1
00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,440
Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Kathy's here

2
00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:11,560
Speaker 1: with me and where are we?

3
00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:15,640
Speaker 2: Keny, We are live tonight at the Golden Bachelor Women.

4
00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,920
Speaker 2: Tell all, what an evening, What a night. These women

5
00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,080
Speaker 2: are gorgeous. I can't even.

6
00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,000
Speaker 1: Sharing their emotions. I mean you have to tune in.

7
00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,960
Speaker 1: There was so much tonight.

8
00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,040
Speaker 2: It is so much and they look beautiful. Scene mel

9
00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,120
Speaker 2: I just got to meet him for the first time tonight.

10
00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:33,960
Speaker 2: It's amazing.

11
00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,920
Speaker 1: Okay with Jared and the teasing.

12
00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, this this has been a great night. But let's

13
00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,000
Speaker 2: let's get into right now. Let's get into these Okay, fabulous,

14
00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:43,879
Speaker 2: here we go.

15
00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,919
Speaker 1: Welcome to Golden Hour. I'm so happy to be here.

16
00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:53,040
Speaker 2: I'm good. Tell us, tell us share. How did you

17
00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:54,760
Speaker 2: feel seen all the women again?

18
00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,240
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's a highlight because I miss these ladies

19
00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:03,680
Speaker 3: so much, and you know, just waving and waiting yesterday

20
00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:04,280
Speaker 3: it was just.

21
00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:04,920
Speaker 2: A come on.

22
00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,640
Speaker 3: It was like torture and we were just like, we're

23
00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:09,759
Speaker 3: like teenagers.

24
00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,880
Speaker 1: We know exactly how you feel the best. You shared

25
00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,920
Speaker 1: so much emotion and.

26
00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,679
Speaker 2: How did that? How did that feel? Milk?

27
00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, well, I was so excited to see

28
00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,760
Speaker 3: Milk again. I mean I have processed and worked through everything,

29
00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,320
Speaker 3: and also watching the episodes, you know, it gives you

30
00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,840
Speaker 3: a lot of clarity, right, and so I saw very

31
00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,880
Speaker 3: clear that his heart was elsewhere and he had stronger connections,

32
00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,000
Speaker 3: and you know that makes it a little easier because

33
00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,759
Speaker 3: you see it.

34
00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,920
Speaker 1: The reason you yeah, I saw you kept asking was

35
00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,560
Speaker 1: it because of this sort because you.

36
00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,280
Speaker 3: Do wonder and you know I kept wondering that and

37
00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:55,320
Speaker 3: because I had to see those episodes, so I did.

38
00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,000
Speaker 3: You know, we work through all the feelings, right, it's

39
00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:01,600
Speaker 3: such a rollercoaster ride. But seeing him was great and

40
00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:06,080
Speaker 3: he's lovely and it was just fun. I just really

41
00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,080
Speaker 3: enjoyed myself.

42
00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,560
Speaker 2: How do you feel about your dating life going forward?

43
00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,400
Speaker 3: Well, I'm excited because I really meant it that he

44
00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:15,359
Speaker 3: kick started my.

45
00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:19,240
Speaker 4: Heart because you know, I had given up for so

46
00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,600
Speaker 4: long and just to know that, oh my gosh, I

47
00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:29,440
Speaker 4: can feel this again, and also having confidence again and knowing, wow,

48
00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,840
Speaker 4: you know I made it to the final three.

49
00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:38,240
Speaker 2: And it's I think everything you say, Debbie resonates with

50
00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,520
Speaker 2: women of our age, the fact not having children, not

51
00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,560
Speaker 2: having been married, the fact that you are confident. I

52
00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,960
Speaker 2: love that you spoke to women about that.

53
00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,400
Speaker 1: That's exactly where we came from. And I also admired

54
00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:56,240
Speaker 1: you for watching and dealing with the Coles what you

55
00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,880
Speaker 1: didn't know because you weren't every there, every second. And

56
00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,880
Speaker 1: she's come a long way. Yes, I talked to her myself. Yes,

57
00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:08,600
Speaker 1: everything's great, but yeah, I really respect how you handled it.

58
00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,480
Speaker 3: I was worried that it came off too harsh and

59
00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,440
Speaker 3: I wasn't even going to say anything until she started

60
00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,799
Speaker 3: talking about women empowerment and all that kind of thing,

61
00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,960
Speaker 3: and I thought, well, that doesn't really match up with

62
00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:26,359
Speaker 3: what she said about your season. And also I did

63
00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,880
Speaker 3: feel dismissed by her. She dismissed my connection with mel

64
00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,000
Speaker 3: and other women and her comment, you know, when she

65
00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,200
Speaker 3: went home, it just didn't hit right. And I just thought, gosh,

66
00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,480
Speaker 3: I loved this woman, yeah, and what are you doing?

67
00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,440
Speaker 3: And I just didn't understand it. And I was really

68
00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:47,000
Speaker 3: disappointed in her, and I was literally I defended her

69
00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,240
Speaker 3: every day to someone and until.

70
00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:51,880
Speaker 2: I saw that.

71
00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,600
Speaker 1: And I feel better that you got it out, like.

72
00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:59,400
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, but I also feel bad, you know,

73
00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,960
Speaker 3: because she got very tear out and she was pretty

74
00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:02,840
Speaker 3: upset with me.

