WEBVTT - The Toxic Avenger 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.960 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dengler Dared Haven and 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:12.240 I heard radio podcast What is up? Everyone? Welcome to 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.600 an all new episode of Help I Suck At Dating. 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:18.520 We have a very very special episode for you today. 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:21.919 Not only do we have the lovely Courtney Robertson calling 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:24.080 into coast with us today, but we also have one 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:30.840 of Jared's buddies from Bachelor in Paradise, Australian joining us. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:34.560 Another strip on the boy Dean, shall we that was terrible? 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.960 Before you embarrass yourself anymore? Um, I want to see 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.800 if if Courtney is here. I think she's here. Courtney 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.720 are either can you hear me? We can hear you, 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:51.000 but we can't see you. Hang on start video. Oh 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:54.080 you know, fantastic, just another day. How the hell are you? 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:58.960 Oh Courtney, It's good to see you again. I do 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:01.760 want to say for the listeners out there, funny, weird, 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:05.920 a little coincidence. Back in October two nineteen, my best 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:08.440 friend's sister was getting married and so in Hawaii, and 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.399 so Caitlin and I went to Hawaii and while we 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:13.560 were there, Courtney and her now husband were also vacationing 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.400 there in the same hotel, the same hotel. Yeah, it was. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:21.000 It's wild. I think it was like right after your season, right, yeah, yes, 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:24.280 right after Paradise. My now husband. We were walking down 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.160 the beach and hughes he saw you guys. It's like, 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:30.920 I think it was Baby's like, no way. I was like, 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:34.240 I was actually a little star struck. Oh my gosh, 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:38.919 get out of heresy. I was like, were a picture. 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:42.360 That's late. We got a picture at the end of 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:43.640 at the end of the day. But it was funny 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:46.720 because Kitlin I think recognized you as well, and she goes, 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.720 I think that's Courtney. Uh. And I never really watched 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:50.760 the show, so I was like, oh, I don't know, 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:53.160 I don't know. And then eventually we were able to 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:55.680 introduce ourselves. But they sat. It was funny, the Lokal incident, 0:01:57.800 --> 0:02:00.360 so relaxed and just happy and it was it was 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:05.240 great the same for you guys. So that was October nineteen. 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:10.320 But in December nineteen, you guys got so so just 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.560 for the listeners out there, breaking up down on this timeline, 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:14.840 So you got engaged in December and then got married 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.960 or was that you're married your wedding in Actually we 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:20.360 got engaged in December and then we got married this 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:24.000 past October. But when we were in Hawaii is actually 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:28.480 right around the time I conceived with our son, So 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:32.399 a little a little tidbit there, we kin. We kind 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.720 of was like we had talked about. It wasn't like 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.960 a total surprise or anything for us at our age, 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:39.880 where like it doesn't need to go, it didn't need 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.680 to go on a certain order. Did you guys talk 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:46.359 about kids before getting married. Yeah, so you guys were 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:49.400 both on board of that. Huh yeah, it just happened 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:53.480 a little bit sooner than expected. Well that's so that's 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:55.800 so funny that that was the trip that we potentially 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:59.520 Joaquin was conceived. Yeah, yeah, that's the that's the date 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:01.040 that it end up. And it was so you know, 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:04.600 so nice for us dating. Um, you know, I've listened 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.360 to your podcast, but like now you can't go anywhere, 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.320 so I mean, that was one of our last big trips. 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.720 He's here, Sorry, it might be up hearing him. He's 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.320 changing him and take him for a walk. That's totally fine. 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:17.920 That is podcasting right there. Nice zooms. My dogs, as 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.919 deancon a test bark probably every three minutes, so they're 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.760 do right about now. Um, so corney. First of all, 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:26.639 congratulations on getting married. So you got married in COVID 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.079 COVID times back in October. We saw the pictures of 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:33.480 People magazine. They look beautiful. What was it like? You know, 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.520 so many of my friends got married during COVID and 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:37.520 it was so crazy and stressful. What was it like 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.040 for you guys to know that you were going to 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:42.960 plan a wedding and get married during times where people 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:46.480 were quarantining. Yeah, you know, so we had started planning 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.840 the wedding before COVID hit and so to posts were paid, 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.640 everything was paid, and I was like, I think we 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.760 should just go down to the courthouse, like let's let's 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.280 not and say we did. And everything was kind of 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.240 nonrefundable and it's like I'm not only the money on 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:03.200 the table, and so what we ended up doing we 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.240 had eight five people on a guest list. We just 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.720 had our immediate family. We had a small celebration. Um 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:10.560 so it was kind of nice. I had, like I 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:12.800 got the experience of planning a big wedding, which I 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:16.360 found out like not for me. It was like so stressful. 