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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a giving them like the million

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Speaker 1: and all is Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,

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Speaker 1: today is simple. I want to tell you. I want

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Speaker 1: to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people

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Speaker 1: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out

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Speaker 1: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and

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Speaker 1: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.

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Speaker 1: Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's

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Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something, You're

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Speaker 1: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen

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Speaker 1: I know, I know this sounds a little harsh, but

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Speaker 1: that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, you

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Speaker 1: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you

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Speaker 1: have to try something. Stevie backpedaling. Now, listen to me close.

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Speaker 1: You must start to attempt, now, insane getting it done,

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna try. That's a different of two different

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Speaker 1: Now what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to

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Speaker 1: bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where?

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Speaker 1: Bless you? How? Stop basing your results on what you're thinking.

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Speaker 1: You gotta think higher. You get God in your life, man,

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Speaker 1: He allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I'm

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Speaker 1: And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Dude,

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Speaker 1: the math hill man, I ain't that big. You ain't

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Speaker 1: Marley shows us what we're talking about now. So here's

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Speaker 1: a deal. Let me make it perfectly clear. Gratitude. If

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Speaker 1: you have now affected your mental attitude. And Lord Hammers,

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Speaker 1: wanting something out of life, man, it's stout sacrificing and

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Speaker 1: sent it to me in a TEXTA something all right,

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Speaker 1: That's the vibe right there, Steve. All right, coming up

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Speaker 1: now to start your morning off with the nephew and

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Speaker 1: Be light? This is what I let a candle burn

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Speaker 1: reach a Monica system. Monica. Please, this is brother de Sean.

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Speaker 1: How can I help you? Calling you actually about the offering? Now?

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Speaker 1: Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

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Speaker 1: lit on you, little star, ain't bad. You just gotta say,

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Speaker 1: you know tie you got? You ever dried off with

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Speaker 1: a new tie, h and all the fuzz beyond you.

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Speaker 1: You don't really know what the hell happening at first?

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Speaker 1: Does she just ever say what it is? Or just

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Speaker 1: do you know? We're talking about this time for a

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Speaker 1: second hand, I minded me of a story wild but

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Speaker 1: I was back in my wilder days. We have time.

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Speaker 1: I went over this girl's house and she had these

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Speaker 1: new ties and drying off and everything, and I started

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Speaker 1: and I fought, this is what I thought I had

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Speaker 1: been somewhere else, huh before I came over there, and

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Speaker 1: I ain't want her to see what I had on me.

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Speaker 1: So was she came a new bathroom, I was moving

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Speaker 1: and I had all this gold and ten fuzzballs all

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Speaker 1: over me, and she said, oh my god, what is

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Speaker 1: that on you? And I hadn't prepared to lie yet.

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Speaker 1: She just walked in the barrooms. You know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: lie because I didn't know what it was either, and

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Speaker 1: so I said, uh, oh, oh my god, my exemo.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you hadn't. This is in my younger day,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't really know. She said, yo, exam, she

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Speaker 1: said food. That's the lit off them ties. I got

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Speaker 1: new ties the other day. When I knew you was

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Speaker 1: coming over here, and she didn't watch. I just fell

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Speaker 1: to my knees and said, Jesus, your good, no Mash,

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Speaker 1: I didn't waste are all right? Thank you? Rookie. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening,

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Speaker 1: all right. So Terrence Howard says that he's invented a

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Speaker 1: new hydrogen technology for Uganda and that it can clean

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Speaker 1: the ocean. Last week, while meeting with the President of Uganda,

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Speaker 1: Terrence said his new system. Take a listen. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was born Terrence de Sean Howard. I've become an actor.

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Speaker 1: You know. I've been nominated for Oscars and Golden Globes

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Speaker 1: and and SAG Awards, But those weren't the things that

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Speaker 1: really moved me as a child. I studied chemical engineering

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Speaker 1: at Pratt Institute. Was there for two years until I

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Speaker 1: saw that there was an inconsistency with the math there,

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Speaker 1: and so I went out to explore a new way

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Speaker 1: of understanding how the universe work. And I was able

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Speaker 1: to define the grand unified field equation they've been looking

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Speaker 1: for and put it into geometry. And then with that geometry,

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Speaker 1: I was able to put props on that. And what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying is now we have invented a new form

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Speaker 1: of flight that I would like to bring here to Uganda,

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Speaker 1: to replace the drones, to replace the helicopters, to replace

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Speaker 1: the planes. We've already we have all the funding necessary.

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Speaker 1: What we need is just a fertile ground in which

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Speaker 1: to build this down. This is the geometry of hydrogen.

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Speaker 1: Who what what? Right? It wasn't too deep for you guys,

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Speaker 1: it turns into defense of the nation. Yeah, you can

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Speaker 1: make a hydrogen bomb with this. He goes into this

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Speaker 1: deepness man, and like, no, look, man, I'm not a

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Speaker 1: science guy at all, but what I do have the

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Speaker 1: ability to do is listen and at least put together

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Speaker 1: the story. This boy is on the rant. Not what

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Speaker 1: you need to see is the video or the black

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Speaker 1: dude behind that's obviously scientists of some kind. Because that dude, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: was in the video and the African with you. He

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Speaker 1: was like, I mean, you man, you know how you

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Speaker 1: know how you see somebody looking at something and really

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Speaker 1: be trying to listen. You can tell they listen because

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Speaker 1: they're kind of like, you know, they can't. Their mouth

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Speaker 1: come out a little bit and they turn their ear

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Speaker 1: towards you. And Terence as an actor, and he sounded great.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you didn't know he wrote off all

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Speaker 1: that ain't what burns him. Maybe he loves I Part two?

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Speaker 1: He thought he built a man? Is that? Terrence Howard

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Speaker 1: also announced his goal to raise money for information, communications

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Speaker 1: and entertainment industries. So he's here's the thing that he

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Speaker 1: threw me with. He said, we have the funding, we

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Speaker 1: just need a fertile ground dog. Listen to me, man,

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Speaker 1: anybody man will let you come if you got that,

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Speaker 1: if you got an intervention that can do something that's

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Speaker 1: never been done before, and you got the funding. You

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Speaker 1: know how many people give you somewhere to work that out?

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Speaker 1: Away over to your gun and told the people man

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Speaker 1: a man like they ain't heard the pimp game before,

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Speaker 1: talking to do something for me. Yeah, if it's possible,

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Speaker 1: can you set it up with Terrence how oh can

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Speaker 1: talk to herschel Walker and we just sit back and

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Speaker 1: just listen to that. Hey, man, I think ladies and

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Speaker 1: gentlemen coming up on our next break, Terrence Howard and

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Speaker 1: herschel Walker will be answering questions from the press. Carla

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Speaker 1: Sherley and Junior will be the press. I'm assuming, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: who do you want to be herschel? I got to

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Speaker 1: be herschel I'm gonna be Tarres Howard. Ladies and general,

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Speaker 1: we're going to hear from Harry from Terence Howard and

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Speaker 1: herschel Walker together today on The Steve Harvey Morning Show,

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Speaker 1: first time, first time ever, huh and other entertainment news.

