1 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all have 2 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: all suit looking back to back down, giving them more 3 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 1: like the million buck things in its cubs me true 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: good it Steve Hart listening to the movie together for study. 5 00:00:38,120 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: I don't join joining me, Honey. You gotta turn, you 6 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn, turn, got to turn them out. 7 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: Then turn the water, the water go. Come, come on 8 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: your fad uh huh I show. Well, good morning everybody. 9 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, 10 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, 11 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: nothing changes about that, Nothing changes about that. Man. I 12 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: was just so getting ready to come on the air 13 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: this morning. I was just thinking, man, I was just 14 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: having a reflective moment of just how really good God 15 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: has been to me. I just it's it's it's man. 16 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: Let me just say that again, how really good God 17 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: has been to me. And here's a cold part. In 18 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 1: spite of myself, you understand, in spite of all my shortcomings, 19 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: in spite of all of my flaws and and and 20 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: and in spite of all of what anybody has said 21 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: about me, God, through his grace and mercy, just keeps 22 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: me anyway, so many of us are exceptional people, but 23 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: we refuse to just go ahead and be exceptional. We 24 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: settle for the ordinary, We follow the pack, We try 25 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 1: to fit in. Man, oh man, oh man. You know 26 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: I've heard my wife say this to my children all 27 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: the time. When she's scolding and talking to him. She'd 28 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: be talking to him about leadership. You know, why are 29 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: you following everybody when God clearly made you to lead? 30 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: So many of us are born, and so many of 31 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: you are born to be exceptional people, but we always 32 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: trying to follow the pack. Why would you try to 33 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: fit in? Why would you try to be like everybody 34 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: else be ordinary? Why would you follow the pack when 35 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: God has created to be exceptional? The key word in 36 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: exceptional is accept you. Ever you ever done this? Right here? 37 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: You know, everybody did that accept me. Everybody felt that 38 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: way except me. Everybody said that except me. Everybody won't 39 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: wanted that. Accept me. Everybody went over that except me. 40 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: Everybody jumped in except me, accept me. See why have 41 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: you said that in your life? If you were not 42 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: to be exceptional? See you got to say everybody accept 43 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: me at one point in You're to I don't know 44 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: who ain't done it? You know everybody wanted. Everybody voted 45 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: no except me? See it? So you're not You're not 46 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: created to follow the pack. You ain't created to fit in. 47 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: You ain't created to, uh you know, to be ordinary. 48 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: You will create it to be exceptional, as exceptional as 49 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: your fingerprint on your finger is. You were created to 50 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: be exceptional. Why not make this the year that you 51 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: go ahead on and be exceptional? Why won't this be 52 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: the year that you decide in your mind? But just 53 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: has to be a decision that we make. Now we're 54 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: not following the pack no more. We're not trying to 55 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: fit in no more. We ain't settling for ordinary no more. 56 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: We're gonna be exceptional. But you know, you got you 57 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: got to go ahead and follow that. You got to 58 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: get on the exceptional path because that's what you were 59 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 1: created for. Why be ordinary? You know? But all of 60 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: this this comes to it has to start with a thought. 61 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: You got to first think something thought to become things. 62 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: A man is as he thinketh that's all you will 63 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: ever be. So what are your thoughts today? Why not 64 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: have exceptional thoughts instead of ordinary thoughts? Why not have 65 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 1: exceptional thoughts instead of fitting me in thoughts? So why 66 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: you want to be like everybody else? Why you want 67 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: to be ordinary when you could possibly be extraordinary with 68 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: a change of your mind, a change of your venue, 69 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: And you don't have to be any other kind of 70 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,559 Speaker 1: way just because my mama was this way, my daddy 71 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: was this way, or this the school I went to? This? 72 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: What race I belong to? This is my sexual preference, 73 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: this is my this, this is my dad? Why? How many? 74 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: How many? How many excuses? You need? I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You? 75 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: What's it gonna be this year that we let another 76 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty five days slip by without improving 77 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: our condition, our place, our spot, our life, the quality 78 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: of life we have. We cannot afford to keep letting 79 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: all these years go by without changing. You're an exceptional person. 80 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: How many times have you set up and said, everybody 81 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 1: did that accept me? You know I was only everybody 82 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: jumped in accept me. I told him, I knew it. 83 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: Everybody voted for that, accept me, And now look at him, man, 84 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: it seemed like everybody went that way, accept me. Okay, 85 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: do you get it? Do you understand what's being said 86 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: to you that don't accept me is because couldn't it 87 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: be because you're an exceptional person, and it's time for 88 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: you to take control of that. It's time for you 89 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: to start thinking different. It's time for you to start 90 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: acting on what you think. It's time for you to 91 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: start doing something about it. It's time for you to 92 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: stop taking each and every day that God gives us 93 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: for granted and letting them go by the wayside. Like 94 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: you got plenty more. Well, you may have plenty more, 95 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: but guess what what you wasting the ones you got for? 96 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: I got you young, and you and you feel like 97 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna live forever. D Okay, cool, But let me 98 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: ask you something. See here, here, here go the part 99 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: about pose you do live? See see everybody willing about dying. 100 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 1: But I got news for you. Suppose you keep on living. 101 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: You want to keep living in the condition you in now. 102 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: You want to keep living with the money you got now. 103 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: You want to keep living with the relationship you got now. 104 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: You want to keep living by yourself like you are now. 105 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: You want to keep wanting the right relationship, the right man, 106 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: the the right woman, but you keep getting the wrong one. 107 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: You want to keep doing that for the rest of 108 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: your life. Problem ain't dying. It's problem is if you 109 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: keep on living. Who wants to keep on living just 110 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: the way they are right now? And if you can 111 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: say I'm cool, what I am, just the way I 112 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: am right now? In cool, this conversation ain't for you. 113 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with that. You know, you 114 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: want to say, greatness ain't for everybody being exceptional, ain't 115 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: for everybody becoming extraordinary. It ain't fun everybody. Heck, becoming 116 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: successful ain't fun everybody. I got it. And you can 117 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: come up with a way to justify your non existence 118 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: in your ordinary life. All you won't, And that's fine 119 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: and dandy. I ain't got no problem with it. Because 120 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: some people just gonna be regular. Some people just gonna 121 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: follow the pack, follow the crowd. Some people just wants 122 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: to fit in. But if you're not that person, if 123 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: you want to be extraordinary, if you want to be exceptional, 124 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: if you want to be if you want to dare 125 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: to be great at something, and you got to change 126 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: your mind set. You got to get with your creating, 127 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: find out what he created you fault. You gotta quit 128 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: thinking of things just in your own thought process, you know, 129 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: lean not to your own understanding. I don't know what 130 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: that is, but it's in there somewhere. Seeing. Once you lean, 131 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: if you lean to your own understanding, you know what 132 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: it's gonna do. It's gonna limit you, man, it's gonna 133 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: limit you. Why not see what God got for you? 134 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: I would rather know what God got for me than 135 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: to think of all the things I could, because I 136 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: can't out think him out and tried it before. All right, 137 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: it's just the beginning. We're gonna have a good one. Man. 138 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: Let's go. You're listening, all right, everybody? As you know 139 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: how you feel. The weekend was very short. It's over. 140 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 1: You're waiting on the bus, you in a car, you're 141 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: going to work. It seemed like twenty minutes, twenty minute weekend, 142 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: but it wasn't. You had a full damn weekend. We 143 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: are here to help you get through it. Ain't that right? 144 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 1: Ain't that right? Yo? That's right? I feel You're like, 145 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: my weekend wasn't long enough. Nobody's is okay? Nobody is 146 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: that We're gonna do it? Put that smile on your face? 147 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: Is that right? Shot? Is it Monday already? There? Already? 148 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: Good morning? Jay? Oh my my hero, you are my 149 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: hero Jay. Oh my god, it monday already, it is monday. 150 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: It is here. What's happening, Jane, Nothing happening, baby, but 151 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 1: the junior it is Mondy Smith is sick and dying 152 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: to build it. I'm sick and I'm that. Welcome everybody 153 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: to Steve Irby Morning Show. We're gonna do if they 154 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: put some smiles on your face. Making to get about work, baby, 155 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: that's what we do. Persons start is not here, but 156 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: last but not least, my partner in crime. Because I'm 157 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: on team timing, I don't give what do you do? What? 158 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: He in his face, Yeah, but behind his bat his back. Listen, 159 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: don't listen to the nay says. Okay, I'm team timing 160 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: rather that baby he king of in the building. I'm 161 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: in the building. Baby, Let's let's make it do what 162 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: it don't can do what it do. Man, it happened, man, Wow, 163 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: the weekend was always gone. I know the weekend is 164 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: gone gone, but you know how many people still inded 165 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 1: we have he woke up and what you call the 166 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: jail when you're late, When you said you woke up 167 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: past part the past, I'll be damned. Let me ask y'all, 168 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: something when you realize that you definitely are just truly late. 169 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: If you're really seriously late, you're gonna be breakfast. You 170 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: go get brow out. Okay, you might as well. Let's 171 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 1: ask you how about that as a pop tea? Shirley 172 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 1: just shot the first on the morning your own question. Okay, 173 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: can I do a pip pop tea? Yes? Yes, yes, yes, yes. 174 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: Shirlette strawberry birthday is coming up next. It is time 175 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: to throw a part. Yes, a big party, a big part, 176 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: a big birthday. This is a big birthday. But Shirt 177 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: the Strawberry is trying to have I just want to 178 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: ask everybody on the crew, what do we do when 179 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: somebody trying to have Should we thought a surprised birthday? 