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Speaker 2: Charlie is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Penelope.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
Speaker 2: maybe get him a second date. But first, Charlie, how
Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Penelope?
Speaker 3: Well, the ghost watch has been on for about a
Speaker 3: full week now.
Speaker 4: Oh no, nothing. Ghost watch sounds like you have a
Speaker 4: sense of humor about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean since seven days it's this twenty
Speaker 3: you got to know it's I get the feeling it's
Speaker 3: a decision.
Speaker 4: Have you tried to break the no contact? Uh?
Speaker 3: Not really, it's just kind of I just want to
Speaker 3: kind of see what's going on. I mean, I haven't
Speaker 3: really reached out, but I think that was just something
Speaker 3: that may have gone wrong last time we met, and
Speaker 3: maybe it led to something, and I hope it didn't.
Speaker 3: Something had to change. I just feel like something had
Speaker 3: to change, you know. And I mean I think she's
Speaker 3: a great person. I think she's a very school elegant girl.
Speaker 3: You know the type of drinks herbal tea and keith
Speaker 3: me plant alive emotionally, So what.
Speaker 4: Did you guys do for your date?
Speaker 3: Then took me to an indoor plant terrain terrarium. It's
Speaker 3: my pronunciation is that she's saying terranium, but I know
Speaker 3: something terrarium, right, someone where indoor plants are a workshop,
Speaker 3: because it just seems like she had that vibe she had,
Speaker 3: like that calm. We got a girl calm, confident, she
Speaker 3: has that raspee. I read novels in bed type voice,
Speaker 3: you know, ug cozy, earthy. So we were like, you know,
Speaker 3: it was some botany into the business. We're at this thing,
Speaker 3: so let me just say that we're at this workshop.
Speaker 3: And the guide said something basically said, don't touch anything
Speaker 3: behind the velvet velvet rope because some plants are just
Speaker 3: toxic to skin. And that I told her that, uh
Speaker 3: I know my way around foliage, like he said, as
Speaker 3: smooth as I could, as confident as a kid. Reached
Speaker 3: over that rope, and uh I touched a shiny leaf there.
Speaker 3: I don't really know how to describe it. Too off
Speaker 3: like a shiny leaf. It just looked like royalty, right, okay,
Speaker 3: and so next to the sign that says like costic sap,
Speaker 3: don't handle you know, but that just makes me want
Speaker 3: to grab it more so. So yeah, that's why I do.
Speaker 3: Like he told me not to do something, I want
Speaker 3: to do it. I'm obsessed. So I go, I try
Speaker 3: to shake my hand off of the SAT, wipe it
Speaker 3: off my shirt, and then wipe it on a brush shore.
Speaker 3: I wiped it on a fern and then they handed
Speaker 3: me a white like wet wipes custom wipes, and uh
Speaker 3: and yeah, she just had this look on her face
Speaker 3: like there was this was just an absolute, uh train wreck.
Speaker 3: But you know, I wanted to show her that, you know,
Speaker 3: the guy who's willing to touch poison for her.
Speaker 4: So you said out and touch poison for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was cool after.
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to get this straight.
Speaker 5: The person that was conducting the stuff told you don't
Speaker 5: touch the plants because it's it's gonna it's toxic. Then
Speaker 5: on the other side of the rope there's a sign
Speaker 5: that says don't touch the plants because it's toxic, and
Speaker 5: then you touch the plants.
Speaker 3: I just want to be double negative, okay, double negative.
Speaker 5: I mean there's a chance. Yeah, there is a chance
Speaker 5: that this could be the reason you're getting goes to
Speaker 5: every day. Is amazing.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I love it.
Speaker 3: I think there was anything wrong with it because she
Speaker 3: she nudged my shoulder. You know that's touch. We shared
Speaker 3: a lavender tea. Oh he said she had plant enthusiasm energy.