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.799 So at the end of the day it worked out perfectly, 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.159 but it still was stressful. I mean, the caterers were 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:25.160 masks and um, Sedona was So have you been to Sedona? 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.840 I think you have, Yeah, so I saw that you 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:30.840 got married there. I love Sedona, especially in October. It's 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.360 like the perfect time to be there, exactly. But so 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:36.080 everybody was there because I think people are traveling and 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.680 you can drive there, so it was our venue was 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.600 so packed, so that was a little bit tricky to navigate, 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:43.880 like we did our first looks just because of timing, 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:46.320 and they're like people gathering around. I was like, oh, 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:48.560 I don't my dressed to get soiled or anything. So 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.280 but it turned out to be nice. So glad it's over. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.919 Let honest, I gotta say, I gotta say, your husband 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:56.560 looks great in his tuxedo. But I think the guy 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:59.840 that really stole the show was Joaquin. Thank you, we 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:04.200 kind of you. Thank you. The little baby tuxedo that 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:05.960 thing kill I saw the picture of that and I 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:09.960 was like, this is I mean totally he really did. 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.680 He was a perfect gentleman and it was so nice 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:15.440 to have him there and our whole family have a 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:19.680 good walk. I'll text you what I'm done. Yeah. Um, 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.760 so Courney, we usually like to start, you know, our 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.680 guests off with some Q and a's kind of get 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:25.240 to know you a little bit. Obviously we know you 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:29.640 from the Bachelor franchise Ben Flannic season. Um, were you 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.680 on any other Were you on Bachelor Pad at all? 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:36.880 Or was it just Bachelor you know, Bachelor Paradise. They 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.480 had contacted me for that and I was actually dating 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.359 somebody that they liked at the time in Venice, so 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.480 that didn't go over very well. Um, but I didn't 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:46.920 really want to do it, to be honest with you, 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.240 But Bachelor Pad was after my season. That was the 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:53.800 last one they did. I think that was when Rachel Trueheart. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.920 Did you watch that the one? Yeah, I remember that. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:05:59.200 I remember the first time I met Nick and he 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:00.880 told me that story and I went back in YouTube 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:04.599 and I was like, this is insane but also fantastic. Um. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:07.280 So there were girls from my season on that one. 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:09.240 That was I think the last Bachelor Pad they did. 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:11.680 I think it was as well. So Dean, just to 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.320 let you know this guy, Nick Peterson, he was on 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.440 my season, my first season of Bachelor in Paradise. He 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.000 so Bachelor Pad was like more of a competitive show 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.200 before paradise came around where you could actually win money. 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.599 So long story short, at the end, like the couple, 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.080 Nick and somebody else had to choose to either share 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.280 the money or keep the money. And if somebody chose 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:30.960 to keep the money that then they kept it all 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:33.440 to themselves and Nick chose to keep it and not 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.280 share it. And it was like this huge controversy. It 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.560 was like its like on live TV. And Rachel was 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.960 on My season four Things. I just like you saw 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.960 her heart like instantly break was it was thinking it 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:44.880 was a I think it was two fifty. It would 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:47.960 have been a hundred twenty five each. I think, so 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.640 he got to keep all of the two, isn't it? 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.840 Is it? I think I remember seeing something. It's like 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.080 if you if one person wants to keep it and 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.119 in person says to share it, the person that keeps 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:00.279 it keeps it. But if they both wanted eep it, 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.120 then no one gets the money exactly. So it's like 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:06.039 scary if you keep it, because the better play would be, 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:07.760 of course, to share it. If you both share it, 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.640 you split it. But if you both keep it, then 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.560 you're broth screwed. Did did they end up dating after 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.120 the show or no. I don't even know if they 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:15.520 were dating during the show. It was like they went 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.640 on It was kind of weird. I remember, like the rules. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.360 I don't think they were like quote unquote dating. They 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.920 went on dates. And it was also very strategic, so 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:24.520 it wasn't just about romance, like you had to strategize 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:25.920 of like, oh, I'm gonna pair up with you and 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:27.320 we're going to try to work towards this. It was 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:31.960 like a combo of Bachelorette and Survivor. Um. You know, 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:33.720 I've been watching a lot of Survival lately. I want 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:35.640 to go on Survivor. I think that'd be fun. But yeah, 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.720 that's that's for another conversation. Definitely did a show like 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.000 that back in the day. I did one in New 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:44.280 Zeeland and I thought it was called what was the 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.560 treasurer Island and you could win a million dollars and 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:48.960 then you'd have to decide if you want to do 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:52.760 it to charity or keep the money, which obviously I 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.040 think a lot of people kept it. But we lived 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.440 on an island on Fiji. On Fiji, I was the 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.000 first one to go home. It was it was really 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.440 really hard. It's really hard to live off the land, 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.440 but it was like a competition style show. Yeah, it 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:08.040 was like a couple's competition style show. I actually did 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.560 it with the Fear Factor Grand Champion. He was my 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.760 friend in New Zealand. But how are you do you 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:17.320 get angry? I mean, like you really like like day 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.360 one of like not getting enough food, I was like, 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.360 I'm losing my mind. I think I would be okay, 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:24.880 But with all that stuff, you should do it. You 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:30.000 are made for that show. There's so the couple of 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:33.679 seasons that I saw, there's a lot of like planning 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:36.720 and manipulation and like strategy that go involved into it, 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:38.120 and I don't think I would be so good at 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.040 that part. I think I would go like I'd probably 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:41.400 like the middle of the pack. I think at the 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.360 end of the day. Yeah, I think the issue, like 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.720 you said, you wouldn't be too much into the competitiveness 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.080 of winning. You would just rather want to be in 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.520 the wilderness and enjoy yourself, like I think. When I mean, 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:54.079 I think when it comes down to it, like when 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:55.920 you're on those shows, you need to of course be 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:59.160 able to live, uh, you know, without a roof over 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:00.880 your head, but you also need to have some sort 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:04.040 of competitive vantage where you are going to do certain 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:05.680 things in order to win, and I don't think you 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:09.120 have the personality for that, which is a positive. Dude, 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.200 I'm out for blood. But I don't know that's another 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.120 here nor there. We'll save that for another time. Maybe 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.120 if there's like a survivor casting producer listening to this, 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:21.240 get me on a show, let's see it firsthand. But Courtney, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:22.920 like Jared was gonna say, I don't think we ever 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:24.360 got We've got a couple of questions that we just 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.480 want to ask you, just actually, but just as a 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:31.679 group kind of like answer your questions. Yeah, what's on 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:35.600 the docket. One of these conversations starting questions is what 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:38.160 famous couple would you want to double date with? M 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.280 game this couple that I would want to double date with? 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:47.480 Oh my gosh, she's stumped me. Do people fire this 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.000 off really quickly? I think I would definitely like to 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:53.520 go out with Oprah, but obviously like somebody like really 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:56.680 funny would be good, like a comedian. What about you, guys? 0:09:56.679 --> 0:10:01.040 This is a question I would have never anticipated. Know Honestly, 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.520 I don't know if he's dating someone, but if Armie 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.040 Hammer is with someone, that would be an interesting double 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:09.160 date right now to have that conversation. Uh oh, to 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:11.880 see if he would maybe want to filet your skin 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:13.559 off and cook it in a frying pan. I'd be 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.959 interested to see what he ordered. Well, I'm not gonna say, 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:19.040 poor guy, obviously, I think he denied it. Though I 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:21.800 think he's already like denied it. I mean, it's just 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:26.920 like cannibalism. I wonder if you'd order like a filet rare, 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:32.079 don't cook it at all. Um, let's see, Like obviously, 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:34.160 the first one comes to mind is someone like Ashon 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:39.760 and Mila there. They seem super fun obviously out for 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.199 me personally, of course, Tom and Giselle tom Brady and 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.600 she's a bunch of I mean, that's just yeah, I'm surprised, 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:46.000 it's like you so long to say that. I figured 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:47.199 that would have been the first one that you're out. 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.400 There's a part of me though, that maybe wouldn't want 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.240 to go on a double date with them, because I 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.080 hold Tom Brady in such high esteem. I almost don't 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:55.679 want to meet him because I just want to have 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:57.839 this image of who Tom Brady is. I've gone back 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:59.480 and forth in this even though I've never had the 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.559 opportunity to meet him. In my head, I always prepare 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:05.679 myself if that opportunity ever arises. So I go back 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.240 and forth whether it would be Tom and Giesel. You 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:10.040 want to know what's what's funny about that? A little 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.800 side no here is that kind of happened to me once. 