180 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: Surprise birthday? What should we do? Surprise? We go surprise today? Oh? 181 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: I love surprises. I absolutely love surprises. And put some 182 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: shoes on top of that because you love companies. And also, 183 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: Shirley is so grateful for everything. I thought. Shirley is 184 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: some gum. Oh my gosh, and I don't even shoe gum. Hey, listen, 185 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: we got something big going on. We have to say 186 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 1: congratulations to Junior, and we're gonna do that. Coming up 187 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: when we do our weekend right after this year, coming 188 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: up at thirty two after the hour, Junior, Oh my god, 189 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: ye right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, this 190 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,719 Speaker 1: is really exciting news. Yeah. Yeah, I think we all 191 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: had a great weekend, but Junior really had a we did. Junior, 192 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,319 Speaker 1: you gotta tell us about it. Kat's getting that drum 193 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: roll read any Junior. I know, I'm so happy for you. 194 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: Come on you and you tell us about it. What happened? Okay, 195 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: I'm a proud Texan. First, I don't I have a 196 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: driver's license that still stay Texas, man, My license plays 197 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: on my trucks, still stay Texas. But when your state, 198 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: your state Senate recognize you and name an entire month 199 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: after your foundation, what you doing in the state, dude, 200 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: will it will be known as cheers whole Sickle Cell 201 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: Awareness Month. When I had my second annual five K 202 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: one and I want to say thank you to Senator 203 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: Royce West. My dog, that's my dog, that's my dog, 204 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: and my grandmother was there to witness, My daddy was 205 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: there to witness. Come on, devil Lee was there, man, 206 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: and Devil Lee walked the race. Man who had a 207 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: heart attack in December and he was walked to three 208 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: and a half miles man good, and I tried not 209 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: to cry, Yes, I tried not to. But when you did. 210 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: But when they when they say from here on, as 211 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: of today and the day after and forevermore, the month 212 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: will be known as the month in the state of Texas. Man, 213 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: that's that's big. That is I just want to say. 214 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: I think what he's trying to do is top of 215 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: the fact that I got luke kemyan. That's that's what 216 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: I got out of That's right there again, die that again. 217 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm trying to accuse me, excuse me, excuse me. J yes, 218 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: how is this your moment trying to shine me? Y'all? 219 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: Ain't know? No, what are you saying? Is that sick 220 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: heself is nowhere meal greater than It's unfair enough. I 221 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: don't fighting too now. I'm fighting diabetes. And look, this 222 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: is not sad to me. You can't win, can't you win? 223 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: This is crazy? They got the pick one, you can't 224 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: have it. And I'm just announcing I got gout. How 225 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 1: about that? Oh no, you you don't have a third 226 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: you know, in all seriousness, congratulations, you don't mean you 227 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: don't mean it. I'm sure Tommy calling me you don't 228 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: mean it, but it it was crazy because I never 229 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 1: thought that a guy out of the south side of Houston, Texas, 230 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: I have a day like that, could have a southside man. 231 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm telling I never even went into this four award. 232 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: I just want to help some people in the same 233 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 1: condition of it, and for your state to recognize you 234 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: and man and give you a proclamation. And my grandmother 235 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: standing there when they read the problem, I said, take 236 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 1: that over there to the little skinny woman and the man, 237 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: get my grandma because she gonna hang it in the house. 238 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: She got bragging, right. Can I tell you something, man, 239 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: Very happy Julia to still have your grandmother. Wow, is 240 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: a is a blessing beyond you still got your grandmother. Yeah. 241 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: I don't even know if you realize it right now, 242 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: but that is a blessing. It is, man. I remember 243 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: tell you something. She had a full week because last 244 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: Sunday was her birthday and I gave a surprise party, 245 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: and then six days later her grandson gets a proclamation 246 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: for the state. She had a full week. Yet, bract 247 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: I wish they bring up the grand baby is doing. 248 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: I wish they would bring my grandmother. You said your 249 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: grandma graduated. He graduated. I tell you what, your grand 250 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: baby don't have Your grand baby ain't got no proclamation? Yeah, 251 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,919 Speaker 1: who is here? Raised your head? If your grand baby 252 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: got a proclam William by Dixon gonna be raised the head? 253 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: Can I can I say this, Shirley, Let me tell 254 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 1: y'all something. Y'all have not met the grandmother yet. Oh 255 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: my junior's grandmother. Oh my god, let me tell you something. 256 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: Feeds the real deal. If you need to be cussed out, 257 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: that's gonna that's gonna happen in matters fact, I was 258 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 1: being polite on the radio. But if she what's one 259 00:18:55,960 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 1: of your ms Gott's proclamation, that's what she ridiculates. Man, 260 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: y'all did a damn thing. Asked grandchildren? Who proclamation? We 261 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 1: love you? Man, Thank y'all so much. Man. But I 262 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: told him, I said, man, I said, man, I have 263 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 1: a great support team. And I was talking about my 264 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: morning show town. I said, man, you don't understand. We 265 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: give here. We do stuff for our community and our fans. Man, 266 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: that that that goes beyond because I tell you I 267 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: never did this for awards. It's never. It was never. 268 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: And then for them to any that you know what 269 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,640 Speaker 1: they was. J Let me ask you a question, though, 270 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: real quickly tell everybody what foundation is, what it's about, 271 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 1: don't know? Yeah, curious Hope is just promoting awareness for 272 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 1: sickle cell. I do a lot of things for families 273 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: who have kids with sickle cell, because sickle cell don't 274 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: affect just one child, it affects an entire family. And 275 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: I do that the Kount of my heart. Man, we give, 276 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: we pay for Christmases, we give some posiums, we do everything. 277 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: People was clapping for the proclamation. I was crying, not 278 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: for the proclamation. I was crying for the mistakes I 279 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 1: had made. And now you're wining something and then you're 280 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: gonna give me if you just knew all the stuff 281 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: I had stuff. Yeah, that's part. That's with everyone, Drew. 282 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: Everybody has their story and that's your nobody story. And 283 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: you know you're doing well with the congratulations, Thank yall. 284 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: I would tell you this man Jay has done nothing 285 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: for nothing nothing. Wow, there's descension in the ranks, all right. Listen. 286 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: Coming up nights it's church complaints and church announcements with 287 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: Digg and dev Jam and Reben adnoight and for Reben 288 00:20:51,840 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: Motem right after thishing you're listening to show coming up 289 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. And entertainment news, some 290 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: really sad news out of New Orleans. Miss Leah Chase, 291 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 1: civil rights pioneer and queen of Creole cuisine, has passed away, guys, 292 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: true legend. Also in entertainment news, we'll tell you about 293 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: the star studded third annual Wearable Art Galla, hosted by 294 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 1: Tina Knowles Lawson, who of course is Beyonce's mom. We 295 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 1: know her as Beyonce's mom, Miss Tina Knowles. But first, 296 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: it is Monday. You know what that means. It's time 297 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: for church complaints and church announcements with Deacon dev Jam 298 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,959 Speaker 1: and Reverend at Noy. I bet he got that fix, 299 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:43,439 Speaker 1: That's why he was out. We are here at the 300 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: jack pot joined jerusale ing llelujah, halle I'm sorry, Hallelujah, hallelujah. 301 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: As you know, Reverend Motown is APT today, but Reverend 302 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: ad Nord is in here and he will be giving 303 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: us the church come. But now he would be giving 304 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: us a church announced, so you would beginning announcements and 305 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: you will be at the same time. Now you complaints 306 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: that I will be given adults. I already add I 307 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: said that already, Reverend, do you need to call for 308 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 1: is an excellent day? This is my best day. It's 309 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: a little you know, you know, you know, you don't 310 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: hear how you breathing. You know what the problem is? 311 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: People listen to Claude Bill. When you listen, you listen 312 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: to Claude Bill. I'm fun, I'm all right, boxer for breeze. 313 00:22:55,800 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: I am breaking a box for bree All right, let 314 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: me get down the business, brother, right shed Henry, I 315 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: got the anointing oil mixed up with the CBB oil goodness, 316 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,719 Speaker 1: and all those people who got to the oil placed 317 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: on their foreheads are high and hungry. But what do 318 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 1: we want to do about this? Because these people are 319 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: starving right now. They are hungry, and we need to 320 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: we need to make sure that we are doing something 321 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: to benefit them. That's all I'm asking right now. Well, 322 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: let me answer that question. Haven't been high and hungry 323 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: both of the same time. A couple of times when 324 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: I was at church, anyway, I was more hungry than high. 325 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: But anyway, but how do we handle it? Past? I 326 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: mean I'm sorrying ad and because once again you are 327 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: high and you are hungry, and how do we handle 328 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: this situation. We need bold, commuted wafers and wine. That's 329 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 1: what we do normally. Whet no, normally, when you get one, 330 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: just grab a handful. Do you have any type of 331 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:24,080 Speaker 1: eye The pastor has been complaining that some of the 332 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,360 Speaker 1: leggings that the women are wearing are way too thin. 333 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: We're seeing raw ass, just sleek. This news to be fixed. 334 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I don't mind looking, but this 335 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 1: is a problem that we're having with these legings there. 336 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: It's just like calling paper. You can see right through it. 337 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: You feel everything raw as shirt. Yes, ain't like a 338 00:24:53,880 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 1: good Let me say this that the Christian spelling bee 339 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 1: that took place this weekend is still ongoing. We have 340 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 1: twelve contestants that are still there and they are all 341 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: struggling on one word nicka deem us. That is the 342 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: one word that they are struggling. Anouncer, I'm asking all 343 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: parents help me on child with the word. But so 344 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: we can finish this because it is going on way 345 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: too long. That's all right. I was at the spelling 346 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 1: being a lot of the contestants were spilling inward please, 347 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: and that was throwing everybody off. There was nothing they 348 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: were spelling. They were stelling inward please get through everybody else. 349 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: So we need to correct that. Plenty tickets for the 350 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: hit player helped me find my black baby daddy. If 351 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: you can't tickets for the possible play help me, sir 352 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: black baby daddy. Watch her as she goes around the world. Y'all, 353 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: y'all to find her black baby daddy. Plenty chickens go 354 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: ready here, ready, here. We are having a double D 355 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: double D broad drive. Sister great true, this guy is 356 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,959 Speaker 1: in control that a double D bride drive, and they 357 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: are asking that Sister Carling and Sister I Shirley please 358 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: bring all broths that a double D to the front 359 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 1: so we can actually get acclimated on the double D bros. 360 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: We are asking all double D bros to be brought 361 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: to the front. All right, to hate your pastor. I 362 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,880 Speaker 1: have a footnote on that announcement. You have we footnote 363 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 1: some men who can bring them bros in. You know 364 00:26:53,480 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: who you are. No, I need you to breathe, no, no, 365 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: no breathe. That's that's the ahead. The people who are 366 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: just fat in the back of there in the front, 367 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: we're meeting meeting rooms for people who are just fat 368 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: on the back of They are in the front on 369 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: meeting me So front fat and back fat is in 370 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 1: the same front fat and back fat is now here. 371 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: We are listening. I heavier congregation is asking for paper 372 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: towels to be in the bathroom. The toilet paper is 373 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: too small. But it's past called on the chains I write. 