this ugly? You don't like it?

1047
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 4: I don't like it.

1048
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 7: So that's another thing. I had to like accept this body,

1049
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,439
Speaker 7: this new body. This is a little little, little little

1050
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 7: wider than it was before. And to me, it really,

1051
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 7: you know, I really noticed. You'd be like, you know

1052
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 7: what kind of genes fit you good, they said, don't

1053
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 7: work for you no more. It's just like you gotta

1054
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 7: find a new favorite pair.

1055
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 2: See, high waisted is what works for me now. The

1056
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 2: low waisted ones they don't work so well. I always

1057
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 2: have my crackout.

1058
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 4: I passed, I stuffed.

1059
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 2: Well, the crack was out. It was. But the franky

1060
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 2: damn bees, I know, but mine was. I love those.

1061
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 4: Mine were disrespectful.

1062
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: You can feel them. They still have them. Girls.

1063
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 3: Probably we all always I want to boo. You can

1064
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 3: find you probably know they probably and that little shadows.

1065
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 4: I forget the streak that was. It was like near

1066
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 4: Johnny Rocket Rocket clothes. Yeah, they exist anymore because I

1067
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 4: I've been to close too.

1068
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 2: I think there's like one left.

1069
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 8: It's like.

1070
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: Whole known Chris.

1071
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 4: Became better chilled. But there's one and bourbon.

1072
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah this day there I used to be one. I know,

1073
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 2: a fresh time.

1074
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 4: So this baby does not like sugar.

1075
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 2: I wasn't obsessed with donuts when I was pregnant. I

1076
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:53,720
Speaker 2: just wanted donuts.

1077
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so happy. I've been on the

1078
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,280
Speaker 4: ice cream a little bit, but I'm so happy.

1079
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 7: No, just stay off the because I love cakes, pies, cookies, anything,

1080
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 7: but this baby's like, no, I'm good.

1081
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 2: This is your son, like a lot of sweets. How

1082
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: does he eat?

1083
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 7: Is he a panicky No, he's not a finicky eater. No,

1084
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 7: he don't do sweets because I'm like that, Mamma, I'm.

1085
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 4: That cry because the sugar is cracked. For trying that,

1086
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 4: mama ran forty nine. No, right, I'll eat the cheetos,

1087
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 4: but you know I'll give it. Yeah, we don't know.

1088
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:28,959
Speaker 2: So he's like and he's nutty.

1089
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 4: You don't even really trip.

1090
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 7: He'll go to a birthday party and he's cool if

1091
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,959
Speaker 7: he doesn't eat anything, but I started giving him. Okay,

1092
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 7: can have a little cupcake. But the candy fucked the

1093
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 7: candy candy stupid. It makes it, it makes him crazy.

1094
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 2: Is he in school? In school? Baby, he's in school.

1095
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, girl, I'm like this little birthday damn ask

1096
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 7: the parents.

1097
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, he got him stressing over. And he's normally not that.

1098
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:52,959
Speaker 4: Bad, but every once in a while when he sees

1099
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 4: everybody else, you know, but.

1100
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 7: It's be like at school, they just bring their kids

1101
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 7: little gift bags with their little sugar somebody.

1102
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, when you were trying to find a school

1103
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 2: for him. Was that like how is that? Because I

1104
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: know for me, like I was so stressful and even now,

1105
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:12,320
Speaker 2: like I know if it's so stressful. Even now, I'm like,

1106
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 2: well my daughter's school, I'm like, damn, this is not expensive. Secondly,

1107
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 2: I'm like should I keep her here?

1108
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 7: And they like want to make you think about school

1109
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 7: careers other parents like I went and did a tour

1110
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 7: it you know whatever Buckley, and I'm like already, so

1111
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 7: I'm so scared.

1112
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: Like what what does this mean? Why do I have

1113
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 2: to do all this stuff right now?

1114
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 7: It was hard and too because I was like refusing

1115
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 7: to let him go to school until he could like

1116
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 7: really talk and stuff.

1117
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 4: I'm glad that I was able to do that.

1118
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: I know not everybody's able to do that.

1119
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 7: So girl, them schools, it was it was hard for

1120
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 7: them schools because I'd be like, ooh, this stink and

1121
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 7: I know kids have a smell.

1122
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 2: Now I know.

1123
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 4: I didn't know then.

1124
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: You know when your first time mom, you don't know about.

1125
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 4: That, like yeah, like that preschool like kid just the

1126
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 4: kids play stink stink. People don't know about that.

1127
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 7: It's like it's real, it's just a kids staying like

1128
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 7: kids places even when they clean them very regularly. It

1129
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 7: smelled like a little mix of cleaning product and little

1130
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 7: kids saying to me, it's just it is what it is.

1131
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 4: And I had to learn that as I kept going

1132
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 4: to these schools.

1133
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 7: I'm like, nah, I don't want him going to place

1134
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 7: that smells like it doesn't smell like pure pooh.

1135
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 2: I just can't explain it. It's just a kid. It's

1136
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:27,479
Speaker 2: tacky paint and plato and glitter and and yeah.

1137
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 3: So that's the whole thing too, Like you go to

1138
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,320
Speaker 3: these schools and they're not clean, but then you have

1139
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 3: to think, like or not.

1140
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 2: It's how do you really keep a school clean? Right?

1141
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 7: And that's what I had to how to keep it.

1142
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 7: I found a happy medium these people. I was like, oh,

1143
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 7: I came back after naptime. Okay, it smelled like products

1144
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 7: in here. Okay, So y'all like doing intermissions?

1145
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:48,919
Speaker 4: Okay, I like y'all.

1146
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 7: I like y'all.

1147
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 4: But you know, and then too, the curriculum and all that.

1148
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 2: It's just so much. Is there so much? Do you

1149
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: think you'll have him in private school or what's what

1150
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 2: is that's the plan?

1151
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 7: I say this, we couldn't go to private school? Well,

1152
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 7: obviously we sturned out good. I won't tell you about

1153
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 7: you know, school, don't ask me nothing that has to.

1154
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 2: Do like educationally, yeah like that questions.

1155
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I'll write you a script, I'll send you

1156
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 7: a song, like I can come up with a good

1157
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 7: business plan like things that don't have to just just do,

1158
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 7: you know, with school. But I want him to have

1159
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 7: the opportunity to have a school career if that's where

1160
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 7: he's leaning towards. But I think you just have to

1161
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 7: know your child too, you know, at the end of

1162
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 7: the day, he is very creative, but he is very

1163
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 7: good with like engineering stuff, like actual computer stuff. So

1164
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 7: I'm trying to take that into account, and I think

1165
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 7: school is a good avenue for him if he's more

1166
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 7: into that engineering side. So I want to give him

1167
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 7: a chance to go to private school. And I never

1168
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 7: got to go to private school, you know, so I'm like,

1169
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 7: why not if we can afford to do it. And

1170
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 7: we'll see how that goes. And I'm just gonna track

1171
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 7: him and see, you know, what his interests are. You know,

1172
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 7: I put him in typewon dough and you know, he

1173
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 7: just got an agent, so he's gonna try acting.

1174
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just got to try ship right now. Whatever

1175
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 4: he falls into.

1176
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I saw his headshots that you posted.

1177
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 2: He's so funny. No, girl, I didn't even know what

1178
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 2: was going on. Oh my god. You look on her Instagram.

1179
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 2: He's so funny. He is so funny. He's like, yeah,

1180
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 2: just like that.

1181
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 7: He's like he's that guy though. That's why I was like,

1182
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 7: this might be good for you. You know, you're kids,

1183
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,919
Speaker 7: you know, like if they're kind of shy, like, don't

1184
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:30,959
Speaker 7: force them into ship.

1185
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 3: Speaking of forcing kids in school, I just have to

1186
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,959
Speaker 3: touch on the whole scam school.

1187
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 2: Scam thing that's happening right now because.

1188
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 4: The fraudulent ring of parents, the fraudulent ring.

1189
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 3: Because I'm thinking about like because I really had to think,

1190
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 3: like if I really like, how far would I go

1191
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 3: for my daughter's education, you know.

1192
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 2: Like like would I could I have gotten caught up

1193
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 2: in this ring?

1194
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:54,919
Speaker 7: I don't.

1195
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 2: I don't.

1196
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 3: I want to say no because I'm very much so

1197
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 3: like you need to earn it, you know, that's how

1198
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 3: I was raised. But then I'm like, well, all these

1199
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 3: little white kids be doing this was they just got caught.

1200
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 3: This has been going on since the beginning of time.

1201
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 2: But everywhere. This has been going on to the beginning

1202
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 2: of time.