Speaker 3: Said to me that I had this energy, just plant
Speaker 3: enthusiasm energy. We had a vibe. You don't just sip
Speaker 3: hammer meal next to moss art with someone if you're
Speaker 3: not spiritually linked. And the link is there, And one
Speaker 3: minute we're breathing in you to lift this fog together,
Speaker 3: which smells great, and the next minute she's gone, like
Speaker 3: vera goolds. Now I'm ghosted, days lost, confused, and I
Speaker 3: don't know if it's still poisoned. But oh no, like
Speaker 3: it's been a week. I'm doing it fine. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I just you know, she's okay, Well what what what happened?
Speaker 4: Well, let's call her and find out.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if hotls why she's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 2: get you a second date.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, you got it, all right, we'll get your first.
Speaker 2: Day follow up next right the middle of your first
Speaker 2: date follow up and if you're just joining us, Charlie
Speaker 2: is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Penelope.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see iftas why
Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
Speaker 2: But first, before we do that, Charlie, whyn't you break
Speaker 2: down your situation again real quick?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Met this girls very independent, had a nice vibe out there,
Speaker 3: so she seemed like the type would go out to
Speaker 3: a terrarium check out some plants. They told me not to.
Speaker 3: I touched a few of them and see, you know,
Speaker 3: things got a little weird and I just want to
Speaker 3: know what ghosted me.
Speaker 4: He sounds like a funny guy, Charlie, but also a
Speaker 4: wild time. All right, are you ready for us to
Speaker 4: call her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get it.
Speaker 4: Let's all right, here we go.
Speaker 3: Let's you think.
Speaker 4: Him as speaks? Penelope? Please, Hey Penelope? How are you?
Speaker 4: This is a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Penelope, I'm Nina. Hi I'm Victorian. How are you?
Speaker 6: I'm okay? Wait? Are the radio show school? Okay?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but we do do a segment called
Speaker 2: the First Night follow up on our show. That's where
Speaker 2: if you go on a date with someone and you
Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can email us to ask why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4: And we got an email about you from someone.
Speaker 6: Oh interesting, Okay, this is just there, all right, gone.
Speaker 2: So is there anybody that you can think of that
Speaker 2: you went out with recently that you have been ghosting?
Speaker 6: Yeah, there's one guy I can think of.
Speaker 4: Okay, what's his name?
Speaker 6: His name is Charlie.
Speaker 4: Yes, it is Charlie.
Speaker 2: Charlie dad and told us about your dates that he
Speaker 2: really liked you and he's wondering why you're not getting
Speaker 2: back to him, and would you mind telling us.
Speaker 6: I don't know what he told you.
Speaker 1: But this guy touched some poisonous step and stung his
Speaker 1: hand like it was very traumatizing, kind of funny, but.
Speaker 6: It was weird. It threw me off.
Speaker 1: And just when things are getting back on track, like
Speaker 1: during the date, he yelled.
Speaker 6: At this lady who was leading this date, like.
Speaker 1: The events of the day and this remember he had
Speaker 1: touched poisonous step.
Speaker 6: So but he blamed her for not warning him about
Speaker 6: the dangers of them. And I mean, you literally asked
Speaker 6: to speak to a manager like a supervisor. Here's a
Speaker 6: really big turn off.
Speaker 3: Oh, hold on, I wasn't yelling. I was advocating for
Speaker 3: public safety. I mean, if there's stop to coly at present,
Speaker 3: I deserve.
Speaker 6: A fair warning what that action is going on right now?
Speaker 6: So weird.
Speaker 2: That's actually Charlie. He's on the other line listening and
Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And I wasn't yelling. Okay, Oh, I was not yelling. Okay,
Speaker 3: this is I want. I want the people to know
Speaker 3: it was advocating for public safety. There is a bulliage
Speaker 3: present in this small establishment. Yeah. I know there were signs,
Speaker 3: but you should see how small that sign was. Like
Speaker 3: I couldn't even finish reading it until my hand was
Speaker 3: already like an inch into the stap. I already had
Speaker 3: figures in the step like a comb in the honey
Speaker 3: when I already went I read that sign. It was
Speaker 3: so small it should not count. I mean, what if
Speaker 3: my hand gone dumb? What if I had lost mobility?