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:16.440 My Like my favorite musician growing up my entire life 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:17.920 was this guy, Like I know every single one of 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:20.240 his like three hard songs, every word of every song, 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:26.040 um My my rob Tom. I thought, no, no, no, 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.640 and uh. I met him in person a couple of times, 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.079 and in fact, we we exchanged ems every once in 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.960 a while. And he's not like a dick or anything, 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:37.280 but he's like not the interactions ever go as I've 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.120 always kind of expected them to go, you know what 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:40.880 I mean, And so it kind of like humanizes him 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.360 a little bit and it knocks him down a couple 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.400 of notches on the pedestal. But I don't know, Tom Brady, 0:11:46.400 --> 0:11:47.920 I don't know if that happened with you and Tom Brady. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.720 But what Tom Brady and just I'll eat what they're 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:55.240 doing because whatever they're doing is working. It's definitely he 0:11:55.280 --> 0:12:00.600 would order like spinache dry, not cooked at all with 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.680 like a piece of chicken that has zero salt or 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.079 pepper on it and it's just grilled to the like 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:09.560 at fifty degrees for eighteen and a half minutes because 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.280 it has to be cooked. Just thought Tom Brady had 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.760 like a super weird diet, like he ate like a 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.360 pine of ice cream, you know, the clickbait. I always 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.240 getting sucker for that. And it was like, what's the 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:19.920 one thing Tom Brady won't eat? And It's like, okay, 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.560 it was a tomato. It doesn't eat tomatoes. I was 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:24.080 just about to say that. I was like, yeah, he 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.000 doesn't eat you know it was a tomato. I do. 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.599 I did know his DEBATOI also you have to realize, 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.280 you know Boston's I listened to Boston Sports Radio every day, 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:33.280 and like for the past twenty years, our lives have 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:36.040 revolved around Tom Brady and so whether it be the 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:39.200 relationship status on and off the football field, his diet. 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.240 Like I know a lot about Tom Brady's diet, and 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:44.880 I'm not proud to say, but oh well, I just 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.920 had somebody oh not to bring politics into it. Like 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:49.520 I'm not saying one side or the other, but I 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.800 would say I would love to double date with Barack 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.400 and Michelle, Like that would be what I was about 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:58.520 to say. I'm currently reading his memoir. I swear I 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:00.760 was gonna say, Barack and Michelle, Jared, you stole mine, 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:02.360 you cheat? Or how did you know? I was going 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:04.160 to say that? I just read your mind. You know 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:06.560 that's when when we when you call us the podcast 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:08.199 with someone for so long, like I can get I 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:10.320 can see your reaction, and I look at your eyes 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.680 and I'm like, you about say the Obama's and I 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.280 have to jump in before he does so I can 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.360 steal his good idea. All right, well before we just 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.320 before I get too angry and just dwell on this 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:23.200 any longer. Next question, what is the nicest thing that 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:25.720 your significant other has done for you lately? So Ashley 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:29.600 Caitlin embartto done for us lately? What is like We'll 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:32.840 start with Courtney, Like, what was like the last I mean, 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.800 I'm sure he does nice things for you all the time, obviously, 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.719 but like, what's like the one thing that stands out 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.800 to you that happened most recently? You think, well, today 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.400 we actually have a little date today. Um, they were 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:42.600 doing some work in the house. I had to get 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:45.560 a house for your details. But he planned a trip 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:49.640 for us for our Valentine's Day. Yeah, he got somebody 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:51.959 to watch the baby. He's got it all lined up, 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.600 and I was like pleasantly surprised. It was like, yeah, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.000 it's hard to travel right now, but just a quick 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:59.920 twenty for our trips. So he does a lot of 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.920 awful things like that. I mean, like on the daily level, 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:05.360 he lets me sleep in and he does the morning 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:07.520 shift with the baby, and like, I'm a person who 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.640 needs an extra hour of sleep, and that kind of 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:12.760 like he'll say, like, oh, take your time in the 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.080 shower once. You'll see once you have kids, it's like 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.199 your showers are quick. So those little things like me 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:21.360 in the world to me, how much sleep did you 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:24.360 get the first month of having a child? What should 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:28.280 I prepare myself for? Not sued. I don't know if 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:31.560 you go with interrupted sleep, but we actually did baby wise, 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.440 like a sleep um schedule, like you wake him up 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.800 every three hours and you feed him, and the goals 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:38.400 to get him to sleep for twelve hours a night, 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.440 and he is so he sleeps for twelve hours, um, 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.400 but you wake up every three hours. You said an 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.400 alarm and it's like he's still sleeping. You gotta wake 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:48.200 the baby up to feed him. So but it works. 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.400 So are you the type person that can wake up 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:54.120 and immediately go back to sleep. No, my wheels are up. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.840 I'm like, oh my gosh, I gotta oh laundry, gotta 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.280 did this, or like exactly you know, sometimes there's anxiety. 