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Speaker 1: Gospel singer Kim Burrell has issued a public apology on

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Speaker 1: Instagram after a video of her went viral on social media.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen, gotta choose up, find you some value.

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Speaker 1: You know, sometimes before we get friends, we have to

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Speaker 1: do an interview. How long have you been broke? How

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Speaker 1: many times have you changed your name on your light bill?

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Speaker 1: How many of your bills and your little cousin's name?

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Speaker 1: Do you live in a trailer home or a house?

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Speaker 1: You know, you understand, And it's not about status and

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Speaker 1: material things. It's just about choices. You know. Life is

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Speaker 1: different now, and you know we are church. Thank God

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Speaker 1: we're here. Those of us are walking my faith without

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Speaker 1: a mask and no vaccine, and so we're honor the Lord.

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Speaker 1: God is good. I respect all of the men of

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Speaker 1: God ear and respect you in your collapse. I don't

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Speaker 1: feel strange right about now. Hopefully we'll give a chance

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Speaker 1: to meet each other when y'all invite me to come

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Speaker 1: to your church. I'm not as expensive as I seen,

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Speaker 1: and so I don't know. Maybe you got a little

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Speaker 1: left over from your VPP load prayer, praise and power

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Speaker 1: you understan ain't mad? Ain't that wrong with that? She's

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Speaker 1: just joking. No, you know, I just think you know

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Speaker 1: I think it's her attempt at humor. Right, and you know,

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Speaker 1: church folk could be the most sensitive people. They got

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Speaker 1: mad about the money issue, that's all it was. They

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Speaker 1: wasn't mad about the vaccine or the mask. They wasn't

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Speaker 1: mad about the pp loans. You. They was mad because

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Speaker 1: she said you got to choose up. Because when you

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Speaker 1: tell the pope person you want to choose, they think

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Speaker 1: you talking about them. Yeah, she did apologize. By the way,

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Speaker 1: she shouldn't have jokes. It was just jokes. It was

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Speaker 1: yeah that it wasn't. Yeah, I don't I don't like

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Speaker 1: broke ass friends. Now I'm not apologizing. I'm supporting Kim Burrell.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes, get a bunch

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Speaker 1: of friends and see if your ass don't end up broke.

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Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the man. All right,

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Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, herschel Walker

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Speaker 1: and Terrence Howard will be our special guests right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show? All right? As promised, ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: we have two special guests with us today here on

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We have a Republican senatorial

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Speaker 1: candidate herschel Walker and we have actor Terrence Howard visiting

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Speaker 1: us today, both for the first time. We'd like to

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Speaker 1: welcome you, gentlemen. Good eatness the year one. I still

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Speaker 1: appreciate being parts of the just hee A type of

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Speaker 1: panel like y'all got I got panel in my house,

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Speaker 1: kind of like you here for Gohei and wonderful hypothetical

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Speaker 1: situation of clarity from my side. Also, Oh, thank you

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Speaker 1: mister Howard, and thank you mister herschel Walker. Then we'll

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Speaker 1: take we'll take questions from the crowd. I recognize Carla.

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Speaker 1: That's Carla Farrell from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Good morning, Carlin,

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Speaker 1: you have a question. Good morning herschel Good morning Terrence.

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Speaker 1: My question is just simple. Let's get to it. What

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Speaker 1: is global warming? Yussel? Yussel. Now, what it is is

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Speaker 1: a lot of the globe than basically than Michael Wave

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Speaker 1: did still and got it still. See when we turn

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Speaker 1: on all the microL waves at one times, what we

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Speaker 1: do is we warms the glues. What we do is

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Speaker 1: we warms this hill glue and the whole globe gets warmed.

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Speaker 1: See what we've got to do with Folks can't use

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Speaker 1: these microwaves all at one time, Like, all right, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: What Herschel is trying to Sam Terrence Howard sad Global

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Speaker 1: Award winner, Oscar nominated. You know what he's saying is

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Speaker 1: here quite simply that hydro chloride in the area so

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Speaker 1: facilitated to follicle airwaves. And what I've invent it is

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Speaker 1: a way to unmichael wave the air and make it

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Speaker 1: more plaletable for people that can use it, even in Uganda.

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Speaker 1: All Right, all right, thank you, thank you have a

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Speaker 1: follow up question, miss Farrell. Yeah, you invented exactly. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I had two hydrogen peels and I put them together

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Speaker 1: in water and when they dissolved, I drank them and

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Speaker 1: that's what made me up there with Elijah mccar right there,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, all right, we have a question from Junior,

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Speaker 1: also from the same Every Morning show. Good morning, Junior,

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Speaker 1: you have a question. Good morning, mister Herschel, mister Howard,

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Speaker 1: Mister mister Herschel, how is it possible that you've denied

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Speaker 1: your children? And we want to know, how is it

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Speaker 1: that you're gonna sit up here at Ruffer candidate office

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Speaker 1: for Senate and deny your children? Yeah, a thousands of

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Speaker 1: spiders that don't know they all sprains of them spiders.

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Speaker 1: And then there's ants like this hill that that when

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Speaker 1: these answers born, these antss queen Aunt don't knit really

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Speaker 1: have to take kill the good aunt. Exactly, Howard, please exactly.

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Speaker 1: All right, moving back with more Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: We're going to his voicemail right after you're listening show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it is time now to check Steve's voicemail.

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Speaker 1: If you'd like to leave a message for Steve, Callum

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Speaker 1: makes seven seven twenty nine Steve. First callers from Sandra

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Speaker 1: from the DMB. Hi, Steve, my name is Sandra and

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the DC or the d MV area.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, so my question is please don't take a

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Speaker 1: fit to this. But my question is I listened to

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Speaker 1: your morning show every day pretty much, and I always

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Speaker 1: listen to your words of encouragement after the show. I

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Speaker 1: want to know what makes you the expert to feel

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Speaker 1: like you can say these words of encouragement to people.

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Speaker 1: Are these things that you've been through? Um? Are these

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Speaker 1: things that that your family has been through? You know?

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Speaker 1: Give me a little insight on why you say the

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Speaker 1: words of encouragement that you do say, Okay, he'll tell

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Speaker 1: me I leve them. Well, you don't make lady from

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Speaker 1: the DMV. I'm gonna try not to take a fence

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Speaker 1: once again. You coming from the DMV pretty much explains

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Speaker 1: why your ass is working at the DMP. Why you

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Speaker 1: think is the DC Maryland, Maryland not the Department of

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Speaker 1: Motor Vehicle Right off and go off on your ass.

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Speaker 1: Don't take offense. Oh well, well we're right back to

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Speaker 1: what I need to be. Just because you in the

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Speaker 1: DMV don't work at the d MV, don't change my

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Speaker 1: A N s W E R. So it ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: change my A N swear my AMP. See. It is amazing, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: What makes me the expert is that I've lived this life.

