WEBVTT - Love Stories: Peta Murgatroyd And Maks Chmerkovsky 0:00:03.920 --> 0:00:04.760 Hey there, folks. 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:09.559 In today's Love Stories series, a couple that's been together 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:14.320 over a decade and we can't believe it, not after 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:20.239 you hear how he dumped her years ago. Welcome to 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:24.400 this special Cuffing season edition of Amy and TJ. Robes. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:27.320 This was one folks are gonna hear here in a minute. 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:30.240 But I've heard of some breakup stories. This is worse 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:31.400 than texting a breakup. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.920 It's so bad that I can't believe that they've now 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:36.520 been married for seven years. 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:37.640 Let's just put it that way. 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:40.879 And we're talking about a beloved couple, a couple that 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.480 I know most of you have seen on the Ballroom 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:48.760 Dancing with the Stars, Peter Murgatroyd and Max Schmerkowsky. 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:51.479 They actually met on Broadway. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:53.640 But they started dating when they were on Dancing with 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:56.840 the Stars, and then they stopped dating while they were 0:00:56.880 --> 0:01:00.440 on Dancing with the Stars, which is never fun because 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.120 that's why people say you shouldn't. 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:03.640 I can't say what they say. 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:04.440 What do they say? 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.959 They say you shouldn't poop where you eat? 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:09.000 Is that what they say? I thought it was Pen 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:09.800 and Company, inc. 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:11.319 Oho. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.560 Oh god. What we're trying to say is you're not 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:17.720 supposed to date people at work. We certainly would be 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:21.720 advocates of that policy. You should never ever, under any 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.840 circumstance days somebody work. But it ended up working out 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:26.960 for them. But you said they broke up for a 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.280 little while, and it's one of the stories or one 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.000 of the questions we've asked the couples in our series, 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.399 asking about how close they've gotten the breaking up, But 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:37.399 they actually broke up, and he did it in a 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:40.120 way that I think the video will show both of 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:40.920 our jaws is. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:42.760 We're dropped, it's true. 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:45.640 But to hear how far they've come and once they 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:49.680 committed or recommitted back to one another, it's so cool 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.320 to hear how they operate with their three kids. In fact, 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:55.440 they're so busy they actually had to do this interview 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:58.520 you're about to hear in their closet, and that's how 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:06.400 we begin our interview with Max and Peter. Peter and Max, 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:09.440 so good to see both of you coming to us 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.720 from your closet. I love it. I just love seeing 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:15.440 your faces. But it's especially fun to see where you 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:16.120 are right now. 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:18.520 Thank you, it's so nice to be here. Thank you 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.200 so much for having us this is going to be 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:20.880 really fun. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:23.800 You will you say that now? 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:28.359 Welcome to the closet. Welcome. Yeah, this is definitely space 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:31.160 we spend the most time, and if we decide to 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:34.320 do any kind of business activity, I take calls here. 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.919 Peter's office is literally right there. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:40.519 And hibernate here and I just shut the door from 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:41.160 the babies. 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:45.959 You know, it's excellent. But what a life? What a life? 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:49.680 It's amazing, it's amazing. Those are all good problems to have. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:52.000 All right, we're going to launch right into our questions. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:55.079 So the first question we've asked all the couples is this, 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:58.640 each of you, if you would use three words to 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.880 describe your relationship right now? 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:02.840 Peter, I'll go, I'll start with you. 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:11.079 I got to think of some nice ones right now. Okay, 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:12.520 I'm just gonna be really honest. 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:16.480 Yeah, we listen and we don't. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:23.960 Stressful, Okay, three children, two babies, stressful, passionate. Can I 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:27.000 say cohesive, like we're working together as a team. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:30.120 That's awesome. 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.320 Laughing at our answers. 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:35.400 The answers, there's no. I don't think there's right answer 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.000 is no. I think I think my first word was 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.440 and this is describing our relationship, you know, not like 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.680 our life and the setup in the situation. But the 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.520 first one I felt some reason, I was busy. You know, 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:51.200 we've never been I've never felt that way with us. 