374 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: They say it's not wide enough. The paper is not 375 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: wide enough. So we are asking to put paper house 376 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: as well as tarnet paper in the bathroom. All right, 377 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: that's good, that's good with us. Behind here we go. 378 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: White people does Shiki Day was not a big success? Right? 379 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: People does sky Day? It was not? Alright? Alright a 380 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: ready here go, ready here, White people, All right, sister 381 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: you amaze Steptoe. She is on the sick and shut 382 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: ends list and she has sick of seal like chemia 383 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: and died past. The men who think it's cool to 384 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: button every damn button on their jacket will meeting meeting 385 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: room five. All right, thank you guys. Coming up at 386 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, entertainment news right after this. 387 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey show, Carla our New Orleans connection 388 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 1: on this show. Some sad news out of New Orleans time. 389 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: Miss Leah Chase, New Orleans, matriarch of Creole cuisine who 390 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 1: fed civil rights leaders, musicians and presidents. Well, sad to 391 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: say that she has passed away. Miss Chase, the executive 392 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 1: chef and co owner of famous Dukie Chase's Restaurant. This 393 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: restaurant was a hub for meeting places for organizers of 394 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 1: the civil rights movement back in the day. Miss Chase 395 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: was ninety six years old. Ninety six years old. Yeah, 396 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: condolences from Steve Harvey morning. Yeah Dukey Chase Restaurant. Yeah, 397 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: her legacy, Miss Chase to that city, inspirational, iconic. You 398 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 1: just can't even put into words what Miss Leah Chase 399 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: meant to the city of New Orleans. This restaurant. She 400 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that when the freedom fighters and 401 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 1: when they came there to had a place to eat. 402 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: And she fits the people involved in a civil rights movement. 403 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: Just iconic, historic restaurant and Miss Leah Chase was just 404 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: a legend to the city of New Orleans. And ar condolenses, 405 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: just like you said, Shirley going out to the Chase 406 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:20,719 Speaker 1: family in the city of New Orleans. Yeah, and another 407 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: entertainment news. This past Saturday night was the third annual 408 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: Wearable Art Gala. The theme of this year's event was 409 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: a Journey to the Pride Lands. It was inspired by 410 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: the upcoming Live Action Disney remake. The event was thrown 411 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: by Where Art Can Occur Waco. In other words, it's 412 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 1: an organization founded by Miss Tina Knowles, that's Beyonce's mom 413 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: and her stepfather, Richard Lawson. The gala was over the 414 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: top and it was star studded. Beyonce held court in 415 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: this stunning lion and goal themed outfit she brought. She 416 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: brought her daughter to Blue Ivy to the event, and 417 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: other stars included Kelly Williams, of course, Roland, Michelle Williams, 418 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,479 Speaker 1: Tyler Perry uh and of course Stephen Marjorie were there. Yes, yes, 419 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: that's Maxwell performed. I would definitely be their next year. 420 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:14,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how I missed that. I love stuff 421 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, fun stuff, right, and you get to where, 422 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: you know, like really exciting costumes and stuff, you know, 423 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: over the top, over the top, yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah, 424 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm thinking like Matt Kaylin, what would you wear tom 425 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: over the top? Oh, I'm going to come with that 426 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: thing that John snowhead on that that that that big 427 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: bad jacket. I'm going to come with that. I don't 428 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,479 Speaker 1: see that for you, Tommy, I don't see that. I 429 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: really think I'm Game of Thrones. I see you with 430 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: it on. Come on, tell me their claws and everything? 431 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jay. And the zipper up the front. Yes, 432 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: and if you ain't had a bad zipp up, then 433 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 1: you ain't really man. And patch pockets on the on 434 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 1: the cold or something in a hood. Yeah, yeah, And 435 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: that's from my dog. And really don't do pockets, but 436 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: he gonna do my pockets. Don't worry about Jay, I 437 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 1: got you. He gonna turn around and do you got 438 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, No, No, he don't do pockets, but 439 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 1: he gonna do my pocket. They might not they might 440 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: be small pockets, but he don't. I don't see that. 441 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: See what do you see for me, Julie? Same thing? 442 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: Sure do you see me wearing the same thing? Sure 443 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 1: you know what? This is a hotstyle room. I haven't 444 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 1: anything by what do you see me wearing? Okay? I 445 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: was feeling the John hold John Snow thing because you 446 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: know how I felt about John Snow, Okay, don't matter 447 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 1: about how they did him on that last episode. We'll 448 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: switch gears here. It's take us to Miss Anne. Like 449 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: everybody's time for the news with miss and Trip A 450 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,280 Speaker 1: thank you very much, Ann. Good Monday morning, everybody out there. 451 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: This is and Trip with the news. Violence rage in 452 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: Chicago over the weekend with a jaw drop in Get this. 453 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: Thirty one people shot with only a twelve within only 454 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: a twelve hour period. Thirty one people shot within twelve 455 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: hours in Chicago between six pm Friday and just before 456 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: dawn on Saturday. Several killed. One young woman was found 457 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: stabbed to death as a result, police say of a 458 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 1: domestic violence situation. Now all the others were shot. The 459 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: youngest victim a seventeen year old boy who was shot 460 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: in the leg and who is in the hospital. Law 461 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: enforcement authorities in Virginia Beach say they're still trying to 462 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: figure out why a forty year old utility engineer shot 463 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 1: and killed twelve people on Friday at the municipal building 464 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: where he worked. Before he himself would kill was killed 465 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: by police. City manager Dave Hanson says the guy wasn't fired, 466 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: the perpetrator's performance satisfactory, that he was in good standing 467 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: within his department, and there were no issues of discipline ongoing. Meanwhile, 468 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: David Hanson says that four people remained hospitalized in critical condition. 469 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 1: The FEDS also have now taken over the investigation. California 470 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: Democrats wrapped up their statewide convention in San Francisco yesterday 471 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,720 Speaker 1: with fourteen candidates. They're trying to make their political pitches 472 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: to the party faithful. By the way, even though the 473 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: convention was on Kamala Harris's home turf, the candidates that 474 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 1: seemed to draw the most enthusiastic responses were actually Massachusetts 475 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 1: Centator at Elizabeth Warren, Pete Boudhajig, and Jersey Santa Cory Booker. Meanwhile, 476 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: most Poles showed Joe Biden still leading the pack. However, 477 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 1: he campaigned in Ohio all the weekend. As you heard 478 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: Cala talk about tributes and condolences continuing to pour in 479 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 1: into New Orleans over the passing of the Queen of 480 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 1: Creole cuisine. Restaurateur Leah Chase, Miss Chase, propride of the 481 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: famous Dukie Chase restaurant, died a Saturday, at age ninety six, 482 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: Leah Chase and her late husband, the Edgar Dukie Chase, 483 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: expanded and transformed was originally a sandwich shop in the 484 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: nineteen forties into a high class eatery in the surrogated 485 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 1: South where blacks were welcomed, didn't have to worry about 486 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 1: being threatened or harassed by whites, and was therefore safe 487 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: hazen haven for African Americans doing the civil rights movement. 488 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: Leah Chase spoke about her life on National Public Radio 489 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 1: back in twenty thirteen years. So it's fun. That is 490 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 1: a good feeling for me that people remember me. I 491 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: couldn't live honey without people. Yeah, Ray Charles wasn't the 492 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: only one who went to Dukie Chase to get something 493 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,839 Speaker 1: to eat. Also, some other guests included the Reverend Martin 494 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: Luther King, Junior Supreme Court Justice Thirdgood Marshall. Even Presidents 495 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 1: George W. Bush and Barack Obama made it their favorite 496 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 1: stop for jambalayah, gumbo, red beans and rice, and so 497 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: many other Southern meals. Among her many honors, Leah Chase 498 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: the first black restaurant tour to receive the James Beard 499 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,839 Speaker 1: Lifetime Achievement Award again. Leah Chase dead at ninety six, 500 00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: finally tops at the week being the box office. Yeah, 501 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,840 Speaker 1: it was Godzilla's World, bringing forty nine million dollars domestically 502 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: one hundred thirty mill internationally. Now back to the Steve 503 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys, 504 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 1: another sad, awful shooting. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are 505 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 1: going out to the city and the community of Virginia Beach. 506 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: This past Friday was one of America's deadliest workplace shootings. 507 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 1: Dwayne Kradick submitted a letter of resignation from his job 508 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: as an engineer for the City of Virginia Beach this 509 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 1: past Friday morning, just hours before murdering twelve people and 510 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 1: injuring six people at the government building where he worked. 511 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: Dwayne Kraddock's motives were unclear, and investigators said even though 512 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: he resigned, Kradick was not in danger of being fired 513 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: and his performance was considered satisfactory. Dwayne Kradick used two 514 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,280 Speaker 1: forty five caliber handguns in the shooting, and police found 515 00:36:55,280 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 1: a sound suppressor commonly known as a silencer, and extended magazines. 516 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: He purchased the guns legally and he was killed by 517 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 1: law enforcement officials. This is the great I mean, come on, 518 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 1: come on, yeah, instead of this is just getting worse. 519 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 1: It's so out of hand. I mean, it seems like 520 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,879 Speaker 1: we say the same thing after every mass shooting. This 521 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: is so awful. And spot, it's a nice nice from me, 522 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: Jay and and go down and work. This is where 523 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 1: we go. We go down, we tell jokes there. This 524 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:36,320 Speaker 1: is our spot. You know, the community. Community, Oh my god, Carlin, 525 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,279 Speaker 1: we love going on. I'm talking about you out your 526 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 1: room all day, hanging in the community. And not to mention, 527 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,800 Speaker 1: when you do a show in Virginia Beach, all types 528 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 1: of people come to you. Everyone, I mean all races, definitely, everyone. 