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Speaker 2: And food had used to no no more though.

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 2: We're American. I'll put it at that. Yeah, we actually.

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Speaker 4: It all depends what you mean. We don't tell each

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't shook his head in like ten years.

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Speaker 4: Hugo, hug me, Let's do it.

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Speaker 5: That's fore I went on him and you could smell

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Speaker 6: Let's say, for some reason, the restaurant was hot, and

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Speaker 2: He already stink.

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Speaker 6: There's no way you should let a woman touch you.

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Speaker 6: It should be like some like I just had turvy.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Whatever they say, we got nothing to do it, like

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Speaker 7: These I was in an open relationship. If she wanted

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Speaker 3: And what was the reason she wanted to date him

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Speaker 1: Make it yeah, so I was to the military.

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Speaker 8: The majority of our friends were like gay marine. We

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Speaker 9: And that was pretty early on in our relationship.

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Speaker 1: And what's up, y'all is show girl lex Paint any

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Speaker 1: showgirl dry in the call and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mine. We're a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: speaks sober. We gotta gas saday, we gotta guess saday.

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Speaker 1: So y'all have been asking us to have these lovely

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Speaker 1: have seen them on your I G feed, on your TikTok,

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Speaker 1: on your YouTube, everywhere, because they be everywhere. We got

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Speaker 2: Studio audience, good, good goods and intro.

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Speaker 4: I like how coordinated is because I was watching a

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Speaker 4: You was prepared, Yeah, I was prepared. You guys are

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. I don't think we could do that.

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Speaker 3: We argue too much, for we are really arguing, so

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Speaker 1: No, it's a debate. It's a difference between debating and arguing.

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Speaker 1: Y'all be arguing or y'all be debating.

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Speaker 2: We we do like we do. We don't.

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Speaker 6: We don't say words because you know, we just do

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Speaker 6: like subtle stuff. Oh mic, Yeah, I do this on caramel.

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Speaker 2: Your words, the one that had three drinks.

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Speaker 1: Look, we don't get insane about it. Sut onto our

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Speaker 5: Always like the live poor minds.

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Speaker 1: Right, But y'all have found a space and y'all have

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Speaker 2: Group leaders today we take time.

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Speaker 6: That y'all gotta start getting him dark a different dude.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I feel like it was I don't know

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Speaker 2: So it kind of work. And he's the same way.

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Speaker 4: I'm a silent hater though I am a I'm a

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Speaker 2: Thing was born almost two days apart. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: So it's like, I'm not the reason I'm saying that

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Speaker 4: I think stuff like this.

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Speaker 3: Twenty eighteen officially, but prior to that, we had created

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Speaker 4: And if you start when it's like you have to

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Speaker 1: We're the same way y'all really are us male four?

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Speaker 6: They do you dirty, but we DM them and the

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Speaker 4: They're making money on TikTok now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the first time snap.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's why I don't do appeal because I ain't

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Speaker 2: I got tired. You be getting the thousands back. I'm

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Speaker 4: You don't the thing with Pat, don't you have to

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Speaker 1: He said, talping court to I need my already, because honestly,

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Speaker 1: They'd be like, oh, just pay him the extra fifty.

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Speaker 4: I think Also, the they're gonna make fun of me

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Speaker 1: I seen it. I said, Jammie's saying that too. Well, No,

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Speaker 4: I heard, I heard you said you went to Legas

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Speaker 1: I haven't, okay, so I went in twenty nineteen. I

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Speaker 4: It's like it's city never sleeps, right. I was trying

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Speaker 2: Because he not, he not, he not, he got some problems.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't, Mama, Then they're gonna be his ass

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Speaker 1: We're going back. I had the time of my life.

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Speaker 4: It's different.

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Speaker 1: It's so different. No, I haven't been yet, I know,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we all keep playing the group trip.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: No listen, every time people sit on this couch and

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Speaker 3: And we really went to Abitha like ready to go outside.

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Speaker 1: We gotta get them tickets.

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Speaker 4: Tickets may be like seventeen twenty six, how you want

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Speaker 1: And that's sitting by the like this. Yeah, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: the first topic because y'all know we some Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: y'all in relationships? We're in a relationship. Are you in

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna post society your glass. They don't know I'm

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Speaker 1: with big pet, so have y'all. But I feel like

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Speaker 2: You think so I do.

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Speaker 4: I think it's women because we just had this conversation

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Speaker 4: like at least take a picture of like a side

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00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 4: profile or something like that where you're off. But girls,

446
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 4: i'd be seeing like emojis or sometimes Yeah, I just

447
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 4: think they're more open with like I'm hiding you from me.

448
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 6: Hello, I'm like, come on, I will say, I think

449
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 6: the emoji ship is corny though same like, I think that's.

450
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,399
Speaker 3: Really corny, like when girls poulst their men and then

451
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 3: they put the emoji over the face, so they cut

452
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 3: the head off and do all of that. Weir she

453
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: just don't post a nigga at all if you don't

454
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 3: want people to know who you date and just don't

455
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,400
Speaker 3: post them. But I definitely do agree. I think it's

456
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,479
Speaker 3: more so women that try to be a little more

457
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 3: secretive about who they dating their men.

458
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm like me and bead.

459
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 5: Because it's like if they rocking with you, they rocking

460
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 5: with you.

461
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 3: I think women definitely will try to hide their men

462
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 3: because sometimes I think they be afraid then somebody else

463
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 3: might like try to snatch him up.

464
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 1: They don't get in mad. Not only that, I think too,

465
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 1: when like people kind of know who you are. Because

466
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 1: one time I was with my men and I had posts.

467
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: I was posting a pizza because we had went somewhere

468
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 1: we ate like a big ass pizza and like you

469
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 1: could see his leg and like he said, he got

470
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: like three or four texts maker oh this, so this

471
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: is who you day. So I think a lot of

472
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: times it's more so if not that I'm hiding you

473
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: what with the text, miss, because while you and my

474
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 1: bis this what Drake said, I'm not hiding you from

475
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 1: the world. I'm not in the world.

476
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

477
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to protect you, baby.

478
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think they do that on purpose.

479
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 9: Yeah.

480
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 2: I think they hide them on purpose because most.

481
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 6: Women know, like, you know, if your dude is talking

482
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 6: to you, gotta know, yeah, you know, if you actually

483
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 6: love him, if.

484
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 4: You like him or like a highly started after dude

485
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 4: as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I feel like I

486
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 4: feel like guys some.

487
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 2: People date down because of that. That's a good point.

488
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 2: They don't want nobody to want their partner.

489
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: But you want you to want my nigga, but that

490
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: every man is wanted. Yeah, being that, we think they'd

491
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: be like it's women fighting after that.

492
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 2: It's the same for us.

493
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 1: Really, I got a friend that man, but you say

494
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: his girl trash.

495
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: Girls not just playing. God, I'm just playing.

496
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like y'all can correct me if I'm wrong,

497
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: because I always get into it with my homeboys about this.

498
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: I say it's so I feel like it's easier for

499
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,719
Speaker 1: a man to find a good woman than it is

500
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: for a woman to find a good man. I feel

501
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,479
Speaker 1: like y'all have so many options of like women who

502
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: get into the bag, who look good, who doing it

503
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: for us? The men that have things going for themselves

504
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: and look good making money are just good people. The

505
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: pool is like this big yeah, and we're all going

506
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: after these same men. Yeah.

507
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 6: I got a lot of friends as girls. It's women

508
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 6: like they all got jobs, all got their career going.

509
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 6: I got my guy friends.

510
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: And they ain't doing ship.

511
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 2: He claimed.

512
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 6: He taking care of his mama.

513
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: Mama look healthy to be. She literally goes she crossed fit.

514
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 3: Be like that though, because I think a lot of

515
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 3: the time as a woman, as you climb the ladder

516
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 3: more and more, it is it's hard to be that are.

517
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 4: Equally old, I think because guys have there's that ego

518
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 4: to with it.

519
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

520
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 4: So even if you meet that girl that's like up

521
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 4: there in the ladder's only a certain group of guys

522
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 4: that kind of feel like because every guy wants to

523
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 4: feel like the provider, right, And I feel like once

524
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 4: it's the pool just gets smaller. Once you kind of

525
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 4: like go up that ladder. I feel like and models.

526
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so you got at that's right.

527
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 3: So I just feel like it is true to me

528
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 3: and want to date women that maybe don't have that

529
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 3: much going on.

530
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: Do y'all agree with it?

531
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 2: I think I mean a preference.

532
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

533
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 6: I think it's some people don't want to date someone

534
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 6: that's popular at all. They don't want nobody knowing about

535
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 6: what they have going on, and they want that. I

536
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 6: don't want attention, like you'll look at sometimes you gotta

537
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 6: look you're the first get a looking person they dated.

538
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 6: I don't watch got check that history because then like now,

539
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 6: like somebody d m me and it's like some you know,

540
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 6: mom of five in Arkansas, and then you're jealous about

541
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 6: this got followers.

542
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 5: But that's why you can't meet a nigga first bag.

543
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: I was just.

544
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 6: About to say that whatever whatever vice versus staven that

545
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 6: is for us.

546
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 2: I don't know how to Okay.

547
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: So what is the usual since you're the single one,

548
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: because the girls are coming for you. I'm just letting

549
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: you know, every time a man sits on this couch,

550
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 1: the girl's becoming. But what is this type of woman

551
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: that you like? You're a successful man. You do well

552
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: for yourself. You got things.

553
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: Do you have kids? You got one kid?

554
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: Okay, one kid? That's good. That's the number. That's a

555
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: good man, Samanna, that's what you got. One kid? That's it.

556
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: So what type of woman do you like? Let the

557
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: people know?

558
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

559
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 6: I don't think I would ever let a woman know

560
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 6: what I want because because I feel like I feel

561
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 6: like women are so smartt.

562
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 4: James Bond, I would never.

563
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 10: I would never disclose that all in a whiskey.

564
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 2: They could just tell us.

565
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: No, it's not for real.

566
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 6: I'm just telling no, I got I have five I

567
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 6: got I have five sisters. And I like when I

568
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 6: said I got five sisters, like my sisters are sharks,

569
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 6: like they like they know the game, Like they know

570
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 6: the game for my dad, like they you know what

571
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 6: I'm saying.

572
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 2: So I know how smart women are.

573
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 6: So a woman can literally I could literally talk for

574
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 6: thirty seconds and she could she could have everything she needs.

575
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 1: Oh I know that?

576
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 2: Why so you'll be tricky? Yeah?

577
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: How the fuck did you say thirty seconds?

578
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 3: He said, sime I got everything he needs to woo him.

579
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 8: Yeah.

580
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 4: Rip, you're saying you're easy, easy bro, I'm.

581
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 2: Just like, I try to be mysterious.

582
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 6: So it's just like I know when it's calling all

583
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 6: about time, and I like.

584
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 2: I like roll man, you know what I'm saying.

585
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 4: I also feel like guys aren't that difficult in a sense,

586
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 4: especially when you find like the good guy. I feel

587
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 4: like we like simple shit like if you I don't know, just.

588
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: Like race, like damn you made a left hand leaf

589
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 2: in high school.

590
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Dre, I just said that. I said, I

591
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: love the fact that, like, I love a gracious man

592
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 1: who's just like gratitude and they're like I just like

593
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: the effort because I feel like that's how like my mean,

594
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: he's just very like I'd be like, I'll boil him

595
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: an egg and he'd be like, this is the best boy.

596
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: Most men are like that. Yeah, but they're not, though,

597
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, I'll say this okay because I

598
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: want to ask all a question. Oh we've been to

599
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: get into another topic. People always say, y'all are dating

600
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: men that hate and in the moment, you don't know that.

601
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: And I realized that I was dating a man for

602
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: a very long time. I'm like, looking back, I'm like

603
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: that nigga hated me, he hated me, he did not

604
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: like me. But y'all, y'all have probably experienced that. Have

605
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: y'all ever dated a one? Be like she cool, but

606
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: you don't really fuck with her like that? But it's

607
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: something to have around. Why did y'all do that?

608
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 4: I feel like it's so different from me because I've

609
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 4: been in like very long term relationships. So and I

610
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 4: went to boarding school, so I it wasn't really like

611
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,479
Speaker 4: that much relationships when I was in high school. Oh boys, right,

612
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 4: it wasn't all boys.

613
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: They have boarding schools that are not like all boys

614
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 3: and all girls.

615
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: I didn't know they do the Nigers.

616
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: It was oh okay, okay, yeah, yeah.

617
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 4: But I do think after a while, because like I

618
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 4: was in an eight eight year relationship, and after a while,

619
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 4: I do think you just start growing into different people

620
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 4: as well. So it's not like that. I don't know

621
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 4: if where the hates a strong word, I would say,

622
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 4: you just ain't feeling like no, you just start, you

623
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: just start growing apart. If you start liking different things,

624
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 4: you start and when you don't feel like both people

625
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 4: are kind of elevating at the same rate, that's when

626
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 4: friction starts.

627
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 6: You ever tried to be yourself, like fully yourself in

628
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 6: front of your partner and then something go wrong. Then

629
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 6: that's when you that's when you be like, all right,

630
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 6: this same my person, like this was fully myself.

631
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: I ain't do nothing wrong. Yeah, it kind of got

632
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: a little made.

633
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: Me feel stupid. Yea, I knew my.

634
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 4: Accent like me.

635
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: It was it was two situations when I really and

636
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: it was this was towards the end, I knew my

637
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: extent like me. The first situation was we had a

638
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: live show and he showed up and he was sitting

639
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: on the side of the stage with his phone doing

640
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: like this. Oh no, Like every time I looked up,

641
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: he was.

642
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 4: Going like this, what number show was it?

643
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: This was this is probably our second tour, our second tour, so.

644
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 4: This is his first time.

