1 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: Alaska. Welcome to Friday Show Morning studio. Here we go 2 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: with our first fifteen seconds. He's our video producer. It's 3 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: produced one to day guys. I don't know if it's 4 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: called back getting your car broken into if you leave 5 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: your car unlocked, But that's what happened to my wife. 6 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: She went shopping, she left her car unlocks, she gets 7 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: back in and it's like just trash. Somebody had been 8 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: checking car doors in the parking lot, went through the car, 9 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: looked through the glove box and everything, didn't find anything. 10 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: But just my wife's like, oh my gosh, my car 11 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: got broken into. But I'm like, no, you unlocked your car. 12 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: It didn't get broken into. Semantic semantics, right. But but 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: I've heard this, I've heard cops for years just say like, hey, 14 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: don't leave valuables exposed, sitting on the seat or whatever, 15 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: and then lock your doors and your car has a 16 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: better chance of not getting broken into. So are you 17 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: saying then that if you leave it unlocked, everything's free 18 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: as a buffet. I mean the video surveillance video of 19 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: the parking lot, where like people just going car to 20 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: car to car and not break crazy, not breaking windows, 21 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: just checking handles, so broken into probably if you were 22 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: challenged on it, maybe because nothing was broken to get 23 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: into it. So we still understand somebody illegally got into 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: the car. They shouldn't have been in there. That stinks, though, 25 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: I don't like I don't like that. Oh it's it's 26 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: a terrible feeling. But really I think the lesson here 27 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: is just lock your cars, because that's really what they're doing. 28 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: But also she didn't put any valuable in there. She 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: had just cleaned her car out like two days. When 30 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 1: you're sure they did. Still think from the glove boxer 31 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: could have had her your identity stuff on it. No, 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,559 Speaker 1: there's definitely that, and I called LifeLock to make sure. 33 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: But no, as far as things that we knew they 34 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: were in there, no, nothing got stolen. Usually deal anyway, 35 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: good luck, Okay, anyway, I'd be worried about it, as 36 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: we talked about yesterday. Been a part of the show 37 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: longer than anybody, well except for me, but here nineteen 38 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: years in. My favorite thing was he goes, I don't know, 39 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: two thousand and three, I don't know how many. I 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: don't know. Is that nineteen twenty but it's twenty twenty two. 41 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: But you didn't go twenty two to I just didn't 42 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: remember if it was two thousand and two, but then 43 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: I remember it was two thousand and three. It was 44 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: just my my years were confused. Anyway, here years then 45 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: and nineteen years ago. I would have never thought I 46 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: was gonna ever get married, But I found a woman 47 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: and I married her. And I'm gonna tell you why 48 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: I loved my wife was nice romance. Yeah, she's celebrating 49 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: her birthday yesterday, and leading up to her birthday, I said, 50 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: you know, what do you want for your birthday? She's like, 51 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: you don't have to get me a present. That's why 52 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: I loved my life. Wife keeps life simple and easy, 53 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: puts no pressure on me. So I didn't have to 54 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: get her a gift. It was don't have to she said, 55 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: but what you are would you really do? No? No No, 56 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: I didn't get her anything. She said, oh, you don't 57 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 1: have to give me a present. How'd that go? Cool? 58 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: It went great? So she meant it. That's weird. I mean, yeah, 59 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: I think she's probably secretly disappointed. Then, yeah, because she 60 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: didn't have to. But in Austin, if you would have, 61 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: but when she says, hey, oh, don't worry about it. 62 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: It's great. May she say, don't worry about it, or 63 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: you don't have to get me a gift. Well, that's 64 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: just different things. We had a cake and we saying 65 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: happy birthday, and that was it perfect. That is why 66 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: I love my wife. I mean, yeah, I guess he 67 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: likes that she's low maintenance. I still think she wanted 68 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 1: to gift. Yeah, but what about his birthday? I do too, 69 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: Like is he expecting a gift from her? Course? Yeah, 70 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: I always expect the present. It's my present. Yeah, yeah, 71 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: so he's to Lunchox's pot LUNCHALKX. Would never say to her, 72 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: you don't have to get me. Yeah, I can't wait 73 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: to see what you're getting me from my birthday. That's 74 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: what I would tell her. All Right, I think, what's 75 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: seventeen years in we've been together seventeen years. Here's Amy everybody, Okay, 76 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: so we've I told y'all Mike d got an early 77 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: screening on my movie, and I don't know when he's 78 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: gonna watch it. But I am very nervous about it, 79 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: Like I thought about it all last night when I 80 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: was sleeping. Yeah, I'm a little mortified for everyone to 81 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: see it. But especially my d because he critiques movies. 82 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: So on the show, probably Monday Movie Mike, we'll review 83 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: Amy's movie, Oh Boy, Holiday Harmony. I mean, the movie 84 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: is gonna be great, I have no doubt about that, 85 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: but I'm nervous about that. Well. I mean, I feel 86 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: like the people that are behind it, I'm I know 87 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: they're super proud of their work. I think it's really cool. 88 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm just nervous about him critiquing my scene. But there 89 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: are Tom Hanks movies the occasionally come out that are bad, 90 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: oh yeah, for sure, and people that have had great 91 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: track records to doing movies. Yeah. So I don't think 92 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: anything's free and clear. Hey, movie Mike Monday's show, all 93 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: we ask of you is be honest, as if Amy 94 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with it. Ben, I will say 95 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 1: one thing. Christmas movies my least favorite genre. He's setting 96 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: you up though, because he's gonna be like the surprise, 97 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 1: pull the carton off a plus. Okay, well, Christmas reason 98 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: are my favorite. You know, when I was watching Laney 99 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: on Yellowstone, I didn't feel awkward even though I knew her. 100 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,239 Speaker 1: I think because it's you gotta be really good, because 101 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: you're just like I know her really well, it's oh no, 102 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: it's gonna be awkward. You're gonna have to be such 103 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: a good actress that it's got to remove the awkward. 