75
00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,720
Speaker 2: And I get it, but you know, it's my truth.

76
00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,000
Speaker 3: And ye you got really just she hurt me, and

77
00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,360
Speaker 3: I just said, I just want her to know that

78
00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,080
Speaker 3: if these are the things you want to accomplish in life,

79
00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,880
Speaker 3: this is not the way to go about it. And

80
00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,560
Speaker 3: I hope that she heard that.

81
00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,799
Speaker 2: I love that you're doing that again for other women.

82
00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,520
Speaker 2: I just want to know what's next for you, Debbie.

83
00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:27,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

84
00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,440
Speaker 3: I mean, hopefully I will find my person. I'm just

85
00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:36,920
Speaker 3: so ready to, you know, just do life with someone and.

86
00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:41,400
Speaker 1: You love yourself again, you feel I have been ready.

87
00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:42,520
Speaker 1: I have been ready.

88
00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,200
Speaker 3: It's just that, you know, every guy that I was

89
00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:50,480
Speaker 3: set up with, either through matchmaking agencies or apps or whatever,

90
00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,200
Speaker 3: it was always ending in disappointment or frustration.

91
00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:55,720
Speaker 1: It's to a lot of us.

92
00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,920
Speaker 2: I know, but doesn't feel great to have hope. And yes,

93
00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,880
Speaker 2: know that you love your and again, I have to

94
00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,480
Speaker 2: congratulate you on the fact that you are giving women,

95
00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:10,400
Speaker 2: golden women, hope and letting them know that life is

96
00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,640
Speaker 2: not over. And that is a gift you are giving

97
00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,400
Speaker 2: to all the women. So you know what, it's a

98
00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,360
Speaker 2: hard time. That means a lot to me.

99
00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,640
Speaker 1: It does, and being in love with yourself, whether you

100
00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,640
Speaker 1: find a true love or not being okay with yourself.

101
00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,960
Speaker 1: That is the most important thing, and we took that

102
00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,560
Speaker 1: off of our show. Yeah, well, we love.

103
00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:35,960
Speaker 2: You, and we thank you for stopping by. You are You're.

104
00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:36,159
Speaker 1: In our lives.

105
00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,360
Speaker 2: You're in our lives. Welcome to the family, and you

106
00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,839
Speaker 2: represented Golden's really well time. I really appreciate that.

107
00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,680
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so much, you too.

108
00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,920
Speaker 2: Welcome to Golden Article. We're glad to have you.

109
00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,880
Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. Both of you beautiful.

110
00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,480
Speaker 2: So many questions ask you. Okay, you seem to get

111
00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,640
Speaker 2: a bit of a tough time today. Tell us about it.

112
00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:05,039
Speaker 5: Yes, it was. It was challenging, but I do think

113
00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:09,279
Speaker 5: it was healthy. I appreciated all of the beautiful friends

114
00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,599
Speaker 5: that I have because they are all my friends expressing themselves.

115
00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:13,679
Speaker 6: It was valid.

116
00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,760
Speaker 5: I listened, and you know, I told them that I

117
00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,799
Speaker 5: wanted to do better. Uh, and so it was fine.

118
00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,960
Speaker 5: I think the only time I got a little bit

119
00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,880
Speaker 5: disregulated when was when after four different women said things

120
00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,960
Speaker 5: that there was a fifth and I just needed a

121
00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,520
Speaker 5: breath in between under that kind of But I do

122
00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,719
Speaker 5: know how to regulate my own nervous system, so I

123
00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,680
Speaker 5: know how to get myself back to balance and back

124
00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,080
Speaker 5: to center. So I just did some breathing and I

125
00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:40,880
Speaker 5: was fine.

126
00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,560
Speaker 1: But it didn't help you understand what other people saw.

127
00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,080
Speaker 1: You know, You're good.

128
00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:47,440
Speaker 5: Thank you.

129
00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:48,480
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much.

130
00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,400
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, of course it was helpful, of course, and

131
00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,760
Speaker 5: also I had to watch myself, so it was a

132
00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,000
Speaker 5: little horrifying at times.

133
00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,520
Speaker 2: So that's very cringe.

134
00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:04,440
Speaker 5: I don't even the sound of my voice, let alone alone.

135
00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,080
Speaker 2: How do you feel now? How do you feel now

136
00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,320
Speaker 2: some of the things you said? How are you feeling

137
00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,800
Speaker 2: now about those things you said? And do you feel

138
00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,200
Speaker 2: like you're a different person now than you were back there?

139
00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:17,240
Speaker 5: Yeah? I think I've even grown. I mean, I'm really

140
00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,640
Speaker 5: into a personal growth journey. And we all have moments

141
00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,400
Speaker 5: when in front of especially in front of a camera,

142
00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,080
Speaker 5: where we're like, oh, you know, I sort of forgot

143
00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,840
Speaker 5: that was there sometimes. But yes, I feel like I

144
00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:32,280
Speaker 5: have done some soul searching since since leaving the regrets,

145
00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,560
Speaker 5: you know, I regret in general is a kind of

146
00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,760
Speaker 5: I think it's in some ways pointless, but learning from

147
00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,360
Speaker 5: it is the way to go.

148
00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,920
Speaker 2: So yeah, So that and I have to ask you,

149
00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,880
Speaker 2: how was it seen? Thank you the women again with

150
00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,600
Speaker 2: which it sounds great. How is it seemed mel again? Oh?