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Speaker 1: You know, and you may not know my history. But

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Speaker 1: if I'm saying something to you and my encouragement that

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Speaker 1: doesn't make sense or doesn't apply to you, then please

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Speaker 1: don't use it. But I say things for people that

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Speaker 1: they can relate to because I've had to relate to

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Speaker 1: it myself. I don't speak of anything in my closing

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Speaker 1: remarks that I don't know about it. I've not had

635
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Speaker 1: to address myself. I'm not out here guessing none of

636
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Speaker 1: this stuff. So what makes me the expert is my

637
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: sixty five years of life. Now, I have a PhD

638
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: in living, I really do. I got a PhD in succeeding.

639
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: I got a PhD getting up off the ground. I've

640
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: got a PhD in recovering from mistakes. I got a

641
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: PhD in grace and mercy from our heavily fall. So

642
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: that's what makes me qualified. It's called experience. And now

643
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 1: if you choose not to listen to me at the

644
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: end of the show, then please do. And if it

645
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: don't apply to you, then you can take that too.

646
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: But that don't offend me at all. I'm used to

647
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: people like you. Next question, do you see that was

648
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: nice till the very end. Thank you, Ken, Sandra. All right, Missy,

649
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: it's from Philly. She left a message for you about

650
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: about Tommy. Hey, Steve, this is miss d My husband

651
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: and I attended Tommy's show on Saturday in Wilmington and

652
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: we just wanted to say that it was an amazing show.

653
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: He mentioned you haven't seen his comedy in recent years.

654
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: You really need to find a way to attend one

655
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: of his shows. It will blow your mind and it

656
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: will also soften your heart to see the man that

657
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: he's grown into. And he gave you credit for who

658
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: he has become and how you helped him. So I

659
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you that that Tommy really has

660
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: an amazing show and it's worth you seeing it. We

661
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: laughed until we cried, and we partied all that the

662
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: same time. You and everyone on your staff have a

663
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: great day. Bye bye. Well, really that's true. I haven't

664
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: seen his show in a number of years, and I

665
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: appreciate him giving me credit and everything like that. But

666
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: me being I have to get that probably not gonna

667
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: happen but no time in near future, because I'm gonna

668
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: demand and ask for free tickets, which is not gonna

669
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Speaker 1: be able to support his family in any way whatsoever.

670
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: So the fact that I'm gonna be at this show

671
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: ain't gonna make a damn bit of difference to his performance.

672
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: I've trained him to give his all in all in

673
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 1: his best, and I'm glad that he's finally getting the

674
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: accolades that he deserves. You don't get acculades you don't deserve.

675
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: When people call in and say they had the best

676
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 1: time they ever had it's cause they did. It's people's

677
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: having the wonderful time. So he's got a great show,

678
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: I understand from a lot of people. You know. Now

679
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: you're asking me to be impressed about it, and I

680
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: am impressed it His show us grown into this, you know,

681
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh God, I want to say something else, so get

682
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 1: out while we can. All right, Coming up next, it

683
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Speaker 1: is the nephew in the prank phone call for it today.

684
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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show.

685
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

686
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and

687
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: the subject is I cut him off and he stopped asking.

688
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about. Getting into that

689
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now the nephew is

690
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got new? Well, schirl.

691
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: Everybody on this show is married, except for Junior. Everybody married.

692
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Speaker 1: How would you feel if you got a call saying

693
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: you're married, old brother, You're married, yo brother. You gotta

694
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Speaker 1: call five, six years, ten years down the line and

695
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Speaker 1: they tell you that you married your brother. H caller.

696
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Speaker 1: If you found out Tosh was your brother? Got the call?

697
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Speaker 1: M how would you feel I got a lot of

698
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Speaker 1: questions because I'm an only child, so it's it's a

699
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: bunch right there, script right, right, right right, But I

700
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Speaker 1: feel y'all feel y'all be shocking, yes, right, all right,

701
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Speaker 1: Charlotte Nesto get the Carrsto is your brother? There's no way,

702
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: There's no way, Steve haf You get a call and

703
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: they say that miss mard is your sister. Missus Mardred

704
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: is your sister? How you gonna handle it? I'll take

705
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: that call, but I'm gonna act like I'm gonna act

706
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: like you never call right now, sorry, right right on

707
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: back in here, and police coach back right on, back

708
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 1: in his bed with him, with my little lake, with

709
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: my little sister. Freaky, can't let's go. You're married, but

710
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Speaker 1: I know I'm getting here, will Marge? My sister? I

711
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: seen my sister, okay, and nebody and my family looked

712
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: like this, Oh man, all right, let's go. Care dog,

713
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: you're married, your brother, you're married. Hello, Hello, I'm trying

714
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: to reach a yard. Carmon. This is she Hi, Carmen,

715
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: my name is Keith. Keep from calling you from the

716
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: insurance group. Hi, how are you good? You and your husband.

717
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: What is it, Harvey? Harvey? Is that right? Yes? Yes, Harvey. Okay,

718
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: you guys actually put applications and actually went in and

719
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: got your physicals done for Life for Insurance, right, Yeah, yeah,

720
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: that's correct. Okay. I actually I am calling you from

721
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Speaker 1: the insurance group. I have you alls live results and

722
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: everything as far as your physicals and blood tests and

723
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: things of that nature. Is there any way I could

724
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: possibly talk to both of you guys at the same time,

725
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: you and Harvey. Is that possible? Um? Well, sure he's

726
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: at right now, but I can get him on the phone. Okay,

727
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: it will be Uh, it'd be kind of easy if

728
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 1: I kind of explained everything to both of you guys

729
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 1: at the same time as if. That's okay, okay, so wrong,

730
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: h No, nothing's wrong. I mean I think I need

731
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: to just try to bring a few things to you

732
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: guys attention. But I think you know, after that, it's

733
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: pretty much you guys decision on what you do. But

734
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:46,919
Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you know a few things

735
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: about you know, the results and things of that nature,

736
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: Life Insurance, the whole nine yards. Okay, Okay, let me

737
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 1: shoot talking to him on the phone. Hello, Hey, maybe hey,

738
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: sweet All right, Um, look, I got the insurance people

739
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 1: on the line. They want to get both of us

740
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: on the phone to talk to us about the insurance stuff.

741
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: Oh hey, Harvey, are you doing this? Is Keith Keep

742
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: from the insurance group. How are you? Hey? Good with that? Nicky? Good? Good? Listen? Um,

743
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: I wanted to give you guys a call and kind

744
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: of follow up. You guys did physicals and blood tests

745
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: and the whole nine yards, and I wanted to give

746
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: you guys a call. It's kind of better if I

747
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 1: talk to both of you guys at the same time.