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:53.840 It was always just the two of us, and then 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.120 the three of us for for a while, and then yeah, 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.480 for six years we just had shy and it was incredible, 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.080 oop and down know that, and then bam, bam, now 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:06.800 we have a kindergarten. But you know, the other two 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:12.240 is I would say, I would say, for some reason, 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:16.120 we're fighting, but not in a way of fighting each other, 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.960 but in the form of I just don't know vernacular, 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.000 you know, English second language, but in the court of 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:24.760 like fighting for this because I found that now we 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:27.880 have a lot of distractions and we find ourselves to 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.760 like we are fighting to make sure that we you know, 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.080 we still us do. 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:33.560 Our date nights and we try to. 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:36.680 Yeah, and then the last one is loving because at 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.120 the end of it all, even the frame fight, you know, 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.600 the little cuddle, the little foot touch, you know, it's 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.120 all I need and we both kind of on the 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.200 same wavelength, like listen, I don't want to talk to you, 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:50.279 but can I feed touch No. 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.960 Literally, I totally get that. 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.960 If we've just had like some tea or something and 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.520 we go to bed, I'll feel the foot just slowly 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.720 come in and touch my toe and I'm like, oh, okay, 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:03.200 here we go. Yes, and then we roll over and 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:04.240 have a kiss and we're good. 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.240 Yeah. But last night she did the thing and I 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:07.960 was like, that's it. That's where I draw a line 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:11.960 is when she goes above the sheet and I and 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.320 they need the sheet and she's already sleeping and I'm 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:17.560 trying to the foot and the sheet between us. Yesterday 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:18.840 I was like, No, that's it. I can do it. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:20.240 I rolled over and I went to bed. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:26.320 Okay, we have a question on the list about fighting, 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:29.400 and you all have answered like question about intimate touch, 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:33.200 all these others already. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:32.920 We can elaborate. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:36.919 All right, next question here for you guys. And we 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:38.760 had to take it back back to the beginning. Was 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:43.200 there immediate chemistry when you first met. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:49.120 No, because we were in different relationships at the time. 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:52.360 He was engaged. I was with a long term boyfriend. 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:54.720 So when we met, it was very much high on 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:58.039 Peter Heim. I'm Max. He we met on Broadway. He 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:02.919 came to be headline our show, which. 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:05.839 Did you just say the word? I came to be 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:08.120 the star of the show. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:10.920 Do you see what I'm dealing with? 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:15.000 Is why she immediately disliked me very much. She was like, 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:18.240 this guy walked in, who does he think he is brought? Not? 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:23.520 She was the list. It was very, very cordial, very 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:29.080 workplace environment. It wasn't anything. There was nothing on the radar. 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:34.560 But again until he came back and he was single. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.120 When he came back again to do another stint with 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:43.239 our show, I was still with my relationship. But I crack. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:47.200 He cracks, I started, I have, I have, I have 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:48.800 contributed to some cracks. 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:50.039 There were some cracks. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.599 Every time I had a pr event to promote the show, 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:54.479 they'd be like, well, who do you want to take? 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:57.080 And it was a cast of like twenty four incredible 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.359 dances and you're like, yet the blonde one. What's her 0:06:59.440 --> 0:06:59.880 name again? 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:00.359 You know? 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:04.680 Make sure that's like, of course I don't know her anything. Yeah, 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:08.200 So yeah, there was definitely attraction and. 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:10.640 Not in the beginning, that's what they're asking. 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.960 Well again, deep inside possibly probably you know. 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:15.680 Because not from me. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:17.600 As soon as I got single and there was a 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:22.120 lot of options and for some reason, a lot of. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:25.920 Oh my god, he was the star of the show. 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:27.720 He had a lot of options. 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.400 I'm all for two here with the way she presents us. 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:34.680 So that's amazing, all right. Next question, who' said I 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:35.880 love you first? 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:41.880 Well, we were dating for about maybe four or five 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:45.640 months when we wanted to. We both wanted to say it, 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.600 and I remember we made up a phrase called just 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:52.000 we just said pickles to one another, which is so random, 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.480 but we use the word pickles to sign off on 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:58.160 a text or to say Okay, have a great day pickles. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.520 Because we didn't really want to say it because it 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:01.240 was really early. 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:05.040 But I was definitely but he was the first one. 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:09.480 I'm one thousand percent more emotional in those type of 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:11.720 things in our relationships, So you know, I would have 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:13.680 said it first. I would have thought it first. I 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.239 would have wanted to say it first. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:18.920 Actually I screenshot all my texts from back in the day, 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:23.120 of course, just to like paper trail. Yeah, paper trail. 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:25.560 He he was. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.520 The first one to say I want to I want 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:29.360 to marry you. You know, this is where we're going 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.679 to get married. And and then he dumped me like 0:08:33.000 --> 0:08:33.800 five months later. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:37.160 We broke up. Yeah, but that's what men do when 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:41.520 they're in love. They run. We we I've acted on this, 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.800 you know, primeval emotion. It was like, oh my god, 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:48.000 what is this that I'm feeling my closet, all her stuff, 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:50.400 and I'm like, it was very jarring for me to 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.760 see that. You know, it used to be an empty space. 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.400 Now it's just like, well, wait, so you broke up 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:56.679 because you you're in the closet. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:57.280 Freaked you out? 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.760 No, I think I think it was the fact that 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:02.120 I knew she was the one, and you know, I 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:04.640 did the thing that all stupid men do is we're 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:08.240 just like, yeah, cofeet And I remember was the dumbest 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:08.920 breakup ever. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.320 And I had just bought him an eight thousand dollars 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:14.360 Louis Veiton's suitcase. 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:19.719 Irresponsible, I would say, this is respons my children, but you. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:24.360 Have to realize how crazy that was. I gave it. No, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:26.360 I was just like, we were so in love and 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.560 there was no reason for us to break up anytime soon. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.520 And then literally five days. 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.920 Later, I was so in love. There's no reason for 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:35.560 expensive presents. It's you know what I'm saying, My love 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.480 is what it was. And then bam. You put me 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:40.360 in the spot though I wanted to break up and 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.959 I was like not. She brought me the sting I 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.680 wanted for a couple. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:49.000 Of days later. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.720 And I drove her to the airport she was flying 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.880 to l A. I brove her. Today she hasn't I 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.920 haven't said a word. This is true story. She's now 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:05.760 at the airport, she's like nothing, she's the check in. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:10.280 I walked with her nothing security line. This is now 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.640 where we have to part ways. And as soon as 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:16.320 she's behind the rope, I'm like, let's just you know, 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.600 let's just give it time. Let's just do this. And 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:20.000 I did. 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.400 No. He said go do you boom, just go do 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:28.760 you for a second, I'm like, oh, okay, yeah. It was. 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:31.160 It was terrible. It was terrible. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.520 That's almost like an in person way of breaking up 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:36.760 over text, Like you waited till she was on the 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:37.600 other side. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.480 No, this is this is worse because she can't even 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:43.400 text me. She got on the plane and got no reception, 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:47.439 so this is like she had six six and a 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:49.600 half hour flight to think about all this. 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:50.720 It was terrible. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.120 It was horrible, really bad. 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.120 Why did you take him back? 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:55.080 Yes? 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:58.760 Because she came back groveling just at my feet, just 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:02.720 kind of live without you. I don't know, but well, 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:04.880 like please please, you know, like. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:10.200 That, okay, just slowly. 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:14.320 The reason why I knew he was this was just 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.160 a phase. It was just a thing he was going through, 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:18.880 was because on the way to the airport, he said 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:21.760 to me, why did you pack up all of your things? 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.880 Why did you take all the suitcases with you? And 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.520 I'm like, well, you're breaking up with me, right, why 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:27.959 would I. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:31.640 The suitcase? 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:32.080 No? 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.319 He was just like, you're so black and white? Why 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:37.560 would you take everything from the house? And I was like, 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.640 wait a second, do you still want me there? Partially 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.120 like it was, it was so strange, and that's how 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:44.839 you know. I was just like, Okay, this guy is 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:48.880 just going through something. Let's give it a second. Yeah, 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:50.240 that is. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.520 Kind of you two be that patient with him and 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:55.120 recognize that is love. And I have to ask, where 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:58.240 is that eight thousand dollars Louis Vuitton suitcase today? Whatever 0:11:58.280 --> 0:11:58.920 happened to it? 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:00.160 It's in storage right now. 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:01.560 It exists, It existed. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:03.600 I never get rid of it. I love it. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.880 Yeah, what do you mean it's mine to get I 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:11.199 did not we could have given it that I didn't 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.120 want to because I clearly didn't feel like this was 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:14.880 going to be forever. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:21.080 All right, So this might you kind of given a 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:23.600 little bit of the timeline here, But how long did 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:26.640 you date before you got engaged? And then how long 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.920 were you engaged before you actually got married? 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.800 So we dated first for that year, and then we 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:36.120 broke up for like a year and a half, got 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:39.679 back together fully back together in two thousand and four. 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:42.400 For a year and a half. Yeah, oh wow, I 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:43.920 thought it was like nine months. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:45.679 No, it was a little bit longer, though it. 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.680 Felt really fast. 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:52.839 Twenty fourteen, we got back together, and then you proposed 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:56.680 to me two thy fifteen, in December, so it was 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:58.680 like a year and two months because. 0:12:58.640 --> 0:12:59.920 After you already got back together. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.680 Yes, you're in two months that we've been back together 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:05.160 he proposed. And then what was the next. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.320 Question when you got married? How long were you engaged? 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:13.280 We were we got married seventeen July eighth. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:16.040 I remember these things. Peter doesn't remember when I proposed. 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:19.640 She's like, she just said it because she knew that. 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:22.760 I was like, I was listening, But it's so funny. 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:26.920 No, Yeah, so that was quick because and I wasn't 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:30.240 expecting it. I never said, hey, once we're back together, 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:31.640 you need to put a ring on my finger. 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:35.560 That was I would never I've never gone back together 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:39.480 any anywhere or back to anything. Like if I walk out, 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.360 I'm out. And it wasn't just relationships, just you know, 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:45.600 you know, I think it's my You know, you made 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.520 up your mind. If you go back on it, well 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.560 then why were you making up your mind to begin with. 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:51.720 You didn't give it enough thought, blah blah blah. So 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:55.040 I'm like, they're this captain, and so for me to 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:59.880 come back was like you coming back forever. And that's 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:02.080 that period of time. I was like, oh my god, 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:04.400 this is forever. Let me break up and see if 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.600 it's real, you know, And I think that that's what 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:09.000 it was. And I immediately as soon as we broke up, 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.400 I wanted her back. You know. The the year and 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:13.280 a half that she says it was, like I said 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:16.240 to me, was so so much less because there was 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:18.199 a period of time that we stayed away, but then 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.600 we started bumping into each other in our friends' houses 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.760 and not you know, it's it was we did not 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:25.800 want to let each other go, so we always knew 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.400 when I got back together with her. For me, it 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:30.360 was a matter of like, why can't I do right now? 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:32.960 Why do I have to wait? Because I'm already back 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.600 with that person. That means I'm here forever, you know. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.120 And so for me this you know, it was an 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:43.760 immediate yes. And also yesterday eight year old was like money, wait, 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.840 I was born in January and your waiting was in July. 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.680 And so he talked these questions. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:57.720 Like to get married first, that we. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:59.600 Go to school in La Bro. We're not We're not 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:00.080 going to talk. 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:12.960 Our next question. Here has been interesting to hear some 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.440 of the range of answers. But why for you all 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:19.000 was it important to be married? How would things have 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:23.040 been different if you decided to continue your relationship without 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:26.800 having it official, without having the government stamp if you will. 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:31.680 It's funny. Once we had Shy in January twenty seventeen, 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:37.520 I felt like he was all of our focus, our 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:41.560 friends and family and Max I feel like we're very 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:45.320 much pushing for us to get married because they they 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.440 felt like, if we don't do it now, we're never 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.560 going to do it. We're just going to stay engaged 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:53.280 and have more children and stuff is that flying around 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:59.520 my head? So I was, I said in March. I remember, 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.840 I was like, can we just stop all this wedding planning? 