645
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: This is his first time the show too. Then that

646
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: situation was like somebody had made a clip or talking

647
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: about like how funny I was, and they were just like,

648
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: oh my god, XP is hilarious and you know how

649
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: people do like that. And I was watching it and

650
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: then he just like he like kind of scoffed, and

651
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what's you know? Mom? I was like,

652
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, you think I'm funny. He

653
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: was like, I mean, I'll be like, what it's cool.

654
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm Maddy Murphy. That's like that was very strange.

655
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 4: It was not giving like thing to Again. I think

656
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 4: some guys are they hate seeing their girls. They kind

657
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 4: of get fill away when they're seeing their girls, get

658
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 4: like shine, yeah, and it makes them feel small, I.

659
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: Feel like, but I hate that.

660
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 3: I think it takes a very specific type of man

661
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 3: that you can date that's gonna be okay with that

662
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,239
Speaker 3: and still be secure in hisself and understanding that like

663
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: me getting shine and people praising me doesn't take away

664
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 3: from you.

665
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 5: Therapy either, therapy I've been.

666
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 4: I've been in therapy for like two a year and

667
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Speaker 4: a half, and don't wonder I was always thinking. I

668
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 4: think with me, I always felt like I knew better,

669
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 4: like as I can't be wrong about something, and I

670
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 4: think going to therapy kind of that's that that ego

671
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,479
Speaker 4: go that ego and let go like this person can

672
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 4: be right as well. So I think it's knowing that

673
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 4: you can be wrong and you're wrong and everything you

674
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 4: do is not right and being okay saying like you're

675
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 4: right right, yeah, what was.

676
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: It that convinced you to go to therapy?

677
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 4: So when I got out my relationship, I knew there

678
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 4: was just stuff I need to work on on myself.

679
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 4: And I think I was always afraid to go because

680
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 4: it felt like I don't know you. Kind of again,

681
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 4: it's that male ego thing. You kind of feel like

682
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 4: I'm SUPERMD and do anything. I box and do this,

683
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 4: nothing can break me. And I think it's like really

684
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 4: letting go of that, like that shell and being vulnerable

685
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 4: and stuff like that. The first couple of sessions always

686
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 4: kind of awkward, yeah, but like I have to kind

687
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 4: of go into it and like you feel more comfortable,

688
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 4: and it's just sometimes go there. I don't even know

689
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 4: what I'm going to talk about when I'm there, but

690
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 4: then you're there, then you just start talking about things

691
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 4: you didn't even know that underlying reasons I find a.

692
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,479
Speaker 1: Therapist too, is like finding a partner. Yeah, Like sometimes

693
00:32:58,520 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: you don't have it, They're like, oh this is not

694
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: going work and you got to switch it up and

695
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: you gotta just keep trying. Finding a therapist is literally

696
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: like dating.

697
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 6: Like for real bad therapists out here too, is they

698
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 6: just be writing stuff down nothing why did I write

699
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 6: all that dumb for you to.

700
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Speaker 1: My friend? And I'm not going to put their business

701
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,479
Speaker 1: out there, But one of my friends goes to therapy

702
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: as well, and when I tell you, the therapist gave

703
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: her the worst advice ever, like basically telling her to

704
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: crash out because she was trying to do something that

705
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: was like a crash out and there it was like,

706
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: maybe you need that. And when I tell y'all the

707
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: crash out, like I said, I'm not going to say it,

708
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: but it's so die. I'm gonna tell y'all after the show,

709
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: it's so crazy and I couldnot believe. And that's why

710
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: I agree with you. All therapists aren't good therapy, so

711
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: you have to do the work. Like committing to therapy

712
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: is one thing, but finding a good therapist and committing

713
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: yourself on that journey of finding a good therapist is

714
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: another thing.

715
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Speaker 4: I think.

716
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Speaker 2: I think lingo is important.

717
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 6: I think like them being around someone who had a

718
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 6: similar ground to you, because you could be talking to

719
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 6: somebody that didn't come from like a single parent household.

720
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they don't.

721
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 6: None of their friends did either, so they've never actually

722
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 6: been around it, even though they have the work in

723
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 6: the books.

724
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 2: They don't have the work.

725
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 4: Really or even like culturally too, yeah, culturally yeah, it's

726
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 4: like I'm not gonna sit here and do that. But

727
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 4: you know who you shouldn't be going.

728
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 6: To what you mean about that, like as a young

729
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 6: black male and if you're from like the inner city,

730
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Speaker 6: I don't know if an old white.

731
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: Guy, but really like oh yeah, yeah.

732
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 6: Give you what you want unless they like we're in

733
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 6: the inner city at some point in time.

734
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Speaker 1: That makes sense because every time, like I do like

735
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,280
Speaker 1: a therapy search or if I'm like in between therapists,

736
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: I always you gotta be black, you gotta be a woman,

737
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 1: and you got to be a Christian. Like those are

738
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: my three like hard like I can't yeah, anything else

739
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: out of the it doesn't make sense to.

740
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Speaker 4: Me from down south.

741
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Speaker 1: Down south, yes, like from Houston. Who's from Houston? But

742
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,760
Speaker 1: I'm from Orange, Texas, so I'm a little bit Orange.

743
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 4: I ain't heard of that I know yet.

744
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 2: It's like orangeis the small town or literally.

745
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: Two high schools. When we opened the Chili's, it was

746
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: on the news when I went, oh, yes, exactly, like

747
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: they have a Chick fil A and a Starbucks there.

748
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: When I went back.

749
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, that's fine.

750
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 1: Y'all got a Chick fil A and a Starbucks. Like

751
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: it's popping chili for me on the news. Always give me, Yeah,

752
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 1: the chili's it was on.

753
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: Dude, you went to a big school.

754
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I grew up in Houston, so I'm from Houston.

755
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 3: So I mean it's a lot of high schools in Houston.

756
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 3: In my high school, actually, my graduating class, I think

757
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 3: we had like fifteen hundred people in the class, like

758
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 3: senior class. The school itself probably like four thousand.

759
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, before we move on, I have a question because

760
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: we were talking about like the comparison, Like people always

761
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: talk like we're the male and female versions. Do people

762
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: ever compare y'all to James and food Hart?

763
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 4: Why you say that?

764
00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: He like, y'all know why.

765
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's just a difference.

766
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 6: We're American. I put it at that. Okay, Yeah, we actually, Man,

767
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna put it out there like that.

768
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 6: But don't know, I don't know why it's a difference now.

769
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 6: It used to not be a difference, but I think

770
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 6: a lot more people, especially after like certain situations happened

771
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 6: in the podcast world, people started paying attention to who's

772
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 6: in these viral clips haters actually not people, not new fans,

773
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 6: not people that wanted to see you do good, people

774
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 6: like let me check into all these podcasters to see

775
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 6: what they're saying. So we're not surprised by anybody that

776
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 6: we put on this pedestal.

777
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 2: So like after people.

778
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 6: Did that with us, the research, Yeah, I think we

779
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 6: became even more popular.

780
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 4: Yeah. So also because we're not famous for anything. Yeah,

781
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 4: there's really much you can google. You probably see like

782
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 4: our college football profile. Yeah that's about it.

783
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's like because sometimes I can dig

784
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: up things that you have said in the past, like

785
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,240
Speaker 1: on an early episode, they're like, oh my god.

786
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: I think I was always aware of like what's out

787
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 4: on the internet since we started. So everything we've said

788
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 4: is like it's always been like edgy but very like safe.

789
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 4: And I think it's there's a thing of like being

790
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 4: your authentic self because they are like, you know, like

791
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 4: Ellen Gener is it degenerous?

792
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got.

793
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 4: Quote unquote canceled because she was on TV like being

794
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 4: this you know, joyful person and stuff like that, but

795
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 4: behind the scenes that she was doing different. So like,

796
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 4: you guys are your natural self. So so it's like

797
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 4: there's nothing really in your past or your tweet or

798
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 4: something like you said that you'd be like, yeah, I

799
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 4: said that I was younger, but it wasn't anything super

800
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 4: out of pocket.

801
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I think we said stuff

802
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: that was like oh my god, but it wasn't like

803
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 1: this is horrible, we need to cancel her for this.

804
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: Never like it was just like stupid.

805
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 6: Stuff and it'll never be because that's your natural self.

806
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 6: H It's always gonna be something that could be taken

807
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 6: out of context. But some people just like longer the

808
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 6: camera in front of your face, the more they gonna

809
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 6: become themselves.

810
00:37:59,480 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

811
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 5: Sure, we were just a little cringey because we were young.

812
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 3: Like I look back at some of the things that

813
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 3: and ideologies that I used to have and I'd be like,

814
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: oh my god, why the fuck would I say this?

815
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 3: But it's not something that I would be super embarrassed

816
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 3: if somebody went and pulled it up, or something that

817
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 3: I feel like would offend a whole community.

818
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, it's growth too, like if if people could

819
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 4: put a scope on their life, Yeah, five years back

820
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 4: and stuff they said, even stuff I said last week,

821
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 4: I was like I'd like, damn, I said that, I'm

822
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 4: a whole no person, especially when you're like in this

823
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 4: entertainment space. It's like sometimes you try stuff, Yeah it might,

824
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 4: it might not hear.

825
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 6: We also got the cheat call that we were like, uh,

826
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 6: we deem ourselves a comedy podcast, so it's like we

827
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 6: don't have to talk about what's trending, Like it's not

828
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 6: a big part. Like I feel like it's tough for

829
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 6: those dudes on like the Button podcast because they have

830
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 6: to talk about what's popular because that's what people go

831
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 6: to them for. But people don't come to to us

832
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 6: for that, So we can talk about something totally different

833
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 6: and dodge a case.

834
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 5: Or like yeah, I don't love an evergreen topic, but.

835
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: You know I'm not gonna like since we're like speaking

836
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 1: of like the Button podcast, I think Mark Lamont Hill

837
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: being in an addition to that podcast has really Oh he.

838
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 4: Is we articulated.

839
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: Man. When I tell you I love a good debate, yea,

840
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: I will debate anybody. Mark is that type of nigga

841
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: You debated and me be like, you know what, I

842
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: was just playing, Bro, You're right, I don't know because

843
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: he'll be like, remember, well, in nineteen seventy.

844
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 2: Four, I got I got a shoulder.

845
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: You have to know your limits, yeah, real and your reach.

846
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: And I think that's what I think that we win

847
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 1: on the mics. It was like, we know what we

848
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: are great at. You know, I need to sit back

849
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: a little bit.

850
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: We do.

851
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 6: We do disclaimers after if we end up getting too

852
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 6: serious topics because we actually friends and we talk every day,

853
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 6: so sometimes we forget we on the pod and really

854
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 6: start debating stuff. And if you get too serious, we

855
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 6: are like, listen, y'all, like our opinions don't mean ship. YEA,

856
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 6: Like every time if we're your main source of news, listen,

857
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 6: Like y'all.

858
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 4: Are wrong about that, y'all are wrong about this, Like

859
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 4: just like.

860
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 5: We apologize it was just my opinion.

861
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,919
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't apologize to Yeah.

862
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 3: I hate when people write comments like that so us

863
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 3: they're like, y'all need to talk about more serious ship.

864
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 3: Why y'all never talk about politics? Why y'all never talk about.

865
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 5: Current events and what's going on in the world.

866
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's so many fucking podcasts and so many

867
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 3: media outlists that if that's what you're looking for, you

868
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 3: can literally go find it. This is supposed to be

869
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 3: lighthearted and fun, like, that's why we created this environment.

870
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 3: That's why we created this space. If you want something

871
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 3: more serious, it's out there. This ain't it though. And

872
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 3: it's not that we don't have the range. It's not

873
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 3: that we can't talk about it. We just choose to

874
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 3: not go into that. I feel like when you start

875
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 3: talking about politics and religion a lot of the time,

876
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 3: he's just never gonna go to.

877
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 4: It's always gonna be somebody in the comment that read

878
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 4: up about it.

879
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:17,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, actually, like you can't those type

880
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: of people.

881
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 4: You can't just make blankets right around because they're gonna

882
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 4: be like, all right, explain what you means. Like I

883
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 4: don't know.

884
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: Exactly what do you mean by that.

885
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 6: We had to do it to go back to like

886
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 6: episode like eighty something. It was just like y'all was

887
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 6: wrong about the super Bowl pic.

888
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 10: Like okay, like when I was got me high, I

889
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 10: was on his Instagram and everything, like listen, be me

890
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 10: a little bro.

891
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: You ain't gonna keep doing this. You got one more

892
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 2: time both times?

893
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: All right, bro to what are we drinking today? Because

894
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm a little lit over here.

895
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 11: In honor of our guests crash dummies. This one is

896
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 11: the crash out. This one has a little bit of tequila,

897
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 11: some hypnotic, some pineapple juice, lime juice, and a little

898
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 11: bit of hot honey syrup. So he gives a little

899
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 11: bit of a spice, but with that hypnotic. That's how

900
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 11: you're gonna crash out, bookie. So cheers, salute job people working.

901
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: Came back quick as hell too.

902
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: I love it. Just hot honey, another shot, you know,

903
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: I mean I took the one in the beginning. I

904
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 1: got another one. I got your head when I was

905
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: about to say, shit, I have.

906
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:36,479
Speaker 4: A drink every episode.

907
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: It's honest.

908
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 2: That's weird. That's weird.

909
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 3: Had the first but no mag drinking. I was sober

910
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 3: for a good I was too, I was.

911
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: It was great. It was great. I actually think I'm

912
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 1: about to do another challenge.

913
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 4: You do like the book stuff too?

914
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: Yeah? I did?

915
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 4: Like was it like a page or something like two pages? Yeah?

916
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 4: A few days. I don't think i've read like a

917
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 4: non fiction book in or fiction? Is it fiction? Is

918
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 4: it's fake? You on your own, buddy, you know somebody's fiction.

919
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to be wrong with them on the camera.

920
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: Fiction is real.

921
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 4: Fiction is real, right? Non fiction fake? I haven't read

922
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 4: a book in general book non fiction is real.