748
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 1: So if you have a minute that we could actually

749
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: use to kind of get some of this information out

750
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm fine, man, I'm gonna

751
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: break right now. I'm good. Okay. Great. First of all,

752
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: we've gotten all your your lab results back everything, and

753
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: I kind of got a few questions for you guys

754
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: that I'm a little puzzled on. How long have you

755
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: guys actually been married. We've been again for years, okay, now,

756
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: prior to being married three years? How long did you

757
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: guys know each other before you got married, say about

758
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: five and a half five six kids years? Okay, you

759
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: guys have been knowing each other pretty close to nine

760
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: years now all together. Yeah, okay, are you actually from

761
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: the same hometowns? You grew up in the same hometown? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

762
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: we grew up. I mean if I'm I'm sorry, is

763
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 1: this question? I mean, is this about the insurance or well,

764
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: I mean there are two things that's that's actually uh puzzling,

765
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 1: Carmen that we need to this. This is some news

766
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: that I actually didn't want to bring you, guys. I mean,

767
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: we have to. I have to actually give you this news.

768
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,760
Speaker 1: Looking at our records, looking at all the test results,

769
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: and let me be the first to tell you that

770
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: we run these results over and over and over, trying

771
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: to make sure we are completely one hundred and fifteen right, Okay,

772
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: it's a problem with the test. Well, looking at our test, guys,

773
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 1: Harvey a Garment, it's indicating that you guys are related.

774
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: And nine times I attend you are you guys are siblings,

775
00:49:52,480 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: old man? What O? And I understand the shot. It

776
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: took me. It took everything I had to make this

777
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: phone call. I did not want to make it. But

778
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: looking at our records, and we went over these records

779
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: over and over and then and the blow work told

780
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 1: us that you guys are actually siblings. Oh man, are

781
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: you serious? I'm actually my wife. You know this is

782
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: not a this is not a laughing matter, not a

783
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: joking matter. You know. Like I said, I did not

784
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: want to call with this information. What you did make

785
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: the call? Man? Look you, I don't know what. You

786
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: need to go back and and and double check your

787
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: records or something. Because we've been married three brief check

788
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,360
Speaker 1: with the laugh man, can you check with the laughing

789
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 1: like Paula's back, Harvey and I and I and I

790
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: knew those questions would have come up, and we we

791
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: went over it. We went over it and over and

792
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: over it. Y'all need to go over it again because

793
00:50:56,200 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: I got this. You make a call and this gotta

794
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: be wrong. So what you need to do is make

795
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: another call it called a lab and call us back

796
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: and let us know that you either. So they made

797
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 1: a mistake of fun. You're talking about me and my wife,

798
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: and I understand it hard, Harry. Let me ask you

799
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: this is it possible, you know, and this is just

800
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,919
Speaker 1: a question. Is it possible that your dad and maybe

801
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: her mom maybe knew each other at some point and

802
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: what you're saying about my mom and dad. That's some

803
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: straight look at you need to have go back and

804
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: do whatever you need to do. But I thank you

805
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: much you say something like that again, I tell you

806
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: my baby's gonna be coming down that beach O. I'm

807
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: saying like that, hold on baby, old baby, baby, baby,

808
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: hold on baby, I got this, hold on. I gotta baby,

809
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: I gotta baby. I gotta how you're gonna call me

810
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 1: with you what you don't know? You from people like that?

811
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 1: But that ain't I don't under doing, sir. It's bringing

812
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: you the result. So I don't you bring me the

813
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: results in person? And I bet I want you. That's

814
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Hey, sir, even if you beat

815
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: the messenger at the end of the day, that's still

816
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: your sister. At the end of the day. I'm gonna hut.

817
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: I don't care what he's talking about nothing. He ain't

818
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: my damn brother. I got it. I'm gonna find you

819
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: off whatever jupercle you in. You're gonna call me time,

820
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: my brother, it's my wife. I am calling that, sir.

821
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 1: Somewhere down the line, somebody made a mistake and you guys,

822
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: my brother and sister got married. I'm not at far

823
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: for that. Let me tell you that mistake to call.

824
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 1: He's in one of these numbers, a kid in your life.

825
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: So I got one more to result. I do need

826
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: to get you got hold what you've been talking about?

827
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: Then what else you got to say? Now that's gonna

828
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: be wasting me. The only other touch result I have, ma'am,

829
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Speaker 1: is that this is Nephew till me from the Steve

830
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your girlfriend.

831
00:52:54,560 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 1: I told you ain't like I thing. I got to

832
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: ask both of y'all what is the baddest and I'm

833
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, stew

834
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sam, I told you I ain't like all right, Nephew,

835
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letter.

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00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: The subject I cut him off and he stopped asking.

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00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now

839
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:44,720
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parents,

840
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Speaker 1: and more. Please okay, please submit your Strawberry Letter to

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Speaker 1: Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click Submit Strawberry Letter we

842
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air. When

843
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 1: you write us, you never know. This one could be yours.

844
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: All right, you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight.

845
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter.

846
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew's subject. I cut him off and he

847
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: stopped asking. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm married to a very

848
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,839
Speaker 1: stubborn man, and out of eight years of marriage, he's

849
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: ignored me for most of that time. I'm a charge

850
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: nurse and I've been really stressed out lately. As you

851
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: can imagine, I come home to my husband and I

852
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: expect him to listen to me event and console me,

853
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: but instead he has his head in his phone and

854
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: he tunes me out. I have asked him to do

855
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,280
Speaker 1: favors for me, or pick up grosceries and dry cleaning,

856
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: and he will lie and say he'll do it, and

857
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: when I asked him about it, he either says he

858
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: doesn't remember agreeing to do it, or he will say

859
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 1: he didn't have time to I got so fed up

860
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: with him that I stopped talking to him. He didn't

861
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: care because I was still having sex with him so

862
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: I could unwind at night. I realized he was enjoying

863
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: the sex and didn't have to deal with my mouth,

864
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: so I cut the sex off. He eventually started talking

865
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 1: to me and paying attention to what I had to say.

866
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: I played that game with him whenever I got really

867
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: irritated with him. Back in May, I had a colonoscopy

868
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 1: and he took me for the procedure and left me there.

869
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: I had to be put into a holding room because

870
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: the nurse couldn't find him. He eventually came to pick

871
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,839
Speaker 1: me up, and that was it for me. I had

872
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: had enough of him, so I went back to ignoring him.

873
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: He apologized and begged me for sex for the first

874
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: three weeks, and then he stopped. He seemed to be

875
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: okay without sex and his mood change. He lent me

876
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: vent to him and he started helping me out around

877
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: the house. I tried to reward him for good behavior

878
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: with sex, and he turned me away. I'm not sure

879
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: of what he's up to, but he will not but

880
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: he will not have sex with me. Now has my

881
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: ignoring game backfired? What is up with him? Well, I mean,

882
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: realistically speak, either he's getting it from somewhere else or

883
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 1: he's playing your game back at you. So you can

884
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: see how it feels. I know it's confusing to you

885
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: because in the midst of him now cutting you off,

886
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: he's still being nice to you. He's still being nice.