529 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: They come out right, Our hearts definitely go out, prayers 530 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,600 Speaker 1: go out. But they need to. This gun lobby thing 531 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 1: has got to change. And until the President and the 532 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: Republicans get more serious about dealing with the gun lobby, 533 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: it's not going to change at all. And I don't 534 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 1: see that happen. It's gonna be known unfortunately, if you 535 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: make it easier for people to get these guns. I mean, 536 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: that's part of it too, It says he purchased his legally. 537 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 1: But there's also some issues with mental health that we 538 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: need to talk about workplace safety as far as maybe 539 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: installed metal detectors, having security guards at work at all places. 540 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: But no, the Republicans, they're too busy word about abortion. Yeah, 541 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,879 Speaker 1: that's a crisis for them right now, and said how 542 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,879 Speaker 1: many people have to die in mass shootings for this 543 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 1: to be addressed? Yeah, and I do see. I do 544 00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 1: see in the future and not too distant future, a 545 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: more workplace safety where we might have to have metal 546 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 1: detectors to go to work and all of that. I 547 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: do see that because there's some Yeah, they're definitely seriously 548 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 1: to work what or or to school, or to the movies, 549 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 1: or to the mall. I mean, yeah, anywhere anywhere where 550 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:08,360 Speaker 1: we've seen these mass shootings because he purchased his gun legally. 551 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: Um yeah, all right, Well, coming up at thirty four 552 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 1: after the hour, again, our prayers and our thoughts are 553 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 1: with the people of Virginia Beach. Right now, coming up 554 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 1: at thirty four after the hour, we're going to switch 555 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: gears and talk about trending sports news. The boxing match 556 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,520 Speaker 1: this past weekend. Wow, what's with folks getting hit at 557 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: baseball games, and we'll talk about the NBA finals all 558 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 1: that coming up right after this. You're listening to the show, 559 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,240 Speaker 1: all right, time to talk some sports, Junior. What you got, Well, 560 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 1: you've already seen this weekend. We must don't. We must thought. 561 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 1: First of all, we must say a condolency always sorry, No, 562 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 1: it's embarrassing. We're sorry to Canada, no go a little 563 00:39:54,040 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 1: first in England apologized to the queen because he came 564 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: all the way over here and got his spirit and 565 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 1: not back. Who is he? Anthony Joshua lost his heavyweight 566 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 1: championship to Andy Ruiz, but but the Queen was with him. 567 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 1: Though yes, everybody, all those hi hi are people right out? Yeah, 568 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: but wait a minute, we have to talk about Anthony 569 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: Ruiz did not look like a fighter at all. He 570 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:32,439 Speaker 1: don't look but that Hispanic brother was fighting. Man. Did 571 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: you see his dressing night? He had a play, he 572 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: had just eight, He had just been he was looking 573 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,840 Speaker 1: his throughs at the time and went out there and 574 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 1: one junior, he was not playing though. That's what I 575 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 1: wanted to ask. So what do you think made him 576 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 1: win that fight? Was it sheer will and determination or 577 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 1: was it some skill involved fighter? I tell you what 578 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 1: it didn't do for Joshua. What defense. I'm at home 579 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 1: watching the fun I was, I was. I was in 580 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 1: the corner being his quarterman from home. Did you see 581 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,600 Speaker 1: the jail? Are you looking at the hook? You think 582 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:23,320 Speaker 1: you think he took this guy lightly? I'd say, heaven, 583 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:28,359 Speaker 1: he was not Andy Ruise nothing. He fought a great fight. 584 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,920 Speaker 1: But when you saw him coming rain, you swore to 585 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: God like you didn't think he was gonna win. All 586 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 1: I saw, all I saw, what I'm saying, had a chance. 587 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: All I saw and short too small your shorts, and 588 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 1: I see your draw. He didn't look like he was 589 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:55,359 Speaker 1: gonna win. Let's just be honest. I didn't see a man. 590 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: He was a man. He was whooping him. Put him 591 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 1: to the cam his full times and one of the 592 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: times he got up. That's what he said. Is it 593 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,760 Speaker 1: three of them or the two of them? Okay, okay, okay. 594 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,399 Speaker 1: But Julian caller sent me a video. Did you see 595 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 1: it was yes, Julian, and the brother got hit. It 596 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 1: looked like he had left the fight. He no plane. 597 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 1: That video was when he hit him, his spirit left 598 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:35,080 Speaker 1: his body and jumped on British airways and went back 599 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:39,640 Speaker 1: to England. Was tolerant. That was funny. Oh my god, 600 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 1: that was funny. Was funny. Oh okay, wait call it 601 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: call have you posted this? You have to post this? 602 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 1: Call it? So yeah, because that right came across and 603 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 1: he hit and you see that little blue spirit leave 604 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: that like it's walking and it said Magic Square Garden. 605 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 1: Then British Airways show up and that plane take it off. Man, 606 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 1: I was man, that was hilarious. So it's safe to 607 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,839 Speaker 1: say now Anthony Ruiz is a very rich man right now, 608 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:17,880 Speaker 1: you know, and and right now we don't know what 609 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: you want on that right, but he's gonna have what 610 00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 1: he wants. He's gonna have. He's gonna have to defend. Yeah, 611 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 1: but then he'll make it check. Then that's gonna be 612 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 1: his big He was the belt. Yeah, he was not 613 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 1: expected expect to win. No, I know, I didn't think. 614 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: Now you're the champion. You got paid two and now 615 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm said that they're gonna have to get you another check. 616 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,239 Speaker 1: But then he says something to his mom after the fight, 617 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,200 Speaker 1: like they weren't gonna have to struggle anymore. Yeah something yeah, yeah, 618 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 1: because he knew too. That touched my heart. Yeah, he knew. 619 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 1: And then we want to give a shout out to 620 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 1: also to the Warriors. They won last time you said 621 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: that really lightly yeah, one man, one on nine, one 622 00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: on four. Last yeah, they won man they want let night. Yeah, 623 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 1: so now we gotta now we got a series now now, 624 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 1: y'at have made the little light skin boys upset and 625 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 1: speaking of light skins, Drake and Draymond Day made up 626 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 1: or something made up? Nothing made Drake sit out here. 627 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: We gotta go. You ain't straight. The nephew is up 628 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 1: next with the praying phone call for today. Right after this, 629 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Morning Show coming up at the 630 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: top of the hour. Guys, right about four minutes after, 631 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: it's today's Strawberry Letters subject, I got a good one 632 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:38,560 Speaker 1: for you, guys. I heard that my vows are weighing 633 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 1: heavy on me. Gott a good one for you Right now. 634 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,440 Speaker 1: Nephew's in the building with today's praying phone call. What 635 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: do you have for us today? Net? Okay, Shirley, he 636 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: ain't Carl Shirley, Yes, he's not here. Your uncle Uncle 637 00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 1: Steve was out, so y'all cool if I run the 638 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,520 Speaker 1: time that I prank Uncle Steve you're gonna be out 639 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 1: of work. Yeah, no, I ain't gonna be out of 640 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 1: work right now. I'm tend to play the time I 641 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 1: prank uncle Steve. Can y'all can we do that? We 642 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 1: can't do it. Can't be out of let the room. 643 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. Jay the idiot running kad Renny. 644 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: So what did you say? I'm saying to you right 645 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 1: now that he chelling on everybody, he's checking on He 646 00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,879 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with me, man, That ain't 647 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: my book. That's his damn book. Put him on the phone. 648 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: I canna tell him. I ain't already staid to Steve. 649 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 1: He ain't writing about you day. He's a tall on me. 650 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 1: He's a tall on my boy. He's telling on everybody. Man. 651 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,040 Speaker 1: He goes this book, ain't got nothing to do with you, man, No, no, 652 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 1: nobody book dud got something to do with me. Because 653 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: everything that Steven run if he was growing up from 654 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 1: the hood telling on everybody, and I'm tired of this. 655 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,960 Speaker 1: He ought to go somewhere and sit down. I do. No. 656 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 1: You gotta be get right with your girls. That if 657 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 1: he's stolling my girl, he ain't got no business coming 658 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: in my house. In my car, tell on every damn thing. 659 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 1: So hello, who who who is this? Who is it? 660 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 1: Hold on, man, this Steve Harvey? Who is this? This 661 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 1: is your team? Man? Listen here man. Okay, I'm gonna 662 00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 1: fall with your nephew. And I'm just saying this to you. Steve. Okay, 663 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: hold up to you, dude. I see you on the 664 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: front of essence. I see you on the on the 665 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 1: family field, on your radio show. So why don't you 666 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 1: go somewhere and sit out and quit telling on everybody? 667 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,840 Speaker 1: What I mean? If from everything, Steve, I'm riding the 668 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 1: car with my family. I'm gonna turn my radio off 669 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 1: because you're telling game. We grow up, sticking together. If 670 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm running the middle game to make my ears meet 671 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 1: or whatever it is, that's my goodest. You ain't gonna 672 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 1: on me. Hold on, hold old women. First of all, 673 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,919 Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. I know you're gone. 674 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 1: I know who you are, and we listen to the 675 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,600 Speaker 1: show first time. You're gonna do though, Back up a 676 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 1: little bit dull because you're talking to me. Plays if Steve, 677 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 1: ain't nobody scared of you because you got money on it, 678 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,720 Speaker 1: just ain't gonhing doing no money and I ain't gonna 679 00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,239 Speaker 1: be too many, but this is money. You want to 680 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 1: plait a minute and one and just enjoy your life. 681 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 1: You're finding the perfect right now. You you found the 682 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:09,240 Speaker 1: perfect person, the perfect relationship. Okay, that's good. God blemming. 683 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,360 Speaker 1: Don't put God in this. Lead God out of this 684 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: because you ain't calling from the God ain't gonna s 685 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: people killing me with that part right there, God bless you. 686 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,320 Speaker 1: Don't throw God. You don't w God bless me because 687 00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: you're talking too crazy to me. That's for starters right there. 688 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 1: But since you're talking crazy to me, let me turn 689 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,800 Speaker 1: you onto something you want that running game. That's your problem. 