923
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 2: Yes, non fiction is.

924
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: Like y'all some crime. They'd be like that. This is

925
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: why y'all don't debate. Is the is it?

926
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 12: No?

927
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,280
Speaker 1: Imagine?

928
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 4: But in reality that that don't make sense though non real?

929
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I always remember it because I was taught that.

930
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: You say, fiction is.

931
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: Fake, right? Fiction like spell rhythm l r H y

932
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: t I don't know.

933
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: Is that right? Our h y tah? Is it?

934
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 4: Well?

935
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 2: You fire?

936
00:43:58,840 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

937
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm a little you know, don't I read? I spelled

938
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 1: everything wrong? What I asked you spell?

939
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 3: The other we we did that spelling bee It started

940
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 3: with a ped pneumonia paradactyl.

941
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: This my work, like the dras bar would be like.

942
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 4: Sammy, oh no, no.

943
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: Is crazy starting with a start said art.

944
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 6: I did try to see you so real, like we

945
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 6: need him not real, like we don't know if it's

946
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 6: a question that one of us asked and we don't know,

947
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 6: like I will literally cuss him out and here because

948
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 6: he'll do the same thing, like what the fun would

949
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 6: you ask me?

950
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: Something like dry always asked me d words. I don't

951
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: know I'll be like, what that means?

952
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 3: I feel like we both will ask each other questions

953
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 3: and be like, huh, I think that's the beauty.

954
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: Like we're all ignorant. Yeah, in some way in a

955
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: certain categories.

956
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 5: Because nonfiction and fiction just had me thought up.

957
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, which one is? What is real

958
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 1: and what's fake?

959
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: It's all right, though, I'm saying, but we're gonna I

960
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 2: look up the bok though, We're gonna.

961
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the next topic?

962
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 3: So, but the second topic, I wanted to talk about

963
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 3: sharing all of the tea with your significant other.

964
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: Should you or should you not?

965
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: Like, do y'all tell y'all partner every single detail about

966
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 3: your friends and their drama and everything that they have

967
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 3: going on?

968
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: Or do y'all feel like that's offering me?

969
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: And you know, where's the line of betraying your friend,

970
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 3: your family's traice.

971
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 6: I'm learning something new right now, so I'm about to

972
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 6: find out something.

973
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 4: But it all depends because you shouldn't You shouldn't know

974
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 4: the friends that you shouldn't tell things to. And I've

975
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 4: had friends like I'd be like, I'd rather not know

976
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 4: than you tell me because don't involve me and it's

977
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 4: something that if the person I'm with finds out and

978
00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 4: be like, oh, you already knew this type of thing.

979
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 4: So it's if it's a secret, you gotta do your

980
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,720
Speaker 4: job and keeping in the secret. You tell me something,

981
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 4: you have to do your job.

982
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 2: Why are you point at me? Bro? Why are you

983
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 2: playing at me?

984
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 4: You're the only person I know.

985
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, but why me though about him?

986
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 1: Are you going to be like, no, let me tell

987
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: you what Pat did.

988
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 4: No, it depends if it's something that Pat doesn't want

989
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 4: her to know, then I won't say, yeah, she would understand.

990
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 6: I think I think it's I think it's unattractive. On

991
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 6: the other hand, like if I have someone i'm dating

992
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 6: come to me and tell me something about their sister

993
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 6: that I feel like, why.

994
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: Did I have to know that? It becomes like that's

995
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 2: an it to me. No, don't tell me what your

996
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 2: sister did like that, And he said, I'll tell you that.

997
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: With you.

998
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:58,760
Speaker 3: See, I feel like within lemmits it has to be parameters.

999
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 3: It's like you should just be going to your partner

1000
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 3: telling them all of your friends and your family's business.

1001
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 3: But I mean personally for me, like Mimmy, he be

1002
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: telling me so so i'd be like, I gotta spill

1003
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 3: a little.

1004
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna change that tea somebody, as long as it's

1005
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: not nothing like serious like that. My friend is like,

1006
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: oh girl, I got old fifty thousand dollars in taxes

1007
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: and I'm about to lose my house. I'm not gonna

1008
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: be like babe as cooling up to dud. I'm not

1009
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:26,439
Speaker 1: doing that.

1010
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 4: I feel like it was him definitely telling my girl.

1011
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 3: But what if it's your okay, so is it a

1012
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 3: difference between if it's your partner, like your girlfriend, boyfriend

1013
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 3: versus your husband.

1014
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,720
Speaker 2: Wife husband wife different?

1015
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: So too, I'm telling you everything.

1016
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 6: I feel like that's good.

1017
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 2: That's good, that's good juice.

1018
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: No I need.

1019
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 5: Once I get married, don't tell me y'all.

1020
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 4: But that's you have to you as a friend. You

1021
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 4: have to know that about your friend.

1022
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like like that right now.

1023
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not.

1024
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: Like that, but I feel like I literally tell Dre

1025
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: probably like ninety nine percent of she do. I do,

1026
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: But I tell her things like I know that if

1027
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: she told her partner or you know, the guy she

1028
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: was dating, I'll be like, I don't care if he knows,

1029
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: because I'll probably call him myself, like, let me tell

1030
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: you what happened, nigga, if something came.

1031
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 3: Well, I don't telling him a lot of stuff because

1032
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,280
Speaker 3: he's a little judjy.

1033
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: Right, But I'm saying if she did tell him the stuff,

1034
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be like shit. I wouldn't care because I

1035
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 1: also like know him, I guess, but I'll be telling

1036
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: people stuff that if it does get out. I really

1037
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't care too much if he stayed in the circle.

1038
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: People that we know.

1039
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 2: That's because you're a good friend.

1040
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,439
Speaker 6: Though, good friends don't tell their other friends too many

1041
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 6: secrets while they got lied to their partner. Now you're

1042
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 6: messing up what I got going on over here.

1043
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know. We don't tell each other that

1044
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 4: much that's going on in our lives.

1045
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't shook his head in like ten years.

1046
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 2: We haven't.

1047
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 4: Really, we don't adapt. We noticed that I tried to

1048
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 4: amou cal time to hug me.

1049
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: For y'all should hug right now, let's do it.

1050
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 2: Bring it in, bro, I probably come on.

1051
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 4: Bringing in Bro.

1052
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 6: I probably cry, let's pray, let's pray or something to

1053
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 6: make it better.

1054
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:22,240
Speaker 5: You just don't like.

1055
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: Five A But I got some six inch hes. Yeah,

1056
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: don't you feel better? You feel better? I can release y'all.

1057
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 2: I just don't want to know about that. I just

1058
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 2: don't want to hold those supersom That breathing I feel,

1059
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: I feel the breathing makes me not want.

1060
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 4: To that's tall.

1061
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm five as.

1062
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 4: So are you like you have to date somebody that's

1063
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 4: tall than you? You don't care?

1064
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: Are used to, but now I'm just kind of like,

1065
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: I just I love being tall. I love wearing platform heels.

1066
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: I just feel like I just when I walk in

1067
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: the room. So I like men that like that about me.

1068
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 1: So if you're like, it's crazy because I'm uh like

1069
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: I now I feel like I date men that like

1070
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 1: that I'm taller than them.

1071
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 4: They be like, oh you look good, but I find

1072
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 4: the tree.

1073
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 1: He can't be short short, you know what I'm saying.

1074
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: I feel like a man that's like six foot like

1075
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: I can do that because at my heels, I'm like

1076
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: six one six two, you know what I'm saying. So

1077
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: if you're like six foot, like, we can make it work.

1078
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: You don't got to be like six six you know

1079
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 1: what I'm saying?

1080
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh you counting that as you're in your heels.

1081
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, as I'm in my heels because like in my flat,

1082
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm only I'm like, I'm tall for a woman, but

1083
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm technically not tall, but I wear platform heels. Like

1084
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 1: all my shoes in my closet are like six inches

1085
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: and uh so, and now most of the time I'm

1086
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: in heels when I'm out, so I'll be like, Okay, yeah,

1087
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm like six one, six two. Most of the time

1088
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: when you meet me, I'm gonna look like a six

1089
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: to one woman, you know, gotcha? So that's what I

1090
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: counted as. But height don't really matter to me. I

1091
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,720
Speaker 1: feel like there's so much more important things to worry about.

1092
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: The height.

1093
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 5: Going to therapy, that's the number one.

1094
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: That's that's what it is given them. How tall you are, Yes,

1095
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 1: I mean I do a little bit because I'm birthing

1096
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: some baby Lebron's Yeah, I'm sure. Oh, like I my eggs,

1097
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: I always say this are golden eggs, you know what

1098
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Very pristine. I'm gonna have some athletic because

1099
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,800
Speaker 1: I played volleyball. I was an athlete in high school.

1100
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: Like I like to work out. I'm gonna have an

1101
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: athletic child, So you do have to I care more

1102
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: about the athleticism than the height, you know what I'm saying.

1103
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, it is a little cringe on your partner and

1104
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 6: can't do something.

1105
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, have you never like went to work

1106
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: out with your partner.

1107
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 2: It was just like, oh, why you hold them dumb bells, like.

1108
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 4: Saying that you have to see your partner at full

1109
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,879
Speaker 4: sprint too?

1110
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, why you can't run half a mile?

1111
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 4: And yeah they got that.

1112
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I need somebody who's coordinated. Like, to me,

1113
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: a deal breaker is working out because that means you

1114
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: don't care about your body, and it's more than just

1115
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: the physical thing, Like you don't care about like your insides,

1116
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: not even about the way you look on the outside.

1117
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: Like working out is the part of your life. It

1118
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: should be a part of your lifestyle just to be healthy,

1119
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1120
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 6: So you know, you know, dudes test for that in

1121
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:19,840
Speaker 6: the dating face, right, Yeah, like we toss y'all stuff.

1122
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, like when it starts, when it starts to

1123
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 6: get like okay, we you know at each other places

1124
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 6: were moving like boyfriend and girlfriend.

1125
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 2: Man might toss you the keys like.

1126
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 4: That. Let's go to the courthouse right now.

1127
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: That's what I need. Do more reps than you in

1128
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 1: the gym. Though.

1129
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 6: Sometimes it's it's not about to catch though, it's about

1130
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 6: how you go grab it. Because it's like you can

1131
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 6: drop ten out of ten, but the way you try

1132
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 6: to be smooth with it.

1133
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. You're trying to catch

1134
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 2: you with your legs.

1135
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 6: And going between your feet, you fall on your butt

1136
00:52:57,960 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 6: like I'm out of here.

1137
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 5: Oh my god, for real, because that would be like

1138
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 5: I will try to catch it.

1139
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: Be like, oh my god. To me, I'm competitive on everything. Yo.

1140
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:19,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like block my shot, but I'm not gonna lie.

1141
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: I am super competitive like everything, Like I don't care huh.

1142
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: I don't play ping pong. But you know what what

1143
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: I'll say that any type of it don't matter if

1144
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 1: it's a board game, our phone game. I'm trying to win.

1145
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 2: Competitive. I like that.

1146
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 1: Raham knows that about me. We went bowling one time.

1147
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: She was like, it's not that deep, Yes it is.

1148
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: I just be like, they have fun.

1149
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 4: No, I feel it.

1150
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 2: That's why I'm texting my girls. She had bowling. I'm

1151
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 2: texting who won.

1152
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 6: About Yeah, it's a hostess.

1153
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:03,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what happened.

1154
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: Group of fire sides. I just to have a ball.

1155
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: I'll be like who cares on the nigga tekes me

1156
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: who wants?

1157
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 2: But who the fuck you think wants?

1158
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 5: Funny enough, I'm not competitive, but I be.

1159
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: Winning, like.

1160
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 2: Win, I do win?

1161
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hate those type of wins.

1162
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 2: A secret winner.

1163
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, she cares?

1164
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 6: Yes, so when you so, when you lose, you just

1165
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 6: get to like, I don't care who ordering pizza like you?

1166
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: Just me? Yeah?

1167
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 2: But when you win, y'all like, what's the score again?

1168
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 2: Did I win?

1169
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1170
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 3: I like like, I don't give a deep down like

1171
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 3: you said that, y'all see what.

1172
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: The fun going on?

1173
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 4: A question for y'all because on our podcast we talked

1174
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 4: about this. He thought this was weird that I did this.

1175
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 4: That sometimes if it's a picture of a group photo,

1176
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 4: I might crop everybody else out if I like the photo,

1177
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 4: just me, that's weird.

1178
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Me and my best friend Bee

1179
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: Lane took a picture of the other day and she

1180
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: didn't like it.

1181
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 4: I took out exactly, especially where she had thought.

1182
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: Shoulder and shoulder touching would shoulder the show.

1183
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 2: Was touching on that's crazy. She didn't you touching the

1184
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 2: whole nother human. That's not you didn't like it.

1185
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 1: This is the picture.

1186
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. They don't like the picture.

1187
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 1: The pictures. You gotta here past that to her? Where

1188
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: was she right next to me?

1189
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 4: I don't call that crop. You use a racer body,

1190
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 4: you do a last so.

1191
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: Na crazy hands, I can't use my thumb.

1192
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 13: Must be straight as a friend picture, I thought you

1193
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:56,399
Speaker 13: took her out.

1194
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm straight.

1195
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 1: Said she didn't like it.

1196
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 2: We wouldn't have been friends no more.

1197
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 1: I will never post a picture.

1198
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 4: You don't know. That's the thing though, because everybody else

1199
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 4: will be like, oh I don't like this picture, and

1200
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I like my I like. That's what

1201
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 4: I'm saying. I no, no.

1202
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 2: We would have been done for at least a month.

1203
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 2: Oh my friend.

1204
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: You don't know if I would.

1205
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if it would be fun months, but

1206
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 3: I definitely would have been like with my other friend,

1207
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:20,320
Speaker 3: like they're all weird.

1208
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 1: She said, you didn't if you didn't like the picture, you.