104 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: I zero acting lessons at all, whatsoever in my entire life. 105 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: Don't make excuses name. Yeah, hey, let's just go for it. Yeah, 106 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: she lady's taking acting now, he's a coach. No, I'm 107 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: sure for those things I heard, she did nothing. I 108 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: heard she d know she was acting. They just wow, 109 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 1: blindfolded her, dropped off and said, okay, say stuff amazing. 110 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: Okay right now, No, I'm not. We just haven't. No, 111 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,559 Speaker 1: I'm actually like really pumped for her, and I'm pumped 112 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: for myself because I am using the same coach that 113 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: she has. Well, so we'll see what happens. We might 114 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: be honest. Okay is it that to me now? Yea, yeah, 115 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: go ahead. Ray from Mountain Pine, Arkansas. He built her 116 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: career on a microphone. As a result, commuters are never alone, 117 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: Bobby bum, thank you very much. Good. I want to 118 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: I want to actually take take the mirror here and 119 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: hold it up to Ray for a second, because I 120 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: don't know if you guys heard. We'll say this first, 121 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: I have a relationship with Draft Kings. They're a big client. 122 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: I use them a lot. I love sports. We do 123 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: a podcast called twenty five Whistles, and I think if 124 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: you can responsibly bet, that's amazing. 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He's not always kind to 169 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: her and sometimes makes fun of her. She doesn't want 170 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: him to come. I'm hoping that his mom and dad 171 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: don't our SVP. But if they do, can I tell 172 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: them what's happening and that we don't want them to come. 173 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: Thanks for your help, Sign mom baffled by the bully. 174 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: That's interesting that you would if they I would just 175 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: think it would either be you don't you don't invite them, 176 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: or you do invite them, you don't invite them, and 177 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: then go don't come. That's weird. But her hands are 178 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: tied because the school requires that. That's a weird thing 179 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: for a school to require something at home. I agree, 180 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: and I know why. I get it. Yes, but it's 181 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: a weird thing for the school to require something that 182 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: you're doing that's not at school, especially, you know, I 183 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: think this is maybe a good time to explain to 184 00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: her why kids bully, and you could even teach her 185 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: sympathy for the bully, which may not last if he 186 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: still has a jerk after you exhibit the first bit 187 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: of kindness towards them. But you'd be like, look, this 188 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: is why he's probably mean, do you. It can be 189 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: tough at home. He might like you, boys are stupid 190 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: and they do. They react that way and these for 191 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: those reasons. You know, I think you probably invite them 192 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: and if they say yes, he comes and you work 193 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 1: with her on how to handle the situation. I think 194 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: that's probably the best learning example there. It is not comfortable, 195 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: won't be comfortable for her, but it could actually fix 196 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: the problem too. Let's say the kick comes over and 197 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: has a great time. Let's say he gets all the 198 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: snacks and has cake. He probably won't come. Now, I'll 199 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 1: be honest with you, Yeah he probably won't come, But 200 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 1: if he does, I think you it's uncomfortable. But sometimes 201 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: in life it's uncomfortable. And I know that's one in 202 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: our first grade lesson, but it could start there. Anyway 203 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: you think about this, man, I mean, it's definitely a 204 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: good learning moment, like you said, but I'm leaning towards 205 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: contacting the school and saying, hey, we're not going to 206 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: invite everyone because there is a bullying problem, and I 207 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: think the school can finally, Oh, I didn't know there 208 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: was a bullying problem. Let's see if we can handle 209 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: this too and put it on the school because the 210 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: bullying is happening at school, right. Yeah, but can I 211 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: say that if you don't invite this kid, he's the 212 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: only one not invited, and everybody comes back and was invited, 213 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: you think the bullying was bad, then it's gonna be worse. Yeah. 214 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: As someone who got to crap beat out of them 215 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 1: a lot. Anytime I did stuff with anybody else and 216 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: the bully wasn't there, I felt it doubley when the 217 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: bully was there. So I understand what you're saying, and 218 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: I for sure sign off on that understanding. But you're 219 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: gonna make them the one. Okay, wait till you get back, 220 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: because you're about to be the one real big Yeah, 221 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: that's not good and you don't want that for your child, 222 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: So that is a scenario I will lean back towards yours. Then. No, 223 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you what it was like for me, 224 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: and think about that. Yeah, I've had to had this 225 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: conversation with my son before of like some kids that 226 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 1: were mean to him, and when I talk to him 227 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: about possibly why they were bullying him, he did open 228 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: up and he did start to have some compassion for them. 229 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: And so I think Bobby's method of having this conversation 230 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: with your daughter. It's a bummer that it is a 231 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: birthday and she might have to put up with it, 232 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: but the odds are he, like Bobby said, he's probably 233 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: not going to come. But when we're honest with our 234 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: kids about what's happening, I think we get more out 235 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: of it. It's probably gonna be nicer to you if 236 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: he's at your house and eating your cake. Yeah that's true. Honestly, 237 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: he's probably gonna be nice and it may fix it. 238 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: But here's a situation. If he still mean when you 239 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: go back to school after this, then the whole compassionate 240 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: thing is kind of out the door, because you can't 241 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: keep hugging on somebody who's stabbing you because it hurts. 