1203
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 3: It's my child gonna be over Will my child be

1204
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: overlooked even though she's smart? Absolutely So, if there's a

1205
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 3: way that I can make sure she's gonna get into

1206
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 3: a school that I know she's capable of that money

1207
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 3: and she's capable of going to and excelling it, no,

1208
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't think I would. But I just

1209
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 3: was having to talk with talk with myself because I'm like,

1210
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 3: these kids, clearly possibly what I'm assuming is they were

1211
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 3: not capable, they didn't have the grades, they didn't have

1212
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 3: the drive. Well, absolutely well, then I'm wondering, how the

1213
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 3: fuck are they going to succeed? Wh Are their parents

1214
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 3: setting them up to fail to go to a school

1215
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 3: that they can't that's not that's setting them up to

1216
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 3: win well, to win, but also not do well in

1217
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 3: school though possibly, But you're going to keep paying, keep

1218
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 3: paying social It's.

1219
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 4: No, they're probably paying for them grades and all that.

1220
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 7: It's a social like it's an actual status thing with

1221
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 7: them and their country clubs and things like that.

1222
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 2: It's true, you know they're definitely.

1223
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 3: When you go to Harvard, there's an elite group of

1224
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 3: meat and you automatically are opportunities that you're not going

1225
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 3: to get be afforded to college.

1226
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 4: And I think that's the point of it. They did

1227
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 4: it to set them up, to set them up.

1228
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 7: You know.

1229
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: My whole thing is, if you got.

1230
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 5: Five hundred thousand dollars to pay a bitch to put

1231
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 5: her in school, just start the pitch buses right right right?

1232
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 2: How about this switch? Here's the blueprints.

1233
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 4: But you know what, I think there's a it's just

1234
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 4: a cultural thing. You know, other parents think that your

1235
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 4: child is done. I think it's a culture thing.

1236
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 7: I think, you know, with African American culture, you know,

1237
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 7: our thing is more and and it's becoming more entrepreneurial, business,

1238
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 7: own family things.

1239
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: And I think.

1240
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 4: On the other side, it's more about the.

1241
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 7: Organization, the status, the status, just those things are more important.

1242
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 5: You know.

1243
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 7: I feel like it's been a family history handed down

1244
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 7: with all these you know, privileges, and for them, that's

1245
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 7: what it's about.

1246
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 2: In my household, I feel like I had to go

1247
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 2: to college.

1248
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 5: There was no entrepreneur like. It was like, no, you're

1249
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 5: going to college. You're black, and you have to work

1250
00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 5: harder and go above and beyond Becky, you know, like

1251
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 5: you have to go, like it wasn't even I didn't

1252
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 5: even like it wasn't even an option for me now

1253
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,720
Speaker 5: to go. And my friend I had friends who didn't

1254
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 5: have to go, like, no, it's not my thing, so

1255
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 5: you know, you'll work for the family business, right, And

1256
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 5: that was totally cool and okay, like oh she's interesting, right, yeah,

1257
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 5: But for me, I felt like I didn't have a

1258
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 5: choice because like I in my mind, I was like, oh,

1259
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 5: I got to like go above and beyond.

1260
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 2: I have to have all these credicitids and I should

1261
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 2: get my masters. I didn't even get my bachelor's.

1262
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 4: But in my mind, I'm like my doctorates because I

1263
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 4: have to be better than this person.

1264
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 5: Yes, but which is fucked up, because I mean that's

1265
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 5: in somebody obviously time to changing. There's more like an

1266
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 5: entrepreneurial in flights when we're realizing college is not a

1267
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 5: fucking necessity for you to be successful or be wealthy.

1268
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 2: But it's just it's unfortunate that like you know, kids

1269
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:09,799
Speaker 2: who it.

1270
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 3: Does open doors though, and definitely yeah, and that's what

1271
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 3: that and that's what that status is. And I think also,

1272
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 3: I mean for me, I went to a very prestigious

1273
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 3: middle school and it was mostly Caucasian and it was

1274
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 3: in Brentwood, and we were talking about college in sixth grade.

1275
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 2: We were talking about college.

1276
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 3: And having college like one of those things like college

1277
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 3: fairs out of school. And so I was already thinking

1278
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 3: about like the Ivy League schools I wanted to go to,

1279
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 3: because that's what all the other kids and their parents

1280
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 3: were talking about. Their kids are going to go to

1281
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 3: you know, Carvard, or their kids going to go to

1282
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 3: Yale or you know. And I left that school to

1283
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 3: go to high school and went to a more you know,

1284
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 3: like a regular high school.

1285
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 2: It was still private, but it wasn't that school.

1286
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 3: And it's so interesting like going from a very prestigious

1287
00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 3: middle school and then going to a school that was

1288
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 3: still private but wasn't like that. The kind of colleges

1289
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 3: that kids at my high school were talking about versus

1290
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 3: the kids at my prestigious were so different, Like I

1291
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 3: want to go, like I want to go to Arizona State.

1292
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 3: Ain't nobody going to Arizona State at my middle school.

1293
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 3: Arizona State, uh noted Archer School for girls.

1294
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 2: So it was an all girls school.

1295
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 3: So and I think about too even in that in

1296
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 3: that environment, and it was so there was so much

1297
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 3: wealth in my school, and I remember like people kids

1298
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 3: were not were getting better grades than they should have

1299
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 3: been getting, even in middle school because of the relationships

1300
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 3: that the parents had.

1301
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 2: Had with the school, donting and like so many I

1302
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 2: remembers so many.

1303
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 3: I remembers finding out some of the girls that were

1304
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 3: getting into these Ivy League schools. I was like, how

1305
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 3: the f she'd get into Brown, How there's no way,

1306
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 3: And so that's how, you know, like they're buying in.

1307
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 2: It's all about the relationships. Maybe their parents knew someone

1308
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 2: at Brown, White recommendations and all that thing.

1309
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 3: And now I'm seeing it with my brother cause he's waiting,

1310
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 3: he's a senior and he's waiting to see what colleges.

1311
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: He's getting into, and it's just all about.

1312
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 3: Relationships and it's it's it's it's gotten to a point

1313
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 3: too now where school is so so competitive, more so

1314
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 3: than when we were in school. Like it's out of control. Bye,

1315
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 3: I love you the bus.

1316
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 7: Oh okay, okay, I'll see you by.

1317
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 2: La blah bye. It's just changed so much, And like,

1318
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 2: do I think what these women did are right? Hell?

1319
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 3: The fuck no, because they took spots away from kids

1320
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 3: that whether you're black, white, whatever, you took spots away

1321
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 3: from kids that have worked their asses are and some

1322
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 3: of these kids that like, for example, this Lorie Laughlin,

1323
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 3: she's the one who was on Full House and her

1324
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 3: daughter is like a influencer or whatever. She didn't even

1325
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 3: want to go to school her daughter on video saying like, yeah,

1326
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 3: I got into sc I mean I have I'm going

1327
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: to have a trip the first week of school. I

1328
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 3: have a trip to Bali' so I'm gonna miss the

1329
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 3: first week and then I have to go to like Africa.

1330
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 2: Then I have to do this and I do that.

1331
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 2: So like, I don't really want to go to school.

1332
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm good, I'm not excited, but really you

1333
01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 2: have people die that I'm excited for the.

1334
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 3: Parties, That's what she said, And I'm like, yo, people

1335
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 3: want that opportunity so bad yea, and have worked hard to.

1336
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:27,919
Speaker 2: Be able to be there and they're on the fucking

1337
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 2: waiting list and this bitch isn't right.

1338
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 3: It's just so sad, and like the two girls have

1339
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 3: now dropped out and lost you know, she lost her

1340
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 3: She had had some lucrative deal. It's before that she's lost.

1341
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 3: The mom has been fired from all her shows and.

1342
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 7: Good they're gonna have like very repercussions because they thought

1343
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 7: they're gonna get away with that ship.

1344
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 3: She've committed mail fraud, all types of fraud, so she's

1345
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 3: facing jail time. And and same with Felicity Huffman, who

1346
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 3: I've always respected as an actress. And I'm just like,

1347
01:00:56,920 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 3: damn girl wide paying for her daughter's SAT test to

1348
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 3: be taken, Like that's crazy, and.

1349
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 2: You know it's not a parent as a parent, what

1350
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 2: does that your daughter? No, you don't have any like.

1351
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 4: That, you don't believe in them, and that you don't

1352
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 4: have to really do ship.

1353
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 2: I'll do it for you. I'll make it.

1354
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 5: You don't have to be smart, you don't have to

1355
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 5: try and study because I'm entitle mom.

1356
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's entitlement and it's fucked up and it's it's

1357
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 2: it's it's very and.

1358
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 5: Then they like, you know, for a long time, there

1359
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 5: was like a like a conversation about like whether or

1360
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 5: not affirmative action was fair because everybody should work for it,

1361
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 5: but do you really think, like realistically, like Okay, look

1362
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 5: at the ratio of.

1363
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: Faces, right, that we saw in Mexico.

1364
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 4: Do you really tell me about opening up the opportunities?

1365
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 5: Right?

1366
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 2: And it's just like there are smart everybody's you know.

1367
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 2: So it's just it's just.

1368
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 4: Affirmative action even exists because ship.

1369
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 2: Is fucked up.

