1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: It is time for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and you 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: can click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be reading 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like I'm going 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now. You never know, 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: it could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We guided for you here. It 9 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: is Strawberry letter. Subject I need both of them, and 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: I need to do a disclaimer before we read this letter. 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: If you have small children, you don't want them to 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 1: hear this. Cover up their ears. Okay again, the subject 13 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: is I need both of them. Dear Stephen Shirley, My 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: husband and I have been through hell and back in 15 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: our short four year marriage. He cheated on me first, 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: and then I cheated on him. When I cheated, I 17 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: got caught in the act. And the guy I cheated 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: with writes motorcycles with my husband. How it happened was crazy. 19 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: We want to a biking event and my husband got drunk, 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: so his friend brought us home. His friend helped me 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: get him into bed. Then we went outside to smoke 22 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: some weed. I hadn't had sex and months because my 23 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: husband cheated on me. I got so high. I started 24 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: telling his friend all of our business, and then some 25 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: kind of way, we ended up on the side of 26 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: the house, naked from the waist down. I was hooking up. 27 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: I was hooking him up when my husband started calling 28 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: my name, and when he came to the side of 29 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: the house, we didn't have time to pull our pants 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: up or run. We were busted. I told my husband 31 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: I was sorry, and then he surprised us by telling 32 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: us to finish because he wanted to watch. We couldn't 33 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: work under that pressure, so I got dressed and went inside, 34 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: and he encouraged his friend to come inside and finish 35 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: me off while he watched. I think this is something 36 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: they've done before, because they were both to come bol. 37 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: We started having sex, and then my husband joined in. 38 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: This was my first threesome with two men, and I 39 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: can't believe my husband allowed this. A few days later, 40 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 1: he decided to bring it up and asked me to 41 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: be honest with him. I told him I need the 42 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: both of them every once in a while to keep 43 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: things interesting. He said it was fine and he'd be 44 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: he'd he'd bring a female over sometime so that he 45 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: can have some fun too. I shut it down and said, 46 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: I only want him and his friend. Now he's acting jealous, 47 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: So why did he start all of this? That's what 48 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: he wants, don't you see it. That's what he wants. 49 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: I mean, some kind of way. We ended up on 50 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: the side of the house, naked from the waist down. 51 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: I thought that was really like the craziest line in 52 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: the letter. But there is more. I mean, there's a 53 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: lot of them in here. Your husband asked us to 54 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: finish you off so he could watch. Then I'm thinking 55 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: this is really working out for your favor because hubby 56 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: is on board with all of this, and he's joining in. 57 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: And he didn't kill you, guys, he didn't kill his friend. 58 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: He didn't kick you out, he didn't divorce you, he 59 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: didn't give his friend a beat down any of that. Nothing, 60 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: nothing normal happened in this letter. So I'm thinking, since 61 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: both of you are cheaters and you like threesomes and 62 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: all of this, and your husband likes watching and all 63 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: of that, although you know he can't bring females in 64 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: because you shut that down, it just sounds like you 65 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: guys are in some sort of open marriage and you 66 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: don't know it. You know, you just haven't named it yet. 67 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: This is what swingers do. They share their mates with others, 68 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: and that's what you guys are into. So I just 69 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: say go ahead, put a label on it and own it, 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: because that's what this crazy marriage is, okay, and it 71 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: is what it is. You guys are into sharing period. Steve. 72 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: You know the problem with this letter, it's at the 73 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: question at the end, and it's at the answer to 74 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: that question at the end is also how the letter begins. 75 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: The question at the end is so why did he 76 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: start all of this? Why did he start all of this? 77 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: Is the question. Well, let me tell you what happened 78 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: at the top of the letter. They've been in a 79 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: back and forth, short through hell and back relationship from 80 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: for your marriage. He cheated on me first, then I 81 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: cheated on him. When I cheated, I got caught in 82 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: the act. And the guy I cheated with rides motorcycles 83 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: with my husband. That's a lot of information we didn't 84 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: even out of paragraph one. This letter is hacked with 85 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: facts and we not even matter. Did you hear me? 86 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: So that when you go back to the end of 87 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: the letter, and it goes, so why did he start 88 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: all this? What he cheated on me? First? Then I 89 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: cheated on him. Then when I cheated, I got caught 90 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: in the act. And the guy I cheated with ride 91 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: motorcycle with my husband. That ain't all he ride, or 92 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: it ain't just motorcycles. He's a rider. He just a riding. 93 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: He read it up what you want to do. He 94 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: ride bikes, He ride trailer holmes, he ride on He 95 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: do sidewalling on side of houses. He uh, he streaks. Oh, 96 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: he do sir, nervous calls. He got a tuck in 97 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: service at night for drunk men that need to be 98 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: tucked in bed. This this is just an amazing letter. 