Speaker 3: What if I kind of the T shirt shirt.
Speaker 1: Kili it tingled? Your hand literally tangled. You weren't like
Speaker 1: trekking through the Amazon. You gently brush a shiny leaf
Speaker 1: in a climatron like you're next to a bluetique key
Speaker 1: there like worse.
Speaker 6: There's a team rate there. There's like an herbarium, like
Speaker 6: you can't. This wasn't the jungle.
Speaker 3: I know you know your cheese way more than I
Speaker 3: know te's all right. All I know about teas is
Speaker 3: how to cross them in dots of eyes like it
Speaker 3: could have been worse. It was risk. Okay, myceuticles were
Speaker 3: fully exposed.
Speaker 4: You wanted to risk, Charlie, I'm so confused.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, well, yeah, I'm a ban of danger, but
Speaker 3: I want to set an example for future skids and
Speaker 3: people in my shoes to not have to run in
Speaker 3: such terrible set Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, Princess Betuna, it wasn't a plant staff. It's not
Speaker 1: like it's nae palm or anything.
Speaker 6: Geez.
Speaker 3: She should have worn a setter. There was no urgency, none.
Speaker 1: No, she literally said, please do not touch anything behind
Speaker 1: the velvet rope. Some stants are toxic. Those the first
Speaker 1: thing she said, I'm pretty sure, tell us pretty clear
Speaker 1: that for the rest of the night.
Speaker 3: She said it like please recycle, not like touch that
Speaker 3: and you might lose a finger.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, She's put the scream at like it
Speaker 6: required a dramatic head talk.
Speaker 1: Or something like somebody's just saying, don't touch something behind
Speaker 1: a rope, literally just mean don't touch that.
Speaker 3: I was actually trying to impress you because I said
Speaker 3: I knew I was submitted.
Speaker 1: Well, you committed for sure to a rash and basically
Speaker 1: an apology toward the whole night.
Speaker 3: Oh, I apologize a ferd. I wiped my shirt on. Yes, shea,
Speaker 3: it was an innocent fern had no business seeing part
Speaker 3: of the.
Speaker 6: Ride, right, you apologize to the plant before you apologize
Speaker 6: to the lady that you scolded. But like that was weird.
Speaker 6: It was a little symbolic of how you really live
Speaker 6: on Well.
Speaker 3: Of course she had a dad, she was in a
Speaker 3: position of power. She's a public figures something intridiculous.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the plant anyway, that got Blaming someone else
Speaker 1: for your mistake is just not my vibe. I found
Speaker 1: accountability more attractive than like lying and passing it off,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: Right choice accountability.
Speaker 1: I washed my hand, Yeah, and then you blame the
Speaker 1: poor woman named Cheryl who just wanted to talk to
Speaker 1: us about succulents.
Speaker 6: Like that was the moment that I could do it anymore?
Speaker 4: Would you like another date with Charlie, will pay for it.
Speaker 6: No, I'm sorry, guys.
Speaker 1: I really am into men who like take responsibility for
Speaker 1: their actions, not men who choose the wage of verbal
Speaker 1: war with the indoor garden gardening staff or other ferns
Speaker 1: that couldn't do anything.
Speaker 3: And for the record, I want you to know I
Speaker 3: did not wage war. Okay, this was a sperm conversation
Speaker 3: that sween responsible adults.
Speaker 1: No, it was not. You asked for the supervisor like
Speaker 1: some caring I'm business. That's why we're done you guys.
Speaker 3: That was the fird's doing well. Well.
Speaker 6: The friend handled everything better than you did. Charlie. Okay,
Speaker 6: you will first date fall up