1209
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 2: Made a green screen.

1210
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: That's crazy, Like I wasn't there, but you like the picture.

1211
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to leave you in there. But it's a

1212
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: picture of me that I like, and you're like, oh,

1213
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I'm gonna politely take you out politely.

1214
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

1215
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: It's no way to do that politely because I thought

1216
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: that was just a picture.

1217
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 4: That's that's that's different what she said she didn't like it.

1218
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 4: I like what I was it is, but it's just

1219
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 4: like the more advanced version what I was talking.

1220
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, because then her hand was around my waist.

1221
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 4: I have to she's easy with dudes because we just like,

1222
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 4: you know, it was like doing something different, like and science.

1223
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:01,280
Speaker 4: So it's always a little space.

1224
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not no space, as they know.

1225
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 4: Another thing was we had a step sibling debate and

1226
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 4: Pat was saying that if you're over the age of

1227
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 4: like twenty twenty five, you say, and it's twenty one,

1228
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 4: let's explain it. Go ahead.

1229
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 6: If you're over the age of twenty one, if your

1230
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 6: mom in someone else's dad, or your dad and someone

1231
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 6: else's mom get married, those people are not your step siblings.

1232
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 6: You didn't grow up in the same household as them.

1233
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 6: You're like, you're an adult life right now. Okay, unless

1234
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 6: they're way younger than you, like they like not eight nine.

1235
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 6: It's good to take on that role, like I'm gonna

1236
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 6: beat a big sister y'all never had. But it's just

1237
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 6: like if y'all both like, okay, you twenty three, I'm

1238
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 6: twenty four, and our parents got married. Old list be

1239
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 6: stepsislms like y'all weird, man, you are too old.

1240
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're too old to be talking about. Oh this

1241
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: is my little sister.

1242
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you.

1243
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I do agree with that, Like

1244
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 1: we're cool. You family, You're my fan.

1245
00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 2: If y'all become best friends, it is like if.

1246
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: We got out, I'm gonna say, our parents are married.

1247
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: You're not my stepbrother. Our parents are married.

1248
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 4: He was my wife's daughter.

1249
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: Our parents are married. That's what it is.

1250
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 3: But that's how people be ended up marrying they step siblings.

1251
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 2: M Oh you.

1252
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 3: Know what, Yes, happening all the time, Like people will

1253
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 3: their moms and dads will get married and then they'll

1254
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 3: end up like.

1255
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: They on Clueless. Do you remember how Clueless was? Yeah,

1256
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 1: like it was what his son and he married the

1257
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: daughter yep, and then they ended up hooking up. It

1258
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: was a little weird, but technically we're not related in

1259
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: the parents divorced, but that's still weird.

1260
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 6: Sometimes they be trying to all last each other because

1261
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 6: you're dating at the same time. It's really all about

1262
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 6: who get married first and make sure other person weird.

1263
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna be weird first, weird, Oh my gosh. But

1264
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I think it's more weird. So

1265
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 1: if like me and somebody get married and then our

1266
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: parents get married after us, they start dating. They're older.

1267
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: Let old people do what they do. But if our

1268
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: parents get married first, it's more weird. If the kids

1269
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 1: do it, Does that make sense? I mean, now that

1270
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: we all.

1271
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 5: Grown, y'all all you all motherfuckers, is weird?

1272
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: It is? It is more weird.

1273
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like it's more weird when the kids

1274
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: would ask no, bloody bloody. So I feel like if

1275
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: me and somebody are dating and our parents start dating,

1276
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: that's it's not as weird as if the kids do it.

1277
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 2: That's because that's the most beautiful marriage in the world.

1278
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 6: It's two older people like meeting after their partners die

1279
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 6: and like the last fifteen twenty years of their life.

1280
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's already on your way out.

1281
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 2: Telling it sounds like some freaky ship going on.

1282
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all just horny.

1283
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can find somebody else, right, Yeah.

1284
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: It's definitely weird when the when the kids do it

1285
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: after all. Right, so now it's time to get into

1286
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 1: the bed. Bow the bow A bow, bow bow bow bow.

1287
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 2: Okay, let's do it.

1288
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 4: I heard y'all singing earlier.

1289
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: Y'all know how to rap. I don't know how to sing.

1290
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 4: He's singing choir sing.

1291
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 2: Let me hear something like Brian McKnight.

1292
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: You want to that's what we're singing today. Any time

1293
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: today from carry on Brian McKnight, you see any time today. Okay,

1294
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: I missed you today for the bed, we're gonna play

1295
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: a game called would you Smash with the Twist? So

1296
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: we're gonna give y'all scenarios of like things in the bedroom,

1297
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 1: like would you do this? Or this is like a

1298
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: little bit too far and be honest. And then if

1299
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: this is something you're like, oh, light work, I've already

1300
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 1: done that before.

1301
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 6: You know, y'all have to be We don't be too

1302
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:12,439
Speaker 6: island sometimes on the pod, I know.

1303
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: But y'all can be honestly that this is more.

1304
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 2: Mind't drunk, mind speaks.

1305
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 4: So let it all up, you said, he was the liar.

1306
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 2: I ain't lied today, have you?

1307
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: That's because he said he was single. Was like, okay, poor.

1308
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 2: Mile, better put that bottle down New Orleans.

1309
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: Those were the ones that's be reading four mild and

1310
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: poor minds holds. Okay. So the first scenario is they

1311
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 1: bring toys to the bedroom for them, but not for you.

1312
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: So a little example, like, you know, something to play

1313
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: with herself while y'all are messing around, or maybe you know,

1314
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: put it on a little show for you toys in

1315
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: the bedroom. How do y'll feel about toys in the

1316
01:01:57,840 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: bedroom with it?

1317
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 4: I think if if if she's pleasure, it's bringing her pleasure. Yeah,

1318
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 4: it's good. I'm the type of person I feel like

1319
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 4: if like if my girl is pleasured, you know you

1320
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 4: get that pleasure from yes.

1321
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: Well you know I've seen like a lot of men

1322
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: are intimidated by toys because they feel like I God,

1323
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: damn bit your lecture. Cut that plussing chilling.

1324
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 4: It saves energy for me to team work working rolls

1325
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 4: about the double team the double.

1326
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 6: I wore a cock ring before cockering with a chicken

1327
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:35,919
Speaker 6: on top.

1328
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 2: You chick to the like, you know what the chicken going?

1329
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1330
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: It's crazy. Is that that interesting? I mean.

1331
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 6: Like it's like it's like a vibrating ring that goes

1332
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 6: around and then you.

1333
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 2: Put the chicken.

1334
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: They need to give you an endorse on.

1335
01:02:58,240 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 2: I want the fist koc.

1336
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: And the weakest here. Okay, okay, what's the next one.

1337
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 5: Okay, they talk dirty, but it's Shakespeare quotes.

1338
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm here for that person.

1339
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 4: I think I laughed too much for all that. Like,

1340
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 4: I think it.

1341
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: Could be fun. I'm not mad at that.

1342
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 4: Crazy.

1343
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 2: That's the thing.

1344
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 4: I don't know too much Shakespeare. But what you just mentioned,

1345
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 4: so if she starts saying other things, yeah, it's just

1346
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 4: general terms.

1347
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: You gotta But I feel like that is like role play.

1348
01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 1: You can put the little wig on the little George

1349
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 1: Washington Wei, or you could do the accident to come here.

1350
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 6: That's some game of throne ship going on.

1351
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that King of the now instead of

1352
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 2: a sword trying to get I forgot much sword?

1353
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: Whatever you.

1354
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 2: Got a sword.

1355
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: I think I think that will go with like role player.

1356
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 1: That was so fun because even like you said, like, oh,

1357
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: I think I'll be laughing too much. But I feel

1358
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: like who says you can't laugh ding.

1359
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 4: It's hard for me. I feel like it's hard to

1360
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 4: find something funny and be erect at the same time.

1361
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1362
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 4: I just don't know. It's just like if it's too funny,

1363
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 4: like I don't like hearing, like it would be a

1364
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 4: Netflix show on in the background or something, and it's

1365
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 4: like a comedy that you started laughing, Like, I gotta

1366
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 4: turn this TV now because my mind sometimes drifts sometimes,

1367
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 4: oh mind, because I need to either have like the

1368
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 4: fan go, I need to listen to something.

1369
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sex one time and then we had Bernie back

1370
01:04:53,080 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 1: in the background. He said, my ship. We had to

1371
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: pause the whole section.

1372
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 6: I gotta lock in b I laugh hard, Okay, okay,

1373
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 6: I I can laugh hard.

1374
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: So you can't laugh during sex, no laughing.

1375
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 4: I can laugh.

1376
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 2: I can laugh. I feel like I can talk about anything.

1377
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 4: Slap laugh Huh. I can't slap.

1378
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes it happened. Okay, that's a good moment if you

1379
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 2: need slap laugh right before.

1380
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 4: I like, that's like right before during huh. As long

1381
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 4: as she laughs. We laughed on me off too, because like,

1382
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 4: what are you laughing at right now? Oh yeah, she

1383
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 4: could be she's the one laughing laugh.

1384
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: I be loving, a little giggle. I love it's like

1385
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: we have in a moment throws mood. Okay, they make

1386
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: you sign a no cuddling contract afterwards, that's weird.

1387
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:48,439
Speaker 4: It's a little weird.

1388
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that because after you dig me down,

1389
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 1: we finish caught on the girl, you finish spool you.

1390
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:54,520
Speaker 1: I like to be the big spool.

1391
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 4: I have been small spoon before. Okay, did you like

1392
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 4: it's very consoling a little bit?

1393
01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: It's their therapy.

1394
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 4: No, it's a little consoling. I think every dude likes

1395
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 4: to be coddled though they be lying though, like laying

1396
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 4: on your girl's lap, chilling watching Netflix feeling.

1397
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's different though, what do you mean some people

1398
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 6: don't find it like that's not their favorite cut up position.

1399
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 4: Yeah it is.

1400
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 2: It is like, No, I like to be like laid on,

1401
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:29,919
Speaker 2: putting the head lock.

1402
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 1: Oa. Okay, but I feel like it's it's I don't know,

1403
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 1: I feel like something. It makes you feel like vulnerable.

1404
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because those dudes are vulnerable.

1405
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of dudes, especially like in

1406
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 4: closed Door, they're probably more vulnerable around their girls. Once

1407
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 4: your girl makes you feel weird about being vulnerable. That's

1408
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 4: when the dude starts there.

1409
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 1: A man don't trust you if he with his sock song,

1410
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 1: if they keep them socks so that nigga do not

1411
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: fuck or.

1412
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 5: He just got that black Tony got to.

1413
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 1: Do with him not trusting because his feet ugly is fun.

1414
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. He don't trust you if

1415
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 1: he leaving the sock song because if it's black tonel

1416
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: should be able to take him off so you can

1417
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: see his He don't trust himself.

1418
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what though I'm not.

1419
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 2: I don't.

1420
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 5: I have like a pre work with you have to

1421
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 5: have nice speed.

1422
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 2: Okay.

1423
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'll say this. If a man don't take

1424
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: them socks off while y'all fucking, he don't fuck with

1425
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 1: you like that ass.

1426
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 4: For real, he's not trying to feet together.

1427
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not trying to be real his real intimateself

1428
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: Like if he ain't showing you them toes, that's not

1429
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 1: a situation you want to be I can't.

1430
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: I can't do it cuddling.

1431
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, I like to cuddle, but the sock thing

1432
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 1: is crazy.

1433
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 5: People really do that, yes, yes, like in our thirties.

1434
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know because I'll be looking at

1435
01:07:53,000 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: them toes. Maybe the toes, but I mean yeah, I

1436
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 1: mean niggas will wear they socks to the beach.

1437
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, in the water.

1438
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 1: What they socks on?

1439
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 4: I found that weird.

1440
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 6: I've seen somebody in the full fit like ripped jeans.

1441
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 2: He has some phone posits on.

1442
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,200
Speaker 4: I think this is crazy.

1443
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1444
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 4: You have their feet out.

1445
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: Wow.

1446
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I'm Nigerian. If we always wear

1447
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 4: like the open toes, I'm cool with it.

1448
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:32,600
Speaker 1: What did you stop wearing sandals.

1449
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 4: When I stopped?

1450
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: Are you still do?

1451
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 4: No? I wear like slippers now, okay, working like more.

1452
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like the throne slippers. I used to

1453
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:40,679
Speaker 1: wear those.

1454
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 4: I wore them like a little bit in college.

1455
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 1: Okay, that was Did you used to wear time?

1456
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 2: What the what the do you?

1457
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 4: Uyited states? Yeah, some spirits to the g unit.

1458
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 2: You talking about the Yeah?

1459
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 4: Not in high college?

1460
01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 8: Right?

1461
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: A g Uni tank?

1462
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:03,799
Speaker 4: Maybe want to get a bulletproof fest Oh.

1463
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: My god, no, option.

1464
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:13,720
Speaker 6: I wanted to get shot so bad. The dude I

1465
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 6: was beeping with a fifth grade I was like, please

1466
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 6: come shoot me, bro.

1467
01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna rap about that ship so hard. Please father

1468
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 2: this fifth grade. Please don't do nothing to me.

1469
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm goodkare oh h.

1470
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 3: They keep their eyes wide open the entire time, like

1471
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 3: never blink, just staring at you.

1472
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: That's impossible. I don't like that. You literally can't do that.

1473
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 4: It's hard. Like I'm better at it now making eye

1474
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 4: contact with people.

1475
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:50,560
Speaker 1: Eye contact is important.

1476
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 4: But I've always been like, I'll get anxiety sometimes if

1477
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 4: like you ever turned down the hallway and it's a

1478
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 4: long hallway and somebody else's at the other end of

1479
01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:59,800
Speaker 4: the hallway, it's always awkward for me. I get so

1480
01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 4: many it's anxiety for reasons.

1481
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: Every time I get the elevator, I'm like.