151
00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,600
Speaker 1: Wow, you got choked.

152
00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got choked out.

153
00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:59,520
Speaker 5: Well, I had a lot of feelings for now, so

154
00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,960
Speaker 5: you know, it was it was hard to see him.

155
00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,360
Speaker 5: I'm missed it.

156
00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,440
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you have the closure that you need? Yes?

157
00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,800
Speaker 5: Absolutely? You know, I think that closure is an inside job.

158
00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,560
Speaker 5: It's it's it's I don't it's a personal thing I

159
00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:13,880
Speaker 5: don't need.

160
00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:14,680
Speaker 2: I won't get it.

161
00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,280
Speaker 5: From anybody but myself, right, and so I have absolute closure, Yes,

162
00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,080
Speaker 5: a real.

163
00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,920
Speaker 1: Quick one, and I hope you find this. Do you

164
00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,960
Speaker 1: want to tell America that you're better looking than what

165
00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,960
Speaker 1: you thought?

166
00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,760
Speaker 5: I want to say one thing to America. When I

167
00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:34,199
Speaker 5: saw both of you come into the mansion, I was like.

168
00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,760
Speaker 1: That, we'll take it. I really did. I.

169
00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,160
Speaker 5: You know, the way you guys are in person is unbelievable.

170
00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,000
Speaker 5: I'm your beauty inside. Well.

171
00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,319
Speaker 2: I love that you mentioned about women's empowerment, because that's

172
00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,240
Speaker 2: being part of this family. Yes, we feel like that's

173
00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:53,840
Speaker 2: what it's all about.

174
00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:55,120
Speaker 5: It is what it's all about. And I wish we

175
00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:56,920
Speaker 5: could have talked about that more. And I wish that

176
00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,839
Speaker 5: as a collective, our cast could have focused a bit

177
00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,359
Speaker 5: more on that instead of lemon bars, because.

178
00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:07,040
Speaker 1: That's taking the credit. They find out she had.

179
00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:13,480
Speaker 2: The majority From aside, I've been myself.

180
00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:17,840
Speaker 5: I'm good at it's being self deprecating and making fun

181
00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:18,280
Speaker 5: of myself.

182
00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm I'm absolutely fine. What is your plan?

183
00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,960
Speaker 2: What is your future plan? Besides the cookbook?

184
00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,160
Speaker 5: You know, I don't have a plan yet. I think

185
00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,600
Speaker 5: I'm just was waiting for the show to wrap, or

186
00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:34,680
Speaker 5: my part, to see how I was feeling, to see

187
00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,559
Speaker 5: what I want to do, and you know, of course

188
00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,280
Speaker 5: I would. I really had a wonderful time.

189
00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,400
Speaker 1: I was just going to say a word, tell me.

190
00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,080
Speaker 5: Time of my life, time of my life on the

191
00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,319
Speaker 5: show forwards.

192
00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm not a one word girl.

193
00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,920
Speaker 2: So do you But do you feel like you are

194
00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,040
Speaker 2: a different person now?

195
00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,280
Speaker 5: Well, every experience shapes us, helps us grow. I'm a

196
00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,800
Speaker 5: different person than I was before the show. I'm a

197
00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,920
Speaker 5: different person that than I was since the show.

198
00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:07,720
Speaker 1: How do you feel?

199
00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:12,160
Speaker 5: I feel different now because I've learned so much? And

200
00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:16,040
Speaker 5: I you know, I learned much about myself.

201
00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,439
Speaker 2: Are you dating not yet? Well? I want you. We

202
00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:25,319
Speaker 2: love meeting you, We love your honesty, we love hearing

203
00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,280
Speaker 2: about your growth. Journey. We want you to come back

204
00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,719
Speaker 2: on the podcast another time. I would love we want

205
00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,360
Speaker 2: to hear all about what's going in life. Thank you

206
00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,000
Speaker 2: for stopping by.

207
00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:34,000
Speaker 5: You guys so much.

208
00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:34,600
Speaker 1: I love you both.

209
00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:35,040
Speaker 3: Love you.

210
00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:37,319
Speaker 1: Welcome.

211
00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:41,040
Speaker 2: We're glad, Thank you, We're glad we saw that we

212
00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,679
Speaker 2: could be beautiful. Thanks.

213
00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,520
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much.

214
00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:50,800
Speaker 5: You guys are so wonderful.

215
00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,160
Speaker 1: I love you too, and I think I want this

216
00:10:55,240 --> 00:11:07,960
Speaker 1: whole ef. Yeah, Carol, welcome to Golden Hour. Thanks so

217
00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:08,760
Speaker 1: much for coming.

218
00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,360
Speaker 6: Thank you for.

219
00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,760
Speaker 2: So only tell us we want to hear. How was

220
00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,360
Speaker 2: seeing all the women again for the first time fantastic?

221
00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:23,520
Speaker 7: It was unbelievable. I missed them and we had I'm

222
00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:24,320
Speaker 7: sure you've been.

223
00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:26,439
Speaker 1: Really I know.

224
00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:31,040
Speaker 7: And people say, oh, were they No, they actually were.

225
00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,560
Speaker 7: These girls are going to be can I say girls?

226
00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,160
Speaker 8: Women?

227
00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:34,600
Speaker 2: Girls?

228
00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:35,400
Speaker 1: Female?