887
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: What does that mean? You've you've been with this man

888
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,280
Speaker 1: for eight years, and for the most of that time

889
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 1: you said he has ignored you. I mean, you said

890
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: that in the letters. So even though there's no proof

891
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: that he's cheating, he has changed significantly, and change in

892
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: behavior from a man could definitely be a sign of cheating,

893
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: proof or not. My question to you is why are

894
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 1: you still with this man? You've been basically single in

895
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: your marriage for all of these years. You said he's

896
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 1: ignored you for eight You've got no help from him,

897
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: and the simple things like picking up the dry cleaning

898
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 1: or getting groceries, and the big one, where was he

899
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: after your colonoscopy? Why did you have to be put

900
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: in a holding room? You yourself said that was it

901
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: for you. Well apparently not, because you're still there. And

902
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: now he's flipped the script on you. He's flipped the game,

903
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: and as you worried about what he's up to. So,

904
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: I mean, my advice is you got to talk to him,

905
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 1: because only he can tell you why he's turning you away.

906
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: And please do not expect him to be honest. If

907
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: he is cheating, he's not going to tell you the truth.

908
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: But again I say, you got to talk to him,

909
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: You got to find out what's going on. Then you

910
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 1: can make an informed decision on your next move, because

911
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: it's obvious you want to stay, you want to stay

912
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: married to him. Well, at least you did you know

913
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: when you were in control, when you were controlling him

914
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 1: with sex, So talk to him and find out what's

915
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: going on with him. Steve, Okay, all right, ladies, lay

916
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: Shirley and Colin. Let me ask you a question. Do

917
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: you want me to give a truthful answer to this letter? Yeah? Oh?

918
00:57:54,840 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: Do you want me to be blatantly honest? Both? But

919
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: I want the truth? Just the truth is good, honestly good. Yeah,

920
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: let's do both, Steve, I mean, is there a difference, really, yes?

921
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: And the truth and blatantly the truth? Always has kindly

922
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: said it. Blatant honesty is just brutal, hard, cool facts. Yeah,

923
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: And that's how your man talks to you. We sometimes

924
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: we're mostly truthful with you, and then when we're blatantly

925
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: honest with you, it's because we didn't have enough, and

926
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: you need to just hear it, which I like, Yeah, yeah,

927
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: which one? I like to hear the truth? I mean,

928
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: be honest, say it. Okay, Well it is he needs

929
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: give it to us, give it to the people. I'm

930
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: married to a very stubborn man, and out of eight

931
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: years of marriage, he's ignored me most of the time.

932
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm a charged nurse and I'm usually stressed out lately,

933
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: as you can imagine, I can't imagine with COVID. I

934
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: come home to my husband and I expect him to

935
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: listen to vent and console me, but in stead, he

936
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: had his head in his phone and he tunes me out.

937
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: I've asked him to do favors for me. First of all,

938
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: let's stop. You're ready for some honesty. Yeah, come on.

939
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: He don't like you. He don't like her. He doesn't

940
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 1: like her. He don't like her. He loves her, but

941
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: he don't like her. Who I believe it, he don't

942
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: like her. I have asked him to do favors for me,

943
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: pick up groceries, dry cleaning. He will lye and say

944
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: he'll do it, and then I asked him about it.

945
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: He just says he don't remember agreeing to it, or

946
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 1: he say he didn't have time to He don't like her.

947
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: He don't like her. He don't give a damn where

948
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: she won't. Yeah, he ignored her for eight years. He

949
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: loves her. He bringing the money in and they're paying

950
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: the bills. But he don't like her. He don't like

951
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: you no more. So I got fatter when I stopped

952
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: talking to him. He ain't care. Fine, you don't wanna

953
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: talk to me, Fine, I don't care. I don't don't

954
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 1: even like you. He don't like her. But I was

955
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: still having sect to him so I could unwind at night. Bam, cool,

956
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: got it, I got the cake. I ain't gonna talk

957
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 1: to you. Hold on, stick and I'm meeting it too.

958
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: We have a sex man. Coo. Yeah, hold on, Steve,

959
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at

960
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject of today's Strawberry letter.

961
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: And cut him off and he stopped asking. We'll get

962
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show,

963
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

964
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 1: The subject. I cut him off and he stopped asking.

965
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: I cut him off and he stopped asking. So now

966
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: I asked the ladies call in Sherley. I said, what

967
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: would you all want me to do? I could give

968
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 1: you a truthful answer. Oh, I can give you a

969
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: brutally honest answer. They said, what we want both? Well,

970
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: you can't do both, because see, when a man gives

971
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: you a truthful answer, it's always temperate with words of

972
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: kindness and not so revealing. We'll tell you the truth

973
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: without telling you the whole truth. See that's the difference,

974
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: and we know the different. If you want to be

975
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: blatant honest, then here it is in your face, no

976
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 1: sugar on it, no coating, and boom. So they asked

977
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: for the honest answer. So here we go. She just

978
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: found out that I'm trying to get this later. Understand something.

979
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: You've been eight years to a stubborn man. Mostly he's

980
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: a charge. She's stretched out. You come home, you expect

981
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: your husband to listen to him to you ben console,

982
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: and instead he got his head and his phone. He

983
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: tunes you out. You ask him pick up grocer to

984
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: do favors for you and dry cleaning. He a line say,

985
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: or dude, you come home, it won't be done, He'll say,

986
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: you either didn't tell him that or he'll just say

987
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: he ain't had time. All of this is because he

988
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 1: don't like her. You're married to a man that doesn't

989
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,160
Speaker 1: like you, and this is a message for a lot

990
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: of women need to hear this. See y'all be trying

991
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 1: to save your marriage, but you're saving your marriage and

992
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: the man may love you, but he ain't got to like.

993
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: He'd been stopped liking this woman a long time ago.

994
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:08,440
Speaker 1: It's things about her he don't agree to. So then

995
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: so she got fed up with him and she stopped

996
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: talking to him. He didn't care. You know why. He

997
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: didn't care because he don't like her. Who and then

998
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: I because I was still and he didn't care because

999
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: I was still having sex with him so I could

1000
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: unwind at night. I realized he was enjoying the sex,

1001
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: but he didn't have to deal with my mom because

1002
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: he don't care. He don't care. He love you, He

1003
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: has sex with you, but he don't like you. Know

1004
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: I many times man can have sex somebody don't like.

1005
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Ladies? A lot of y'all are

1006
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: married to men that don't like you no more, and

1007
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: you're fighting to hang on to this love. But this

1008
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: man don't like you no more. He don't like you

1009
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: and it's just crazy. Man, y'all need to understand this.

1010
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: That's why I asked, how you want me to read

1011
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: this letter to you. He don't like her, and I'm

1012
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: much you don't like her at all in this letter.

1013
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: So he didn't care because I was still having sexual

1014
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 1: and so I could wind a knife. I realized he

1015
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: was enjoying the sex and didn't have to deal with

1016
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: my mouth. So I cut the sex off and he

1017
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: eventually started talking to me and paying attention to what

1018
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 1: I had to say. That is because sex is important relationship,

1019
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: and sex is required by a man to deal with

1020
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: the unpleasant treats of the relationship. If you have good sex,

1021
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: we will put up with the unpleasant treats of the

1022
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: relationship if the sex is good. So when you cut

1023
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: the sex off, he said, oh, let me go on

1024
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: and talk to her, even though I don't like her.