99 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: So when I come back, I want to share with you, 100 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, because like I told you, y'all, y'all went 101 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: to a biking event. Your husband got so drunk that 102 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: his friend bought y'all home, and his friends helped me 103 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: get him into bed. See that's a service. That's a 104 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 1: nice friend. Then y'all went outside smoking weed. See that 105 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,679 Speaker 1: right there, her plug. He helped you get your husband 106 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: in bed. He got weed. She was high, Steve, she 107 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: was so high, alright, I ain't never been. Let half 108 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: of Steven's response, coming up at twenty three minutes after 109 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: be our Strawberry letters, subject today, I need both of them. 110 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening show, 111 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today strawberry letter. 112 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: I need both of them as a subject. This letter 113 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: so crazy. Uh, This lady been been through hell back 114 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: and forth in a short fold year marriage. He cheated 115 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: on me first, then I cheated on him. Then when 116 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: I cheated, I got caught in the act. The guy 117 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: cheated with riding motorcycles with my hood. That sounded like 118 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: that movie Smoking the Bandit where Jackie Gleason was describing 119 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: how he was chasing bird rynams across the country. He 120 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: got charges on him. He was eating that sandwich, give 121 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: him my give me that the out blue sandwich. He was. 122 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: He had a cross state line to gut him for kidnapping, 123 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: high speed chasing, distraught police property. So this is what 124 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: I left with the lady husband. See how this sounds. 125 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: That's a funny part to me. So now let's move 126 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: on down the letter. So they went outside after he 127 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: tucked the husband in bed, who got drunk at the 128 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: bottom at the motorcycle riding event. His friend got your husband. 129 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: Your husband got so drunk. He helped you get him 130 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: in the house and tuck him in bed. Then y'all 131 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: went outside to smoke some weed. You ain't had sex 132 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: in months because your husband cheated on him. I got 133 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: so high, I started telling his friend all our business, 134 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: and then some kind of way to hit the part 135 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: right here, like you don't know right, some kind of way. 136 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: We ended up on the side of the house, neked 137 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: from the waist down. What you got to take them 138 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: damn motorcycle boots off. You got to take them chaps off. 139 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: You gotta get them tight and jeans off. You gotta 140 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: get that motorcy like a vest off. But you from 141 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: the waist down. So you got the honor your club. 142 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: So you gotta keep your vest onft on it. So 143 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: you got your motorcycle patch on it. You can't disrespect 144 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: the patch. That's like burning American flag to a heel bit. 145 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: So now y'all necking from the waist down. H I 146 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: was hooking him up when my husband started calling my name, 147 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: And when he came to the side of the house, 148 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: we ain't had time to pull our pants up or run. 149 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: I've never been in that position ever. I can't run, 150 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: but so you so comfortable that took your clothes off 151 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: and folded him up on the ground in a pie. 152 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: I got to have a lead one league, get something. God. 153 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: So now we didn't have time to pull our pants 154 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: up and run. We were busted. I told my husband 155 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and then he surprised us by telling us 156 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: to finish because he wanted to watch. That was a surprise. 157 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: You surprised everybody in the letter with that one. Yeah, 158 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: we we went. We couldn't work under that pressure. So 159 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: I got dressed and went inside, and he didn't carriage 160 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: his friend to come inside and finish me off while 161 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: he watched. I think this is something they've done before, 162 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: because they were both too comfortable. Wait a minute, that 163 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: was your takeaway. Your us were told another man to 164 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,599 Speaker 1: come in the house and finish you off. Your takeaway 165 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 1: is I think they've done this folk because they were 166 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: comfortable and you wouldn't. Right, pants are? So now we 167 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 1: started having sex? What? Yeah? Yeah, lady, you go along 168 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: with all this. We started having sex, and then my 169 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: husband joined in joined it in. Ye man, somebody doing 170 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: my wife, and then I tap in like you had 171 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: a dance with white people, welcome, tap them on the shoulder, 172 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: my turn. You had one of them white dances now 173 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: where they tap in, you had the bowl regard ball 174 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: or something. I said, that was my first threes with 175 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: two men, and I can't believe my husband allowed this. 176 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: A few days later, he decided to bring it up 177 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: and ask me to be honest with him. I told 178 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: him I needed both of them every once in a 179 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: while to keep things interesting. He said it was fine, 180 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: and he'd bring a female female over some time so 181 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: that he can have some fun too. I shot that down. 182 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: We ain't doing all that. I don't know who you 183 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: think I am. What type of woman you think I 184 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: am bringing another woman up in here? I just want misses, 185 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: that's what she drew the line. Yeah, draw this line 186 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: up in here. There's gonna be three people in the verage, 187 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: gonna be two minuses and meat. That's weird anyway, because 188 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: once I'm naked, I could be the only one with 189 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: a body part that looked like mine in that room. 190 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that right now. And yeah, it 191 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: can't do two people in here with zippers, No so 192 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:39,719 Speaker 1: we have several people in here with a dress on, 193 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: but it can't be one dude didn't here with no 194 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: damn zipper if we talk about getting naked. So, lady, 195 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: I ain't got no advice to you. Your question is 196 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 1: why did he start all this? The question is why 197 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: did you finish all this? Yeah, that's the question. Thank 198 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: you all right, Steve, Thank you leave your comments today. 199 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 1: Please on the Strawberry Letter on Instagram, Steve Harvey at 200 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: FAM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 201 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: They're coming up next. It is Junior with Sports Talk. 202 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to The Day Harvey Morning Show.