229
00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:36,520
Speaker 2: Female?

230
00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:40,560
Speaker 7: Okay, whatever, I'm not politically correct. I'm sorry anyway. So

231
00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,400
Speaker 7: I had the best time in my life with them,

232
00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,960
Speaker 7: I really did. I have some friendships that I'll have

233
00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:45,840
Speaker 7: for the rest of my life.

234
00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,319
Speaker 1: First of all, I find you very amusing, especially the.

235
00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,160
Speaker 7: I don't know where that even came from, some old

236
00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,800
Speaker 7: Anglican speech, I guess I don't know.

237
00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:01,600
Speaker 1: About saying something to mel. How did you addressing him tonight?

238
00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,599
Speaker 7: We want to know, good did you hear what I

239
00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:11,520
Speaker 7: said to him? Because no, Okay, so when I went,

240
00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,160
Speaker 7: I don't know if he's the night I talked to you, right,

241
00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,240
Speaker 7: So I went and I said, oh, you know you're

242
00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:23,559
Speaker 7: going to remember very handsome. I said it three times.

243
00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,080
Speaker 2: That just said about twice more for you.

244
00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,280
Speaker 7: But you got to remember everyone's telling me about him,

245
00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:32,520
Speaker 7: So I know all these things. But I'm already of

246
00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:36,600
Speaker 7: Plus I stopped him before I googled, so I know everything.

247
00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:41,800
Speaker 7: So then I go there, I'm like, that's why I said.

248
00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:42,720
Speaker 1: I couldn't asked.

249
00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,560
Speaker 2: Say for us to hear where we were sitting. But

250
00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:50,840
Speaker 2: I want to ask you, Carol, how hard was it?

251
00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,480
Speaker 2: I value that you were able to self eliminate. Tell

252
00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,120
Speaker 2: me how that felt to do it. You talked a

253
00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:00,040
Speaker 2: little bit about tonight, but facing Melon talking about that.

254
00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,000
Speaker 7: Well, you know it wasn't an easy decision at all,

255
00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:04,560
Speaker 7: and you know there's a lot that led.

256
00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,400
Speaker 1: Up to it.

257
00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,319
Speaker 7: Yeah, Well that earlier that day, I had something in

258
00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,200
Speaker 7: my heart. I need to call my dad. So my

259
00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,560
Speaker 7: dad's eighty nine, and I you know, he's not.

260
00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:15,800
Speaker 1: He's actively.

261
00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:18,440
Speaker 2: Ds.

262
00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:22,120
Speaker 1: Okay, he still works my brothers and so, but it's

263
00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:23,360
Speaker 1: something I just missed him.

264
00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,840
Speaker 7: I really missed him. So I was a little emotional

265
00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,840
Speaker 7: before that day, and then I already had the roads

266
00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,120
Speaker 7: going into that night, and then my roommates got eliminated.

267
00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,760
Speaker 7: So I was by myself in that room, and I

268
00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,880
Speaker 7: thought to myself, tomorrow, if I don't get that single date,

269
00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,800
Speaker 7: that's going to tell me along one on one. If

270
00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,880
Speaker 7: I don't get that one on one, I'm the only

271
00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,160
Speaker 7: one who hasn't had that extra time with him.

272
00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,199
Speaker 2: And how did that feel tonight? When you address that

273
00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:48,880
Speaker 2: with mel.

274
00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,960
Speaker 7: I guess, okay, it didn't really you know, he didn't

275
00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,680
Speaker 7: really give me anything about it, but that's okay. No,

276
00:13:56,960 --> 00:14:05,040
Speaker 7: it's like, you know, since the elimination, it is so the.

277
00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,440
Speaker 2: Best thing for you, sounds like was the friendships that

278
00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:08,480
Speaker 2: you made with the women coming.

279
00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,160
Speaker 7: Yes, And don't get me wrong, I was very attracted.

280
00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,520
Speaker 1: No, I really did. Like, we know, you thought he

281
00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:15,280
Speaker 1: was nice.

282
00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,520
Speaker 2: We know that, Susan, we know that. Do you think

283
00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,400
Speaker 2: Carol was just?

284
00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,760
Speaker 1: You know, he's totally my type and I'm very that

285
00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,200
Speaker 1: you went in for the kiss. I know you were

286
00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:28,320
Speaker 1: struggling with that.

287
00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,240
Speaker 7: Because a kiss means a lot to me, and then

288
00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:34,720
Speaker 7: you don't remember I'm very traditional, so when all these

289
00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,240
Speaker 7: other women are going for him, it made me retrieve

290
00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:40,440
Speaker 7: a little bit. It may be like like you know,

291
00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,920
Speaker 7: of course the premise of the show, you got to

292
00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,720
Speaker 7: go for it, so I knew. I thought the memo,

293
00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:46,720
Speaker 7: I know what you're supposed to do.

294
00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,280
Speaker 1: I had to rewire my brain. How did you feel different?

295
00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Did you feel differently after you kissed them?

296
00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:00,720
Speaker 7: You're more comfortable or after the first kiss, but after

297
00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:01,640
Speaker 7: the second kiss?

298
00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,600
Speaker 2: Geez, we're counting kiss. I know it was going real

299
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:06,520
Speaker 2: and more.

300
00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,000
Speaker 1: Take Nicole, really.