1025
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: Let me listen to her so I could get back

1026
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: to having this sex and paying attention to what I

1027
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: had to say. I played that game with him whenever

1028
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: I got really irritated with him. Well back in May,

1029
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:57,160
Speaker 1: I had a colonoscophy. He took me for the procedure

1030
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: and left me there. I had to be put into

1031
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: a holding room. The nurse couldn't find him. He eventually

1032
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: came to pick me up, and that was it for me.

1033
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 1: Well three weeks now, three weeks that's been going on.

1034
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 1: But back in May, when you had the colonoscophy, you know,

1035
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: you get put out for a coldonosophy. Now you know what,

1036
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 1: He tied his game, So you did say in the

1037
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: beginning of phone he kept his head in his phone,

1038
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: what are he doing in the phone? Well, he'd made contact.

1039
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:26,479
Speaker 1: So now while you was out having the colonosophy, since

1040
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:28,840
Speaker 1: he don't like you, he went and got some stress

1041
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: relief while you was getting operated on a little run

1042
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: the run made a little run. Yeah, I'm just telling

1043
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: y'all what happened. Then he came back and pick you up,

1044
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: and you was done with him. I'd had enough of him,

1045
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: so I went back to ignoring him. He apologized and

1046
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: begged me for sex for the next three weeks. Then

1047
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: he stopped. He seemed to be okay without sex. Ain't

1048
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: no man okay without sex. Let's stop that right there.

1049
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 1: And his mood changed. He let me vent to him,

1050
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: and he started helping me out around the house. Well

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, that's weird, but you know why because

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01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: he was back to getting sex through and so now,

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01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: since I don't like you to throw you off, now,

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01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,479
Speaker 1: let me listen and talk to you at the house

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01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: and listen to your vintings so you don't get wise

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01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: to the fact that I got some sex outside the house.

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Speaker 1: Because I ain't gonna keep begging. You'll ask who I

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01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 1: don't like anyway, I'm not gonna beg somebody I don't

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01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: like for sex, but I can go somebody's house I

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01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 1: like and have sex, and I ain't got to be

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01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 1: in love with him. You understand what's happening here in

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Speaker 1: this letter. So he let me vining, he started to

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01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: help me out around the house. I tried to reward

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01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,680
Speaker 1: him for good behavior and sex, and he turned me

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01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 1: away because he's getting the reward somewhere else and he

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01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: can't use up his reward with somebody he don't like

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01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,959
Speaker 1: when he got to save it for that other girl

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01:05:55,040 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: over there who he do like. Y'all tripping. I'm not

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01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: sure what he's up to, but he would not have

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01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: sex with me. Now he ain't having sex with you?

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01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 1: How has my ignoring game back? Fried? He wouldn't got

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01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:17,040
Speaker 1: to sex from somebody he liked. He ain't like you,

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01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: know how? What's up with him? No? What's up with you? No?

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01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: They don't like each other. She liked this man, she

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01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: in love, but he loved you. But he don't like you.

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01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: He getting sex somewhere else. He don't give a damn Hi.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, And you want that little raggedy little

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01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: piece she was passing out? Wow? Pots your comments on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM. It's honesty and

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Speaker 1: at forty six minutes after the hour. It's Junior and

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Speaker 1: Sports Talk right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior.

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Speaker 1: What you got? Okay, Shirley. But let me remind everybody,

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Speaker 1: tonight is the night it is happening. The proclamation is

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Speaker 1: side of Atlanta. Man, it is happening. I'm going into

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Speaker 1: politics today. That's what all that means for me, is

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Speaker 1: that I'm getting into proclamation and I'm gonna be in

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Speaker 1: politics now because the cities is recognizing the great work

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Speaker 1: a smoke weekend. Yeah, it's going down to faith break.

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Speaker 1: Cuse all right, huk man, Reggie high boy. Oh the

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Speaker 1: sacks here we go. Uh MLB All Star we had finished,

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Speaker 1: you know the American League one three to two. That

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Speaker 1: was the game. John Carlos Stanton was the All Star

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Speaker 1: Game MVP. And there was no more scoring after the

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Speaker 1: fourth inning. It was three to two for the That's

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Speaker 1: the way they need something else when you watch a

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Speaker 1: baseball like they need another sport with it. I didn't

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Speaker 1: sit there another sort yeah, man, when in between indis

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Speaker 1: we need to running around the bases. They can cackle

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01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 1: your ass something, man, they gotta put something. It was

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Speaker 1: just six. It was just a three six, no scoring.

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Speaker 1: It was just empty. It was just nothing. It was

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Speaker 1: just that was it? So or like day could make

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Speaker 1: baseball more exciting, like like you have your outfielders out

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01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:32,720
Speaker 1: there the other team could put one of their outfielders

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01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, you could try to knock down balls,

1112
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Speaker 1: knock your ass, keep your keeping in the game. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: that way a pop fly be about. So yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh. In the NBA, UH, Hornets forward Mile Bridges

1115
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Speaker 1: was arraigned on charges yesterday, three charges of felony domestic

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Speaker 1: abuse and child abuse. Says he assaulted his girlfriend in

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01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,719
Speaker 1: front of their two children, and that's where they're adding

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01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: the out abuse charges. So let's pray for mount Bridges man. Yeah, man,

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01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 1: he's an unrestricted free agent with the Charlotte Hornets. You know. Look,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he's guilty or not, but just

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Speaker 1: based on the charge, young brothers, y'all can't put your

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Speaker 1: hands on these women. No, yes, yeah, this is in

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Speaker 1: front of the kids or out front of the kids.

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Speaker 1: The rule is you can't put your hands on a woman. Now,

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Speaker 1: if we don't stop teaching the rule, we need to

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Speaker 1: re implement it. It ain't the right thing to do.

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Speaker 1: No man, damn. Now, if that's what happened and you

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Speaker 1: put your hands on him, bro, you can't put your

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Speaker 1: hands on a woman. I don't know why y'all think

1130
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Speaker 1: that's cool. I ain't man, she can't hit me. That's true.

1131
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 1: She shouldn't hit you, but you definitely can't hit home. Period.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars us all right, switching gears here. Republican

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Speaker 1: lawmakers have a brand new proposal after the Supreme Court

1144
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: overturned Robe Wade in June. Prospective fathers now will have

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01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: to pay child support from the moment of conception. This

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01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: is a new bill, Like I said, It was introduced

1147
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 1: on July thirteenth, and both the Senate and the House.

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Speaker 1: It is called the Unborn Child Support Act and would

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01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 1: give mother is the ability to receive child support payments

1150
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: while they are pregnant. Under the proposal, a court could

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01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: award child support payments prior to birth and retroactively to

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01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:15,759
Speaker 1: the point of conception as determined by a doctor. According

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Speaker 1: to the statement, fraternity tests would be up to the

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01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: protect prospective mother. According to the statement, the bill is

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Speaker 1: co sponsored by a number of Republican lawmakers, including Senators

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01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 1: Marsha Blackburn of Tennessee and Mark Rubio of Florida. Now

1157
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: they can do all of that even though they don't

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01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: even know who the father is. A problem with that.