1370
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 5: She is unfair. This system is racist. We live like

1371
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 5: people don't want to admit it, but like it is.

1372
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 5: It's it's not fair, and it's it's it's a white

1373
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 5: supremacist situation and that's just global.

1374
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 7: It's crazy that I wonder how they even busted this

1375
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 7: whole scandal white open right after so long?

1376
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 4: Where was the motivations?

1377
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 2: Like gonna tell right, what did you think she's gonna

1378
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 2: get that? That callback fuck that?

1379
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 13: I don't know.

1380
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 2: She pays, like, how do they bust this whole scandal

1381
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 2: white open after this long? Anyways?

1382
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 4: She said it's just one person, like I'm not gonna

1383
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 4: let her get away with this.

1384
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, one one rich mom's kid didn't get it. She

1385
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 2: made children fifty thousand and they didn't let her in.

1386
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 2: She's like, you know what.

1387
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: Happened is going to everything's going into Harvard, everything's down,

1388
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 3: and here we are today.

1389
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 2: Because Cindy certainly is smarter than her. Oh my god,

1390
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 2: she's better for that.

1391
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 3: But it made the same I like, it made it

1392
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 3: a bigger conversation with me, Like what what am I

1393
01:02:58,960 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 3: willing to do?

1394
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm willing to do anything for my job,

1395
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 2: but like at what, Like what are you teaching them? Yeah?

1396
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 7: Like it's a hard toss up though, I mean I

1397
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 7: get I get it. But at the same time, there's

1398
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 7: a whole book of morals and like you said, setting

1399
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 7: them up to fill in life in general, because when

1400
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 7: you have to wing it on your own, you're fucked.

1401
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 2: I don't care who paid for what.

1402
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 4: I don't give.

1403
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 2: I don't care.

1404
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 7: And that's why you're on drugs and you're cracked out

1405
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 7: and you've killed yourself and.

1406
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 5: You know so because no one's made you work for ship. Yeah,

1407
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 5: everything's supposed to be handed to you.

1408
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: I mean there was a time where I was like, fuck,

1409
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 2: I really want to finish college, but oh so much work.

1410
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 5: I wonder if I could pay somebody. I wonder if

1411
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 5: I could just like change my transcripts a little bit.

1412
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 5: But I was thinking that my if I called my dad,

1413
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 5: do you think I can.

1414
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: Borrow five grade?

1415
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 5: I found somebody who can change my transcripts. I'll be

1416
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 5: a senior, I'll do the senior work. I'll be fine,

1417
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 5: and then i'll graduate.

1418
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 2: You know what they say, I don't know. Let me

1419
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 2: let me. I don't know about that.

1420
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 7: You know my family like five thousand dollars, No, bitch, right,

1421
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 7: I got the girl, we got mortgage.

1422
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 2: Don't even five hundred? Yeah, five hundred girl. No, that's funny.

1423
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 5: And it's just I hope they really do like throw

1424
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 5: the book at this, like they throw the book at

1425
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 5: everybody else these days, right, because there are cases that

1426
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 5: we looked up and there's just like minor I mean,

1427
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 5: this is fucking in every type of judicial issue, there's

1428
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 5: a huge gap between you know, I know it's like

1429
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 5: each case is individual, but it's a huge gap in

1430
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 5: you know, white sentences.

1431
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 2: And brown sentences. That's no fucking secret. So like there's like,

1432
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 2: what's that case.

1433
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:39,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was a girl and there was In twenty twelve,

1434
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 3: there was a woman in Connecticut who used her nanny's

1435
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 3: address to send her son to school and she she

1436
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 3: was three, yeah, she's black. Three years in prison, and

1437
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 3: Connecticut claimed that she took fifteen thousand dollars of state

1438
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 3: funded money education away from somebody else so that her

1439
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 3: son could go to a better school.

1440
01:04:58,520 --> 01:04:59,760
Speaker 2: So that's why she was getting sent.

1441
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 5: Who's gonna what happens and who's gonna be because they

1442
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 5: gave money?

1443
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 4: Are they gonna be like, well, we can't say because

1444
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 4: she didn't take it away, money away.

1445
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 2: You gave the money.

1446
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,439
Speaker 5: We're just gonna give me a slap on the wrists, right,

1447
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 5: She just was caring about her daughter's education.

1448
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 2: She doesn't cared so much. She didn't want her to

1449
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: be a professional blogger.

1450
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 4: She would prefer to be a blogger and a Harvard student.

1451
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 5: And if anyone's gonna be an uproar over the bullshit,

1452
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 5: they're in an uproar for everybody else to do.

1453
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 8: You know, we're gonna see I'm sick of this ship, damn.

1454
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:40,520
Speaker 8: Like I'm just sicking of like white privilege such bullshit,

1455
01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 8: you know.

1456
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 5: And they're gonna like the public is gonna put out

1457
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:46,919
Speaker 5: a stupid speech and they're gonna cry on camera, yeah,

1458
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 5: you know, those stupid white white tears.

1459
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: And I don't have not I don't care about those tears.

1460
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 2: I can't. I don't, I really don't.

1461
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 5: I said when I said what I'm saying, and I

1462
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 5: stick by my statement.

1463
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 2: I don't care about those white tears. I'm falling. I

1464
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 2: called it out. She was like, oh my god, Oh

1465
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 2: my gosh, I'm speaking of falling. Oh ship never never land.

1466
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 2: How is that a transition for falling.

1467
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 4: I don't know, but she was like, well, we got

1468
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 4: to move on right, basically.

1469
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 2: Charged comments, but you know it is falling, Yeah, you know.

1470
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 2: I just I don't. I don't, I don't, I don't.

1471
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 4: I just feel like waiting till somebody's dead and gone

1472
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 4: and buried, and then you.

1473
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 7: Want to say all these accusations and give detailed accounts

1474
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 7: when somebody cannot defend themselves. I just and this is

1475
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 7: the thing for all those victims out there that have

1476
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 7: actually been abused and have actually been molested and.

1477
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 4: All these horrific things.

1478
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 7: I have a real problem with people using the me

1479
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 7: too campaign and all this stuff to tear down people

1480
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 7: to be able to my voice against yours. Well, nobody's

1481
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 7: gonna say anything against an abused person or somebody who

1482
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 7: you know. It's just like, I feel like people are

1483
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 7: really taking advantage of that whole thing.

1484
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 2: I just feel I really have a problem with that.

1485
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 7: And I don't know that I believe these guys, and

1486
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 7: I just feel like without him here to be able

1487
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 7: to state his piece, I just feel like it's bullshit.

1488
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 4: I feel like it's crazy. I don't know, I just

1489
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 4: feel like, you know, with R. Kelly, I mean, we've

1490
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 4: seen the videos, We've seen you pissing, We've.

1491
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 3: Seen like you know what I'm saying, Like, so we've

1492
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 3: also seen We've also seen your interview and you was

1493
01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 3: a damn lie.

1494
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just all over the place, like you know,

1495
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 4: he was just yeah, he for show.

1496
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 2: He got a message, just for sure.

1497
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:11,959
Speaker 7: And the thing is we have witnessed without reasonable look there. Look,

1498
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 7: there's not a without a shadow of a doubt. You

1499
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 7: was over the fucking kids period period. And I just

1500
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 7: feel like for somebody not to have that right to

1501
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 7: be able to be proven guilty without any reasonable doubt

1502
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 7: is crazy to me. So you're just gonna take these

1503
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 7: people just because they talking about all the draw stuff

1504
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 7: and all the stuff they was talking about.

1505
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:40,080
Speaker 4: I haven't seen it yet, and everybody keeps saying, my parent,

1506
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:40,680
Speaker 4: I have to see it.

1507
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 3: Well that here's the thing for me, Like I haven't

1508
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 3: seen it, but I have to say, like, yes, I

1509
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 3: agree with you. As far as that he's not here

1510
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 3: to defend himself. But do I think that Michael Jackson

1511
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 3: has in it, has had inappropriate relationships with little boy?

1512
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:55,439
Speaker 2: Do you think.

1513
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 7: Hold personal that's an issue within itself that has nothing

1514
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 7: to do No. I do feel like there are people

1515
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:08,600
Speaker 7: that can be around children all fucking day long, that

1516
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 7: that that is their thing whatever. But as a parent,

1517
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 7: that's just dumb as fun. Who is gonna let your

1518
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 7: child hang out? I wouldn't have even when a woman,

1519
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 7: even when a grown a woman period, So that that

1520
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 7: that goes to speak on the parents.

1521
01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 2: We obviously know that Michael has had some issues growing up.

1522
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 7: He never really left childhood, so there are psychological things

1523
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:35,679
Speaker 7: that can totally point to having no sexual attraction, nothing

1524
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,759
Speaker 7: to do with no less, no kids.

1525
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 4: He has a mental illness that has not.