242 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: So you do it once, maybe one and a half times, 243 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: and then the lesson is some people in life you 244 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 1: just get away from and you gotta get to that point. 245 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you have to deal with this. But I 246 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: think it's a good time to start the conversation. If 247 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 1: I had the bully over, give a big, extra big 248 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: piece of cake, show him love. He probably isn't getting it, 249 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: and that's why he's bullying. Good luck. And I know 250 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 1: that this email is about a first grader, but I 251 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of adults hearing this, could you know, 252 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: benefit believe in this room every day relationship. We still 253 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 1: invite Lunchbox to our birthday already. Yeah, hurt people, hurt people. 254 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: Lunch Box is probably hurting at times. Yeah, and that's okay. 255 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: That's okay, buddy, No, not hurting. It's let's go skin 256 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: to skin. I'll give you a hug. No, I don't 257 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: need a hug. Okay, skink skin. I'm good. We've got 258 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: your That was about the clothes by time. Now for 259 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: fun fact Friday. Fun Fact Friday. These are the most 260 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: random but the most fun facts we could find. We 261 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: just searched the internet for the most fun things to 262 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: talk about. We have five of them. Amy, your first, Well, 263 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: this is fun, but it's also going to keep you safe. 264 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 1: A car that is going five miles under the speed 265 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: limit on the highway is more likely to cause an 266 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: accident that someone that's going five miles over the speed limit. 267 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: Did they say why anything? It's because, yeah, maybe when 268 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: you're going faster you go with the flow and like 269 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: it's easier getting out when you slow things down. I 270 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: don't know, but I kind of said this one for you. 271 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: Because you drive slow, I would think people would hit 272 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: you more than if you're driving slow, you would hit 273 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: them right. I would think you're clogging the road about 274 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: me saying I think that I do that. I think 275 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: you're right. Once Eddie drove up on me and was like, 276 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: who is this guy clogging the road? It was just 277 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: slowing traffic now, And sure enough it was Bobby, there's 278 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: a fifty five near work. This should be a seventy five. 279 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: Everyone was going about sixty sixty five. But I understand 280 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: why you're slowing down and you got popped one time. 281 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: You're talking to mister no ticket. I got a ticket there, yea. 282 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: And the speed lim it's fifty five and there's no 283 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: reason it shouldn't be seventy. But that was like, it 284 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: was funny because I was like maybe a year before, 285 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: so a year later you were still abiding by the 286 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 1: rules and going fifty five. That's amazing there are I 287 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: would say, if I looked at the pie, ninety percent 288 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: of that pie is me being a rule follower and 289 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 1: someone who is doing the right thing because it's the 290 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: right thing to do. And there's ten percent of me 291 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: who djaf And it's just like I'll break every rule 292 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: possible in my career. That's been what it is like. 293 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: I will push and kick walls down, but like life, 294 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: I ain't turning the jailer. Pay money. Yeah, I don't 295 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: want to be fine, that's wasted money. I can buy 296 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: shoes with that. You know what I mean? I know 297 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: what you mean. All right, it's got a lunchbox. Lunchbox? 298 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 1: What do you have? Koalas? You know those little koala bears. 299 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 1: They are so cute and everyone wants to cuddle with them. 300 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: Will be careful. A koala cuddle could give you chlamydia. 301 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: Half of the koala population has a strand of klamydia, 302 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: and if you're holding them and they pee on you, 303 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: you can be infected. I can for sure see some 304 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: of our dude listeners finding making a trick purposefully to 305 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: a koala and be like, oh you got pet on them? 306 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: Oh I can't believe it. Ye see what happened was 307 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: to see the koala gave me. Oh my god. They 308 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: search it out just so they have that excuse. Here's mine. 309 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: The Mall of America in Minnesota does not have a 310 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: central heating system. Which, by the way, it's the biggest 311 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: mall in the world. I've been there. It's amazing. It's huge, 312 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: and it's it's not hot heated. It does not have 313 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: a central heating system. A combination of skylights, all the 314 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: regular lights, and people's body heat keep it so warm 315 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: that they don't have to run any sort of heat 316 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: in the winter. Crazy to think our body and I bet, well, 317 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 1: you know you you're warmer if you're naked. So I'm saying, 318 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: if you're ever trapped somewhere where it's cold and you 319 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: have body to body or two people, you should be 320 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: skin to skin to survive. It's like sixty nine your 321 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: bedroom or seventy's better. I heard, yeah, yeah, yeah. Do 322 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: you know if you're ever like in a snowstorm and 323 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: you get trapped, if you kill the horse and cut 324 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: the insides out and get inside the horse and over 325 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: your body, that's the way to stay warm. Really, you 326 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: gotta gut. It gonna take a while. You might freeze then, 327 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: but then you can get inside of it. It's warm, 328 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: all right. Let's go over to Morgan. The average person 329 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: spends just two weeks of their life sitting at traffic lights. 