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Speaker 1: Put your hands together, and we're going to start to party.

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Speaker 2: Start.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to party.

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Speaker 2: The Elvis Ran After Party, the.

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Speaker 4: After Show Party podcast, The After Party Show podcast, what.

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Speaker 3: The after Party podcast. We don't use the word show

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Speaker 3: no good we show should Ah, that's not funny.

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Speaker 5: Why you're laughing?

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Speaker 1: It was a bad joke. I laugh at bad joke.

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Speaker 3: And then the scariest life was like I also found

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Speaker 3: it very comical.

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Speaker 4: See, I think sometimes in this room we laugh just

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Speaker 4: for making noises.

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Speaker 3: Sake. Do you think that's sometimes?

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Speaker 6: To me?

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Speaker 3: You don't get much.

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Speaker 7: I don't think any of you guys are funny.

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Speaker 2: No, thank you, Danielle.

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Speaker 3: That's I heard you. Let's get into it. Uh.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes people call us needing advice, and move has done that.

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Speaker 3: Good morning Moody or Hello Moody.

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Speaker 6: Good morning, Hi everybody. How are you?

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Speaker 3: We're doing great.

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Speaker 4: I read your question on text and we had to

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Speaker 4: get you on on the air with us to talk

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Speaker 4: about this date you went on.

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Speaker 3: So Moody went on a date.

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Speaker 4: The guy showed up wearing an interesting outfit, and she

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Speaker 4: wants to know how we would react respond or whatever

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Speaker 4: to what.

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Speaker 3: She's all right, Moody talk about the date. Where'd you

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Speaker 3: meet this guy? By the way.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so we met on like you know, the apps.

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Speaker 6: I forgot even which one it was, but you know,

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Speaker 6: we agreed to go somewhere. It wasn't like it was

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Speaker 6: anywhere fancy, but it was like, you know, like a

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Speaker 6: boom fish screw, you know, like you know, respectable. I guess,

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Speaker 6: you know, but I you know, I'm wearing my nice,

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Speaker 6: you know, regular day outfit and he shows up and

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Speaker 6: he's wearing a wife beater, a flannel like shirt, opened,

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Speaker 6: shorts and flip flops and it's gonna walked in. I

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Speaker 6: was immediately like, I'm like, we weren't at the beach,

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Speaker 6: we weren't eating at Margaritaville, you know, like we were

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Speaker 6: eating in a regular restaurant. And as soon as he

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Speaker 6: walked in, I was like, I'm I'm immediately disinterested. Like

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Speaker 6: I don't even know what he spoke about on the

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Speaker 6: date because I was already like passed out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you felt his his outfit of wife feeder

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Speaker 4: with flannel shirt and shorts and flip flops was more

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Speaker 4: of a Margaritaville speed but you're at the bonefish crill,

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Speaker 4: so you feel he could have dressed up, especially for

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Speaker 4: the first date.

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Speaker 6: He could ed, this is the first time I'm ever

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Speaker 6: meeting him, and this is how he shows up. It's

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Speaker 6: like if we were in dating for a couple of months, fine,

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Speaker 6: but like, this is my first impression of you. You know.

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Speaker 3: Now, hold on a second, So what happened during the date?

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Speaker 4: I mean, obviously you're you're a polite and you stayed

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Speaker 4: with him and you had dinner with him, right I did?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like I was. You know, we already had driven there,

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Speaker 6: so I went ahead.

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Speaker 7: We talked.

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I don't even know what we even talks about

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Speaker 6: because I was immediately disinterested and I wanted to not that, Like,

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Speaker 6: does that make me a bad person that, like I

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Speaker 6: immediately judged him just based off of what he was wearing.

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Speaker 7: No, I don't think. I don't think it's only because

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Speaker 7: it is a first date and that's when you want

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Speaker 7: to put your best foot forward, and you showed up

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Speaker 7: in an inappropriate outfit, looking like you don't really care.

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Speaker 7: I think i'd be annoyed by that too.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, if you're gonna put your best foot forward, it

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Speaker 4: better not be in a flip flop.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, say if you're putting your flip flops forward, now,

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Speaker 2: what is he going to put forward later?

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Speaker 7: And also like I'm not in the mantos, I'm like

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Speaker 7: flip flops in general. No, thank you?

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Beyond that, was he a handsome guy?

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Speaker 6: I mean he was kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: Oh he wasn't even cute. He was kind of cute,

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Speaker 2: forget it.

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah he was. I was like, he seems

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Speaker 6: cuter in the picture. I'll admit that. Maybe flip flops

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Speaker 3: No, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 2: Same things? If he's doing this, now, what's he doing later?

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Speaker 2: But this is the time that you want to make

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Speaker 2: the nice impression. Maybe he's just showing you what you're

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If he shoves his hand out of his hands he

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Speaker 2: starts scratching.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, Well, I have a question, Moody in his profile,

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Speaker 1: in his pictures, what was he wearing in those pictures?

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Speaker 6: Oh, that's a good question. He was wearing just normal

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Speaker 6: you know, like jeans, you know, shirts, Like he was

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Speaker 6: dressed nice at least in like one of them. So

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Speaker 6: I know he has decent clothes, got it? So he

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Speaker 6: wasn't in.