1526
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 7: Allowed him to really age past whatever age he got

1527
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 7: stuck at with his trauma. No, I don't stop putting

1528
01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 7: it on this man like no, no, And I'm not

1529
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 7: saying it because of his talent. I'm not saying it

1530
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 7: because of because I give a fuck about that. I

1531
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 7: love R Kelly music, Bump and grind all that I

1532
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 7: grew up to that shit you know what. I but

1533
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 7: at the end of the day, the man is guilty.

1534
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 7: We've seen it, Ye're.

1535
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:05,680
Speaker 2: No question, you know.

1536
01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 3: I was telling my friend I was facetiming my friend

1537
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 3: Jared this morning because we went to an R. Kelly

1538
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 3: concert like six years ago. It was it was it

1539
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 3: was a pitchfork and he was it was like a festival,

1540
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 3: so he was performing. And at that time, I said, Jared,

1541
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 3: do you know how wrong we are because we knew

1542
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 3: that we knew then that he had been pissing on people.

1543
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 3: I really had, and I was like we were front row.

1544
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:27,640
Speaker 5: Let me.

1545
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 2: And I had to really be like, that was fucked

1546
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 2: up of me. I had to say. The really issue

1547
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 2: was I'm like, niggas we seen this video. I've seen

1548
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 2: the video.

1549
01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 7: I was like sixteen, and I'm looking at her like,

1550
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 7: why is she dancing like that? That's the problem to me,

1551
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 7: not even the age. We all knew the age, then

1552
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 7: the fact that I looked at this girl said she

1553
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 7: dancing she's and I'm laughing at her, like no, bitch, y'all.

1554
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 4: Are sick in the head.

1555
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:54,880
Speaker 7: And it's crazy though, how social media has made us

1556
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 7: obsessed into celebrities lives that the person has become bigger

1557
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 7: than the talent, and ultimately that's what took him under

1558
01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 7: because back then it was all about talent and everybody

1559
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 7: was like, oh, I mean we literally didn't even see

1560
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:09,639
Speaker 7: it wasn't even that it wasn't true.

1561
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 2: We just didn't see the fourteen year old as fourteen. No,

1562
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 2: it didn't.

1563
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 3: And also us being that age, when we saw it,

1564
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 3: we related to her and we felt like, well, we

1565
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:17,599
Speaker 3: wanted to fuck.

1566
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 2: We knew.

1567
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:22,920
Speaker 4: There's some perfect I kept saying, she was dancing ugly.

1568
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 2: That's my whole that age.

1569
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 3: At least, I was actually active at a young age,

1570
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 3: so I felt like, well, that was my choice. I

1571
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:32,560
Speaker 3: know what I was doing, right, And it's not like

1572
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 3: she didn't know what she was doing. It's just when

1573
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 3: you're that young, you're so easily manipulated.

1574
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:40,560
Speaker 4: Right, and you haven't had any world experiences, like you

1575
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 4: don't know what you're doing.

1576
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 3: And therefore when I saw that video at that age,

1577
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 3: watching her, she knew right was right. And now I've

1578
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:49,400
Speaker 3: been back in that deep but now as an adult

1579
01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:52,640
Speaker 3: and who has a child, Yes, I think about like

1580
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 3: I thought about, like what kind of trauma was that

1581
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 3: girl going through? Like this was her parents even around

1582
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 3: What did he pray on for her to make her

1583
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 3: feel like she needed him exactly? That's and it's it's

1584
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 3: It could be as simple as maybe I have money,

1585
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 3: I can take you on a trip and as a

1586
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 3: fourteen year old, I'm.

1587
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:14,040
Speaker 7: Special kind of like he's singing to me. Oh Jesus lord. Yeah,

1588
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 7: when you think about it's so funny. It's crazy how

1589
01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 7: we all have to go reevaluate ourselves like you.

1590
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 3: Had the crazy one, even at this girl like she

1591
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 3: got the prict I mean, you grew up in the

1592
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 3: entertainment industry and in music as well, and I'm sure

1593
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 3: you've experienced your share fair share inappropriate I'm definitely inappropriate

1594
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,719
Speaker 3: behavior from men and older executives.

1595
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,799
Speaker 7: And absolutely and it's like you know, in this industry,

1596
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 7: you know, I found out early that you know, people

1597
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 7: play with fire when they females play with fire, when

1598
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:48,640
Speaker 7: they try to use their sexuality as a one up

1599
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 7: or into the room, or they use it for that advantage.

1600
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,120
Speaker 7: You can't do that in a male dominated industry at

1601
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:58,639
Speaker 7: the end of the day, if you don't want those

1602
01:12:58,720 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 7: types of things.

1603
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying it's right for them to come

1604
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 4: towards you.

1605
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 7: I'm not saying you're inviting them, but I'm saying they're

1606
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 7: gonna happen even when you, like I literally had to

1607
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 7: be to the point like I'm the homie, I'm the sister,

1608
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,599
Speaker 7: I'm the you know, I'm not even giving you guys

1609
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 7: that vibe at all, because when I come into a

1610
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 7: room full of males and I'm a writer, just like

1611
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 7: they're a writer, They're gonna try you. So you got

1612
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,719
Speaker 7: to come in there with the whole energy of shutting

1613
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 7: that shit down from the beginning, and females oftentimes want

1614
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:28,479
Speaker 7: to use it to their advantage.

1615
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 2: But I'm not strong enough.

1616
01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 5: But when you're at a certain age, you see when

1617
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 5: you get a certain like okay, a grown woman. Yes,

1618
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:37,880
Speaker 5: it took me till I'm thirty to realize, like certain

1619
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 5: things I can't do because it gets hurt, dumb. But

1620
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 5: I think when you at like fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, you

1621
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 5: see the attention you get from that and you like

1622
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:48,679
Speaker 5: it because you don't you think, oh.

1623
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 4: I'm getting attention, and that's where the parents come in.

1624
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 2: But like I think, I mean, my parents.

1625
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 5: Are didn't talk to me in depth about it, but

1626
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 5: I was definitely an inappropriate situations with men much older

1627
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 5: than I mean that I look back now, I'm like, oh,

1628
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 5: they're perbs. But in my mind then I'm mature, and

1629
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 5: maybe it was going about us there. We were having

1630
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 5: certain conversations because I enjoyed the attention and the feeling special,

1631
01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 5: but I'm so young. I'm not realizing like this is inappropriate,

1632
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 5: this won't go very far because I'm you know what

1633
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

1634
01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 7: So, but my mom was the nosy kind of mom

1635
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 7: that was in our business, like when that shit was Yeah,

1636
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 7: because we used to go to this club at Magic Mountain.

1637
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 7: It was young, it was like underage people, but it

1638
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:34,639
Speaker 7: was always older guys. They're always this nigga, my mama,

1639
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 7: she gonna bust in through the phone call.

1640
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:37,680
Speaker 5: Who is this?

1641
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:39,120
Speaker 2: Well, how old are you?

1642
01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 7: Do you know how old she is? Like, she's that

1643
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:43,920
Speaker 7: kind of mother that and that. In my mind, I

1644
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:46,479
Speaker 7: was like, oh, that's what. Well, obviously there's something wrong

1645
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 7: with it for her to be going off and to

1646
01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:50,600
Speaker 7: me it's just a cute guy. So I get that mentality.

1647
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 7: Being in this industry is just a whole other level.

1648
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 7: And these moms their obligation by putting a kid in

1649
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,760
Speaker 7: this industry that young, they had an obligation to look

1650
01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 7: at to their kid and to protect their child. The

1651
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:04,679
Speaker 7: end of the day, they got mesmerized by my Woods

1652
01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 7: and Lamb whoever, the money and the lifestyle, and then.

1653
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:09,840
Speaker 5: The possibility that they were going to make it so

1654
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 5: much that they sacrificed their child, Like, yeah, this is

1655
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:14,640
Speaker 5: crazy to me.

1656
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 3: I don't know though, I feel like I disagree with you, Lamya.

1657
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 3: I just feel like I feel like I know Michael

1658
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:25,760
Speaker 3: Jackson's dad. He's not here to fend himself, but I

1659
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 3: feel like he got when he when those when those

1660
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 3: cases came out beforehand early.

1661
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 2: On, and he was and he was acquitted or whatever.

1662
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 13: The fun there's still some funny ship there. There's still

1663
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 13: some weird where's the proof? Well, okay, this is my

1664
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 13: only thing. Gives me some proof. I sympathize, some proof,

1665
01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 13: I sympathize. I'm with Michael, and I sympathize with r.

1666
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:54,599
Speaker 5: Kelly because I see that there's obviously mental issues.

1667
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,839
Speaker 2: I sympathize in somewhere there's trauma. Now do I condone

1668
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 2: first time? Absolutely? I don't can on any.

1669
01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:04,599
Speaker 5: Child anything, because I'll fucking kill you I'm saying that's

1670
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 5: on the internet.

1671
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 4: I will and I will don't care, but you can't

1672
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 4: like I'm not. I don't condone that.

1673
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 2: However, I see R. Kelly is damn like he's he's her,

1674
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 2: he's damaged.