301
00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,480
Speaker 2: So what what's what's on your future plate? What do

302
00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,240
Speaker 2: you what do you what do you think your future

303
00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:14,920
Speaker 2: is going to hold for you?

304
00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,360
Speaker 7: Okay, well you know what if this actually helped me

305
00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:19,520
Speaker 7: define what I really want to man.

306
00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:24,000
Speaker 2: Oh, you've got about ten seconds listed. What do you want?

307
00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:24,440
Speaker 1: So?

308
00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:29,520
Speaker 7: One thing about mel he's very engaging. I know, I

309
00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,720
Speaker 7: believe or not he really is. When you're talking to him,

310
00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:34,960
Speaker 7: he's looking at I like that, and now you know

311
00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:35,960
Speaker 7: I haven't had that before.

312
00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so here it is all you eligible men out

313
00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:43,280
Speaker 2: there who are engaging very Carol is available, however, Carrol,

314
00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,080
Speaker 2: the lines forms behind me and.

315
00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:50,240
Speaker 1: Carol, we'd love to have you back. Thank you, thanks for.

316
00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:52,960
Speaker 2: And you look beautiful tonight.

317
00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,040
Speaker 7: Thank you you do too, Thanks, thanks for thank you.

318
00:15:56,200 --> 00:16:01,840
Speaker 2: Okay, Jerry, well, welcome to Golden Hour. We are so

319
00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,680
Speaker 2: glad you're here. We've got so many questions.

320
00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,480
Speaker 1: First of all, stunned, I mean dress, do you feel good?

321
00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,400
Speaker 6: I feel amazing. First of all, let me say, you

322
00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:11,160
Speaker 6: two look beautiful.

323
00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:11,840
Speaker 2: Thank you.

324
00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:12,280
Speaker 5: The color.

325
00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:12,800
Speaker 6: I love color.

326
00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,160
Speaker 2: Thank you love color. Okay, so call us, what is

327
00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:18,040
Speaker 2: the What was the like seeing the women tonight? What's

328
00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,440
Speaker 2: the best thing about tonight for you? The women? The women,

329
00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,640
Speaker 2: the women's It was like just a distance.

330
00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,880
Speaker 6: He really is, but really, I mean.

331
00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,080
Speaker 5: When we saw each other we screamed.

332
00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:36,040
Speaker 9: On the boat, on the bus, I felt like, I mean,

333
00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,840
Speaker 9: it was just so I could not wait to see.

334
00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,160
Speaker 1: Them being it's your family.

335
00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,080
Speaker 2: Now you're all family, not right, they're my sisters. Yeah,

336
00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:45,680
Speaker 2: they are my sisters.

337
00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,880
Speaker 1: Did anything not happen tonight that you wished it or

338
00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,800
Speaker 1: spoke about or everything was good?

339
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,280
Speaker 6: Everything was good because at the end I was able

340
00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:55,480
Speaker 6: to talk to mel I didn't like.

341
00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,360
Speaker 9: I wish I would have more in depth with my

342
00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,520
Speaker 9: question when he asked me if I had a question

343
00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,160
Speaker 9: for him.

344
00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,040
Speaker 2: So what did you talk about? What? What was it

345
00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:02,600
Speaker 2: that you said?

346
00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,679
Speaker 9: I said to him, thank you, thank you for really

347
00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:09,080
Speaker 9: opening me up. Let me feel those butterflies. He feels

348
00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,480
Speaker 9: grateful for this. Oh, I'm so grateful that little tingle down,

349
00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,960
Speaker 9: that little tingle is that han't feel that?

350
00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,159
Speaker 2: So is that the biggest change in your life that

351
00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,000
Speaker 2: you feel like you're open? Tell us what's the biggest

352
00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,040
Speaker 2: change from being on the show that I am.

353
00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,639
Speaker 6: I'm open, I'm really today. It's my time. It is

354
00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,200
Speaker 6: so much.

355
00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,840
Speaker 2: You have talked so much about it being your time

356
00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,400
Speaker 2: in the eighteen years, and you've taken care of everyone

357
00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,360
Speaker 2: and the dog. I have two cats, by the way,

358
00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:34,920
Speaker 2: they need a home.

359
00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,919
Speaker 6: If you're no woud somebody taking He's not coming back

360
00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:38,439
Speaker 6: to on Monday.

361
00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,840
Speaker 2: All right? Well, so where do you see yourself? What's

362
00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,159
Speaker 2: in your future? We're asking everyone happens? What's dating?

363
00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,119
Speaker 1: I'm ready to date? So well, you just put yourself

364
00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:50,480
Speaker 1: out out there for the DMS come.

365
00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,760
Speaker 7: In for something.

366
00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,760
Speaker 2: They are but direct message, that's what they said.

367
00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,720
Speaker 9: I think I'm when I met my husband, I put

368
00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,080
Speaker 9: an existence I prayed for.

369
00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,280
Speaker 6: I said, I am ready to marry a doctor.

370
00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,080
Speaker 1: And that's what That's all you got to say.

371
00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:09,879
Speaker 2: You know what you.

372
00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:18,280
Speaker 6: Have because you've asked, not what you want? Be very specific, okay,

373
00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,200
Speaker 6: in very.

374
00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,760
Speaker 1: That's very important I want. I'm telling you and.

375
00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,280
Speaker 2: I well, can I just tell you are beautiful and

376
00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,640
Speaker 2: you should have it all? So you know, there's that.