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:07.040 Like I am overwhelmed. I am three months postpartum, I'm 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.680 working on Dancing with the Stars, like I can't take. 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.280 Any more going on to work. 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:16.440 Yeah, I was very overwhelmed. And then everyone's like, no, 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:20.400 we're getting married. We're going to Long Island and we're 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.280 getting married in a castle. Peter, what type of hoopa 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.000 do you want? What type of roses? 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.040 And I'm just like, that's how you fell. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:31.120 I did. I felt it was very suffocating and as 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:34.320 much as it was an amazing day and you know, 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:38.240 it turned out beautiful and everything we ever wanted it was, 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:41.080 it was a lot. And I personally I could have 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:43.560 not been married and been happy. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:46.240 I don't know she was. She should have said that, 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:49.080 because then then, you know, my thing was like we 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.240 second we met was like we're gonna get married. There 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:55.080 there was a whole castle and then and and it 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:57.600 was a you know, pig place. It was amazing, and 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:03.160 you know, I felt that there is a dream, you 0:17:03.200 --> 0:17:05.960 know scenario, and I felt like a girl and Peter 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:09.440 is that girl? You know, the dress and the beautiful scenario, 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:13.400 you know, celebration and all of that stuff. And I wanted, honestly, 0:17:13.560 --> 0:17:15.520 honest to be you know, I wanted to give it 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:18.800 to her. I wanted her to have that. You know, 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:23.440 this in spite of our incredibly busy schedules, and in 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:25.960 spite of the fact that we're already you know, we 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.880 started that family, were already had a kid and all that. 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:33.280 But listen, you know, if I if personally, if I 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:35.000 were to do it all over again, I'd probably do 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:37.760 it the same way. You know, spend way too much 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:41.200 money and you know, be that that that that couple 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:45.680 that did that thing. You know, didn't have to do it, 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.200 you know. But we also didn't have a honeymoon. We've 0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:53.080 never gone away or anything. We we we had a show, 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:56.359 a season, a tour, a tour, bus and the season again, 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.160 then banged wedding, then bang back on the show bank 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.600 you know, doing We kind of did the wedding as 0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:05.479 like part of part of our yearly schedule, you know, 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:09.359 so we never got to focus on it and all that. 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:14.720 So we have these beautiful, gorgeous memories, photos, videos. I'm 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:18.399 holding onto that, but like you said, you blink, and 0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:20.879 we're coming up, and you know it's gonna be a 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:23.919 ten year anniversary in two years, and I'm like, I 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:26.720 just can't believe that it's been almost a decade already. 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:29.359 Are here right? You'll never took a honeymoon? 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:29.879 None? 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:31.600 Still none? 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:34.920 Is it only agenda? Can you fit it into a schedule? 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:36.760 Is it only? Are you over it now? 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:38.320 We can we stop having babies? 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:43.280 Yeah? We're now like, okay, this summer, I'm not getting pregnant. 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.280 We are going away. We're hopefully hopefully got a plan 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:49.359 like a europe trip. That's okay. 0:18:50.560 --> 0:18:52.120 I don't know how that's possible, but. 0:18:56.000 --> 0:18:58.240 Put it on the division board for now. 0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:01.680 It's more than fact that, like you travel with kids, 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:04.080 it's like the same thing, but in a different country, 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:04.640 you know what I mean? 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:11.719 So and more expensive. Oh I get it. Is there 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:13.320 a nage difference between the two of you? 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:14.160 Yes? 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.199 Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you? 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.360 Thank you? 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:20.000 Who's older? 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:24.760 Two times? Thank you? I mean people keep thinking keep coming. 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:30.600 No, no, no, no, no, well I guess no, but. 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:32.600 I like it with my brother. It's the same thing 0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:35.840 with Val. Now. You know, there was a period of 0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:38.760 time when Val was like no, I'm also old, big 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:43.080 and you know, but now he's like, no, he doesn't 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:44.680 like it when people are like which one of years 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:45.240 older again? 0:19:46.720 --> 0:19:49.120 Exactly. Oh, I know, you get to a certain point. 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:50.639 It's not what you want to talk about, all right. 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.199 We've asked everybody this. Feel free to answer it. 0:19:53.240 --> 0:19:56.520