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Speaker 1: gonna waste no time. It's Monday, morning. I hope you

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Speaker 1: This is called a new day Wow, and I appreciate it. Man,

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Speaker 1: because there's something gonna come up anyway. Ain't no needed

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Speaker 1: Stupididity is to bring it up. Oh, we have an

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Speaker 1: Oh you're smart y smart. Hey, junior, let me ask

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Speaker 1: Isn't that? No? No, no, All the advice I give

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, you might have to say something.

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Speaker 1: You know. So you're saying she should be honest. Well,

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Speaker 1: he well, he needs help and he don't have enough

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Speaker 1: and he knew it. He knew it. So she you're

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Speaker 1: saying she should be honest and see if there are

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Speaker 1: ways that they can make the experience better. That's what

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Speaker 1: she wants. Well, I don't know what he gonna do.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to I don't know what he can do

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Speaker 1: unless you're gonna allow him to or cars in a

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Speaker 1: buy some more calls or something. He got to something

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Speaker 1: he got all right, Celo, As your voice trails off,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: happen next few and everything all right, you know, would

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Speaker 1: be okay anyway. CNN president Jeff Zucker resigned last Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: He told his staff that he failed to disclose a

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Speaker 1: consensual relationship with a colleague. Zucker said in a memo

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Speaker 1: that his relationship came to light during the network's investigation

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Speaker 1: into the conduct of Chris Cuomo. Chris Cuomo we all know,

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Speaker 1: was a primetime CNN anchor. Chris was fired in December

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Speaker 1: for assisting his brother, former New York Governor Andrew Cuomo,

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Speaker 1: who was accused of sexual misconduct. Zucker said I was

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Speaker 1: required to disclose it when it began, but I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Zucker wrote in the memo, you know that, hey, I

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Speaker 1: didn't reveal it. I should have. The relationship was with

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Speaker 1: Alison Gallust, the chief marketing officer for CNN, and she

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Speaker 1: will stay employed at CNN. Zucker joined CNN back in

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Speaker 1: twenty thirteen. He stepped down also as chairman of Warner Media,

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Speaker 1: News and Sports. I don't understand why that's necessary to

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Speaker 1: disclose it. They're both single, that both relationship. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean, now they were married, their relationship

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Speaker 1: led to the deport their breakup. Oh, he was married.

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Speaker 1: So they were a long time ago. A long time ago, yes,

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Speaker 1: but going on for over ten years or more. But see,

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Speaker 1: that's not a that's not a it's a morality, but

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Speaker 1: that's not a against the law. Well, it's a power

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Speaker 1: thing to see. He's the president, he's the president of

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Speaker 1: the network, So you have power over your employees, including her,

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Speaker 1: including her. So it but that wasn't consensual. Yes, it

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Speaker 1: was confederally. I didn't say it was assault. Power. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they vacations together. I mean, see, I don't understand though,

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Speaker 1: why you know, man, I just don't. I just don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand policy. But it's crazy, man, these are

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Speaker 1: consenting adults. Well, apparently all you have to do is

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Speaker 1: disclose it and then it's okay. Apparently I'm sure they're

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Speaker 1: still doing it, right, they still hold on, hold on.

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Speaker 1: But let me say that they're good if you disclose it.

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Speaker 1: If you disclose it, somebody gonna have a problem. With that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well then they'll know, they'll know, they won't think it

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Speaker 1: maybe special favors going on that you're promoting her or

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Speaker 1: she's always you know what I'm saying. If you disclose it,

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Speaker 1: then the staff knows. All right, that's where they lived

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Speaker 1: in the same building, see right there? Not that's convenient?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh yeah, it's good, isn't that? Yeah? My role,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna help you pay for the pay for your place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, it's it's a lot there.

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Speaker 1: You can fire somebody for ethics and you're breaking the

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Speaker 1: rule to think exactly. And that's what happened over helping

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Speaker 1: his brother's going all along that he was having an

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Speaker 1: affair that he shouldn't have had with this woman, with

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Speaker 1: this other woman. I mean what we've been to keep

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Speaker 1: doing it? Yeah? What's the pay job? And your lost

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Speaker 1: six figures over here? Now we've been to be doing

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Speaker 1: it air date till I get my mind right? Have

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Speaker 1: y'all ever dated somebody y'all worked with? No comments? Steve?

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Speaker 1: What you're looking around? Have you? Uh? Ferrell? Hell, it's

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Speaker 1: my open Have I you're looking for your ain't something? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I married? Did you just close it at the time

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Speaker 1: they knew. But he wasn't my supervisor when I wasn't here.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember having a job ever in my life.

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Speaker 1: Why will you have it trying to sleep with somebody

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Speaker 1: to work? There were in here all these hours. What

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Speaker 1: is we doing you over the holm over here? Hey

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Speaker 1: at Ford Motor Company. It started in college. I ain't

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Speaker 1: up been in the class. I ain't slept with somebody

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Speaker 1: in one of my classes each one? What was that? Love?

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Speaker 1: I needed help? You know what I was doing? I

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Speaker 1: was taking hours in college? What I got to dake

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Speaker 1: one of these girls? Man, somebody got to sit up

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Speaker 1: here and show me something. I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: this is power super a visor, it's I think it's

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Speaker 1: the supervisor over employee. I think that's it. Well, are

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do it? Go to the top man, now

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Speaker 1: be your peer, so you know, make sure you state

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Speaker 1: it all right. Well, there you have it. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour. Uh, we're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: about Chicagoans who are angry right now over the release

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Speaker 1: of the police officer who killed LaQuan McDonald. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: about that right after this. You're listening to show former

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Speaker 1: Chicago police officer Jason Van Dyke um left prison on

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Speaker 1: Thursday after serving less than half of his nearly seven

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Speaker 1: year sentence for killing black teenager LaQuan McDonald. Seventeen year

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Speaker 1: old LaQuan was shot sixteen times by Van Dyke back

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Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen. Van Dyke was convicted of second degree

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Speaker 1: murder and sixteen counts of aggravated battery with the firearm.

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Speaker 1: He was the first first Chicago police officer in half

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Speaker 1: a century to be convicted of murder for an off

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Speaker 1: duty or for an on duty killing, and many black

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Speaker 1: leaders hoped his conviction signaled a willingness to hold officers accountable.