690 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 1: Run your game. You can't get mad at me because 691 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm doing what I do, sooth man, y'all kill me. 692 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 1: You out there doing what you want to do like 693 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 1: you all in this right here. Then you're coming to 694 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,799 Speaker 1: me because I'm trying to empower somebody. I don't give 695 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 1: a damn about you. Man, see on how you want 696 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,439 Speaker 1: to feel about me. But what you ain't gonna do though, 697 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,080 Speaker 1: it's talk to me like you clay, because I ain't 698 00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,760 Speaker 1: that Wait a minute, save, let's make the player feel fail. Okay, 699 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,799 Speaker 1: you got the airways, you got the microphone, you got 700 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,080 Speaker 1: the ability to touch a lot of people. Okay, and 701 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: you just tell you're gonna walking talking on. Hold, hold on. 702 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,320 Speaker 1: This ain't got nothing to do with the adway. This 703 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing doing with the media. This just for 704 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: me and you talking. I can't talk to you personally. Personally, 705 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: me and you can talk anybody. I talk me in there, 706 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 1: you call. You're talking all this yet see his people 707 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: like you, man, dog, You know why I wrote a 708 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 1: book in the first place, because you always somewhere up 709 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 1: trying to act like you're something that you went. Now 710 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,439 Speaker 1: you've got the sauce on the phone. Now you're trying 711 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: to mink about money and to me, this just me 712 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 1: and you're just two men talking, not what you want. 713 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,359 Speaker 1: And if there's two men then talking there from one 714 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 1: man to another, watching guests go from where and sit down? 715 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,000 Speaker 1: It quit telling. First of all, I ain't got this 716 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: sit down. You're already doing nothing as it is. She's 717 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: as soon as somebody go out and do something, trying 718 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 1: to do something positive. You're got someone shaking big shimmy 719 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 1: way like you sitting up in here man wanting to 720 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: go to sit down somewhere. I ain't gonna sitting down, 721 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: no damn where you can mince me with that. Say 722 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 1: what I want to say? And who are you anyway? 723 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 1: You ain't even doing nothing. I don't tell me I 724 00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:06,919 Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing. I tell you what I am doing. 725 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,359 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do something. Every time I take a step, 726 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,879 Speaker 1: you take two steps. I can't hang hang hoh man, 727 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 1: what kid? Hey? Yeah, you don't kill me. Why don't 728 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,359 Speaker 1: you quit trying and do something? You aren't killing me? Man? 729 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,919 Speaker 1: With that on you trying to do something? Why don't 730 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 1: you do something? Dog, you shouldn't have been here talking 731 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,000 Speaker 1: to me about what you're trying. You tall of selling 732 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,839 Speaker 1: that same thing to your people. You're trying where your 733 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,840 Speaker 1: tie to me and trying still where you're gonna do something. 734 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing something right now. You're talking to me on 735 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 1: the floor. You're gonna be improving your relationship with your 736 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: girl or whoever you're trying to get it together. But 737 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: you're on the phone with me complaining because I don't 738 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 1: wrote a book. Man, don't read the damn book. You 739 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 1: probably ain't read it no way, And don't watch the 740 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 1: TV show. You probably ain't working enough to play the bill. Noh, 741 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 1: I let me wait a minute. Jo. You don't know 742 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 1: nothing about me, Okay, you don't know nothing about my finances. 743 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,760 Speaker 1: You know what I won't about your finances. This about 744 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: you as a man. Man. If you don't want y'all kimmy, 745 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,759 Speaker 1: what y'all do to me? Do what y'all do to me? 746 00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: Y'all always talking to me on an email somewhere, y'are 747 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 1: always on the blog talking about me. You don't even 748 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: know me. Then when you're giving me face to face, 749 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 1: you want to bring up money. This concients ain't got 750 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: nothing to do about money. I ain't brought him money 751 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,840 Speaker 1: one time. It's about man who now, why don't you 752 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,359 Speaker 1: do that right there? But no, Steve, it ain't about 753 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 1: money now because you got it, Okay, because you've got 754 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 1: it when you're broke. I bet that when you're at it, 755 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:34,400 Speaker 1: I ain't got just what's a man? Just when I 756 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,080 Speaker 1: was broked on, I was working. I wasn't sitting on 757 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 1: the phone crying to some other men by what he 758 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 1: meanting me feel with my wife. Yeah, and time I 759 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 1: take a step forward, you got me took the two 760 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,719 Speaker 1: step around. That's why you ain't taking step but give me. 761 00:50:48,400 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: I'll tell you something. Did you got Frank offense Uncle's 762 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:46,520 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm gonna call you back, dog man. Did 763 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: I get my mom? You know he's a he's zero 764 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 1: to sixty easy. So you got any given any given day, 765 00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 1: use I get my uncle. That's all I want to ask. 766 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 1: Don't worry, you're not gonna get fired or nothing. No, 767 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,359 Speaker 1: you know what because because because you can take off 768 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:09,600 Speaker 1: come in light but time. I don't know how you 769 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,960 Speaker 1: knew that time. But as soon as you handed the 770 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 1: phone off, it was open. I already knew he was 771 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 1: gonna bite the bait as soon as I as soon 772 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,319 Speaker 1: as I was talking to the guy on the phone, 773 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,240 Speaker 1: I knew I was setting him. Was like, he gonna 774 00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: ask for this phone, and you know what, all he 775 00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:32,200 Speaker 1: said was give me the phone sometimes sometimes killing out 776 00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 1: in his strong point. It really a long time, longer 777 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 1: than all of the the straight killing out let that 778 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 1: go na. He don't do that. There is no one 779 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 1: that I cannot get. Go to Thomas Miles dot com 780 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,879 Speaker 1: and solicit. No, you nobody. I want who you think 781 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,320 Speaker 1: who you think I can't get? Junior, I'll tell you 782 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 1: what I don't know. If you can get it, but 783 00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,839 Speaker 1: they're gonna lead to a serious ask for me. Who 784 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: mister Farr, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing it. 785 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,000 Speaker 1: That would be good one. Some people you don't miss with. 786 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm look, thank you, nephew. Coming up, it's today's Strawberry Letter. Subject, 787 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,080 Speaker 1: my vows are weighing heavy on me. Wait till you 788 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 1: hear this one. We'll get into it right after this. 789 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:32,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, time now, 790 00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,719 Speaker 1: guys for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need 791 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: advice and relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting, and more, please 792 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:42,640 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey f M and 793 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,640 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 794 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this 795 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:52,359 Speaker 1: one today right now. Let's go buggle up and hold 796 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,120 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is 797 00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:58,040 Speaker 1: the straw Very Let all right, you guys, get ready. 798 00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: Steve's and I here so we want to hear from 799 00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: the Ellas on this one as well. Jay Junior, the nephew, 800 00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 1: Oh lord, all right, here we go. Subject, my vows 801 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,600 Speaker 1: are weighing heavy on me. Dear Stephen Shirley I've been 802 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 1: married for sixteen years, and my wife and I are 803 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 1: headed for a divorce. We're headed for a divorce six 804 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 1: years ago because of her infidelity. She cheated on me 805 00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 1: and admitted it. But shortly after that we found out 806 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,879 Speaker 1: that she was really sick. So I decided to stay 807 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,919 Speaker 1: with her and help her out because she could only 808 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,480 Speaker 1: work part time because of all her medical appointment I 809 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,720 Speaker 1: worked extra hours at a job that I really hated, 810 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: and I paid most of her medical bills. After all 811 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 1: of that, I found out that she had another affair 812 00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: with a new guy at her job. I'm not trying 813 00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 1: to boast, but I get approached by women all the time, 814 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,480 Speaker 1: and I have never cheated on my wife. Right after 815 00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 1: I found out about the second affair, her god worse 816 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,279 Speaker 1: and she had to stop working altogether. So I am 817 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: stuck because she has no source of income and she's 818 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 1: still on my health insurance. I don't want to be 819 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 1: with this woman at all, but I know what it 820 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,200 Speaker 1: would look like if I left her. Now. We have 821 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,399 Speaker 1: a son and a daughter, and they are old enough 822 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,719 Speaker 1: to understand. But if I leave her, they are going 823 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:24,360 Speaker 1: with me, and that will devastate my wife. I have 824 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,440 Speaker 1: told her repeatedly that I am not happy, and she 825 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,800 Speaker 1: refuses to let me go. She thinks I should forgive 826 00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:34,240 Speaker 1: her past affairs and honor my wedding vows by taking 827 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,440 Speaker 1: care of her. As soon as she feels better, she 828 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,160 Speaker 1: might have another affair and I should not have to 829 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,680 Speaker 1: keep dealing with this. What do you think am I 830 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this unfaithful marriage? Please help? 831 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:55,359 Speaker 1: Wow is a lot. This is a lot for any 832 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 1: human being after sixteen years of marriage. I mean, I 833 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: really have to say that. You ask the question, are 834 00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 1: you are you thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this 835 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: unfaithful marriash No? Absolutely not um. And if you are, 836 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:15,479 Speaker 1: it's okay in this instance, because look what this woman 837 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 1: has put you through. I would say you're a very 838 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,399 Speaker 1: good You're a kind man, you're a considerate man, you're 839 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 1: a loving man. And you yes, you are honoring your vows, 840 00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: you know. And that's the thing. You do have a 841 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,560 Speaker 1: decision to make, because you could walk off and leave 842 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,719 Speaker 1: this woman and take your kids. A lot of people 843 00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 1: would think that's what she deserves. But I don't think 844 00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,719 Speaker 1: that's what's in your heart. I think you're better than that. 845 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:46,319 Speaker 1: I really do after all that she's done. And let 846 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,799 Speaker 1: me let me tell you this, it is a rare 847 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,279 Speaker 1: occasion when a man takes a woman back and still 848 00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,720 Speaker 1: calls her his wife after she's cheated on him. Women 849 00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,759 Speaker 1: do it all the time, or they do it a 850 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 1: lot and way more than men. But men definitely don't 851 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: do this a lot. The problem is your wife is sick. 852 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: That's the problem. And the vows do say in sickness 853 00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:14,200 Speaker 1: and in health. But where was this illness when she 854 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:18,280 Speaker 1: was cheating? Well, I don't understand she cheated and then 855 00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 1: she you found out she was sick. I mean, what 856 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 1: a mess you're in. I just have to say, by 857 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 1: the grace of God that you can get through this. 858 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 1: Your wife will get better and eventually you will be 859 00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:34,200 Speaker 1: able to divorce her and move on to a better life. 860 00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 1: But this is no way to live. You know, you 861 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,160 Speaker 1: can still look after your wife and take care of her, 862 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 1: and she could still be on your your health insurance 863 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,720 Speaker 1: while she's going through this illness, but you don't have 864 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,400 Speaker 1: to stay there and take this. And you say your 865 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,440 Speaker 1: children