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01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,719
Speaker 1: When the baby's born, a man is asked to sign

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01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 1: the birth certificate. So now a woman who might be

1161
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 1: conflicted of who the father is, which happens oftentimes show

1162
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Speaker 1: on it. A woman can just pin this right and

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01:11:56,720 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 1: the guy of her choice, and all of a sudden,

1164
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: this guy is getting hit with child support payments. And

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01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 1: then what happens if he if the child is born

1166
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,599
Speaker 1: and there's a DNA and it's not his. See, you're

1167
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,120
Speaker 1: opening up a can of worms. Man, that's right here.

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01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 1: I think it's unfair, right if you give that money

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Speaker 1: back now if it's not his, no, and and and

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01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 1: get it back from who is the mother? Yeah, okay,

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01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:27,519
Speaker 1: what you think the chances of that happened? That's why. Yeah,

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01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 1: they can't fair. Yeah, they can't make her do that?

1173
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 1: You know? Is this asa to y'all? I got nothing

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Speaker 1: to do? I got nothing, Tommy. I think it's an

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01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: H and H issue nature. I think that's a Herschel

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01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: and Herschel, Herschel Walker and Terrence Howard Howard issue to

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01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: speak on this, right because he's are to one brother

1178
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: with issue and his brother and Terrenson turned into be

1179
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: quite aside man. You know, so what if this what

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01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: if you are not the father and this happens, That's

1181
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's the flaw in it, I know,

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01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:14,640
Speaker 1: I know. Yeah. I was asking Herschel and Howard or

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01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:18,400
Speaker 1: note nine nine nine nine right for this soul nine

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01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: nine nine just him. This is what happened between between

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01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: me and them. Keep what they be seeing about the

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01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: kids that they're seeing the mands, you know what I'm saying,

1187
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,320
Speaker 1: which is what happened betweenst us and then that's where

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01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: you get folks thinking I got sell me chigns and

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01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 1: that's just not ain't really ain't the total of what

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Speaker 1: it ill tears? Tears you signed sign put some sign

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Speaker 1: holy if you well, you know what the proclamations are

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01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: actually stated. I mean, for us, all the status or

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Speaker 1: protons and and neutrons get together, and you're going to

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01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 1: have a proximity of a situation like this. And I

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01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 1: got to be inclined to agree with my counterpart or

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Speaker 1: herschel here and that his children may very well be

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01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 1: a particularly environmental hazard of climate control. What I got

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01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: to do with you are not the father because when

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Speaker 1: that Chinese air gets in with American air and help

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01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 1: to add out these things. And I've created a proton

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Speaker 1: remove air. And you can see twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have this night after this you're listening to show,

1203
01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:51,679
Speaker 1: all right. So, after the outrage of a potential racial

1204
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Speaker 1: incident that went viral when a video of the Sesame

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01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: Street character Rosita snubbed and ignored two little black girls

1206
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:02,719
Speaker 1: during the parade at Sesame stre Placed in Philadelphia, Sesame

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Speaker 1: Street Place issued another statement promising to do better, saying

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Speaker 1: we are committed to making this right and the parks

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Speaker 1: that it will conduct training for employees to deliver an inclusive, equitable, equitable,

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Speaker 1: and entertaining experience for park goers. Meanwhile, the family of

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Speaker 1: the two little girls have now lawyered up ye down

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01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: and the kids. It's through with Street at this point.

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01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:33,680
Speaker 1: You got to teach people still to be inclusive. At

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Come on, they saw those little girls

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01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:41,040
Speaker 1: and more videos are coming up. Yeah, come you see

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01:15:41,479 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 1: from Street place. So this has happened often. Yeah, it

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01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,600
Speaker 1: wasn't the first time. That wasn't the first time that

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Speaker 1: little sesame Street character with the red one and the

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01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 1: baby with the baby with the no no no. There's

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01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: another one where where the mama snapped at you do

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01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 1: oh no, the big sessme Street and were hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: huh you see him right here? Baby got aesment street ass. Yeah. Characters,

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Speaker 1: you we kind of deal with people and characters like us. Well,

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Speaker 1: I got a word for you though. Tickle coming up,

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Speaker 1: coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: play around him. Would you rather? Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to show time now for would you rather? Would

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Speaker 1: you rather get a horse or a dirt bike as

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Speaker 1: your only means of transportation. Which one horse or dirt bike.

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01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to dirt dirt bike. I can feed

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01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 1: this horse. Feed him. You gotta hope his ass don't

1232
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 1: get scared of car. Horn your ass off? Not coming

1233
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Speaker 1: over here? Where in this saddle? Step on something, throw

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01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: my ass off. No, I'm gonna get this dirt by

1235
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 1: I'll come out the mall. He didn't want it off

1236
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Speaker 1: over there? Now, where are you gonna tie your horse up?

1237
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Speaker 1: At the moment? You know? All right? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: take a guaranteed one hundred thousand dollars guaranteed or a

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01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: fifty fifty chance at one million dollars. I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: that fifture. I take your yeah, yeah, guaranteed one hundred

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Speaker 1: thousand million. We're gonna get ten one hundred thousand. Okay,

1242
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 1: we're gonna Junior take that chance. Yeah, I had to me.

1243
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 1: I've had a hundred thous I ain't had to me.

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01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: He no risk, no reward. Okay, here we go take

1245
01:17:56,080 --> 01:18:00,040
Speaker 1: that riskm okay. Now you're just talking to me and

1246
01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:04,680
Speaker 1: me and gonna take a chance they will okay, all right?

1247
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 1: Would you rather forget your partner's birthday or would you

1248
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: forget your rather forget your partner's anniversary. You can't, you cat, No,

1249
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 1: you can't forgetting either one either want both of them

1250
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Speaker 1: is death. So it's just been on which birth which

1251
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Speaker 1: day is first in the year. You can die early

1252
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Speaker 1: or die later. Going with that birthday, it's January ninth,

1253
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Speaker 1: I'm going with that, right, I see. The anniversary is

1254
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Speaker 1: June twenty fourth. The birthday is October tien. I got

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Speaker 1: to nail both of them. Look man them two days

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Speaker 1: right there, it's the ones. I got to make them

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Speaker 1: biggest deal about. I can make a bigger deal about

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Speaker 1: that than Christmas. But she let her birthday come along

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Speaker 1: and that damn anniversary, and you know you got them

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Speaker 1: the two biggest deals. You can miss Valentine's Day. You

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Speaker 1: messed that up a little bit. Yeah, chill ass, bet not, dude,

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Speaker 1: though it's her damn birthday come along, you stupid as

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Speaker 1: oh today. Let them know, boy boy, that anniversary and

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Speaker 1: that birthday. I'm too bigger you. You can blow Christmas

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Speaker 1: and I don't advise it, but you can blow Christmas.