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Speaker 1: Members of McDonald's family, local activists, and political leaders have

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Speaker 1: voiced their fury over Van Dyke's early release, noting that

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Speaker 1: he served just a fraction of the eighteen years prosecutors

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Speaker 1: originally sought, let alone the maximum ninety six years van

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Speaker 1: Dyke could have received for his charges. You know, a

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Speaker 1: lot of them wanted, of course, for his sentence to

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Speaker 1: be longer and everything. But initially they didn't say why

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Speaker 1: he got out, But they're saying he got out for

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Speaker 1: good behavior. In Illinois, there's some sort of law that

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Speaker 1: for I think it's called statutory good time. He actually

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Speaker 1: got out because to ask no premium of value on

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Speaker 1: black lives. Yeah, that's the truth, because this is what

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Speaker 1: the whole movement is about. It's about black lives matter.

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Speaker 1: And in Chicago and in a number of places, and

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Speaker 1: in the United States and in the Constitution, it is

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Speaker 1: clear that black lives do not matter. They do not

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Speaker 1: count the same. If a black man kills a white person,

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Speaker 1: you're not getting out in three and a half years

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Speaker 1: for good behavior. You can go to prison and set

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Speaker 1: up four churches in now if you want too. You're

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Speaker 1: not getting out in three and a half years for

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Speaker 1: good behavior. He gets out in three and a half

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Speaker 1: years for good behavior. It's appalling. It's just to watch

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Speaker 1: this system over and over and over prove that black

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Speaker 1: lives don't matter, continually find a way to show you

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Speaker 1: that they care less than a about black people, that

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Speaker 1: they don't consider us the same. It was Chico and

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Speaker 1: they went on in fit stat Well, let's unmeracleize this

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Speaker 1: because we can't let this here. Oh my god, we're

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Speaker 1: going to set up presidents where they think that we're

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Speaker 1: actually going to start convicting o'all. Oh no, then please,

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Speaker 1: it's easy to be on your best behavior. It's pretty easy.

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Speaker 1: If you see what's going on in there. You're pretty quiet. Man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's in protective custody. There's no way you can put

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Speaker 1: a police officer and kill the black man in general population.

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Speaker 1: It's impossible. All right, Well, the fight continues, that's for sure. Um.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, coming up at thirty four minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, as we switch gears, our resident poet Junior

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Speaker 1: is here. Finally are you waiting for this? Junior? Last

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Speaker 1: History Month home? Right after this you're listening every morning show,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, Steve, why don't you do the honors? Please? Ladies?

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Speaker 1: And it is time for another poem by Jay Rapp.

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Speaker 1: Jay Rapp is the new name I've chosen for him.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, It is time for Jay Rapp, which

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Speaker 1: stands for simply Junior's raggedy ass poems. Come on, Jay Rapp,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, sir, Thank y'all very much. You know, I've

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Speaker 1: put a lot of thought into this, as I do

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Speaker 1: all my poems, but this one here is more especial

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Speaker 1: because this is a Black History Month poem, and I

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Speaker 1: would like to begin. Thank you. It's Black History Month

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Speaker 1: and I need your attention. I'm gonna tell you what

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Speaker 1: history books don't mention. The correct term is African American.

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00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,760
Speaker 1: You see, but black history did not start with slavery. See,

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Speaker 1: we are proud and we stand tall. We made so

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Speaker 1: many inventions to help all. Y'all. You dance like us

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Speaker 1: and bray your hair. Your boot is like ours, and

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Speaker 1: it's not fair. So calm down, Karen, what's your fuss?

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Speaker 1: You really do love everything about us. There are so

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Speaker 1: many black inventors and scholars, designers and restale stores thrive

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Speaker 1: off five dollars. We don't need the shortest month to celebrate.

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Speaker 1: We celebrate black pride three sixty five days a year

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Speaker 1: the end, Yes, Junior nailed. Yeah, that shows up a

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Speaker 1: Black History Month. Yeah, shows right up black history. I

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Speaker 1: know you confused time. I see the look on your face.

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Speaker 1: I think I could do that. I know you look

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Speaker 1: on my face, shine on shod and that was more

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Speaker 1: of us. That was more of a statement than a poem.

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Speaker 1: I know, stay, but it needs to be staying though

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Speaker 1: you ain't. You ain't gonna limit us. Just a February

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Speaker 1: were three sixty five and this jump you better your

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Speaker 1: your reaches into the deep water. It's what always throws

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Speaker 1: me when you don't normally go deep. It's always makes

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Speaker 1: It's always interesting when I see people diving the deep

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Speaker 1: end of the pool that normally stay in the shallows.

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Speaker 1: It just throws me. Yeah, I see see. Can you

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Speaker 1: call that with a raggedy yeah? No, pray fu me,

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Speaker 1: pray for me and my understanding of what it is

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Speaker 1: you're doing. Can I call that with a raggedy yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you have a rebuttal? Yeah? Your name is Jay Rap.

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Speaker 1: It's already label. Yeah, before you say it, I'm looking

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Speaker 1: for it to fit into the name. Where do you

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Speaker 1: pull from, Junior? What do you pull from for your creativity? But? Oh,

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Speaker 1: where I pull it from? Just um, just something I

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Speaker 1: see on TV? And then you know what life be going? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, because you know I see people

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Speaker 1: going through stuff. You know, I just put it in

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Speaker 1: the poem for him, you know, like Antonio Brown, I

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Speaker 1: got one boy him coming up, you know, stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: I see it. I gotta write about it. That's all

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Speaker 1: you know. Rebut No, I shot my uncle. I shocked

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Speaker 1: for you. The room. It was deep and it was

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Speaker 1: like it had a lot, it had levels in it

632
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 1: where it made sense, but it wasn't really. Yeah, yeah,

633
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: we've had bootist that's always been Then now you want

634
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: bootist like us, and that just not fair. Yeah, yeah,

635
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: they're getting you know they I didn't understand why are

636
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: we talking about bootiest black history? More trying to car

637
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 1: talking about how they try to be like us. They

638
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: want to dog, but they want to be just like us.

639
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: You know, black women with booty already. You know, you know, Junior,

640
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: when you're talking and you hunt your shoulders, that doesn't

641
00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: make it more factual. It well, that's how I felt

642
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 1: about it was actual when I said the Junior, I

643
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: liked thank you. I know you well, the girls are

644
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: always they try to be more supported. They don't like

645
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: Monica just sit on. They just be grinted and Shirley.

646
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: You know, surely such a good person. Oh that was

647
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: really nice, Junior. I'm not condn't do that. I have

648
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 1: to support, Junior, Yes, you know, support encouragement. Oh that's nice.