are old enough. I have to give you credit 866 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:57,200 Speaker 1: for that too, because you're staying with her. You know 867 00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:00,080 Speaker 1: what it looks like you know, you're the kids to 868 00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,640 Speaker 1: go with you. According to you, this is a mess. 869 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,920 Speaker 1: Your wife is all the way wrong. I'm sorry that 870 00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,000 Speaker 1: she's ill, I really am, but I do thank god 871 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,400 Speaker 1: that she has health insurance and she has a good 872 00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:13,720 Speaker 1: man like you. But you don't have to stay there 873 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: and deal with this. There's a way you can do 874 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 1: this and still take care of her. She's still in 875 00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:23,440 Speaker 1: your house and your health insurance. Say yeah, this is 876 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 1: a mess. This, this is horrible, this is really bad. Yeah. 877 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:30,080 Speaker 1: He doesn't say she's near death. He just says she's 878 00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 1: really really sick. But I mean the nerve of her though, Yeah, 879 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,680 Speaker 1: the nerve You got this good man and you're he's 880 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,640 Speaker 1: taking care of you while you're saying the gall yeah, 881 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:50,040 Speaker 1: the unmitigated gal. Yeah, yeah, this is crazy with it 882 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,320 Speaker 1: all right? Yeah? You what you need to do. We 883 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,919 Speaker 1: don't have his name, we don't even know what he needs, 884 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: Rob Robert. You need to get out before she gets well, 885 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:09,040 Speaker 1: because look at the tail she's giving away, thick. Look 886 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:13,560 Speaker 1: at what she's doing sick. This is sick tail that 887 00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:18,800 Speaker 1: she just constantly giving it away, and you don't want 888 00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:23,680 Speaker 1: her to get healthy and really distribute that thing. No, 889 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,920 Speaker 1: what you need to do is leave her sick ass 890 00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:32,919 Speaker 1: right now before she gets fully well, I mean completely 891 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:40,560 Speaker 1: what she's doing the sick tail away like she ain't 892 00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 1: that damn sick first of all? Is she gonna drag 893 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,480 Speaker 1: out sickness for a long damn time? Oh yeah, and 894 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:49,320 Speaker 1: make him feel guilty about staying there taking care of her. 895 00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:55,520 Speaker 1: Leave I to leave her sick and when she gets well, 896 00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:05,479 Speaker 1: get well, my man. They all right, Look, we're gonna 897 01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 1: hear from Junior and Tommy when we come back at 898 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:12,480 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's subject my vows are 899 01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: weighing heavy on me, and they should because vowers are 900 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,640 Speaker 1: serious and God takes vows serious. So we'll we'll have 901 01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 1: part two of this Strawberry letter coming up right after this. 902 01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:28,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys, let's recap today's 903 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:31,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject my vows are weighing heavy on me? 904 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 1: A man wrote in he and his wife have been 905 01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,760 Speaker 1: married for sixteen years. Sixteen years. They were going to 906 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,880 Speaker 1: get a divorce six years ago, but they found out 907 01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,160 Speaker 1: that his wife was really sick. They were going to 908 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,400 Speaker 1: get a divorce because he found out that his wife 909 01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:48,480 Speaker 1: had cheated on him. So then when she got sick, 910 01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,960 Speaker 1: he decided to stay and help her out because she 911 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 1: couldn't work full time and he had to help her financially. 912 01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,360 Speaker 1: He worked extra hours at a job he didn't like. 913 01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,480 Speaker 1: I mean, where is this man there? I mean, this 914 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: is as a good unselfish man, and he wants to 915 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 1: know is he selfish? So anyway, he nursed her kind 916 01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: of back to health and everything. Then she got well 917 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:12,160 Speaker 1: and had another affair with a new guy at her job, 918 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 1: so and then her health got worse. She had to 919 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:18,080 Speaker 1: stop working altogether. So now he feels like he's stuck 920 01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,520 Speaker 1: because she has no source of income and she's still 921 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,160 Speaker 1: on his health insurance. He doesn't want to be with 922 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 1: this woman. Uh he knows if he leaves her right 923 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,880 Speaker 1: now while she's down, what it'll look like. And they 924 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 1: and they have two kids, a boy and a girl 925 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 1: who would go with him? So his question is is 926 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 1: he thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this unfaithful marriage? 927 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 1: And absolutely no, he's not selfish. So that's that's the 928 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 1: recap of the letter, Junior. What do you say? What 929 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:53,960 Speaker 1: did Jay say? Jay? And let me tell you something, 930 01:01:55,000 --> 01:02:00,320 Speaker 1: what a better two people? To respond to show we 931 01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 1: all ready No. If Jane Turtley was sick, ass, then 932 01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:08,200 Speaker 1: you should leave. But here's another option that I would 933 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 1: like to present to you. First problem you as your 934 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,960 Speaker 1: ass is too healthy. Get your ass sick and confronting. 935 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,320 Speaker 1: So you got too much stress? You know you got 936 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:21,720 Speaker 1: to get Joe ass something. He needs to gona something. 937 01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: Didn't catch something. I don't know if it's a woman coughs, 938 01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: call it, save one of me, bird flu get yours 939 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:34,440 Speaker 1: something and get your count takes whoever she did it with. 940 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,880 Speaker 1: Be in a hospital. Get Joe ass admitted and see 941 01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,960 Speaker 1: what hell going on with your wife? Yeah, you're too healthy. 942 01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:45,520 Speaker 1: She's not gonna help him though, don't sert he too healthy. 943 01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,200 Speaker 1: All the cheating tapped it down there is that I 944 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,320 Speaker 1: see you? Why you ain't down? Get Joe ass admitted. 945 01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,320 Speaker 1: She cheated with the second guy at her job and 946 01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:59,760 Speaker 1: the job is down at the hospital. Get working sick. 947 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:05,040 Speaker 1: We're telling you stop sikest people even you go leave 948 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 1: or catch something, get you something, nurse her back to 949 01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 1: health and get out of there. You need to be 950 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:19,360 Speaker 1: in that room in the huspit. Hey mate, we get it, 951 01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:24,440 Speaker 1: We get it. Thank you, junior, all right, tell me 952 01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:28,760 Speaker 1: my my vows are weighing me down. Sixteen years of marriage. 953 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 1: Uh sickness and fidelity. Uh, bad health, no job, health insurance? 954 01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 1: Thank god? What do you yes? Is he being selfish? 955 01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 1: The most important thing that needs to be on your mind? 956 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:47,400 Speaker 1: Eels life in sharing, that is what you might want. 957 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 1: You need to make sure you got five million dollars 958 01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 1: life insurance. Let her leave here. Every time she go down, 959 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:59,320 Speaker 1: she come up with another man. Let me tell you something, 960 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:04,320 Speaker 1: get you some life insurance. Let her lead. Yeah, help 961 01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: her every step of the weight, and I promise you 962 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:12,400 Speaker 1: when she leaves. What what y'all ain't never help nobody 963 01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:16,760 Speaker 1: to die before. That's illegal. You could go to prison 964 01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,480 Speaker 1: for that, just saying yeah, oh look, this onean is 965 01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:25,120 Speaker 1: susceptible to diseases. We know that. Well wait, wait, if 966 01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: she's dying, never said that. Okay, let's get her to dance. 967 01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,600 Speaker 1: What you gonna do? Call it cheat on me? And 968 01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,440 Speaker 1: then I'm trying to help you back back. I'm not 969 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,800 Speaker 1: trying to help you back. I'm gonna I'm gonna cordially 970 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,360 Speaker 1: let you leave here, but I'm gonna make sure I 971 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 1: got life and sh And then when you me and 972 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,160 Speaker 1: this boy and this baby that you're leaving us with. 973 01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,800 Speaker 1: We're gonna have money and we're gonna leave and we're 974 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,680 Speaker 1: gonna have a great life. Oufter you leave, and you 975 01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,960 Speaker 1: have decided to do this, You you decided to cheat. 976 01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 1: Don't mean and guess what life in Sharance is the key? 977 01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 1: The key noticed this. You can put anything in vegetables. 978 01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:13,680 Speaker 1: Oh god, they have two kids. They'll be losing a mother, 979 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 1: a cheat mother. He's not cheating on the kids, but 980 01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:24,800 Speaker 1: she hating their daddy. Yeah. Yeah, and it's time for 981 01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:27,040 Speaker 1: you to go. Either we do what Jay said, dude, 982 01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:30,040 Speaker 1: or I say, dude, I say, get your ass something. 983 01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: He got options. There's nothing that says you serious when 984 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 1: you pull your hospital bed off the next to her 985 01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,720 Speaker 1: and you catch your ass an egg. Well will will 986 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: on the path that he's doing. He can nurse her 987 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:51,520 Speaker 1: back to health and then leave her because he does 988 01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: the one too. He's a good man. He does not 989 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,000 Speaker 1: want to leave her while she's But you bring us, 990 01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 1: If you bring her back, she just cheating on us again. 991 01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:01,160 Speaker 1: Well you'll be out by then we'll be out. You 992 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:04,560 Speaker 1: go give all her street to go cheating now a 993 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:10,600 Speaker 1: full street. She won't be cheating. If he divorces her, well, 994 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:18,320 Speaker 1: she won't be his wife. You can email as your 995 01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:21,360 Speaker 1: Instagram as your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter at Steve 996 01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,000 Speaker 1: Harvey FM, or you can check out the Strawberry Letter 997 01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: podcast on demand now coming up at forty six after 998 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:31,080 Speaker 1: the hour. On this Motivational Monday, We're going to talk 999 01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:33,880 Speaker 1: to mister Jay Anthony Brown. You may have heard of him, 1000 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: about his battle with leukemia and how he stays in 1001 01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:41,400 Speaker 1: such good spirits. You don't want to miss this. We'll 1002 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:46,880 Speaker 1: be back right after this. Jay is motivation you're listening 1003 01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, today is Motivational Monday. And 1004 01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 1: for those of you who don't know, our very own 1005 01:06:55,400 --> 01:07:00,959 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown, has cancer and he's battling leukemia. We've 1006 01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,919 Speaker 1: all been in prayer for healing for you, Jay, of course, 1007 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 1: because we love you and we know you can beat this. 1008 01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 1: M but you gotta tell us about your progress and 1009 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 1: how do you stay. This is why you're my hero now, 1010 01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:18,920 Speaker 1: because you stay in such good spirits. You really do well. 1011 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:20,959 Speaker 1: I think one of the things when I was first 1012 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:23,400 Speaker 1: told that I had lukemia about the doctor. The doctor 1013 01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 1: told me this. He said you gotta He didn't even 1014 01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:27,640 Speaker 1: know I was a comedian. He said, you gotta find 1015 01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:30,919 Speaker 1: a way to laugh at the situation and to stay 1016 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:33,240 Speaker 1: in a funny mode, to try to bring things that 1017 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:35,360 Speaker 1: are in your life that will make you laugh, that 1018 01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,040 Speaker 1: would cheer you up. And that's one of the ways 1019 01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:39,760 Speaker 1: to beat Oh, he didn't know who he was talking. 