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Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject tweedledd He's with me,

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty eight years old and I

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Speaker 1: moved back to my hometown to take care of my daddy.

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Speaker 1: My eighteen year old son lives more lives there temporarily

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Speaker 1: to attend a vocational school, and he's living with his

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Speaker 1: daddy while he's there. Before I moved back to town,

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Speaker 1: my son's daddy was begging me to stay with him

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Speaker 1: and my son. I told him I'd rather stay with

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Speaker 1: my dad because my son told him that his dad

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Speaker 1: has a crazy girlfriend and she pops up at the

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Speaker 1: house all the time. I was expecting to have a

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Speaker 1: lot of great sex with my son's dad because he

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Speaker 1: is the best I've ever had. Little did I know

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Speaker 1: that the great sex would come with so much unnecessary drama.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I got back to town, my son's

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Speaker 1: dad wouldn't stop sweating me. He begged me to go

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Speaker 1: out on dates, and he loved showing me off to

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Speaker 1: all of his friends. In the process of doing that,

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Speaker 1: I guess he forgot he had a girlfriend. I started

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Speaker 1: getting harassed by an older lady named Tish. I found

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Speaker 1: out that she's like twenty years older than us. She

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Speaker 1: would follow us around town and too much is happening

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Speaker 1: nowadays with love triangle, so I was scared of her.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't until she got smart with a cashier at

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Speaker 1: that I realized she wasn't a threat. That's when I

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Speaker 1: started giving her the same energy she was giving me.

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Speaker 1: She posted a photo of me and my son's dad

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Speaker 1: on Facebook and captioned it Tweedle d and Tweedle dumb

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Speaker 1: because everyone calls me d. So I comment at Tweedle d,

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Speaker 1: he's with me, and it started a big mess. Now

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Speaker 1: all of her old friends are attacking me on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Great sex with my ex started a big mess with

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Speaker 1: Tish and them. How can I get these older ladies

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Speaker 1: to chill? Well, how can you get these older ladies

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Speaker 1: to chill? You're probably not gonna be able to get

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Speaker 1: them to chill because they don't have anything better to do.

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Speaker 1: I mean if they did, if they had a life,

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Speaker 1: they wouldn't be messing with you and harassing you. Tish

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Speaker 1: thinks you've stolen her man, and she's got her girls

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Speaker 1: And what is with you and him anyway? I mean,

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Speaker 1: did he cheat on you? Like he's cheating on you

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Speaker 1: like he's cheating on Tish with you? Is that why

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Speaker 1: you guys broke up? I mean, do you still want him?

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Speaker 1: Or you guys trying to get back together? What is

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Speaker 1: going on? He's showing you off to his friends and

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Speaker 1: taking you on dates and stuff. Does he wants you

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Speaker 1: to stay at his house? I'm trying to figure this out.

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Speaker 1: What is going on with this relationship? It sounds like

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Speaker 1: you two get along outside of the great sex. So

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Speaker 1: what is it? Because it's sure sounds like more than

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Speaker 1: just a sexual relationship here. I mean, we need some answers.

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Speaker 1: The problem is you've got to decide if the great

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Speaker 1: sex or the best sex ever, as you say, is

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Speaker 1: worth all the drama with Tishan them, Because it doesn't

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Speaker 1: sound like Tishan the Golden Girls are gonna stop harassing

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Speaker 1: you anytime soon. So this is a decision you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to make. Either go over there and stay with him,

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Speaker 1: or leave him and just be with your daddy and

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Speaker 1: mind your own business. Steve, Wow, you're thirty eight, Move

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Speaker 1: back to your hometown, take care of your daddy. You

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Speaker 1: while he's there, and before you move back, your son's

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Speaker 1: daddy was begging you to stay with him and your son.

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Speaker 1: I told him I'd rather stay with my dad because

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Speaker 1: my son told me that his dad has a crazy

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Speaker 1: girl friendsh she pops up at the house all the time.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you why I was expecting to

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Speaker 1: have a lot of great sex with my son's dad,

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Speaker 1: because he's the best ever had a little Did I

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Speaker 1: know that the great sex will come with so much

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Speaker 1: unnecessary drama. So as soon as you got back to town,

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Speaker 1: and then in the process he forgot he had a girl.