649
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: You know, I don't expect your support on because you

650
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: already named it ragar phone was our wrong? Well, no, Junior,

651
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah, coming up next it's the nephew with

652
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: the prank phone call. The ignorance continues on this show.

653
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: It never stops to move. You right back. You're listening

654
00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: to show coming up at four. I'm gonna after the hour.

655
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: My strawberry letter for today is my husband's straight cat,

656
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: my husband's stray cat. All right, we'll get into that

657
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now the nephew is

658
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got for

659
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 1: his nap today? Boogie snitching? Right there, Boogie niche in.

660
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: All right, let's go. Hello man, I speak to Buggie. Hey, Boogie,

661
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: this is KB. Let me ask you something, man, How

662
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: you get out of jail before Marcus got out of jail.

663
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: How y'all go to jail at the same time, but

664
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: you get out a month before him and he's still

665
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 1: in there? Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,

666
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: hold on. Who is it? This KB? This Marcus brother?

667
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: Tell me how you get out of jail? But Marcus

668
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 1: still in there and you've been out over mark Now

669
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: they say no, they say you snitching, Buggie. That's what's

670
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: going on. You up in there, snitching? Hold on, brother,

671
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: Hold on, you're so slowing down so it down a

672
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: little bit. Ain't hold up? You know what? I really

673
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 1: don't need to be having this conversation with you, but

674
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: you coming at me like this. It's called bail. How

675
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: you how you ask? How you out on bail? But

676
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: Mark is still in there? Tell me that, buggy man?

677
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: How you gonna call me with you know what? You

678
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 1: know what? I ain't saying a trip with you? But

679
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: you now just hold on, let me hold on, let

680
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: me pull those All I know is they the one

681
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: saying you the one that snitched on my brother and

682
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: that's why he's still in there, and you watch. I

683
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 1: don't know where you're getting this wrong, but I'm gonna

684
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: tell you what. I had to go to work. I

685
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: need to get out of there. But you ain't. You

686
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: ain't hearing me. I went to jail too, booky, you're

687
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: gonna mess around to get your asks? What for snitching? Man?

688
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 1: Because that's what you've been out there doing. Man? What

689
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: because you're talking about you've been out there snitching. That's

690
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: why you out and my brother, the Markers is still

691
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 1: in there. You know what? You know what it's called damn,

692
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: that's what it's cars called bell I happen to go

693
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 1: to work. I don't know what you're tripping on. All

694
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: I'm tripping on is that the fact that you're out

695
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: and my brother ain't out. He's still in there. Dog,

696
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. I'm looking for you, buggy.

697
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: You hear me. I'm looking for you. But but you

698
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: know you know where I'm at. You know where? You

699
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 1: know what? Since you since you run around here like

700
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: a little like he is, let me tell you what happened.

701
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: Let me say where. All I want to do is

702
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: go get me in the bill. I'm jumped in the

703
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 1: car and then I'll setting your mama some cigarettes. Why

704
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 1: are you coming at me like that? Okay, I'll call

705
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 1: you the car him and then shut plays up. One

706
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: out for him? Now dot put that out. We just

707
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: going around the corner. But now he goes he stopped

708
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: putting it out in the car. He's going to stop

709
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: the one and now we get poured over. Tell y'all,

710
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 1: I jumped out the car telling it long. I don't

711
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: guts know with this. Who was smoking? You are markers

712
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: even smoke. I had to go to work. I gotta work.

713
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: I can't deal with that. I told them dudes to

714
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 1: put it out, damn it, love pot they searched, damn call.

715
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: How the hell you gonna be riding like that and

716
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: love poor you all with sneak pop up in the truck.

717
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: You gotta think as speaker bucks that back then when

718
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: no damn wa was on out of hell. You figure

719
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm a snitch. He don't take no there what just

720
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 1: know you got back there? Hell yeah, got there. Man.

721
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm at me and this drinking water out of told it.

722
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: They they don't come at me that like that. You

723
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: You won't come in You know exactly where I'm met.

724
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: So just because they got you up in the drinking

725
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: water out of tought it, you're gonna come up and

726
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: start snitching on everybody. You know what? You I had

727
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: to go to work. Hell hell, I use all my

728
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: damn money trying to get out of there on somebody.

729
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: Oh this came be about you got to go to work.

730
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: That can't be. But you got to have some heart somewhere.

731
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: Don't coming at me like that. I was just going

732
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: to the store. Can I say something? You man? I

733
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: want to look you know what you can't say Let

734
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 1: me take, let me take, let me get you shoot

735
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: you something. Since you're gonna be the mid man. Let

736
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: me shoot you a thing or two. Tell your brothers

737
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: just don't drop the soap. No, he ain't gonna drop

738
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: the soap. I'm gonna I'm gonna my brother No, no, no,

739
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 1: listen to me. No no, I'm gonna tell you, dog,

740
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna tell you this, but you gotta tell

741
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: me what you got to tell me. I'm gonna tell

742
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: your boss everything about you, and then you're gonna lose

743
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: your little damn job. Oh no, it can't be you

744
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: can you know what what you stuttering with me? What

745
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: you stuttering? Fuck? I can't believe you calling me with

746
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: no strike this just lose my No, don't call me

747
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: no more behind it. Let me say something to you

748
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: right now, booging. Come, let you got to say this,

749
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just

750
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 1: got pranked, Booger. Do me like that? Dog? You know

751
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: this this ain't nothing. I wish this ain't this ain't nothing.

752
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: Really played with it? All right, buggy man, I'm sorry.

753
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: You're okay by now, I am. Dog. You know what

754
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: I listened to you? Man, You are supposed to do

755
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: nothing like that. Do we supposed to be real. You

756
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,439
Speaker 1: don't do me like that, man, I put I put

757
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: this dude on blast. Amen, look at your boy, Shannon,

758
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: he said, here, your best friend Santon is the one

759
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: that put me up to this dog. May You know?

760
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:32,399
Speaker 1: Is that your boy? That your best friend Saton may Man?

761
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: While y'all do me like this, Yeah, I'm gonna I'm

762
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 1: gonna take cash. I got him. Hey, y'all, I just know. Hey,

763
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,240
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, what is the baddest radio

764
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 1: show in the land? Oh man, the steam harming Morning Show?