330 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: Just two weeks, just two weeks more. There's an impression 331 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: you made every traffic light. And I'm at the light right, 332 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: I'm on the car in the front of the line. 333 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: Here's an ipressure of me. Huh oh, I should go oh, 334 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: they're honking you. Yeah. Oh. Because it's the only time 335 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: I look at my phone when I'm sitting in traps safe, 336 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: I will not. I won't occasionally glance up maps if 337 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm in a map. But that's why a bad thing? 338 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: Why does the worst? If have a map, I will 339 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: be looking at it sometimes, but I don't text on 340 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: it while I drive, but I will if I'm sitting 341 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: in a light. Totally go full tweet, Eddie. Guys, Superman 342 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: didn't always fly, so the very original Superman, he was 343 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: just a leaper. He would jump from building to building building. 344 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: But then in the nineteen forties the animators were like, guys, 345 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: it's just hard to draw the bend knees like you know, 346 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: so like his legs are at an angle, so let's 347 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: just make him straight and he'll fly. And so ever 348 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: since then he flies. It's pretty lame. Superhero is that crazy? 349 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: He just leaped from building the building. But they were like, 350 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: this is just too much work. Let's just make him fly. 351 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: That's pretty cool. See you look at all these fun facts. 352 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: You could take away your work or over the weekend. 353 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: That's why it's fun Fact Friday, Thank You fund. It's 354 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: time for the good news. Good So when you're battling cancer, 355 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: it's kind of becomes your job for you and your family, 356 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: and it can be really taxing. So having a place 357 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 1: to get away and go, especially for free, would be 358 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: pretty awesome, right, Well, a lot of patients are getting 359 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: to do that thanks to this one woman's nonprofit called 360 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: Little Pink Houses of Hope. Her name is Janine Patton Cobble, 361 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 1: and she's in remission for breast cancer herself, so she 362 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: knows what it's like to battle cancer and what she 363 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: does is around the country she convinces homeowners and property 364 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: managers to donate their homes for a week long stay 365 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:29,880 Speaker 1: for patients, Like She'll go to them and say, hey, 366 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 1: can you take this one week out of the year 367 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: and donate it to this patient that would like to 368 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: get away with their family. And that's how she's able 369 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:37,160 Speaker 1: to pull it off and do it and they get 370 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 1: a free stay. So I just thought that was a 371 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 1: really genius thing that she came up with. Yeesh, changed 372 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: a lot of lives doing that. That's a great story. Yeah, 373 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: that is what it's all about. That was tell me 374 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: something good. Friday morning conversation with Brookshields brood morning. How 375 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: are you? Oh good? How are you? I'm doing pretty good. 376 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: I was listening to your podcast. Man, you guys go 377 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: right at it. I mean, it's like it's like real 378 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: deal stuff. It's a you go right to the point. 379 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 1: It's very vulnerable, but it's also like super authentic. What 380 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: you're so famous? Did you have some some urge to 381 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: just put it all out there? Finally? You know? It's 382 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: it's funny. I just when you've been around this long, 383 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: you sort of find that there are only certain areas 384 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: in which you really get to be authentically yourself and heard, 385 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:25,719 Speaker 1: and that's in writing a book or doing something that 386 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: is relatively life like like a podcast. I never really 387 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: set out to do a podcast, but now what came 388 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: to my mind one day and I said, you know, 389 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: everybody that you think you know, or that you have 390 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 1: an expectation about or a preconception, they've all had these 391 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: now well at moments, and I thought, I think people 392 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 1: know that I'm not going to try to catch them 393 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: in something, but I'm vulnerable enough so that they feel safe, 394 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, it's it's an odd thing. I'm 395 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: having so much fun with it. I'm getting better at it. 396 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 1: I was a little I was a little not very 397 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: journalistic in the beginning. I basically, having been on the 398 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 1: other side for so many decades, I would find myself 399 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: giving them permission not to answer any of the questions. 400 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: And then I got better at it. Have you found 401 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: yourself sharing a story and then going oh, man, was 402 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: that did I just share too much? Like havn't actually question? 403 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: And then you allowed it to exist? But then you 404 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: were happy you did. Well. What would be an example 405 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: of that where you were like, oh, I'm really putting 406 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 1: it out there. I think, you know, really just airing 407 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: insecurities in a way that is not polished. You know, 408 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 1: I will say a book you can sort of you. 409 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 1: You can work with words and you can sort of 410 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 1: get what you want out, but but you're still sort 411 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 1: of hiding behind a book. And I think just admitting 412 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 1: to being scared at times and really insecure and and 413 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: you know, falling into the traps that other women over forty. 