1675
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 5: He's had trauma in his life as a child, and

1676
01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 5: he doesn't he hasn't had the capacity.

1677
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:20,519
Speaker 2: To work through that or the tools.

1678
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 5: Obviously, you know, like there's issues that why he's who

1679
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 5: he is, and he doesn't realize. I mean, I know

1680
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 5: he didn't realizes now he's doing because he's obviously there's

1681
01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 5: being there's backlash.

1682
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 2: But even Michael Jackson, I know he had you know,

1683
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,800
Speaker 2: he didn't have a childhood. He was abused by his father.

1684
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:37,600
Speaker 2: He was in the industry very early.

1685
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 5: Which you're all like, probably abused and probably abused that

1686
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 5: there's probably so much things that contribute to so much,

1687
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 5: you know that we can't understand, we can't even we

1688
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:47,719
Speaker 5: can't even begin to understand.

1689
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 2: However, but that doesn't take from the point.

1690
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, if they you can't be touching kids, you can't

1691
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 3: be hanging out.

1692
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 7: But there's no proof that Michael Jackson touched these kids.

1693
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:00,600
Speaker 7: So that's what I'm saying there's no we can't have

1694
01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 7: him in this conversation because there's no proof. And all

1695
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 7: I'm saying is to be a person where somebody can say, Erica,

1696
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 7: I'm going to ruin her fucking life, you know what.

1697
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:11,640
Speaker 7: She didn't do the things that I wanted her to

1698
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 7: do or for whatever reason, and she can go into

1699
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 7: the police station and tell them whatever the fuck she

1700
01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:18,680
Speaker 7: wants to say, and they'd have no hardcore evidence that

1701
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 7: you and they could totally tear you down. I'm sorry,

1702
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 7: as a person and as a public figure, I don't

1703
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:27,519
Speaker 7: think that's fair that somebody can totally tear you down

1704
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 7: on one comment, can totally and.

1705
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 2: So I feel like this is where you know, we.

1706
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 7: Always obviously know the judicial system is, but this is

1707
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 7: where it never and this is right.

1708
01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 4: But in the real world, if it was right, you

1709
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 4: would have to have proof. And I'm saying I feel

1710
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:44,640
Speaker 4: for the.

1711
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 2: Victors if it was not how but how do they

1712
01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 2: have proof? How would it mean?

1713
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 4: R Kelly had all these people working for him, right,

1714
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 4: and people came out that were working.

1715
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:58,479
Speaker 2: For I think that the staff. There are some stuff.

1716
01:17:58,479 --> 01:17:59,719
Speaker 2: I haven't watched the whole thing either.

1717
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 4: But I asked my sister she said, no, there's no staff.

1718
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 3: They said that there were staff members that over over

1719
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 3: the course of this of Michael Jackson's career, that have

1720
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 3: come forward and.

1721
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 2: Said that there has been if they could show me that,

1722
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 2: and then I get that. I get that too. I

1723
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 2: get that too.

1724
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:15,719
Speaker 3: But I think about these kids that be taking pictures

1725
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 3: of Michael touching their boody, you know what I mean?

1726
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: And I also know and I understand. I don't I

1727
01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 2: even understand it.

1728
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 3: On a personal level as far as proof and evidence,

1729
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 3: because I went through something very similar with my baby

1730
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 3: daddy where he was accused of rape when he did

1731
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:29,639
Speaker 3: not do it right and there was no proof.

1732
01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 4: Okay, so you know people, so where's the butt?

1733
01:18:34,000 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 2: I think, because I have a kid, it just I know,

1734
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 2: I know you do, but I just feel like, I

1735
01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 2: just I don't know. I mean, I know that there's

1736
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 2: a parental responsibility there. I don't.

1737
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 3: Feel like if he did, I just I'm kind of

1738
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:51,760
Speaker 3: like I don't know where to stand and I feel

1739
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 3: like I just can't.

1740
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 2: I think I get it. I think both both points

1741
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:57,040
Speaker 2: are valance.

1742
01:18:57,160 --> 01:19:02,639
Speaker 7: For sure by all means, fry absolutely, But you cannot

1743
01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:08,439
Speaker 7: fry a person because of somebody else accusation exactly, especially

1744
01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:13,919
Speaker 7: when they were yes, no, yes, like nah, you cannot

1745
01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:15,839
Speaker 7: fry somebody off of somebody's accusation.

1746
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 4: And it has nothing to do with Michael, it has

1747
01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 4: nothing to do with the kids.

1748
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 7: It's just as a human beings exactly, because I have

1749
01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 7: a child.

1750
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 4: I would never ever like not believe my child or not.

1751
01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:33,000
Speaker 2: One hundred But there has to be a line drawn.

1752
01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 7: Where it's not yeah, you can't just do that. It's

1753
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 7: not okay. It's not okay. And I believe me if

1754
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 7: he did it, because I'm not saying he's too good

1755
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:45,640
Speaker 7: not to do it. I just don't feel like he

1756
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:47,320
Speaker 7: did it. I feel like these people are lying. I

1757
01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:50,560
Speaker 7: just don't believe it, you feel but not because I

1758
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:52,840
Speaker 7: don't know what the case. Your sister saw that, she's

1759
01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:56,400
Speaker 7: her conclusion she was she would have mixed feelings because

1760
01:19:56,439 --> 01:19:58,760
Speaker 7: she felt like I felt she felt like I felt

1761
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 7: she felt as strongly about it as I did, like, no,

1762
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 7: there's it wasn't.

1763
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:02,920
Speaker 2: It was swayed when she was.

1764
01:20:03,280 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 4: It was swayed.

1765
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 3: And it was.

1766
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,560
Speaker 4: Interesting because we know Wade, We've known him for a

1767
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 4: long time.

1768
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 7: So that's another thing. There's there's a lot of there's

1769
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 7: a lot that goes into it.

1770
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 2: You have to This is the thing.

1771
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 7: People are talking from perspectives where you don't know a

1772
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 7: person from Adam, you don't know ship about them, so

1773
01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 7: you're making these assumptions without any you don't know ship,

1774
01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:25,639
Speaker 7: So you have to understand that there's a little bit

1775
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 7: of you know exactly when you know a little bit

1776
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:30,400
Speaker 7: more than the average person.

1777
01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:31,080
Speaker 2: Right of course.

1778
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 5: Okay, I haven't not the question for you guys, because

1779
01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 5: I don't know why this is even coming up, but

1780
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 5: it is. And it's like, okay, you know all the

1781
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 5: woke Instagram accounts like Shaka Bars and now everybody follows

1782
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 5: him with.

1783
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 4: The fruits stop heard of that Shaka?

1784
01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 2: Where'd you get that? You know, they're basically saying that.

1785
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 5: His Historically, there have been many other pedophilia pedophilia pedophiles

1786
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:13,720
Speaker 5: who are famous Elvis Presley, Woody Allen, like known very

1787
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 5: weird ship going on, and basically those people, I mean

1788
01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 5: even with the fucking who's.

1789
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:22,839
Speaker 2: The main guy in the me Too one? Harvey Winstein,

1790
01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 2: but he his ass is chilling. He wasn't pedophile. Well

1791
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,599
Speaker 2: this whatever, Okay, So there's all these major like he's

1792
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 2: not chilling. He's about to go to jail for a

1793
01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: very long time.

1794
01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:33,680
Speaker 7: But Elvis, he has pictures with his tongue in the

1795
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 7: fourteen year old mouth he has.

1796
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so these are like proof. Yeah, so there's proof.

1797
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 2: But basically that like what is this Basically that.

1798
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:43,400
Speaker 4: There's like you know, I'm a conspiracy theory, right, there's

1799
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 4: a there's.

1800
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 5: A agendas to bringing down black you know, the black power,

1801
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:50,160
Speaker 5: and we're put diverting all this attentive black icons, the

1802
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:51,000
Speaker 5: black icons.

1803
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 2: But what about this person? What about this was me personally?

1804
01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,680
Speaker 5: You know me, I'll talk about racist ship all the time,

1805
01:21:55,840 --> 01:22:01,480
Speaker 5: not racist but my racial Yes. How However, in this conversation,

1806
01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:04,559
Speaker 5: I don't really want to hear that shit. Obviously it's

1807
01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,720
Speaker 5: not fair. Obviously, you know, there's these people that I

1808
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 5: don't know why no one's brought attention to them.

1809
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,600
Speaker 3: I don't support any I brought attention to him, but

1810
01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 3: Hollywood sweeps issue.

1811
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:17,679
Speaker 4: Right, they got married white privilege. But I just feel

1812
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:19,320
Speaker 4: like I don't really like.

1813
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:21,960
Speaker 3: You're saying that this is not a racial No, I

1814
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 3: don't want to bring when we're talking about pedophiles and abuse.

1815
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't make everything fucking you know, and that's

1816
01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 10: the annoying party. Everybody's so racially sensitive these days. It's

1817
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 10: I think because we I don't.