765
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: Did I get you? Did I get you? Hey? You

766
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 1: know what you got? You got a whole bunch of people,

767
00:49:56,080 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: That's why. But now you want um. This is this

768
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: is a lesson to you youngsters out there. Don't get

769
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: in that car. Don't get that Do not get in

770
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: that car. Three somethings gonna go wrong. I probably even

771
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: say that I would have made that mistake in by

772
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: you got in that car, man, God, the dumbest thing

773
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:26,760
Speaker 1: I would done, one of well, one of them. Somebody

774
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: asked me one thing. I said, man, what's the biggest

775
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: mistake you ever made? And I couldn't even answer the

776
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: question because I've made so many, man. That's what's crazy. Man.

777
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: That's that's how I know. I'm here only by God's grace, brother,

778
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: because I've made some decisions that the boy. Let me

779
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: tell you something. It's no way it could have easily

780
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 1: gone the other way for me easily. Yeah. Yeah, Junior

781
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: got in that car. Boy, I've made some mistakes like

782
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: that man in college. Yeah, got pulled over everything getting

783
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: it was in there. You never know what's in there. Yeah,

784
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: you don't ever know. You just try to tell my

785
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: little girl. Can't nobody to be in your car with you?

786
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, Tommy, you can't nobody ride in your

787
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: daughter car. I mean, you know my nieces, you know,

788
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: but like some people from screening, man, she can't care. Yeah, Tommy,

789
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: never gonna be hard than forced. Meet them at the movies.

790
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: Meet them now. Yeah that's good. Yeah. Time time you finish.

791
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: Wear yourself to death. Though. I think all we could do,

792
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 1: man is teach our children and hope that the teaching

793
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 1: is listened to. But then they're gonna make some adverse

794
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: decisions even with the teaching. They're just gonna do it

795
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: they way. I did it my way. Yeah. Yeah, clearly

796
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: my father told me what not to do it. I

797
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: went right out there and did no. Older brother told me, hey, bro,

798
00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 1: listen to me, don't do that. Yeah, but see I

799
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: can do it like dog. That ain't gonna work. Steve

800
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,240
Speaker 1: is that thing, Steve that makes us think we're so smarter.

801
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm much smarter than everyone at that age. Cause it's

802
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: called youth, youth and we and it always happens when

803
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 1: you make a decision at your age that that that's

804
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: a that really requires a more experience and a different

805
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: mind frame, and you get faced with it young and

806
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: you think you got the answer for it, and you don't.

807
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: You're so much you think I wasn't a boy before.

808
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 1: I know exactly what. You don't stupid with it, you

809
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 1: ain't even good at it. Remember on Power when go

810
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: said to his son, you think you're smarter than me,

811
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: You think you're smarter than me. You're not smarter than me. Yeah. Hey,

812
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 1: I just started watching Power too. Oh god, that's good.

813
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: I just started it this weekend, this past weekend. It's good.

814
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: It's good, all right, all right? Coming up next Strawberry letters,

815
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:11,439
Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject my husband's straight cat. We'll find

816
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 1: out what that's all about. Right after this, you're listening

817
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's

818
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationships,

819
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: on sex, on parenting, on work, on more, Please submit

820
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com by clicking

821
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 1: on submit Strawberry Letter. That's all you gotta do. And

822
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: you never know. We could be reading your letter just

823
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 1: like this one, live on the air, and it could

824
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: be yours. You never know. You never know. Buckle up

825
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: and hold on type. We got it for you. Here

826
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: it is Strawberry letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject my husband's

827
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: straight cat. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband and I are

828
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: in our late thirties, and my husband is working on

829
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: his bachelor's degree. He's been at it for a few

830
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: years because he also works full time. He has an

831
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: old friend that is a high school English teacher, and

832
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: she's helped him a lot with his essays in public

833
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 1: speaking class. She's come by our home and sat with

834
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: him for hours at our kitchen table, trying to get

835
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 1: him together so he can get this degree. The farthest

836
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: thing from my mind was him being attracted to her

837
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: then he started to say things like intelligence as sexy.

838
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: I thought he was referring to me because I have

839
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: a degree and I'm a licensed social worker. He met her, though,

840
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,439
Speaker 1: I noticed him texting her every morning, so I read

841
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 1: his texts a few times. A few weeks ago when

842
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,800
Speaker 1: he was in the shower. He texted her good morning

843
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: Queen every morning, and her responses high king. Then it's

844
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: basic stuff like have a great day or read your syllabus,

845
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 1: but the fact that she gets a good Morning Queen

846
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: every day blew my mind. So my spighty senses were

847
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:59,280
Speaker 1: up and I started paying attention to everything. I noticed

848
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,359
Speaker 1: he changes his shirt impressions up before she comes over,

849
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: and he always has a little snack prepared. All of

850
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 1: this was going on right under my nose all along.

851
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: I finally got the chance to tell her to stay

852
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: in her place. She called me Saturday to let me

853
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: know my husband is on track to receive his degree

854
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: in May, and she wants to throw him a big

855
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: party and she wants my help. I told her she

856
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: had life all effed up because she's not throwing a

857
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: darned thing from my husband. I told her to stay

858
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: in her place. As the helper and once my husband graduates,

859
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: she can lose his number. She called me crazy and

860
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: hung up. Now my husband is furious and wants me

861
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 1: to apologize. Was I wrong? Well, I can't say that

862
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: you're wrong, because you handled the situation as you saw it,

863
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: and I'm sure as every other married woman sees it. Okay,

864
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: she needed to be checked at that point. She needed

865
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 1: to be She was out of line, and so is

866
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 1: your husband. I mean, it's not her place to give

867
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: your husband a party, and that's what this letter is

868
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: really about. That's your job. But she didn't give you

869
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: a chance. Did you not say anything, because certainly you

870
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: could have given him a party. She knows exactly what

871
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: she's doing, because what is up with? Good morning queen

872
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: and good morning king? What's that about? Or hi king?

873
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: Good morning queen, hi king? What is that? What is that?

874
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: She had one job, and that was to get him

875
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: to the finish line. She did that. Now she says

876
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: he's on track to graduate in May. Congratulation to your husband.

877
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: All the extra stuff she's trying to do is unnecessary.

878
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: And another thing, does he think you don't notice that

879
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: he's freshening up and putting up, putting on a clean

880
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,359
Speaker 1: shirt and putting out snacks for her. I mean that's

881
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: good hospitality, I suppose, But I think of anything he

882
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 1: needs to do. He needs to on her to apologize

883
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: to you for overstepping with the party. You don't need

884
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: to apologize. Uh, you're definitely not crazy like she said.

