WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: 2nd Chance Scott + Mysterious Wallet Situation 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.600 Hey, it's Saturday. We know you need your fix. Okay, 0:00:02.680 --> 0:00:04.440 it's Brooke and Jeffrey and you found the Second Date 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:08.680 Update podcast. Maybe you're doing laundry, catching up on chores, 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:10.760 going for a run. That's why we're gonna give you 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:15.680 double the second date today. We got to the second date. 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:18.919 Second, Yes, second second date. There we go. 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.320 Yeah, we got two back to back classics for you 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:24.919 to enjoy today and hopefully it makes your day a 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.280 little bit better. It all starts right now. 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:30.360 I think people get a lot of credit for all 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:33.680 the good things that they do, but should don't we 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:39.199 also deserve credit for the bad things that we didn't do. Oh, Jay, 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:42.559 I agree. I definitely think so. Because one of our 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.080 listeners went on a beach date with a beautiful woman 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.880 and you're gonna hear the one thing he did not do. 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:50.360 Oh, we're gonna applaud him for it. 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:53.040 Well, he deserves kudos for that. We're still gonna judge 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:55.800 him for even thinking it. In fact, our audience might 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:58.400 freak out once they hear what it was. But bottom line, 0:00:58.440 --> 0:00:59.680 he did not do it. 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:01.880 Okay, that makes it feel like he did. Jeff, you 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:02.680 keep saying that. 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.000 Promise you he did, and you can be the judge 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:06.679 when you hear it in your second date. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:11.760 Update, next second date updated, Brook. 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.000 Do you believe people deserve second chances? 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:14.679 Yeah? 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:16.160 Why do you think I'd be here with you if 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:16.600 I didn't? 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:19.440 Does that mean. 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:21.360 Chance? 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:25.440 Okay, I don't know what I did. I'm serious though, 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.160 If somebody makes a mistake, are you willing to let 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.480 bygones be bygones and give him a fair shake? 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:33.160 Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know, 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:35.479 like if you talk things out. I think you can 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:36.440 always work through something. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.200 Is amazing. We have a return caller on the phone 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.600 today named Scott, who you were not too happy with 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:43.880 the last time he was on the second if you 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.319 have an apology ready, because he put a little blue 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:49.320 pill into his own drink at the dinner table and 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:52.880 you use the word creep to describe him, So maybe 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:56.280 we need to start with an apology from Brook to Scott. Here, 0:01:56.360 --> 0:02:00.120 go ahead, Broke, you said you believed in second chance. 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.280 Especially here's my question. 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.320 Have you yes? 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:04.840 Yes? 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:08.880 Yes? Communication, I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:12.160 gonna happen. But what will happen is if you have 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:15.919 stopped sneaking those pills into your drink at the first date. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.280 Your drink. 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:21.000 Still not cool, Jeff? 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:22.840 Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott? 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.440 You know, I think I've gotten a lot better since 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:26.519 the last time we talked. 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:30.600 Okay, So, now does he get the apology for what 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.720 he was big enough to look past all the mean 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.880 things that we called him on the show and give 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:39.200 us another chance. I think we should give him another 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:44.400 chance with his dating life here. Okay, Well, a little 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:46.240 bit of a rough room, but welcome back. 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:50.239 Yeah, you're good, man, You're good. 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:53.880 I think you should. Okay, Well, so apparently you've reached 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.080 out because there's a new woman that you met. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:56.920 Yeah. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:58.400 Yeah, her name is Mandy. 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.600 Okay, okay, how'd you meet Mandy? 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:05.720 I was shopping at a hardware store. She comes up 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.200 to me and asked me about like the stuff I'm 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:13.000 looking at, like she needs help. Maybe I looked like 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:16.000 I was dressed like I worked there or something, or 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:17.240 maybe just. 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:17.760 Being a guy. 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.240 I'm sorry if you're wearing a polo shirt in one 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.520 of those stories automatically. 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:25.040 Fake, Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white Polo shirt. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.360 Well this is I mean, it's given you the perfect 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:29.960 chance to talk to her, So what do you do? 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.799 Well, you know, I thought she was cute and I 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.480 was like, look, I don't know it works. I'm sorry, 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:37.960 I barely know what i'm looking at here. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:39.720 That's good. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:42.440 But I thought she was cute. 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:43.640 And I told her that, and I asked if she 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:44.320 would go out. 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:48.520 She said yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.160 you end up seeing her for an actual date? 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:50.960 Yeah? 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:55.360 We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing something stupid. 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:59.480 Okay, that should always be That is such a good 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:00.760 lessons from the show. 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:02.200 Yeah, so what was the date? 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:03.840 Like, we went to the beach. 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:05.920 O interesting? 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:08.520 Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:13.440 people watching, and I thought it would be funny if 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.880 we were like started to rate the women who walked by. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.680 Oh god, I didn't. You didn't do that. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:20.599 I didn't do it. 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.800 Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:23.120 with it. 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.240 You know, I want you guys to know all the 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:26.600 bad ideas I didn't do. 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:29.880 This is growth. 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:31.640 This is exactly what we wanted from you. 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:32.280 Hard for. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:34.480 Your thoughts. 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:37.880 Okay, a worse idea that you had than that? 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:39.040 What else didn't you do? 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:40.160 All? 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:40.440 Right? 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:43.039 So, like the sun started to set and I brought 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.720 my camera. I like to take pictures and stuff, and 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:50.680 I started to photograph the sunset. Okay, okay, what I 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:52.880 wanted to do was ask for a model for me. 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:54.039 Didn't do that? 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:55.160 Oh you didn't. 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.080 Well, it's not too bad. I mean some women would 0:04:58.080 --> 0:04:59.880 be flattered by my picture. 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:04.680 Different. Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:08.400 them to model. Hey, get out of my frame. Trying 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:09.240 to capture the sunset. 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.200 Don't make me get more in my head. I tried 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:11.760 to do my best. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.720 Yeah, that was a good thing. Anything else. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.599 I also didn't tell her about the camera because, like, 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.560 I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.120 can go on for days about the text specs of 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:23.719 the camera. 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.920 Camerapt Alexis are not hot. 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:28.400 I don't know. 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:32.400 You don't know what to do. Just talking about the 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:38.599 different of the camera. That was a good choice. Don't 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.800 tell her about the details of your camera. Good call. 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:45.520 Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices. 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:46.600 Didn't bring that up. 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:50.320 Are you focused on the date? Did you talk much? 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:50.599 Yeah? 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:51.560 What did you talk about? 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:52.360 What did you do? 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:53.960 Well? 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:58.159 I mean we talked about like our recent dating history. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:00.600 I've been on a lot of dates she's only been 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.000 on one lately. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:05.680 Do you think did that rubb her the wrong way 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:05.960 at all? 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.040 Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:11.039 on as many dates, I sort of backed off and 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:12.400 didn't like go into detail. 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:14.320 Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want tound that. 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:16.400 I didn't tell her that I was on the radio 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:18.599 and what I was on the radio for. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.240 For your last ones. 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.440 You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:24.600 do you end this night with? Mandy? 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:28.240 Walked her? Actually she walked me to my car first. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:32.120 I guess we gave each other a hug. Okay, I 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.920 consider taking out the guitar from my trunk to play 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:39.360 a song, but I did not do it. Did I 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:42.039 learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that. Women 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:43.320 don't like that? 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:44.600 All right? 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:46.320 Maybe not till like the third or fourth day. 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:48.719 Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty sound. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:50.560 Overall? 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.080 That sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then? 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:53.719 You know? 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.560 I thought it went well too, but nothing radio silence. 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:57.280 Haven't heard a thing. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:07:01.039 Wow. Interesting if you were just like two up in 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:03.320 your head and you were able to actually be yourself, 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.640 you know, like I feel like the whole time, you're 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.000 telling yourself what not to do, not how great you are. 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:10.600 Yeah, maybe you should bust out those blue pillars again 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.800 and see how it goes. It's back on board. Okay. 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:15.720 Well, you know, you guys made me think that maybe 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:16.559 I'm not so great. 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:21.800 So we didn't think that, No, I didn't. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:24.880 He made me good, tossed her out. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:30.360 Well, how's a bad assumption to make on a first. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:33.960 Date, as he redeemed himself from the creep label in 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:34.400 this state. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:37.800 So far, Yeah, we haven't talked to her. 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:40.960 Yet, Jeff, all right, so so far it's pretty good. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:42.560 We're gonna get the rest of the story when we 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.560 call Mandy for you and try and get you your 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:48.040 second date update right after this. Okay, sounds good. All right, 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:49.280 don't move, you creep. Here we go. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:52.440 Second date update. 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.200 If you missed the first part of the second date, 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:58.160 we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.800 with us. He went down a lit of things he 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:05.200 considered but did not do on his date with Mandy, 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.400 including he didn't ask her to rate the other women 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.560 on the beach on a scale of one to ten. 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.440 He thought about it, but to his credit, didn't do it. 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.880 You did credit when you think about it. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:22.240 Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also, 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:24.920 when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug, 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.520 he considered taking out his guitar for a little John 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:31.400 Mayer serenade, but said, no, Brooke wouldn't like me to 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:31.760 do that. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:34.280 I actually probably would have felt for that if I 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.320 was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry, 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:39.040 I'm a sucker for a guitar. That was a stereotype. 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:39.560 I really am. 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:45.480 Well, so, Scott, if we call her and she says 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.080 that you whipped it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.880 because I thought you made significant growth here. And that's 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.560 not a little blue pill joke. That's just an honest 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:58.640 observation of you. 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:00.679 No, there is something wrong in my head head. I 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:05.440 just saying that you're saying with a clean thought. 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:10.199 That's you projecting what you want to hear. That has 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:13.360 nothing to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.880 Scott has turned a page. The only weird part is 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:18.800 his date, Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards. So let's find 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.040 out what that's about. Scott. You ready to do this. 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:22.360 Let's do it. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.720 Look at that you did the whole first half not 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.360 getting shamed for anything. Scott. I think this is already 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:28.400 a good sign of how this. 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.960 He's only said three words. If anything, Brooke is the 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.679 creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts. So there we go. 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:41.760 I keep the thoughts inside. Jack just said that that's 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:42.080 a win. 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.080 You said. Okay, there we go. We're all in the 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:44.720 winning page. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:44.920 Here. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.520 Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:57.680 Hello. 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.200 Hi is this Mandy? 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.240 Yes speaking, Hey Mandy. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.520 This is a radio show. My name is Jeff and 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.040 I'm part of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:08.280 Sorry you're what? 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:10.360 Sorry? Did I say that? Weird? 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:11.360 Hey Mandy? 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:15.360 Hey, there's a random person in the background who just 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:16.240 said hi to you. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:16.800 On the vote. 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:18.760 Told her who I was. 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:22.520 I guess technically we work together. Yeah, that's Brooke. I'm 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:24.800 Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:26.040 with a whole room full of people. 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.040 Yeah, Alexis are here too. 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:32.440 Hell, what what are you calling me about? 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.160 Okay, you get right to it. So, uh, this is 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.320 called the Second Date Update. It's a segment where we 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:41.200 try to help our listeners reconnect with somebody after they've 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.080 gone out with them once, and you went out with 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:47.040 a guy who listens to our show name Scott. 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:51.840 Yeah, so what Oh well. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:54.880 Well, so Scott had a really good time at the 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:56.880 beach with you, and he was hoping that. 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.439 It wasn't a nice time. 0:10:58.600 --> 0:10:58.959 It was. 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.679 It was fun. I won't speak badly on anybody. It 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:03.000 was a nice time. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.440 Okay, Well, if you had a good time. We're just 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:08.160 trying to help Scott figure out why there hasn't been 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:08.840 a second date. 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:10.560 Yeah, he wants to see you again. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:14.600 The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.439 which we appreciate because we want to keep the word 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:20.400 radio relevant. But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:22.040 is there a reason? 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:25.840 Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious. 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:29.559 It was just a complete turn off for me that 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.840 he had been on eight dates already this year, that 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:36.360 he's just kind of juggling all these women, whereas I'm 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.680 in a different place. I've only been on one date. Like, 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:41.520 it's just felt like different life for arenas. 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:44.800 He's been on eight dates and that's too many for you. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.600 Yeah, I mean, he's just what if he have like 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:48.640 a little rollo deck. 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:53.000 That's not like you could still count that on two hands. 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:54.040 I think that's fine. 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.360 I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person. 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:01.520 I'm not into the short term casual dating that a 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:04.079 lot of guys are looking to hook up nowadays. I'm 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:05.520 not looking for that. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:07.160 But do you know that even hooked up with all 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.719 those people or was it just like a It could 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.200 just be bad. It doesn't even mean did he say 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:12.400 up with them? 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:14.439 He had a look in his eyes if he kind 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:19.560 of implied it. I wasn't going to ask guys. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.400 We can guarantee that one of those dates he did 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:22.040 not hook up. 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:26.320 Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah, 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.560 it hasn't worked out for him. But you're saying he's 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:31.080 coming across like a player to you. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.160 Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:37.040 hour or two with somebody, you know what you need 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:39.000 to know. You know if it's right and if you 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:40.720 want to make things a little more serious. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.240 So if he was. 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:46.160 Willing to commit to something a little more serious, I 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:48.720 would say yes, But it sounds like he dates a 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.800 lot and he's not looking for something like that. 