414 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: I'm fifty seven, but sel and you know, as you're 415 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 1: saying it, you think, oh God, am I going to 416 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: sound like I'm whining or poor me? And and then 417 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: you listen to it and you're thinking, no, it's just 418 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: I'm I am a woman like many other women, and 419 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: we all go through things. So that's scary at first, 420 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: but then when you hear it, you think, I've been 421 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: really honest. How are you getting I know the answer 422 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: probably because you're just cool and have a lot of 423 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: cool friends. But are you get a lot of a 424 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: A plus less guests? Do you have to lure them in, like, 425 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: come on, guys, trust me, it's a lot of fun. 426 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 1: Or are they just pretty willing to hop in as well? 427 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 1: I think they're pretty willing to hop in. I mean 428 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: a lot of it is, you know, around they don't 429 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: want to do it unless they're promoting something, which I 430 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: totally understand, or if it's too close around a certain 431 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 1: incident that is so fraught in people's minds, you know, 432 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 1: they're a bit hesitant. And but nobody has said anything 433 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 1: is off limits. And there have been people that have 434 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: been that are very clear in how they want to 435 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 1: answer the question before the question even gets asked. And 436 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: there are some that are, you know, just very skilled 437 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: at not answering the question. And even those people have 438 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: at the end said, wow, you kind of got that 439 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: out of me. But it didn't feel mean, or it 440 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 1: didn't feel like an I got you a moment, or 441 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: it didn't feel like it pulled out headline that that's 442 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: what's gonna that's the sound bite that we're gonna just 443 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: base the whole interview on. I did see a clip that, 444 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 1: again was a sound bite, because again, you do you 445 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,919 Speaker 1: talk about so much. But I saw there was one 446 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 1: where you were talking about actors that you had dated, 447 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: and it kind of became a big story. Do you 448 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: know sometimes when you're telling these stories that it's probably 449 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: going to be picked up? Yeah? Oh yeah. I mean 450 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: I joke with my publicist because I'll say, I'll say 451 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: under my breath, I'll say SoundBite or you know, that's 452 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:50,199 Speaker 1: the headline, and it becomes just a game because it 453 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: seems so reductive and typical, and you know what I mean, 454 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: it's like everybody's desperate for the for the sound bite 455 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,959 Speaker 1: and the one line. You know, this has started since 456 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: I was a virgin, and that became everybody's main focus, 457 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: which is ridiculous on many levels. So I've been dealing 458 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: with this for a few decades. Now, do you feel 459 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: like you had at all a normal childhood? You know, 460 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 1: I've been asked that question forever, and I don't know 461 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: what normal is Conventional. No, when other kids were playing 462 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: soccer or whatever the sports were, I was going to 463 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: photo studios at Avadans and Scolulo, and you know, doing 464 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 1: I was earning a living, so it's not conventional. But 465 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: my mom never let me leave go to professional children's school, 466 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,959 Speaker 1: and I never lived in Los Angeles until until I 467 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: was doing a television show, and so there was this 468 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: work life and then real life, and real life was 469 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 1: with my mom and then with my dad in separate 470 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 1: families and regular school. So for you know, until I 471 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 1: was twenty in my twenties, well twenty one, I was 472 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: in a regular school schedule, and that was about as 473 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: normal and as normally pressured as it can be. My 474 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: vacations were not conventional, and my extracurricular activities were not, 475 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: but my mom always made the production send a girlfriend 476 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: with me or send my sister with me, and so 477 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 1: I always had this sort of grounding of a twelve 478 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 1: year old, a thirteen year old, a fifteen year old. 479 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: I wasn't always surrounded by adults, so the two of 480 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: us could sort of get together and giggle about how 481 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 1: crazy we thought adults were. So to me, I think, 482 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 1: I think it's actually pretty normal, almost more normal than 483 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: some of my normal friends. Do you what I find 484 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: super impressive about you is that you at Princeton? I mean, 485 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: do you find people are often shocked at that fact? 486 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,919 Speaker 1: Always they were shocked the day I got in, and 487 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: then the whole kind of campaign started with why did 488 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 1: she get in? Did she just get in because she 489 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: was famous? And then when I get to school, all 490 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: the teachers wanted to make sure that they weren't giving 491 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: me any extra ten, so they graded me harder and 492 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: they were, you know, less, they just because they had 493 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: something to prove as well. And then over time, just 494 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 1: my work ethic was so intact. What was strange was 495 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: coming out of college my freshman term, first term, freshman year, 496 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 1: and having a press conference because they thought, you know, 497 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: if you do a press conference about what it's like, 498 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 1: what your you know, your real life is like, they'll 499 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: leave you alone. And the press were shocked by a 500 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: level of maturity that they hadn't seen in me prior. Yeah, 501 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,479 Speaker 1: I wasn't looking to anybody for my answers anymore. I wasn't. 502 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't worrying that an answer wasn't going to be okay. 503 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: And I was using bigger words, you know, because here 504 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: I am at Princeton thinking I better use bigger words. 505 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,239 Speaker 1: And I don't think they liked it. They didn't like 506 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: non malleable Brook. Suddenly Susan was a show I'll watched 507 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: all the time, loved it, And a lot of these 508 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: shows are coming back reboot form. Have they come to 509 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: you and said, let's do Suddenly Susan again? If they did, 510 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: I'd probably say yes without even them getting the question out. 511 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: But I don't think that we were ever. First of all, 512 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 1: they canceled us at ninety eight, so we never Yeah, 513 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: it was all a nice little plan that they had intact, 514 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: which I didn't know about, which I will say I've 515 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 1: got a little bitterness or maybe a lot of bitterness 516 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 1: about that, but not from a syndication financial standpoint, just 517 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: from you know, how wonderful it was to do that show. 518 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: I mean, we just were so happy, and then tragedy 519 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: befell the show and we lost one of our cast 520 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: members and it kind of was never the same again. 