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:02.920 Oh yeah, I have some calming techniques, but like if 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:04.240 I have to get up to p and the mill 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.280 and night, it's like usually like two hours I'm up 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.120 and my husband snoring, the baby sleeping. I'm like, what's 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.440 wrong with this picture. I'm also the type of person 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:12.960 where if I know I have to wake up like 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.120 super early the next day, you know, whether it be 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.320 catch a flight or whatever. Even if I had to 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.160 wake up a four thirty, like, I can't sleep because 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:22.720 all I could think about is not oversleeping. Oh I 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.920 have nightmares about missing flights on a nightly. But I 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:30.360 won't hear what you guys? What your significant sweeties? What 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:33.080 do you got? Why don't you go first? Oh? I 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.160 was just gonna say, Cailin made me dinner last night. 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.000 That was very kind of her. She made me just 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:43.600 a nice plate of roasted vegetables. Yeah, it was delicious. 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:47.800 It was healthy, nutritious meal. Also, also, this is like, 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.360 it's kind of like a nice thing that she did 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:50.760 for me in like a weird way. I told her 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.040 that I was going to play golf this morning. I 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.680 told her this last night, and I think it was 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:57.080 really nice of her not to be like, not to 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:58.960 like press me on it. You know, She's like, Okay, cool, 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:00.600 go have fun. So I thought that was really nice. 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:04.560 What's the nicest thing, Ashley? I mean, ash does nice 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:07.480 things for me every day. She does nice things for me. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:09.200 She's in the other room and want to make sure 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:16.000 she heard that. Let's see, Oh, she maybe did the 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.680 last night too. She may be, uh, she may be 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.160 a nice garden salad a mix of kale and spinach. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:26.440 Tom Brady special with dude, stop stop Jared, you stop 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:28.920 stealing my answers. Man, you gotta start having your own answers. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.480 First it was Brock and Michelle. Now you're stealing the 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.240 dinner thing, all right. She also made me a hot 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:35.480 Courtney and I are sick of this. She made me 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.920 a hot chocolate. It was very special. So it was 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:41.200 a really thick batch of milk, chocolate, hot chocolate, and 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.880 she put some whipped cream and marshmallows and then drizzled 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.120 it with some caramel syrup and just made it with 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.480 some love, you know. And then she let me watch 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.480 you know, she lets me watch Wheel, Fortune and Jeopardy 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:54.120 every night. That's very nice because I really get into it. 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.240 And that's I know, you know, it's the small things, really, 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:59.680 especially when you're married as Courtney. And one last question 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:01.960 before we wrap this up and get into it with 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:05.160 Jared's buddy Jake Ellis, And it's kind of in tune 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.000 with the first question here, but these are Jared's questions. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:10.040 By the way, he wrote these before the show started. 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:12.880 It says, if you were stranded on a desert island 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.760 with another couple friend, who would be best and why? 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:18.800 And I don't really understand what they mean by another 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:24.320 couple friend, but I'm assuming it's like a double date 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:28.080 on a desert island to survive. Who would it be 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:31.760 for me that I would take my best friend and 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:35.040 her husband, Amy Dean. She was a producer on The 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:37.199 Bachelor and about it. You guys might have met her 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:40.560 at some point, but she's super savvy. I'd take her. 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:45.720 She would help you. She would help you, guys, survives 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.000 what you're saying, Oh yeah, totally. She's super savvy and 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:50.959 she's not a complainer, Like I don't do well with complainers, 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:54.120 so right, she'd just be funan, I gotta be honest. 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:55.439 You and Calin are one of the first to come 0:17:55.480 --> 0:18:00.000 to mind because you're so earthy, like you're one with nature. 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.399 I feel like if I was stuck in a desert island, 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:05.560 I would need somebody who who could show me which 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:08.440 plants to eat, how to cook my own meals, how 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:11.160 to catch build a shell up there, build start a fire. 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:14.520 And also you're very sweet and so like, if God 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.960 forbid we did need to go to the cannibal route 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.320 and eat someone, I feel like you would say, hey, guys, 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:21.679 I would offer myself up. And you're pretty you know, 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:26.120 you're six what a six four? You know, so like 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:28.800 you know you could last a couple of weeks. Maybe 0:18:29.680 --> 0:18:32.640 I think this is a good hopefully, hopefully it will 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:34.840 be okay with like starting with like a leggerant arm, 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:36.520 you know, like maybe I don't have to kill myself first, 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.200 but I would just like be uh amputee at the 0:18:39.320 --> 0:18:42.160 at the very like least, no, you just want to die, 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:47.520 You wouldn't want to pain. Um. I think I would 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:50.480