885
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: You are the wife who is not here for another

886
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: woman giving her man a party. That's just it. You know,

887
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: that's it in a nutshell. You don't like that, and

888
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: you let it be known. Steve, Well, well, well, there

889
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: is so much confusion in this letter for me, because

890
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm torn in this letter because I want to pick

891
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: a side, but I can't pick a side. But I'm

892
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 1: on both sides. But h and I shouldn't be. You're wrong,

893
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: but you're right, But you're right, but you're wrong. So

894
00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: let me tell you where I'm starting. Stroke husband and

895
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: you in your late thirties and your husband working on

896
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: Bachelor greedy. He'd been at it for a few years

897
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: because he worked full time. He has an old friend

898
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: that is a high school English teacher, and she's helped

899
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: him a lot with his essays. An old friend. Ah see,

900
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: this is where I I keep telling y'all about these friendships.

901
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: I keep telling women over and over about these opposite

902
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: sex friendships. I keep telling you. Now, it could be

903
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: the rare occasion way it works, but it normally dealt

904
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: Here we go that old friend, high school English teacher.

905
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 1: She helped him a lot with his essays and public

906
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: speaking class. She's come by a house and set with

907
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 1: him for hours at y'all's kitchen table, trying to get

908
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,479
Speaker 1: him together so he can get his to agree. Now,

909
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: you all, knowing women the way you do, ladies, you

910
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: know that one of the main characteristics of a woman

911
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: is nurturing. We love to take care of people. That

912
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: is one of the best qualities of a lot of women.

913
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: That innate nurturing skill that you have. Oh but it

914
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: can be too much. Yeah, the furthest thing from my

915
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: mind was him being attracted to her and why that's

916
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: so far away? She attractive ans And then he started

917
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: to say things like intelligence is sexy. That this is

918
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: why I have a problem with his stupid ass. Why

919
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: would you open your damn mouth? Intelligence is sexy. When

920
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: I come back, I'm gonna light your ass. Oh but

921
00:59:56,040 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: you bought this on yourself, your stupid ass. Hang on,

922
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: Steve we'll get part two of your response coming up

923
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after be our subject my husband

924
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: straight cat. We'll get back into it right after this.

925
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

926
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is my husband's stray cat. Well,

927
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: we got this married couple that's in the late thirties

928
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: and the husband been in school trying to get his

929
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 1: bachelor's degree, but he works full time. He's got an

930
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: old friend of his. Once again, I've told you all

931
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: about these opposite sex friends who comes by the house.

932
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: That's an English teacher helping with his essays and his

933
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: speaking classes. And she's come to our house and set

934
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: at the kitchen table for I was trying to get

935
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: him together to get his degree. Then she said, the

936
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: furthest thing from my mind was him being attracted to her.

937
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: How that so far from your mind? You don't have

938
01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: a mind of a man, so now it's the this

939
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: thing from your mind. Then he started saying things like

940
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: men here, who I lost it. He started saying things

941
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: like intelligence is sexy. Why would you say that dog

942
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: to your wife? Why with your stupid because you, in

943
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: your turnis man, you don't know, why would you say that?

944
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: Because c what he's trying to say. What he wanted

945
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 1: to find a way to verbalize the woman's sexiness because

946
01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 1: he just can't help himself because he young. And but

947
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:51,919
Speaker 1: then he tried to disguise it with intelligence is sexy.

948
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: But now you dumb it in him because you thought

949
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: he was referring to you because you got a degree

950
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: and you are licensed social work. That's social work. That's intelligence,

951
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: or degree that's intelligence. But all the years y'all been, man,

952
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: he never told you intelligence was sexy because he wasn't

953
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 1: talking about you. He met her though I noticed him

954
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: texting her every morning. So I read this text a

955
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: few weeks ago when he was in the shower. Boy,

956
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: if you're texting other women, you can't lay your phone

957
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: round if you're gonna take a time showers. The show,

958
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: they got the stuff that they buy for kids when

959
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: they go to camp. They got this little thing they

960
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: fit around your neck where your phone going. This little

961
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 1: waterproof come on, so you can shower with your phone

962
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: hanging around your neck. Now, they for twelve year olds,

963
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 1: but if your asses gone at twelve, then you need

964
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: the damn thing to go around your neck on the road.

965
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: All right. So now I noticed some texting, and I

966
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: read a few texas while he was in the shower.

967
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 1: He texts her good morning queen every morning. Her response

968
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: is high King. Now, Shirley, that's the dueling. Go now

969
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 1: we refer to each other. Okay, Well, I'm just saying

970
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: so he trying to be cute, high queen, high king,

971
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: and he trying to keep it basic. That's basic stuff.

972
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: Like then it's basic stuff like have a good great day,

973
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 1: or read your syllabus. Now that's a good one. Read

974
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 1: your syllabus that throws you off. Read Joe syllabus, something

975
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: I've never done in all of my school years. I

976
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: still don't know what that is. Because I thought it

977
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: was syllables, and I was going, well, I do read

978
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: them as I'm pronouncing words. What I thought syllabus syllable.

979
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 1: I thought syllabus was sillble plural, like more than one syllable.

980
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 1: So I was going, I do that when I read

981
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: thank y'all and so anyway, but the fact that she

982
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: gets a good morning queen every day blew my mind.

983
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 1: So my spotty senses were up, and I started paying

984
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 1: attention to everything. I noticed. He changes his shirt and

985
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: freshens up before she comes over, and he always has

986
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: a little snack prepared. Well, if you're gonna be sitting

987
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: in the kitchen at the table for hours, then you're

988
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: gonna want a snack. Now he's been at work, he

989
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: wanted freshen up. Didn't you hear him say? Intelligence? Its sexy,

990
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: stupid ass. All this was going on right under my

991
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,240
Speaker 1: nose all along. I finally got the chance to tell

992
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 1: her to stay in her place. She called me Saturday

993
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: to tell me her husband's on track to receiving his

994
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: degree and mate and she wants to throw him a

995
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: big party and she wants my health. Oh, now she's

996
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 1: stupid too. Yeah, you call a wife and say I'm

997
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: beIN to throw a big party for your husband and

998
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: I won't chill. Help what lady, you already notice a

999
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: fit in the fly? I told her you could, You

1000
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: got you got life left up? No you do, No,

1001
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: you got me twisted. You got this thing flet up

1002
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,600
Speaker 1: Because she's not throwing a damn thing from my husband.

1003
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: I told him stay in her place, and as the helper.