521 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: And I think I I think Warner Brothers or NBC 522 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 1: would probably argue we were never a big enough hit 523 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: to merit a reboot. Now shows get picked up for 524 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: eight or nine. We never had a season that was 525 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 1: fewer than twenty three, twenty two, twenty six, you know, 526 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: so it in these days that would be a huge hit. 527 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: And then back then, you know, we didn't get two hundreds, 528 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: so they sort of checked us off. I can't believe 529 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: they got it to ninety eight purposeful. Yeah, well then 530 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: that's almost mean. I mean, that's mean. Well, I think 531 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: it's a financial thing. I mean, all these things end 532 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: up being financial. You know, we think they're personal because 533 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: we're living in it day in and day out, and 534 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 1: we're performing in front of a live audience and we're 535 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: having to think on our feed and we're getting new 536 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: scripts every day, so we're so in it, and and 537 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: then you realize, oh, it's just a money game. After 538 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: a certain number, this entity doesn't pay for a production anymore. 539 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: It switches over to this entity and they may or 540 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: may not want to do that. So it's the same 541 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: thing would happened suddenly Lipstick Jungle. We were number one 542 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: for a while and then TiVo came into existence, and 543 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: practically overnight all of our advertisers pulled out because people 544 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,640 Speaker 1: were fast boarding through the commercials. So it didn't even 545 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: matter how much people loved us watching us, they wanted 546 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: to fast forward through the commercials, and there for all 547 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: that money practically overnight gets now you know, now they've 548 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: found ways around it. But we were right at the 549 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 1: on the sort of precipice of TiVos, so that was 550 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: sort of you know, that happened too. So these things 551 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: you'd think they're mean only because they feel personal. And 552 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,399 Speaker 1: the older I get, the less personal I realize it 553 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: all is right. Now we're talking to actress Brookshield, Hey, 554 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: how good are you at memorizing scripts? So I have 555 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: about twelve pages to do tomorrow for this project that 556 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm doing and I have not started to memorize it. 557 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 1: But you can. You can do do all twelve of 558 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: a night. Yeah, I can. I have this. It's some 559 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: a you have to put yourself in a position where 560 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 1: you can still listen, and that's the that's the trick, 561 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: so that you're not just reciting words. But I memorize 562 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: things based on where they are on the page. So 563 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: when I think about where a page as I haven't highlighted, 564 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm such a geek boat. I mean, I highlight and 565 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: I note and I make red notes. And my husband says, 566 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: you're such a dork, But um, yeah, I don't. I'm 567 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 1: I'm trained to have to think quickly. You know a 568 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: lot of the time when you do these commercials, before 569 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: they had teleprompters and before they had in back in 570 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 1: my day, you know, or in the day. I still 571 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: feel like it's my day, but you didn't have teleprompters. 572 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: You had to memorize everything. And so I think I 573 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: just got trained. Brookshields is on with us and I 574 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: encourage you guys to check out our podcast Now what 575 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: with Brookshields. It is a very authentic, very vulnerable. It's 576 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: an original podcast that examines pivotal moments and people's lives. Again, 577 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: it's very honest. It's a great podcast. And then also 578 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: coming from you, that's a that's a big deal. I mean, 579 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: this is I'm coming into a world I've I've never 580 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: been in, and um, then it's been very well received, 581 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: and I thank you. And I didn't think people would 582 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 1: really want to hear me anymore in my life and 583 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: people do se do want to be interested in hearing 584 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: my guests. Well, I hope people check it out. And 585 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 1: then there's also Holiday Harmony coming out on HBO Acts 586 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: and so when that when a movie like that comes 587 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: to you, and we have a special interest here with 588 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: that movie because if you put the camera on Amy 589 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: for one second, Amy has like four line five lines 590 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: are still on the movie. Yes she does, and you 591 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: see her in the trailer. I mean, for he looked 592 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: so beautiful in the trailer about you. I didn't get 593 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 1: to meet you, Oh, I know. I was there the 594 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: last day of filming, so you've already done with your scenes, 595 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 1: and I was definitely excited to possibly see you. So 596 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: to see you now fun. So I was I was 597 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: way up with the alpaca farmers and up in Northern 598 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: cal they bring me to Hollywood. How does like a 599 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: Christmas movie? Because it's been Amy's dream forever to do 600 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: like a holiday movie, and now they're super cool again, 601 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: and how does a Christmas movie come to you? Do 602 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: you go, I'd like to do a holiday movie because 603 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: they are so cool now, or do they go Brook 604 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: we got this perfect idea. It's a really good movie 605 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: for the holidays. For a while, holiday movies were sort 606 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: of taboo, you know they were they were sort of, Oh, 607 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: you're doing a Hollywood movie. That means like it's not 608 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you're doing a Christmas movie or a holiday movie. 