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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. Rolena is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for our first Day follow up and she's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a guy named Marcus. So in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call him and see if it

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Speaker 1: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 1: another date. But first, Selena, how long has it been

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Speaker 1: since you heard from Marcus? Hey? So about a week

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Speaker 1: and a half. Okay, have you been trying to get

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Speaker 1: a hold of him or was the last time you

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Speaker 1: guys talked on your date?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the last time that we talked another

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Speaker 2: date afterwards? You know, I texted him, hey, I had

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Speaker 2: a great time, and he wrote back, yeah, me too.

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Speaker 2: And you know, during the date, everything was awesome, So

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Speaker 2: I assumed, so we'd go on another date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, one would if it was good, right.

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Speaker 1: It was amazing.

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Speaker 2: We like went for like this midnight mini golf and

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Speaker 2: arcade night at like the retro game lounge, you know,

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Speaker 2: and I'm talking neon lights if he's downtrack pumpkin spice cocktails,

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Speaker 2: you know, the best and and honestly, it was marcusistic.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, this guy's got a

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Speaker 2: great vibe. He also has like this low key, you know,

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Speaker 2: bookish charm, but still we're sneakers, Like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: he's about to start.

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Speaker 1: A dance battle like slag. I'm so into that exactly,

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Speaker 1: and like he's.

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Speaker 2: Got a great laugh Like I mean, he was awesome,

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Speaker 2: this really great guy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so why do you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Well, so when we were at the Arcade, we were

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Speaker 2: like doing this you know, best of three air hockey challenge,

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Speaker 2: and honestly I got way too into it.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Yeah, exactly, this sounds so lovely.

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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 2: So so mane, they don't know myland strength. And you know,

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Speaker 2: at match point, I launched the puck so hard it

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Speaker 2: literally ricocheted, smacked the feeling quam and definitely went right

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Speaker 2: into someone's nachos. Oh like tage hot cheese everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, but I mean the is that a reason

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Speaker 1: to ghost you?

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Speaker 2: I don't think. So. You know, Marcus like doubled over,

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Speaker 2: laughing even high five to me. And then you know,

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Speaker 2: we spent like an hour, you know, talking about vintage

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Speaker 2: pinball tips like it was.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was just thinking about like, you know, this is

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Speaker 2: a kind of night that you tell your grandkids about,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: Well, so then where was the issue?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, Like we texted a little bit

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Speaker 2: after the date and then he like completely disappeared.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so you actually were texting after the date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a little bit, nothing crazy, but like, is

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Speaker 2: it because I'm frequently strong and like, maybe you do

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Speaker 2: that stuff after like a little bit, but nothing like

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Speaker 2: a little bit of a makeout. But I thought that

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 1: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 1: him and see if ho tell us why is ghosting

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Speaker 1: you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 1: and if you're just joining us, Selena is on the

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Speaker 1: phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Marcus.

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Speaker 1: So we're about to call him and see if it

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Speaker 1: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 1: a second date. But first, Selena why don't you break

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Speaker 1: down your date again first, real quick.

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Speaker 2: So basically, this awesome our date and we ended up

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Speaker 2: going to this really cool retro arcade and we played

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Speaker 2: you know, Best of three air hockey and I hit

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Speaker 2: the pack way too harsh radios. Someone's got Joe's I

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Speaker 2: don't know my own strength, but I thought we were

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Speaker 2: laughing about it. And now he's pretty much ghosting me.

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Speaker 1: All right, well you ready for us to call him? Please? Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marcus. Please.

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Speaker 1: This is Marcus. How can I help you? Hey? Marcus?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show. Hi, Marcus. I'm Nina. I'm Victoria and

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Speaker 1: my name's Juble.

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Speaker 2: I know you guys.

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Speaker 1: All right, well now we know you Marcus win something.

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Speaker 1: I must have won something. It's possible you could have

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Speaker 1: won something. This is the first Day follow up. You

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Speaker 1: know the segment where if you go out with someone

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Speaker 1: and you got them, they email us to call you

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Speaker 1: and find out why. I've heard of this. I've heard

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Speaker 1: of this show. Yeah yeah, no, but you did ghost somebody?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so any idea who you're ghosting?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: You're just laughing about it. Marcus, where are you coasting?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Una, Yes it is Selena. She told us about your date.