377
00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,680
Speaker 1: Were you surprised by anything that any of the other

378
00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:37,360
Speaker 1: ladies talked about tonight? Did anything surprise you?

379
00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,040
Speaker 2: Was? Was there any stress in the house that we

380
00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,520
Speaker 2: didn't know about. Is you all seem very which we

381
00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,800
Speaker 2: were to very close? Was there any kind of stress? Not?

382
00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:47,359
Speaker 6: I didn't see anything.

383
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:48,680
Speaker 1: The lemon bars?

384
00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,199
Speaker 2: I want to know, yea, did you did you do

385
00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:55,399
Speaker 2: anything with those lemon bars? Were you because Nicole had

386
00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:57,359
Speaker 2: where were you in the thirty percent?

387
00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,159
Speaker 6: I was like, really the ten percent?

388
00:18:59,359 --> 00:18:59,679
Speaker 1: Okay?

389
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,359
Speaker 6: But I think was that I even said that I

390
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,320
Speaker 6: didn't get to taste them.

391
00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 1: That was my you didn't need any because I had

392
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 1: never got any.

393
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,280
Speaker 2: That let me guess you're another one who does need sugar.

394
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:09,560
Speaker 1: No, I really love sugar fresh guys.

395
00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,679
Speaker 6: But part of yes, but I didn't get a chance.

396
00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,480
Speaker 6: And my kids when they saw me in the kitchen, like, you.

397
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,360
Speaker 2: Don't even bake, mom, what are you doing.

398
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,440
Speaker 1: In that kitchen? That was the going home to them.

399
00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was difficult.

400
00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 9: You know, going back when after when I left, Yes,

401
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 9: it was, it was, but I didn't say anything to

402
00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 9: them about giving the first impression.

403
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:32,040
Speaker 10: Rooms.

404
00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,920
Speaker 6: So we sat there that Wednesday. My daughter's getting married.

405
00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,720
Speaker 9: That Saturday, so we're having a small going on, small

406
00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,119
Speaker 9: watch party because we're having a big watch party on

407
00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 9: October fourth. But my hometown, Newport, Rhode Island, they had

408
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 9: a big watch party.

409
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,440
Speaker 2: You're from Newport, Rhode Island, I am. I'm from Boston, Massachusetts.

410
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 2: I knew I loved you.

411
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 6: Are you a Patriots fan?

412
00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,959
Speaker 2: Hell? Yeah? Okay, I mean Tom Brady yeah right, but

413
00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 2: you know it's gone. I mean he's trying to learn

414
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 2: how to speak on you didn't write away.

415
00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,879
Speaker 6: I know, I will talk, I will talk. But the

416
00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,440
Speaker 6: big big Patriots, Boston Celtics are huge.

417
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, Bruins, Bruins, Red sox so so in your future

418
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 2: besides rooting for the.

419
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,639
Speaker 1: All the bosses and putting yourself out and putting.

420
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:19,200
Speaker 2: Yourself out there, can you give us in one word

421
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,880
Speaker 2: your experience on the show magical, magical.

422
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,120
Speaker 1: And one word about tonight.

423
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:32,600
Speaker 2: Non magical wisdom, wisdom, wisdom. Well, we thank you for

424
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:37,359
Speaker 2: bringing your beauty, your wisdom, and your fabulous smile to

425
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 2: us tonight. And we loved having you, and thank you.

426
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 2: We're so glad you stopped by the chat with us tonight.

427
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 1: See more of us. You will welcome to our golden hour.

428
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 11: Am I going to be this beautiful something?

429
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 2: First of all, let me just say this dress on

430
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 2: you is sunny. But we have so many questions, so

431
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 2: little time emotional?

432
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 1: Were you tonight?

433
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god? I met your family and they said

434
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 2: to me, don't tell our mother, don't tell our mother.

435
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 2: Really my grandmother.

436
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 6: I couldn't believe it.

437
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 1: My son, my two granddaughters, my daughter, you face in

438
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:28,000
Speaker 1: the screen.

439
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 11: And then he goes, well, look back, there's a couple

440
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 11: of people.

441
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 2: And there in front of us like a couple of people. Okay,

442
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 2: we have questions. I want to I mean, I'm glad

443
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 2: your family's there, but I want to know how was

444
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 2: it facing mal tonight because we really thought we were

445
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 2: so shocked when you went home, and I'm sure you

446
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,439
Speaker 2: were as well, So talk to us a little bit

447
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 2: about that.

448
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a princess.

449
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 6: Thank you so much.

450
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 2: It was beautiful and you crime, I mean we you

451
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 2: really it was a princess date. You are a princess,

452
00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: so tell me how to.

453
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 11: So that first date was amazing, you know, I felt

454
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 11: the chemistry. He's the man, like, he's the man, this

455
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 11: is it, you know, and he has that masculine look.

456
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: He's funny.

457
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 11: He does play outside of the lines a little bit,

458
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 11: and I kind of like that, you know, Oh I

459
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 11: do a little bit.

460
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 10: Yeah.

461
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 2: So is it hard to see him tonight?

462
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 11: Yeah? I was happy to see him. He looked really good,

463
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,679
Speaker 11: handsome as could be. Yeah, he looked amazing.

464
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 2: You're hugged when you hugged him, could just feel the

465
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 2: emotions we felt that.