1482
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: I just text my mama and just like, how you doing.

1483
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,040
Speaker 1: But I think eye contact is important. But eyes wide

1484
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 1: open the entire time, like I do want you to

1485
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 1: look at me. But I mean, I'll read this one.

1486
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 1: They cry every time they commacts, every single time.

1487
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 2: Cry What kind of tears?

1488
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: Like, uh, I'm thinking of like a tear of joy joy.

1489
01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 6: If it's just tears and you keep the same face,

1490
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 6: you can do all you want.

1491
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,759
Speaker 2: But if you sobbing like that, lip curl a little bit.

1492
01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 1: I like a good cryd But there are two different

1493
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 1: cries during this is a cry like oh my gosh,

1494
01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: this feels good or gasmic moment. But then it's also

1495
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: that cry when y'all have a makeup sex Do you

1496
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 1: know that makeup sex cry?

1497
01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 3: When I think of a cry that's like you're happy

1498
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 3: and blissful, I think of Maxwell playing in the background.

1499
01:10:54,800 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just like.

1500
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 4: I think that that happens. The guy might expect that

1501
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 4: every time. And if you don't cry, yeah, he's gonna

1502
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 4: be like, I didn't do something right. I wasn't doing

1503
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 4: what I was Yeah, he's.

1504
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 2: Gonna be playing a video game. He's gonna pause.

1505
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 4: Make him go to the gas station and get that

1506
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 4: rhino pill.

1507
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 1: Have y'all taking a gas station?

1508
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 2: No, I don't need that.

1509
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: He might heed you in the back of the head.

1510
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:32,760
Speaker 1: Push this ship out last crazy, Okay, okay, okay, So

1511
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: now we're gonna move on. Now we know what y'all

1512
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 1: apparently like in the bedroom or not. So now it's

1513
01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 1: time to get into the b the bo, the vibe.

1514
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 1: I was trying to stay in the big.

1515
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 3: The bow, the bow bow.

1516
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 4: Like you know in the what's her name? The hallway.

1517
01:11:55,840 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 4: You're gonna be dancing. Yeah, when y'all do that's sometimes

1518
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 4: feel like it's like you, I don't know what I

1519
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 4: would do going down the hallway.

1520
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 2: Hands, I'm not.

1521
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,879
Speaker 1: I'm a bust the split. Really my moment to shine.

1522
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm gonna bust a whole split.

1523
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 4: But y'all go down the hallway, y'all have to coordinate something.

1524
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 1: Both bus the slip. I'm an or. I think one

1525
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 1: of us gonna bust the split and the other one

1526
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:25,840
Speaker 1: help the other one up and then we start hitting

1527
01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 1: the robot on it.

1528
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:28,799
Speaker 4: But you gotta do that while walking.

1529
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's easy work.

1530
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 4: Split what.

1531
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:37,640
Speaker 1: They got it? I gotta do this. Yeah, you know

1532
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 1: I got a bad Yeah, I got no one on

1533
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:45,679
Speaker 1: the ground. You know I got a bad meat. Okay.

1534
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:47,679
Speaker 1: So Bob of the Week is like songs and things

1535
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 1: that we've been jamming, you know, whatever you have been

1536
01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: listening to this past week, like you just can't stop

1537
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: listening to it. So I'm gonna start. So an artist Aquila,

1538
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: she had the song Bloom that was like very popular

1539
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: on TikTok. She dropped her album and it's so good, y'all.

1540
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 1: I love an indie artist and you can just tell,

1541
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:10,880
Speaker 1: like they're actually really really into music. Like I said,

1542
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 1: she had the song Bloom that was very popular on TikTok,

1543
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 1: but she has a song called You Got Comfortable, and

1544
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 1: I think all women can relate to this song. But

1545
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: like I said, her whole project is called Falling into

1546
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:23,760
Speaker 1: Place Solid. I love when I can listen to a

1547
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: project from like start to finish and it has like

1548
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:29,559
Speaker 1: no skips. Cause I think, like I said, we are

1549
01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:32,160
Speaker 1: actually getting We put a lot of pressure on these

1550
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: artists now, you know what I'm saying. So back in

1551
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:37,920
Speaker 1: the day, artists used to have like singles, but then

1552
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 1: they would have filler songs. You can't do that no more.

1553
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: No every song has to be a hit. So if

1554
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 1: you're releasing a project now and every song is like

1555
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:47,559
Speaker 1: this is fire, I'm like, okay, I'll fuck with you. You

1556
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:49,600
Speaker 1: really take it serious? You don't. You don't get the

1557
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 1: space to have filler songs on albums anymore, you know

1558
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I like this album. Yeah, Like,

1559
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 1: I think the music has changed a lot because now

1560
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: people are trying to make TikTok music. But I feel

1561
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 1: like we're slowly getting out of that and people are

1562
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 1: starting to realize, let me make some music. If it

1563
01:14:04,800 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 1: hits on TikTok, cool, But if it doesn't, at least

1564
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 1: I have a good body of work. And this is

1565
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 1: a good body.

1566
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:11,519
Speaker 2: Of the guitars are back out.

1567
01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:12,480
Speaker 4: Yay.

1568
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 6: I'm seeing a lot of guitars and pianos on ticket.

1569
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 6: That's what I want to see.

1570
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: You know who they make fun of have y'all know,

1571
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 1: y'all know that white artist Benson Boone. He be flipping

1572
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 1: on stage. Yea, yeah, they are so hard on him.

1573
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I like it. Let the white boys

1574
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: be white. We are. We need them to get back

1575
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 1: to flipping and dancing and two stepping and stop trying

1576
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 1: to rap.

1577
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:37,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1578
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: Well MGK just came up with something.

1579
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 1: We were talking about that on our other episode. Yes,

1580
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 1: get back to being a white boy.

1581
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 2: I like it.

1582
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: Some grease yay, select that hairbag and get to work,

1583
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 1: start dancing. I'm telling you, I'm all for it. So yeah,

1584
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:56,919
Speaker 1: shout out to Quila falling into Place. Her whole project

1585
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 1: is dope. What y'all been listening to?

1586
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 4: Ooh. One of my favorite artist is Saint John, but

1587
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 4: I like a lot of his music. Okay, yeah, the

1588
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 4: afro beat, like I think with music, I like being

1589
01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 4: the music where like the women are enjoying the music

1590
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 4: because I feel like I like rap music. I think

1591
01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 4: there's a time and place for rapper, Like if you out,

1592
01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 4: you don't want to be hearing drill music, you know,

1593
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 4: and sometimes not the space for that. So I like

1594
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 4: the Afro beat, the more island sounding.

1595
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because his music too is kind of a little He's.

1596
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 4: Kind of like an it's like a little island because

1597
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 4: he's from I think he's Guyanese too.

1598
01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 6: Yeah, so yeah, I don't want Yeah, I want to

1599
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 6: go to no No more clubs, whereas there's too many

1600
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 6: dudes behind the dj B like what the block?

1601
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, what we're doing the music?

1602
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, right, y'all wrap into each other. Y'all going bar

1603
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 6: for borrow on another man's song. So uh like, I

1604
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 6: think that's your stop. I like the music.

1605
01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 2: I like the Afro Beast music, like, I like all

1606
01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 2: that type of stuff.

1607
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 1: It's on your playlist right now.

1608
01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 2: It's don't got to be new, shall I look at

1609
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 2: can I look? You know, I don't know what don't

1610
01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 2: have to be new?

1611
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:14,439
Speaker 1: It can be just something.

1612
01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 4: That there's a song Toronto by snow Agra.

1613
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 6: I like every like I love Snow like.

1614
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 1: Her she is Nope, she has that soothing voice.

1615
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 4: Very It's like you can clean the house with it,

1616
01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 4: you can ride a nighttime ride with it. If you

1617
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 4: hear it out at brunch like a little brunch party too.

1618
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,759
Speaker 4: It's a vibe. It's always about the vibe, curating the vibes.

1619
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,519
Speaker 1: Vie women are the tastemakers. I always say that. So

1620
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:39,679
Speaker 1: it's a good time.

1621
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:41,799
Speaker 2: Kiss you righting now by Duckworth.

1622
01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 4: That's like the last song list.

1623
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 1: Okay, that's R and B.

1624
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:47,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of R and B vibe. I love R

1625
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:47,760
Speaker 2: and B.

1626
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 4: I feel like rap. Most of my rap songs are

1627
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 4: like in the car when I'm going places, or when

1628
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 4: I'm working out, or like boxing or something.

1629
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 1: You know what. It's crazy because a lot of rap

1630
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:58,679
Speaker 1: music I like to listen to, like the older stuff,

1631
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: like the two thousand, stuff like I ain't gonna I'm

1632
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:03,679
Speaker 1: gonna put on a little Nelly, you know what I'm saying.

1633
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put on the stuff that we really used

1634
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,679
Speaker 1: to be getting down the Yin Yang Twins. They don't

1635
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:12,680
Speaker 1: make the little Lil Wayne. You know what I'm saying applies.

1636
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: That's what Bootie That's what I'm putting on most of

1637
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: the time.

1638
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 4: Sometimes I do listen to like a lot of like

1639
01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:24,439
Speaker 4: shoot them, shoot them up game music, but sometimes be

1640
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 4: in that move.

1641
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 13: I'm not gonna lie not shoot them because I had

1642
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 13: gone Era, but I was just like, damn, this ship hard.

1643
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 4: It's like I wanted to spend the block. I could,

1644
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:43,879
Speaker 4: but I won't. But if I wanted to, we like freedom.

1645
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:47,639
Speaker 4: It's just like if I was going to this would

1646
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,679
Speaker 4: be the song. I agree.

1647
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have my little my little drill music Era. Yeah,

1648
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: it's hard, it's good.

1649
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything in a choke hole for.

1650
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 1: He's soft him up for us.

1651
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 2: Oh my.

1652
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 1: He said song.

1653
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 2: Imagine that's the first Little Dirk song you hear like

1654
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 2: my mother died more.

1655
01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:22,040
Speaker 4: I can stand up for oh so excepting like what

1656
01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 4: the fuck.

1657
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 1: The oh my god, it is so buddy. Okay.

1658
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 3: So my vibe going with the theme of afrobeats is

1659
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:35,759
Speaker 3: Aria Star and wiz Kid gimme Dad are Star's voice.

1660
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 3: I love Aria Sorry, Yeah, oh my god, she's I

1661
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:43,080
Speaker 3: love her down and she's beautiful, Like I said, I

1662
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 3: love when I she is.

1663
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:46,920
Speaker 1: And they're just so creative and they're just who they

1664
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 1: are and y'all know wiz Kid is that guy. He

1665
01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: don't mean, he do not miss.

1666
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,960
Speaker 4: It's interesting seeing him transition into the Western.

1667
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1668
01:18:57,200 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 4: When I was in boarding school Nigeria, that was when

1669
01:18:59,800 --> 01:19:01,960
Speaker 4: he was getting popular. So I was like, I saw

1670
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:05,200
Speaker 4: whist Kid with the jerk during the Jerk era, So

1671
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:09,560
Speaker 4: it's interesting to see the transition to I think, like

1672
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 4: you guys, there's a lot of the language that they speak.

1673
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:15,759
Speaker 4: I don't really understand it either, because everybody Nigeria speaks

1674
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 4: very different languages. But it's the thing with afrobeats, I

1675
01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:21,320
Speaker 4: really like, it's like that emotion of the way it

1676
01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:22,960
Speaker 4: makes you feel. You don't understand a word they say,

1677
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:27,080
Speaker 4: what you feel the vibe. H.

1678
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 1: We don't know what the hell and we didn't even

1679
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:35,760
Speaker 1: know what we was doing for.

1680
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, do y'all go to afrobeats party?

1681
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 4: No?

1682
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:41,639
Speaker 1: I had afrobeats party in a very very long Yeah.

1683
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 4: I just went to.

1684
01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:43,759
Speaker 2: I just went to one in Brooklyn.

1685
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 4: It was a DJ named Flight Geran.

1686
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1687
01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:49,600
Speaker 6: I mean they had like that's a cute name. They

1688
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 6: had women like dancing on poles. They had like, you know,

1689
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:55,520
Speaker 6: the whistle piano.

1690
01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:57,479
Speaker 4: Piano and everybody's dancing that's.

1691
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:01,720
Speaker 1: Body I have never one person that played straight afrobeats

1692
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,640
Speaker 1: and everybody wasn't having a good time. That vibe just

1693
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 1: be different. I love, It's just it sets the vibe

1694
01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 1: because it's not just too much, but you can still

1695
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,680
Speaker 1: turn up and then it's like the perfect balance. Like

1696
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: I think it's so crazy when people don't like afrobeats.

1697
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 1: There's a lot of Nigerian clubs in Houston to it's

1698
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: a lot of Nigerian clubs out here too.

1699
01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 2: But yeah, the American clubs is they getting out?

1700
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 6: I don't even rock with them right now because it's

1701
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 6: two dudes making eighty thousand dollars a year going bottle

1702
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,560
Speaker 6: for bottle, Like y'all should save up your money a

1703
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 6: little bit.

1704
01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:31,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, not Look, the economy is getting tough, so come

1705
01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:34,320
Speaker 3: and the gaggy is they got them clump.

1706
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:37,600
Speaker 1: Oh, let me ask y'all a question before we move on,

1707
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: because I got ate up on Twitter the other day

1708
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 1: because they were talking about buying women drinks buying men drinks,

1709
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,720
Speaker 1: and I said back in because I'm thirty five. So

1710
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 1: when I was in the club days, like when I

1711
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:50,040
Speaker 1: was partying turning up, like the men would buy the

1712
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:52,560
Speaker 1: bottles and we would just show up. Oh yeah, And

1713
01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, nowadays the men are stingy, like they buy

1714
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:57,160
Speaker 1: a bottle, they don't want to share with the women.