1818
01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 7: Know, I grew up, we grew up in the valley, right,

1819
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 7: it just wasn't So I'm like, I'm very shocked by

1820
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 7: the things that people find racists these days and like

1821
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:47,719
Speaker 7: racially motivated and they're just so SENDI like, God, damn,

1822
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:49,479
Speaker 7: Like what do you think, Like what is one?

1823
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 2: Well do you okay?

1824
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 5: Do you think that because we all feel like goes hey,

1825
01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:57,160
Speaker 5: when do you think that we are somewhat not okay,

1826
01:22:58,040 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 5: not numb.

1827
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: I think certain things are way too sensitive to like

1828
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 2: what the fuck you're talking about that?

1829
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:04,000
Speaker 7: But are we a little desensiime because we grew up

1830
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 7: as we grew up in an environment where we're like

1831
01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 7: we have to be like, oh, let me touch your hair?

1832
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 2: Absolutely absolutely.

1833
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:12,840
Speaker 7: I think you know, it's funny because I was having

1834
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:17,519
Speaker 7: this conversation about just like children and acting and what's

1835
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 7: relevant to them is totally something that's not relevant to

1836
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:23,880
Speaker 7: the average kid or like, you know, where you grew

1837
01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:26,280
Speaker 7: up absolutely everything to.

1838
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 4: Do with your perception of these things.

1839
01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 2: So yes, I will say I'm.

1840
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:34,840
Speaker 4: Probably a little insensitive in the sense that we just

1841
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:35,320
Speaker 4: grew up.

1842
01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:35,679
Speaker 2: In a place.

1843
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:38,760
Speaker 4: It's just it's not that big of a deal, you

1844
01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:39,360
Speaker 4: know what I mean.

1845
01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:42,640
Speaker 7: But I do think the way that we grew up

1846
01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 7: is different is yeah, I mean, it reflects in the

1847
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 7: way that we think about these things. True.

1848
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 2: I mean, and I have conversations all the time, and

1849
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 2: you should hear our personal conversations, like, well, you know

1850
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 2: she's from Florida, so she doesn't know better.

1851
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:57,759
Speaker 5: You know she's wearing that alphe you know she's from Florida.

1852
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 5: She's excited because she's not a month celebrity.

1853
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 2: It's from Louisiana. Shout out to Florida.

1854
01:24:11,320 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 7: I don't like it cut that you have to we

1855
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 7: can agree to disagree. I just had to say the

1856
01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:18,360
Speaker 7: star because I know I'm very passionate. I get very

1857
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 7: like what for sure. But I'm the same person too.

1858
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:24,320
Speaker 7: I'm totally cool with agreeing to disagree.

1859
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:28,720
Speaker 3: I don't necessarily disagree, I totally. I just feel like

1860
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 3: a lot of times society were trained to not believe

1861
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:34,080
Speaker 3: the victims if there's no proof, and sometimes there just

1862
01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:36,000
Speaker 3: is no proof, you know what I mean. There's you

1863
01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 3: can't prove everything sometimes and sometimes the ship really happens.

1864
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:43,800
Speaker 3: And I'm not saying like, I'm not saying that necessarily.

1865
01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 2: That these people are telling the truth.

1866
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:47,960
Speaker 3: But I feel like when there's so many, it's kind

1867
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:49,920
Speaker 3: of like that meets too ship, where like, yeah, half

1868
01:24:49,960 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 3: the bitches were lying, but there's truth. The same with

1869
01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 3: the Bill Cosby thing, but like both sides. Yeah about

1870
01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:59,599
Speaker 3: Bill Cosby looks like a perfect to me. He does

1871
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:01,880
Speaker 3: look like like a little perfon.

1872
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I knew he was.

1873
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:05,960
Speaker 7: Well, I don't know if it I think that since

1874
01:25:06,040 --> 01:25:09,640
Speaker 7: it came out, but those eyes, Yeah, beginning, I don't know.

1875
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:11,759
Speaker 4: Okay, even back as.

1876
01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 2: A kid, I went. I've been to Neverland. I've been twice,

1877
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:15,479
Speaker 2: and I've been twice.

1878
01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:19,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, And the first time I went it was so

1879
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:21,679
Speaker 3: interesting because the first time when I was really young,

1880
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 3: I was probably like eight. And then the second time

1881
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 3: I went, I was probably like twelve or thirteen. And

1882
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 3: when I was eight, I was so excited. It was

1883
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 3: the most magical place I'd ever been. It was like

1884
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 3: there was like vendors of cotton candy everywhere.

1885
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:39,080
Speaker 2: He's there. They said he was there, but I didn't

1886
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 2: see him. Have you ever been around him? I've never

1887
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 2: met him that's another thing too.

1888
01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 3: So my cousin, her dad, DaVita DaVita Dana, he played

1889
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 3: guitar for Michael Jackson throughout his career, so you know,

1890
01:25:52,320 --> 01:25:53,840
Speaker 3: they were close where they were close with the Jackson.

1891
01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:55,800
Speaker 2: They're close to the Jackson till this day, even now.

1892
01:25:56,439 --> 01:25:59,360
Speaker 2: And so I've been to the house on Havenhurst.

1893
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 3: Many times, and so you know, we would go to

1894
01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 3: these they'd have birthday parties there, firs like friends, and

1895
01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 3: so we went there and I just remember like there

1896
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 3: was the zoo and then there was it was just amazing.

1897
01:26:11,800 --> 01:26:14,880
Speaker 3: And then I went back when I was thirteen and

1898
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:17,439
Speaker 3: I was just more adult dish an adult, but just

1899
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 3: a little more grown. And I remember when we got off.

1900
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 2: Like the whatever, the bus or whatever we're on.

1901
01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:26,280
Speaker 3: The first thing I noticed was like there was this

1902
01:26:26,439 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 3: thing have these he has a lot of trees and

1903
01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 3: there's like these little kids statues everywhere there's a little

1904
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:32,880
Speaker 3: statues of kids, and they had the music playing it's

1905
01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 3: kids laughing, like there's like kids laughing at the trees.

1906
01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:39,600
Speaker 3: And I was like, she's kind of creepy, and it

1907
01:26:39,760 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 3: kind of it was just interesting how my perspective has changed.

1908
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:44,920
Speaker 3: I was like this is kind of I remember I

1909
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:47,960
Speaker 3: remember feeling like this is kind of weird that this

1910
01:26:48,160 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 3: man has this type of place lanscare. But it's literally

1911
01:26:52,760 --> 01:26:57,559
Speaker 3: like a kid's paradise. Okay, it literally is Willie Walker's

1912
01:26:57,600 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 3: chocolate factory.

1913
01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 2: There should have been an age limited. There's like trampolines

1914
01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 2: everywhere I've been.

1915
01:27:03,920 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 5: The crazy thing about the victims in the in the

1916
01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 5: special is you know, everyone like they even the moms

1917
01:27:11,160 --> 01:27:14,439
Speaker 5: are in it. They outside of the abuse, They're all

1918
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:18,480
Speaker 5: like he was very sweet, he was very like innocent.

1919
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 2: Like he it's an odd it is. It sounds weird,

1920
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:21,800
Speaker 2: it sounds weird.

1921
01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 4: It is, and it's basically like, yes, that's what I'm saying.

1922
01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 7: I say, like he's such a sweet I've got that

1923
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:30,880
Speaker 7: vibe from him either like and a sweet m no

1924
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 7: a perview vibe. But as a girl, as a woman, yeah,

1925
01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 7: but as a woman, your intuition and not just everybody's.

1926
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:42,200
Speaker 7: I'm speaking in mine in particular, I'm very like, very discerning,

1927
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:42,960
Speaker 7: not to say, because I.

1928
01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:43,720
Speaker 2: Don't know this man.

1929
01:27:44,560 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 7: If he did what he did, fry but if not whatever.

1930
01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:51,599
Speaker 7: But I did not pick up though, and I met

1931
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:51,960
Speaker 7: him at.

1932
01:27:51,920 --> 01:27:52,479
Speaker 4: An older age.

1933
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:53,040
Speaker 2: I met him.

1934
01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 7: I was fifteen or sixteen. Yeah, it might have been

1935
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 7: like sixteen, and it was multiple times. And no, I

1936
01:28:04,160 --> 01:28:08,240
Speaker 7: was older than that because I was in Isis, so Isis?

1937
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 2: Why do wait that name?

1938
01:28:10,479 --> 01:28:10,840
Speaker 3: I love?

1939
01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:19,200
Speaker 2: That's what it was, intelligence sexy. I I loved your group, girl.

1940
01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:22,800
Speaker 2: I was a fan, right yours? That is an interest song.

1941
01:28:22,960 --> 01:28:25,880
Speaker 4: Just girl, use a girl.