1004
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: As the helper once my husband graduates, she can lose

1005
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: his number, She called me crazy and hung up. Now

1006
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 1: my husband infusis he wants me to apologize. Was I wrong? Well,

1007
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: he wasn't wrong, but you was wrong? And what your

1008
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: husband is using now here's an office and part your

1009
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: husband is stress because he can't lose his tutor who

1010
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: is sexually intelligent. And so now he gonna make you

1011
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: the heavierness because you crazy. Are you crazy? Yes, yes,

1012
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: you're crazy. Were you wrong for this? No, no you are.

1013
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: Should you have done it that way? Yes? You should have.

1014
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: You jeopardized him getting agreed. The boy probably ain't gonna

1015
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: ever get it, Damnygreen. Now after a nah, he ain't

1016
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: gonna make it. Hit us up on Instagram at Steve

1017
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: Harvey FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You can

1018
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming

1019
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 1: up next, Sports Talk with Junior. We'll be right back.

1020
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 1: You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it

1021
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: is time now for Junior and sports Talk. What you

1022
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: got Junior? All right? But first let me just as

1023
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 1: the people know, Dallas, Texas will coming April Fools Day

1024
01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: at the Texas Trust Theater. Go ahead and get your

1025
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 1: tickets ticketmaster dot com. Yes, sir, earth Quake, Bill Bellamy,

1026
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: Bruce Bruce, myself along with Rod Davis as Seante wayans Man,

1027
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: we got a show for you April fools Day, Dallas, Texas.

1028
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, how bad do you really want to

1029
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: go to the super Bowl. Let's just five out this

1030
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 1: ship in Los Angeles. The ticket prices for the fifty

1031
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 1: yard line fifty one thousand, two hundred and sixty four

1032
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 1: dollars per ticket. That that means if I buy two tickets,

1033
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 1: if I take you to the super Bowl at the

1034
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 1: fifty yard line, win the game over. There's no more

1035
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 1: thank you for a good time, win a relationships. Were

1036
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: in a full blown relationship, there will be us together

1037
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: for Super Bowl fifty six fifty seven to fifty eight,

1038
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: fifty nine sixty the lowest seated ticket nose bleed. Okay,

1039
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: six thousand per ticketar okay, that's two tickets, that's twelve thousand.

1040
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: Once again, we're in another relationship. Yeah, fifty six fifty

1041
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: seven fifty that doesn't matter. I get you in this

1042
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 1: build it. You can't just say I had a wonderful time.

1043
01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to bed. No, you're not. I'm going with you.

1044
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: That's what be going right with you. That's what I

1045
01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 1: do know that. Man. That's crazy. Man, it's so crazy. Man,

1046
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: It's just it's just hot. Okay, say okay, the middle level, Tommy,

1047
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 1: that's just in the middle. It's twenty eight thousand, three

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01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: hundred and seventy four. I was just to be under

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01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: two hundred level. This is la first of all so far.

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01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: Stadium wasn't even open last year when I did NFL

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01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: Honors there to promote that the super Bowl would be

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01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: there the next year. This is going to be the

1053
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:36,879
Speaker 1: most star studied super Bowl in the history of Super Bowls.

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01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: And and just for this seat, I can't do. Hey, dog,

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01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: I would rather be at the house where I could

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01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: get instant replay, because that's the best seat is at

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01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: the house. I don't even like live football because you

1058
01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 1: missed too much. Yeah. Now, since you know Roger Goodell,

1059
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 1: you think you can talk to him. I'm just asking thing.

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01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 1: That's the one nobut it I can get you at

1061
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 1: Jackson State though, when they played Jillie. I have youth

1062
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour when Kim

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01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: Kay has had it with Kanye and we'll talk about

1064
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:25,719
Speaker 1: that right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey

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01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:30,879
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So here we go with this, Kanye,

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01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: or excuse me? Yay? Isn't he ya? Now? Over the weekend,

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01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 1: Kanye posted, UM, since this is my first divorce, I

1068
01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 1: need to know what I should do about my daughter

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01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: being put on TikTok against my will. This was in

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01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: response to a short TikTok video that Kim posted of

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01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: her and their daughter North. Kim apparently is fed up

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01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 1: with Kanye's comments about her parenting, and she responded, uh,

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01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: Kanye's constant attacks on me and interviews and on a

1074
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: social media it's actually more hurtful than any TikTok North

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01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:06,800
Speaker 1: might create. As a parent who is the main provider

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01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: and caregiver for our children, I am doing my best

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01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 1: to protect our daughter while also allowing her to express

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01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:18,799
Speaker 1: her creativity in the medium that she wishes with adult

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01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 1: supervision because it brings her so much happiness. Kim went

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01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 1: on to say, divorce is difficult enough on our children,

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01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: and Kanye's obsession with trying to control and manipulate our

1082
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:32,679
Speaker 1: situation so negatively and publicly, it's only causing further pain

1083
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,720
Speaker 1: for all from the beginning. I wanted nothing but a

1084
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:38,720
Speaker 1: healthy and support of co parenting relationship because it is

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01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:41,680
Speaker 1: what is best for our children. And it saddens me

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01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 1: that Kanye continues to make it impossible every step of

1087
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 1: the way. So there you go with Kim's clap back.

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01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 1: You know what, I agree with it. I'm actually Kim

1089
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:59,559
Speaker 1: has want her to perme correctiveness. Kanye gotta get out

1090
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:02,639
Speaker 1: of social media with this divorce and with this children

1091
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: and things he's doing. And it's hard for you to

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01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 1: tell your children you don't want them to do something

1093
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 1: that they see you doing. It's kind of hard, man.

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01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 1: It's it's not it'sn't it. It's not like do as

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01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: I say, it's do as I do. You can tell

1096
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: a person all day don't smoke weed, but if they're

1097
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 1: in the house smelling weed, what you could quit tell

1098
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:23,080
Speaker 1: them not to smoke weed because you do it. And

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01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: I think that Kim is perfectly right about this. And Kanye,

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01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 1: this being my first divorce, well, I can tell you

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01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 1: right now, this ain't how you do it. I could

1102
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:36,559
Speaker 1: have called your boy because I have some experience at this.

1103
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 1: This is not how you do it. And he's just

1104
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: wrong on this and what her clapback was classic and

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01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 1: it's just the right thing. You just posted a picture

1106
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:52,719
Speaker 1: of you giving your girlfrid you're not divorced from yet.

1107
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: You're not divorced from your wife. You're giving your new

1108
01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 1: girlfriend a broken bag, and you bought birken bag for

1109
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: all her friends and they online post pictures with it. Now,

1110
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:06,639
Speaker 1: you don't want North on TikTok. But now since you'd

1111
01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: have bought so much attention to it, North got over

1112
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 1: sixty million followers. Wow, I'm talking about just like that.