609 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: That means that you're not doing real edgy stuff. Well, 610 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,959 Speaker 1: for sure, all I've never really been a g in 611 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 1: that way. They come to me and I'm prepared to 612 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: not like them because they're pretty formulaic. And then every 613 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: now and then one will come up, or two now 614 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: and to twisted my second one, but that will touch 615 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: a chord and be an escape. And I think that 616 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,959 Speaker 1: that's what that's what I love about them, is if 617 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 1: the especially if they're directed well, and if they have 618 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: enough of a story that does deviate from just the 619 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: regular holiday Christmas formula movie, and I mean I read 620 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 1: a lot of them, and I don't say yes to 621 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 1: most of them. I did one last year for Netflix, 622 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: which was extraordinarily popular and it was so much fun 623 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: to do, and it was called Castle for Christmas. And 624 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 1: these movies come out again. It's funny because then they 625 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: bring them back out again for the next holiday and 626 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 1: they're sort of like, oh, I just think for me 627 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 1: rom coms. Holiday movies they're based in joy. You sort 628 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: of know how they're going to turn out, but you 629 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: still want to be on the journey with it and 630 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: just looking at the news and just being in the world. 631 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: It's just so hard these days that these kind of 632 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: movies are wonderful escape. I would compare holiday movies now 633 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 1: to game shows, where for a long time I wouldn't 634 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: take a game show because I was like, game shows 635 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: are and if I ever do and host a game show, 636 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: then I'm always going to be a game show host. However, then, 637 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: but now they're really cool again. I think Steve Harvey 638 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: kind of brought that back where you could be a 639 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: real talent and be funny, and then everybody's doing game shows, 640 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: and now everybody wants to do a game show I would. 641 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 1: I think those two kind of run alongside each other. 642 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: I think you made a great point there. For a 643 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: long time it was like, we don't want to do that, 644 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: but now like you almost want to do host a 645 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 1: game show or a holiday movie. Well, you know, it's 646 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: funny because everything is, you know, everybody, there was a 647 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: time when oh, you would never be a TV actress? 648 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: Oh god, no, you know, and then you know, Helen 649 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 1: Hunt comes and does you know? Mad about you? And 650 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: I was obsessed with it and I was like, wait 651 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 1: a minute, she could do it. I can do that. 652 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: And prior to them, you wouldn't touch TV, you know. 653 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: And then there are all these sort of taboos that 654 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: come around, and I think, slowly but surely, the joy 655 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 1: that is in all of these emerges and everything's I 656 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: don't think there's anything off limits anymore. I think the 657 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: crossover is I mean amazing. You know, look at what 658 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: Julie Roberts and Clooney just did a did a rom 659 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 1: com sort of movie like that, and we just flock 660 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: to it because it opens up your heart a little 661 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 1: bit and it's escapism. Well, Brooke, we're big fans, and 662 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 1: I hope everybody checks out now what with Brooke Shields. 663 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: It's a wonderful podcast, and I hope they check out 664 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: Brooke and her co star Amy. Yes. Yes, Holiday Harmony 665 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 1: on HBO Max. That is out November twenty fourth, which 666 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: is Thanksgiving, right, yeah, it's Thanksgiving Day. And I was 667 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: told by Lauren Swickard, who's one of the writers and producers, 668 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 1: that I guess like technically am a supporting role. That's 669 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: my Oscar Oscar. Then you're competing against Brook and for 670 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: supporting actress. Yes, yes, yes, Brooke, big fan. Thank you 671 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: very much, good luck with the podcast, and we appreciate 672 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: your time this morning. Thank you, appreciate yours. Hope to 673 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: see you in person one day. All right, Caroline from Austin, Texas. Okay, 674 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: I know this is I go running joke secret whatever. 675 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: Will there ever be a moment in time where you 676 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 1: guys will tell us what NLR means? Lunchmarks and I 677 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 1: have used this for fifteen years. We rarely use it, 678 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: but if we really want to dial in and go, 679 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 1: are you telling me the truth? Like all jokes aside, 680 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 1: radio aside, bits aside's aside, we go NLR. We just 681 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: don't really talk about what it means. It's kind of 682 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: much of our code. Yeah, we've had longer than fifteen. 683 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: I mean when I joined the show over sixteen years ago, 684 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 1: y'all were doing it, and I still don't know what 685 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 1: it means. Oh, there you have it, so no, I 686 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: guess you won't, Caroline. I hear Stephanie and Kentucky. Hey, 687 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: Bobby Morden's studio, I need you to settle a debate 688 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: for me. I need to know is it all of 689 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: a sudden or all of the sudden? I don't think 690 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: I know the right answer, but I know how I 691 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: say it. All of the sudden, all of the sudden. Again, 692 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna bet any money on it, 693 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,879 Speaker 1: but I say, all of this sudden, that's crazy. What 694 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,800 Speaker 1: the real one is? You say? Uh, I'm like you, Amy, Yeah, 695 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,720 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, all of all of the sudden. 696 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: I was out, do your teas here for the pile, 697 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 1: and we'll find out what it is after this because 698 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. But and I say 699 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,240 Speaker 1: a lot of things wrong, like slang because the South. 700 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 1: My vernacular is very Southern. He's Amy's pile of stories. 701 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 1: So if you're doing grocery shopping this weekend for Thanksgiving. 702 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 1: I highly recommend it because you're going to get to 703 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: the store ahead of time, and it's been of going 704 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: next week last minute. And if you don't want to 705 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: make homemade gravy, well, a gravy test was done and 706 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: the best canned gravy was revealed and it is found 707 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: at Walmart. What is it? It's the great value going 708 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: to Walmart? Wmart? Here? Where is it? It's the Walmart 709 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: brand great value, which is awesome because you're going to 710 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 1: get a great value on it too. Well, here's the thing. 