1942
01:28:26,360 --> 01:28:28,320
Speaker 7: My husband just put it in one of his songs. Yeah,

1943
01:28:29,479 --> 01:28:35,679
Speaker 7: with the Chris Brown song. He's like, dad, But yeah,

1944
01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:38,000
Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't know, but my sister says,

1945
01:28:38,080 --> 01:28:39,680
Speaker 7: I might change my mind if I say it, so

1946
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:43,360
Speaker 7: I'll say that we're gonna I will. But you know what,

1947
01:28:43,720 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 7: I will say this to say, it don't even matter

1948
01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:47,920
Speaker 7: what the fuck I feel either. The truth is the

1949
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:51,360
Speaker 7: truth and a lie is a lie. So whatever it is,

1950
01:28:52,240 --> 01:28:53,760
Speaker 7: that's what it's gonna come out to be. But this

1951
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:58,520
Speaker 7: court of public opinion is motherfucking hell and a fucking handbag.

1952
01:28:59,400 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 7: People just feel like your opinion just makes or breaks

1953
01:29:02,960 --> 01:29:05,560
Speaker 7: this fucking world, and it is so sickening to me.

1954
01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:09,519
Speaker 7: It is just disgusting. You know, the court of public

1955
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 7: opinion is fucking a trash can. It's like you're just

1956
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:15,920
Speaker 7: gonna fry because but he feels that you're whack.

1957
01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:20,160
Speaker 5: Right, It's like it's so ugly and people are ugly,

1958
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:21,839
Speaker 5: and people say things as they're border.

1959
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:24,840
Speaker 3: And people love to see other people know. They love

1960
01:29:24,920 --> 01:29:27,559
Speaker 3: to see the highest of the high fall from grace.

1961
01:29:28,840 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 3: They love it historically period.

1962
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just so gross.

1963
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:34,040
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1964
01:29:34,680 --> 01:29:38,799
Speaker 7: I have a very love hate relationship with social media

1965
01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:42,320
Speaker 7: and because I just I just the humanity.

1966
01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:43,639
Speaker 4: Is just so just fucked.

1967
01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:49,000
Speaker 2: And you're like, you're in a reality show recently. Are

1968
01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:51,719
Speaker 2: you still know that thing is gone?

1969
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:51,880
Speaker 5: Girl?

1970
01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:53,880
Speaker 2: We don't have enough controversy for them.

1971
01:29:53,960 --> 01:29:57,679
Speaker 5: I'm sure you still got shipped like people talking ship?

1972
01:29:58,240 --> 01:30:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh girl? What is the speak in reality? Is

1973
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:03,560
Speaker 2: it a lot of like manufacturing?

1974
01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:09,840
Speaker 7: And I will say that, yes, I will say it's

1975
01:30:09,880 --> 01:30:13,120
Speaker 7: a lot of They take your life, what's going on

1976
01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 7: in it, and because you tell them everything, they use

1977
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:19,800
Speaker 7: whatever pieces they want to tight end with something else.

1978
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:23,280
Speaker 7: So it's a real thing. They just tighten somewhere else

1979
01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 7: and then it gets messy. No, or in real life,

1980
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 7: they'll use something that you might have said, and in

1981
01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 7: the right context somebody wouldn't get offended, but in the

1982
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:36,080
Speaker 7: wrong context, somebody's gonna get offended do.

1983
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:40,240
Speaker 2: Like they whisper things to other people, like, oh, you know, Lamiason.

1984
01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:41,880
Speaker 7: They don't whisper. What they do is the producers pretend

1985
01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:44,120
Speaker 7: like they're friends. They go out with you, you have fun,

1986
01:30:44,240 --> 01:30:45,400
Speaker 7: you think everything's cool.

1987
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:47,120
Speaker 2: That's how they do it.

1988
01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:49,479
Speaker 4: So it's not like it is. It's a gossip ring.

1989
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:54,519
Speaker 4: And so it's not that, oh now they're very nice.

1990
01:30:54,840 --> 01:30:55,720
Speaker 2: They're all and.

1991
01:30:55,880 --> 01:30:59,720
Speaker 4: Certain producers click up with certain people and then they know.

1992
01:30:59,760 --> 01:31:02,160
Speaker 7: You're business and then they have their favorites, and so

1993
01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:06,760
Speaker 7: it's very very clique and very you know, in that

1994
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:09,760
Speaker 7: way manufactured, but it'd be real shit, you know it.

1995
01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 2: Just do you regret doing it?

1996
01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:17,320
Speaker 4: No, I'll say this. I maintain my integrity through and through.

1997
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:21,519
Speaker 7: I was myself the whole time, and despite how much

1998
01:31:21,560 --> 01:31:23,640
Speaker 7: the producers got mad at me because they wanted to

1999
01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:30,439
Speaker 7: see the ratchet side of Lamaya and for where I'm

2000
01:31:30,479 --> 01:31:32,560
Speaker 7: going in life, what I've built with my husband and

2001
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:34,320
Speaker 7: all that, I'm not willing to sacrifice.

2002
01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:38,320
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be me, but I'm not gonna do the fuckery.

2003
01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 2: So what happens with me.

2004
01:31:39,600 --> 01:31:40,599
Speaker 4: I would do stuff off.

2005
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:43,280
Speaker 7: Camera that they would be pissed that they didn't catch,

2006
01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:45,200
Speaker 7: but I do it on purpose so I can hold

2007
01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:47,880
Speaker 7: my shit really really right, and I oh, oh.

2008
01:31:47,880 --> 01:31:48,599
Speaker 4: Yeah cut.

2009
01:31:50,240 --> 01:31:52,760
Speaker 7: Basically, and I'd be like, hey, hell, you got a

2010
01:31:52,760 --> 01:31:54,280
Speaker 7: problem that you want to you want to go outside,

2011
01:31:54,400 --> 01:31:55,800
Speaker 7: like tell me what your issue is.

2012
01:31:55,840 --> 01:31:57,400
Speaker 4: I'm not, you know, not about to fight. I'm too

2013
01:31:57,400 --> 01:31:58,000
Speaker 4: old to be fighting.

2014
01:31:58,200 --> 01:31:58,559
Speaker 2: Respect.

2015
01:31:58,640 --> 01:32:00,840
Speaker 7: Do you want to go discuss this, you know, whatever

2016
01:32:00,920 --> 01:32:03,360
Speaker 7: the confrontation is. You know, I give it to you,

2017
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:05,880
Speaker 7: but off camera, because bitch, I want to know, like

2018
01:32:06,200 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 7: the real real, what's the real because I'm getting confused

2019
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 7: between the fake world and the real world.

2020
01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 4: So let's just talk about.

2021
01:32:10,200 --> 01:32:10,880
Speaker 2: What's real for me.

2022
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:13,720
Speaker 7: So they used to hate me, girl, they used to

2023
01:32:13,760 --> 01:32:15,640
Speaker 7: be like so they edited a lot of shit with me.

2024
01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:18,599
Speaker 7: Like the argument with Chantelle at the table was really

2025
01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:19,360
Speaker 7: with the producer.

2026
01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 2: I really was talking to the producer.

2027
01:32:22,400 --> 01:32:24,720
Speaker 4: She did get upset. She was like, la maya, she

2028
01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 4: got upset when I told the producers to fuck off.

2029
01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:29,800
Speaker 4: I was like, basically, I'm not gonna stay what y'all

2030
01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:30,360
Speaker 4: want me to say.

2031
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:31,760
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do what y'all want me to do.

2032
01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:35,000
Speaker 2: And then a specific producer I proceeded to tell her

2033
01:32:35,120 --> 01:32:36,960
Speaker 2: what I was feeling and.

2034
01:32:38,640 --> 01:32:42,840
Speaker 4: That's why there's no clip of us together, so you

2035
01:32:42,920 --> 01:32:43,640
Speaker 4: weren't even talking to her.

2036
01:32:44,240 --> 01:32:45,400
Speaker 2: The girl was a whole.

2037
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:47,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, so wow, that was a whole nother thing.

2038
01:32:47,960 --> 01:32:50,760
Speaker 2: But they they yeah, I.

2039
01:32:50,800 --> 01:32:53,200
Speaker 7: Don't regret I don't regret it because I set out

2040
01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:55,680
Speaker 7: to bring even though I will say they cut out

2041
01:32:55,720 --> 01:32:58,000
Speaker 7: the stuff about my foundation, which was the primary reason

2042
01:32:58,040 --> 01:33:01,280
Speaker 7: why I did. It's so that was very hurtful, but

2043
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:02,640
Speaker 7: I know my heart was in the right place and

2044
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:04,280
Speaker 7: at the end of the day, I was who I am,

2045
01:33:04,680 --> 01:33:07,080
Speaker 7: so I can never regret. Like I know, I'm sure

2046
01:33:07,360 --> 01:33:09,360
Speaker 7: there's some people that are going to regret the way

2047
01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 7: they handle things because it's not really who who they

2048
01:33:12,280 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 7: are and exactly sitting back and I know who they

2049
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 7: are and that's why I'm looking like that's not really you.