1715
01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 1: Because when I was in the club, it was like,

1716
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: you make sure that women have a good time, because

1717
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 1: if the women are having a good time, everybody's having

1718
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 1: a good time. So I made a tweet and I

1719
01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 1: was like, it's crazy. I said, the club nowadays is

1720
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:10,600
Speaker 1: like the men don't want to share their bottles with

1721
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 1: the women. And everybody was like, you broke batch. You

1722
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 1: can't go to the club and have a good time.

1723
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: I can't drink my own shit. I gotta share with

1724
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,479
Speaker 1: the bitches. They were so mad at me, they was

1725
01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 1: eating me up for days. Red pill community, Oh my gosh,

1726
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,720
Speaker 1: so let me do so you don't do y'all go

1727
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:27,960
Speaker 1: to the club still yet.

1728
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:30,799
Speaker 2: The hearing there, I gotta be somebody's birthday or something.

1729
01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 1: Right, But when y'all are like buying the bottles, y'all

1730
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:35,640
Speaker 1: want women. And even if you're in a relationship, I

1731
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 1: think you still want women around, not that you're necessarily

1732
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 1: trying to for sure talk to them, but you don't

1733
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 1: want to be in a section full of niggas.

1734
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:44,600
Speaker 4: I turned into a bottle of bartender. They have a

1735
01:21:44,920 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 4: because I don't drink. I drink, but like, like I've

1736
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 4: been sipping on this drink. I'm kind of like a

1737
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:51,240
Speaker 4: one drink type of person. So I'm pouring. I knew

1738
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:54,879
Speaker 4: I'm pouring like shots to the people on the outside

1739
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 4: of the booth. Yeah, I don't mind if it's like

1740
01:21:57,640 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 4: girls in the booth, right, it just has to be

1741
01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 4: like I'd rather the people the other guys know, those girls,

1742
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 4: the randoms that no one knows. Sometimes I'm like, especially

1743
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 4: like the girls, Like there'll be like one girl and

1744
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 4: she came here with no one, all right, I mean.

1745
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 1: I get stuff like that. But like I said, I

1746
01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 1: think times have changed a little bit because we used

1747
01:22:17,600 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: to like guys used to go to the club with

1748
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:21,519
Speaker 1: just their guys. We go to club with just our

1749
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: girls and we oh ship they pretty come let them

1750
01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:25,360
Speaker 1: in the station. We sent a drink and turn up.

1751
01:22:25,560 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 2: Yes, it used to be.

1752
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 1: It really used to be. We actually used to meet

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Speaker 1: people outside. Now let me ask y'all this, how's a

1754
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 1: woman ever sent y'all a drink in the club. Yes, yeah,

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01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: that's so that's normal.

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01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 6: Yes, I feel like that's normal. I never drink it though, Okay,

1757
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 6: I go by, I buy them and drink.

1758
01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I got you. I'm not gonna I've never bought

1759
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:45,160
Speaker 1: a man a drink in the club.

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01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to feel dizzy after this.

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01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 4: I bought. I bought drinks for for girls that I

1762
01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 4: wasn't even trying to talk. There was one time these

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01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 4: girls I heard them like trying to get like the

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01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 4: cheapest drink on the thing, and I was like, I

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01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:00,360
Speaker 4: was like, I'll just get y'all a drink. They're like,

1766
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 4: they're like debating and I was trying to order.

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01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're like, man, hurry up, get

1768
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 1: out the wat Yeah.

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01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:09,679
Speaker 4: They took it as like they wanted a conversation after

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01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 4: and I was like, no, I was good, Like, I

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01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 4: don't I'm not trying to get it actually, just like

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01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 4: eighty actually don't want to.

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01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm like, if you buy me

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01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 1: a drink, I'm definitely thank you. I'm going on my way.

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01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:20,040
Speaker 6: Yeah.

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01:23:20,040 --> 01:23:21,600
Speaker 2: I think that's I think that's how it should be.

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01:23:21,680 --> 01:23:23,920
Speaker 2: That's how it used to be back in the day.

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01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 6: But now everybody thinks, like some dudes think if they

1779
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 6: buy something for somebody or give something to somebody.

1780
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 2: They owe them.

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01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 6: So I feel like some women don't put themselves out there,

1782
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:34,679
Speaker 6: like I'm not even gonna go to their session because

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01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 6: like I owe them something.

1784
01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:38,800
Speaker 1: I owe you a good time and these jokes and

1785
01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to fuck came.

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01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 6: I don't even feel like we don't even need to conversate.

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01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 6: I think it's better sometimes you get people shots so

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01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:44,720
Speaker 6: we don't talk.

1789
01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:48,400
Speaker 1: I just feel like I like the social construct of

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01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:49,960
Speaker 1: like the club used to be, Like we used to

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01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 1: meet people vibe And I'm not saying we gotta get married.

1792
01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 1: We don't got to date, we don't got to talk.

1793
01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: Let's turn off, have a good time.

1794
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can just go home.

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01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they don't got to be more and don't

1796
01:23:59,400 --> 01:23:59,960
Speaker 1: got to be less.

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01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 6: Just that what it is like we're socialized in age

1798
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 6: where everybody thinks something means something.

1799
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 2: Oh did you see such and such he bought me

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01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 2: a drink tonight, And it's.

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Speaker 4: Like, or you can't even be like pictured with the

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01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 4: opposite sex. Yeah, especially when you probably get that you

1803
01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 4: guys probably getting a lot too. If you guys have

1804
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 4: a guy on the podcast and stuff like that, it's like, oh, like.

1805
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 1: They have been flirting a whole look at his everything,

1806
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 1: at each other. Yeah, look, don't stay too long. That's

1807
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:39,280
Speaker 1: why I keep looking at That's why I keep it going.

1808
01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,720
Speaker 2: We just we shared about five lives. We both keep

1809
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:50,040
Speaker 2: laughing like because you know what, you know, it's at

1810
01:24:50,080 --> 01:24:50,760
Speaker 2: the same yo.

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01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 4: They love each other.

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01:24:53,479 --> 01:24:55,519
Speaker 3: Okay, so now it's time for us to get into

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Speaker 3: the item of the week. Of course, part usual y'all know,

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Speaker 1: What do you have paror usual? Y'all know, unit is

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Speaker 1: by rich Look Hair on Instagram rich Lookhair dot Com.

1820
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:22,559
Speaker 1: And y'all gonna make sure y'all follow me on snapchat

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01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:24,760
Speaker 1: lex P zero five. We're getting turned up over there

1822
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Speaker 1: and I'll be having a ball period.

1823
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:28,120
Speaker 4: Okay, do you have a skincare brand? Then?

1824
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 1: Do I have a skincare brand?

1825
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:30,439
Speaker 4: No?

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01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm super into skincare, Like, I'm

1827
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:35,639
Speaker 1: obsessed with my skin, so like on my Snapchat always

1828
01:25:35,760 --> 01:25:38,360
Speaker 1: like to show the girls like what I'm using and

1829
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:41,080
Speaker 1: just put them on the new things cause I'm like

1830
01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:43,920
Speaker 1: super like I really wear a makeup probably like once

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01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:47,800
Speaker 1: a week. I'm so into looking great without makeup on,

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01:25:48,040 --> 01:25:50,000
Speaker 1: Like that's what I really care about. So I'll always

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01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:51,400
Speaker 1: be putting them on game on my snap.

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01:25:51,520 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 4: You know I've been getting to my skincare games. Yes,

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01:25:56,360 --> 01:26:00,080
Speaker 4: let's start using. Oh yeah, I love the wash I

1836
01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 4: started used to washing the little I got, uh what's

1837
01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:04,840
Speaker 4: it called? Like the little red light mask?

1838
01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:05,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1839
01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:09,280
Speaker 5: So you have the doctor Dennis gross Wane Amazon.

1840
01:26:09,520 --> 01:26:10,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1841
01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:13,080
Speaker 5: So the thing about that mask, I have it too,

1842
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 5: and I'm weird all the time.

1843
01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 1: That's a good mask to have. So you have to

1844
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 1: look though, because red light masks, it's like they have

1845
01:26:20,040 --> 01:26:22,519
Speaker 1: to have a certain voltage and a certain number of

1846
01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:23,760
Speaker 1: lights to make sure that it's.

1847
01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:24,719
Speaker 4: Working actually doing something.

1848
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 1: Yes, because I love a good red light therapy session.

1849
01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:29,800
Speaker 1: It does wonders for your skins.

1850
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:32,479
Speaker 3: I really like my mask too, because it goes between

1851
01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 3: the red light and the blue light therapy. The blue

1852
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 3: light therapy is really good for like acne pro and

1853
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:41,599
Speaker 3: like getting rid of inflammation and pimples. And then of course,

1854
01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:43,920
Speaker 3: the red light is really good for anti aging.

1855
01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:49,519
Speaker 4: I was like looking at my eyes like.

1856
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:57,560
Speaker 1: You, and I also look at skincare is kind of

1857
01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 1: like my me time, Like I love just like getting

1858
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:02,439
Speaker 1: in my vanity and just doing my little self care

1859
01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: and just kind of like, you know, it's just I

1860
01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:07,200
Speaker 1: think it's important, like just to take care of yourself

1861
01:27:07,240 --> 01:27:09,160
Speaker 1: because when you feel good and like you feel like, Okay,

1862
01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:12,759
Speaker 1: I did my skincare. I have a very intensive skincare routine.

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01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:13,760
Speaker 1: Like I'm very.

1864
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 2: Serious self care.

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01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 6: Make you take care of other things too, Yeah you

1866
01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:18,760
Speaker 6: started taking care of yourself. Next thing, you know, you

1867
01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:20,400
Speaker 6: didn't clean the house by accident, Like.

1868
01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:22,720
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not gonna lie like I'm a

1869
01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:26,760
Speaker 1: very clean person, and I feel like I can never

1870
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:30,040
Speaker 1: like do my skincare. My bathroom is messy, my house

1871
01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 1: is messy, you know what I'm saying. So I just

1872
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 1: feel like it just is all one. Like I love

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01:27:35,120 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 1: walking into my house and being like, oh my gosh.

1874
01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 1: Like every time people walk in my house, they be

1875
01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:41,240
Speaker 1: like it's so nice to me here.

1876
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 4: I'll be like, yeah, are using sunscreen too?

1877
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 1: Oh that's what I was putting on my legs, Like you.

1878
01:27:45,760 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 4: Don't really know they have to use sunscreen.

1879
01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 1: I have to, So I've started using this this certain

1880
01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 1: type of lotion on my skin and it has vitamin

1881
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,720
Speaker 1: C in it and retino, so I'm making sure, like

1882
01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:56,360
Speaker 1: that's what I was spraying on my legs early. That

1883
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,360
Speaker 1: was like my sunscreen. Gotta make sure you protect your

1884
01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:01,280
Speaker 1: seat because don't or what you do with your skincare.

1885
01:28:01,320 --> 01:28:03,519
Speaker 1: If you're not putting on sunscreen, it don't matter.

1886
01:28:03,800 --> 01:28:05,200
Speaker 2: Some of these boys just got to start with.

1887
01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:11,800
Speaker 1: Let's start then, let's start with the basics.

1888
01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 2: Start with some Just get some sera V and.

1889
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:16,920
Speaker 4: Rubb rubbing right there.

1890
01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:18,120
Speaker 1: Why don't y'all ball.

1891
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:21,000
Speaker 2: Some people don't watch it.

1892
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:22,600
Speaker 1: They don't wash their balls, and they don't like to

1893
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:26,960
Speaker 1: wash their as that ship get well, washing your ass

1894
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 1: should be. It was saying that. They was like, I'm

1895
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:30,720
Speaker 1: not digging in my booty like that.

1896
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:34,760
Speaker 6: But them they got ball theodoring now talked of.

1897
01:28:34,800 --> 01:28:40,200
Speaker 1: My booty the yodering on the other they body the thing.

1898
01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:42,040
Speaker 1: It is the same thing.

1899
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:42,720
Speaker 4: You know.

1900
01:28:42,840 --> 01:28:45,240
Speaker 1: They got a label stuff as men and male. So

1901
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 1: y'all don't feel some type of ways ball theodoran is

1902
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:50,919
Speaker 1: the same thing as booty theodorant. It's the same ingredients.

1903
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:54,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we're gonna get into our favorite topic of

1904
01:28:54,880 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 3: the week. We just pour your heart out. Make sure

1905
01:28:57,360 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 3: you send all of your questions to Ask for Minds

1906
01:28:59,640 --> 01:29:02,840
Speaker 3: at email dot com. Send us show questions, send a

1907
01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:07,040
Speaker 3: show testimonials. We're gonna do one question this week because

1908
01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:08,920
Speaker 3: we're getting into We're gonna do the.

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01:29:09,280 --> 01:29:10,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

1910
01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 3: Okay, Hey you guys. I need some advice about a

1911
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:17,400
Speaker 3: situation that happened this prior weekend. This guy started talking

1912
01:29:17,439 --> 01:29:20,400
Speaker 3: to got a hotel for him and I and we

1913
01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:23,320
Speaker 3: got to the sexual portion. I went down on him

1914
01:29:23,360 --> 01:29:26,880
Speaker 3: and you could smell musty balls and ass see we

1915
01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:27,640
Speaker 3: was just talking about that.

1916
01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:29,920
Speaker 1: I know I wasn't wrong for.

1917
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:33,639
Speaker 5: Immediately calling him out, putting my clothes on and leaving.

1918
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 5: But was I wrong for blocking him? Absolutely not.

1919
01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:39,760
Speaker 1: That's my opinion. You ain't wrong for blocking him.

1920
01:29:40,360 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 4: The reason that she blocked him.

1921
01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:42,240
Speaker 1: Do she need to?

1922
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:46,600
Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think she needs to.