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.360 Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.040 current dating situation is. All we know is that he 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:59.400 reached out to us to get another date, specifically with you. Yeah, 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.880 so that should tell you something and we should probably 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:04.800 ask him about it if he does have a giant 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:06.760 roster of girls that he's seeing, Because he is on 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:11.920 the phone right now hand over here, he's listening to 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:13.640 this and wants to talk to you. 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:27.120 Yeah, hey, man, going hied it on. I just loven't 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:31.000 expecting to be having this conversation in this format. 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:36.000 Yeah, I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:37.000 just think I'm a player? 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:39.600 Yeah, I'm not. 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:41.040 You. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.760 I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:45.600 to be with. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:50.280 Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport, Yeah, 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:51.080 just for fun. 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.240 You can date for fun. That's okay too. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.959 I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour. 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:00.160 It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:02.559 willing to even consider going out with you is if 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.800 you agree to, like right now, not see anybody else 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:08.679 and give it one hundred percent with her. Is that 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:09.360 something that's. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.760 A big assumption, Jeff, Are you sure that's what she's. 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.400 Saying, that's what I'm hearing. Is that right, Mandy? 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:18.080 I mean, yeah, I had a feeling when I was 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.400 on the date. I don't know if that was mutual. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.800 What was the feeling, just that I could see myself 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.920 with this person. I could see this progressing into something real, 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:28.960 So see chemistry. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.400 You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.600 and you're not in that phase of dating. 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:35.880 Right exact, And I'm not looking to get her so 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:36.760 quick to give. 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:37.800 Up on it? I know. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.200 Well, you were turned off because you thought that he's 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:42.240 dating lots and lots and lots of women all right now. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:44.680 You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women. 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:46.600 Yeah, if it's me, it's me. 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:49.320 Okay. So, Scott, is that something that you're even willing 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:52.000 to consider dropping any other girl that you're talking to 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:55.080 right now and only focusing on Mandy to clear the roster? 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:58.600 Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now. 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:03.360 Good answer, Okay. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.040 Mandy, he was already only talking to you. 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:05.960 Maybe we should just go right to this then and 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:08.960 ask Mandy, would you consider going out with Scott again? 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.400 If he says right now he is willing to commit 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:16.560 one hundred percent to you, not anybody else is scary. Basically, 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:21.480 agree to enter a relationship on this not potentially you 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:24.000 have to give in right now, one hundred percent, give 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.040 yourself to her. I'm trying to have am I off, Mandy. 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:27.880 I'm sorry. 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.960 I feel like you're a little laughing at me. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.000 But like that is what i'd like. 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.800 Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out. What 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:36.400 do you say? 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:37.480 Why not? 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:38.480 Let's give it a shot. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:40.600 That's why not? Yeah? 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:42.480 I mean why not? 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:43.800 He has no other options right now? 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:51.400 Congratulations, Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you. 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:52.120 Yeah. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:56.520 Look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't commit 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:59.320 this early, but I honestly I want to spend more 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:01.640 time with you. 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:03.680 Isn't that nice? 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:04.320 Excited? 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:10.000 I'm glad you said that you were really open and 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:12.720 vulnerable on your end, So I'm going to be that 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:18.120 way with you that technically I'm engaged. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.640 Wait, what my god? 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:22.600 That's why I need the commitment. That's why I need 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.040 the buy in. So I plan to end it with. 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:29.800 Him on what was your explanation? Why? 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.520 Like, that's why I need to know if he's in 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:33.640 this or not with me. 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:40.400 Your engage because she needs to know if the backup 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.520 plan is sad before she dumps the Curry guys. 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:44.560 Is that what's happening? 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:49.440 She's crazy, But Scott, you don't need to listen to them. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.520 I'm just really excited to spend time with you. 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:53.840 No, we're not hanging out. 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:56.000 Okay, maybe, Scott, Now you should tell you wanted to 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:57.400 rate all the other women on the beach. 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.320 I did, No, you wanted to. 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.239 Okay, Well, the good news is, Scott, at the end 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.359 of the day, the big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong. 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:09.480 He did nothing wrong. 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.959 He just ended up with a strict, controlling, pre engaged 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:15.000 kind of nut job. So can grads engage? 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:15.760 Very engaging? 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:19.640 Gage, you have fun, you too. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:21.840 I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:23.720 your fiance is and he give me his number. 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:26.920