711 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 1: If you do go early, like Amy's saying, yeah, you'll 712 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 1: still go right before. He doesn't want to get as much. 713 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: There's always something you've always gotta go. You just don't 714 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,479 Speaker 1: want to have to go and get a lot of things. Yes, 715 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,000 Speaker 1: but great values number one. Yeah, the least favorite turkey 716 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: gravy went to Trader Joe's. The saltiest turkey gravy went 717 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: to High and the best and then the middle of 718 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 1: the road gravy Campbell's. So there you go, that's your 719 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: grave vy. Are gonna be that pick? Give it in 720 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 1: one or two graves up there. I love white gravy 721 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 1: way more than brown gravy, but thanksgivings brown gravy. Thanksgiving 722 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: is whatever I like to eat to give thanks, it's 723 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 1: always white gravy. You got her? Yeah, I mean traditionally no. No, 724 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: But you're just saying based on what you like and 725 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: what you've been accustomer. No, I like white gravy. You're 726 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: hater white gray hat. I don't even like gravy. What 727 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: else you got? Okay, so we're over halfway through November. 728 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,879 Speaker 1: Have the holidays officially started for you, like the Christmas season? Yeah, 729 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: because I've already been buying guest for people. You feel it, okay, Yeah, already? Yeah. Wow. Well, 730 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 1: it's just this is a robust list, and so there's 731 00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: also an expectation on me. Therefore, I was always somebody 732 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: who got all my homework done. Maybe not always ahead 733 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 1: of time, but I was always in a good place 734 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: to be able to do it effectively and do a 735 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: good job. And I do that now with how I 736 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,879 Speaker 1: live my life too. Christmas gifts included well, people were 737 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: asked when the Christmas spirit starts for them, and the 738 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 1: number one answer was a tie between putting your tree 739 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: up that's when it becomes official and hearing Christmas music 740 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,360 Speaker 1: on the radio for the first time, that's when you 741 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 1: know Christmas is here. Yeah, but unless you're on a 742 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: Christmas station. Really, stations don't do it anymore until it's 743 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: like the twenty third or two. Oh really, yeah, it's 744 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 1: a different time. Maybe it's just the first song you 745 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 1: hear because we played were I think we were probably 746 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 1: the first. We did Brett Eldress, we were like, all right, first, yes, summer, 747 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: it's the most which. Speaking of Brett Eldridge, he tested 748 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 1: out some music on his nephew. It's a song called 749 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 1: You'll Be Mine and here is the unplugged version be Vership. 750 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,720 Speaker 1: He has Nevvy's a baby and he was playing guitar 751 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: on a bed for the baby and the baby's like, 752 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: let me touch the guitar, and he's like, no, no, 753 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing a thing here, let me play. You gotta 754 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: go to Bret's Crostment show if it comes near year. 755 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 1: We asked for tickets for you. Yeah, I think I 756 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: think you got him. Oh okay, cool, Yeah, yeah, I'm 757 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,839 Speaker 1: so excited. Randomly gotta go. Texted Brett and I was like, hey, 758 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 1: let me four tickets to that show in New York. 759 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: It was like a coming to New York. I was like, well, 760 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: they're not for me. He's like, oh, okay, isn't there 761 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 1: a framie, a friend and kids. He's like, oh, all right, 762 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 1: let me let me see if I sold out. Let 763 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: me see it. And I was like, well, don't worry 764 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: about don't worry about it. Oh god no. But then 765 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 1: he's like, I got no, it's no problem. They kick 766 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,600 Speaker 1: some people out. Well, that's the thing that the wheelchair. 767 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: Second they removed it. No, I told randomly last minute, 768 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: you're good, You're good, no problem. I have no problem 769 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 1: asking him. You're a friend, no problem. Yes, okay, thank you, 770 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 1: I'm Amie. That's my file. That was Amy's pile of stories. 771 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 1: It's time for the good news. Guys. Get ready, We're 772 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: about to go on an emotional roller coaster. Man Dakota 773 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 1: has been with his girlfriend Lauren for seven years, and 774 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,399 Speaker 1: he finally decides, you know what, I'm gonna go buy 775 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 1: an engagement ring. He buys it, and he hides it 776 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 1: in the closet, waiting for that day to propose. Get 777 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: down on one knee, and then all of a sudden, 778 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,839 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks later, the wind starts picking up. 779 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 1: It's a tornado take cover and their house is destroyed. 780 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 1: They lose everything, The engagement ring is gone. He's devastated. 781 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 1: He has to go to Lauren and say I had 782 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,439 Speaker 1: the engagement ring. It was hidden in the house. It's 783 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: lost forever. But then the Paris Community College softball team 784 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: shows up and they start looking and digging. They're like, 785 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: we're not leaving until we find it. Hour later, seven 786 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 1: yards away, two centimeters under the dirt, they find the 787 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: engagement ring and the code there. Yeah, that's what it says. 788 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: Exact location, No exact location. And Dakota is like, oh 789 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,239 Speaker 1: my goodness. He gets the ring. He gets down on 790 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 1: one knee and he proposes looking pass out. Y'allah. This 791 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: is so good. They gave him their side. They got 792 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 1: a oh my goodness, guys, you thought it was such 793 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 1: devastation in the beginning, the house destroyed, the tears, You're like, oh, 794 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: and then you're crying tears of joy right now, Wow, 795 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: lets tell me something good side good. You know, got 796 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: an emotional rollercoaster. You're excited. He bought the engagement room. 797 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: And then the tornado comes and destroys their house. And 798 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 1: then the climax at the end where they find it 799 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: and they get engaged. That look at him. Wow, Dada 800 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 1: and Lauren and they got in invite that softball team. 801 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: They got to go to the wedding there for sure, 802 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 1: the whole softball to batting practice the night before as 803 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: part of the party. I like it. Yeah, great story, Lunchbox. 804 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: That is what it's all about. That was telling me 805 00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: something good.