1020 01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,280 Speaker 1: He had no idea. I mean, to anybody who has 1021 01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:47,200 Speaker 1: leukemia and this is just me, that's some days when 1022 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 1: you just go, this is a tough day, but I'm 1023 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,000 Speaker 1: gonna get through this. But for the most part, man, 1024 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:55,280 Speaker 1: I got this. I really got this. I mean, I'm 1025 01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:58,320 Speaker 1: not afraid. I'm not scared of dying. I know I'm 1026 01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,720 Speaker 1: gonna kick cancer, Indie. And why why is that? Why? 1027 01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:05,600 Speaker 1: Why is that just it's just the way I feel. 1028 01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:07,880 Speaker 1: It's just the way I feel. And not only that, 1029 01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:10,760 Speaker 1: because of the type of leukemia that I have had. 1030 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,760 Speaker 1: This been twenty years ago, I wouldn't be here. Oh yeah, 1031 01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 1: my grandfather died ukemia. Now that's another thing that people 1032 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:27,599 Speaker 1: people that they they're sharing me, they come up because 1033 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:31,519 Speaker 1: I hear a lot. You know, my grandfather had did 1034 01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:37,080 Speaker 1: he make it? No? He died just saying no, this 1035 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:41,120 Speaker 1: that's why you're my hero, Jay, because of your attitude. 1036 01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,720 Speaker 1: Because yeah, seriously, well there's so many people that I 1037 01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,840 Speaker 1: have to thank, you know, from his family members and 1038 01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:48,800 Speaker 1: friends and you know you mean, I mean people on 1039 01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:50,720 Speaker 1: the street who listen to the show and they'll just 1040 01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:52,360 Speaker 1: walk up and say, you know, we're praying for you, 1041 01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,400 Speaker 1: and that that's just that's that lifts your spirit. That's 1042 01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:59,519 Speaker 1: what Alex Trebek said. He said, the people that have 1043 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:03,360 Speaker 1: exped resting prayers for him and condolences and all of that, 1044 01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,200 Speaker 1: that's what gives him strength a lot of times when 1045 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,599 Speaker 1: he feels down. But you know what, let me say this, Jake, 1046 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:13,519 Speaker 1: your attitude, that's it. Your attitude and on how you 1047 01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:17,640 Speaker 1: have addressed this whole thickness man, is is something that 1048 01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:20,600 Speaker 1: we all need to watch and listen and adhere to 1049 01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:24,800 Speaker 1: because you have taken a whole new precedent. Man. Yeah, 1050 01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,000 Speaker 1: the way you've taken this is I would have I 1051 01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:29,240 Speaker 1: would have never thought you would have taken it this way. 1052 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,000 Speaker 1: And you make us feel like you know what he's 1053 01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:37,800 Speaker 1: been to beat this. Yeah, I've never seen this, I'm 1054 01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 1: but I've never seen someone handle it like you. And 1055 01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,720 Speaker 1: it really has touched my heart. I mean seriously, you 1056 01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:50,720 Speaker 1: make me laugh. All right, Jay, So hang on, we 1057 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,519 Speaker 1: have more with you. Yeah, we'll bring Jay back. This 1058 01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: is motivational Monday. We'll talk about it when we come 1059 01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:58,519 Speaker 1: back at the top of the hour. Right after this. 1060 01:09:59,240 --> 01:10:05,479 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, We're back with the one and 1061 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:09,040 Speaker 1: only Jay Anthony Brown, who has been still open and 1062 01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,439 Speaker 1: uh about sharing what he's going through with us. He 1063 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: has leukemia. Yes, that is a form of cancer of 1064 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:18,680 Speaker 1: the blood, of the blood and the bone marrow in 1065 01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,559 Speaker 1: the back. And it was I think the busy biggest 1066 01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:24,439 Speaker 1: decision I had to make for me was the fact 1067 01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:26,519 Speaker 1: that I was going to share it with people. Yeah. 1068 01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:28,839 Speaker 1: I was gonna just try to keep it to myself, 1069 01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:31,439 Speaker 1: but then people would see me losing weight and when 1070 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:36,799 Speaker 1: your mustache drop off, something something going on. I started 1071 01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:40,200 Speaker 1: that real private. Jay. Yeah, So it was I thought 1072 01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,800 Speaker 1: maybe sharing it would help other people deal with it, 1073 01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:46,000 Speaker 1: and it has. And when I go to the leukemia 1074 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:49,000 Speaker 1: center where I actually get treatment, it is so Jay, 1075 01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 1: let me ask you this, though, what is a day 1076 01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 1: like like like a chemo day? What is that? What happened? 1077 01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:57,000 Speaker 1: A chemo day is like this. You get up, you 1078 01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:59,400 Speaker 1: go into the room where you're in the room. Before 1079 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 1: you walk in, it is surrounded by a lot of 1080 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,080 Speaker 1: people who are sick. Not only are these people sick, 1081 01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:07,240 Speaker 1: there's sick people who are bringing sick people. So you know, 1082 01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:09,559 Speaker 1: you have family members who are bringing somebody who's sick, 1083 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:11,479 Speaker 1: and then you have to go into your room and 1084 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,240 Speaker 1: get your your chemo. Once you get into that room 1085 01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:17,080 Speaker 1: and you're separated and maybe you have one person, it's 1086 01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:19,360 Speaker 1: it's a whole different feeling. But when you walk into 1087 01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:22,080 Speaker 1: that room, the whole entire room, you just have a 1088 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,880 Speaker 1: feeling that everybody has something. So when I walk in, 1089 01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:28,160 Speaker 1: I make it my thing to speak to everybody as 1090 01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,560 Speaker 1: loud as I can. You know, that's just something I 1091 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,639 Speaker 1: do to speak to people because it's just you could. 1092 01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:37,479 Speaker 1: When you walk into you you can see the like, 1093 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:41,320 Speaker 1: good morning, everybody, how y'all doing? You know, and people uh, 1094 01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,240 Speaker 1: and normally they perk up and they speak back. But 1095 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:47,479 Speaker 1: once you get past the lobby where it's surrounded by 1096 01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:49,920 Speaker 1: people who are sick, and you get into your room, 1097 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,320 Speaker 1: it's a whole different feeling because you know you're gonna 1098 01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: get help. And I got prayer warriors out there. Yeah, 1099 01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 1: I met the whole time read my sister, you know, 1100 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,920 Speaker 1: my my son, and my nephew. I really have to 1101 01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,160 Speaker 1: do a shout out for my nephew who lived with me, 1102 01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 1: who's been very very helpful. I mean not more helpful 1103 01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,360 Speaker 1: than anybody else, but him living with me has been, 1104 01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:10,519 Speaker 1: you know, an inspiration. Tell me to make sure you 1105 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,439 Speaker 1: take your medicine, make sure you get an exercise, make 1106 01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:15,280 Speaker 1: sure you eat right. And this is something I never 1107 01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:18,200 Speaker 1: would think that this boy would have done because that's 1108 01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:21,120 Speaker 1: my sister's oldest but I am his favorite uncle. The 1109 01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:22,880 Speaker 1: other thing about Keima, you can use it to your 1110 01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:27,160 Speaker 1: advantage really, Yeah, Like when you don't want to do something, 1111 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, I got keemo, I got leukemia. I hang 1112 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:39,880 Speaker 1: up for it today, gone going on with all of that, 1113 01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 1: you know how to seal it with dad? Or how 1114 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,320 Speaker 1: many how many hours are you in there? Well, leukemia 1115 01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:50,880 Speaker 1: treatment if you're actually taking leukemia, can be by six 1116 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:54,760 Speaker 1: to seven hours really because they you know, they want 1117 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 1: the drops to going slowly, and then they'll after you 1118 01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: take the leukemia for a week, then you take another 1119 01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:02,640 Speaker 1: four or five weeks cleaning your system out with a 1120 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:05,600 Speaker 1: saline solution. So you do like five weeks of that 1121 01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: and then you start back to chemo. So it's gonna 1122 01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:10,400 Speaker 1: be probably a year to deal with this, you know, 1123 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:12,960 Speaker 1: And I haven't. There's been one day when I was 1124 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,640 Speaker 1: just really really sick. Are you in any pain or anything? No? No, no, no, 1125 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 1: only if I make it up, because we don't see 1126 01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:25,679 Speaker 1: any difference. That's the other thing. People say, you don't 1127 01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:27,760 Speaker 1: look sick. And if you go to the treatment center 1128 01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:29,599 Speaker 1: where a lot of people are getting treated, a lot 1129 01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:32,720 Speaker 1: of these people just look like regular ordinary people. I'm not. 1130 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:39,120 Speaker 1: And cancer don't care. Its young white. It goes across 1131 01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:43,560 Speaker 1: the board. Man. Yeah, but it's your spirit, man, your spirits. 1132 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:48,600 Speaker 1: It's incredible, bro, what you're dealing with, how you're handling it. 1133 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:52,720 Speaker 1: Your spirit tells it all. Jay. If you can tell 1134 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:56,519 Speaker 1: people that are going through this, give them something to 1135 01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: go on today, so they can maybe take a page 1136 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:01,439 Speaker 1: out of your playbook with I just in your spirit. 1137 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:03,759 Speaker 1: I just found out another fan of mine has cancer, 1138 01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,960 Speaker 1: and I called her daily and I told her her 1139 01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 1: attitude towards what she has means a lot. And everybody 1140 01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:13,880 Speaker 1: who has cancer, who've either who've either beaten it or 1141 01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,400 Speaker 1: dealing with it, they will all say the same thing. 1142 01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:19,120 Speaker 1: You can't be. You can say that you can't be 1143 01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 1: no punk towards cancer. You just can't. You gotta fight, 1144 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:26,600 Speaker 1: have to fight it and worry. Wow, alright, most I 1145 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:31,599 Speaker 1: have a smoke on the damn show. We're still praying 1146 01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:35,120 Speaker 1: for you and know just dealing with We know you're 1147 01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:37,519 Speaker 1: gonna be fine. I know you are, and we thank 1148 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:40,280 Speaker 1: God for you and for for sharing that with us, 1149 01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:43,719 Speaker 1: you know, all right, Marvel Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1150 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:46,519 Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after the hour, right after this, 1151 01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:53,759 Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, guys, Time now for the weekend 1152 01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:56,639 Speaker 1: box office report, and I can tell you we're doing 1153 01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:59,040 Speaker 1: the top five movies. I can tell you right now 1154 01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: that Jay and Tony Brown has seen every single one 1155 01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:06,760 Speaker 1: of these, maybe even twice. Yes, I love movies too, 1156 01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:10,599 Speaker 1: but you more than anybody. Yeah, more than anybody. Okay. 1157 01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:13,439 Speaker 1: Coming in at number five, it was John Wick three 1158 01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:16,880 Speaker 1: The Parabellum, very good. I love that. I love that movie. 1159 01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:20,320 Speaker 1: Number four Ma with Octavia s Mom was good. I 1160 01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:22,760 Speaker 1: really did. It was good. It was it was kind 1161 01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:24,640 Speaker 1: of funny and had a lot of funny parts in it, 1162 01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:26,600 Speaker 1: but you know, it was good. I like it was 1163 01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:29,080 Speaker 1: not scary it's kind of scary because she kind of 1164 01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:31,679 Speaker 1: goes over the edge. But you know, white kids learn 1165 01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:33,680 Speaker 1: not to mess with a black woman who say come 1166 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:38,800 Speaker 1: have a party and party like rock star stars. Yeah, 1167 01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:42,519 Speaker 1: white kids learned, all right. Number three Rocket Man Elton 1168 01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:46,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think it's better than. To me, 1169 01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:49,439 Speaker 1: it's better than And I'll tell you why, because we're 1170 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:51,880 Speaker 1: more familiar with Elton john songs than we are with 1171 01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:54,439 Speaker 1: Queen songs. Okay, and that's one of the things that 1172 01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:58,400 Speaker 1: really made that movie. Okay, Aladdin with Will Smith coming 1173 01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:03,680 Speaker 1: in at number two for the two point three millions great. Yeah. 1174 01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:05,960 Speaker 1: You know when it first came out and people were 1175 01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,040 Speaker 1: critical of the fact that he was so big and 1176 01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:11,400 Speaker 1: so blue. Yeah, Will is a triple thread. He can sing, dance, 1177 01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,640 Speaker 1: and act in this movie kind of shows all the 1178 01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:19,280 Speaker 1: Yeah in this movie. Number one movie over the weekend, Godzilla, 1179 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:23,760 Speaker 1: King of the Monster. His mama did a great job 1180 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:27,640 Speaker 1: in this movie. What do you mean he's got zout? 1181 01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:31,000 Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morry Show, This ignorant show. 1182 01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:35,600 Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. Hello, you're