1113
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:19,600
Speaker 1: And the little girls TikTok, which people have shown me

1114
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 1: is like little cute little stuff. But guess what they

1115
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:28,799
Speaker 1: monetizing that She advertizing ear rings, all kinds of stuff.

1116
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: But dog, you got to get off social media with

1117
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:37,720
Speaker 1: this divorce. Man, it's it's nothing can happen for you

1118
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: through this divorce on social media. And she's dropping really

1119
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 1: smart stuff. I being the main provider for these children,

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01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 1: boy boy, that's a setup move. Kanye, You have no

1121
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 1: idea the money you've been the paying child support. Homie

1122
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: silly down their social media family with the Kardashians, that

1123
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: the living color, that's I mean, that's what they do.

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01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:14,040
Speaker 1: That's a gig. Yeah, so how are you saying that

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01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 1: your daughter can't be a part of that. I don't understand.

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01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 1: They've they've actually mastered it. Yes, they're very smart, man.

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01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 1: They control the narrative. They charge for plugs them girls.

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01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 1: Is making a living at this, man, it's a new way. Yeah,

1129
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 1: it's the new way of doing things. Man. I don't

1130
01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: care for social media, but I've watched these people turn this.

1131
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 1: People turn this into millions of dollars. Yeah. I don't

1132
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 1: want my daughter on TikTok you own Yeah. Yeah, but

1133
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 1: he used to then't be on social media like this.

1134
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 1: That's what's so funny. Now he is all of us

1135
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: because he wants to stand the public eye at all costs. Yeah.

1136
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 1: All right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour,

1137
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: we're going to talk about method Man, because Method Man

1138
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 1: right now, Steve is the man. Okay, we'll talk about

1139
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

1140
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So Steve Rapper Empowered book too.

1141
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 1: Ghost actor Method Man is on the cover of the

1142
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: February digital issue of Essence, and his article his pictures

1143
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:29,680
Speaker 1: have been trending all weekend. I think you've started something here.

1144
01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:34,639
Speaker 1: Steve method Man's female fans are swooning, swooning, I mean,

1145
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,639
Speaker 1: just going crazy over these pictures. Method Man is forty

1146
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: four years old. He stated that he is aware of

1147
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:43,360
Speaker 1: his handsome looks, but he does and I understand that.

1148
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:46,880
Speaker 1: But he said, he doesn't keep himself up to please

1149
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 1: the world. He said, I don't understand that. Sugar honey

1150
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: iced tea. I go to the gym from my own

1151
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 1: peace of mind. I don't do it to become someone

1152
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: sex symbol or pin up on someone's wall. I do

1153
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 1: it for me. Added people like attention. I'm the same

1154
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: as everybody else. But at the end of the day,

1155
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: take me seriously, not lightly. So when I said you

1156
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:12,800
Speaker 1: started something, you know, he was looking good. He was,

1157
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: you know, in his gear and his drip and all

1158
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: of that, looking really good. And I think it's a

1159
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: trend for like, you know, older men to start really

1160
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 1: looking good. Now, what do you think good? Now? It's

1161
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:30,640
Speaker 1: sort of funny, man, I can't. I stumbled into this.

1162
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:34,639
Speaker 1: I didn't even really was not intentionally did or nothing

1163
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 1: like this. I kind of stumbled into this, all right. Well, anyway,

1164
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 1: congratulations method Man. We love those congregulations. You're not gonna

1165
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:50,040
Speaker 1: be in that same catagory. How this method? Man? By

1166
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: the way, he's real tall, real tall. Yeah, all right,

1167
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,800
Speaker 1: coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll

1168
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:58,680
Speaker 1: do a round it. Would you rather? Right after this

1169
01:15:59,280 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 1: you're listening show? All right, guys, time for a round

1170
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:11,600
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather make love outside

1171
01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 1: in a rainstorm? Think about that? Tommy already pick b

1172
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: because if it's thunder, he's out. I promise you I'm

1173
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to help do anything for you

1174
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 1: outside of that. I cannot go ahead, Go ahead, then, Tommy, Yeah,

1175
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: get me. I can't do nothing that rain. Okay? Would

1176
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 1: you rather make love outside in a rainstorm or inside

1177
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: a cave with bats? You tell me I'm gonna get

1178
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 1: outside in that rain because I'm gonna tell you right now, man,

1179
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:54,000
Speaker 1: I can get naked around these bats. As soon as

1180
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 1: one of them fly by me, it's not gonna be good.

1181
01:16:56,920 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta switch back back in the rain.

1182
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:03,200
Speaker 1: You outside, make it with a blanket over so I

1183
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 1: can't see that lightning. I'm good then, because it's kind

1184
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 1: of hard to wait these bats off and keep yourself

1185
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 1: covered at the same time. I got cold myself. Man,

1186
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:16,920
Speaker 1: I got I'm in here hollying with your damn bats.

1187
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 1: Ma man, Hey, the wing racial bat dog or bat

1188
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:28,160
Speaker 1: fly across my ass while I'm nicking. You would just

1189
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 1: pass out? Yeah? Would you rather fish in a gator

1190
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 1: infested lake? I've done it? Huh. I've done that on

1191
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:45,880
Speaker 1: a rowboat gator infested lake. I was fishing on the

1192
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 1: boat and saw six gators at eye level on the

1193
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 1: lake in Florida fishing. Can't you've done that? Fishing my

1194
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 1: ass off here? Or would you rather take the pass

1195
01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 1: code off your phone? Get up here with these past

1196
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: cold off my phone? I wrestle there. Yeah, I can't

1197
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 1: go out there with the gators. No ball, I'm going

1198
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: you cuss me out about to gallgate and we've be

1199
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:21,439
Speaker 1: golfing in Africa. In Africa, no food right here. Tommy

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01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 1: got a ball extension thing where he can he can

1201
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 1: extend the pole in case he knocked a ball in

1202
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:28,679
Speaker 1: the water, so he wants I'm not knock a ball

1203
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,800
Speaker 1: in the water. It's not my ball. No more you

1204
01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: going on? I got some more balls, Yeah, Tommy, Man,

1205
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 1: I gotta get my ball, I said, I said, Yo, dog,

1206
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 1: what is you doing, I said, are you Tommy? Look dog? What? Look?

1207
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:53,640
Speaker 1: It's a gator right there? Damn that ball? What are

1208
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:58,800
Speaker 1: you doing? That's when I thought so much wrong with him?