466
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: You' made a statement that I want to be friends.

467
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 11: Oh yes, definitely.

468
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: And that wouldn't bother you that he's with somebody else.

469
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: You would still Yeah, I.

470
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 11: Would like to remain friends, you know, why not? Yeah,

471
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 11: and if he has somebody, I think it is. Yeah,

472
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 11: she's amazing.

473
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 1: How did you feel seeing all the other women?

474
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 7: Oh it was great.

475
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 11: They're my sisters.

476
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 2: Oh my god, did you ever think because did you

477
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: ever think you would make the friendships, never mind dating

478
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 2: handsome man? Did you ever think the friendship.

479
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: Your expectations coming in? How did that? God was way

480
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 1: different than.

481
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 11: Because you know, I've been working, watching my mom. I

482
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 11: don't have time for friendship with a woman or a man.

483
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 11: And friends, you know, are great. I've got some, but

484
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 11: it's hard to see.

485
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: So you went pretty far. And when he didn't call

486
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 2: your name, how did it feel? It hurt?

487
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 5: It really did.

488
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: It was in that car and I got.

489
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 11: In that cold ice plunge.

490
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 10: Like dog that I was like, wow, I was sitting literally, yeah,

491
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 10: you like, I can't do it because he's so megan.

492
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 10: He was just like here I got in and it.

493
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: Was like, so what did you sorry? What did you

494
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 2: learn about yourself? Yeah, it's in this journey. What did

495
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 2: you learn A lot?

496
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 11: I learned that you know, you can have that passion

497
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 11: for a man and.

498
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 5: You need to go for it.

499
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 11: If you if you see a man that you've got

500
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 11: some feelings for, go for it. Let him know.

501
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't always work out, but right it doesn't.

502
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 11: But hey, this was a chance, once in a lifetime chance.

503
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: You feel a little stronger about yourself.

504
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, yeah, are you ready to date?

505
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm ready to date.

506
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: We can make money caps. I mean, hey, I'll go

507
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 1: with you.

508
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 6: Guys, you're going to attract all the.

509
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 2: Dude, you got to get behind you to get behind

510
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: your first. Then second, what are you talking about?

511
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 5: You do?

512
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: Tell me in a word, if you can your experience,

513
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: how would you?

514
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 11: Incredible? Incredible?

515
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: So the pain is gone now it's holiness.

516
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 6: It really is holiness.

517
00:24:55,400 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 2: That's wonderful. Do you feel like your life it's going

518
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: to be different going forward? What about your life is

519
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 2: going to be do?

520
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to be different.

521
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 11: Tell us I want to smile like you girls you

522
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 11: do smile, and you know, I just want to get

523
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 11: on an adventure. I want to continue this adventure. And

524
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 11: I think now I'm going to be strong as a

525
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 11: woman because I know that there's so many people out

526
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 11: there that.

527
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 2: What do you want to say to those people out there?

528
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 2: What is your message to those women out there? Oh?

529
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 11: My message is get out and show yourself.

530
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: It's not even always about finding a man. No, it's

531
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: just being good to yourself and go do what you

532
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: want to what makes you happy?

533
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 5: Dress up a princess.

534
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: You are that you are the princess.

535
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 2: Say you didn't make him. He did not make you

536
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 2: the princess. You are one. So with that.

537
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: Happening, you're beautiful and beautiful.

538
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 2: We love you. Thank you so much for joining us

539
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: on the Thank you, and thank you for coming.

540
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to talk more.

541
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: Now. Welcome, Welcome, Welcome to the Golden Hour. We're so

542
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 2: glad that you stopped by the chat with us.

543
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 8: Thanks for having me.

544
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 2: I really appreciate it.

545
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 12: Nervous right now with us, come on with us.

546
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 2: I just met you, and this this is all about you,

547
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 2: except for one thing. If you have any older guys,

548
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: you can fix me.

549
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 8: Up and we can we can take care of that.

550
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: Okay, now we're gonna get.

551
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: It due tonight for us and tell us.

552
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 2: We only have five minutes.

553
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 8: I thought of a million words, right, you know, No,

554
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 8: but it was a great experience.

555
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: How is it seeing all the women again?

556
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 8: Great because you know, obviously I know them, you know,

557
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 8: and I got to know them and seeing them again

558
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 8: it's like a reunion. You got to know because you're

559
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 8: you're in your own sorority. Yeah, fraternity sort of.

560
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 2: Speak, right, Yeah, so you're that's your group, right.

561
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 8: You're your season one, I'm season two and you know

562
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 8: we're all together, our group is together. Now I'm part

563
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 8: of your group too. You know, you're you're like you're

564
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 8: born into you can't get out of it, right.

565
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: The hardest part for you tonight, The.

566
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 8: Hardest part was, you know, just you know, reliving some

567
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 8: of the Yeah, and then you know when some of

568
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 8: the women that you let go and you really didn't

569
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 8: have a chance to talk to them and explain or

570
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 8: talk to them, you know, to sort of, you know,

571
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 8: soothe each other's feelings.

572
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: Debbie was asking you, is it because.

573
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, it wasn't It was not even close. I didn't

574
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 8: think of those things. Yeah, that's not even never came

575
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 8: into my mind ever.

576
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 2: With the journey a lot different than you thought it

577
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: would be, Yes, I didn't.