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Speaker 1: A wavee beater or shirtless or in flip flops in

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Speaker 1: all of his pictures.

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Speaker 6: Okay, no, he definitely wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Hey, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 4: Do you think maybe he's like, well, look, I really

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Speaker 4: liked her profile. It was great getting to know her,

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Speaker 4: you know online. I want her to see me, the

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Speaker 4: real me. I want her to see what she's gonna

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Speaker 4: get if we decide to go on a second, third,

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Speaker 4: and fourth, and maybe.

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Speaker 3: Even more dates.

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Speaker 4: Maybe So if she doesn't like this, look now I

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Speaker 4: don't have to spend more time on her because I

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Speaker 4: don't want.

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Speaker 3: To put on nice clothes to go to bonefish grill.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 2: Let's ask a different question then, because if that's what. No,

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Speaker 2: But if that's the case, was he very polite on

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Speaker 2: the date? Was he nice? Did he make the date

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Speaker 2: like a nice time for you? So maybe Elvis is

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Speaker 2: telling saying the truth. That's what he did.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it was it was fine. It wasn't like

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Speaker 6: I had. It wasn't one of those memorable dates. While

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh this was amazing, you know, it

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Speaker 6: wasn't like I think, And it was because I think

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Speaker 6: I was immediately disinterested because he showed up the way

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Speaker 6: that he did well, by the way, I think I

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Speaker 6: almost over.

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Speaker 4: I would I would feel the same as you were describing, sure,

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Speaker 4: what's scary?

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Speaker 5: Along the lines of what you were saying Elvis. I

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Speaker 5: think that maybe he didn't want to come on too strong.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he felt like if I show up casually put

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Speaker 3: If I show up casual.

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Speaker 5: And approachable, maybe we could have a real life conversation

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Speaker 5: here and we could forget about all the stuff that

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Speaker 5: goes with showing off a crazy watch, or you maybe

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Speaker 5: rush to judgment if he was dressed too well.

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Speaker 4: I see, I see how that but that could be

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Speaker 4: a possibility, but it backfired if that's what he was

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Speaker 4: actually setting out today.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, isn't there like a.

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Speaker 7: Happy medium where you don't have to wear a super

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Speaker 7: fancy watch and a nice suit or whatever to go

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Speaker 7: to bultish girl, but you're not showing up looking like

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Speaker 7: you're rolling out to the beach. Toes out scary? His

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Speaker 7: toes were out right.

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Speaker 1: Last question from me, if you had been blind, would

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Speaker 1: you think about it? If you had been blind and

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Speaker 1: not seeing him but gone on the date, would you

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Speaker 1: have had a second date ooh good.

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Speaker 6: You know what, maybe maybe I think so maybe maybe.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's good enough proved. I'm sorry that

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Speaker 3: that has holes in it.

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Speaker 4: And if I'm going to go on a blind date

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Speaker 4: with you where I'm literally blind, I'm gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: put my fingers all the way from the top of

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Speaker 4: your head to the bottom of your toes.

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Speaker 3: I can feel what you're wearing.

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Speaker 4: It's like, oh god, flip flops.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 4: I know people who I mean, they will never wear

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Speaker 4: flip flops anywhere except for buy a.

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Speaker 3: Pool, yeah, or in a backyard or on a beach.

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Speaker 3: That's it. But you know when you're living in you're

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Speaker 3: in Florida.

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Speaker 4: When you're living in Florida where the weather's nice and hot,

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Speaker 4: you know, I can see more and more flip flops

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Speaker 4: right there.

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Speaker 6: That's the thing. I wear flip flops literally all the time.

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Speaker 6: I'm literally wearing flip flops right now. However, for the

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Speaker 6: dates I dressed up two.

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Speaker 3: Toes, we all agree with you. This guy is not

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Speaker 4: And a lot of people are going to think that

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Speaker 4: maybe we're being a little persnickety.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'd say if we had already spoken before then,

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Speaker 6: maybe because I literally had a date once where I

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Speaker 6: had to do laundry and he had to do laundry. Really,

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Speaker 6: if you want to just go to laundry together and

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Speaker 6: if you would have won't flip up, then it would

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Speaker 6: have been fine. But like we went on a date

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Speaker 6: like a restaurant, you know, I don't think that's appropriate attire.

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Speaker 7: The first date of all day.

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Speaker 4: The boat grill. Thank you so much, Moody and best

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Speaker 4: of hold on, did he ever try to.

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Speaker 3: Call you again?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely. I just gohosted this.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I think you.

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Speaker 7: Should give him the feedback about why you're not interested,

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Speaker 7: because maybe then on the next date he'll do a

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Speaker 7: little bit, so he'll do something differently.

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Speaker 6: That's true. That's true. Help someone else out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a suggestion card throwing up like you were interested.

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Speaker 4: You so much for being on the show, and guys

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Speaker 4: of luck out there, take care.

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Speaker 6: Thank you guys. I love you guys so much, Thank

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Speaker 6: you so much.

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Speaker 3: Love to come back to you

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Speaker 6: After party.