listening to 1183 01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:40,479 Speaker 1: show some sad news out of New Orleans. Time. Miss 1184 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:45,040 Speaker 1: Leah Chase New Orleans, matriarch of Creole cuisine who fed 1185 01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:50,040 Speaker 1: civil rights leaders, musicians and presidents. Well, sad to say 1186 01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:52,960 Speaker 1: that she has passed away. Miss Chase, the executive chef 1187 01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:57,280 Speaker 1: and co owner of famous Dukey Chase's Restaurant. This restaurant 1188 01:16:57,360 --> 01:17:00,680 Speaker 1: was a hub for meeting places for organizers of the 1189 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:03,720 Speaker 1: civil rights movement back in the day. Miss Chase was 1190 01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:08,920 Speaker 1: ninety six years old. Ninety six years old. Yeah, condolences 1191 01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:16,719 Speaker 1: from the morning, Yeah, Dukeye Chase Restaurant. Yeah, her legacy, 1192 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,639 Speaker 1: Miss Chase to that city. Inspirational, iconic. You just can't 1193 01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 1: even put into words what Miss Lea Chase meant to 1194 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,200 Speaker 1: the city of New Orleans. This restaurant. She wanted to 1195 01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:29,880 Speaker 1: make sure that when the freedom fighters and when they 1196 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:32,479 Speaker 1: came there, they had a place to eat. And she 1197 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:36,679 Speaker 1: feeds the people involved in a civil rights movement. Just iconic, 1198 01:17:37,240 --> 01:17:40,920 Speaker 1: historic restaurant and Miss Leah Chase was just a legend 1199 01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:44,680 Speaker 1: to the city of New Orleans. And our condolences, just 1200 01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: like you said, Shirley, going out to the Chase family 1201 01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:52,240 Speaker 1: in the city of New Orleans. Yeah. And another entertainment news, 1202 01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 1: this past Saturday night was the third annual Wearable Art Gala. 1203 01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:58,760 Speaker 1: The theme of this year's event was a Journey to 1204 01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:01,559 Speaker 1: the Pride Lands. It was inspired by the upcoming Live 1205 01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:05,960 Speaker 1: Action Disney remake. The event was thrown by Where Art 1206 01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:10,360 Speaker 1: Can Occur Waco. In other words, it's an organization founded 1207 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 1: by Miss Tina Knowles, that's Beyonce's mom and her stepfather, 1208 01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:16,519 Speaker 1: Richard Lawson. The gala was over the top and it 1209 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,400 Speaker 1: was star studded. Beyonce held court in this stunning lion 1210 01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:24,160 Speaker 1: and gold themed outfit she brought. She brought her daughter 1211 01:18:24,240 --> 01:18:28,639 Speaker 1: to Blue Ivy to the event, and other stars included 1212 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,759 Speaker 1: Kelly Williams, of course, Kelly Rowland, Michelle Williams, Tyler Perry 1213 01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:40,000 Speaker 1: uh and of course Stephen Marjorie were there. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, 1214 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,439 Speaker 1: Maxwell performed. I would definitely be their next year. I 1215 01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:45,559 Speaker 1: don't know how I missed that. I love stuff like that. Yeah, 1216 01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:48,479 Speaker 1: funk stuff, right, and you get to where, you know, 1217 01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:52,439 Speaker 1: like really exciting costumes and stuff, you know, over the top, 1218 01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:55,400 Speaker 1: over the top, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah. I'm 1219 01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:59,920 Speaker 1: thinking like Mett Kaylin, what would you wear tom overtime? 1220 01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:03,160 Speaker 1: Oh I'm going to come with that thing that John 1221 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:07,080 Speaker 1: Snowhead on that that that big bad jacket. I'm going 1222 01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:09,639 Speaker 1: to come with that. I don't see that for you, Tommy, 1223 01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:14,160 Speaker 1: I don't see that. I really think I'm Game of Thrones. 1224 01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:18,800 Speaker 1: I see you with it on. Come on, Tammy with 1225 01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:23,240 Speaker 1: the bad claws and everything. Thank you Jay Jay and 1226 01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 1: the zipper up the front. And if you ain't had 1227 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,920 Speaker 1: a bad zipp up, then you ain't really leave man 1228 01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:35,840 Speaker 1: and patch pockets on the on the cold or something 1229 01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:39,000 Speaker 1: in a hood. Yeah yeah, and that's from my dog 1230 01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:45,840 Speaker 1: and really don't do pockets. And coming up, last break 1231 01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:48,680 Speaker 1: of the day, and Steve Harvey left us with some 1232 01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:53,040 Speaker 1: closing remarks at forty nine after the hour. Right after this, 1233 01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:58,000 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are 1234 01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 1: at the final break of the day with us one 1235 01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:04,040 Speaker 1: more thing. Steve's closing remarks, what do you have for us? Say? 1236 01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:07,320 Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Sir? Your wisdom 1237 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:13,439 Speaker 1: drop it? Okay? Today, I thought i'd talked to you 1238 01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,880 Speaker 1: about something with a little bit different angle to it. 1239 01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:22,439 Speaker 1: It's gonna be positive, but I want to talk to 1240 01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:26,760 Speaker 1: you about something that many people consider negative. I want 1241 01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:30,519 Speaker 1: to talk to you today about disappointment. I think that 1242 01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:34,840 Speaker 1: we all have to grapple with disappointment from time to time. 1243 01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:43,080 Speaker 1: The problem with disappointment, disappointment can turn so ugly so fast. 1244 01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:49,679 Speaker 1: Too many people allow disappointment to turn into resentment. Too 1245 01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:58,960 Speaker 1: many people allow disappointment to turn into a final verdict, 1246 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:02,280 Speaker 1: so to speak. In other words, you know, so many 1247 01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:07,760 Speaker 1: people think that this disappointment for them symbolizes the end. 1248 01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:12,479 Speaker 1: When you allow for disappointment to turn into resentment, and 1249 01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:17,960 Speaker 1: you allow disappointment to turn into the final verdict, you're 1250 01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:24,280 Speaker 1: losing what disappointment actually can become for you. And I 1251 01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:27,680 Speaker 1: want you all to start looking at disappointment as motivation. 1252 01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:31,680 Speaker 1: How many times have you been faced with something that 1253 01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:34,760 Speaker 1: was disappointing. Let's say you go in to get a 1254 01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:38,479 Speaker 1: job and you own your last interview. And I have 1255 01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:40,840 Speaker 1: been in this position. Man. I was trying to get 1256 01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:44,040 Speaker 1: an insurance job one time years ago, and I went 1257 01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 1: in and I had gotten gone through about three or 1258 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:50,240 Speaker 1: four interviews. I was at my final interview and I said, man, 1259 01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,679 Speaker 1: I'm about to get this job. Man, get my little 1260 01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:55,120 Speaker 1: family together. I'll be all right. And got to that 1261 01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:59,120 Speaker 1: interview and they told me no. And the reason they 1262 01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,160 Speaker 1: gave me for not behind me was I had moved 1263 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,840 Speaker 1: too many times over the past seven years, and that 1264 01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:11,280 Speaker 1: represented it to their company a sign of unstableness. That 1265 01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:15,880 Speaker 1: disappointment for me was gut wrenching. I actually got in 1266 01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:19,200 Speaker 1: my car, my little seventy two Chevy, and I was 1267 01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:23,760 Speaker 1: driving off Man and tears was in my eyes when 1268 01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:25,760 Speaker 1: I got up on the freeway and I drove back 1269 01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:27,920 Speaker 1: and I looked back over at that big building with 1270 01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:30,840 Speaker 1: that big powerful name on it, and I had gone 1271 01:22:30,880 --> 01:22:33,719 Speaker 1: through four interviews and I and all of a sudden, 1272 01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:37,240 Speaker 1: I was so disappointed in not getting hired. But you 1273 01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:39,800 Speaker 1: know what I learned to do though, From that moment on, 1274 01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:45,439 Speaker 1: I turned all my disappointment into motivation. I said, Okay, 1275 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:49,880 Speaker 1: now this might not be right for everybody, but I 1276 01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:54,400 Speaker 1: use it as a challenge. I use all my disappointments 1277 01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: as okay, I'll show you. I use them all this motivation. 1278 01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:02,040 Speaker 1: From the time teacher told me that you ain't gonna 1279 01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:05,639 Speaker 1: never be nothing, that there's no way they'll put somebody 1280 01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:08,920 Speaker 1: like you on TV because you have a stuttering problem 1281 01:23:09,120 --> 01:23:14,240 Speaker 1: and you can't even talk, I said, okay, but who 1282 01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:18,760 Speaker 1: are you who is issuing out this disappointment because you're 1283 01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,479 Speaker 1: not gonna make me resent you, and you're not gonna 1284 01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:25,680 Speaker 1: cause me to think that you're denying me this opportunity. 1285 01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:30,320 Speaker 1: Are you handing me this bad news of disappointment. I'm 1286 01:23:30,400 --> 01:23:33,880 Speaker 1: not going to allow you to be my final verdict. 1287 01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:39,519 Speaker 1: You will not be the truth teller in my life. 1288 01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:43,960 Speaker 1: You are not going to be the person who is 1289 01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,240 Speaker 1: the author of my destiny. You are not it that 1290 01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:51,040 Speaker 1: belongs to God, not you, and I will not give 1291 01:23:51,160 --> 01:23:55,680 Speaker 1: that to anyone. So when you're facing disappointment, do not 1292 01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:59,120 Speaker 1: hand that disappointment over to the person who gave it 1293 01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:02,919 Speaker 1: to you in the form of empowerment. Do not allow 1294 01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:08,519 Speaker 1: them to control your destiny with this one piece of 1295 01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:12,600 Speaker 1: disappointment that causes you to go into such resentment that 1296 01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:15,840 Speaker 1: you become bitter that all of a sudden, now all 1297 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 1: you think about is that, and you be getting you 1298 01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:21,320 Speaker 1: developed this nasty attitude. You don't have to do that, 1299 01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:23,880 Speaker 1: and you also don't have to let them become the 1300 01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:27,120 Speaker 1: final verdict. They are not the author of your destiny. 1301 01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:31,320 Speaker 1: They are not the author of your future. They are 1302 01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:36,680 Speaker 1: not that belongs to God and only God. Don't let 1303 01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:39,439 Speaker 1: them trip you up. And I'm saying this because I've 1304 01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:43,240 Speaker 1: had many, many, many disappointments. You ain't this. You ain't that. 1305 01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:48,400 Speaker 1: I've had shows canceled, gigs taken, I've been fired from radio, 1306 01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:52,360 Speaker 1: I've been all of at all. I've had some disappointing setbacks. 1307 01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:54,880 Speaker 1: But let me tell you something I've learned to do. 1308 01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:59,040 Speaker 1: I've learned to take all those setbacks and use them 1309 01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 1: as motivation. And I just quietly say to myself, you 1310 01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:07,479 Speaker 1: ain't my God. You ain't the author of my destiny. 1311 01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:12,640 Speaker 1: You didn't create me, You don't know me, You have 1312 01:25:13,160 --> 01:25:16,800 Speaker 1: no say so in the real outcome of who I'm 1313 01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:20,120 Speaker 1: going to be and what I'm going to turn myself into. 1314 01:25:20,800 --> 01:25:23,519 Speaker 1: You who think you have the power by telling me no, 1315 01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:28,000 Speaker 1: by refusing me, by voting against me, by saying that 1316 01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:30,679 Speaker 1: I'm not the right one for the part, by telling 1317 01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:34,840 Speaker 1: me that I represent an unstable person, by telling me 1318 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,960 Speaker 1: that I don't have what it takes. No, no, no, no, 1319 01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:42,720 Speaker 1: no no. It's just because you don't know, because you 1320 01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:46,360 Speaker 1: don't know what God really has for me, And that 1321 01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:50,240 Speaker 1: ain't your fault. So why bear resentment for these people 1322 01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,439 Speaker 1: who are causing this disappointment in your life? You don't 1323 01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:58,240 Speaker 1: have to do that because they are not the author 1324 01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:01,400 Speaker 1: of your destiny, and don't you Dad give them that. 1325 01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 1: You take that disappointment and you use it as the motivation. 1326 01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:08,920 Speaker 1: I feel sorry for people who tell me no, because 1327 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:10,960 Speaker 1: you know what, I know. I know they just don't 1328 01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:14,280 Speaker 1: know what God has for me. And I end up 1329 01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:18,360 Speaker 1: somehow through God's grace and mercy showing them all. Keep 1330 01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,200 Speaker 1: it right attitude, y'all. God got something for you through 1331 01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:25,000 Speaker 1: all your disappointment. Y'all have them for all. Steve Every 1332 01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:28,560 Speaker 1: contests no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be 1333 01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:32,519 Speaker 1: legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 1334 01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:36,080 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 1335 01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:39,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.