1923
01:29:47,280 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 6: I think that even like even if he called in

1924
01:29:50,439 --> 01:29:53,760
Speaker 6: that situation, like let's say, for some reason, the restaurant

1925
01:29:53,920 --> 01:29:56,280
Speaker 6: was hot and he just like caught like some bad

1926
01:29:56,360 --> 01:29:58,640
Speaker 6: wind and now he's thinking like as of.

1927
01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:00,880
Speaker 1: That when that ain't win.

1928
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:05,639
Speaker 2: Would like I'm just saying worst case scenario. Worst case scenario.

1929
01:30:05,760 --> 01:30:08,120
Speaker 6: He already stinks, right, nothing he could do about it,

1930
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,719
Speaker 6: all right, there's no way you should let a woman

1931
01:30:10,880 --> 01:30:12,080
Speaker 6: touch you and you know you stink.

1932
01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 2: It should be like something like.

1933
01:30:13,760 --> 01:30:14,599
Speaker 1: You smell yourself.

1934
01:30:14,600 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I just had I just

1935
01:30:17,400 --> 01:30:20,160
Speaker 2: had big surgery. I can't do it surgery.

1936
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:23,360
Speaker 4: Go to the bathroom real quick, huh, or just go to.

1937
01:30:23,680 --> 01:30:26,799
Speaker 2: I feel like that's crazy. He's a little white, Huh, it's.

1938
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:30,719
Speaker 4: Over like you stink, you know, you feel your thighs

1939
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:31,360
Speaker 4: a little sticky.

1940
01:30:31,439 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna lie if I go take your ass home.

1941
01:30:37,200 --> 01:30:38,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna also feel some type of way if I

1942
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:40,439
Speaker 1: go down to give your head and I smell dow

1943
01:30:40,640 --> 01:30:43,000
Speaker 1: soap and I got down soap. Correct, that means you

1944
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:44,080
Speaker 1: just went in there and wash.

1945
01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:48,680
Speaker 4: Your Just say that he cares about his cleaniness.

1946
01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:50,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm gonna still feel some type of way

1947
01:30:50,920 --> 01:30:54,639
Speaker 1: about not feel it smells like ass. It's both both

1948
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:55,320
Speaker 1: of the situation.

1949
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:56,559
Speaker 2: But I should have went home.

1950
01:30:56,840 --> 01:30:59,920
Speaker 4: Should also wouldn't use the hand, so I would right

1951
01:31:00,240 --> 01:31:03,639
Speaker 4: off the trace a little bit bit. You gotta get

1952
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:06,559
Speaker 4: like the wet wipes I'm taking because.

1953
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 1: You got you know, they got that for me in

1954
01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:13,120
Speaker 1: dude wipes, so y'all will feel comfortable.

1955
01:31:13,120 --> 01:31:15,680
Speaker 4: They called I'm a wife I'm a white guy now too, well,

1956
01:31:15,680 --> 01:31:16,720
Speaker 4: I always been a wife guy.

1957
01:31:18,080 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 3: It could just be like, babe, let's take a shower together.

1958
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:22,040
Speaker 3: I think we should shower.

1959
01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 2: Let's do something. Let's not get into it right away,

1960
01:31:29,960 --> 01:31:33,959
Speaker 2: have me that, all right? Turnround?

1961
01:31:35,320 --> 01:31:39,479
Speaker 1: Okay. So with our next segment, we're gone do what

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01:31:39,840 --> 01:31:42,360
Speaker 1: the crash jummies do. We're gonna let y'all, you know,

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01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:45,120
Speaker 1: introduce this segment because we're gonna do things. Y'all. Way,

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Speaker 1: this go around, all right?

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01:31:46,760 --> 01:31:51,439
Speaker 4: So we do a Yeah, we do a segment what

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01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:54,599
Speaker 4: we call our listeners. So the questions this week are

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01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 4: what's the worst date you've ever been on? And what

1968
01:31:59,040 --> 01:32:01,880
Speaker 4: did your ex do? And you still stayed? And what

1969
01:32:02,040 --> 01:32:02,479
Speaker 4: did you do?

1970
01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:06,720
Speaker 6: And yeah, we we saved this like we're supposed to

1971
01:32:06,800 --> 01:32:09,240
Speaker 6: use this question earlier, like two weeks ago, but we're

1972
01:32:09,240 --> 01:32:09,960
Speaker 6: saving it for them.

1973
01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 1: So this is about the world.

1974
01:32:12,080 --> 01:32:14,280
Speaker 2: Yes, you'll deserve it.

1975
01:32:14,479 --> 01:32:20,680
Speaker 4: Okay, hello yo yo, I can't hear that.

1976
01:32:21,600 --> 01:32:22,679
Speaker 1: And that was your ship.

1977
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 4: We're actually on poor Minds podcast right now, so this

1978
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:32,800
Speaker 4: is all right. We got a question for you, what's

1979
01:32:32,840 --> 01:32:34,040
Speaker 4: the worst date you've ever been on?

1980
01:32:35,040 --> 01:32:38,439
Speaker 2: Listen to listen to the first one.

1981
01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:41,840
Speaker 1: I got calfish pretty bad. But the one I mentioned

1982
01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:46,280
Speaker 1: was that she had an ex boyfriend's name tattooed on

1983
01:32:46,360 --> 01:32:46,680
Speaker 1: the net.

1984
01:32:47,720 --> 01:32:49,400
Speaker 2: And I didn't see it until.

1985
01:32:51,120 --> 01:32:54,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I just didn't see it until I was

1986
01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:55,599
Speaker 1: like two hours into the day.

1987
01:32:59,600 --> 01:33:01,639
Speaker 2: Her friends tattooed on her neck.

1988
01:33:02,360 --> 01:33:04,400
Speaker 1: Trust no man tattooed on her wrist.

1989
01:33:05,439 --> 01:33:06,519
Speaker 11: It's just it was.

1990
01:33:06,600 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 4: It was it was uncomfortable. What was a boyfriend's name?

1991
01:33:11,920 --> 01:33:13,439
Speaker 1: It was, I don't know, it was a it was

1992
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:16,560
Speaker 1: a my name is joseph Son't.

1993
01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:22,479
Speaker 2: Close to that, nobody, nobody wasn't mine a little street?

1994
01:33:22,520 --> 01:33:25,439
Speaker 2: What's wrong with a long tattoos?

1995
01:33:25,840 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 7: And then I asked her about it, Yeah, and she

1996
01:33:28,479 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 7: was saying that he was locked up, so yeah, it

1997
01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 7: was about a little weird for me.

1998
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:36,599
Speaker 2: That was the worst state.

1999
01:33:38,400 --> 01:33:41,120
Speaker 4: And then uh after what happened and while.

2000
01:33:40,960 --> 01:33:44,920
Speaker 2: He was locked up and it was some violent stuff, so.

2001
01:33:46,280 --> 01:33:47,479
Speaker 4: And then she can go out again?

2002
01:33:47,520 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 2: And I said, no, how old are you?

2003
01:33:50,720 --> 01:33:51,479
Speaker 1: I'm putting five?

2004
01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:56,360
Speaker 2: Do you go on day till uh I have I've

2005
01:33:56,360 --> 01:33:57,000
Speaker 2: been calmed down.

2006
01:33:57,520 --> 01:34:04,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, ones like that. We just everyone can be funny.

2007
01:34:05,080 --> 01:34:07,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just a little bit too nerdy.

2008
01:34:07,840 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 14: I just feel like that's a little straight. I mean,

2009
01:34:11,360 --> 01:34:17,439
Speaker 14: I mean, a tattoo is not that bad. She can't

2010
01:34:17,479 --> 01:34:18,120
Speaker 14: make up a lot.

2011
01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:20,080
Speaker 2: She didn't a little country.

2012
01:34:20,760 --> 01:34:21,439
Speaker 1: But that's all right.

2013
01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:22,760
Speaker 2: Make your rais and get that ring.

2014
01:34:22,880 --> 01:34:29,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, change your minds color up today.

2015
01:34:30,280 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 2: This is a lot like it's always like.

2016
01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:33,680
Speaker 1: To be hanging up in face like that.

2017
01:34:33,840 --> 01:34:39,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, we do sometimes to get a good one. It's

2018
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 4: your question, Pat, Yo, what's happen? Which one? Which one?

2019
01:34:45,240 --> 01:34:46,200
Speaker 2: You answer? One or two?

2020
01:34:46,280 --> 01:34:48,599
Speaker 4: My bad one. We're on poor Mind's podcast right now.

2021
01:34:48,720 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 4: How's it going? Pretty good? Pretty good? Pretty good?

2022
01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:55,439
Speaker 6: We keep getting all the nerdy dude, we love a

2023
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:57,720
Speaker 6: little hard. I got a question for you. What did

2024
01:34:57,800 --> 01:34:59,360
Speaker 6: your ex do and you still stay?

2025
01:35:02,200 --> 01:35:03,120
Speaker 2: What did my old So.

2026
01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:09,120
Speaker 7: I was in an open relationship and she wanted to

2027
01:35:10,760 --> 01:35:13,519
Speaker 7: date a former white supremacist.

2028
01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:17,400
Speaker 4: And I said no, but I still stayed in the relationship.

2029
01:35:19,240 --> 01:35:20,439
Speaker 2: Where you white or black?

2030
01:35:21,760 --> 01:35:23,439
Speaker 1: He's black. You can tell you.

2031
01:35:25,200 --> 01:35:28,000
Speaker 2: He got that twine, he said, a white supremacist sound

2032
01:35:28,160 --> 01:35:28,920
Speaker 2: like sound a little.

2033
01:35:29,280 --> 01:35:29,840
Speaker 4: Is she black?

2034
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:36,120
Speaker 1: Yes, that was gonna kill you. Well, mixed, she's mixed.

2035
01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:40,240
Speaker 1: It's her mom is her mom? White? Is her mom? White?

2036
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:42,280
Speaker 4: Mom?

2037
01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:42,759
Speaker 7: Was black?

2038
01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:46,280
Speaker 1: Oh? Because usually the ones with the white mom I

2039
01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:51,479
Speaker 1: don't know around. But yeah, why did you stay? And

2040
01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:53,439
Speaker 1: what was the reason she wanted to date him in

2041
01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:54,200
Speaker 1: the first place?

2042
01:35:54,920 --> 01:35:56,759
Speaker 7: Okay, So it's kind of a long story.

2043
01:35:56,920 --> 01:35:58,240
Speaker 1: So making sure.

2044
01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:01,280
Speaker 7: She just gotten hit by a car?

2045
01:36:02,160 --> 01:36:07,439
Speaker 1: Me too, And I'm sorry to her credit, this.

2046
01:36:07,560 --> 01:36:10,960
Speaker 7: Is years ago. Yeah, I made like two or three

2047
01:36:11,160 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 7: tragic mistakes since then.

2048
01:36:12,600 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 2: This is like an old as relationship.

2049
01:36:14,560 --> 01:36:17,400
Speaker 7: But I hit by a car, broke my left shoulder.

2050
01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 7: She was looking at the hospital every day I get

2051
01:36:19,880 --> 01:36:22,879
Speaker 7: out the hospital, first day out the hospital after surgery,

2052
01:36:23,800 --> 01:36:26,960
Speaker 7: and she wants to bring up that she wants to

2053
01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 7: date a former white supremacist.

2054
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:33,519
Speaker 2: And because she like okay, so she used to go

2055
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:35,280
Speaker 2: to this college.

2056
01:36:34,960 --> 01:36:37,640
Speaker 7: Which I won't name, that had like this big like

2057
01:36:38,520 --> 01:36:42,439
Speaker 7: sexual like you know, scandal. There's like some dude that

2058
01:36:42,600 --> 01:36:45,160
Speaker 7: was grooming a bunch of young men and that really

2059
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:50,920
Speaker 7: affected her and for some reason that made her want

2060
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:55,400
Speaker 7: to like do weird shit like day a former white supremacist.

2061
01:36:55,800 --> 01:36:58,080
Speaker 7: I guess she was so inspired by this dude's story

2062
01:36:58,160 --> 01:37:00,559
Speaker 7: that he went from being a white supremacist to figure

2063
01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:04,439
Speaker 7: out how to not be one and turn and he

2064
01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:07,560
Speaker 7: like found his name, found his Instagram, showed it to

2065
01:37:07,640 --> 01:37:09,360
Speaker 7: me and said could I date him?

2066
01:37:09,400 --> 01:37:12,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, dang, no, this has been we

2067
01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:14,519
Speaker 2: were this is happening.

2068
01:37:14,880 --> 01:37:17,720
Speaker 7: And she locked herself in the bathroom and cried for

2069
01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:19,080
Speaker 7: an hour while I'm just sitting there with.

2070
01:37:19,080 --> 01:37:19,880
Speaker 4: A brocass arm.

2071
01:37:20,200 --> 01:37:20,439
Speaker 2: Wow.

2072
01:37:20,680 --> 01:37:24,000
Speaker 4: So after she cried, then you actually let her. No,

2073
01:37:24,600 --> 01:37:27,120
Speaker 4: so she did it? Then I did not do it.

2074
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:31,280
Speaker 2: No, this is a long story. Oh, this is a

2075
01:37:31,400 --> 01:37:34,160
Speaker 2: this is a this is a long story. So he

2076
01:37:34,200 --> 01:37:35,840
Speaker 2: could have just said his meat was little.

2077
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:38,360
Speaker 1: And just let me ask you a question. Did you

2078
01:37:38,479 --> 01:37:39,559
Speaker 1: used to spend money on her?

2079
01:37:40,800 --> 01:37:41,720
Speaker 7: Wait, said one more time?

2080
01:37:41,840 --> 01:37:43,320
Speaker 1: Did you used to spend money on her?

2081
01:37:44,800 --> 01:37:44,840
Speaker 4: No?

2082
01:37:45,000 --> 01:37:47,320
Speaker 1: I was broke to do that. What she want?

2083
01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:48,240
Speaker 2: What she wants you for?

2084
01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:48,479
Speaker 12: Bro?