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Speaker 1: You can mess up Valentine's Day. I don't advise it.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell what you can't do Shirleys is the

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Speaker 1: same day, and she's forgot and that man birthday it's

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Speaker 1: the same day. For what. I didn't forget this. I

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Speaker 1: didn't forget. I just forgot how many years? Same thing? Yes,

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Speaker 1: same thing? All right? Oh, look at the time. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up, it's our last break of the day. I

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Speaker 1: didn't forget that, and we'll have some closing remarks from

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Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, guys,

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Thursday. A

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Speaker 1: good day, and thank you guys for listening, for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you so much. We love you, loyalty, loyal

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it for all these years. Steve. Hey, Dave,

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Speaker 1: can you pull the statement the lady made? Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: because I want to play it. Go ahead, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, So anyway, we're gonna turn it over

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Speaker 1: to you, Steve for closing remarks. You guys, you know

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Speaker 1: my clothing remarks today is going to be interesting because

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Speaker 1: I wanted to play back for anybody that missed it. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we do all voicemail calls, and this was a voicemail

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Speaker 1: call I got here. It is right now. Hi Steve.

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Speaker 1: My name is Sandra and I'm calling from the DC

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Speaker 1: or the d MV area. I'm sorry. So my question is,

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Speaker 1: please don't take a fit to this. But my question

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Speaker 1: is I listened to your morning show every day pretty much,

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Speaker 1: and I always listen to your words of encouragement after

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Speaker 1: the show. I want to know what makes you the

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Speaker 1: expert to feel like you can say these words of

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Speaker 1: encouragement to people. Are these things that you've been through?

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Speaker 1: Are these things that your family has been through? You know,

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Speaker 1: give me a little insight why you say the words

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Speaker 1: of encouragement that you do. From okay, tell tell me

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Speaker 1: I level. You know, after I heard that, I was

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Speaker 1: kind of a little set back, but not really even

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Speaker 1: how I handled it earlier. But after giving us some

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Speaker 1: thought and listening to it for the second time, I think,

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Speaker 1: really what she's looking for is just an insight. I

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Speaker 1: think she's a fan of the show. And then she

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Speaker 1: even said and then I missed this. I listened to

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Speaker 1: your closing remarks every day, and I think she's just

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Speaker 1: trying to find out really where it's coming from and

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Speaker 1: what's the basis behind it. So let me share it

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Speaker 1: with you what I think has happened to me. I

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Speaker 1: didn't always agree with the life God was giving me.

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Speaker 1: I didn't always agree with the hand that I was dealt.

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Speaker 1: I thought at times it was a bit excessive. I

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Speaker 1: thought that getting the marriages wrong was a mistake, mostly

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Speaker 1: on my part, but I thought he could have stepped in.

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Speaker 1: But then I learned that I didn't ask him to

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Speaker 1: step in. I thought that living in the car for

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Speaker 1: three years was a bit excessive, but I needed that time.

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Speaker 1: As I look back on my life to discover some

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Speaker 1: things about me. I didn't understand growing up in poverty.

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Speaker 1: I didn't understand that my entire career I've been questioned

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Speaker 1: at every level. I didn't understand why I've had to

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Speaker 1: do more in my career than some of my counterparts

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Speaker 1: who aren't black, and I had to excel in ways

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Speaker 1: to even get a fraction of the pay that they get.

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Speaker 1: I didn't get it, But I do now, at sixty

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Speaker 1: five years old, understand completely what has happened to me,

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Speaker 1: and as a realization, that has helped me because along

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Speaker 1: the way, I had to learn that my career was

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Speaker 1: what I was paid for, that my calling this what

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Speaker 1: I was made for. All those things that I didn't

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Speaker 1: have an understanding of that God was doing for me.

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Speaker 1: He was making me. I didn't know it. He was

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Speaker 1: shaping me, he was molding me. He was preparing me

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Speaker 1: for a day when I could honor him. In my

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Speaker 1: opening remarks of my show, in my closing remarks of

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Speaker 1: the show, why I could bear witness to His goodness,

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Speaker 1: his grace in my life, his mercy in my life,

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Speaker 1: his forgiveness in my life. All the times I remember

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Speaker 1: my mama was teaching to me as a Sunday school

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Speaker 1: teacher for forty years, I remember all those messages keep

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Speaker 1: coming back, and I've learned these lessons over and over

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Speaker 1: and over again, and I learned them experience to trial

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Speaker 1: and error. So to answer your question, yeah, that's exactly

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Speaker 1: why I feel like I'm able to share these things

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Speaker 1: because I've been through almost everything that I talk about.

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Speaker 1: I'd have had a full run, man, I really have.

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Speaker 1: My sixty five years has been packed, crowded, jammed, chopped,

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Speaker 1: full of experiences, to the point where I decided that

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Speaker 1: instead of at the end of the day just joking

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Speaker 1: my way out every night, that I would share with

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Speaker 1: somebody who might be going through some similar trials and

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Speaker 1: challenges that I've gone through, and just give them some antidotes,

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Speaker 1: some scriptures, some measures, some principles that I've learned over

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Speaker 1: the years that has helped and aided me through some

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Speaker 1: of the difficult times of my life because I've been

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Speaker 1: through what most people go through. Nah, I had a

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Speaker 1: two parent family home, so I don't know what it

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Speaker 1: is not to have a father. But I've been around

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Speaker 1: enough people that don't have fathers to realize that, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: that's got to be hard. Because if I didn't have

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Speaker 1: my daddy, and I was looking at him in that

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Speaker 1: casket at forty three, and I was sitting up here realizing,

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Speaker 1: there's no way I would have been who I was

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Speaker 1: it wasn't for that man right there. That experience right

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Speaker 1: there caused me to start the foundation to help single

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Speaker 1: mothers raise their boys without the aid of a father

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Speaker 1: in the house. That tragedy in my life, I turned

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Speaker 1: it into a purpose all my life. I can point

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Speaker 1: to you all this stuff, and the only reason you

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Speaker 1: can come to this conclusion that I've come to that

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Speaker 1: you've got to open yourself up to the will of God.

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Speaker 1: You got to really talk to God about your purpose,

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Speaker 1: because I've often said this, the two most important days

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Speaker 1: of your life is the day you born and the

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Speaker 1: day you discover why. I had enough sense and wisdom

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Speaker 1: to ask God, why, why Lord did you make me?

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Speaker 1: Why did you cause me to go through this? Why

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Speaker 1: have you allowed me to reach the heightside beach? And

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Speaker 1: he slowly started turning the pages and say, because I

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Speaker 1: made you for this, I want you to turn around,

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Speaker 1: want you to share this information. I want you to

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Speaker 1: teach this to people. I want you to tell somebody

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Speaker 1: about me. That's why I'm qualified to do the closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly why. Thank you for your call, ma'am. And

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Speaker 1: I don't take offense to it at all. Those are

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Speaker 1: my clothing, mall. And see right there, I've grown up

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Speaker 1: to a better person because twenty years ago i'd have

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Speaker 1: licked your ass up. Thank you for calling. She knows you,

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Speaker 1: though she listens, she's a twenty years ago. For all

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Speaker 1: Steve every contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited participants

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Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old,

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