2050
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:20,080
Speaker 7: So you're probably gonna regret this later. But me, by

2051
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:23,400
Speaker 7: no means I absolutely don't regret it. It was a

2052
01:33:23,479 --> 01:33:25,640
Speaker 7: very stressful time for me because I'm not like the

2053
01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 7: Girl Crew kind of girl. It's just outside of my people,

2054
01:33:29,640 --> 01:33:31,639
Speaker 7: so that was a little interesting. I was the old

2055
01:33:31,680 --> 01:33:32,400
Speaker 7: one of the crew, like.

2056
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:35,000
Speaker 4: I guess, like I was all out.

2057
01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:41,600
Speaker 3: It's another reality TV is lots of lunches, lunches, and

2058
01:33:41,640 --> 01:33:45,120
Speaker 3: then the club girl and so many, so many lunches.

2059
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:48,519
Speaker 2: Perfect.

2060
01:33:48,760 --> 01:33:50,320
Speaker 4: Oh I just met up at the park.

2061
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:54,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like, get our nails done because.

2062
01:33:54,680 --> 01:33:57,120
Speaker 4: We need a little paper time for ourselves and talk

2063
01:33:57,160 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 4: about it. Yes, I don't regret that.

2064
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:01,720
Speaker 7: I mean there was a lot of good moments of

2065
01:34:01,800 --> 01:34:05,000
Speaker 7: it too, and and honestly, I'm good with all the girls.

2066
01:34:05,280 --> 01:34:06,599
Speaker 2: I don't have no beef of nobody.

2067
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:09,760
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2068
01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:11,519
Speaker 2: I think you know, for me, it was a win

2069
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 2: win because I'm like.

2070
01:34:12,680 --> 01:34:14,920
Speaker 12: I was the realist of the real Ain't nobody mad

2071
01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:21,439
Speaker 12: at being right? Yeah, well that's gonna bring us to conclusion. However,

2072
01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:24,240
Speaker 12: I do you want to recount my statement about Florida.

2073
01:34:27,160 --> 01:34:29,200
Speaker 12: I want to clarify exactly what I mean.

2074
01:34:29,640 --> 01:34:30,920
Speaker 2: It's a pitch.

2075
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:35,000
Speaker 5: Let me clarify what I meant because I have friends

2076
01:34:35,040 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 5: from all over both my parents are from Philly, and

2077
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:38,559
Speaker 5: you know, I don't.

2078
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:39,960
Speaker 2: Even have that many friends from here.

2079
01:34:40,640 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 5: But what I was trying to say is, growing up

2080
01:34:42,320 --> 01:34:46,000
Speaker 5: in la in the Valley, particularly in Hollywood, you were

2081
01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:47,040
Speaker 5: exposed this pitch.

2082
01:34:47,120 --> 01:34:49,360
Speaker 2: In this pitch has been never never Land three times.

2083
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:52,800
Speaker 2: She met Michael Jackson. You know, it's a different lifestyle,

2084
01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 2: you were exposed to different things.

2085
01:34:54,640 --> 01:34:59,519
Speaker 5: Celebrity star starism is it doesn't exist because we grow

2086
01:34:59,640 --> 01:35:02,519
Speaker 5: up in this We're not gonna be really excited over

2087
01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 5: like certain people because it's like this Will. We went

2088
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:08,120
Speaker 5: to high school with that person. So what I meant

2089
01:35:08,200 --> 01:35:10,120
Speaker 5: is there's just things that don't excite us. There's things

2090
01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:13,520
Speaker 5: we're exposed to. There's fakeness levels that we can recognize.

2091
01:35:14,080 --> 01:35:16,960
Speaker 5: And that's what I meant. I said, you know, and uh, you.

2092
01:35:16,960 --> 01:35:18,880
Speaker 4: Know, some people from Florida can't dress, but that's what

2093
01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:19,920
Speaker 4: some people can too.

2094
01:35:20,600 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 2: So I don't want anyone to take it personally.

2095
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 5: I don't own our listenership to go down fifty thousand,

2096
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 5: you know, because suddenly Jamila is such a bougie bitch.

2097
01:35:27,360 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 2: I'm not okay.

2098
01:35:28,800 --> 01:35:31,840
Speaker 5: All I'm saying is it's a different lifestyle. There's a

2099
01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:35,920
Speaker 5: different level of exposure, and you know it does.

2100
01:35:36,600 --> 01:35:37,200
Speaker 2: It's different.

2101
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:38,960
Speaker 4: If I Woula grew up somewhere else, I'd probably be

2102
01:35:39,000 --> 01:35:39,759
Speaker 4: a little bit different.

2103
01:35:39,800 --> 01:35:43,160
Speaker 2: And that's just what I meant. It's true clarification, clarification.

2104
01:35:43,320 --> 01:35:45,200
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not down, you know, saying if you're

2105
01:35:45,200 --> 01:35:47,200
Speaker 2: from here, you're b You're not cool. Or whatever. You know,

2106
01:35:47,280 --> 01:35:49,200
Speaker 2: we're all cool. There are a lot of uncool people here.

2107
01:35:49,400 --> 01:35:51,960
Speaker 2: Well there's mostly a lot of uncol people here. And yeah,

2108
01:35:52,040 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 2: that's really what you know. That's that's the truth. Like,

2109
01:35:55,280 --> 01:35:59,000
Speaker 2: that's what I meant, you know, not that I you're

2110
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:03,360
Speaker 2: from here, you're not cool. Well, anyway, I think now

2111
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:05,880
Speaker 2: that Jamie has gotten that off her chest in her heart. Yes,

2112
01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:09,599
Speaker 2: she's like, oh my god, I sound terrible. You're good.

2113
01:36:10,240 --> 01:36:10,880
Speaker 2: We know what you meant.

2114
01:36:11,040 --> 01:36:11,200
Speaker 3: We do.

2115
01:36:12,600 --> 01:36:15,040
Speaker 2: Shout out to Nelly, I see you. You're from Florida, booth.

2116
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:15,120
Speaker 7: I know.

2117
01:36:15,160 --> 01:36:18,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I wasn't even talking about you. Nellie, one

2118
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:20,240
Speaker 2: of our listeners. It's from Florida.

2119
01:36:20,280 --> 01:36:22,760
Speaker 5: We love her and we have listened from day. I'm

2120
01:36:22,760 --> 01:36:24,559
Speaker 5: gont listen to from everywhere, and I love all of them,

2121
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:25,280
Speaker 5: so that's not a.

2122
01:36:25,320 --> 01:36:25,680
Speaker 2: Thing, I know.

2123
01:36:25,760 --> 01:36:27,960
Speaker 3: And I wish all of them could come tomorrow to

2124
01:36:28,080 --> 01:36:29,800
Speaker 3: our live show, which will be over by the time

2125
01:36:29,840 --> 01:36:30,320
Speaker 3: you heard this, but.

2126
01:36:31,920 --> 01:36:33,360
Speaker 2: It's gonna be really fun to.

2127
01:36:33,439 --> 01:36:39,360
Speaker 3: See clips and possibly the full video. So anyway, thank

2128
01:36:39,400 --> 01:36:40,680
Speaker 3: you so much for joining.

2129
01:36:40,479 --> 01:36:41,640
Speaker 4: Us, Thank you for having me.

2130
01:36:41,800 --> 01:36:43,120
Speaker 2: That was really good. I appreciate that.

2131
01:36:43,439 --> 01:36:46,840
Speaker 4: I appreciate you guys just loving on my passion in

2132
01:36:46,920 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 4: here and not being offended by.

2133
01:36:50,240 --> 01:36:52,880
Speaker 5: My disagreements. I want the juice. I want to feel

2134
01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:54,400
Speaker 5: like maybe she's right. Let me think about that.

2135
01:36:54,880 --> 01:36:59,560
Speaker 2: We're both very passionate, so it's good to have you know, scared.

2136
01:36:59,479 --> 01:37:05,400
Speaker 5: Nomo girl, I love, give me, give me dark Okay,

2137
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:10,760
Speaker 5: I have a lot of extra energy there one say

2138
01:37:11,000 --> 01:37:12,280
Speaker 5: it was born a fucking actress.

2139
01:37:13,320 --> 01:37:15,960
Speaker 2: What else to tell you? We do not believe in

2140
01:37:17,360 --> 01:37:19,639
Speaker 2: quieting down any of who you are at all, right,

2141
01:37:20,080 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 2: see right, absolutely love it. Well, we will catch you

2142
01:37:25,520 --> 01:37:32,439
Speaker 2: guys next week. Thanks for joining us. Hollow by my baby.

2143
01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:46,680
Speaker 4: I ain't never got an.

2144
01:37:45,360 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 5: I ain't never got a.

2145
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 3: Baby.

2146
01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:53,120
Speaker 7: I can give her this, and I can give her that.

2147
01:37:53,520 --> 01:37:55,240
Speaker 7: I can give her the world she don't give.

2148
01:37:55,240 --> 01:37:55,920
Speaker 5: You gotta ask

2149
01:37:59,439 --> 01:38:02,439
Speaker 2: Everything, Jesus and Jesus, I can hear this