2085
01:37:48,960 --> 01:37:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. It's the story, ain't added You

2086
01:37:53,280 --> 01:37:54,320
Speaker 1: ain't sounding the truth?

2087
01:37:54,760 --> 01:37:55,280
Speaker 2: Something right?

2088
01:37:55,800 --> 01:37:58,439
Speaker 1: You leaving some parts out? He hung up.

2089
01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:01,920
Speaker 3: Well, so I have to say this. I feel like

2090
01:38:02,200 --> 01:38:05,160
Speaker 3: he was lying. It was something else that he was

2091
01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:07,479
Speaker 3: leaving parts out here. Tell us what was really going.

2092
01:38:08,080 --> 01:38:09,559
Speaker 2: It might have been his cousin or no more.

2093
01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:12,920
Speaker 4: We have to call all girls now, dude, we're right,

2094
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 4: that's your question to pat?

2095
01:38:19,280 --> 01:38:19,519
Speaker 13: Hello?

2096
01:38:20,320 --> 01:38:24,559
Speaker 4: Hello, yo, all right, we're on Poor Minds podcast right now.

2097
01:38:24,560 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 4: How are you doing? Yes, we got a question for you,

2098
01:38:32,320 --> 01:38:32,799
Speaker 4: she said.

2099
01:38:35,760 --> 01:38:40,040
Speaker 2: Back, girl, one or two question?

2100
01:38:40,280 --> 01:38:42,080
Speaker 4: What is the question? Is your question? Which one?

2101
01:38:42,439 --> 01:38:43,760
Speaker 2: Which one you answer? One or two?

2102
01:38:45,560 --> 01:38:46,559
Speaker 4: Did you answer one or two?

2103
01:38:47,560 --> 01:38:48,240
Speaker 1: The first one?

2104
01:38:48,800 --> 01:38:49,080
Speaker 4: Okay?

2105
01:38:49,320 --> 01:38:51,680
Speaker 2: What did your ex do? And you still stay here?

2106
01:38:54,720 --> 01:38:55,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

2107
01:38:55,400 --> 01:38:55,599
Speaker 6: Yeah?

2108
01:38:55,720 --> 01:39:01,439
Speaker 9: So is the military. And we were say, and there's

2109
01:39:01,439 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 9: a lot of gay bars up there, and.

2110
01:39:07,800 --> 01:39:08,559
Speaker 2: The majority of.

2111
01:39:08,600 --> 01:39:14,560
Speaker 8: Our friends were like gay marines, and we went to

2112
01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:19,519
Speaker 8: the bar with them, and my boyfriend basically asked me

2113
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:22,600
Speaker 8: if we could pretend like not to be together so

2114
01:39:22,760 --> 01:39:26,640
Speaker 8: he was single for the night, oh and so that

2115
01:39:26,760 --> 01:39:29,880
Speaker 8: he could be hit on by all the the gay men.

2116
01:39:32,320 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 9: And that was pretty early on in our relationship.

2117
01:39:35,320 --> 01:39:39,600
Speaker 1: We dated for about two years. Oh okay, you know what,

2118
01:39:39,720 --> 01:39:41,759
Speaker 1: let me not judge. You go ahead.

2119
01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:44,360
Speaker 4: Uh, that's crazy, there was.

2120
01:39:45,640 --> 01:39:47,760
Speaker 1: I was just telling my boyfriend about it right now.

2121
01:39:49,600 --> 01:39:53,240
Speaker 1: There's other signs that he was like kind of d l.

2122
01:39:55,479 --> 01:39:55,519
Speaker 6: H.

2123
01:39:56,200 --> 01:39:59,360
Speaker 9: Just I don't know a lot of it was someone

2124
01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:01,160
Speaker 9: I didn't realize until like after.

2125
01:40:01,040 --> 01:40:01,640
Speaker 2: We broke up.

2126
01:40:03,920 --> 01:40:05,280
Speaker 9: Yeah, that was a huge sign.

2127
01:40:05,760 --> 01:40:06,400
Speaker 4: Why did you stay?

2128
01:40:08,160 --> 01:40:12,320
Speaker 1: Why did I say ship? I was I was like

2129
01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:15,600
Speaker 1: m and he was.

2130
01:40:15,920 --> 01:40:18,320
Speaker 8: You know, at the time, I thought that he was

2131
01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:20,040
Speaker 8: like the best looking guy that I could be with.

2132
01:40:21,720 --> 01:40:24,040
Speaker 8: There wasn't a lot of options when I was out there.

2133
01:40:26,280 --> 01:40:28,800
Speaker 1: And also like he had an apartment, so I know

2134
01:40:28,880 --> 01:40:33,800
Speaker 1: that's right, right dude, right dude? Yeah, period, But you

2135
01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:36,920
Speaker 1: had to do what you had to, so you ain't

2136
01:40:36,960 --> 01:40:39,360
Speaker 1: gotta do it. No, lore, I still let me ask

2137
01:40:39,400 --> 01:40:41,160
Speaker 1: you this, would you It sounds like you may have

2138
01:40:41,280 --> 01:40:44,360
Speaker 1: been bisexual? Would you date a bisexual man again because

2139
01:40:44,360 --> 01:40:45,080
Speaker 1: you already did.

2140
01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:53,920
Speaker 9: I don't think I would, Like knowingly, I don't think

2141
01:40:53,960 --> 01:40:54,320
Speaker 9: I would.

2142
01:40:54,439 --> 01:40:54,880
Speaker 1: I think that.

2143
01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:58,080
Speaker 9: I mean, I just have my own personal beliefs about that.

2144
01:41:01,800 --> 01:41:04,760
Speaker 1: She said, I got my own money now, be you

2145
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:05,799
Speaker 1: can afford the apartment.

2146
01:41:05,920 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 2: Now I'm glad you know your worth. Now it's fire.

2147
01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:12,240
Speaker 4: Okay.

2148
01:41:13,720 --> 01:41:17,720
Speaker 1: That was fun. Tell everybody where they can find.

2149
01:41:17,560 --> 01:41:18,080
Speaker 2: You, guys.

2150
01:41:18,800 --> 01:41:22,560
Speaker 4: Follow us on Crash Dummies podcasts on all platforms, my

2151
01:41:22,680 --> 01:41:26,680
Speaker 4: personal pages, Mike dot E s I O b U.

2152
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, saw me p Johnson Junior Underscore it's a lot

2153
01:41:31,080 --> 01:41:32,240
Speaker 6: of P Johnson's.

2154
01:41:31,800 --> 01:41:36,120
Speaker 2: Out here, so I got yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Junior.

2155
01:41:36,280 --> 01:41:38,360
Speaker 2: I gotta you know, I can't even be like my daddy.

2156
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:38,920
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

2157
01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:43,280
Speaker 1: Well, I just want to say congratulations y'all with all

2158
01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:47,320
Speaker 1: your success likewise, you know what I'm saying. Anytime y'all

2159
01:41:47,400 --> 01:41:49,200
Speaker 1: want to link with somebody who y'all want to get

2160
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:49,879
Speaker 1: on their podcast?

2161
01:41:49,960 --> 01:41:52,080
Speaker 4: You know, we know a lot of people, Okay, we'll.

2162
01:41:51,880 --> 01:41:53,519
Speaker 1: Definitely you know. I feel like the main thing in

2163
01:41:53,640 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 1: this world is make sure we network and connect people

2164
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:57,160
Speaker 1: where we connect people?

2165
01:41:57,320 --> 01:42:00,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, this was fun. Want so far?

2166
01:42:01,640 --> 01:42:03,400
Speaker 1: Can we come on crashammies? We don't come on the walk,

2167
01:42:03,479 --> 01:42:06,360
Speaker 1: and then we can we can really Yeah, we're telling

2168
01:42:06,479 --> 01:42:08,600
Speaker 1: no walking, whatever y'all want, and we go into a

2169
01:42:08,680 --> 01:42:09,200
Speaker 1: game too.

2170
01:42:10,400 --> 01:42:17,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, bottles everywhere to first time here?

2171
01:42:18,120 --> 01:42:22,640
Speaker 2: All right, about a couple of rolls back from first you.

2172
01:42:22,680 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 1: Can tell makesure y'all follow Crash Dummies and follow them

2173
01:42:25,520 --> 01:42:26,880
Speaker 1: on everything and we'll see y'all next week.

2174
01:42:27,120 --> 01:42:29,400
Speaker 4: Got baby, come here, sit down, less talk.

2175
01:42:29,520 --> 01:42:30,439
Speaker 1: I gotta love to say, so.

2176
01:42:30,520 --> 01:42:33,640
Speaker 12: I guess I stopped by saying, but you know, the

2177
01:42:33,720 --> 01:42:37,519
Speaker 12: thing ain't been no walking apart from us take an

2178
01:42:37,880 --> 01:42:39,959
Speaker 12: you don't understand what yeah.

2179
01:42:40,320 --> 01:42:42,080
Speaker 2: And I don't want to see you cray and I

2180
01:42:42,080 --> 01:42:43,439
Speaker 2: don't want to be the one to tell you a.

2181
01:42:43,520 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 1: Last song when you you just don't know what's hung

2182
01:42:49,479 --> 01:42:56,800
Speaker 1: when you walking talk about it, So we.

2183
01:42:56,880 --> 01:42:57,360
Speaker 12: Do the best.

2184
01:42:57,479 --> 01:43:02,000
Speaker 5: I can't get you know this thing because never right time.

2185
01:43:02,160 --> 01:43:03,200
Speaker 4: Say good bye.

2186
01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:05,360
Speaker 2: First?

2187
01:43:06,160 --> 01:43:07,720
Speaker 1: Don't you go to start hating me.

2188
01:43:08,600 --> 01:43:11,880
Speaker 4: I really don't feel away. I want stans about you girls.

2189
01:43:11,920 --> 01:43:12,960
Speaker 1: It's not you, it's me.

2190
01:43:13,640 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 2: Got gotta figure out where me.

2191
01:43:16,600 --> 01:43:21,640
Speaker 15: Oh, it's never right gonna say goodbye, but we know

2192
01:43:22,080 --> 01:43:22,680
Speaker 15: there you gotta go.

2193
01:43:23,160 --> 01:43:24,439
Speaker 4: I separate way.

2194
01:43:26,400 --> 01:43:28,560
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it,

2195
01:43:28,920 --> 01:43:32,639
Speaker 1: and it's killing me. It is never right time, right

2196
01:43:32,880 --> 01:43:33,559
Speaker 1: time to sing?

2197
01:43:35,200 --> 01:43:38,639
Speaker 12: Your heart is breaking And a thousand time I found

2198
01:43:38,720 --> 01:43:41,800
Speaker 12: myself asking why why why am I taking so long

2199
01:43:41,880 --> 01:43:45,080
Speaker 12: to say this? But trust me, girl, I never meant

2200
01:43:45,120 --> 01:43:48,640
Speaker 12: to crush your world. Never talk about see today we go?

2201
01:43:50,520 --> 01:43:52,720
Speaker 2: No, how do you let it go with you?

2202
01:43:53,200 --> 01:43:57,799
Speaker 4: You just don't know what that's all you're talking about?

2203
01:43:58,240 --> 01:43:59,439
Speaker 2: Talk about me?

2204
01:44:04,600 --> 01:44:09,360
Speaker 1: Get along high you guys, you'll see it right time

2205
01:44:09,840 --> 01:44:13,200
Speaker 1: singing bye the first move because if I don't you

2206
01:44:13,320 --> 01:44:16,160
Speaker 1: go to start hating me because I really don't.

2207
01:44:16,040 --> 01:44:18,920
Speaker 12: Feel the way I wants fans about you. Girl, It's

2208
01:44:19,000 --> 01:44:21,640
Speaker 12: not you, it's me. I gotta gotta figure out what

2209
01:44:21,920 --> 01:44:28,080
Speaker 12: on me. Oh, it's never time time singabae, but we

2210
01:44:28,280 --> 01:44:30,840
Speaker 12: know then we gotta go a separate way.

2211
01:44:33,040 --> 01:44:35,200
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it,

2212
01:44:35,600 --> 01:44:36,479
Speaker 1: and it's killing me.

2213
01:44:36,680 --> 01:44:40,320
Speaker 4: It's never right right time to sing.

2214
01:44:41,200 --> 01:44:44,759
Speaker 2: Listen to your heart. You know we should be a party.

2215
01:44:45,000 --> 01:44:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just can't do it.

2216
01:44:47,160 --> 01:44:48,760
Speaker 12: I just can't do it.

2217
01:44:49,520 --> 01:44:52,920
Speaker 2: Listen to your heart. You know we should be your pod,

2218
01:44:53,080 --> 01:44:55,080
Speaker 2: And I just can't do it.

2219
01:44:55,520 --> 01:44:57,879
Speaker 4: And sometimes it makes me want.

2220
01:44:57,680 --> 01:45:19,080
Speaker 15: To do you hear me crying, say oh, yeah, first

2221
01:45:20,520 --> 01:45:23,360
Speaker 15: start hating me because I really don't feel the way

2222
01:45:23,400 --> 01:45:24,680
Speaker 15: everyone spells about you.

2223
01:45:25,160 --> 01:45:26,560
Speaker 2: Girl is not you, it's me.

2224
01:45:26,800 --> 01:45:30,080
Speaker 12: I got I gotta figure out what I need about

2225
01:45:30,120 --> 01:45:41,680
Speaker 12: you say the most feel way, But I do it,

2226
01:45:42,120 --> 01:45:42,960
Speaker 12: but it's killing me.

2227
01:45:43,320 --> 01:45:50,320
Speaker 1: I never right right. I have to say, by poor

2228
01:45:50,439 --> 01:45:53,520
Speaker 1: dummy's in this motherfucker stop sucking playing.

2229
01:45:53,280 --> 01:45:56,439
Speaker 2: With us, And then she slow numbers, Yeah, my

2230
01:45:56,600 --> 01:46:10,760
Speaker 1: One, it is there, It is there, It is there.