1209
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 1: What's his name? It is time? All right, thank you?

1210
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:12,680
Speaker 1: That's would you rather for today? Coming up? Uh at

1211
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after the hour, it is our last

1212
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,879
Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks

1213
01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

1214
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 1: You're listening to Morning Show. All right. Here we are, guys,

1215
01:19:24,120 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Monday. It's

1216
01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 1: been a good day, night day, Yeah, day, fun day.

1217
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: Every day is a good day. We're here. Let me

1218
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,360
Speaker 1: show y'all what rich people don't know. Let me show

1219
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 1: y'all what what rich we don't know? Uncle Steve? When

1220
01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 1: is big trash Day? When? This? What big trash day?

1221
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 1: Every trash? Heavy trade? When the day big trash day? Yeah?

1222
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 1: Heavy trade? When is trash day? Well? See, big heavy

1223
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:04,639
Speaker 1: have to get back to some basics. I don't even

1224
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: know the day that the garbage cash is supposed to.

1225
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 1: I don't know things that rich people don't know. Wait

1226
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 1: a minute, you what is big trash date? When you

1227
01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:17,000
Speaker 1: have let's say you like you like if you want

1228
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 1: to throw away a couch where the holder? What when

1229
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: you Okay, I don't live nowhere where you can have

1230
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:34,160
Speaker 1: a couch sitting out on your law that I ain't

1231
01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 1: seen nobody pull a couch out on a tree law

1232
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:46,120
Speaker 1: heavy tragic date. See I this this what's crazy to me?

1233
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: How you didn't had a couch so long that it's

1234
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 1: not trash. It's been sitting in your house. But he

1235
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:58,600
Speaker 1: got your arge though, Steve, that you don't want but

1236
01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 1: you can't just put it out on a trash day. Yeah,

1237
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:03,760
Speaker 1: you gotta wait for heavy trash day, heavy trash day.

1238
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:06,640
Speaker 1: You can have something a piece of furniture, don't know,

1239
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 1: he's never heard of this before. Yeah, this is so

1240
01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:12,720
Speaker 1: far fast. So what you said is when you want

1241
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:15,759
Speaker 1: new furniture, they just take the old furniture of bringing

1242
01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: the new furniture must well, it's it's levels. And so

1243
01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that where I am now, it's

1244
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: been a long time since i'd have set on the

1245
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:31,320
Speaker 1: couch until it became trade. That's the start set. I've

1246
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: been here, man, and you just set on this couch

1247
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:36,400
Speaker 1: withhere the sprains popping through your ass and everything, the games,

1248
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 1: it's gone, and then I don't have nothing in the

1249
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 1: garage has to Okay, you do know that they have services,

1250
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 1: okay that come to your house. Yeah, you don't. But

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Speaker 1: sometimes the services won't take some stuff, so you have

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Speaker 1: to plan according that's no such a thing. That's what.

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Speaker 1: That's no such a thing. They don't come. They won't

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Speaker 1: take certain things. No, no no, no, no list together and

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Speaker 1: all that a list. Yes, you know, okay, don I

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Speaker 1: believe you. I believe that all this is happening. But see,

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Speaker 1: y'all came to me because y'all know I'm out of

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Speaker 1: touch with a lot of stuff, and I'm grateful to

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Speaker 1: God that I'm not stuff. But you know what, don't

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Speaker 1: that leads me to my closing remark. I'm glad, y'all

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Speaker 1: to my closing remarks because you know what man, I do, man,

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Speaker 1: and these are my clothes remark. I'm so grateful for

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Speaker 1: the things that have gone wrong in my life because

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Speaker 1: I've learned what those things actually produced in me. See,

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Speaker 1: I had to finally figured out that my life isn't

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Speaker 1: by accident, that my life is actually by design. I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you too. Your life isn't by accident. Folks,

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Speaker 1: Your life is actually by design. It's a cool thing

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Speaker 1: to come to this realization because it used to really

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Speaker 1: really bother me when things would go wrong. But then

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Speaker 1: I had to mess around and learn what all of

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Speaker 1: is wrong stuff was leading up to. Because these wrong

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Speaker 1: things that seem to be happening in your life that

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Speaker 1: are on accident, they are actually by design. I really

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Speaker 1: I just didn't. Man. I'm so grateful that things didn't

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Speaker 1: happen exactly when I wanted to, because if everything had

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Speaker 1: to happen exactly when I wanted to, I never would

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Speaker 1: have learned a valuable lesson of patients that I needed

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Speaker 1: to learn. Because when things didn't happen to me when

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Speaker 1: I wanted it too, it actually taught me patience. And

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Speaker 1: how many times has patience been such a valuable lesson

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Speaker 1: in your life? I want to thank God for all

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Speaker 1: of my failures. As many times as I wished it

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Speaker 1: had not happened, I actually thank God for my failures, man,

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Speaker 1: because you know what it did. It actually taught me

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Speaker 1: the lessons that I needed to learn about staying alive

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Speaker 1: and living. Because how many times those failures in my

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Speaker 1: past have given me the lessons that I needed to learn.

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Speaker 1: So when it happens again, I don't even look at

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Speaker 1: that as a failure. It's just a bump in the role.

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Speaker 1: Let's just keep it rolling. See. I had to learn

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Speaker 1: to thank God for everything that was wrong in my life. Man,

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Speaker 1: I want to thank God for all of my losses.

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Speaker 1: Do you hear me? I thank God for all of

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Speaker 1: my losses because in all of those losses, you know

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Speaker 1: what I learned. I learned gratitude. I learned how to

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Speaker 1: be grateful for the things I do have. Wow. Man,

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Speaker 1: but you got to lose something of value to really

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Speaker 1: start appreciating what you have. See. So what used to

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Speaker 1: trip me out? And now the things I look forward

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Speaker 1: to and I have embraced them, and I thank God

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Speaker 1: for that. I thank God for all the all of

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Speaker 1: the delays and the denials. I appreciate you Lord for

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Speaker 1: giving me delays and denials because you know what that

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Speaker 1: taught me. Faith. It taught me faith is belief in

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Speaker 1: things that you cannot see. So every time I got

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01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:46,640
Speaker 1: delayed or got denied, I had to rely on my

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Speaker 1: faith because I just didn't see. I'm so grateful for

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Speaker 1: everything that went wrong in my life man, I hope

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Speaker 1: you feel the same way. Have a great day, man,

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Speaker 1: take that which you talk to God to day He

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Speaker 1: loved to hear. Run. May thank you Lord. For all

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