578
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 8: You know, it's just very unique and it's you know,

579
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 8: it's like when you're in it's one hundred miles an hour,

580
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 8: and you know it's intense, but you're also earning and

581
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 8: there's a lot of clarity when you're doing it and

582
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 8: you just sort things out quickly.

583
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: You don't want to judge things, yeah, and you.

584
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: Don't want to make the wrong choice.

585
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 8: You are true and I think, you know, based on

586
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 8: my own personality, I made the right choices along the way.

587
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 12: That's a great feeling Wader when we first met and

588
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 12: the Hulu Yes event, and I said, be true to yourself,

589
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 12: stop breathe and.

590
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: Just focus on you and what makes you tick and

591
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: what makes you feel. And I can accomplish it.

592
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 8: And everybody who's been on the show, I took the

593
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 8: advice because you went through it and you know exactly

594
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 8: what I'm talking about. And I was telling my son,

595
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 8: I go take advice from everyone.

596
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: By the way, your sons are adorable, tattle Tale and

597
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 2: the other ones. Yeah, and sus By the way, I

598
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 2: had a canary that on your promo when the show started,

599
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: you had dirty dishes in the sink. This is dwell

600
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: over the edge.

601
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 8: Oh you know that's that's that's my son. Uh Andre's.

602
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: See the one that talks.

603
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 8: Yeah, but I've quieted him down and love it. I

604
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 8: tempt him down, you know.

605
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 2: So now, what is the I want to know what

606
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: is the biggest thing you learned about yourself on this journey?

607
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: What is what's something you learned.

608
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 8: You know that everybody talks about being vulnerable, but a

609
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 8: lot of introspection because you meet you know, I've met

610
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 8: twenty three women who have their own stories, and you

611
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 8: sort of evaluate your story, you know, you know, against

612
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 8: their story, not against but yeah, but you're sharing your

613
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 8: You're like, oh, I have this story, you have that story.

614
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 8: You know what are the similarities and you know where

615
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 8: do they mean? Yeah, and you find out that you know,

616
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 8: there's a lot of humanity there and people like love

617
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 8: to share their stories and you pull things from it.

618
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 8: And I learned all that along the way. I'm always

619
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 8: open to two stories and you know in finding out

620
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 8: about people, So that was really something special for me.

621
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: How do you like the clouds that you walk on?

622
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 2: Marshmallows marshal everybody talked about.

623
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 8: Everybody's going to be wearing them, folks.

624
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 2: They're the you have the cloud. I know.

625
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: My grandsome for Christmas, there one hundred some dollars for Yeah.

626
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 8: But their recovery the recovery shoes. So if you have

627
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 8: if you work out, or you have a bad back

628
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 8: or you know, fatigue, you wear them and they're just

629
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 8: they're actually walking like cloud.

630
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 2: Or I want to know what is one word? Because

631
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: you know we're not selling sneakers here what is the

632
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: one word that you would round this whole season? Love

633
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: your toasts. We got to wrap here quickly, but your

634
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: toasts were always fun, happiness and happiness. And yeah you

635
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: did that. I noticed that love, happy and fun.

636
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 8: Right, that's what it is.

637
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what that's what it's about. Right, it's great.

638
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: One last thing. You feel more relaxed, more open to receive,

639
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: being love and giving love. Now, you were a little

640
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: uptight in the beginning. I got to tell you. That's

641
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: what I say.

642
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 2: I mean, we might like you might have called your

643
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 2: stiff once or twice or three hundred, but we love you.

644
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 8: It's like it's like just trying to figure it out, right, Yeah,

645
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 8: you don't want to you don't want to go overboard,

646
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 8: you know, wrap the bat. You want to take it slowly.

647
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 8: You got to find out what the people are.

648
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 2: Well, now you're here and now we have to wrap

649
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 2: it up, so we can't take it slowly.

650
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 8: I'm going to be back on your show though, right, We're.

651
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 2: Just going to We want you. Would you come back

652
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: to we just let me know we would love to

653
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: have you, and we hope you're having Are you?

654
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 8: Are you on for an hour?

655
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: It depends way. I don't want to come in there.

656
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 2: We'll do two or three episodal.

657
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 8: I don't want twenty twenty minutes.

658
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: You know'd wade through all the commercials. We'll give you

659
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: an hour. Got thanks for joining us now. We both

660
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: wish you a lifetime happy Thank you very much.

661
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,719
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, we went past our time once again. Kathy, I

662
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: think this is it.

663
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: Well, you know it's if you If you love this,

664
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: you just got to tune into Golden Hour Bachelor Nation

665
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: dot com. What's wrong? What's wrong with that?

666
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 10: She said to do.

667
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 6: Usual last sell them funny?

668
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't know why she's tired, she's she's lost it.

669
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, started laughing.

670
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: So it's more hungry on time. Okay, Well, Kathy, we

671
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: went past time once again. We have to end this

672
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: great night.

673
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: You know what, it was so much fun talking with

674
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 2: all the women, and if you like this episode, you

675
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: got to tune in to the rest of them because

676
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 2: we've got more great guests coming up.

677
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: Absolutely, remember what to do. Go to Bachelor Nation.

678
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: Dot com, Come slash Golden hours, send us your comments,

679
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 2: send us your questions, and in the meantime, tune in

680
00:32:53,440 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: and I just screwed that laughs.

681
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us tonight.

682
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 11: You know what to do.

683
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: Keep it coming with