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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. Welcome to stuff I

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Speaker 1: never told you production if I heard.

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Speaker 2: You, And welcome to another happy hour where I'm just

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Speaker 2: gonna complain. So it's a good wine. Okay, it's up

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Speaker 2: gen wine without my wine. But Annie, are you drinking something.

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Speaker 1: No, we're kind of on the we're on the car

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Speaker 1: the run. That's all right, We're busy. We've got a

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Speaker 1: lot of technical issues today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were trying to quickly get things done just

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Speaker 2: in case power goes out or system goes down, systems

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Speaker 2: getting updated. So many things are happening, including the fact

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Speaker 2: that TikTok is about the go away. I'm not gonna lie. Well,

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Speaker 2: we don't know that for sure. There's a back and

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Speaker 2: forth in this conversation. And by the way, nothing's we'realking

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Speaker 2: about right now is currently being sponsored, so things can

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Speaker 2: change if you want to sponsor us. Cool cool, cool cool.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, so, so many things are happening. But one

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Speaker 2: of the things I've talked about many of times is

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Speaker 2: that I do, as much as I hate social media

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Speaker 2: and it is like a time suck, I really enjoy TikTok.

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Speaker 2: The amount of Highland cow videos that I've sent to

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Speaker 2: my partner's sister. Is joyful, like I get to see

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Speaker 2: all of these animals that I don't really interact with

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Speaker 2: but look so cute in these videos that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I need this as my uplifting, you know. To be fair,

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Speaker 2: that's also really bad news because we're seeing things about

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Speaker 2: drones constantly.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen this Annie? Have you seen any drones?

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Speaker 3: That's the other question.

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Speaker 1: Smith. I'm gonna be real with you. Had a really

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Speaker 1: rough past couple of days. I have not been looking

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Speaker 1: at the sky. I'm lucky. I'm looking down at my

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Speaker 1: fee and trying not to fall over again.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, So we just had Joey on Peete behind

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Speaker 2: the gardeners and they were talking about the fact they

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Speaker 2: ate sidewalk is what they said, or assholet and and

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Speaker 2: he goes like, well, yeah, me too. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what are y'all okay? Are y'all okay? Legitimately, are you okay?

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Speaker 1: I'm struggling, but I'm doing all right. I look horrible.

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Speaker 1: I should send the picture of my legs to you.

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Speaker 3: It's not oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, she is bruised up, and we think it's

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Speaker 2: because of a corky it is not Peaches or remember

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Speaker 2: the first time you came on and we told on

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Speaker 2: peachas or I came on, you came on?

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Speaker 3: What the hell is wrong with me?

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Speaker 2: When I came on and we told the tale about

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Speaker 2: Peaches when you were trying to be nice and said

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Speaker 2: dog peachas don't I don't.

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Speaker 1: Try to be But then past host, friend of the show,

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Speaker 1: friend in general, Caroline was like, that was definitely Peaches,

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Speaker 2: We outed are so quick because I mean, let's just

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Speaker 1: I didn't get to tell you this, so Joey, I

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Speaker 1: but they're not for us. Yeah yeah, this Corky beat

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Speaker 1: me up, but I also pulled my piece. I feel

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Speaker 1: New Use what did you say about?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the Cordy was getting their revenge?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yes, and also Peede on my.

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Speaker 2: I would just like to say that cord game makes Peacha's.

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Speaker 3: Peacha is also Peede.

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Speaker 2: When she would get excited, like this was a very

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Speaker 2: I hope it was cute. Well was it a Star Wars?

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Speaker 2: Down for we need to talk about you doing the

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Speaker 2: I can't grasp because you don't know from your present

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Speaker 3: The most heart. Watch someone come on, tell me that's

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Speaker 2: Because I saw a Taylor Swift video and she comes

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Speaker 2: I don't look like anybody. I don't think I don't

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm like I get any Asian person because people

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Speaker 2: But you know, with this chaotic time and my constant

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Speaker 1: The love of Jesus is funny.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for that. Say it really is? It really is.

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Speaker 2: It has made it feels like it's making this time

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Speaker 2: Yeah you really are, but a lot of awesome conversation people.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, anyway, drink responsible kids. I do feel

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, that's feels right.

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Speaker 2: Mexico is doing some amazing things.

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