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Speaker 1: I started getting harassed by older lady named Tish. Now

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Speaker 1: let's stop right here. First of all, her name is

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Speaker 1: not Tish. It's not no. When you are older woman,

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Speaker 1: she like she probably like over fifty. Yeah, she's twenty

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Speaker 1: years older than them. Oh so she at least fifty eight, right,

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Speaker 1: God dog, Well, then her name is not Tish. Nobody

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Speaker 1: was named Tish back then. That was the nickname. Her

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Speaker 1: name to Sheena. Her name is to Sheena. So let's

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Speaker 1: get that straight right now. So already you have a

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Speaker 1: problem because you're dealing with somebody that was born before

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Speaker 1: nineteen seven. Oh, I can't tell you what come with this,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot come with this girl. She's twenty years

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Speaker 1: older than us. She follows around on town. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's too much happening nowadays. She got time to follow

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Speaker 1: you around. She retired, she's retired. She following you around,

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Speaker 1: you in a love triangle. And then you found out

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Speaker 1: that she wasn't all that threatening you. You were scared

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Speaker 1: of it. Then she got an asshot by a cash

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Speaker 1: old you're there fighting about coupons and everything. See this

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Speaker 1: do a price check. That's how you got in the

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Speaker 1: fight with the cash. He old she got these coopons

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Speaker 1: that y'all wouldn't give her that two hang, somebody got

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Speaker 1: to pay well that two of your response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after UM. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject

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Speaker 1: tweetled D he's with me. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The seven is tweetl D

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Speaker 1: he's with me. Thirty eight year old lady to mess

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Speaker 1: around and got involved with her ex that's the father

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Speaker 1: of her child. He move she moving back in town

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Speaker 1: to help her daddy out. He wanted her to move

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Speaker 1: back in with them. He's great sex, best she ever had.

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Speaker 1: She was thinking about it. But her son called at

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Speaker 1: one time. He said, be careful. He got this crazy

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Speaker 1: girlfriend to pop up all time. That's cause she retired,

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Speaker 1: so she ain't got to be at work. You know,

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Speaker 1: she go to bingo night and then come over. You

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Speaker 1: know she doing all this? Is she old? She said

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Speaker 1: is Tish. I told you that's not her name. If

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Speaker 1: with that be right, yeah before? So ain't nobody named

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Speaker 1: Tish before? That's a nickname. Her name is Tshina. Shout

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Speaker 1: out to Teshina Arnolds and to see them and to Shina,

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Speaker 1: is up your back? Now you now you he's showing

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Speaker 1: you off round town and everything. And he didn't forgot

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Speaker 1: he got this crazy girlfriend. She just started running up

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Speaker 1: a grocery store? Old people? And what did you fight

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Speaker 1: She ain't got no app none of that. She's sending

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Speaker 1: over some Uncle Ben's because Uncle Bean said, if you

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Speaker 1: here last week because she had to go pick up

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Speaker 1: her medicine. And you ought to understand that and let

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Speaker 1: her had this extra bo so right, but you didn't,

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Speaker 1: So ta swung on that as now a young girl

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Speaker 1: what have it? And a young girl beat the ass

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Speaker 1: about that, Uncle Brian, right, So now now you didn't

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Speaker 1: start giving her the same mess she giving you. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: she didn't posted a picture you and your son's daddy

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Speaker 1: on Facebook and capture tweetle d and tweetle dumb because

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Speaker 1: everybody called me d so I commented tweetle d he's

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Speaker 1: because old people on Facebook, they ain't on Instagram, they

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Speaker 1: her old ass friends is attacking you. So now, Gerardine

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Speaker 1: An't you Paul Letter, in't you Gwin? In you class Arrow,

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Speaker 1: the whole gang? Old lass names too, Barbara, Betty, Susan

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Speaker 1: names don't nobody have no more? Nobody gives the girl let? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: simple to get out of. You say, great sex with

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Speaker 1: my ex started a big mess and tishing it with

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Speaker 1: Tish Niel, Let's not that's that's Tessina, Giordine, Paul Letter,

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Speaker 1: Gwen and Clara fo Nobody naming their baby clarrot, No girl,

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Speaker 1: no body. They're sitting around, they're going to bingo night.

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Speaker 1: They they in a quick contest. They down there, participant

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Speaker 1: in participating in bakeoffs. They're doing. Uh, let me see

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Speaker 1: what else they're doing. Oh they play cards, Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: they play cards. Now they play pinockle. You you don't

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Speaker 1: hardly nobody know how to play Pinockley. They playing pinuckle

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Speaker 1: and tunk. You got to be hood to play tump.

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Speaker 1: So now you up against that. How do I get

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Speaker 1: these older ladies to chill? First of all, ignore them

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. There is no back and forth if you

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Speaker 1: don't go back see fourth get old when you ain't

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Speaker 1: nobody talking back to the problem y'all had. And I

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Speaker 1: had to teach this to my son one time. He

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Speaker 1: was being attacked online and I said, bro, you keep typing,

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Speaker 1: when it ain't no back. So fourth, fourth, ain't nothing

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Speaker 1: let it go. Now know this, and I know this

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Speaker 1: gonna sound ugly, but I'm gonna just have to tell

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Speaker 1: you the truth. If you just be patient, Yeah, wait

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Speaker 1: them out, they're gonna start dying. Just tell you that.

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Speaker 1: Just tell you. I'm just telling you. I don't know

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Speaker 1: know who Paul let a goin Neil me is. But

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Speaker 1: if you just wait them out, they're gonna start dying.

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