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Speaker 1: We talked to her a little bit since she really

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Speaker 1: likes you. But now you're not calling her back. You

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Speaker 1: mind telling us why? Yeah, mini golf date. Uh, I

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Speaker 1: gotta say the day was great and and and she's

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Speaker 1: she's pretty, and and I just like she dressed like

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Speaker 1: my mom, Like, uh yeah, minilf Did you say mini

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Speaker 1: golf date? Yeah, we went to like Neon minigolf eighties

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Speaker 1: was like an arcade place. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I mean I went to minigolf with someone else. That

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Speaker 1: was arcade night, right, Okay, are we still talking about

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Speaker 1: the same person? Oh yeah, nachos. She like, we were

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Speaker 1: playing knock hockey and she kind of hit the knock

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Speaker 1: hockey thing into it doesn't It was like a kind

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Speaker 1: of a mess. But okay, okay, but that's not why

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Speaker 1: you're ghosting her. No, she dressed like my mom. She

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Speaker 1: dressed like your mom.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a kind of turn off.

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Speaker 1: I like, everything was great, but then she were the top.

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Speaker 1: It was like my mom, So your mom has the

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Speaker 1: same top that she was wearing. It was like exactly

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Speaker 1: the same top, and I was like, oh gosh, it's

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Speaker 1: my mom. Just gonna say sometimes things just like turn

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Speaker 1: me off and that that was just kind of it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But you guys kissed and stuff. Huh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And when I was kissing her, I kind of

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Speaker 2: felt like I was kissing my mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, probably better not to go back there then. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Would you date someone that dressed like

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Speaker 1: your mom, I don't know, or your dad, It depends.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it would bother me, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's a deal break.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Did she act like your mom too? No, she didn't.

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Speaker 2: She was fun. It was fun.

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Speaker 1: It was just like I said, it's just a little

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Speaker 1: thing like that can make a break deal.

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Speaker 2: It's like a deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 1: I guess if like you're playing air hockey.

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Speaker 2: Everything was great. But I don't know. You guys don't

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Speaker 2: have like a little things that bother you when something

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess. I just I don't know how your

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Speaker 1: or good. I don't know, like Mom's like, Oh, I

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Speaker 1: don't know the tom just target mom section. Mom. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, well keep step margus. Thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 1: I will let you know that Selena is actually on

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Speaker 1: the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh okay, hello,

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Speaker 1: yeah hi. So oh yeah, great taste.

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Speaker 2: You got our mom's taste.

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Speaker 1: I think that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: He goes to me over this that's in sade.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like if you if I dress like

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Speaker 1: your your dad, would you be into that?

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Speaker 2: Okay? No, but I wouldn't hold it against you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you you wouldn't date your dad or you wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I'm not trying to day.

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Speaker 1: My mom just escalated. It's not the same thing, okay,

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Speaker 1: markets I am not it's not the same thing. I'm

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Speaker 1: not your mom. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Look, I'm going to send your picture right now of

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Speaker 2: me wearing something else. You can raise that image of

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Speaker 2: me and your mom pop away from your bro.

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Speaker 1: We had a vibe. You're sending him a picture.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So.

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Speaker 1: That good?

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Speaker 2: Oh what? Oh wow? Okay, so like my mom has

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Speaker 2: that braw By the way, now you're lying, okay.

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Speaker 1: Also, how do you know what kind of brought your mama.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's all in her laundry room. I don't know. Okay, okay, basically,

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Speaker 1: do you like what you see or not? Oh? I

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Speaker 1: mean yeah, you're you're beautiful to be fairy like you rock?

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Speaker 1: I want to be fair. You rock the top that

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Speaker 1: my mom wears way better than my mom.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well now we're getting somewhere. Oh all right,

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Speaker 2: come on, Guys end up marrying women like their moms anyway,

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Speaker 2: so this will be a hilarious story one day. Maybe sure.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, I bet your mom's sending pictures

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Speaker 1: like that to your dad.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. But uh oh yeah, oh I

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Speaker 1: don't want to think about that. Marcus, would you like

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Speaker 1: to go on another day with Selena? Will pay for it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean well I kind of have to go, Like

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Speaker 1: I got a coffee date right now, so I kind

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Speaker 1: of have to go a date right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say, good life. You're gonna do

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Speaker 1: like really great out there. Thank you? Where are you going?

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Speaker 2: I have a date?

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Speaker 1: Okay? All right? You really just give me that you'll

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Speaker 1: do great out there like a sports I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Whatever, you know, I just sent that picture to someone

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Speaker 2: else and actually I'm going to go on a coffee day.

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Speaker 1: Now, wow's a waste of my time.

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to go your coffee and probably do

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Speaker 2: it a bunch.

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Speaker 1: All right, Okay, what just happened? Juble's first day follow

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Speaker 1: up